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I Hate Sympathy

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    Not My Thing

    I don't know why i just get mad when ever i see it. Not just to me but anyone.
    Arorin Arorin 22-25, M Jan 10, 2009

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    Sometimes I don't want to hear,

    "I feel sorry for you that's very unfortunate." I'd rather hear someone say I understand what you're going through....
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 12

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    Sooo....

    i don't know if any of you will jion this group but this is a big one for me i hate sympathy and i mean fake sympathy or exaggerated sympathy. like when your family member dies and teachers dont give you homework assignments cause they feel bad for you. or when you're crying...
    hayleymeike hayleymeike 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2007

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    Hate May Be a Bit Strong

    But I find overt sympathy to be exceedingly irritating. Its probably because I have big a problem being the object of pity. Yes, I know that sympathy and pity are somewhat different but, to me, it feels exactly the same way. "Awwww, poor you" or...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    A while ago I posted a scathing story about my step-daughter in this group lol. Believe it or not, I've had a change of heart. I don't LOVE my step-daughter but my sons, her...
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    I have experienced horrific racism at hotel du vin Brighton 10 years ago I happened to be passing by hotel du vin Brighton in ship street one afternoon after I lost my job at cafe...
    lostsouluk lostsouluk 31-35, F 3 Responses Oct 16

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    I think I because the most hated person in town because I cant act a certain way or dress in what way they like. Probably why they insult me and treat me like a child.
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    God!.. I hate animal abusers! pets and wild animals! dogs, cats and etc. although I am against cats I don't want them hurt!
    shadowhunter221 shadowhunter221 13-15, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I was her miracle baby. I was her everything. But when my alcoholic father killed himself when I was ten her solution to her stress and grief was to beat me. Choke me. Take away...
    Cranksta Cranksta 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I am planning to move out of Nebraska very soon-if everything goes well it would be by the end of this year-and I want to send a farewell message to those on Facebook who I...
    jpk29 jpk29 18-21, F Oct 11

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    Hahaha this depends who the human is! If they're a nice human then I have an equal amount of Sympathy, if not? Yea that's a different story...
    thatcrazyveggo thatcrazyveggo 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My mom is sick right now and I am just annoyed. When she throws up, I don't rush to her rescue. I don't give her blankets. I don't make her soup. I simply just don't care. And...
    DayDreamingDragon DayDreamingDragon 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate my life so god damn much. I hate that when im in a more depressed mood my parents have to assume that I'm angry at them. I hate that they yell and make me feel worse because...
    RoyOfTheCosmos RoyOfTheCosmos 18-21, M Oct 12

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    I'm 16, and have been living with my mother and my boyfriend and his dad for about a year and a half now.But, for the most part, just know I'm safe and okay besides all this. My...
    Tarahkins Tarahkins 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I Hate God. I Hate God. I Hate God. I Hate God. I Hate God. I Hate God. I Hate God. I Hate God. I Hate God. I Hate God.
    unlovednbroken unlovednbroken 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 3

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    I hate him with everything I own. I just hate him so damn much it's freaking crazy. I hate how he played me, and cheated. And made me feel bad for how his mom abused him but then...
    katstho katstho 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    I hate school I hate being here, I hate being around all the people, I hate all the talking, I hate all the work, I hate all the name calling, I just hate it.
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 2

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    This may seem a bit Pollyanna, however, I do not know what it feels like to hate. I suppose I am lucky in a way. Don't let me mislead you though, I've been hated and I do not get...
    Helper96 Helper96 46-50, F Oct 5

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    1 - I hate people who correct those for using poor grammar. The English language is vast, and we all will speak, write as we feel to be ok. Don't like it , get over it, move on. 2...
    blindfoldstacy blindfoldstacy 41-45, T 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Some days I think to myself "You look decent" in regard to my appearance. Other days I am like "Oh my god, you are a wreck. I hate you. I hate your hair. I hate your bone structure...
    Mousetoes Mousetoes 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    i thought i hated a man, until i heard his voice again.... i cried and cried, my heart ached, and i realized i was just thinking i hated him... in reality, i fooled myself into...
    forgiveness12 forgiveness12 36-40 Oct 6

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    Yes you the deadly poison, Yes you the wicked wise, Warmth, love, levitation? No, weak, loathsome and hell-fire. I hate you, the truth I hate you, the moon Even in darkness...
    ymfas ymfas 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 7

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    When I say "I hate school" is doesn't mean I hate the education and knowledge. It means I hate selfish and ignorant people there. It means I hate stress and high expectations that...
    JessiesColumn JessiesColumn 16-17, F Oct 11

