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I Hate That My Husband Is a Smoker

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    Promises, Promises...

    Ever since my husband and I got married he's been promising to quit smoking. I hate this habit, but don't know what to do about it. I know that he has to want to quit in order to be successful and thats the problem I don't think that he wants to.
    newbride2012 newbride2012 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    he has said multiple times that he'll quit. and he does. for a minute. then it's back to the stink and smoke again. i detest the smell. and i hate how he smokes in the car, with the window slightly cracked, like that does anything to get rid of the smell. the cat, however, loves...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2007

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    So Many Reasons Why

    for one, i dont smoke, so the smell, the thought, the whole idea just grosses me out. second, he smokes cigars. i think i could handle cigarettes better. cigars leave an odor like you would not believe. thirdly, and the main reason of all, he is just careless with the ashtray...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

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