But I find overt sympathy to be exceedingly irritating. Its probably because I have big a problem being the object of pity. Yes, I know that sympathy and pity are somewhat different but, to me, it feels exactly the same way.
"Awwww, poor you" or...
i don't know if any of you will jion this group
but this is a big one for me
i hate sympathy
and i mean fake sympathy or exaggerated sympathy.
like when your family member dies and teachers dont give you homework assignments cause they feel bad for you.
or when you're crying...