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I Hate To Hurt Anyone

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    I'd Rather Take It

    I'd rather take pain than give it. I don't really give a damn if it makes people think that I am weak. I hate the thought of hurting someone.Now if someone tries to cause me pain on purpose, that's another matter. I can cause pain in self defense, or in the defense of some one...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 Oct 18, 2012

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    I Am Sorry!

    I say that alot. I always do that because I feel like the slightest thing I say could offend someone. My friends say that I apologize way too much and that it is not necessary. I suppose it is out of habit. One time I was at Wal-Mart on a really busy day and a lady was turning...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 8, 2012

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    This is a big part of who I am. I never want to hurt anyone. I've always put that before myself, always watching what I say and how I react and do things so I don't hurt others. I...
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    I literally never judge :) I like to keep an open mind about everything and try to discover the other persons point of view and wonder how I would react to the situation to help...
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    These days almost everyone says try don't judge and I say that too. But if you think about it, you judge everyone all the time even without knowing it! A lot of people are still...
    HappensForAReason HappensForAReason 13-15, M Jul 9

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    Seriously? There are way too many people who are in this group and are so rude. Which shouldn't surprise me, but oh well.
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    Friendly chats are welcome :)
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    I spent the last 11 years spending my entire life savings in a long, drawn out custody battle for my son, who I lost custody of to my ex-wife when he was two. On July 4, 2010 I...
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    Its not until very recently that i started realizing that i have done a lot of bad things to the people who cared for me. I always thought myself and never cared to listen them...
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    Someone told me that when you love someone, it's not about how you feel, it's choosing to feel that way. You chose to love that person even how good, bad or different he/she. You...
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    I remember a year or two ago, you posted a status saying that if you hurt anyone, for them to like it, and maybe comment why or how you hurt them. I commented that you'd never hurt...
    Snow1353 Snow1353 18-21, F Jul 3

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    I don't believe in hurting anyone at least not deliberately.
    booklover87 booklover87 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I hate May angels it was a catholic tradition and it hurt my feet I stopped my 5th grade year and it feels good!!!!
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    Waking up everyday hurts, just waking up is a reminder of my unhappiness and how much I hate my life. I spend most of my life trying to make the people around me happy and I get...
    NamlessBeing NamlessBeing 16-17, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I wouldn't necessarily call it "hate" but more like a strong dislike. I don't feel close to anyone in my family. I'm totally the black sheep and I wish to disown all of them and...
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    "Sticks and stones can break my bones but names can never hurt me" well, i would rather have my bones broken than my heart cut apart like this..
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    Olmed Olmed 36-40 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I know I have trust issues and everything but I think it's time to share this story... Ok well at the beginning of grade 10 I met a guy we only talked through text but he goes to...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 13-15, F Jul 4

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    I hate being everyone's second option it makes me feel like crap and it hurts a lot. I'm not important to anyone.
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    To make a very long story short.... My parents had 5 kids and they tortured every single one. My parents had my sister and I when they were 40. I'm a twin. My siblings are about 2...
    snooze2014 snooze2014 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I hate it. I do. I don't know why I do it though. I'm not a very good person. I'm really negative and I brush off anyone that offers me help on anything. I'm trying to find a job...
    silverwolf25 silverwolf25 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 12

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