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I Hate Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 167 People

    Female Impotency????????

    My story starts with abuse and a very not so understanding husband, somewhere along the line he forgot the vows we took 11 years ago. I recall them as "for better or worse" "sickness and health", not just for better, and health. He is very demanding of me, and pressures me to...
    ypsy333 ypsy333
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jul 1, 2013


    Its gross and uncivilized. I sold my services before, mostly I robbed tricks. I think sex toys is disgusting, all those sex moves is unnecessary--if a woman knows what she is doing he'll *** quick. Most men *** quick anyway. But I hate sex. I want to connect with the minds...
    TrustNobody TrustNobody
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2010

    This isn't even a topic on this site

    and i may be the only person that feels this way, but i absolutely HATE sex. Doesn't feel good. And you can all say as much as you want "you just haven't found the right guy", "he must suck in bed", "you aren't in love", or whatever you want to say, but it's all bullshit. I have...
    nirach13 nirach13
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2014


    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 22, 2014

    Maybe I am the only one.

    I derive no pleasure from the act, the idea of it seems appealing but maybe I am built a little different. I get claustrophobic at the idea, to close for this to be good, to hot and annoyed to be wanted. I keep up though, I let them have their time and put on a good face. No...
    isodole isodole
    22-25, F
    Aug 10, 2014

    I'm Angry At Him

    I hate sex. I hate it when he touches me. I hate receiving, giving and giving in. I hate kissing, I hate things in/on my face. I tell him these things and he doesn't care. I have tried everything, anal, vaginal, and oral and I can't stand any of them. I'm disgusting, when he...
    AlisonChains AlisonChains
    3 Responses Dec 1, 2011

    Yuck. Just...Yuck.

    Sex is not love. Sex doesn't even seem to be an expression of love. It's literally just some guy pushing against and inside of you and grunting until he spews his DNA into you. YUCK! I used to believe that sex was more than that. I thought it was something that brought...
    thesideboobhour thesideboobhour
    7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

    I Hate Sex

    I feel like an unemotional alien. Sex is probably the most overrated thing to me and when I was younger I tried experiencing it and I concluded that sex is only for a guy to get off or a woman I guess. It is also used to make oneself learn to have no feelings for humans by...
    oneinsixbillion oneinsixbillion
    36-40, F
    Nov 18, 2013

    Sex, How I Loathe Thee

    I'm a new member and I apologize in advance for any odd errors because I'm typing on my phone and it's not always reliable. I joined this group because I thought I was the only one out there who hated to have sex and now I see that I am not. So, how much do I hate it? I loathe...
    gigs83 gigs83
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Feb 14, 2012

    Nothing New Under The Sun

    Moloch was a Semitic deity. Pagans worshiped this false god, and the Israelites fell into apostasy many times worshiping this iniquitous creation of man. Worshipers of this idol would engage in orgies and the children that were conceived from these orgies became a sacrifice for...
    Yosegh Yosegh
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

    Sex Is Boring, Tell Me Something

    Oh, what's there in sex that people are so crazy about it? It's just a physical pleasure. What's so great about it? It is so disgusting and boring lol. Can't they have anything better to do? Well, I have many interesting things to do than doing these stupid things. I have so...
    livingHope livingHope
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Jun 1, 2010

    I really wish i had no sex drive,

    no desire to meet a woman for sexual gratification. I wish i didn't have any desire to look at nude photos of women. I wish i didn't have these perverse fantasies. I sometimes wish i could cut off my genitals.
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick
    46-50, M
    1 Response Aug 27, 2014

    Everybodies are crazy about sex

    and nobody can have intelligent though because sex, I hate sex.
    AloneSoulAloneHeart AloneSoulAloneHeart
    26-30, M
    1 Response May 20, 2015

    I never get any satisfaction

    and always feel I am doing it to please someone else
    martin0 martin0
    46-50, M
    Jun 3, 2014

    I'm Supposed To Enjoy It?

    I think the thing I resent most about sex is that I'm *supposed* to enjoy it. I'm *expected* to like it, to want it, and to beg, borrow, steal, lie, cheat, seduce, brainwash, and murder for it. For as much as society harps about the freedom to do as you want, it never ceases to...
    kiuz645 kiuz645
    31-35, M
    17 Responses Aug 26, 2010


    It's not uncommon to feel this way, and you are certainly not alone. I used to feel like I was the only one who hated sex, or found it to be boring, awkward, or even uncomfortable. I finally found out that I'm Asexual, which means I don't experience sexual attraction to others. I...
    Coyote97 Coyote97
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Oct 27, 2013

    Sex Is Meant For Love

    Many state that sex isn't a big deal, but I think it is. Why can't it be meant for love? It disguises me knowing that a lot of individuals satisfies themselves by having sex. Many feel overpowered or cool if I might say. All you're doing is spreading more Stds to the world and...
    sinkass sinkass
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 7, 2013

    Can You Not See The End Coming?

