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I Hate the Navy

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    Part of me loved it and part of me hated it.

    Overall, the Navy has made me a better person. Although I wish I stayed in for the retirement, I noticed that MOST (not everyone) people who stay in for many years are not the brightest bulbs in the lamp. MOST NAVY LIFERS (not all of them) are the ***holes they are, because...
    TroyGraham TroyGraham 36-40, M Jan 29

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    I joined the Navy 2 years ago

    and within those 2 years I've experienced stupidity, hypocrisy, and bullying. The Navy may have taken steps to end hazing but there's still a lot of degradation of junior sailors, who are often treated as less than human because of their lack of rank. There are many great things...
    CowgirlBebop CowgirlBebop 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    My Site

    I've been trying to find a site like this for years.  Since I haven't come across one and due to the lack of content in this one, I am currently working on one on my own.  Please visit at: http://navycrap.weebly.com/index.html
    inkinarc inkinarc 26-30 1 Response Nov 26, 2009

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    Negative Experience

    I know a lot of people are going to say if you hate the navy, then you shouldn't have joined.  But I didn't hate it to begin with.  Obviously why I would I join something I hate.  The recruiters spun all sorts of lies and told me wonderful...
    inkinarc inkinarc 26-30 15 Responses Nov 26, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    So today my husband left for his first deployment in the Navy. He'll be gone for 10 months and I am terrified. I hate the feeling of being alone. He's new to the Navy, he left...
    MrsDiebold MrsDiebold 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    Well, the title says it all. I hate when people tell me fake lies so I give them sympathy. People in school tell me bunch of lies which are super unbelievable. For example...
    jonho10 jonho10 13-15, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    Well one of my worst fears were realized. He talked to some girl in England on a webcam while he was gone. He says he doesn't know why he did it. But doing so made him feel so bad...
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F Sep 5

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    My sailor and I were always long distance, even before he went into the Navy. So seeing him a little bit at a time is normal in our relationship. We made it through bootcamp like...
    shelbilynn1 shelbilynn1 18-21 1 Response Sep 2

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    I don't know why but I think this letter has hit me the most out of all of them! I can't wait for my sailor to be done bootcamp. I've heard the quote "shoot for the moon but even...
    brianne2015 brianne2015 16-17, F Sep 5

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    anyone have advice? he seems so unmotivated when talking about the Navy/A school with him. any other topic is okay, but when I bring up school and how it's going he gets annoyed...
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    I hate comparing things to how they were before he left for boot camp and the Navy in general. The days I got to see him whenever I wanted to. And talk to him. And just be in...
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 3 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I guess I'm more of a Navy "fiancee" if there is such a thing. My fiancee and I met earlier this year. Neither of us had planned on a relationship, as he has been planning on going...
    dragonsbear92 dragonsbear92 22-25, F Aug 22

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    I go to MEPS In a day to pick out my job and get sworn in. My issue with the navy is the way they do their jobs. It sucks that I won't know my options until I get there. The Army...
    nottheaveragegirl nottheaveragegirl 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I really don't appreciate the people who have nothing but bad things to say about me and him because we are interracial... We are happy... Why does our skin color matter? I hate it...
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend of four years just left for boot camp two days ago. We have the perfect relationship and I couldn't be happier. I don't really know anything about the navy so I'm lost...
    taylorsmith4012 taylorsmith4012 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    Ok so I'm new to being a Navy girlfriend. It is sooo cool to see that I'm not the only one going through the woes of missing my sailor. I never ever thought I'd be seriously dating...
    Toya717 Toya717 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Hi I just need some advice and people to talk to. I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he joined the Navy in June he has since graduated from boot camp. He is now in...
    jazzy1858 jazzy1858 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    The craziest thing happened today! I was on Instagram looking at Navy Support page and found that me and another girl and our sailors share the same graduation date! So surprised...
    irefusetosink23 irefusetosink23 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 2

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    I'm going to the Navy Ball in a little over a month with him! I can't wait! I'm already looking at dresses. I love him so, so much, I can't wait to be a Navy wife!
    rrobinson7437 rrobinson7437 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    I moved from London to Leeds a few months ago and I hate it I cant leave the house I don't know anyone, I would rather die than be here my mum promised it will be different but in...
    submissivegirl666 submissivegirl666 16-17, F 3 hrs ago

