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I Hate to Cry

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    Ogh! I Hate It!

    More like "I hate to be seen doing it". Very few of even my close friends have ever seen me cry, and only one teacher. I think it's shame-related with me. Not sure why, I've seen other people do it, I don't think less of them when they do, but this one right here typing...
    Maxine13 Maxine13 16-18, F Dec 20, 2008

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    Always Crying

    Im crying so much lately. All it takes is a sentence or word that touches me ina good or bad way. I try and forget it but i spend hours crying in my room. Its like today (2nd of december 2012) i was crying so much because my foster dad was lecturing me about my future and other...
    KaisonWolf KaisonWolf 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 2, 2012

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    I feel too weak when I cry.

    Whether or not that is the case it's my emotions.
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F Sep 12, 2009

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    Worst Thing Imaginable

    ok so this is how i see the crying idea. its so stupid. i mean i hate to cry i really do. i think it shows a sign of weakness. and personally me i dont like to. i mean i try not to cry at times but i cant help it. i hate to cry. i hate the feeling when i cry. i hate the physical...
    amyxsmashxhearts amyxsmashxhearts 13-15, F May 19, 2012

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    I don't wanna go back to school,

    it brings back the memories of me and my bf.......... I am an emotional wreck.
    lutcal lutcal 18-21 Jul 8

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    I Do It Anyway.

    Crying. It's something I have a love-hate relationship with. I hate to do it, especially in the presence of other people. Not being able to hold back my tears makes me feel like I'm taking everything too emotionally, like I'm overreacting. But I do cry. Mostly when I'm sad or...
    JojaRodenaLente JojaRodenaLente 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    Everything seems hard

    for me right now. Someone saying s.hit about to me, is f.ucking bull s.hit. I can't handle all this stress. when I get really stressed out I tend to shake like hell.. . I don't know where to begin anymore... I'm just trying to keep myself together and not cry... I hate f.ucking...
    MysataMota MysataMota 16-17, F Apr 3

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    Related Experiences

    I feel so vulnerable when people see me me crying. At that moment they could say anything and it will either make me feel happy or even worse. I hate when I give people that chance...
    DontCallMeSunshine DontCallMeSunshine 18-21, F Jul 15

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    No matter how happy I am. It never lasts. I lay down at night and I think about all the days ahead of me. Days without him. It kills me to know that were apart. I miss him. Even if...
    BrokenPhoenixx BrokenPhoenixx 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    That is literally my pet peeve. I hate it so much. I just don't want people to think in weak. But I haven't cried recently so I'm all good 😊
    Everystormends Everystormends 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 30

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    It reminds me I also hurt...it also reminds me I'm weak for allowing influences in my heart. I irk at the thought of falling in love again and feeling helpless, powerless and...
    beloved03 beloved03 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I usually pretend that I'm happy so that others don't become upset or sad. I hold back my tears so that others can smile.I hate crying sometimes because I always feel so vulnerable...
    Smileeboo Smileeboo 16-17, F Jul 2

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    I'm a very sensitive person and I HATE crying not only in front of people, but even when I'm by myself. Crying in front of others makes me feel vulnerable and weak... And like...
    n0ceur n0ceur 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    When I argue with someone I cry when it gets really heated. I don't know why. Always have. I hate crying bc I feel like a baby & don't seem to have the same effect to an argument...
    Gingerl1652 Gingerl1652 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I'm a weirdo I think, and an INTJ if it helps at all. I hate crying in front of people not because being vulnerable bothers me, but because to me it's inefficient. If it's not...
    dolceharajuku dolceharajuku 26-30, F Jul 4

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    i hate this feeling, like, all the time, i can feel the tears on my eyes, but never do they come.
    TheAmazingSpiderJoe TheAmazingSpiderJoe 18-21, M 27 mins ago

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    I just feel really bummed out. I feel like i hate myself. I hate all the small things. I hate how I look. I hate how I yell back at my mom. I hate how I don't spend enough time...
    MissCheekyFaced MissCheekyFaced 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I just turned one when my parents divorced so it wasn't hard for me to get over that since I don't remember when my parents even were together. A few years later my dad met my step...
    ahk16 ahk16 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I absolutely positively HATE love "Why?" You ask? Let's go down the list Love is the most useless emotion, you can survive life without it. It can lead to heart break which can...
    LuckyGuy001 LuckyGuy001 13-15, M 55 mins ago

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    I learned from an early age that my parents didn't love me, they hated me. Don't misunderstand my parents love her daughter, they just hate every characteristic that makes me... me...
    SSLCO SSLCO 18-21, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Do you ever hate someone so much to where every single thing this person does annoys the hell out of you? Even the simplest thing like how this person breathes and how this person...
    svrrows svrrows 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    New here. I'd like some feedback on how to deal with a two faced, cruel sister in law.... Quick story here it goes in a nutshell. A few years ago my younger brother met (I'll call...
    arganoli arganoli 36-40, F Jul 2

