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I Hate Verbal Abuse

for anyone verbally abused 241 People

    Family

     I hate that some people feel like they love someone so much that it's OK that that person abuses them!!  I have a family member whose significant other is verbally and emotionally abusing her and her children. I don't care if he's drunk or not, he has no right. He...
    MadisonAgain MadisonAgain 26-30, F Feb 5, 2009

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    I'm struggling with knowing what to do

    and knowing if what I want to do is childish or not. I'm always told by my family that I'm over-emotional, naive, stubborn, being ridiculous, etc. I know that there are other people have gone through a lot worse than me and staid with their families through it all. I commend...
    hniki21 hniki21 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 24, 2015

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    Lost.

    I don't know what to do. I have been in this relationship for 3 years, It was great at first, he was wonderful but thats how it always start right? I didn't notice that the name calling was possibly a sign of bad things to come until recently. I feel trapped like i can't do...
    wishuponastar09 wishuponastar09 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2011

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    Need Advise

    i have a friend that is in a emotional and physical abusive relationship.... but she refuses to leave the guy makes up excuses... i don't know what to do for her anymore... need some advise...
    angelwings2786 angelwings2786 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    17 Years Of Subtle Abuse

    It has taken me 17 years to define my relationship as verbally abusive. It was so subtle...you see he didn't yell, swear or call me bad names. And he was always so logical. His criticisms of me seemed to make sense so I tried to change. For 17 years, I tried to be the woman I...
    SubtlyInjured SubtlyInjured 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2009

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    Can Someone Help Me!!!!!??

    I have been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years now.  At first the relatonship was fun, laughing enjoying..etc...  However we would get into fights once in a while and when we got into fights there would be explosions.  I often felt that I had to lie about things, because...
    dentist101 dentist101 26-30 1 Response Dec 23, 2010

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    Continous Abuse

    I have been living in the same community since birth. The only time I left my hometown was to live in the South for two years, but I always felt the need to return home. Lately I feel the need to disappear! There is a self-professing witch and a group of her friends that follow...
    pamsmith56 pamsmith56 51-55 Aug 22, 2009

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    Where Shyness And Self Doubt Can Lead

    Hi all,Well I was shy in school so a wrote and married a native american guy in San Quentin Prison. He got out, we lived on his reservation...all was good the first 2 weeks then he hit me and verbally abused me. We had 2 girls and after so many beatings I can't count, a broken...
    genabeana genabeana 51-55, F Jan 7, 2010

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    So I ran away a couple of days ago,

    and they made me come back (they= police and family). They said they were gonna change and so far that's bullshit. I am leaving when I turn 17 whether they like it or not, they cannot make me stay. I am done with my mother telling me that I am a mean and ugly ***** . She says...
    nomnommings nomnommings 16-17, F Feb 18, 2015

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    Low Class

    Any one that uses verbal abuse is low class and not very much in control of their sences. No one that has any class will use that type of language to anyone. The person is trying to be a macho man but wont look very good to anyone with any brains or gain anyones respect. If you...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2008

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    I was in the hospital

    and right next to me was a guy cussing @ his GF. I mean she was sick and he just stood over her belittling her. My kids were in the room w/me. I don't even use that kind of language in front of them. I called the nurse and she came in and pulled the curtain shut as if that would...
    ForsakenedMe ForsakenedMe 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 28, 2015

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    Dear Ol' Dad....

    im too lazy to write a story now but i just wanted to share that my dad verbally abused me for the year i lived with him, and now pretends like it didnt happen....he pretends to be a saint just because he supports me with his pocketbook. what about his heart? sometimes i...
    yoshiesque yoshiesque 18-21, F Jul 17, 2010

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    Otay.... So today. I wad with my grandpa,

    he's losing his mind and he's getting hard to live with annnnd..... today he got pissed cause I quit my job at my uncle's radio station, I have several different valid reasons why o quit and he's like : You're just ungrateful, what are you gonna do about money ? I won't...
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 9, 2015

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    I grew up listening to my moms bf belittle her

    and talk down to her. She would always defend herself unless she was genuinely hurt and most of the time she would pick a fight if he mentioned me and my baby brother. The first time he tried talking that **** to me I was 13. I smashed and smeared a piece of pizza into his new...
    PoptartKid13 PoptartKid13 16-17, F Oct 15, 2015

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    " You are no good" " You are just like your

    father" You're a *****" " You are a selfiish *****" " You don't belong here" On and on and on. These words, they cut through my skin until they become a second skin, a second skin I wear and think I am not good enough. Until I scream and break free. These manipulations, these...
    wingeyes wingeyes 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2015

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    Related Experiences

    while I don't hate him I don't really like him either. out of all the people I know he's the only person I genuinely can't stand. he's rude and annoying and has never respected me...
    Niceguy890 Niceguy890 26-30, M 32 mins ago

