I Hate Verbal Abuse

for anyone verbally abused 231 People

    17 Years Of Subtle Abuse

    It has taken me 17 years to define my relationship as verbally abusive. It was so subtle...you see he didn't yell, swear or call me bad names. And he was always so logical. His criticisms of me seemed to make sense so I tried to change. For 17 years, I tried to be the woman I...
    SubtlyInjured SubtlyInjured
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2009

    Otay.... So today. I wad with my grandpa,

    he's losing his mind and he's getting hard to live with annnnd..... today he got pissed cause I quit my job at my uncle's radio station, I have several different valid reasons why o quit and he's like : You're just ungrateful, what are you gonna do about money ? I won't...
    RyRyOfAwesomeness RyRyOfAwesomeness
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2015


    I don't know what to do. I have been in this relationship for 3 years, It was great at first, he was wonderful but thats how it always start right? I didn't notice that the name calling was possibly a sign of bad things to come until recently. I feel trapped like i can't do...
    wishuponastar09 wishuponastar09
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2011

    I was in the hospital

    and right next to me was a guy cussing @ his GF. I mean she was sick and he just stood over her belittling her. My kids were in the room w/me. I don't even use that kind of language in front of them. I called the nurse and she came in and pulled the curtain shut as if that would...
    ForsakenedMe ForsakenedMe
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 28, 2015

    Dear Ol' Dad....

    im too lazy to write a story now but i just wanted to share that my dad verbally abused me for the year i lived with him, and now pretends like it didnt happen....he pretends to be a saint just because he supports me with his pocketbook. what about his heart? sometimes i...
    yoshiesque yoshiesque
    18-21, F
    Jul 17, 2010

    " You are no good" " You are just like your

    father" You're a *****" " You are a selfiish *****" " You don't belong here" On and on and on. These words, they cut through my skin until they become a second skin, a second skin I wear and think I am not good enough. Until I scream and break free. These manipulations, these...
    wingeyes wingeyes
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 9, 2015

    Where Shyness And Self Doubt Can Lead

    Hi all,Well I was shy in school so a wrote and married a native american guy in San Quentin Prison. He got out, we lived on his reservation...all was good the first 2 weeks then he hit me and verbally abused me. We had 2 girls and after so many beatings I can't count, a broken...
    genabeana genabeana
    51-55, F
    Jan 7, 2010

    Need Advise

    i have a friend that is in a emotional and physical abusive relationship.... but she refuses to leave the guy makes up excuses... i don't know what to do for her anymore... need some advise...
    angelwings2786 angelwings2786
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2011

    I grew up listening to my moms bf belittle her

    and talk down to her. She would always defend herself unless she was genuinely hurt and most of the time she would pick a fight if he mentioned me and my baby brother. The first time he tried talking that **** to me I was 13. I smashed and smeared a piece of pizza into his new...
    PoptartKid13 PoptartKid13
    18-21, F
    Oct 15, 2015

    Can Someone Help Me!!!!!??

    I have been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years now.  At first the relatonship was fun, laughing enjoying..etc...  However we would get into fights once in a while and when we got into fights there would be explosions.  I often felt that I had to lie about things, because...
    dentist101 dentist101
    1 Response Dec 23, 2010


     I hate that some people feel like they love someone so much that it's OK that that person abuses them!!  I have a family member whose significant other is verbally and emotionally abusing her and her children. I don't care if he's drunk or not, he has no right. He...
    MadisonAgain MadisonAgain
    26-30, F
    Feb 5, 2009

    Continous Abuse

    I have been living in the same community since birth. The only time I left my hometown was to live in the South for two years, but I always felt the need to return home. Lately I feel the need to disappear! There is a self-professing witch and a group of her friends that follow...
    pamsmith56 pamsmith56
    Aug 22, 2009

    So I ran away a couple of days ago,

    and they made me come back (they= police and family). They said they were gonna change and so far that's bullshit. I am leaving when I turn 17 whether they like it or not, they cannot make me stay. I am done with my mother telling me that I am a mean and ugly ***** . She says...
    nomnommings nomnommings
    18-21, F
    Feb 18, 2015

    Low Class

    Any one that uses verbal abuse is low class and not very much in control of their sences. No one that has any class will use that type of language to anyone. The person is trying to be a macho man but wont look very good to anyone with any brains or gain anyones respect. If you...
    61-65, F
    1 Response Dec 2, 2008

    I'm struggling with knowing what to do

    and knowing if what I want to do is childish or not. I'm always told by my family that I'm over-emotional, naive, stubborn, being ridiculous, etc. I know that there are other people have gone through a lot worse than me and staid with their families through it all. I commend...
    hniki21 hniki21
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2015
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