I Hate the Word Lesbian

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    It'S Attached To So Much Hate...

    I've had bad experiences in the past that I shan't delve into, but can't we have a nicer word than lesbian? Idk what though... Lady kisser? Girl lover? Any ideas anyone?
    EloiseBlaze EloiseBlaze
    18-21, F
    Oct 12, 2013


    I'm bisexual, but still hate the word. People have labelled me as 'lesbian' in the past and I've had to deal with homophobes and bullies. Even the word itself is stupid-sounding. From the island of Lesbos, what the hell. If anything, I prefer the term 'gay'.
    lntel lntel
    Mar 10, 2012

    I'm A Lesbian, And Yet I Hate The Word...

    No... it's not an issue of self-loathing.  Trust me, I am happy being who I am.  I'm happy being gay.  That's right, I said gay.  I'm not sure what it is about the word "lesbian" that causes me to cringe and have general feelings of discomfort.  Perhaps...
    lexxij lexxij
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Mar 14, 2010
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