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I Hate Verbal Abuse

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    17 Years Of Subtle Abuse

    It has taken me 17 years to define my relationship as verbally abusive. It was so subtle...you see he didn't yell, swear or call me bad names. And he was always so logical. His criticisms of me seemed to make sense so I tried to change. For 17 years, I tried to be the woman I...
    SubtlyInjured SubtlyInjured 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 5, 2009

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    Continous Abuse

    I have been living in the same community since birth. The only time I left my hometown was to live in the South for two years, but I always felt the need to return home. Lately I feel the need to disappear! There is a self-professing witch and a group of her friends that follow...
    pamsmith56 pamsmith56 51-55 Aug 22, 2009

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    Dear Ol' Dad....

    im too lazy to write a story now but i just wanted to share that my dad verbally abused me for the year i lived with him, and now pretends like it didnt happen....he pretends to be a saint just because he supports me with his pocketbook. what about his heart? sometimes i...
    yoshiesque yoshiesque 18-21, F Jul 17, 2010

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    Lost.

    I don't know what to do. I have been in this relationship for 3 years, It was great at first, he was wonderful but thats how it always start right? I didn't notice that the name calling was possibly a sign of bad things to come until recently. I feel trapped like i can't do...
    wishuponastar09 wishuponastar09 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 19, 2011

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    Need Advise

    i have a friend that is in a emotional and physical abusive relationship.... but she refuses to leave the guy makes up excuses... i don't know what to do for her anymore... need some advise...
    angelwings2786 angelwings2786 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 9, 2011

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    Can Someone Help Me!!!!!??

    I have been in a relationship with a guy for 5 years now.  At first the relatonship was fun, laughing enjoying..etc...  However we would get into fights once in a while and when we got into fights there would be explosions.  I often felt that I had to lie about things, because...
    dentist101 dentist101 26-30 1 Response Dec 23, 2010

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    Low Class

    Any one that uses verbal abuse is low class and not very much in control of their sences. No one that has any class will use that type of language to anyone. The person is trying to be a macho man but wont look very good to anyone with any brains or gain anyones respect. If you...
    RESCUE RESCUE 61-65, F 1 Response Dec 2, 2008

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    Where Shyness And Self Doubt Can Lead

    Hi all,Well I was shy in school so a wrote and married a native american guy in San Quentin Prison. He got out, we lived on his reservation...all was good the first 2 weeks then he hit me and verbally abused me. We had 2 girls and after so many beatings I can't count, a broken...
    genabeana genabeana 51-55, F Jan 7, 2010

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    Family

     I hate that some people feel like they love someone so much that it's OK that that person abuses them!!  I have a family member whose significant other is verbally and emotionally abusing her and her children. I don't care if he's drunk or not, he has no right. He...
    MadisonAgain MadisonAgain 26-30, F Feb 5, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I'm against all abuse, but I think verbal abuse can be very damaging to a person. If someone were to hit me, I would instantly know that it was wrong. Maybe I would hit them back...
    couldbeheaven couldbeheaven 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    My mom calls me names and always say I never do anything right and that it is better if I was born a dog, is that verbal abuse or? I don't know I try not to let it et to me but I...
    lilay98 lilay98 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I am a mere shadow of the person I used to be. I was always smiling, without even trying. My happiness and confidence shone out of me. Then I got married. Ignoring all the bad...
    rainydays88 rainydays88 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    The say sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt...I think Id rather get beaten with sticks and stones because words can pierce more than a two edged sword...
    auraboreale auraboreale 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    April is Child Abuse Awareness Month (at least it is here in the USA). I've made a plan to post a status every day this month on Facebook with information about child abuse. I hate...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    U dont understand tho. And u never will. Idk what parents I'm coming home to? Jesus freaks that care about what I'm doing every second? Awesome parents? Or maybe the parents...
    sleepingolipiercedthebronx sleepingolipiercedthebronx 13-15, F Mar 28

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    My dad and I had an argument again.. nothing new. I wouldn't even consider it abuse anymore because now I fight back but the fact that after more than 15 years I still have to deal...
    korilakkuma korilakkuma 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I have grown up all my life being called names and told I was worthless by each member of my house family it's a daily reoccurring thing the abuse my sister curses my existence...
    PoetryGirl101 PoetryGirl101 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    April 3. I think we often forget the little boys affected by child abuse. We only really think about the boys when there are big cases like Michael Jackson or Jerry Sandusky are in...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    Happy April! April is Child Abuse Awareness Month. Today, I was reminded of a status I wanted to make while on Spring Break but never got around to. You'll get the connection to...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F Apr 2

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    Oh, I so do. I think about the kids I teach in Sunday school, and if I ever found out that anyone abused them in any way, I don't know what that would do to me. That could very...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    It's April 2! Still Child Abuse Awareness Month. Did you know that child abuse kills four or five children every day in the United States alone? Such a sad statistic. Child abuse...
    RuthieAnja RuthieAnja 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    It's April 2! Still Child Abuse Awareness Month. Did you know that child abuse kills four or five children every day in the United States alone? Such a sad statistic. Child abuse...
    KortneeAnne KortneeAnne 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    A Safe Haven I want to rescue all the abused and abandoned animals in the world. I want to have a big land with trees , open fields and a little lake. If I could have this, I'd...
    littleAnonyMOUSE littleAnonyMOUSE 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 21

