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I Hate the Victim Mentality In This Country

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    Actually I Hate the No Victim Mentality

    I HATE the idea that we peach to everyone get an education work hard you'll go far then accuse people who do those things and want what they were told they would get  of having entitlement issues. Who get mad at people who do those things and then think they...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 10 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    It's Everywhere.

    No one wants anyone to think for themselves, have any talent, or be better than anyone else. It's just, "Shut up, stay still, and get your work done!" They don't want to hear opinions, be questioned, or talked back to. It is how it is, and you have to deal with it or be a hobo. I...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2011

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    When Will It Stop

    Our country has become one of entitlement.  So many feel they are owed somthing from the government, their parents, their friends, their job and anything else.  This way of thinking is running our country into the ground.  Where did this mindset come from? I was...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    Actually I Don't Hate It, But It Saddens Me

    I think it may be safe to assume that a lot of people confuse the meanings of victim and martyr. Which is real easy to do, because there's some crossover. I will never hate true victims, because they have no idea that their victims in the first place. They don't know what's...
    Ariella Ariella 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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    Take Responsiblility Of Your Life:

    I should admit I've fooled myself often by blaming my surroundings etc for my inability to achieve certain things but my real growth started when I admitted it is "me" who is responsible for everything that happens to me. And it has changed my life tremendously. Once...
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2008

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    How True

    It bothers me when people refuse to take responsibility for something and look around to see who they can blame for the problem.  Then in a lot of cases, let's sue because I am not going admit it was my fault.  People have to be taught to be victims. ...
    rhettbuttler69 rhettbuttler69 61-65, M 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Remember When Taylor Swift Was The Victim? In many of her hits, she was the victim in her relationships. Nobody said anything about it at first. Then she went through so many...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F Jul 23

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    7-11, Brumbys, KFC, Supercheap Auto, etc... Do you know Australia is the most franchised country in the world? Doesn't it says anything about the mentality here? Yes, it does...
    pulsar78 pulsar78 31-35, M 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    It just makes me sick that these ******* animals think the worst thing that could happen to someone is something to be proud of, or doesn't matter... Like that news story about the...
    TheDivineParody TheDivineParody 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 27

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    I thought I would share with you an article about a traveler in Australia. The following is his last blog entry before he left Australia to continue its trip in SE Asia : On the...
    pulsar78 pulsar78 31-35, M 5 Responses Aug 6

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    This happened to me two or three years ago. It was my first time experiencing discrimination. I was eating with my mother and brother, who was at that time only around the age of...
    chuacarielle chuacarielle 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 12

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    I mean why does everything especially American politics and people have this mentality
    Incognito666 Incognito666 18-21, M a week ago

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    Very violently raped when I was 15-16, beaten by two different ex's at 22 and 30. 41 years old now and haven't felt like a victim for several years now. People are always against...
    Polly73 Polly73 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Australians will block you out and ignore you if they do not like what you are saying. Just like a childish brat that is being told something it does not want to hear, the Ozstray...
    Spankerr Spankerr 51-55 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    The problem for me is this: In general, women care for men & children, whether we know them or not. But it is generally accepted that women & children should feel unsafe in the...
    ChattyCathy80 ChattyCathy80 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Are there even any humans in the world today? I have always thought it is empathy that makes people humane, relating to each other; an inherent trait, as we as homo-sapiens are...
    Skullix Skullix 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 13

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    i never imagined that there ll be a day when i ll say those words "i hate my country " my country had a great history of peaceful and powerful people , they unified nations and...
    Moonthesolitary Moonthesolitary 22-25, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Dishonesty is the coin of trade in Australia. (http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Hate-Living-In-Australia/3683004). If you are selling a car or a house or whatever you are...
    joseerickson joseerickson 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I just loooooove listening to country music it's my favorite thing in the world, but everyone I know hates country music! Well guess what!! country music hates u too haters loool
    flawlessgardenia flawlessgardenia 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I hate the people who said it was okay, it wasn't my fault, and allowed me to be victimized. I hate the people who told me that it was okay that I have depression. Because...
    YesterdayIsOver YesterdayIsOver 13-15, F Aug 9

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    My bf who I love very much Is mentality disable So are many ppl in my family
    1Miserablemind 1Miserablemind 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    And yet it happened 'cause I'm always late and she had, had enough. So I understand why she's angry. But at the moment this is my mentality. Next to my depression and insomnia it...
    Sourminds Sourminds 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    For years and years i have taken her abuse, hitting me, sometimes so hard she knocked the wind out of me , biting me, insulting me, and dominating me although i'm a year older. In...
    Idonthaveanameanymore Idonthaveanameanymore 18-21, F Aug 3

