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I Hate Verbal Abuse

for anyone verbally abused 219 People

    17 Years Of Subtle Abuse

    It has taken me 17 years to define my relationship as verbally abusive. It was so subtle...you see he didn't yell, swear or call me bad names. And he was always so logical. His criticisms of me seemed to make sense so I tried to change. For 17 years, I tried to be the woman I...
    SubtlyInjured SubtlyInjured 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2009

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    Where Shyness And Self Doubt Can Lead

    Hi all,Well I was shy in school so a wrote and married a native american guy in San Quentin Prison. He got out, we lived on his reservation...all was good the first 2 weeks then he hit me and verbally abused me. We had 2 girls and after so many beatings I can't count, a broken...
    genabeana genabeana 51-55, F Jan 7, 2010

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    So I ran away a couple of days ago,

    and they made me come back (they= police and family). They said they were gonna change and so far that's bullshit. I am leaving when I turn 17 whether they like it or not, they cannot make me stay. I am done with my mother telling me that I am a mean and ugly ***** . She says...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F Feb 18

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    I was in the hospital

    and right next to me was a guy cussing @ his GF. I mean she was sick and he just stood over her belittling her. My kids were in the room w/me. I don't even use that kind of language in front of them. I called the nurse and she came in and pulled the curtain shut as if that would...
    ForsakenedMe ForsakenedMe 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Lost.

    I don't know what to do. I have been in this relationship for 3 years, It was great at first, he was wonderful but thats how it always start right? I didn't notice that the name calling was possibly a sign of bad things to come until recently. I feel trapped like i can't do...
    wishuponastar09 wishuponastar09 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2011

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    Can Someone Help Me!!!!!??

    I have been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years now.  At first the relatonship was fun, laughing enjoying..etc...  However we would get into fights once in a while and when we got into fights there would be explosions.  I often felt that I had to lie about things, because...
    dentist101 dentist101 26-30 1 Response Dec 23, 2010

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    I'm struggling with knowing what to do

    and knowing if what I want to do is childish or not. I'm always told by my family that I'm over-emotional, naive, stubborn, being ridiculous, etc. I know that there are other people have gone through a lot worse than me and staid with their families through it all. I commend...
    hniki21 hniki21 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    Family

     I hate that some people feel like they love someone so much that it's OK that that person abuses them!!  I have a family member whose significant other is verbally and emotionally abusing her and her children. I don't care if he's drunk or not, he has no right. He...
    MadisonAgain MadisonAgain 26-30, F Feb 5, 2009

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    " You are no good" " You are just like your

    father" You're a *****" " You are a selfiish *****" " You don't belong here" On and on and on. These words, they cut through my skin until they become a second skin, a second skin I wear and think I am not good enough. Until I scream and break free. These manipulations, these...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    Need Advise

    i have a friend that is in a emotional and physical abusive relationship.... but she refuses to leave the guy makes up excuses... i don't know what to do for her anymore... need some advise...
    angelwings2786 angelwings2786 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    Dear Ol' Dad....

    im too lazy to write a story now but i just wanted to share that my dad verbally abused me for the year i lived with him, and now pretends like it didnt happen....he pretends to be a saint just because he supports me with his pocketbook. what about his heart? sometimes i...
    yoshiesque yoshiesque 18-21, F Jul 17, 2010

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    Continous Abuse

    I have been living in the same community since birth. The only time I left my hometown was to live in the South for two years, but I always felt the need to return home. Lately I feel the need to disappear! There is a self-professing witch and a group of her friends that follow...
    pamsmith56 pamsmith56 51-55 Aug 22, 2009

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    Low Class

    Any one that uses verbal abuse is low class and not very much in control of their sences. No one that has any class will use that type of language to anyone. The person is trying to be a macho man but wont look very good to anyone with any brains or gain anyones respect. If you...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Whoever made up that rhyme about “sticks and stones will break my bones but names will never hurt me” was just plain wrong! Words do hurt. People who are subjected to verbal...
    areYoureallyhere areYoureallyhere 22-25, F 3 Responses May 10

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    I think I was, anyways. Am just I being a wimp? I mean, so many people have in worse than me, why should I even complain? Please tell me what you think, because I can't even tell...
    pegpish pegpish 13-15, F 1 Response May 12

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    I left my abuser. He's now my ex. I wish he'd suffer. I'm miserable . He tried to bring me down. I think it worked. I hate this... He tried breaking me down. He always put me...
    amtired amtired 22-25, F 1 Response May 2

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    Well I got beatings when I was growing up. some were extreme. Hmmm but it's kinda the norm to beat children where I am. I stopped getting beating when I was like 16. Yup! I don't...
    legzydawly legzydawly 18-21 2 Responses May 12

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    Is this child abuse? Yesterday evening when my newly separated husband had come home, I had retreated to my room for a little while, just to try and de-stress and pick myself back...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 5 Responses May 14

