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I Hate the Victim Mentality In This Country

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 88 People

    Actually I Hate the No Victim Mentality

    I HATE the idea that we peach to everyone get an education work hard you'll go far then accuse people who do those things and want what they were told they would get  of having entitlement issues. Who get mad at people who do those things and then think they...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 9 Responses Dec 11, 2008

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    It's Everywhere.

    No one wants anyone to think for themselves, have any talent, or be better than anyone else. It's just, "Shut up, stay still, and get your work done!" They don't want to hear opinions, be questioned, or talked back to. It is how it is, and you have to deal with it or be a hobo. I...
    Angelwings7 Angelwings7 13-15, F Nov 21, 2011

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    Take Responsiblility Of Your Life:

    I should admit I've fooled myself often by blaming my surroundings etc for my inability to achieve certain things but my real growth started when I admitted it is "me" who is responsible for everything that happens to me. And it has changed my life tremendously. Once...
    tenderfoot1 tenderfoot1 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 18, 2008

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    When Will It Stop

    Our country has become one of entitlement.  So many feel they are owed somthing from the government, their parents, their friends, their job and anything else.  This way of thinking is running our country into the ground.  Where did this mindset come from? I was...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 11, 2008

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    Actually I Don't Hate It, But It Saddens Me

    I think it may be safe to assume that a lot of people confuse the meanings of victim and martyr. Which is real easy to do, because there's some crossover. I will never hate true victims, because they have no idea that their victims in the first place. They don't know what's...
    Ariella Ariella 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 22, 2009

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    How True

    It bothers me when people refuse to take responsibility for something and look around to see who they can blame for the problem.  Then in a lot of cases, let's sue because I am not going admit it was my fault.  People have to be taught to be victims. ...
    rhettbuttler69 rhettbuttler69 61-65, M 1 Response May 8, 2009

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    I have always been really close with this guy (lets name him S) who is my best friends brother (sucks). When I was about 8 years old my mom moved to a different country and i had...
    ilovecookiesalways ilovecookiesalways 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    Intolerance, bigotry and racism are all signs of low intelligence and this entire thread is nothing more than a festival of hate. As an educated white Australian from a privileged...
    EmperorJulian EmperorJulian 46-50, M 5 Responses Nov 9

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    From The Guardian 28th October 2014 The Tower of London poppies are fake, trite and inward-looking – a Ukip-style memorial Four million people will flock to see the 888,246...
    sogdianrock sogdianrock 51-55, M Oct 28

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    My wife developed OCD while pregnant with our first child. Before this illness we were amazing. When we first got together we didn't label what we had, we decided that we would...
    Aguy79 Aguy79 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Check out this nutty chick in the link. Who do you think is responsible for this type of stupidity, and looney mentality? I have my opinion but I'm interested in yours for now...
    fnformetoo fnformetoo 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 27

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    I have always been told to be grateful for my life. And I am grateful for where I am today. However I hate using the term to diminsh the pain one feels after being done wrong. I...
    loudsilence1 loudsilence1 26-30, F Oct 26

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    I searched everywhere online to find a place to vent my story. I hope I finally found it. I am a victim of domestic violence. I wish I could could replace the word "victim" with...
    imsolost14 imsolost14 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 8

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    I'm 16, and have been living with my mother and my boyfriend and his dad for about a year and a half now.But, for the most part, just know I'm safe and okay besides all this. My...
    Tarahkins Tarahkins 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I hate country music with a passion, it's always about beer and trucks, I love old country, like Johnny cash and the other OLD ones, just not modern country.. It's stupid
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 4 Responses Oct 26

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    Anyone who's living in west and still hating it is ungrateful. let me tell you what ****** country means, I hate my country so much, I'm sure it's probably the worst country ever...
    despair1 despair1 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 30

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    Reading some of the posts on this topic really makes my blood boil. The arrogance, ignorance, prejudice and bigotry is disgusting. Stereotypes and sweeping generalisations are...
    EmperorJulian EmperorJulian 46-50, M 8 Responses Nov 7

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    Australia 2015. 1. The most "Over Priced" country in the World. If the general cost of living (especially Real Estate) is taken into account, and if the overall wages and...
    sickness18 sickness18 56-60, M 5 Responses Nov 5

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    I come from a very broken family. My mother tortures my dad physically, hits him with knifes and bricks and my father is too scared to retaliate or even argue back. My sister is...
    faketure faketure 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27

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    A mind that is nor narrow nor shallow, the power of being objective, innocent until proven guilty, self-esteem. All these are abilities a person has to develop in his life. Me, I...
    biancabirsan1994 biancabirsan1994 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 29