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    April is child abuse prevention month .. If you know of any child getting abused please seek help and let someone know. Anyone. because it shouldn't hurt to be a CHILD .....
    candyliscious candyliscious 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    No I am not a child that has been abused... Just writing poetry... Child Abuse Red Glassy red eyes From within is nothing but a disguise Traveling to safe grounds With red...
    JohnsonJess JohnsonJess 18-21, F Apr 3

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    I hate ppl who abuses there kid. I hope u go to ******* hell
    stanmgaicman stanmgaicman 13-15, M 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I useda get it from my ex and I couldn't do anything back cause he was stronger and I'm upfront with things although I gotta back down sometimes I hate any kind of abuse tbh
    itssamaayxx itssamaayxx 13-15, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Animals have feelings too.
    Littlemonster77777 Littlemonster77777 13-15, F Mar 29

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    I cannot stand people who harm animals! I would want nothing to do with such a person. Even if this person were a family member, a friend, or a romantic partner, I'd drop them...
    BelleofApril BelleofApril 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 3

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    I have started watching "The Game of Thrones." I have noticed that there a lot of instances in the show that depicts animal cruelty. I like this show (minus the animal scenes) and...
    HazelEyedGurl HazelEyedGurl 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Yesterday. ...ahhh yesterday...There are days in people's lives that you wish you never had to revisit....days you wish never had to happen at all. That was yesterday. Chas, my...
    chastewhisperer chastewhisperer 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    I was just reading this on the news !! This beautiful little girl locked in her car seat. Her takes her still locked in her car seat throws her in the river. Did she have the...
    MasterofSpankings MasterofSpankings 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 10

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    so I was with a man who was very abusive. I left him and a week ago he came back into my life. I wanted to get back with him..but I had someone talk me out of it..well he came to...
    thisgirlisbroken thisgirlisbroken 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    Stupid, stupid girl... I'm much more intelligent than you think. If you have to hack me to get your way you're ******* pathetic.
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 Apr 12

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    I don't know what to do. We have been together 2 years. His family took me to Hawaii but I can't take everything. I don't know what to do help.
    jamieanthro jamieanthro 18-21, F a week ago

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    Last night my, what i thought was, best friend and I were cooking dinner for my family (just for something to do) and it all went wrong. In the past she's threatened to hurt me...
    spookyfilly spookyfilly 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My friend said something that made me think of him.. I've tried so hard to leave my past behind me, yet it seems to follow me everywhere I go. I already live with enough regret, do...
    Alexdrunkunc Alexdrunkunc 18-21 5 days ago

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    Last time, I did not exactly say why I hate my parents, so I will proceed to clarify that now. I had a stroke when I was eleven years old. After a stroke, people usually need to...
    ValeServigna ValeServigna 18-21, F Mar 23

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    A man is no man If He holds abuse in his hands Words full of hate Im sure most of you can relate Some call it discipline Some call him crazy But whatever you call him He...
    lifeinmyeyes13 lifeinmyeyes13 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Where to begin. All I can say is although I have moved out of my fathers toxic home, I am still very nervous as I write this. I can literally feel the anxiety building up. Ok...
    rrrrandom rrrrandom 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    Everybody who I've told what she does to me says that she is abusive, but I'm still not sure. I know that she's narcissistic because in all the articles I read about it almost all...
    jules401 jules401 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 29

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    My husband verbally abuses me constantly! I am so sick of it! I wish I could die right now. He says women who buy cars are terrible people who sleep with men. Women who have...
    tony20dw17 tony20dw17 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 2

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    Lately I haven't been on the best terms with my parents. I've been slipping in school work, sleeping in, and I'll admit I've been a little crude towards my mother and farther. They...
    Lieliarlie Lieliarlie 16-17 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I hate her! More than that, I despise her I wish she was dead. She thinks that she's all perfect and whatever she says is right, I'm just not. She verbally abuses me and nobody...
    bubbly12 bubbly12 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 29

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    Today a chair fell on my leg. I was in pain when my dad came up to see if everyone was alright. But it was probably to see if my sister was ok since he acts like he hates me...
    xXsmilesKillmeXx xXsmilesKillmeXx 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    When I was a little boy my mother took all her problems out on me. She blamed me for her "stress" and when other things were going bad she'd find something to get mad at me about...
    CharlesFosterKane CharlesFosterKane 22-25, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    This world can be truly disgusting sometimes... For... probably 8 years, ive been pretty much bullied nonstop, whether it was physical bashings, verbal abuse to the point of...
    image2fite image2fite 18-21, M Apr 11

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    I was with "him" for almost 30 years. In the beginning I did notice that he was somewhat controlling. Also he could be manipulative. However in those times these actions were...
    Freedom425 Freedom425 46-50, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I've been abused a lot as a child and its molded me into a cold hearted being. I once wrote the only thing I wanted in life was to be loved. Now, I'm isolated. I made a decision to...
    Musicthataltersyou Musicthataltersyou 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Verbal and emotional abuse. Physically verbally and emotionally abused my mom. Called my mother some very choice names and then compliment her and then say I'm just like her...
    SurpriseMeToday SurpriseMeToday 18-21, F Mar 27

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    Emotional abuse isnt only insults and shouting at you. If they ignore you it is abuse aswell. Ive been ignored all my life from my schoolmates, work collegues and my sister...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Today I have comfort-ate roughly my own body weight in chocolate and now feel very sick, thanks to a MIL induced fight with my BF. She affects his mood so badly, to the point...
    MyBackTeethAreSick MyBackTeethAreSick 26-30, F