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I Hate That Some People Make Assumptions About Me

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    Pls. Stop Judging Me!

    I am who I am you can't change that. You always thought that I was like you, you always ssaid "when I was at your age. . . " but you're wrong i'll prove to you that I will never be like you. I grew up without you that's why you don't trust me,you thought that once i...
    boznicxs boznicxs 13-15, F 3 Responses Sep 30, 2009

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    based On Handwriting Of All Things!!!

    I'll grant you, my handwriting could use a lot of improvement.  It looks like it came from the pencil of a 3rd grader.  Seeing as how I'm a grown woman, assumptions are made.  People seem to equate childish handwriting with a childish mind or a lack of intelligence. Neither of...
    Plaid Plaid 31-35, F Mar 19, 2011

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    The title of this group says it all for me.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 4, 2009

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    People Think They Know Me

    Yes i am a crossdresser,that's all.I am straight and married.I don't cheat on my wife with other women or men.I have no desire to be with a man when i am dressed as a woman.I am not gay or Bi.So don't assume it.Just because i dress, i don't want to talk about my undies or yours...
    cindyloulove cindyloulove 56-60, M Sep 18, 2011

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    I Am Not Who I Appear To Be.

    I show a different person then who I am, to the world. They make all kinds of assumptions of who I am and how I think, and don't even bother to think that there might be more to me then they see.
    Littledove Littledove 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 3, 2010

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    Some People Believe

    they have the ability to read your mind or see into your heart, when in reality, they don't have all the facts to what they are speculating over with what your feeling or thinking. Maybe your thinking about paying your rent or feeling upset about your cheating lover sleeping with...
    MySweetLord MySweetLord 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2009

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    I Find It Quite Amusing

    When I was at school, everyone thought I was a certain type of person. Some thought I was posh, until I opened my mouth, others thought I was easy, my skirt was very short. But even now people make lots of assumptions about me. The one that gets to me the most, is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    Just because I look at you funny

    after you say something doesn't mean I'm 'stupid' or 'don't understand'. It actually means i'm thinking on a level that your condescending azz can't even imagine, really expanding on the topic but no you have the nerve to repeat it all as if I didn't understand. I also hate...
    highwhensober highwhensober 18-21, F Jul 1

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    You Know What They Say About Assumptions....

    There are quite a few assumptions lurking about that I'm never told of until I get to know someone better. The first being that they thought I didn't like them when we first met. I'm a pretty standoffish person and it takes me a little while to warm up to people. You wouldn't...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2009

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    Everyone Does...

    thats not a big deal.  Of course I don't mean all of you... Anywhere from spelling my name wrong to thinking what catagories I fall under (which is sorta a big thing actually) I don't really care about small assumptions. The more people know me in time they will...
    MissLily MissLily 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 8, 2009

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    The most common assumption people make about me

    involves my choice in music. I grew up with a lot of the music from the '80s and early '90s, especially rock and heavy metal. In fact, if you were to look through my music catalog, you'll see bands ranging from Aerosmith to Judas Priest to ZZ Top. However, some people...
    BLACKTIGER75 BLACKTIGER75 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    Happened Only Last Week

    I hate when people make assumptions about me. I lost a job last week because the owners of the business thought I was too shy and didn't engage with clients as I was supposed to. I was only in training at the time and I thought I was supposed to stay in the background and not...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F Jul 24, 2012

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    TALK to the Hand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Yeah talk to it. If you don't know me don't act like you do! If you don't have anything good to say then kiss my culo. We can all take constructive criticism once in a while but the haters, stick to yourselves. MISERY SURE LOVES COMPANY!! Who is really a friend...
    justicia justicia 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 2, 2009

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    Especially if their college grads seeking

    dominance with lame backing to their attack. Closed minded and unwilling to just agree that we wont agree is like the noticing that my attacker had unchecked syphalus or however you spell that std that warped their mind. Lmao.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Jul 1

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    It's True........

    Absolutely NOTHING will bring out the B.I.T.C.H in me more than assuming you KNOW me by looking at me or talking to me for 2 seconds. I am SO more complex then that!! Trust me, I am not OBESE because I never stop eating. I am NOT insecure because I'm looking for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 9, 2009

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    Big Girl

    Like it or not, there are a lot of assumptions that go with being overweight.  The one that makes me maddest is that I just eat too much.  I get dirty looks from people in restaurants, as if I shouldn't be eating a cheeseburger.  The thing is, overeating is not...
    Geode Geode 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 29, 2009

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    You And Me

    You know what you do when you assume don't you? You make an *** outta you and me.I cannot stand when people think they have to be afraid of me because of the brothers I have. They assume that I am a "hard ***" like them. I'm not, really. I just can't stand ignorant people. I...
    Ashwe20 Ashwe20 18-21, F Jan 23, 2010

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    Lazy And Not Very Bright

    I've been called both.  Neither is true, but people make these assumptions, and I resent it.I'm not a size six.  Or eight.  I've been rejected by men several times because my weight isn't ideal.  One episode in particular sticks with me.  A man said to me "I can't date you...
    cedricsmom cedricsmom 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 15, 2011

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    What Mom Used To Say About Assumptions...

    "There will always be an a*s*s* in an assumption". She was a self made woman that was an orphan during the Great Depression. She worked as much as she could. Taught herself how to sew the most beautiful clothes.  Put herself through college, met my Dad who only had a 4th grade...
    Molly2350 Molly2350 51-55, F Apr 12, 2012

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    Eh.

    i get the whole "i didnt like you when i first met you" phrase a lot. makes you feel grand. eh, might come off as a bit of a bword. because i say what i think. and because i'm a very open person, i may scare people away. which i think is hilarious. i may come off one...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 29, 2009

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    So Sick Of This

    I have long hair. I listen to Heavy Metal. I wear a lot of black. People assume that this means I'm unable to string two sentences together, do drugs, hate my parents, and am sad and depressive. I get talked to like I'm some stupid stoner, but nothing could be farther from the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Only about five people in this world know me

    thoroughly. Even these people sometimes don't know every single part of my personality or who I am, so when someone who I barely know at all pretends they know some aspects of me I find it infuriating. It's as if they have an image of me in their head that they want to mold me...
    MadArts MadArts 22-25, F Mar 13

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    It's Only Natural...