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    My dad is a child abuser I have so many bruises on my legs and arms and face because of him but whenever I tell someone they don't believe me and then my dad finds out and hits me...
    butterflybaby123 butterflybaby123 13-15 6 Responses May 11

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    There really is no justice for animals who have been tortured and abused. These monsters deserve the same treatment they inflict on their helpless victims. Instead of the pain and...
    Darklady22 Darklady22 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Torturing and killing animal abusers should be legal. Why should these scumbags deserve more rights than their helpless, innocent victims? My empathy for voiceless animals far...
    Darklady22 Darklady22 31-35, F a week ago

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    I was a victim not am . he tried to tell me it was normal and I was just experiencing what happens in other peoples relationships behind closed doors . I was too sensitive , to...
    blonde10 blonde10 36-40, F 1 Response May 4

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    My dad calls me a "fat useless ungrateful brat" a lot
    Autumn02 Autumn02 13-15, F 4 Responses May 7

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    This morning is going horribly! I just got yelled at and called an ungrateful *****, then he stormed into my closet and took all my jewelry and said I didn't deserve it. I can't...
    Bellalargo Bellalargo 31-35, F 2 Responses May 8

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    my mum and dad devorced when i was seven, i used to live with my mum and now i live with my dad due to school, living with him is not as fun as it used to when i was with my mum...
    scp17 scp17 16-17, M May 13

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    The way I continue to be sane, is thanks to the adaptability of the human mind. Its my greatest friend and worst enemy. I attempted to learn how to predict my father's emotions...
    lunightandday lunightandday 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 25

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    So as one person on here learned you say to me you like young girls or any thing like that to me I will automatically bloke you
    ChloeValintina ChloeValintina 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hi I go by fruity punch on here.I would like to share personal experience that happen to me with my parents.When I was growing up I was emotionally abused and verbally abuse by my...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 May 14

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    I don't know if there is any Irish people here on experience project. I am hoping there is at least one or two that may know what to do after I explain what is going on in my life...
    naainaii naainaii 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Yesterday the brother of the man i am in love with said i 'abuse' people verbally, including him and his brother. it has upset me bcs i have been verbally abused in my lifetime a...
    hayleyusa hayleyusa 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    Yes I have an ex-boyfriend. I dated him for over two years and met my current boyfriend while I was still dating my ex. I fell in love with my current boyfriend and we started to...
    cherrypie54552 cherrypie54552 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    Couple of years ago, my father verbally abused me to start my driving theory test revision but I was busy soon my school work. I hate him, he only cares about himself. He is a...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 5 days ago

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    Today my father verbally abused me because I wouldn't sign someone's permission. As he has time that I saw plenty off, he should just sing it . Why ask me? If I am busy doing my...
    Kimhyunjoongxxx Kimhyunjoongxxx 26-30 1 Response May 2

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    Apparently she can read my ******* mind now. Oh wait, no she can't! She seems to think that she knows how i think things, and she is always wrong, not ONCE has she EVER been...
    Futuresdiary Futuresdiary 13-15, M May 9

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    Growing up I had not realized how horrible of a dad my dad is. Now that i am mature enough to know what is right and wrong I noticed how disrespectful and selfish my dad is. I can...
    dfe213 dfe213 18-21, F 1 Response May 13

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    I was physically and verbally abused as a child. I am trying to forget all the bad experiences that i had.. I'm afraid of everything. The memories of the past is like a nightmare...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 26

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    Hi I go by Fruity punch on here.I would like to share a personal story from my experience with my mother.Let me start back when I was younger for you to understand the emotional...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 1 Response May 13

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    My mother hates me ever since I was a kid. She always likes my older brother more than me and my older sister. She always treats me like a black sheep of the family, just because...
    chloe92vendetta chloe92vendetta 22-25, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Hello to All, I too share your same testimonies and I am in wonderment about it . I do not know when my abuses pasted over from harsh words to in the moment having a heart to...
    Eishes31 Eishes31 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    My so called ex used me, betrayed me, abused me again, and again after 3 years together on and off. I realised that he wasn't making real effort to stop, so I just broke our...
    Sorasai Sorasai 22-25, F 1 Response May 9

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    Have you ever had a moment where it comes back to haunt you? Have you ever had a moment where you felt hurt, and rage at the same time? Have you ever had a moment where you felt...
    genie201 genie201 31-35, F 5 Responses May 11

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    I was an abused child growing up, all done by step-fathers. I don't hold anything against my mother, since she was mistreated along with me. My first step-father abused me and my...
    Sonicblu Sonicblu 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    My daughteroy is 27 years old..She is manipulative, she is moody and very verbally abusive to me. she calls me horrible names that you just wouldn't be live she is condescending...
    mtl60 mtl60 51-55, F 1 Response 3 days ago