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I Hate Sex

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    It's a distraction. Maybe it floats the boats of others, and that fine. And sure, I'm bisexual, so I do indeed find male and females attractive but I have no particular urge to act...
    LisaLuxuria LisaLuxuria 26-30, F Jan 25

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    Multiple Definitions, But Not The Right One - People have ruined the definition of sex. Sex is suppose to be a way to show someone how much you really love them. Not some...
    dontjudgemeandiwontjudgeyou dontjudgemeandiwontjudgeyou 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2011

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    Hi guys. I'm 19 and I used to be addicted to ****. When I first started watching **** I started at a young age I think 14 or fifteen. I used to jack off so many times a day but now...
    Abdulaziz94 Abdulaziz94 18-21, M 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Gross, And Degrading, Plz Help..... - My name is Heidi and i am a 38 year old woman who hates sex and everything that goes with it. I find it very gross. I have a million things I...
    ypsy333 ypsy333 36-40, F 11 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    Female Impotency???????? - My story starts with abuse and a very not so understanding husband, somewhere along the line he forgot the vows we took 11 years ago. I recall them as...
    ypsy333 ypsy333 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2013

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    Why I Hate Sex - Before I got married I knew pretty much nothing about sex. My parents are strict Catholics and Irish Travellers and so it is our culture to keep girls pure until...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 2 Responses May 30, 2013

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    I Really Hate Sex Strong Word Or Not Its A Fact! - Hello I am a 36yr old female,and I find sex totaly yucko. Everything about it from the kiss to the ***. I think sex leads a...
    SexlessGYPSY333 SexlessGYPSY333 31-35, F 5 Responses Oct 26, 2011

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    34 Years Are Coming To A End Because I Messed Up - By: Me Written on March 11th, 2013 Ok I believe I have the strength to do this now, I have never told anyone about this but have...
    getagrip007 getagrip007 56-60, M 4 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    Without Sex, There Would Be No Rape. - With no sex, there would be no rape. Which happens to someone every second, proven by statistics. It brings pleasure to only a few people...
    MilkMoon MilkMoon 18-21, F 9 Responses Oct 1, 2011

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    The Drive Has Died! - I have no idea how I came to this part in my life or even why. A bit of my history here is that I was molested by my step-grandfather for yrs, after which I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    Why Sex? - Sex - It's a mere act of generating new babies. It should be seen only this way. Yes, it's a gift of God to mankind but it should not be taken for enjoyment or just for...
    thybliss thybliss 26-30, M 9 Responses Nov 30, 2008

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    I'm Supposed To Enjoy It? - I think the thing I resent most about sex is that I'm *supposed* to enjoy it. I'm *expected* to like it, to want it, and to beg, borrow, steal, lie...
    kiuz645 kiuz645 31-35, M 18 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    I'm Angry At Him - I hate sex. I hate it when he touches me. I hate receiving, giving and giving in. I hate kissing, I hate things in/on my face. I tell him these things and he...
    AlisonChains AlisonChains 18-21 3 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    I Hate Sex, But Sorry To Any Men Who Might Be Offended. - I loathe sex and always have. I've tried relationships with men and women but I still hate it. I don't hate it becasue i...
    AS2448 AS2448 51-55, F 38 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Asexuality - It's not uncommon to feel this way, and you are certainly not alone. I used to feel like I was the only one who hated sex, or found it to be boring, awkward, or even...
    Coyote97 Coyote97 31-35, M 3 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    And I'M Supposed To Act Like I Like It? - It's built in to me.Sweet kisses are great, sensuality is great- appreciate a body with your hands- be in tune with it, nude bodies are...
    theregularhuman theregularhuman 18-21 Apr 7, 2013

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    I Didn'T Like It. - So I did it. Didn't like it. *sigh*
    NaiveLil1 NaiveLil1 26-30 1 Response May 2, 2013

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    I hate sex so much, probably because I was abused, but nonetheless.
    babykaykez babykaykez 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 19

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    I feel so alone in this world because everyone is obsessed with sex. I HATE the idea, the act, and the glorifying attribute of sex. People are sex-crazed lunatics and every single...
    nomornicegirl nomornicegirl 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Gross, Degrading, Humiliating, And Painful - I wish it never existed...
    MilkMoon MilkMoon 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 1, 2011

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    Over Rated - There is so much more to this existence then sex.
    icis2475 icis2475 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    Can You Not See The End Coming? - Back in the days of chivalry there was a husband, a wife, and covenant of true love through procreation. Forward to our days, now we have some...
    Yosegh Yosegh 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    I Hate Sex - I'm 31. I've had sex before. I didnt always hate it but I didnt always like it. Sometimes it was ok and sometimes I hated myself during and after and...
    phoenigirl phoenigirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    I Hate Sex For Many Reasons - Men that I have dated want sex on the first night. They expect you to do disgusting things like blow jobs. I especially hate it when a guy wants me...
    maggie0285 maggie0285 36-40, F 14 Responses Apr 22, 2010

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    OMFG - I've only had it once before, and I can say from that one experience that I HATE EVERY LAST ******* BIT OF IT!!!! IT IS SOOO GROSS, AND I HATE HOW UNCLEAN AND EXPOSED I...
    RippleEffect1 RippleEffect1 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    Makes Me Want To Die - I was raised in a religious household in which shame was inherently attached to sex always. When I found **** as a kid, I discovered the power of it. Now I'm...
    starchman starchman 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 9, 2012

