I Hate That Nervous Feeling I Get After Sending A Risky Text

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    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 5, 2014

    Oh god ****. I'm sitting here with mad

    butterflies waiting on the reply, scared to go back on messenger because I'll read it over again and just think WHY DID I DO IT. Aargghh, why did I even ??
    dmccxp dmccxp
    16-17, F
    Nov 30, 2014

    Loathe It

    You're just sitting there wishing & hoping everything work's out. Or that whoever you sent it to doesn't Flip out, haha. & don't get me started when they don't reply right away . . . (PS- Over 100 people feel the same but don't want to share???? What does that make me, exactly?)
    Rookie009 Rookie009
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 6, 2012

    God, Yes!

    Not long after you click the send button do you start having doubts as to whether if you should have said that or not as well as the fear that the person will get pissed at you and flip out. If they don't respond right away, you're in emotional agony the entire time. If they...
    deadmoon deadmoon
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 18, 2013

    Omg, yeah. I send so many of them

    and i'm sitting there mentally face palming myself and regretting tapping the send button.
    DreamingSouls DreamingSouls
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