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I Hate That My Husband Is a Smoker

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    So Many Reasons Why

    for one, i dont smoke, so the smell, the thought, the whole idea just grosses me out. second, he smokes cigars. i think i could handle cigarettes better. cigars leave an odor like you would not believe. thirdly, and the main reason of all, he is just careless with the ashtray...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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    he has said multiple times that he'll quit. and he does. for a minute. then it's back to the stink and smoke again. i detest the smell. and i hate how he smokes in the car, with the window slightly cracked, like that does anything to get rid of the smell. the cat, however, loves...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    Promises, Promises...

    Ever since my husband and I got married he's been promising to quit smoking. I hate this habit, but don't know what to do about it. I know that he has to want to quit in order to be successful and thats the problem I don't think that he wants to.
    newbride2012 newbride2012 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    Non-stop Marlboro 100s. From the second you wake up. A lit cigarette in your hand at all times. you have hypnotically trained yourself to automatically light up as soon as your...
    smokingrocks1 smokingrocks1 56-60, M 2 days ago

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    My husband makes all types of things for others, it's like he likes to play hero for everyone else except me and our children. I hate it that I don't have the heart to just leave...
    Hatehumidity Hatehumidity 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I can't handle my husbands family. They are the terrible people. I know that sounds bad but they are. And they are putting my son in depression. First my grandma mother inlaw...
    love98ya love98ya 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I've been married now 11years. So much drama I just can't write it all. My husband's ex wife did not pay her portion of child care or insurance premiums for several years and the...
    nolookingback nolookingback 46-50, F Jul 19

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    I really hate my husband. he always speaks down to me .what a jerk .I feel like he dosent show any respect for anyone . my family who is very respectful twords people so this I...
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    MommyToMine MommyToMine 31-35, F Jul 18

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    I always thought that a man who treated his mother well would be the guy to marry. Unfortunately I have found this out the hard way. I started dating James, and from the start, I...
    tarabull tarabull 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I think "hate" is a strong word. I have hated my mother in the past. In fact, when I was 13 I had dreams of physically assaulting her because she was such a phenomenal psycho. At...
    DramaDiva DramaDiva 41-45 2 Responses Jul 18

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    Maybe a non-smoker isn't actually what I am. I smoked daily from age 16 - 24. I quit for a while and started again. Then I'd quit again. The last time I changed my attitude. I didn...
    Yoohoolibbylou Yoohoolibbylou 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 17

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    I married my husband and knew he had a 5 year old son. My children were 17 & 19. They were always and still are very respectful to my husband, We got custody of his satan's spawn...
    stepmonsterinhismind stepmonsterinhismind 56-60, F Jul 16

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    I have been a stepmom to two boys, who are now 6 and 10 for nearly four years now. I have my own biodaughter who is 12 and awesome. Neither my husband nor I look forward to our...
    whydopeoplelie whydopeoplelie 31-35 1 Response Jul 16

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    Ok, This is my first post and i really need good non judgmental advice from woman who have been there....I really want my family to work, I really love my husband..we have been...
    mammamialove mammamialove 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 15

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    SpideyAlyx SpideyAlyx 13-15, M 11 Responses Jul 15

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    I've been married for 7 years and together with my husband for 11 years. I've never felt so much hate for someone in my life. I really hate myself for being the biggest idiot. 3...
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