I Hate Shallow People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 740 People

    Hate might be a little strong of a word

    but let's just say i choose to be around people with a little more depth :)
    kauaiboy76 kauaiboy76
    41-45, M
    1 Response Jul 22, 2014

    My Family

    I will be the first to admit my family are shallow,I guess this is why im the outcast of the family.
    streak74 streak74
    36-40, F
    Aug 10, 2010

    Realizing The Ugly Truth Of Shallow People

    I've always knowen that people are shallow but didn't realize the extent of it till just the past few years. I use to be really overweight due to a medical condition & have over the past year lost a lot of weight. For the several years of being overweight I was pretty much...
    fractalpterodactyl fractalpterodactyl
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Apr 17, 2013

    So I'm on these two social sites

    where I'm surrounded by super shallow people and sometimes it can be bad
    krazkcatlady3085 krazkcatlady3085
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2016

    this might be a bad idea posting here but.

    .. I believe I am shallow. really shallow. I can be talking to someone online, having a great connection but then I get a pic and I am not attracted to them at all and I pull back. I get so mad at myself for doing this. I sometimes wish I was blind because then I wouldn't judge...
    releaseshame releaseshame
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2015

    Shallow Hal..

    I wish everyone was like shallow Hal. Have you seen that movie? It's where this guy, who was once really shallow had a change and fell in love with this amazing girl she was beautiful. Well his spell ended and he actually saw her. She was a very voluptuous girl but he had already...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 31, 2011

    I Absolutely Dislike Shallow People.

    I know this is long but here goes. So one of my cousins is the most shallow person I have ever met. Her boyfriend and she are very average looking people(like the rest of us) but she says the most horrendous things about other people based solely on looks. She posts things on...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 11, 2012

    Looks have never mattered to me,

    I've never looked at anyone and thought, "Wow, he/she is absolutely hideous." If that person has a good personality, what does it matter? Everyone has their own definitions of attractive. Sure, being physically attracted to someone is important for a relationship, but judging...
    minioreosarebomb minioreosarebomb
    22-25, M
    5 Responses Apr 26, 2015

    How Could You

    Here are some examples and yes i let these people have it.   1) my 8 yr old nephew, adhd a handful . Really challenging for my niece . His father a drug addict with a long criminal history. Someone i was talking to (a mother herself) said "Send him to his father ,i...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Oct 10, 2007

    I have always hated shallow people especially

    girls who would only look for a guy who's athletic or handsome sometimes even both.This hate started when a girl I have known for a long time,with many similar interests stopped speaking to me cause I had acne.This has always happened to me the following months and grew my hate...
    Athenian101 Athenian101
    16-17, M
    Jul 21, 2014

    People tell me I'm still single

    because I don't have any confidence. Why the hell does that matter? Confidence or not. You gotta try to earn their respect first. Than you earn their heart. Problem is many are too shallow. So you gotta hope they say hi too you and want to get to know you for who you are.
    YourSecretAdmire22 YourSecretAdmire22
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jan 17, 2015

    My Hole Life...

    My hole life shallowness has plagued me, I'm not what you'd call a "beautiful person" by american standards, and because of that i have been outcasted, dumped like i wasn't even human, all for my looks and the way i dress, the brainwashed society is told what to believe and wear...
    zimofrite zimofrite
    2 Responses Nov 24, 2010

    ...With The Shaking Of My Head.

    I absolutely cannot believe some people. I am a ridiculously non-judge mental person; it's how I was brought up to be and it has made me many friends over the years. But wow some people.has anyone seen the movie Shallow Hal? The one with jack black? Well I didn't believe until...
    tiredofreality tiredofreality
    18-21, F
    Nov 14, 2013

    I Really Really Hate Shallow People

    Ok, so Ive always been chubby, and it was never a problem, like nobody cared at all, and I didnt care either, and then I moved, and ALL the people in my new town of my age (basically all my potential friends) hate fat people, like really really hated them, there were a few that...
    izzay izzay
    4 Responses Mar 18, 2009


    I AM ABSOLUTELY FED UP! (and that is even an understatement) I'm back to school and now I am surrounded by "creatures" who look and speak alike. I couldn't stand them speaking in English instead of speaking in our local language. All they care about is their academics, their new...
    wildice wildice
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2010

    Moron Central

    I have been ragged on many times because a lot of people online seem to hate the way I look, they're a bunch of shallow gasholes. First of all they claim i'm ugly. There is no such thing as "ugly" in my opinion, that's just some stupid fashion propaganda rule set up to make...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    Dec 2, 2012

    I despise yoga pants !

    I really think girls wear them just for the attention...
    deleted deleted
    Oct 16, 2014

    Feeling Surrounded....