    Back in the days of chivalry there was a husband, a wife, and covenant of true love through procreation. Forward to our days, now we have some empty "partners," "sex buddies," "friends with benifits;" there is no true love, but a lust for flesh and a path to death. Virginity has...
    Yosegh Yosegh
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Apr 3, 2013

    I Didn'T Like It.

    So I did it. Didn't like it. *sigh*
    NaiveLil1 NaiveLil1
    1 Response May 2, 2013

    I think it's pathetic

    that the fact couples relationships end because of lack of intimacy. This tells me that you care more about your sexual organ & getting some than that's persons well being. I know people are going to comment on here saying that I am crazy or I'm not doing it right bullshit and...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 28, 2016

    It's a distraction. Maybe it floats the boats

    of others, and that fine. And sure, I'm bisexual, so I do indeed find male and females attractive but I have no particular urge to act on my sexual impulses. Have I had sex before? Sure. Plenty of times. I was a university freshman once after all. But how I currently live my...
    LisaLuxuria LisaLuxuria
    31-35, F
    Jan 25, 2014

    I hate sex so much, probably

    because I was abused, but nonetheless.
    babykaykez babykaykez
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2014

    Without Sex, There Would Be No Rape.

    With no sex, there would be no rape. Which happens to someone every second, proven by statistics. It brings pleasure to only a few people. The rest suffer, endure it, or do it out of social pressure. Or rape. Or fear, or compulsion. Or even marriage... “Marriage is for women...
    MilkMoon MilkMoon
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Oct 1, 2011

    It Disgusts Me...or Maybe Its He Who Disgusts Me

    I hate sex.  I hate having sex with my husband.  Since my last C-Section five months ago, having intercourse has been EXTREMELY painful.  My husband is a complete ***.  He is the most insensitive, self-centered, jack *** on the planet.  He...
    NoGodsNoMasters NoGodsNoMasters
    31-35, F
    15 Responses May 3, 2009

    I Hate Those Words.

    Sexy, hot, ugly, fat, skinny, etc. They're just words to express lust or repellingness. When I talk about a person I just think of them in terms of I (don't) like her/him. It's as simple as that. Of course appearance is the first thing you 'see' but why make it so complicated and...
    GenderPunk GenderPunk
    3 Responses May 16, 2012

    Over Rated

    There is so much more to this existence then sex.
    icis2475 icis2475
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Nov 6, 2013
    Pandorazz Pandorazz
    May 18, 2014

    And I'M Supposed To Act Like I Like It?

    It's built in to me.Sweet kisses are great, sensuality is great- appreciate a body with your hands- be in tune with it, nude bodies are great. the body is beautiful and so detailed, stop right there. Don't bite me anywhere. Don't pinch me. Don't "spank" me. Don't act like your a...
    theregularhuman theregularhuman
    Apr 7, 2013

    Gross, Degrading, Humiliating, And Painful

    I wish it never existed...
    MilkMoon MilkMoon
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 1, 2011

    Sex Is Nothing But A Must.

    Being  a call girl means that I have sex at least once every day.  Sometimes the john is sweet and gentle.  Sometimes he is so rough that I cry for hours on end.   I have lost the ability to properly ******.  It hurts so much.  There is no pleasure...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2010

    Hate. Hate. Hate.

    I have never heard of this “beautiful” side of it. All I have seen is disgusting animalistic behavior. The only “experience” I have known is rape and molestation. I feel disposable and disgusting to be used like that. I fear all the time it will happen again. I get pervy...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 20, 2012

    **** Who Now Hates Sex

    I'm 21 and have had well over 150 sex partners. So right off the bat, anyone who does the "well you mustn't have found a good sex mate", think I have. There have been times where I have enjoyed it. But nowadays, after so many times, after so many condoms, so many partners, I'm...
    ToxicLove89 ToxicLove89
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jul 23, 2011


    I've only had it once before, and I can say from that one experience that I HATE EVERY LAST ******* BIT OF IT!!!! IT IS SOOO GROSS, AND I HATE HOW UNCLEAN AND EXPOSED I FEEL AND IT IS JUST SOOO ******* GROSS, LIKE OMFG!! I HOPE IT GETS RAPED BY A ******* FLAMING...
    RippleEffect1 RippleEffect1
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Sep 15, 2013

    I Hate Sex

    I'm 31. I've had sex before. I didnt always hate it but I didnt always like it. Sometimes it was ok and sometimes I hated myself during and after and regretted it. But now I absolutely dislike it. I'm not on any medication or birth control what so ever. I grew up...
    phoenigirl phoenigirl
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

    I Hate Sex For Many Reasons

    Men that I have dated want sex on the first night. They expect you to do disgusting things like blow jobs. I especially hate it when a guy wants me on top. First of all, I dont feel anything from it so why do I want to be on top? Men have sex on the brain 24/7. Every woman I...
    maggie0285 maggie0285
    36-40, F
    15 Responses Apr 22, 2010

    Not So Fun.