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    I am a 41 year old male whom has been a victim of emotional abuse to a sometimes extreme and severe level for almost 23 years with the slow but effective transition up until today...
    emotionally114 emotionally114 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 10

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    Isn't it weird to fundamentally dislike and feel hugely disconnected from someone from the same genetic pool? My sister has always loved tormenting people and animals, to the point...
    cantos cantos 31-35, F Nov 11

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    This is yet another proof of how vile the Australia mentality really is. https://au.news.yahoo.com/nsw/a/25563673/man-charged-over-attack-on-86-year-old/ Absolutely shocking and...
    MRR007 MRR007 22-25, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I grew up with a lot of abuse in general, and there are so many consequences that I had to work through in order to come out above the ‘programming’ of the mind, which often...
    phoenix66 phoenix66 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 24

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    One thing that really breeds racism is politics as nearly every right wing politician is obsessed with the amount of people with brown skin living in the same county as them. These...
    SomeBloke616 SomeBloke616 16-17, M 2 Responses Oct 30

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    We live in a country with many problems that the government whether state or federal seems less to care in solving (and yes other countries have problems too.)Poverty here is...
    nonaustralian nonaustralian 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 31

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    Victim of your typical sibling rivalry which parents failed to acknowledge. Ingrained so deep in the subconsciousness that it was not consciously intended but still even inch...
    Thu3be1in4 Thu3be1in4 26-30, F Nov 4

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    I honestly believe my mother hates me...I've actually always felt it. I remember the first time I really realized it. I was about 4 or 5 yrs old, I was just waking up from some...
    HelenBak HelenBak 46-50, F Nov 9

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    Anglo-Australians! I don't have to agree with your way of thinking, and your way of looking at "Living in Australia". You have not suffered anywhere near as much as I have...
    sickness18 sickness18 56-60, M 1 Response Nov 12

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    So here's my story. I really would appreciate positive reinforcement after what I share with you because it is everything I am and have done so I take it very seriously. I am proud...
    Bpants10 Bpants10 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    A while ago, at my beginning on this site I wrote I don´t really hate her. This word will always be too heavy for me. And this is the best revenge I can make: I love. I don´t...
    stellera stellera 51-55, F 4 Responses Oct 25

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    He says that he is stressed. So that gives him te right to treat and talk to me like I am a no good junk yard dog. Then he has the gall to send me an sms asking me what my problem...
    Christa44 Christa44 41-45, F 2 Responses Oct 30

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    i'm hurting. his words are vicious, cruel, disgusting, and couldn't be farther from the truth. yet i give in to his bs and swallow it. absorb it. in the same sentence he will...
    mermaid81 mermaid81 31-35, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate it i hate it i hate it. In history class we have to bring in food from the country we were assigned and this girl brought sushi and bleh it tasted worse than the last time i...
    AngelWithASecret2 AngelWithASecret2 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 4

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    I feel very uncomfortable sharing. I hate my body, and I hate myself because I'm unwilling to change it. I know that if I lost weight I'd find something new to hate, but I also...
    gwya gwya 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    Hate it, hate it, hate it. With. A. Passion.
    astrokitty4341 astrokitty4341 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    I've probably said this to 20 people on here. But its worth repeating: The source of all unhappiness is having expectation. Expectations exist solely in your mind. They are a...
    hmmhmmhmm hmmhmmhmm 26-30 3 days ago

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    Lady Antebellum is the only modern country artist I can tolerate
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 41-45 Nov 2

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    If I could start my life again I wished I never came to this country. Never! I would have gone to Cyprus or Russia or stayed in my homeland Italy . I have never felt welcome here...
    nonaustralian nonaustralian 41-45, M 3 Responses Nov 2

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    Pure curiosity. I couldn't find any similar group for another country. Can you let me know if you did. Or is Australia the only wrong country on Earth?
    pulsar78 pulsar78 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 5

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    Living in Australia and having to deal with the filth you meet on a daily basis is really hard. I know I am here as well. I have learnt to cope with it by simply treating them like...
    4019775s 4019775s 36-40 1 Response Nov 9

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    I say this all the time, and I get the same damn reply each time. "Then why don't you move?" Me leaving the country won't stop the millions of people oppressed by the government...
    andrewh252 andrewh252 18-21, M Nov 11

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    Which is the worst country in the "World"? Australia. Which is the ugliest country in landscape in the "World"? Australia. Who are the most evil people in the "World...
    sickness18 sickness18 56-60, M 2 Responses Nov 11

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    There are people overseas that think of Australia as an attractive country for migration. These people appear on this forum and express a desire to live in Australia. Now do not...
    sickness18 sickness18 56-60, M 4 Responses Nov 15

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    I'd rather hear gospel and I'm not even religious. I've tried getting into country, but that was just for women. Not for me.
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M 6 days ago

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