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I Hate the Victim Mentality In This Country

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    Take Responsiblility Of Your Life:

    I should admit I've fooled myself often by blaming my surroundings etc for my inability to achieve certain things but my real growth started when I admitted it is "me" who is responsible for everything that happens to me. And it has changed my life tremendously. Once...
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2008

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    It's Everywhere.

    No one wants anyone to think for themselves, have any talent, or be better than anyone else. It's just, "Shut up, stay still, and get your work done!" They don't want to hear opinions, be questioned, or talked back to. It is how it is, and you have to deal with it or be a hobo. I...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F Nov 21, 2011

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    Actually I Don't Hate It, But It Saddens Me

    I think it may be safe to assume that a lot of people confuse the meanings of victim and martyr. Which is real easy to do, because there's some crossover. I will never hate true victims, because they have no idea that their victims in the first place. They don't know what's...
    Ariella Ariella 31-35, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2009

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    How True

    It bothers me when people refuse to take responsibility for something and look around to see who they can blame for the problem.  Then in a lot of cases, let's sue because I am not going admit it was my fault.  People have to be taught to be victims. ...
    rhettbuttler69 rhettbuttler69 61-65, M 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    When Will It Stop

    Our country has become one of entitlement.  So many feel they are owed somthing from the government, their parents, their friends, their job and anything else.  This way of thinking is running our country into the ground.  Where did this mindset come from? I was...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2008

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    Actually I Hate the No Victim Mentality

    I HATE the idea that we peach to everyone get an education work hard you'll go far then accuse people who do those things and want what they were told they would get  of having entitlement issues. Who get mad at people who do those things and then think they...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    I hate it when people blame the victim. It's never the victims fault. I don't care what they were doing, where they were or how they were dressed. A crime is a crime, and whoever...
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    Looneytunes002 Looneytunes002 16-17, F Mar 19

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    My future MIL has the biggest victim complex and is the biggest hypocrite I've ever met. On top of that, she is crazy bipolar; totally normal one minute then screaming and cussing...
    SonyaHazel SonyaHazel 18-21, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Dear Switzerland, dear Swiss folksFirst of all, I love you. I grew up here. Even if I wasn’t born here, I can’t help but love you. Despite your occasional quirkiness...
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    I don't hate my parents. I'm just making this post to ask a question to those who say this. How could you say you hate your parents? I understand if they abused you and you have a...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    BrightSky502 BrightSky502 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Missdrakerss Missdrakerss 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Justbeingme14 Justbeingme14 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I don't care how pitiful I sound. There was a person who was once a good friend. We had the biggest fight for about 6 years. Over drama. I admit I did bad things, but I feel like...
    SleepyTegan SleepyTegan 18-21 2 days ago

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    I hate humans. I hate people who try to defend these species. It's like trying to defend the goodness of a virus or bacteria. All meat eaters are ****** people. Lions may rape...
    hatemonger hatemonger 22-25 Mar 25

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    I don't suffer from medical conditions or anything that would make me avoid the sun, but I absolutely hate it! We seldom get sunshine over here, and the whole country gets excited...
    lostluxray lostluxray 70+ 4 days ago

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    flife flife 13-15, F 2 hrs ago

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    nonaustralian nonaustralian 41-45, M 6 Responses Mar 28

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    Many people say hate is a strong word, but when I say I hate school, I mean it. I hate it from the bottom of my heart. I hate it to the core. Today was my first day back to school...
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    Give Me Back My Children!-In November 1999 I arrived back in the United States after 10 years abroad first in the Army then married. I was back for my father's funeral but I didn't...
    Cherokeebelle Cherokeebelle 41-45, F a week ago

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    PassionEarth9 PassionEarth9 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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