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I Hate to Cry

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 224 People

    LonelyRollingStar LonelyRollingStar 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    I can't cry even when I'm sad I can cry

    if it was an objective but not for emotional reasons
    Youngnerd Youngnerd 16-17, M Oct 4, 2014

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    I hate the feeling of being lonely.

    I don't like to cry in front of people or let people know I'm hurt. I hate knowing I can cry and I hate the feeling that makes it happen.
    herealways2017 herealways2017 13-15, F Oct 5, 2014

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    Worst Thing Imaginable

    ok so this is how i see the crying idea. its so stupid. i mean i hate to cry i really do. i think it shows a sign of weakness. and personally me i dont like to. i mean i try not to cry at times but i cant help it. i hate to cry. i hate the feeling when i cry. i hate the physical...
    amyxsmashxhearts amyxsmashxhearts 13-15, F May 19, 2012

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    Always Crying

    Im crying so much lately. All it takes is a sentence or word that touches me ina good or bad way. I try and forget it but i spend hours crying in my room. Its like today (2nd of december 2012) i was crying so much because my foster dad was lecturing me about my future and other...
    KaisonWolf KaisonWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2012

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    But I'm just so damn sensitive

    when it comes to sad movies and stories. I just tear up an start balling.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2014

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    I feel too weak when I cry.

    Whether or not that is the case it's my emotions.
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F Sep 12, 2009

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    Everything seems hard

    for me right now. Someone saying s.hit about to me, is f.ucking bull s.hit. I can't handle all this stress. when I get really stressed out I tend to shake like hell.. . I don't know where to begin anymore... I'm just trying to keep myself together and not cry... I hate f.ucking...
    MysataMota MysataMota 16-17, F Apr 3, 2014

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    Depends what type of tears.

    Sure, we've heard of happy tears and the tears of sorrow. To me, tears are types of emotions. There are happy tears as said before, which is happiness. And sad tears, which are sadness. I'd like my happy tears to be concealed within me, so I can stay happy. But, there is nothing...
    AsCaLuMi AsCaLuMi 18-21 Oct 4, 2014

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    redfoxylady18 redfoxylady18 18-21, F Aug 23, 2014

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    LAsuperstar LAsuperstar 70+, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    Honestly I think everyone hates crying.

    If you are a person that likes to cry then wow you are the first person I know that likes to cry. For me crying just makes me feel weak and useless it just tears me apart. I loose all control and don't know what to do with myself. Grr crying is so depressing
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F Oct 3, 2014

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    I don't wanna go back to school,

    it brings back the memories of me and my bf.......... I am an emotional wreck.
    lutcal lutcal 18-21 Jul 8, 2014

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    It's not that I really hate to cry it's just I

    can't cry I haven't cried for years my girlfriend thinks I'm broken but I really can't cry
    Jazke Jazke 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 4, 2014

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    I just want to cry, but feel crying is me being

    weak. I am so impressed with people who can cry. I have to be strong all the time, hold others up, but it gets tiring, and I must still go forward. not letting anyone know I just want to die, or leave forever.
    tiffsica tiffsica 41-45, F May 4

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Oct 4, 2014

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    Ogh! I Hate It!

    More like "I hate to be seen doing it". Very few of even my close friends have ever seen me cry, and only one teacher. I think it's shame-related with me. Not sure why, I've seen other people do it, I don't think less of them when they do, but this one right here typing...
    Maxine13 Maxine13 16-17, F Dec 20, 2008

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    I Do It Anyway.

    Crying. It's something I have a love-hate relationship with. I hate to do it, especially in the presence of other people. Not being able to hold back my tears makes me feel like I'm taking everything too emotionally, like I'm overreacting. But I do cry. Mostly when I'm sad or...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    When ever I'm on the verge of tears I always

    get them back in... Can't show weakness. Can't show weakness. I tell myself so each time I am about to cry I stop myself... I've gotten control over the emotional ones to the point where the tears don't even swell up it's just the tears I get from physical pain I have to work on...
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 4, 2014

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    My eyes stay puffy and red

    for a long time afterwards. It drives me crazy.
    orangeapes orangeapes 16-17, F Oct 5, 2014

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    I hate crying but I can't help it, I honestly feel so terrible and I don't actually have anyone. Sometimes I just can't help it and I break down
    EssSmith EssSmith 16-17, F 3 Responses May 3

