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I Hate To Hurt Anyone

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    I'd Rather Take It

    I'd rather take pain than give it. I don't really give a damn if it makes people think that I am weak. I hate the thought of hurting someone.Now if someone tries to cause me pain on purpose, that's another matter. I can cause pain in self defense, or in the defense of some one...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Oct 18, 2012

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    I Am Sorry!

    I say that alot. I always do that because I feel like the slightest thing I say could offend someone. My friends say that I apologize way too much and that it is not necessary. I suppose it is out of habit. One time I was at Wal-Mart on a really busy day and a lady was turning...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 8, 2012

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    It amazes me how i never judge on anyone or do hurt in real life or at ep... But the return is to rip my heart off my chest and step on and squash repeatedly for the amuse of...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    My wish when I come to EP is that we could all try to be less judgmental and hurtful towards one another; that we could cultivate a sense of conviviality and make EP a place for...
    onomatopoeiaCA onomatopoeiaCA 41-45, F 10 Responses Jun 27

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    I literally never judge :) I like to keep an open mind about everything and try to discover the other persons point of view and wonder how I would react to the situation to help...
    crazymornings crazymornings 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    These days almost everyone says try don't judge and I say that too. But if you think about it, you judge everyone all the time even without knowing it! A lot of people are still...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M Jul 9

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    Seriously? There are way too many people who are in this group and are so rude. Which shouldn't surprise me, but oh well.
    angeliqueth angeliqueth 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    Friendly chats are welcome :)
    marcosdecastro marcosdecastro 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I spent the last 11 years spending my entire life savings in a long, drawn out custody battle for my son, who I lost custody of to my ex-wife when he was two. On July 4, 2010 I...
    OneLostFather OneLostFather 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Someone told me that when you love someone, it's not about how you feel, it's choosing to feel that way. You chose to love that person even how good, bad or different he/she. You...
    Achelle07 Achelle07 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    I remember a year or two ago, you posted a status saying that if you hurt anyone, for them to like it, and maybe comment why or how you hurt them. I commented that you'd never hurt...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F Jul 3

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    My social anxiety has gotten worse. I get horrible panic attacks and sometimes I become angry ( not entirely sure why angry but it happens...) I can't even go outside without...
    CaliforniaPsycho CaliforniaPsycho 18-21, F Jul 7

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    I will either not talk to you, or be the biggest b.i.t.c.h if you hurt anyone I care about.
    mandarin125 mandarin125 13-15, F Jul 6

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    I'm in love with two guys and I'm dating both of them. I'm so in love with my first bf but he doesn't treat me like my other bf treats me I just want him to tell me I'm beautiful...
    kennyjane kennyjane 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I don't believe in hurting anyone at least not deliberately.
    booklover87 booklover87 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Quite frankly, I hate when anyone tries to touch my hair! Like yooo, you ask someone for permission before you pet their dog, so why can't you ask me permission , before you touch...
    thanamesnyaa thanamesnyaa 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I have severe depression, diagnosed. So when someone says they have depression but they just want attention and the "Awe, it's okay sweetie. You're a great person" act, it truly...
    LezzieRose LezzieRose 16-17, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Once u was abused, i tell u honestly- u will never get over it. Never. You can do a therapy , it will help you to bring all the repressed hurt out but it wouldnt make the abuse...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    Once u was abused, i tell u honestly- u will never get over it. Never. You can do a therapy , it will help you to bring all the repressed hurt out but it wouldnt make the abuse...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 hrs ago

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    We met at an event.. A year ago .. If a year ago you would've told me that today I would've been crazy in love with that man I would've laugh at you .. And on top of that, I...
    muyakaa muyakaa 18-21, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    A little story about a heartbreak... She was in love with him. He did not love her back the same way. His presence made her fall in love with him more thinking he wanted to stay...
    Zozolove Zozolove 18-21, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I'm a type of person, who is hard to fall in love , but once i do, it will be really hard for me to move on.. Well there's a guy, he treated me like a princess, every girl loves...
    CamillaMillys CamillaMillys 16-17, F 5 hrs ago

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    I thought she was a good woman....... Well that was her statement to me and claim to fame , but then again my last ex's claim to fame was that she was a faithful "never was a bad...
    nevets61 nevets61 51-55 9 hrs ago

