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I Hate the Victim Mentality In This Country

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    When Will It Stop

    Our country has become one of entitlement.  So many feel they are owed somthing from the government, their parents, their friends, their job and anything else.  This way of thinking is running our country into the ground.  Where did this mindset come from? I was...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2008

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    Take Responsiblility Of Your Life:

    I should admit I've fooled myself often by blaming my surroundings etc for my inability to achieve certain things but my real growth started when I admitted it is "me" who is responsible for everything that happens to me. And it has changed my life tremendously. Once...
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2008

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    Actually I Don't Hate It, But It Saddens Me

    I think it may be safe to assume that a lot of people confuse the meanings of victim and martyr. Which is real easy to do, because there's some crossover. I will never hate true victims, because they have no idea that their victims in the first place. They don't know what's...
    Ariella Ariella 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2009

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    It's Everywhere.

    No one wants anyone to think for themselves, have any talent, or be better than anyone else. It's just, "Shut up, stay still, and get your work done!" They don't want to hear opinions, be questioned, or talked back to. It is how it is, and you have to deal with it or be a hobo. I...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F Nov 21, 2011

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    Actually I Hate the No Victim Mentality

    I HATE the idea that we peach to everyone get an education work hard you'll go far then accuse people who do those things and want what they were told they would get  of having entitlement issues. Who get mad at people who do those things and then think they...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    How True

    It bothers me when people refuse to take responsibility for something and look around to see who they can blame for the problem.  Then in a lot of cases, let's sue because I am not going admit it was my fault.  People have to be taught to be victims. ...
    rhettbuttler69 rhettbuttler69 61-65, M 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    In my country we have had something akin to the term "hater" for many years. Here people kinda think it is something special to our culture, but id say it can be found everywhere...
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    There is one common bond of the disenchanted immigrant that contributes to this group ; none will say where they are from . The immigrants will dodge the question at any cost...
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    I had to start paying $50 a week in rent when I turned twelve. I got a job doing some serious physical labor after school and did just that. I busted my ***, God I worked so hard...
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    Was. I am so tired of living with the mentality of "I'm the victim". Don't live by that or else you will continue to be stepped on. Live with the title of "survivor" not "doormat...
    DrumheadTrial DrumheadTrial 18-21, M Apr 28

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    sbs journalist made these great truthful comments on Anzac day Australian World War I “celebration” buries history of mass anti-war opposition18 April 2015The...
    vladdyy vladdyy 31-35, M 4 Responses Apr 26

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    Feminism isn't about hating men. It isn't about women being superior. Feminism doesn't have a look or style. Wear makeup, don't wear makeup, take 3 hours to get dressed, take 3...
    behavedmisfit behavedmisfit 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Here is some of the dreadful things I experienced while being gangstalked. And yes. it does exist. This may help you if you are reading to identify with some, if not all. Also, at...
    goldenview goldenview 31-35 4 days ago

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    I just can't stand guys They don't deserve to be called 'MEN' I hate '********' who abuse women
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I absolutely HATE my job, but i am also thankful to have one. I work at the back of a butcher shop, as a cleaner/general assistant, but i work with a bunch of lazy f*ckwits...
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 1 hr ago

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    I hate that most of my friends on here never talk to me anymore... I feel empty now and useless. I'm very hurt... =(
    Daredevil1942 Daredevil1942 18-21, F 1 Response 39 mins ago

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    You Are not alone. I know how you feel and I know what it is like when those thoughts and feelings creep in. Remember, we actually don't have to believe everything we think. Due...
    mariayoga mariayoga 31-35, F 1 Response May 14

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    Here's an example why I really hate living in Australia.Read this article about a young woman refused entry in a jewelry shop in Perth because she had with her a guide dog .https...
    boganbait boganbait 46-50, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well I am the complete opposite. I was born in Australia many years ago now. I am of Lebanese background, my parents were born in a remote village in Lebanon, and came here in...
    rana3434 rana3434 36-40, F 11 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi all, this will be a very long rant. This post is meant to get my feelings out, not to hate. I would also appreciate no hate comments in return, some useful criticism/personal...
    DerpyChemist DerpyChemist 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 27

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    This boy wanted to high five me and I was like no so he got annoyed and kept trying to grab my hand and I was like "when a girl says no that means no" and he's like "well if a guy...
    mhinajb mhinajb 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 28

