I Hate To Hurt Anyone

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    I Am Sorry!

    I say that alot. I always do that because I feel like the slightest thing I say could offend someone. My friends say that I apologize way too much and that it is not necessary. I suppose it is out of habit. One time I was at Wal-Mart on a really busy day and a lady was turning...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 8, 2012

    I'd Rather Take It

    I'd rather take pain than give it. I don't really give a damn if it makes people think that I am weak. I hate the thought of hurting someone.Now if someone tries to cause me pain on purpose, that's another matter. I can cause pain in self defense, or in the defense of some one...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise
    36-40, T
    Oct 18, 2012

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