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    It's all i seem to do recently is bicker and cry because Im depressed and dont know what to do I'll be blunt n to point and try explain, I was so happy for last 6 years after years...
    1982Caroline1982 1982Caroline1982 31-35, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    What the hell when your friend become a know-it-all person? If you already had a presumption then don't bother to ask my feelings.
    Jessiemm Jessiemm 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    My whole life has been built on abuse of almost every kind but as I see it now, it was a soul forged through fire and it has made my soul strong, as strong as any metal and as...
    Spitbak Spitbak 46-50, M 1 day ago

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    https://youtu.be/ZADpco6Zn9I THIS SONG IS CALLED (THE REASON) by the band Hoobastank I would like to dedicate this song to all the animals who are suffering in the world being sent...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I was just thirteen when I started being abused by my Mum's boyfriend Pierre. A child. It went on for two years, with her collusion, even encouragement. It was ugly, scary. I know...
    Ducostrinity Ducostrinity 18-21, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I lived in a very abusive home as a child, till I was thirteen. My mother was very sick and twisted. Her scars have marked me for life, but I survived.
    loveroflife1976 loveroflife1976 36-40, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Lately, I decided to dedicate my free time to volunteer.Among other things, I'm helping children with learning disabilities. Among the large group of children, there is this shy 9...
    aloysia aloysia 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have always hated getting into verbal confrontations. I hate being yelled at and yelling.
    aaronfunn aaronfunn 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I deal with a lot of self-hatred and disgust. I'm disgusted with myself for feeling awful all the time. I'm disgusted with myself for feeling broken. My life is practically perfect...
    Hush92 Hush92 18-21, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    Im tired of being a complete fool. I always embarass myself no matter what!!! I can't do anything right!!!! I'm tired of people telling me to be more confident in myself but for...
    FemaIeWeezy FemaIeWeezy 18-21, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    unles Katy party wantin to abuse me she can
    goatsbeeshoneypots goatsbeeshoneypots 22-25, M a week ago

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    I'm sorry, but I need to get these feelings of resentment and hatred out of me before I end up doing something very foolish. I hate my mother. I just hate her. I cant stand to be...
    aaron812 aaron812 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 29

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    PSA: I'm using some rough words here. It occurred to me for the first time some 9 years ago that I was abused. I analyzed this in retrospect and this shocked me. Why did it shock...
    ramblingjules ramblingjules 26-30 1 Response Jan 27

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    Okay so I'm really nervous to do this but I've decided to tell someone whats been going on. My mom has a boyfriend whose an awful excuse for a human being. He calls my mom a...
    Fal22 Fal22 16-17, F Jan 26

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    When I was very little around the age of 4, I was molested by a man. A haunting experience that changed me and has plagued me all my life. I'm over it now for the most part, but...
    Learning1928 Learning1928 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 25

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    There was someone who I performed with years ago; for the sake of this story, I'll call him Greg. Greg and I had performed in several community theater productions. Being near him...
    PhillyAutismGuy PhillyAutismGuy 26-30, M Jan 24

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    There was someone who I performed with years ago; for the sake of this story, I'll call him Greg. Greg and I had performed in several community theater productions. Being near him...
    PhillyAutismGuy PhillyAutismGuy 26-30, M Jan 24

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    I remember an old lady who went to through my job in home care and when she saw me she told me that you are only young and you are worn out ..she said to me I was wearing out...
    Inthedark16 Inthedark16 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    i was in a relationship with a man for over 5 years. I don't know when the abuse started, everything is so blurred now. Thinking back I think I was manipulated into believing he...
    JustGotOut2016 JustGotOut2016 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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    Life is always going to be hard for me, isn't it? I wish the world loved introverts or INFPs. I wish the secret to winning everything was introvertness. But no, we have to always...
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 1 Response Jan 24

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    Another day of abuse. Yesterday my narcisstic (who only cares about him and herself) mother dearest took out the cord to the monitor. 4-5am this morning when mum and I would be...
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 46-50 1 Response Jan 23

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    I love my dad but hate him. This how i was feeling not to long ago. And i figured i should share this because it could help someone right now. So when i was younger i was...
    kim654 kim654 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    Sadly I don't even know where to start....... I have been married for a little over a year... verbal and phyiscal abuse off and on......came close to divorcing........ he's has...
    starlight1976 starlight1976 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 23

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    how could I not be against it being a victim and survivor myself or did i survive? idk i still suffer greatly from my childhood past in fact i relive it everyday i can't stop...
    Abbenburnner Abbenburnner 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 22

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    I feel like a lot of people don't respect my opinion. They say that I should open my mind and change my opinion and they tell me how to feel and I shouldn't do this or that. I feel...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 21

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    My dad is just a horrible person. He has severe anger issues and a drug problem. My mom died 6 years ago, and I'm the only girl left. My 3 older brothers live by themselves. I can...
    AbFelix AbFelix 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 21