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    It's the media's fault we have a problem with body image. It's the media's fault there's still an "us and them" mentality. It's the media's fault that we measure success in careers...
    emiveritas emiveritas 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 6

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    My step brother Drew is physically and mentally disabled. He has the mentality of a 7 year old on good days, but on bad days it's that of 2 or 3 year old. He's my buddy and I have...
    WigginsEP WigginsEP 26-30, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Now is the time for plain speaking. It’s time to call a spade a spade. Or, in this case, it’s time to call an Elf an Elf. Oh, we’ve danced around the issue and called them...
    TheDaken TheDaken 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I hate my job. Yesterday my boss told me that I wouldn't be working again until next Thursday, I told my co-worker this when she came in for the afternoon. I'm not trained to do...
    misspaperwait misspaperwait 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    no one ever want's to talk unless they need something, i hate being alone.
    jos951 jos951 18-21, M 48 mins ago

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    Aaaah! My job seriously sucks sometimes! Ok I don't actually hate my job all the time, just sometimes. I am working in a big supermarket at the moment in the customer service...
    Spongelucyroundpants Spongelucyroundpants 18-21, F 34 mins ago

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    my adopted mom abused my little brother, my adopted sister told me she would turn me and my bio mom into the police, my adopted brother turned me in the next morning... my little...
    Abby97 Abby97 16-17, F 1 Response 25 mins ago

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    If you want to go through hell, get trapped in my body...if you want to know what the truth to being ugly, then don't be surprised to see me in the mirror instead of yourself...if...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 25

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    That egotistical trash that doesn't care about anything except himself and money. Hell, when me and mom had a car accident the first thing he did was check on the car and yell at...
    Shenron1 Shenron1 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 31

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    I wish I could - "go home", I mean. *Like some days, I would just about sell the eyes out of my head to be able to get the hell out of here, and go back to the US. ( My husband...
    JusDifferent JusDifferent 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 1

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    This answer doesn't make any sense. It just shows how this person is just brainwashed and arrogant, and completely biased in the perception of Australia, citing Australia as a far...
    pulsar78 pulsar78 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 26

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    Beware of marrying NRI/ABCD grooms! Indian girls, please research and know whom you are marrying or you may end up getting beaten and abused. Sadly, there are many cases that has...
    Sreeme Sreeme 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I have had problems with this country since coming here in 1978 which I have kept inside of me for far too long. Now I am letting off steam. It is bloody expensive to live here...
    nonaustralian nonaustralian 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 9

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    I hate having asian parents. Why? Because they push you so hard in school and wanted a Full marks as always. They wanted me to be a doctor but I wanted to be a vet. I hate it when...
    Mitzeeeeey Mitzeeeeey 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was unfortunate enough to land myself in a house that includes not only my husband but along with my in laws, sister in law, her husband, and two kids. Everyone knows and can...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    All my life I have been judged by people. First let me explain why I was judged. My mother is the victim of Rape. I am a product of Rape. The religion she is in thought that the...
    Lilique Lilique 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Maybe not "hate" but I STRONGLY DISLIKE her! But its getting there... Is that bad? She still has a long ways to go! :( The funny thing about it all is we used to really get along...
    Story0fMyLife Story0fMyLife 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 27

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    I have to start my story about my experiences living in Australia, saying that I'm not advising anyone not to come here if you want to. Although, I had very difficult experiences...
    joseerickson joseerickson 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My name is Mackenzie aka "Kenzie" I'm 13 years of age and I am currently a victim of physical bullying & verbal. I'm a quite nice girl but there's a certain group of girls that...
    Kenzieeeeee Kenzieeeeee 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 31

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    She is the favorite child, the preferred one. I am the unwanted and unneeded one. It makes little sense to me, as I am less selfish and more giving. I try to help and I get told...
    UtopianOutlook UtopianOutlook 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I've actually said this phrase for the last two presidencies. I hate the US president. I want to be clear. I don't hate them personally. I'm sure as a person W. Bush and Obama are...
    Kaidahime Kaidahime 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Please read the whole text I just hate my life it has been this way all my life. I hate how people are so mean and shallow to me they treat me like as if i am crap or something...
    mylifeisfullofproblems mylifeisfullofproblems 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    My family bullied me all my life. My mother is a former bully. She started bullying me as i was 9. She bullied me till i was adult. Then as my sister grew into teenage years she...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F Aug 11

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    I am sitting here, and I do not know where to start. For 21 long years I have been living a lie. Thinking that what he has done to me was "normal". My heart is racing because this...
    WonderingJazmine WonderingJazmine 18-21 Aug 12

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