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I Hate Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 159 People

    Why I Hate Sex

    Before I got married I knew pretty much nothing about sex. My parents are strict Catholics and Irish Travellers and so it is our culture to keep girls pure until they are married, so they make sure theyre always watching us and they keep us in the dark about things to make sure...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 2 Responses May 30, 2013

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    So been dating this guy

    for a while and we go out to eat, movies and all that good stuff. We hang out during weekends and the times we have been intimate he doesn't contact me for like a month after. Anyone have a clue? Am I the side chick? Should I just stop wasting my time?
    jaymart jaymart 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    Not So Fun.

    Im 20 years old, a female. When I first started having sex I thought its going to hurt for a few times then get better. The problem came when I was with my boyfriend, I wasn't interested in anything he was doing. He would touch, and it just never felt good. Not just acts of...
    stefan171 stefan171 18-21, M Jul 26, 2013

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    I hate it. I really truly do.

    There has yet to be one thing good I've gotten from it other than my beautiful daughter. Other than that, sex has only brought me pain and sorrow.
    EmpowermentProject EmpowermentProject 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I Hate Sex

    I feel like an unemotional alien. Sex is probably the most overrated thing to me and when I was younger I tried experiencing it and I concluded that sex is only for a guy to get off or a woman I guess. It is also used to make oneself learn to have no feelings for humans by...
    oneinsixbillion oneinsixbillion 31-35, F Nov 18, 2013

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    Love/Hate Thing. But Mostly Hate.

    I'm not sure if i even like the act of sex... it comes with so much baggage, sometimes it can feel like a chore, and after you feel used and gross especially when its not satisfying. Iv only had two partners i truly enjoyed being intimate with: one was incredible at foreplay...
    Lydia94 Lydia94 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 22, 2013

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    GOD DAMN IT! GOD DAMN IT ALL!

    GOD ******* DAMN IT, EVERY LAST BIT OF IT! MOTHER ******* HUMAN PRIMAL INSTINCTS ARE DRIVING ME PAST THE POINT OF INSANITY! I hate sex. I hate it, I hate it twice, thrice, four times five times one hundred trillion times mother ******! I don't know WHY I hate it either and it's...
    BlueMetalChick BlueMetalChick 18-21, F 24 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    Over Rated

    There is so much more to this existence then sex.
    icis2475 icis2475 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2013

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    I'm only 19. I'm not one of them girls

    that sleep around. I've only been with 3 guys. And so far sex really sucks. I don't get any *******. It makes me sad. The first guy was my first love. He took my virginity and I gotta say it was horrible. After my ex I met this other guy and we hung out it ended up being a one...
    kjonesr kjonesr 18-21, F 5 Responses Jan 3

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    Hate Sex? Maybe Not, But I Dislike It...

    I actually do. I openly and are man enough to count all my sexual encounters on one hand. But guess what? it doesn't bother me one bit. Sex has never really interested me and whatsmore, I'm quite bad at it. Please don't judge me, but if you do, I don't really concerned as it is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    The Drive Has Died!

    I have no idea how I came to this part in my life or even why. A bit of my history here is that I was molested by my step-grandfather for yrs, after which I just accepted sex from guys and was promiscuous. I went through many depressions, suicide attempts and thoughts, never...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 23, 2012

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    I Hate Sex

    I'm 31. I've had sex before. I didnt always hate it but I didnt always like it. Sometimes it was ok and sometimes I hated myself during and after and regretted it. But now I absolutely dislike it. I'm not on any medication or birth control what so ever. I grew up...
    phoenigirl phoenigirl 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    Gross, And Degrading, Plz Help.....

    My name is Heidi and i am a 38 year old woman who hates sex and everything that goes with it. I find it very gross. I have a million things I would rather be doing than getting hot, stinking and sweaty. My husband lives to do it, and watches **** quite frequently, even though he...
    ypsy333 ypsy333 36-40, F 10 Responses Jun 26, 2013

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    It Disgusts Me...or Maybe Its He Who Disgusts Me

    I hate sex.  I hate having sex with my husband.  Since my last C-Section five months ago, having intercourse has been EXTREMELY painful.  My husband is a complete ***.  He is the most insensitive, self-centered, jack *** on the planet.  He...
    NoGodsNoMasters NoGodsNoMasters 31-35, F 16 Responses May 3, 2009

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    Asexuality

    It's not uncommon to feel this way, and you are certainly not alone. I used to feel like I was the only one who hated sex, or found it to be boring, awkward, or even uncomfortable. I finally found out that I'm Asexual, which means I don't experience sexual attraction to others. I...
    Coyote97 Coyote97 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 27, 2013

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    I'm horrible at it. It makes me feel completely

    useless and I sometimes think it would he nice to just to move to some community were nobody has sex. Or better yet a community where it's understood that everyone just has bad sex. Yep that's it that's the ticket... bad sex community I'm so down.
    warentucker warentucker 22-25 Aug 21

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    I Hate Those Words.

