I Hate Valentine's Day

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 196 People

    HypnoticFever HypnoticFever
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 16
    Jatz9 Jatz9
    26-30, M
    Feb 13, 2015

    Ugh.

    I never used to hate Valentine's Day, until this year.This Valentine's Day was the lonliest one I've ever had in my life. I was with my boyfriend of over a year. The year was hard enough for me because the previous September, he had to move across the country. Neither ...
    oobergoobergreengirl oobergoobergreengirl
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 19, 2008

    I really don't care about this Holiday

    and maybe it sounds like I'm bitter and alone.
    JakeV101 JakeV101
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 14

    I hate this day. Years ago,

    when I cared about it, I lit almost 100 white candles in my now-husband's bedroom as a surprise. He took one look and asked what I was going to do with all my stupid cheap candles, 'cause I was NOT allowed to leave them in HIS house! (I took them back to MY apartment and...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Feb 13
    BloodEpiphone BloodEpiphone
    16-17, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2015
    JARSMS JARSMS
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Feb 14, 2014

    spent the whole day trying to give my wife a

    good valentine but instead we are officially seperating. that's the breaks, the weird thing Is I feel numb about it like it's not really happening.
    desperateformywife desperateformywife
    36-40
    4 Responses Feb 14

    Even though I am happily married I hate

    when this day comes around. All my friends are discussing their plans and gifts received and I'm here with what? A possibility of dinner? He says lovely things and hugs me and kisses me but I hate that I find myself a bit materialistic. The man really doesn't seem to have a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 11, 2014

    As in every single holiday

    and even my birthday this valentines day will be no different. My husband will look at me and say" I didn't know what you wanted or even what you like. So you just go buy what you want." Really after 15 years?!
    insanemomof4 insanemomof4
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2014

    I never understood this day.

    In elementary school we had to pass out cards to all the kids. The one day anyone has any clue of my existence in class. In middle school people giving things to there other or their friends and the same in high school. I just dont get what is so special about this day. They...
    zombiefrost zombiefrost
    22-25, F
    Feb 14, 2014

    I Hate Valentine'S Day!

    Though I'm in a 2year LDR  relationship right now,I still feel bad whenever this day comes,cause it only reminds me that I am alone and that I should be with my love not here.:(
    Genie26 Genie26
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 13, 2013

    I never get anything.

    It seems like everyone gets something but me.
    Amethystgem98 Amethystgem98
    41-45, F
    Feb 8, 2015

    Why do we need a special day to tell someone we

    love them. We shouldn't have to, because you should be able to show it (without trying) the other 364 days a year.
    EnglandsPiratePrincess EnglandsPiratePrincess
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2014

    It's a Horrible Reminder

    Okei..... Let's start with the beginning. I've been feeling like a wreck last months. The thing is that my best friend has this guy she broke up with...and now they're kind of back together. Anyway....that guy is so sweet. He gives her so much attention, and has such a big...
    Rawa Rawa
    16-17, F
    Feb 14, 2008
    khadijah001 khadijah001
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 6, 2014

    I Have Always Hated Valentines Day (yes All Small Letters)

    I have hated valentines day since i was in 2nd grade. I actually liked a girl and bought a special valentine for her. When she saw that it was from me, she wadded it up and threw it away and I saw her do it. She thought that I didn't see her, but I did. Not only that, but I didn...
    imcousinjon imcousinjon
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Apr 21, 2012

    Plain jealousy; it's

    that simple. Some people just get handed everything. Money, friends, the one, and much much more. Ow well, jealousy is such a stupid emotion anyways. If only I can just launch it in a black hole and not think about it. Or I could barbecue it just because I feel like barbecue...
    BenBrown25663 BenBrown25663
    18-21, M
    Feb 14

    I'm Not Desperate..

