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I Hate Sleeping By My Self

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    seriouslysarcastic seriouslysarcastic 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Turtleluvverr Turtleluvverr 16-17, F 2 Responses May 9

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    I wish I had someone,

    everynight I wish I had someone by my side, someone to hug, or someone to hug me during the silent nights.
    Resoner Resoner 18-21, M Mar 21

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    It's sad, I cry but tears don't come out,

    I scream but it doesn't make my sound. I hit my head sometimes. Wow it wuzzy but the pillow next me is so cold that I start over. Am I going to be alone for ever. This has become a ritual for me
    eva7431 eva7431 22-25, M 1 Response May 18

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    The Bed Is All Mine..

    Of course who wouldnt want someone to hug while in bed. How i wish i could have somebody in bed and hug me tight and kiss me and cuddle me into sleep.
    iemsingle iemsingle 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2013

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    You should bring your sweet femininity.

    Bring it with you. Bring your smile and your small body. Lay in front of me, so I could cover you as my own. My voice will give you the stories you need to hear, and the honey that will satisfy your emotions. I am your safe bed. - The Brooklyn Old Man
    NuclearELDER NuclearELDER 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 7

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    I use to be able to sleep by myself,

    then I guess something changed. When I was at my Mom's house I slept with my puppies. When I was at my Dad's house I just drank alcohol til I fell asleep. When I was homeless, I slept at a gas station and then asked my friends if I could stay with then for a night to get a...
    strawberry99 strawberry99 22-25, F Jun 10

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    One Is The Loneliest Number.

    That song comes to mind when I look at my bed. It has become the loneliest place in my home. It is so difficult to adjust to sleeping alone after being in a long term live in relationship. For me anyways. I started by falling asleep on the couch watching t.v. Then I just brought...
    Temprence Temprence 36-40, F 16 Responses Feb 15, 2012

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    I freakin hate sleeping alone.

    I used to sleep over FaceTime with a long distance girlfriend for a while and that was super nice. Anyone else do this before or is possibly interested? Haha that's kind of a weird request 0-0
    Bongopanda Bongopanda 16-17, M Jun 4

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    When Ethan is away at work,

    I'm forced to sleep alone, and I absolutely hate it. I feel like there's something missing and I can never seem to fall asleep. It's like my blanket of comfort disappears every night he is away..
    immieomg immieomg 22-25, F 3 Responses May 14

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    It's the loneliest feeling in the world I've

    laid awake many nights and just cried till I collapse
    Cgr1 Cgr1 18-21 May 17

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    I hate being alone In general

    but it's at night where I get the loneliest.
    SaraRose0616 SaraRose0616 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    I'm young. I'm always by myself,

    I need someone. Some one to sleep with, not in a sexual way but as in a cuddling way. Someone to cuddle with and just have that amazing feeling that hen you wake up some one you love dearly is with you every night an will always be by your side.
    biebbrauhll biebbrauhll 13-15, F 6 Responses Jan 28

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    There's one thing I miss about my last

    relationship and it's laying next to him letting the rhythm of his heart beat lull me to sleep, there's just something peaceful about being in someone's arms.
    Merewiff Merewiff 16-17, F 3 Responses Jan 21

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    I love having the comfort

    and warmth of a man beside me. Though those times are few and far between. Next to that, I love having my son who's 4 and loves to cuddle up to mom's back in the middle of the night and tell me he loves me. I know those days are limited and I cherish them now while he's still...
    simplylilacs simplylilacs 26-30, F Mar 2

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    For the longest time

    after being single, I loved it! Room to move and kick, also room to fart as loud as I want to. But after a while.. and on cold winters nights, sleeping alone is just that - lonely.
    Li1981 Li1981 31-35, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    I hate sleeping alone

    but I do 99% of the time even though I'm married. My husband said he doesn't sleep well in our bed *shrugs* ok. So we get a different bed one of those temperpedic ones really expensive and both sides of the bed move independently so if he wants to sit up and I lay down ect. It...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 15

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    I love cuddling up against someone,

    and the only way someone knows I completely feel comfortable with them is if I sleep right up against them. I'm a feather light sleeper if I don't feel comfortable with them because I'll be too self conscious about pushing them off the bed.
    hornewrecked hornewrecked 16-17, F Jul 3

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    I am currently sleeping with a body pillow

    that has my boyfriend's sweater around it. I don't get to see him as often as I used to because I work so much, this is as close to ick tact as I can get to him.
    vixonexperience666 vixonexperience666 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    twinbrenda twinbrenda 46-50, F 5 Responses Jul 3

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    Sometimes it feels as

    though im talking to white walls alone. Because in the end we are left utterly alone. Sorry to be a debby downer but, graduation is coming up. And you either begin your life with some, or end it with some. Because in the end... We are left infinitely... And udderly, alone.
    princessxk96 princessxk96 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 15

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    I've been married for 11 years

    and the last 5 yrs we haven't slept in the same bed. It started because he snores really loud and just stayed that way. It makes me feel even lonelier. I haven't cuddled in a long time. It makes me sad.
    Cheeks2014 Cheeks2014 36-40, F 8 Responses Jan 3

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    Just wanna be cuddled

    and made to feel safe 😘
    itsCarlyGirl itsCarlyGirl 18-21, F 6 Responses May 22

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    Well, if I hate sleeping by myself,

    then I'll just have to remedy that shall I? Now, who will I choose to sleep with? First, let's see who you think I should sleep with. Describe what she looks like. Tell me how she smells. Tell me what she's wearing. And no, don't tell me it's an animal. LOL!
    markcallen markcallen 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 22

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    Alone Again!!!