    Sexy, hot, ugly, fat, skinny, etc. They're just words to express lust or repellingness. When I talk about a person I just think of them in terms of I (don't) like her/him. It's as simple as that. Of course appearance is the first thing you 'see' but why make it so complicated and...
    GenderPunk GenderPunk 18-21 3 Responses May 16, 2012

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    34 Years Are Coming To A End Because I Messed Up

    By: Me Written on March 11th, 2013 Ok I believe I have the strength to do this now, I have never told anyone about this but have been on this site & joined and after reading these story's I feel this will help with the hurt. My wife & I have been together since late 1979, we meet...
    getagrip007 getagrip007 56-60, M 4 Responses Mar 11, 2013

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    I really wish i had no sex drive,

    no desire to meet a woman for sexual gratification. I wish i didn't have any desire to look at nude photos of women. I wish i didn't have these perverse fantasies. I sometimes wish i could cut off my genitals.
    ihaveanameitsrick ihaveanameitsrick 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Sex Is Nothing But A Must.

    Being  a call girl means that I have sex at least once every day.  Sometimes the john is sweet and gentle.  Sometimes he is so rough that I cry for hours on end.   I have lost the ability to properly ******.  It hurts so much.  There is no pleasure...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    Sex Is Meant For Love

    Many state that sex isn't a big deal, but I think it is. Why can't it be meant for love? It disguises me knowing that a lot of individuals satisfies themselves by having sex. Many feel overpowered or cool if I might say. All you're doing is spreading more Stds to the world and...
    sinkass sinkass 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    Yuck. Just...Yuck.

    Sex is not love. Sex doesn't even seem to be an expression of love. It's literally just some guy pushing against and inside of you and grunting until he spews his DNA into you. YUCK! I used to believe that sex was more than that. I thought it was something that brought...
    thesideboobhour thesideboobhour 31-35 7 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Multiple Definitions, But Not The Right One

    People have ruined the definition of sex. Sex is suppose to be a way to show someone how much you really love them. Not some discusting game to see how many people you have sex with, not an experiment where you try and make new moves, and not a normal you thing you just do with...
    dontjudgemeandiwontjudgeyou dontjudgemeandiwontjudgeyou 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 25, 2011

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    And I'M Supposed To Act Like I Like It?

    It's built in to me.Sweet kisses are great, sensuality is great- appreciate a body with your hands- be in tune with it, nude bodies are great. the body is beautiful and so detailed, stop right there. Don't bite me anywhere. Don't pinch me. Don't "spank" me. Don't act like your a...
    theregularhuman theregularhuman 18-21 Apr 7, 2013

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    I was never abused sexually.

    I was brought up in a sex-hating family. My mom always used to tell me that seeing people hugging and beyond on t.v is a very bad thing. So, when those scenes came, I turn off t.v for sometime. Till I think the scene ended. I hate thinking about such bad things. I'm always...
    BridaPaulo BridaPaulo 22-25, F May 10

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    I'm Supposed To Enjoy It?

    I think the thing I resent most about sex is that I'm *supposed* to enjoy it. I'm *expected* to like it, to want it, and to beg, borrow, steal, lie, cheat, seduce, brainwash, and murder for it. For as much as society harps about the freedom to do as you want, it never ceases to...
    kiuz645 kiuz645 31-35, M 18 Responses Aug 26, 2010

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    Something More....

    I used to crave sex when I was younger, it was all I could think about (yeah, I have heard all the stereotypes, so save it). After having sex, I feel empty and disgust. I know it sounds weird, but I desire something more. I find it more satisfying having an intellectual...
    stevenpfeiffer stevenpfeiffer 26-30, M 3 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    I Hate Sex, But Sorry To Any Men Who Might Be Offended.

    I loathe sex and always have. I've tried relationships with men and women but I still hate it. I don't hate it becasue i was abused as a child, or raped blah blah, I hate it for the same reasons i hate watching golf, listening to jazz or playing chess. ie, there are many...
    AS2448 AS2448 51-55, F 36 Responses Aug 7, 2012

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    Gross, Degrading, Humiliating, And Painful

    I wish it never existed...
    MilkMoon MilkMoon 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 1, 2011

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    I hate sex so much, probably

    because I was abused, but nonetheless.
    babykaykez babykaykez 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    Can You Not See The End Coming?

    Back in the days of chivalry there was a husband, a wife, and covenant of true love through procreation. Forward to our days, now we have some empty "partners," "sex buddies," "friends with benifits;" there is no true love, but a lust for flesh and a path to death. Virginity has...
    Yosegh Yosegh 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    It's a distraction. Maybe it floats the boats

    of others, and that fine. And sure, I'm bisexual, so I do indeed find male and females attractive but I have no particular urge to act on my sexual impulses. Have I had sex before? Sure. Plenty of times. I was a university freshman once after all. But how I currently live my...
    LisaLuxuria LisaLuxuria 26-30, F Jan 25

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    Without Sex, There Would Be No Rape.