    Pretty much the main reason I hate my work is because of the people.Girls I used to be friends with I realize that I have nothing in common with.Not thinking twice about spending $500+ on a single purse......must be nice to have mommy and daddy supporting you in your mid-twenties...
    sweetsie sweetsie
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2012

    People And Philosophy

    It is pretty sad when people dont appreciate philosophy. I remember telling to my friends about Plato and Aristotle and theories of theirs and they said I am crazy or something. What is crazy about loving to hear good stuff from wise people who lived over 2000 years ago?On...
    shadowchaos shadowchaos
    1 Response Jul 20, 2011

    I Don't Like Shallow People

    Is it hip to want to ignore the safety and well-being of animals for the pure fashion of it? Do most of us care to wear a real racoon cap, a fox or minx wrap? Was a floor length silver fox something you would wear? I never thought much about it. To wear a fur meant a statement...
    forgiveisdevine forgiveisdevine
    51-55, F
    Nov 1, 2012

    Things I like for shallow girls to know: -

    Don't judge a guy based solemnly on his looks. - Everyone has insecurities. There isn't a person on Earth who doesn’t. - A lot of guys lack social/communication skills. Even the thin or athletic ones. - Some guys are jerks because they don't know how to act. So, if you see a...
    4EverBlissful 4EverBlissful
    26-30, F
    Jun 20, 2014

    I hate everything about you,

    why do I love you.
    deleted deleted
    Oct 27, 2014

    This is mainly based on my forum experience,

    a long while back on a forum I was called out on because at the time I was obsessed with Simon Cowell, they called me 'creepy' for it even though it was a perfectly normal thing. So naturally I thought they were being shallow because of this. That taught me that forum...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 30, 2014

    Experiences On Ep

    I've met a lot of interesting people on line here at EP..  Whenever I encounter a new person.. I always make it a point to view ALL of their Experiences (no matter how many).  On occasion, I come across a person's profile with seemingly nothing but sexual and...
    Sabrina0202 Sabrina0202
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jan 26, 2008

    I sat down and realized yesterday

    that the biggest problem with modern sexuality is that the majority of people are simply judgmental and arrogant. This is a problem that is wide-spread and is completely socially acceptable. What people do is they look around them. They take in all these body types, and all...
    scottrast scottrast
    18-21, M
    Mar 4, 2014
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2014

    Shallow People

    Shallow people,Never meaning,What they say,I hate it,People who say things,For the sake of saying them.
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 7, 2011

    trishvaletine posts something around the lines

    of saying: msg me if you wanna talk...so I'm thinking hey here's my chance to have another friend...I msg her and she says **** off **** boy..I said what did I do and she said I'm ugly and then blocked me...well thanks
    DaveEatsToast DaveEatsToast
    18-21, M
    Aug 15, 2015

    I sat in class today

    and had to listen to these girls babble about guys for two periods. It disgusts me to see how shallow some people can be. It made me think about how bad these three things bother me. 1- Gold diggers. I see it all the time, I go to an all girls school. One of the girls today...
    RoastedCycki RoastedCycki
    70+, F
    1 Response May 7, 2015

    they look like they dont have interests .

    i can see how this life is enough
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 22, 2015

    It Isn't All Looks.

    It blows my mind when people just start talking to others with disrespect and immaturity just because they meet our societies standard of beautiful or sexy. No one should be treated different for the way that they look. When men come up to me and start a conversation with 'hey...
    AboveLove70 AboveLove70
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 18, 2013

    I've Lost So Many People Who I Thought Were Friends

    Before I turned 12 I was the quiet nerd who nobody noticed. Then I grew breasts, and suddenly girls hated me and boys surrounded me like a pack of hungry wolves. Suddenly I was the popular girl, although I had really low self esteem and developed an eating disorder, people always...
    AmbivalantSpirit AmbivalantSpirit
    31-35, F
    Oct 1, 2012

    Breaking Point Fingers

    Ok... long story... *sigh* I was hardcore Mormon for the first 3 years of high school because I didn't know any better, and I was looking for something to hold onto.  That religion failed me and I found faith in a different kind of God.  Anyway, I grew up mormon, but I...
    SeraphicWannabe SeraphicWannabe
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Jul 31, 2008

    the world has become

    so shallow, its depressing. just the other day i had heard from people chatting behind me, that a girl had seen that her boyfriend had small genatailia and left him next time she saw him. i mean thats just so sad, its like people now adays dont believe in love through connection...
    Cooper802 Cooper802
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 9, 2015

    Whilst new here, I appreciate

    that some people are interested in me, and get random messages. What does get me is those that message me, and ask have I got a web cam, can you send pictures, god you look so sexy!! really. The only pic I have is the one wearing boots and is of my feet. I get the gist of the...
    blindfoldstacy blindfoldstacy
    41-45, T
    1 Response Oct 4, 2014

    I think it's extremely shallow

    when someone avoids a person after someone admits to have a crush on them. If someone had a crush on me, even if I didn't like them and no matter was gender, religion, race, etc., I wouldn't avoid them. I would express that I'm flattered, which I would be, and try to explain to...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2016

    You Are A...

    Sad pathetic little man and you have my pity. 
    snugglebunny156 snugglebunny156
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 18, 2008

    And That'S Most Of EP

    Most people on EP prefer money over love. Most people on EP won't give someone a chance for dating if they're not attractive. Almost half of EP say that without good looks, relationships can't work. I'd like to shove my arm way up these people's arses. They're exactly what...
    ImmaSlender ImmaSlender
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Feb 10, 2013
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