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    I though she was so beautiful the first time I saw her. The smile on her face caught my attention immediately. So I said 'hello', and that was the beginning of something special...
    olivandermay olivandermay 22-25 4 hrs ago

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    I want my parents to respect me and treat me like a fourteen-year-old, not a 2-year-old. Backstory: I hit the teen years and my mom and I started colliding. A lot. We would fight...
    SadFacedDork SadFacedDork 16-17, F Jun 25

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    Im not sure if its true. I was hurt all my life by several people. They werent unhappy, not all of them. The biggest emotional pain i had as my ex- boss female started to be rude...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I wonder how they would feel. I know that some feel rather proud of themselves when they indulge in this activity. They strut around, head held high, chest puffed out and grinning...
    SteelPearl SteelPearl 46-50, F 7 hrs ago

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    I'm new to this experience thing. But The reason I joined is so that I could write about my feelings towards my "dad". Ever since I was little he's really been nothing more than a...
    aloflo aloflo 16-17, F a week ago

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    I'm a 16 year old boy and these past 18 months have been the worst 18 months of my life and I really want them to end. It started in the valentine school break, I was talking to...
    Bonban Bonban 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Completely I hate everything about me. Im not even me every bad thing somebody says to me, makes me want to change and I cant I cant be what everybody else wants me too and trying...
    jketdancer jketdancer 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Funny thing is , I'll hurt more if I let go than if I stay . That a sign that I'm not ready to give up ? I'm hurting myself being in love. He's my heart. Can anyone describe it...
    AliForever AliForever 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    So the past few days have been the most depressing days of my life, summer no longer feels like freedom. My mother is a very emotionally unstable ***** and I have suffered too long...
    RockNRepublic RockNRepublic 16-17, F Jun 24

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    I gave you my heart, all my love, my life, you are my all, only and everything why cant you see this hurts, why? I love you so much without you I would instantly die I swear I...
    CallmeShaneyney CallmeShaneyney 13-15, F 8 hrs ago

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    It's totally ridiculous! First of all,i want to tell you that i am a muslim girl. You see, it's totally hard to grow up to be a muslim teenage girl. First, i always hurt my mum. I...
    MyTruthLife MyTruthLife 13-15 1 Response Jun 29

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    Does my mom love my dad? Ever since I was young I felt no love attraction between them. He has hit her once before and yelled at her but he clams to love her. And you can tell he...
    LoveisBeautiful5013 LoveisBeautiful5013 18-21, F Jul 7

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    I really do hate my body. I'm not one of those kind of people who complain about the way they look and don't even try to Change it. If I could change the way my body is, I would. I...
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    It is so hard being in your 40s. Everyone has so much past baggage with divorce, kids, and financial obligations. I have been trying to move forward with a man who is getting a...
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    My Sisters ... I hate the way they are .. They would often come around when they needed sumthang from me they only came in my life when they had nuthang going on or bored they talk...
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    I am hurt by my family, they don't care about anything but religion I am hurt by religion they tell me how god will no love me if I became who I am, that I would burn in hellfire...
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F 4 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    they hurt me first. They always say the wrong things, they spit hateful words and the worst part is that they have no idea how much it hurts. They think they're being "helpful" by...
    bhabhablacksheep bhabhablacksheep 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    I have been with my husband since 1999. He has a additive personality that he thinks he is in control of. In the last 15 yrs he has been addicted to meth, cocaine, pills, alcohol...
    2012death 2012death 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    I hate seeing my friends Depressed because I don't want them to feel pain and hurt because I have felt a lot of it more than anyone can imagine
    cristina44 cristina44 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    I know I have trust issues and everything but I think it's time to share this story... Ok well at the beginning of grade 10 I met a guy we only talked through text but he goes to...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F Jul 4

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    I hate him sometimes But idk He is my twin n he has Down syndrome He is stronger than me by a lot He pulls my hair n tries to hit me He molested me n tried to rape me I haven...
    Hiddenamoungus Hiddenamoungus 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I hate being everyone's second option it makes me feel like crap and it hurts a lot. I'm not important to anyone.
    feelinghelpless4 feelinghelpless4 16-17, F 16 Responses Jul 8

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    To make a very long story short.... My parents had 5 kids and they tortured every single one. My parents had my sister and I when they were 40. I'm a twin. My siblings are about 2...
    snooze2014 snooze2014 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I hate it. I do. I don't know why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job...
    silverwolf25 silverwolf25 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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