    With no sex, there would be no rape. Which happens to someone every second, proven by statistics. It brings pleasure to only a few people. The rest suffer, endure it, or do it out of social pressure. Or rape. Or fear, or compulsion. Or even marriage... “Marriage is for women...
    MilkMoon MilkMoon 18-21, F 8 Responses Oct 1, 2011

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    Maybe I am the only one.

    I derive no pleasure from the act, the idea of it seems appealing but maybe I am built a little different. I get claustrophobic at the idea, to close for this to be good, to hot and annoyed to be wanted. I keep up though, I let them have their time and put on a good face. No...
    isodole isodole 22-25, F Aug 10

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    Female Impotency????????

    My story starts with abuse and a very not so understanding husband, somewhere along the line he forgot the vows we took 11 years ago. I recall them as "for better or worse" "sickness and health", not just for better, and health. He is very demanding of me, and pressures me to...
    ypsy333 ypsy333 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 1, 2013

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    Sex, How I Loathe Thee

    I'm a new member and I apologize in advance for any odd errors because I'm typing on my phone and it's not always reliable. I joined this group because I thought I was the only one out there who hated to have sex and now I see that I am not. So, how much do I hate it? I loathe...
    gigs83 gigs83 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 14, 2012

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    Nothing New Under The Sun

    Moloch was a Semitic deity. Pagans worshiped this false god, and the Israelites fell into apostasy many times worshiping this iniquitous creation of man. Worshipers of this idol would engage in orgies and the children that were conceived from these orgies became a sacrifice for...
    Yosegh Yosegh 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    Pandorazz Pandorazz 26-30 May 18

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    I Really Hate Sex Strong Word Or Not Its A Fact!

    Hello I am a 36yr old female,and I find sex totaly yucko. Everything about it from the kiss to the ***. I think sex leads a person to other evils like drugs,alchol, lies. The act of sex to me means a person wants to escape from reality because something in there life is wrong so...
    SexlessGYPSY333 SexlessGYPSY333 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 26, 2011

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 22

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    Sex Is Boring, Tell Me Something Interesting..lol

    Oh, what's there in sex that people are so crazy about it? It's just a physical pleasure. What's so great about it? It is so disgusting and boring lol. Can't they have anything better to do? Well, I have many interesting things to do than doing these stupid things. I have so...
    livingHope livingHope 22-25, M 4 Responses Jun 1, 2010

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    OMFG

    I've only had it once before, and I can say from that one experience that I HATE EVERY LAST ******* BIT OF IT!!!! IT IS SOOO GROSS, AND I HATE HOW UNCLEAN AND EXPOSED I FEEL AND IT IS JUST SOOO ******* GROSS, LIKE OMFG!! I HOPE IT GETS RAPED BY A ******* FLAMING...
    RippleEffect1 RippleEffect1 18-21, F 8 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    I'm Angry At Him

    I hate sex. I hate it when he touches me. I hate receiving, giving and giving in. I hate kissing, I hate things in/on my face. I tell him these things and he doesn't care. I have tried everything, anal, vaginal, and oral and I can't stand any of them. I'm disgusting, when he...
    AlisonChains AlisonChains 18-21 2 Responses Dec 1, 2011

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    I Didn'T Like It.

    So I did it. Didn't like it. *sigh*
    NaiveLil1 NaiveLil1 22-25 1 Response May 2, 2013

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    I feel so alone in this world

    because everyone is obsessed with sex. I HATE the idea, the act, and the glorifying attribute of sex. People are sex-crazed lunatics and every single idea or act always branches to or from sex. I've had one sexual partner and we've been together for 3 years. I have never...
    nomornicegirl nomornicegirl 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 21

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    Hate. Hate. Hate.

    I have never heard of this “beautiful” side of it. All I have seen is disgusting animalistic behavior. The only “experience” I have known is rape and molestation. I feel disposable and disgusting to be used like that. I fear all the time it will happen again. I get pervy...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Mar 20, 2012

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    **** Who Now Hates Sex

    I'm 21 and have had well over 150 sex partners. So right off the bat, anyone who does the "well you mustn't have found a good sex mate", think I have. There have been times where I have enjoyed it. But nowadays, after so many times, after so many condoms, so many partners, I'm...
    ToxicLove89 ToxicLove89 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 23, 2011

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    I never get any satisfaction

    and always feel I am doing it to please someone else
    martin0 martin0 46-50, M Jun 3

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    I Hate Sex For Many Reasons

    Men that I have dated want sex on the first night. They expect you to do disgusting things like blow jobs. I especially hate it when a guy wants me on top. First of all, I dont feel anything from it so why do I want to be on top? Men have sex on the brain 24/7. Every woman I...
    maggie0285 maggie0285 36-40, F 14 Responses Apr 22, 2010

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    Pro-creation

    Its gross and uncivilized. I sold my services before, mostly I robbed tricks. I think sex toys is disgusting, all those sex moves is unnecessary--if a woman knows what she is doing he'll *** quick. Most men *** quick anyway. But I hate sex. I want to connect with the minds...
    TrustNobody TrustNobody 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 22, 2010

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