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    Every relationship I have been in my birthday has either been forgotten or my favorite stunt my current husband pulls is he pretends that he's going to make this grand gesture...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    I do not hate her. I'm at the point where I've accepted that I've allowed her behaviour to continue without setting clear boundaries. I've done this to balance other family...
    notbuyingintoit1 notbuyingintoit1 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I hate that people say that people only do suicide or cut themselves because they want attention. Maybe they need that attention to feel loved and needed in this hell hole we call...
    liveandloveat21 liveandloveat21 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    sitting in class so ******* board nothing to do in this dam school i hate it so much
    bloodstream11 bloodstream11 18-21, M 47 mins ago

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    Slightly too soon... But my man comes back right before Halloween! It's my favorite holiday! He says whatever I want, but I don't want him to hate it either. I was thinking we...
    ananchor ananchor 22-25, F Aug 28

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    I hate being alone long enough with my thoughts to even think about it. Because I know I’m still not even close to being "over" it. I've been trying to avoid my feelings but the...
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F Aug 28

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    Today was the day we were supposed to donate blood so we could get a picture of my sailors division. Both his friends bailed on me the last minute and my mom was told she couldn't...
    Navygirl24 Navygirl24 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    As I read these posts this morning I realized how proud I am of my Sailor (I didn't know it was possible to be even more proud then I already was). I am so glad to be with him...
    Navygirl24 Navygirl24 18-21, F Sep 11

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    I hate finding my phone and seeing I missed his call :( said he'd call later this week. Just worried I'll miss it again since I'm so busy... At least graduation is Friday!
    FMP08 FMP08 18-21, F 17 hrs ago

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    Anyone dating a Navy Nuke??? Just wondering :)
    Gabby161 Gabby161 18-21, F Aug 22

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    Congrats to those Navy Sailors graduating today!
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F Aug 22

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    So many commercials about the military and they keep showing the Navy one and I am just getting so happy knowing that my boyfriend will officially be a sailor in 20 days<3
    krazykathy24 krazykathy24 18-21, F Aug 23

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    Just got to talk to him for 30 minutes:) He's officially a United States Navy Sailor!!!!! I'm so proud and so excited to see him next Friday:)
    CayleighQ CayleighQ 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    Is there anyone who is a navy wife or girlfriend and their sailor is a AD (Aviation machinist mate), how is the lifestyle. How is trying to start a family like? Did you have...
    AmandaFB AmandaFB 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 31

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    Guess where I am?! Navy Lodge in Waukegan! :)
    brianaduran brianaduran 16-17, F Sep 3

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    14 days left so close to single digits! I am not able to attend but I will watch the live streaming and will be wearing my navy girl friend shirt to school to show how proud I am...
    tetznavygirl tetznavygirl 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    Any girls staying at the Navy Lodge?
    brianaduran brianaduran 16-17, F Sep 4

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    My BF just left last week to go to boot camp. I'm a mess, I miss him so much. This is one of the hardest things I have ever had to do. I don't know any of the Navy terms????
    navyGF80 navyGF80 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    I started dating my guy back in June and we were just having fun with getting to know each other. I knew he was enlisting in the Navy and I was so proud of him for it. I saw him...
    Linzm27 Linzm27 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I remember asking myself how would I prove to my sailor I can do this? That I can handle a military relationship. I was fully aware when I said yes to him that he was going into...
    xohannahxox xohannahxox 18-21, F a week ago

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    My boyfriend is currently a United States Marine in the reserves but is thinking of doing the Engineering Program for the NAVY. He would have to go to OCS and being active duty...
    luisaacosta luisaacosta 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    So my sailor and I were talking today and he invited me to the navy ball which I didn't know he wanted to go but he said it sounds like fun and really wants me to go so now I have...
    krazykathy24 krazykathy24 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Todays the day i get to see my sailor living his dream of graduating Navy Boot camp. Im so excited to see him!! Only a few more hours!
    Brookeifer Brookeifer 18-21, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Thanks, Taylor. That sounds like a great idea! "Shake It Off" "I stay out too late Got nothing in my brain That's what people say, mmm-mmm That's what people say, mmm-mmm I go on...
    Aimee17 Aimee17 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    Today has started badly. I hate the sound of the dog, downstairs, scratching the back off the kitchen door, but that is my wake up alarm this morning. I hate the fact that he...
    Heellover Heellover 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 29

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    No joke... I hate my school, I hate my teachers, I hate the students! I hate my family! I hate my ****** up lungs I hate my brain! I hate everyone who bully's me I hate the...
    Chocolate29 Chocolate29 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I hate the fact that you've had sex with 4 girls and one of those girls had sex with 15 other people. I hate the fact that you smoke that stupid e cigarette. I hate the fact that...
    ADayToRememberForever ADayToRememberForever 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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