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    It amazes me that more people in the world don't hate people, or at least don't understand people who hate people. Everyone treats everyone so horribly. Growing up, I had to deal...
    chickiebos chickiebos 31-35, F Oct 21

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    So, this girl, she is my best friend. She is also my cousin, so we've known each other since we were born and stuff. She used to be kinda mean, so didn't like her. But then she...
    AvaRawr AvaRawr 16-17, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate school, I hate people, I hate myself, I hate this world. I hate everything.
    TheRouge TheRouge 16-17, F 3 Responses Oct 7

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    I just absolutely hate it. I hate learning i'm just more of a laid back kind of person. i'm far from a dummie though,. I just hate waking up early. I have to be to school by 8:15...
    Dsanders13 Dsanders13 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Well, my boyfriend just stormed out on me, and I'm eating myself up. Like always. I carry a tremendous burden of guilt, self-hatred, shame... Even when I do nothing wrong. I hate...
    princessslaya princessslaya 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 15

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    I ******* hate not being able to tell people to **** Off....>:( I hate not being able to hate someone, I hate caring about everyone even the people that bully me.... I just...
    Chocolate29 Chocolate29 13-15, F 3 Responses Oct 15

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    "Frankly, I have to worry about an individual who says he hates all mothers." -Block...(Heart Heart). "...I do not choose to associate with such an individual..." "That's okay. I...
    Levi1 Levi1 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 17

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    I don't want any one to reply I just want to rant. I ******* hate people, I ******* hate how they say crap about people behind peoples back I hate how they think it's okay to make...
    Chocolate29 Chocolate29 13-15, F Oct 20

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    I was born with excess fat on my stomach and even when I got super skinny and wore size 2 and I was super lean and fit I still had that stomach. Now I stopped dancing, I gained...
    InternationGal InternationGal 18-21, F Oct 20

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    The type who enjoys hurting my feelings, only by trying to get me jealous with someone who is not even a friend of mine, but rather she is jealous of me and wants to make me look...
    NinaDawna NinaDawna 26-30, F Oct 22

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    I'm a completely hateful person masquerading as a person who is completely joyful/relaxed. No one knows my true feeling about life as I always act differently when I'm near people...
    ExperienceRush ExperienceRush 70+, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate most christians because they are judgy and rude I hate most white people in stores people they stare for some ******* reason? I hate the teachers that judge you on the first...
    AnUnknownOne AnUnknownOne 13-15, M a week ago

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    Female Almost Ex-Soldier!! While I personally do not enjoy the army at all, I do not feel hate for those who choose it as their lifestyle. I cannot understand it, but I do not...
    marydawn marydawn 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I come from a very broken family. My mother tortures my dad physically, hits him with knifes and bricks and my father is too scared to retaliate or even argue back. My sister is...
    faketure faketure 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I Hate Fake People My mother has a best friend. They have their friendship before I was born. Tita Beige had 3 children; Kat, Ariel, and Jones. They both become my close friends...
    kiendy123 kiendy123 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    i havent lived at home since i graduated high school. i suppose i could just go out and rent a place, but i wouldnt be saving a single penny. eventually, ill be moving, so i guess...
    blahblah2789 blahblah2789 36-40, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I hate waking up with myself, opening my despised eyes to see my hideous self. Tasting the horrible taste of my own mouth makes me not want to breathe. Then comes the stupid...
    tylerkleewilliams tylerkleewilliams 18-21, M Oct 1

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    I hate myself.. I hate how I feel everything I do or even say goes bad. Even the littlest things get turned around back to me.. Feeling this way makes me feel like I'll never be...
    autum25 autum25 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I dont hate her, but she can go to **** herself. the problem with her, is that she doesnt let me live. and i ******* hate her for that. she hurt me, emotionally and physically...
    movinx movinx 18-21 1 Response Oct 13

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    Okay, I can and can't hate God. I can't hate God because it's hard for me to have something that doesn't exist. However, I can hate the "true image" of God that so many believers...
    JohnBobMac JohnBobMac 16-17, T Oct 16

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    For a long time she doesn't like how my life turn out to be. I don't plan to become her or learn from her because that's not what i wanted to be. If i do have problems or things...
    roses289 roses289 22-25, F Oct 17

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    When I say I hate you It either means I hate you Or I hate you
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 20

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    I hate politics. Everything about them. It's because of political parties that I hate politics. Conservatives and liberals are both idiots because when you think of conservative...
    BandsAndNyc BandsAndNyc 18-21, F Oct 22

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    So I have the A day B day schedule and I like my B days better because my A days are the worse. First hour I have math. My teacher is so cocky, annoying and doesn't even notice I...
    JJsGirl19 JJsGirl19 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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