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    Nothing New Under The Sun - Moloch was a Semitic deity. Pagans worshiped this false god, and the Israelites fell into apostasy many times worshiping this iniquitous creation of man...
    Yosegh Yosegh 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    For Many Years Now - Even when I was a teenager I never really had any interest, I was 18 before I got my first (and only) girlfriend who I married but even then sex was pretty...
    noelfrax noelfrax 46-50, M Nov 11, 2013

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    I hate it. I really truly do. There has yet to be one thing good I've gotten from it other than my beautiful daughter. Other than that, sex has only brought me pain and sorrow.
    EmpowermentProject EmpowermentProject 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I Hate Those Words. - Sexy, hot, ugly, fat, skinny, etc. They're just words to express lust or repellingness. When I talk about a person I just think of them in terms of I (don't...
    GenderPunk GenderPunk 18-21 3 Responses May 16, 2012

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    Love/Hate Thing. But Mostly Hate. - I'm not sure if i even like the act of sex... it comes with so much baggage, sometimes it can feel like a chore, and after you feel used and...
    Lydia94 Lydia94 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    Pro-creation - Its gross and uncivilized. I sold my services before, mostly I robbed tricks. I think sex toys is disgusting, all those sex moves is unnecessary--if a woman knows...
    TrustNobody TrustNobody 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 22, 2010

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    Sex Is Boring, Tell Me Something Interesting..lol - Oh, what's there in sex that people are so crazy about it? It's just a physical pleasure. What's so great about it? It is so...
    livingHope livingHope 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 1, 2010

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    Yuck. Just...Yuck. - Sex is not love. Sex doesn't even seem to be an expression of love. It's literally just some guy pushing against and inside of you and grunting until he...
    thesideboobhour thesideboobhour 31-35 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    I Do Not Like Having Sex - I used to be sexually active when I was younger. Now I just don't care if I ever have sex again. My marriage is just miserable. It is more emotional...
    draggeddownmom draggeddownmom 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2013

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    Sex, How I Loathe Thee - I'm a new member and I apologize in advance for any odd errors because I'm typing on my phone and it's not always reliable. I joined this group because I...
    gigs83 gigs83 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    GOD DAMN IT! GOD DAMN IT ALL! - GOD ******* DAMN IT, EVERY LAST BIT OF IT! MOTHER ******* HUMAN PRIMAL INSTINCTS ARE DRIVING ME PAST THE POINT OF INSANITY! I hate sex. I hate it, I...
    BlueMetalChick BlueMetalChick 18-21, F 26 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    I Hate Sex - I feel like an unemotional alien. Sex is probably the most overrated thing to me and when I was younger I tried experiencing it and I concluded that sex is only for a...
    oneinsixbillion oneinsixbillion 31-35, F Nov 18, 2013

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    Hate. Hate. Hate. - I have never heard of this “beautiful” side of it. All I have seen is disgusting animalistic behavior. The only “experience” I have known is rape and...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    Not So Fun. - Im 20 years old, a female. When I first started having sex I thought its going to hurt for a few times then get better. The problem came when I was with my boyfriend...
    stefan171 stefan171 18-21, M Jul 26, 2013

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    Hate Sex? Maybe Not, But I Dislike It... - I actually do. I openly and are man enough to count all my sexual encounters on one hand. But guess what? it doesn't bother me one bit...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    Sex Is Meant For Love - Many state that sex isn't a big deal, but I think it is. Why can't it be meant for love? It disguises me knowing that a lot of individuals satisfies...
    sinkass sinkass 22-25, M Aug 7, 2013

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    **** Who Now Hates Sex - I'm 21 and have had well over 150 sex partners. So right off the bat, anyone who does the "well you mustn't have found a good sex mate", think I have...
    ToxicLove89 ToxicLove89 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2011

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    I Hate Sex And I Hate Men! - Most of my sexual experiences I was out right being USED for sex literally all minus 1(my first) and even maybe he was using me too for the "experience...
    GoldMishra GoldMishra 22-25, F Jan 24, 2013

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    Sex Is Nothing But A Must. - Being  a call girl means that I have sex at least once every day.  Sometimes the john is sweet and gentle.  Sometimes he is so rough...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    Sex Obsessed Society - I find sex quite gross and repulsive myself could be as result of child sexual abuse I had when I was younger which lead to some form of addictions in the...
    Vinnie01 Vinnie01 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 20, 2013

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    It Disgusts Me...or Maybe Its He Who Disgusts Me - I hate sex.  I hate having sex with my husband.  Since my last C-Section five months ago, having intercourse...
    NoGodsNoMasters NoGodsNoMasters 31-35, F 17 Responses May 3, 2009

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    I'm only 19. I'm not one of them girls that sleep around. I've only been with 3 guys. And so far sex really sucks. I don't get any *******. It makes me sad. The first guy was my...
    kjonesr kjonesr 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 3

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    Something More.... - I used to crave sex when I was younger, it was all I could think about (yeah, I have heard all the stereotypes, so save it). After having sex, I feel empty...
    stevenpfeiffer stevenpfeiffer 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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