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I Hate to Cry

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    Honestly I think everyone hates crying.

    If you are a person that likes to cry then wow you are the first person I know that likes to cry. For me crying just makes me feel weak and useless it just tears me apart. I loose all control and don't know what to do with myself. Grr crying is so depressing
    ScarM3 ScarM3 16-17, F Oct 3, 2014

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    redfoxylady18 redfoxylady18 18-21, F Aug 23, 2014

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    Always Crying

    Im crying so much lately. All it takes is a sentence or word that touches me ina good or bad way. I try and forget it but i spend hours crying in my room. Its like today (2nd of december 2012) i was crying so much because my foster dad was lecturing me about my future and other...
    KaisonWolf KaisonWolf 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2012

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    UnfinishedStar UnfinishedStar 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    I can't cry even when I'm sad I can cry

    if it was an objective but not for emotional reasons
    Youngnerd Youngnerd 16-17, M Oct 4, 2014

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    Ogh! I Hate It!

    More like "I hate to be seen doing it". Very few of even my close friends have ever seen me cry, and only one teacher. I think it's shame-related with me. Not sure why, I've seen other people do it, I don't think less of them when they do, but this one right here typing...
    Maxine13 Maxine13 16-18, F Dec 20, 2008

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    Worst Thing Imaginable

    ok so this is how i see the crying idea. its so stupid. i mean i hate to cry i really do. i think it shows a sign of weakness. and personally me i dont like to. i mean i try not to cry at times but i cant help it. i hate to cry. i hate the feeling when i cry. i hate the physical...
    amyxsmashxhearts amyxsmashxhearts 13-15, F May 19, 2012

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    My eyes stay puffy and red

    for a long time afterwards. It drives me crazy.
    orangeapes orangeapes 16-17, F Oct 5, 2014

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    It's not that I really hate to cry it's just I

    can't cry I haven't cried for years my girlfriend thinks I'm broken but I really can't cry
    Jazke Jazke 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 4, 2014

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    LAsuperstar LAsuperstar 70+, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Oct 4, 2014

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    I don't wanna go back to school,

    it brings back the memories of me and my bf.......... I am an emotional wreck.
    lutcal lutcal 18-21 Jul 8, 2014

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    Depends what type of tears.

    Sure, we've heard of happy tears and the tears of sorrow. To me, tears are types of emotions. There are happy tears as said before, which is happiness. And sad tears, which are sadness. I'd like my happy tears to be concealed within me, so I can stay happy. But, there is nothing...
    AsCaLuMi AsCaLuMi 18-21 Oct 4, 2014

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    I hate the feeling of being lonely.

    I don't like to cry in front of people or let people know I'm hurt. I hate knowing I can cry and I hate the feeling that makes it happen.
    herealways2017 herealways2017 13-15, F Oct 5, 2014

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    I Do It Anyway.

    Crying. It's something I have a love-hate relationship with. I hate to do it, especially in the presence of other people. Not being able to hold back my tears makes me feel like I'm taking everything too emotionally, like I'm overreacting. But I do cry. Mostly when I'm sad or...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    But I'm just so damn sensitive

    when it comes to sad movies and stories. I just tear up an start balling.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 5, 2014

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    I feel too weak when I cry.

    Whether or not that is the case it's my emotions.
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F Sep 12, 2009

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    When ever I'm on the verge of tears I always

    get them back in... Can't show weakness. Can't show weakness. I tell myself so each time I am about to cry I stop myself... I've gotten control over the emotional ones to the point where the tears don't even swell up it's just the tears I get from physical pain I have to work on...
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109 13-15, M 1 Response Oct 4, 2014

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    Everything seems hard

    for me right now. Someone saying s.hit about to me, is f.ucking bull s.hit. I can't handle all this stress. when I get really stressed out I tend to shake like hell.. . I don't know where to begin anymore... I'm just trying to keep myself together and not cry... I hate f.ucking...
    MysataMota MysataMota 16-17, F Apr 3, 2014

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    I hate crying in front of anyone. I'm usually pretty good at controlling what emotions I show, but that's the one thing I find infuriatingly hard to suppress. My tactics are pretty...
    EverythingYouNeverKnew EverythingYouNeverKnew 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I no people always say crying a normal, but I cry to much, and how badly I try not to it happens. Like with my brother the other day hitting me in the stomach so hard it left me...
    dreamychan dreamychan 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I'm a stoic, so no one really knows what I'm thinking. Whenever I cry, it's because my emotions have broke loose and I couldn't hold it in. When I do cry, I'm always being called...
    BloodFanatic BloodFanatic 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 22