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    And yet I am such a cry baby. The tiniest thing makes me cry. If I hurt myself I cry, if I get told off I cry, if I miss someone I cry, if I get annoyed I cry, I hate it.
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I'm new at this so um. I don't know how this will go. Sometimes, my dad can get me really upset. I DO NOT hate my dad. But I do have days I don't necessarily like him. I remember...
    anongirl4ever anongirl4ever 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I hate my parents so much. There is not one redeeming quality I can name. Let me explain a little. Firstly, my dad. He's not that bad, if you compare him to my mother, but he is...
    ICouldBeAnyone ICouldBeAnyone 31-35 Jul 19

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    Have you ever just sat and started to cry?. Because you know that no her you do will ever take away the pain. So it all started at the age of 14 I was a bit bigger than the other...
    anonymousgirl1010 anonymousgirl1010 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    i got spanked on fourth of july in front of family us kids were setting off fireworks which was really fun then i started fighting with derrick and he was being a d*** daddy and...
    Tygersilk Tygersilk 13-15, F 7 Responses Jul 6

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    It never seems to matter how hard I try. I smile when all I want to do is cry. I try not to cry because it makes me weak. I do most of the chores at my house as well as work and...
    Pinkyschwear23 Pinkyschwear23 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    Ugh my ex boyf. Who is married and has a pregnant wife Still contacts me.. And it always seems so safe bc he lives in Texas and I live in NY.. But last weekend he was up here and...
    Wallflower921 Wallflower921 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    That's right. I hate em because I have to spend a hell lot of time alone and isolated in a room. And then i don't wanna go out, see anyone or talk to anyone. I feel annoyed and I...
    themosthated themosthated 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Well I won't say names but this one guy keeps saying I'm fake and I'm probably some ugly twelve year old behind a computer screen and right now I'm dealing with him and other...
    GIRLYGIRL894 GIRLYGIRL894 26-30, F 26 Responses 2 days ago

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    I don't mind listening to your problems and talking it out. What I do mind is people who cry to get people on their side, or crying over something that they have full ability to...
    sweetiebomb sweetiebomb 22-25 5 days ago

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    I live nearby my cousins houses.. we live in a small neighbourhood consists of few houses... I hate them because they are so mean to me especially these 3 people.. they are toxic...
    Loneliness78 Loneliness78 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I don't think any girl would enjoy their periods. Surely there are some who are okay with it and accept it as a part of life, but I am definitely not one of them. Firstly, the...
    WhiteSparrow127 WhiteSparrow127 16-17, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I hate it cause then my friends freak out and don't know what to do. If its my mom then I don't mind cause she can clam me down. So I don't mind but I hate when people see me cry...
    FighterWolf FighterWolf 13-15, F Jul 1

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    It's impossible to write my story, because I know that no one will ever believe me... When you're in love, it's hard not to do anything for the person you care about... No one...
    HUMAN2BME HUMAN2BME 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    It really bugs me i hate it, but i just cant help if, it would be easier to just punch them or something but i cant i just cry
    desirejanice desirejanice 22-25, F Jul 22

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    When it gets dark and my world seems to stand still my mind races. I think of all the things I have tried not to think of during the day and there's no more distractions to get rid...
    OverusedSlogan OverusedSlogan 22-25, F a week ago

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    Brain: Hello. Me: Hi. Brain: Are you enjoying the moment? Me: Actually, yes I am! Brain: I'm glad to hear that. Allow me to relash all of your failures and tell you everything...
    kitkat923 kitkat923 13-15, F Jul 15

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    I'm fourteen years old and a freshman in highschool. I strongly dislike being black. I wish I was born white. I constantly try to mimick white people with fake hair and dying my...
    niamcmillan niamcmillan 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 5

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    I fell in love with an angel. My angel was more than anything I could ever ask for and he loves me and supports me despite that I am very damaged. I hate that I'm damaged. I spit...
    bentocoffin bentocoffin 13-15 1 Response Jul 8

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    I hate myself, absolutely hate myself. Why do I feel like this, why can't I be normal? Why can't I love myself unconditionally, even if I were to be flawed, why? Why did I have to...
    EmmaTrowwy EmmaTrowwy 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Seriously, I HATE my boyfriends dog. He got his dog from his ex, and no im not jealous of the dog or that he got it from his ex. This dog is ruining our relationship. I recently...
    kimberlyfaith21 kimberlyfaith21 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I hate pictures of me I look so weird in them I don't know I am the kind of people who has no self confidence when it comes to pictures I look at it n I hate how I look in it...
    Hiddenamoungus Hiddenamoungus 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I feel claustrophobic in my own skin. I don't want to be me anymore. I honestly don't know how people go through life "happy" because for me life is literally just hard. It's hard...
    marisolitude marisolitude 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Why? Why? Doesn't she know why? I'm struggling, hurting yet she doesn't understand, I've been sexually abused, bullied, and torn. Yet I keep smiling, keep trying to live and be...
    Annoymous2 Annoymous2 16-17 1 Response 2 days ago

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    There's nothing I can do about it. Getting over it won't make me not hate it. I hate being questioned about my gender. I hate mirrors. I just. Ugh. I can't even type with how upset...
    MissBlackrose MissBlackrose 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    I absolutely hate my family and it is not because I am a spoiled brat or am ungrateful, it is because they have mistreated me so bad throughout my life that I can no longer put up...
    rosesrthebest rosesrthebest 18-21, F 4 Responses