    Im 20 years old, a female. When I first started having sex I thought its going to hurt for a few times then get better. The problem came when I was with my boyfriend, I wasn't interested in anything he was doing. He would touch, and it just never felt good. Not just acts of...
    stefan171 stefan171
    18-21, M
    Jul 26, 2013

    Gross, And Degrading, Plz Help.....

    My name is Heidi and i am a 38 year old woman who hates sex and everything that goes with it. I find it very gross. I have a million things I would rather be doing than getting hot, stinking and sweaty. My husband lives to do it, and watches **** quite frequently, even though he...
    ypsy333 ypsy333
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Jun 26, 2013

    I Hate Sex, But Sorry To Any Men Who Might Be Offended.

    I loathe sex and always have. I've tried relationships with men and women but I still hate it. I don't hate it becasue i was abused as a child, or raped blah blah, I hate it for the same reasons i hate watching golf, listening to jazz or playing chess. ie, there are many...
    AS2448 AS2448
    51-55, F
    33 Responses Aug 7, 2012

    I'm tired of everything sex related.

    As of now, I don't want it to be a part of my life. It doesn't appeal to me and I'm tired of people telling me things like "good sex will change your mind" No. That doesn't help. It's just annoying and it makes me feel like my thoughts and feelings are invalid. I don't need a...
    ArdatLilith ArdatLilith
    1 Response Mar 5, 2016

    So been dating this guy

    for a while and we go out to eat, movies and all that good stuff. We hang out during weekends and the times we have been intimate he doesn't contact me for like a month after. Anyone have a clue? Am I the side chick? Should I just stop wasting my time?
    jaymart jaymart
    36-40, F
    Sep 28, 2014

    Something More....

    I used to crave sex when I was younger, it was all I could think about (yeah, I have heard all the stereotypes, so save it). After having sex, I feel empty and disgust. I know it sounds weird, but I desire something more. I find it more satisfying having an intellectual...
    stevenpfeiffer stevenpfeiffer
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Nov 11, 2010

    I'm horrible at it. It makes me feel completely

    useless and I sometimes think it would he nice to just to move to some community were nobody has sex. Or better yet a community where it's understood that everyone just has bad sex. Yep that's it that's the ticket... bad sex community I'm so down.
    warentucker warentucker
    Aug 21, 2014

    Love/Hate Thing. But Mostly Hate.

    I'm not sure if i even like the act of sex... it comes with so much baggage, sometimes it can feel like a chore, and after you feel used and gross especially when its not satisfying. Iv only had two partners i truly enjoyed being intimate with: one was incredible at foreplay...
    Lydia94 Lydia94
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

    I hate it. I really truly do.

    There has yet to be one thing good I've gotten from it other than my beautiful daughter. Other than that, sex has only brought me pain and sorrow.
    EmpowermentProject EmpowermentProject
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2013

    The Drive Has Died!

    I have no idea how I came to this part in my life or even why. A bit of my history here is that I was molested by my step-grandfather for yrs, after which I just accepted sex from guys and was promiscuous. I went through many depressions, suicide attempts and thoughts, never...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 23, 2012

    I hate the way it feels.

    . the act, intimacy and expectation. I not a bitter person, was married for 19 years and have 3 children i love so much.. I cant do closeness, touch feel or affection.. the sex act is sheer pressure and horrible. I know im not normal
    Drum3 Drum3
    Sep 18, 2015

    I Really Hate Sex Strong Word Or Not Its A Fact!

    Hello I am a 36yr old female,and I find sex totaly yucko. Everything about it from the kiss to the ***. I think sex leads a person to other evils like drugs,alchol, lies. The act of sex to me means a person wants to escape from reality because something in there life is wrong so...
    SexlessGYPSY333 SexlessGYPSY333
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 26, 2011

    Hate Sex? Maybe Not, But I Dislike It...

    I actually do. I openly and are man enough to count all my sexual encounters on one hand. But guess what? it doesn't bother me one bit. Sex has never really interested me and whatsmore, I'm quite bad at it. Please don't judge me, but if you do, I don't really concerned as it is...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Nov 17, 2013

    I was never abused sexually.

    I was brought up in a sex-hating family. My mom always used to tell me that seeing people hugging and beyond on t.v is a very bad thing. So, when those scenes came, I turn off t.v for sometime. Till I think the scene ended. I hate thinking about such bad things. I'm always...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 10, 2014

    I feel so alone in this world

    because everyone is obsessed with sex. I HATE the idea, the act, and the glorifying attribute of sex. People are sex-crazed lunatics and every single idea or act always branches to or from sex. I've had one sexual partner and we've been together for 3 years. I have never...
    nomornicegirl nomornicegirl
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2014
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