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    This might make me weaker than anyone, but I don't like crying in front of others because I want to be the one they can depend on. I want them to feel comfortable crying in front...
    KiNDERPiSTOL KiNDERPiSTOL 18-21, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Today at school I started crying because of something that happened yesterday. I really didn't want to but I couldn't hold it in. Then everyone started asking me what was wrong and...
    pizzaislyfe pizzaislyfe 13-15, M 20 Responses Feb 6

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    The only reason I don't like crying is because I get bad headaches afterwards.
    churchdadatnight churchdadatnight 18-21, F Feb 20

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    Everyone expects me to be happy all the time. I feel like I'm showing weakness when I cry, and shattering their image of me.
    Evanthe Evanthe 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 22

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    I'm new to suppressing my emotions, my tears. But I did cry in front of others. And it just makes me feel stupid. They don't feel the fear I feel at certain times. Thankfully, it...
    BlackRosesAmongLilies BlackRosesAmongLilies 13-15 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I just dont know wats the matter with me. I have failed, I just cant cry in front of anyone. Due to which people think that i m rude, emotionless person, but tats not true i tried...
    AAFSHA AAFSHA 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I have cried due to my past mistakes in front of my bf. Is this a bad thing?
    shazzalyly shazzalyly 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Yesterday I Had A Near Death Experience. I Was Almost Ran Over. I Get Scared Easily So I Frightened When This Happened. I Was Coming Home From School With A Friend And She Lives...
    PhoebeAoife PhoebeAoife 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 20

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    It's hard to express emotions and not carried away in the emotions. It's hard to talk to people when you are talking about something that might hurt the other person, and then in...
    redfreckledface redfreckledface 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 18

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    I was fine all day, yet as i was in bed on tumblr, I came across a love blog. And after about 10 minutes of scrolling, I found myself sobbing into my teddy bear. The reason, this...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F Feb 7

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    It feels a if your heart has just being ripped out of your chest you begin to feel emotionless as if life has just left your body you know? like a walking dead yeah you cry...
    BlueFloraKae BlueFloraKae 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 15

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    And this I dont like, Id like to be able to comfort someone who cries. I try and work with it. But can it be done?, can it help?. Please dont cry. I will do alot to avoid that...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M Feb 18

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    I literally hate my family. My YOUNGER brother pushes me around ,calls me a ***** all the time, always says im on my period, he even hits me. And im scared of him because hes...
    StephAnnonymous StephAnnonymous 18-21, F Feb 11

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    Well my mom is a mean person when she wants to be and today she well got mad at me since i had an attitude (well who doesn't hate cleaning). She said if you keep this up you will...
    adorbsruby adorbsruby 13-15, F Feb 24

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    I really don’t like living, I hate my life and I just don’t feel like if I belong in this world. My family thinks I am dumb and that I will never achieve anything in life. I...
    Miserabelle Miserabelle 16-17, F Feb 13

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    I battled depression. And I got over it by myself. No doctors, no friends, no parents. Diagnosed in 2013 knowing I had been suffering it for years, and today... in 2015 I can...
    nataliafacheux nataliafacheux 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    I hate my life so much, I really have been compensating whether or not I should kill myself, but I can never bring myself to it, like it's just thoughts; but seriously Life's...
    Krchan2 Krchan2 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    I cry because my hope doesn't die.I get angry and cry for hours.Because I see the person who makes me cry every week.It hurts so much.Coincidences never happened when I wanted,but...
    darkblue0909 darkblue0909 18-21, F Feb 14

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    I hate being insecure my confidence level goes 100-0 real quick. Nobody knows but me and only two of my friends who are twin sisters, everyday I cry myself to sleep because of how...
    Hopeisalie Hopeisalie 13-15, F Feb 22

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    I hate to see the tear slide down the slope of your nose. I hate to see your fingers play "windshield wiper" as the wipe away the quiet rain. I hate to see your shoulder shake but...
    thebladeisbae0718 thebladeisbae0718 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    Why do I hate? Simple, a rabid dog bit me. I was nine then. First time it chased me but I outrun it. One week later it caught me. A bit funny. It followed my scent all the way to...
    huttuh8 huttuh8 70+, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I really hate people seeing me cry. I feel pitied, and I just don't like it. I cry a lot in private where nobody will see me. Not even my older sister, who is my best friend.
    KimoKisahura KimoKisahura 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13