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    I am so glad I found this forum. I am glad I am not the only one living the Australian lie (not Australian dream). I am born and grew up in Malaysia to Chinese parents. Everybody...
    malaysianinoz malaysianinoz 26-30, M 9 Responses May 4

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    I hate how this world use slang words instead of speaking proper language. I hate how they all dirty their skin with piercings and tattoos because they think it's "cool" (which...
    Maaren Maaren 16-17, M 1 Response May 5

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    I've lived in the same small town sense I was born. I've been out of the state once. Never left the country, and I hate it. I'm miserable living here. I go to school (not every day...
    TheMonsterCookie TheMonsterCookie 16-17, M May 7

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    My ex was a pro at this. She spent our entire relationship manipulating my mental disorders and using them to abuse me (by pretending to be possessed, then cutting, beating, or...
    dontyouunderstand dontyouunderstand 18-21 1 Response May 14

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    I recently decided to cease relations with a girl I'd come to call my best friend because she did this all the time. Whenever she apologized to me for screwing up (because we're...
    cyndercrys cyndercrys 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Backpackers, thinking of a working holiday ? From 2016 the ATO is "gonna slug ya" for a whopping part of what you earn. You will be taxed on every dollar you earn. You will be...
    Spankerr Spankerr 51-55 16 Responses 2 days ago

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    Nepal , one of the most rich examples of mythological sources and the country with world's highest peak; Mt. Everest, was worst hit by a disastrous earthquake on 25th April 2015...
    Ahaanaa Ahaanaa 13-15, F 1 Response May 2

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    I have two older sisters, L 12 and M 13 years older to be exact. The oldest is terrible to deal with and I honestly think I hate her. She tried to throw our father in jail when...
    Ant20 Ant20 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    How do I know if my Dad is truly emotionally abusing me? I just feel so confused....I've hated him since I was at least 9 or 10. Truly hated him, with a cold fury. The trouble is I...
    HappyKitty18 HappyKitty18 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 30

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    I have very bad pain in my chest, I know it's because the anxiety I have, the short breath feeling that cause the pain. I really miss my home town. Do I have to wait for 10 years...
    Ami6 Ami6 41-45, F 5 Responses May 10

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    I have been here off and on for 40 years, soon as I escape the place something (family issues or the like) I am right back here. My loved ones are important to me but this place...
    paddytram paddytram 56-60, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hello! Okay I'm from the Philippines and I am a proud Filipino. I hate it when other Filipinos say something bad about our culture, so I want to answer any questions that I can...
    TheGreatRollingStone TheGreatRollingStone 18-21, M Apr 26

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    Welcome to the youth of Australia: https://www.facebook.com/Perthcityfights?fref=ts Oh and by the way this page covers only a proportion of Australian violence too, as it's only...
    silvioh silvioh 22-25, M 4 Responses May 5

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    As a victim myself since the day I entered a school, I will always stand up for the victims of bullying and cyberbullying. Even today, I still am a victim, I do fight for others...
    Kiritosteele Kiritosteele 22-25, M May 7

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    This Is the Perfect Response to Fox's Racist Theory About Michelle Obama's Time at Princeton —Inae Oh on Wed. May 13, 2015 11:07 AM PDT Over the weekend, Michelle Obama...
    padraig17325 padraig17325 56-60, M 1 Response May 13

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    I remember when country music was actually country music and not this new modern pop mixed crap. I miss the songs about olden days, hard work, and sad love songs. It almost feels...
    DreamCloud17 DreamCloud17 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    If I had the financial means I would like to get away from this country for a while. But I am not a wealthy person. I would look back and say ''suffer while your country collapses...
    nonaustralian nonaustralian 41-45, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Do I think about it too much? I hate feeling sorry for myself I hate how it drags me down everytime I have a 'semi flashback' I start to shake from the inside out. They happen...
    00Broken00 00Broken00 18-21, F May 10

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    I need help! I hate my mother in law! Any time her name is mentioned or I hear her voice I literally feel sick to my stomach! This woman has her hooks into my husband and I do not...
    pissedoff1966 pissedoff1966 46-50, F 3 Responses May 16

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    I am a 20 year old female and I am a burn survivor. My story started when I met the love of my life, my true soulmate. We started dating when I was 19 he was 22. Our relationship...
    gabryelnichole gabryelnichole 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    So since the day I start middle school everybody ignored me and I got a teacher who taunting me, accusing me and hurt my feelings. It was a women who really don't like me, or...
    Chichikun10 Chichikun10 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago