Post
Experience Project iOS Android Apps | Download EP for your Mobile Device

I Hate That My Husband Is a Smoker

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 15 People

    So Many Reasons Why

    for one, i dont smoke, so the smell, the thought, the whole idea just grosses me out. second, he smokes cigars. i think i could handle cigarettes better. cigars leave an odor like you would not believe. thirdly, and the main reason of all, he is just careless with the ashtray...
    antiyou antiyou 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    :(

    he has said multiple times that he'll quit. and he does. for a minute. then it's back to the stink and smoke again. i detest the smell. and i hate how he smokes in the car, with the window slightly cracked, like that does anything to get rid of the smell. the cat, however, loves...
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2007

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Promises, Promises...

    Ever since my husband and I got married he's been promising to quit smoking. I hate this habit, but don't know what to do about it. I know that he has to want to quit in order to be successful and thats the problem I don't think that he wants to.
    newbride2012 newbride2012 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 18, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I hate going to the bathroom would much rather do it in my panties then step foot in a nasty bathroom
    wetbridgett152000 wetbridgett152000 18-21, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A rumor has started at my school involving my brother and a girl. Everyone was led to believe (through a colossal misunderstanding) that my brother tore up a valentine the girl had...
    vischismileyface vischismileyface 18-21, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate dating It is just impossible to have a good date unless you both like each other equally as much. First of all, there are things a guy you never do on a date, that must guys...
    Zolfy Zolfy 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I absolutely hate when people expect things of me only to be disappointed. Sometimes the have so much faith in me that they call me a fake and say i should be ashamed of myself...
    Destinyyy Destinyyy 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My cousin moved in with us not too long ago and I already don't like him, I thought it could maybe be fun having him move in since I'm 18 now and I haven't seen him since I was 4...
    Fred363 Fred363 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate my mother in law. If she was on fire and I had a glass of water I would drink it. I would rather poop in both of my hands and clap, before I lift a finger to help you do...
    Xmasbaby78 Xmasbaby78 36-40 1 Response 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm so tired of feeling alone I hate Valentine's Day my husband has made me hate anything romantic. I hate that I feel like this but I really don't like him right now
    unhappywife16 unhappywife16 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Hi this is my first post and the reason I'm doing this is to share express my feelings on here so here goes. My mom said **** you to me and that she doesn't want me or my dad to...
    Ibethmercado439 Ibethmercado439 13-15, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Maybe it isn't even hate. But still I don't know the real reason. She has been avoiding me... often nervous, when I'm around. The last time she "talked" to me was in a long...
    Vakuum Vakuum 13-15, T 8 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate mine so much,she is only 12 and she thinks she can act like a total rude person!I hate her so much ,I can't wait for her karma
    Marcysonline Marcysonline 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've recently been doing a lot of research on BPD because my husband has had a severe escalation of symptoms in the last two years...Some background, we've been together 9 years.We...
    concernedmother1 concernedmother1 22-25, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A daughter writing here. Now I don't have a child, but I'm writing here hoping to shed some light on this group. Before you report this thinking It's just another lost story hating...
    halfaxa halfaxa 13-15, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Can't stand it. Never could. Hate it even more when it's humid too. Give me Spring or Autumn weather instead.
    iammyshadow iammyshadow 36-40, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The love of my life isn't exactly part of my race. He is so good to me and he is a hard worker as well. He cares so much about people's well being and his family. Problem is that I...
    XXBeautifullyCorrodedXx XXBeautifullyCorrodedXx 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    this morning I woke up to find my husband asleep on the toilet... but no, you don't have a problem.
    readum16 readum16 26-30, F 5 Responses 15 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Last night was the best night ever. I talked to my husband for hours and for the first time he listened... Man so in love with this man?????
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015 26-30, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    first, i apologize for my poor english. so, my family always seem to having problem in financial issue. i'm a sophomore in college now. and i hate how my dad would make my mom...
    torch12 torch12 18-21, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So I have a canine crossbite. I hate it so much. It looks like I have a missing tooth. I've been asking my mum for braces since 7th grade and the answer has always been "I can't...
    LydiaBlake LydiaBlake 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't know where to start except my husband is cheating on me. He is always on **** dating site local hook ups. snapsext live web cams and U catch him red handed and he tells...
    gechieunwanted69 gechieunwanted69 46-50, F 2 Responses 17 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It was Begging of September of 2015... I was invited to a Wedding to a military buddy of mine. And I was feeling more Obligated to go because I am a man of my word.. I woke up that...
    Micheael Micheael 26-30, M 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Since I was 7, I'd go to my cousin's house every day after school. Let's just say I wasn't very smart or was sure what I was even doing. I hated their house, I hated waiting there...
    allnamesrtakenx allnamesrtakenx 16-17, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was never able to try smoking, even the smell of it makes me sick. Although, I do not judge smokers, everybody has their obsession.
    Tilexy Tilexy 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate this time of year. Especially due to Valentine's Day. Seeing so many things out on, of different types and I can't do anything but send a card. Hate it so much. Yet love my...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate valentine's day. I'm feeling so angry. I never understood why people do mean and nasty things to others and think that their behavior is ok. I guess my husband...
    unhappywife16 unhappywife16 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    LOST ... need help plz, I'm ashamed and I hate seeing him hurt. We have been married for 8 faithful years. I have been unhappy with him for awhile. He has had 7 knee surgerys in 3...
    shygirl1986 shygirl1986 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I've known my husband for almost 5 years now and I can honestly say that I am pushing him away. It's not that I don't love him, it's that he hurts me so much that I am trying to...
    MiserableMama26 MiserableMama26 26-30, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I could have never imagined the nightmare that my husbands first wife and grown adult children have become. I have been married to him for just over 2 years and everything seems to...
    heavyheart1 heavyheart1 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So at an event for my SD's school my SD decides to say I did something wrong. Mind you, I did nothing wrong, she just had a problem with the way I set up a station at the event...
    snel333 snel333 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    With my parents being heavy smokers and my dad working for a tobacco company its kinda natural that im a smoker ;) Love my cigs and will never quit, so if youre in the mood for...
    sxylaura sxylaura 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well actually I was a pre-teen smoker! It all started when I went to secondary school. It quickly became apparent that there were other students in the school who lit up a...
    TrannyHannah TrannyHannah 41-45, T 1 Response 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    UPDATE: I'm trying so hard right now to stay in my room and not have to go to war!!! I'm just sick to my stomach! OK I tried to talk to my husband while the kids were gone, but...
    jennymike28 jennymike28 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have always dreamed of having one of those husbands that would die for me. That loved me so much and had nothing but nice, beautiful things to say about me. To be my knight in...
    Scarletcharlotte Scarletcharlotte 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    intamacy really dosnt exist anymore. nothing feels the same. he used to be the best lover ive ever had until i found out hes cheating. now sex feels like im just doing it just to...
    jbrose413 jbrose413 22-25 Jan 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's been about a week seen I've decided this is not the life I planned for myself or my children. I decided to write down my long toxic relationship from beginning to the all most...
    jennymike28 jennymike28 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Half of my working time is spent inside the medical department of Universities or inside hospitals where I lecture and I find it most despicable that SO MANY doctors and nurses...
    LozzyFromRome LozzyFromRome 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate my step daughter. There I said it. Going to try and keep this somewhat short but I need to vent. I met a man at my workplace, we fell in love, got married. I knew he had a...
    Kristofferson44 Kristofferson44 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My mother in law has turned her whole family against me. She told her family that I have psychologically abused her. In her twisted head, she can say and act however she likes...
    Lilyrose456 Lilyrose456 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 28