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I Hate To Hurt Anyone

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    I'd Rather Take It

    I'd rather take pain than give it. I don't really give a damn if it makes people think that I am weak. I hate the thought of hurting someone.Now if someone tries to cause me pain on purpose, that's another matter. I can cause pain in self defense, or in the defense of some one...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T Oct 18, 2012

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    I Am Sorry!

    I say that alot. I always do that because I feel like the slightest thing I say could offend someone. My friends say that I apologize way too much and that it is not necessary. I suppose it is out of habit. One time I was at Wal-Mart on a really busy day and a lady was turning...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 8, 2012

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    I will never judge or hurt someone cause u never know what they are going thought and because that's who they are don't ever put someone down just because they not like you or...
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    I can't wait to see what my stalker's psychologist says about me. It would be wonderful to see it posted. The verdict is in. It's my fault I have had a stalker. "I know you were...
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    Well see it depends. Everyone is saying that people are dumb over intelligence. I kinda agree with that but disagree because even the intelligent individuals are also the ones who...
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    Unintentionally. I just want to sit on the edge of a building. I've pretty much isolated myself from others. I don't want to hurt anyone anymore. I'm a disease.
    nostalgickittens nostalgickittens 16-17, F Dec 29, 2014

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    I have been married for 14 years. When I married, it was infatuation, not love. I did not know the difference then, even though I was 23 then and had been previously married...
    KINDSPIRIT76 KINDSPIRIT76 36-40, T 1 Response Jan 9

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    I don't even know were to begin..... We have been married for about 7 years and 3 of those we spent separated from each other before deciding to work it out. I soon found out I was...
    nisa890 nisa890 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    Fresh1414 Fresh1414 22-25, F 21 hrs ago

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    GoddessAirmid GoddessAirmid 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    boxgirl1987 boxgirl1987 26-30, F Jan 4

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
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    There was a charity concert in my country last night. Lots of actors, singers, artists and even writers took part in it. They called people to send two or five dollars through...
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    The title says it all. Well yeah, I really do hate myself. I've been hospitalized 3 times in the past year for suicide attempts, self-harm, and drug use. I've done so many things...
    shecancareless shecancareless 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    compassionateear compassionateear 46-50 6 hrs ago

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    I want to put with heart of mine away behind a prison wall and lock it away....it makes me feel and do such foolish things....it makes me try and please everyone and make "them...
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    I feel.. Horrible, I guess? At 14 years old, I'm too young to feel like this at all. I spend night after night awake, thinking terrible thoughts. I have never actually told anyone...
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    Ok here's my experience....prepare yourself this is gonna be a bit lengthy in details, but I'll try to make it brief. I'm not here to bash the mother but I'm beyond tired of her...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 7

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    I hate this! I can never seem to make anyone happy. There is always something I do that just hurts them and makes them hate me. You're right tho. I'm just a little ***** that...
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    Innerpoet Innerpoet 13-15 Jan 2

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    People hates me. My friends, cousins and everyone I wonder why. What did I do to deserve all this. I gave them everything I tried my best to make them smile and laugh. But they don...
    kristina45 kristina45 13-15, F 1 Response Jan 15

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    Hate is a strong word. I'm working on not hating her but in fact, loving her. When I met my husband, I was instantly attracted and won over by his vibrant personality. Also, I...
    KTQJQ KTQJQ 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 16

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    I'm 18 years old and I'm an avid Christian, but I can't help but hate my family for the things they put me through. They call me the "accident baby" in the family cause my parents...
    Lilliane19 Lilliane19 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    Hi. I'm maria. I'm 14. I think my parents hate me because i always hit my sister. And they care more about her. I know that. But whenever i get hurt, it's like they DON't CARE at...
    concha13 concha13 13-15, F Jan 16

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