    I'm not desperate because I'm alone. But I just hate Valentine's Day. All the phony people telling you happy V's Day. (Okay not everybody's phony.. But  there really are some people). I mean right now somebody sent me a text message wishing me a happy Valentine's Day...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 14, 2008
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Feb 14, 2015

    I've never liked Valentine's Day….

    the true definition of a hallmark holiday. Love should be something you show to someone you care about year round; not for one day in February! But being single…ugh…I hate it double so. So…here's a few ways to express myself for todayAnd finally.....
    RisenFromAshes RisenFromAshes
    36-40, M
    1 Response Feb 14, 2014

    I'm single and it does suck being single on

    valentines day but it really isn't the worst holiday. Everybody hates on this holiday and says how much it sucks cause they don't have a valentine but there are people who don't have a mom on moms day or a dad on dad's day. So stfu with that please 🙌 !!!
    Promisesarebullshit Promisesarebullshit
    18-21, F
    Feb 14, 2014

    I think it's kind of dumb.

    I understand you want a day to show who you love you love them, but shouldn't you do that everyday? What makes Valentine's Day so important? Of course these thoughts may have to do with the fact I'm single, but still. Everyone feels they need to have that a girlfriend or...
    imkristi imkristi
    16-17, F
    Feb 13, 2014

    I never loathed Valentine's Day

    as much as I do this year. I just can't wait for it to be over.
    lifeisdynamite lifeisdynamite
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 12, 2015

    I think it's just a soul burning reminder

    that people these days only love you for as much as you can do F-you Valentine's Day, F you. Sincerely, from burning pit in the bottom of my heart. F-you. s.
    SShawnO SShawnO
    41-45, M
    1 Response Feb 14, 2015

    My last name is valentine

    and every year at school people made fun of me for not having one
    dominick6 dominick6
    16-17, M
    Jan 27, 2015

    No Holiday For Singles And A Day Of Tragedy For Me

    Valentine's day is basically Singles Awareness Day - a day designed to make you feel like there's something wrong with being single. If you are involved, it's another one of those days that you are supposed to celebrate not being single. For me, V-Day is a day etched in tragedy...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Oct 7, 2009

    Can't figure out why in the world I'm dreaming

    about him. The dreams "feel" so real- always about our marriage ending though. And what's weird.. Is that HE is sad about it too (in the dream). Woke myself up by crying this morning.. When's it gonna end? What am I supposed to be learning? Freaking Valentine's Day is...
    lackluster40 lackluster40
    41-45, F
    Feb 12, 2015

    I just hate this day

    as in. Ugh!
    mabuhayka mabuhayka
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 14

    What I did in valentines day.

    ... 😍😍😍😳😍😍😍😍😞😍😍😍😍😒😣
    Nayram Nayram
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 13, 2014

    Living a lie, watching myself die Valentine's

    day used to be one of my favourite days of the year. I am an incurable romantic. I am a very demonstrative, loving, caring man. I enjoy spoiling the woman I love and making sure she knows, without even the shadow of a doubt, that she and she alone is the "sweet sovereign of my...
    zaaphod zaaphod
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Feb 13, 2014

    I'm not sure if it's just the fact I've never

    been able to connect on a romantic scale with anyone, but it's just around this time of year I feel so bad. This year isn't so bad. I've grown apart from a destructive influence in my life (which Valentine's Day only made worse) and everything is set to be great by the later...
    Ophello Ophello
    22-25, M
    Feb 3, 2014

    because I don't have a gf/bf/partner.

    if I have one, I won't hate at all lol
    darklotus01 darklotus01
    13-15, T
    Feb 14

    That's the day my mother left me,

    she never said goodbye,I was 4 with them happened.10 Years later she came back and acted like nothing ever happened.
    Genexus Genexus
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Jun 8, 2014

    I really hate Valentine's Day.

    I can't even put into words how utterly alone I feel on this day. ...It's not even a real holiday.
    HappyLittleBrook HappyLittleBrook
    18-21, F
    Feb 14, 2015

    I really don't see the appeal

    for the holiday whether I'm single or with someone. It just seems like this one day out of the year is just for couples to be annoyingly lovey dovey and for singles looking for dates to act entitled and as if they expect something extra when going out on a date and having a...
    jamie1292 jamie1292
    22-25, M
    1 Response Feb 14, 2015
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