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    I never, never cry in front of anyone, OK, well, maybe I did when I was 16 & 18 but that was then and this is now, now I just hate the thought of people seeing me at my weakest so...
    BrutallyHonest13 BrutallyHonest13 22-25, F a week ago

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    I never cry in front of people. I feel like it will make me lok weak and vulnerable. I was so angry at my mom, that i started crying telling her why. Oh my i feel so stupid now!
    wandereris wandereris 18-21 4 Responses May 4

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    In my mind crying is weakness . I don't like being weak .
    devilgirl123zombie devilgirl123zombie 16-17, F 2 Responses May 10

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    I don't even think I can cry anymore
    raebaybrown raebaybrown 22-25, F 1 Response May 12

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    ahhhh,it's too embarrassing! last night I lost control and cried in front of someone who I was really uncomfortable with in the university :-( and after that every single pesron in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 29

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    I hate it, because you always want to be that strong girl that never cries, but at the same time, you want them to notice how torn apart you are.
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Can't wait to go find a job and get out of here. I'm so tired of adjusting myself for them. I hate being good because they would only abuse me. I wanted to be numb so that I can't...
    Jordan112798 Jordan112798 16-17, F 4 Responses May 16

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    I don't like to see my loved people cry. Today lil bro was in a terrible mood while we were driving around. I asked him if there was something wrong. like a typical man he said no...
    DancesWithUnicorns DancesWithUnicorns 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I have some serious issues with my life I hate it, I hate my job, I hate where I live, I hate the fact my partner doesn't trust me, I just don't want to be here, I don't want...
    theagonyaunt theagonyaunt 31-35, F 55 mins ago

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    Rotem Cohen - to your world: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=EkU6PTqHT0s This song makes me cry :( I found it with translation to English, so you can understand the words..
    Dana1212 Dana1212 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    the only kind of underwear that I hate are male underwear. I love women's undewear
    denise51 denise51 61-65, M 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I hate state, teacher's, bosses' paternalism. With parents being paternalist is more than enough. Paternalism makes infantilised adults with no accountability for their actions.
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 41-45, M 46 mins ago

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    I cannot ever get out of this. I know I can never and will never. I hate my life. I keep crying and crying and nothing works in my life well to the point that makes me satisfactry...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response May 4

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    I'm ******* crying and it's so dumb it's my depression making me cry mixed with anxiety and it just won't stop. I hate to cry 3 of my teenage years were straight up crying I now...
    Babygirl12296 Babygirl12296 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Update to my in laws wanting to visit our home. My previous story (http://www.experienceproject.com/stories/Hate-My-Mother-In-Law/5797843#reply_7961789) occurred on Monday...
    ZolaJam ZolaJam 26-30, F 2 Responses May 8

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    Well, my second stepdad. My mom is in the process of divorcing his abusive *** right now. I hate that man. If you can even call him a man.. Hate him with all my heart. He would...
    boklenHolley7 boklenHolley7 16-17, F 5 Responses May 14

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    I'm always crying, and I'm quite proud that no one knows. It hurts to be me every moment of each day. I have always disliked myself, but in the back of my mind I assumed it would...
    chasingwaterfalls chasingwaterfalls 31-35, F 4 Responses May 9

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    Why does it feel like everyone in my family hates me my parents always seem to favour my brothers and my sister but never me I'm starting to fill unwanted because everyday I always...
    Icryeverytime Icryeverytime 13-15, M 4 days ago

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    My mother hates me ever since I was a kid. She always likes my older brother more than me and my older sister. She always treats me like a black sheep of the family, just because...
    chloe92vendetta chloe92vendetta 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ok so this is a story from yesterday I figured id share. My brothers have been so much nicer to me but if I'm with a boy it sets them off. And I know now i should steer clear of...
    Ginger1313 Ginger1313 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I guess this is a way for me to just let it all out. I probably won't hate my parents for much longer after i write this, if I'm being honest. But I need to. This isn't going to be...
    justordinarygirl2015 justordinarygirl2015 16-17, F 1 Response May 2

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    3 of my teachers blamed me for something I didn't do! So what happened was: I waved at my friend (she was washing her hands in the washroom) and I needed to go to the washroom so I...
    FunnyBunny6129 FunnyBunny6129 13-15, F 2 Responses May 12

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    I hate it when I get done crying, and then someone asks "have you been crying"? I try to hold back the tears but then I lose it and cry even more.