    I know that people talk. That's just what we do. And those who don't know me can say a lot of things that may not be true. I don't mind telling people the truth and how I feel. But, I have have to weed out those who aren't truly interested in me. Because the ones who are really...
    LovelessDeluxe LovelessDeluxe 22-25 Jun 11, 2011

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    I Think We All Have Insecur...

    I think we all have insecurities and that's why we tend to make these assumptions as a defense mechanism.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 29, 2009

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    Left Hand Corner Of A Cottage

    People have some idea about me, they know a few things, maybe rather odd and unusual things but like the broader picture of a puzzle, just fitting a few pieces together in the bottom left hand corner of "country cottage" doesn't make me a hedge. I'm a hedge, the garden, the...
    AtomicWater AtomicWater 41-45, F Jun 14, 2010

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    I Hate Those

        i hate when people make asumptions about me . about my health or my age .
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 27, 2009

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    what the hell is wrong with people some little girl idk what age 13-15 was asking if she was attractive and some men who around 40-65 were calling her "cute;) xo". Dammit you...
    TheNewWolf TheNewWolf 18-21, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I'm a nice guy for the most part, and I try to apologize when I've been an a-hole. However, I have absolutely no tolerance for those who make knee-jerk judgement calls about me...
    TheDivineParody TheDivineParody 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    O wow u call me a ****/ ***** and **** u know **** all about me ... U want me just to talk to u and nobody eles... There's something wrong with u
    Megan4321 Megan4321 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    Sometimes people make wrong choices.It is good if they can correct their mistakes on time.But they may not understand their mistake unless it is too late.Still then it is better to...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Don't you hate when someone interrupts you, ignores your commentary, doesn't even smile at your jokes, or quietly sits there judging you and making snap assumptions? Yeah, me too...
    EngulfingBreeze EngulfingBreeze 22-25, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    People always tell me im very aggressive although i don't mean to be, its just that some people give off alot of energy and it makes me act all weird
    jasmineisb0red jasmineisb0red 13-15, F 1 Response 56 mins ago

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    I really hate it when i'm with friends and they start talking about how much suicide is a stupid thing and that people who cut are not normal ones, Its really bother me because...
    Minju96 Minju96 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    I am on a Cheerleading team and a lot of the girls and guys hate me. I have never talked to them or given them a reason to hate me. I will be starting High School soon and I am so...
    RayneZ RayneZ 13-15, F Jul 29

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    So do you hate fake people or fake people who claim to be something they aren't? Hating someone is wrong. We've all lied and have done wrong things we aren't proud of. I notice...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    I dislike when people treat me like I'm stupid because I'm younger than they are or because they think my life experiences aren't important. I hate when people have condescending...
    Raindropchica Raindropchica 18-21, F Aug 10

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    I'm not as immature as to say "I hate boring people", but I want to raise some awareness and give some advice to those that do often revert to such common, generalised and...
    logix92 logix92 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    Not everyone is pretty and that is okay. I hate how people on this site lie and when I want to be honest I look like a bad guy so I keep my mouth shut. But the confidence boost and...
    laxprincess laxprincess 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I absolutely hate when people overreact, especially when they don't understand the situation completely. I was told to go on this chat app to join a group conversation my friends...
    EmmieBear EmmieBear 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I have a sister I'm law that hates me, now one thing is to hate someone,another is trying to sabotage ur sisters happiness. I feel she do it because she never had a man in her life...
    jay305 jay305 31-35, M 17 hrs ago

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    I hate entitled people- people who NEVER hesitate to ask for a favor or ask you to do something for them before they've even tried, then get angry and defensive when you give them...
    racingSnail racingSnail 31-35, F Jul 31

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    you can fool some people sometime, but u can't fool ALL people all the time.In the past, media was only with those who have power and influence, the used it to guide societies to...
    Correctionway Correctionway 31-35, M Aug 6

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    I honestly dont know how I came up with my username. I wasnt thinking about rhyming it. I just hate fake people. Fakerhater My previous username before this was BL4D3. But...
    xXxfakerhaterxXx xXxfakerhaterxXx 13-15, M Aug 8

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    Some people first tries to make friends with you,text to you then suddenly block you.What does it mean?if i told something wrong ,just let me know and do whatever you wish.but...
    nucking nucking 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 8

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    *plot twist- everybody who posts about how they hate dumb people are the dumb people*
    TheTrollinator TheTrollinator 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    I hate fake people. I want a friendship. Friendship with people not just over the internet. Life time friends like every other person. It's hard finding friends who can hang out at...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    I can't stand people who brag about things. I have this stepsister that I like and dislike at the same time. She comes to spend the night. It isn't my decision, but I consider her...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I don't know what's wrong with me at all. Maybe I love too much. Maybe not much at all. I'm sick of people treating me well for a shirt period of time and then taking me for...
    loveisblind18 loveisblind18 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    I hate when people tell me "Don't smoke'' or ''Smoking is bad for you'' You know something guys? I know that is bad!! But I like it. I love how smoking feels and believe me it...
    Dean00200 Dean00200 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    I really hate those people who are just there when they need something from you but if you need them .......... NEVER MIND!!!!
    itsmrhally itsmrhally 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 4

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