    Sleeping alone again. My no good husband is out all night doing god knows what or who. I can't sleep and he knows it. He doesn't care. Sick of it.
    SouthernGirl1968 SouthernGirl1968 46-50, F 27 Responses Sep 4, 2013

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    I hate physical contact

    but I would probably sleep 100x better if I had someone to cuddle.
    kyliethain kyliethain 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 14

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    My sides on the bed are cold,

    have your loved one beside you all night. Laying on each other cuddled, ugh perfect.
    vaashapenin vaashapenin 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I wish I could cuddle right now.

    . Instead I'm hugging my angry birds pillow
    dontquoteme2014 dontquoteme2014 22-25, F 7 Responses May 29

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    When I'm crumbling slowly all over again

    and crying like i won't see tomorrow i just need someone there to hold me and tell me ill be ok until i fall asleep
    TealMarie TealMarie 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 21

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    Waking up with my koala tucked under my arm,

    wishing it could be my baby girl... She does the same. Those are the saddest mornings.
    Boo37 Boo37 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 23

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    I Need Someone!

    I seriously hate sleeping by myself I just feel really lonely and then all my depressing thoughts come running back to my mind and it's very scary cause like I'm all alone. I just kind of just need someone to hold me and be there when I need them I need to know that someone is...
    TealMarie TealMarie 16-17, F Nov 5, 2013

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    It feels cold and lonely,

    the dark is scary without someone else to protect you from any monsters in the closet or under the bed !
    xhet xhet 18-21, T 2 Responses May 21

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    I have literally slept with someone my whole

    life; when I was little I shared a room with who I thought were my siblings. When we left and came to and came to a different state we were in a domestic violence shelter and I shared a bed with my mom because there were 4 beds and 5 people. Then when got a new house and I had...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Apr 9

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    I just crave affection

    and physical intimacy so much.
    Belissa Belissa 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 9

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    5a.m. Can't sleep. Work in a few hours.

    I'll be one grumpy woman. :(
    SweetestGirl89 SweetestGirl89 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    hey all ! ... this is important

    and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i expected people will help me out from my heart broken stage and yes to maximum extend people helped, thanks a lot... then i began...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    I've always slept better with someone else in

    bed beside me. Just to hear your steady breathing helps me fall asleep.
    MadameMM MadameMM 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 3

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    happycupcake happycupcake 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    So lonely. In need of someone to be with me

    forever. I hate breaking up and starting over. Just want some company forever....
    SweetestGirl89 SweetestGirl89 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 23

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    Bethany17 Bethany17 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 17

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    eloquentshadow eloquentshadow 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Not only do I hate sleeping alone.

    ... I hate working night shift and laying down when I get home only for my thoughts to race and jump around, as I stare into my room like the walls are not there as if I'm starring into the void. It's just grand.....
    JoshLJustice JoshLJustice 18-21, M Jul 12

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    I hate waking up all alone.

    No one there to cuddle with or kiss or smile at :(
    Savannahkentttt Savannahkentttt 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 10

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    Long distance relationships.

    ..can't wait til we are next to each other again sleeping side by side. Sleeping alone sucks.
    msloyal28 msloyal28 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 7

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    Tonight is sucking and I not sure why?

    I should be used to this big bed but not tonight :(
    clprincess76 clprincess76 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I just hate the feeling of being alone in bed.

    I cannot sleep without my dog in my bed at home, and at school, I usually end up staying until the wee hours of the night, or occasionally til morning, with a guy that lived in my building. No action, though. Just cuddling. It made me feel really safe. I miss him a lot :( the...
    wallflower817 wallflower817 18-21 Jun 12

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    I love being close to people.

    I hate being alone. I have a lot of negative thoughts, so I need someone all the time. I really just like being close to people.
    mywhol3world mywhol3world 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 4

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    It's really cold and lonely

    and the silence sounds so loud and it keeps me awake.
    lovleyroses lovleyroses 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 2

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    I'm so use to sleeping next to her tht

    if she is not next to me I can't sleep
    phatzNbink phatzNbink 22-25, M 3 Responses May 9

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    I miss the feeling of falling asleep

    and waking up next to someone, it's awesome, better than sex!!
    Lilmomma1617 Lilmomma1617 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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