I Hate Waking Up Alone

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    Waking Up

    The thing is...I have prospects. I used to have friends sleep over just so I could cuddle with them through the night. But now, when really in love...and I can't even do anything about it. Never cuddled from the one you want. But hey, I've still got a stuffed bear, i guess. lol...
    SweetbriarPoet SweetbriarPoet
    26-30, F
    Jul 29, 2008

    Most Definately....

    As most of you know....JD and I arent married and we live seperatly.  Sleeping alone...waking up alone...just stinks! I so love curling up to him when i wake up cold...or just for the purpose of needing a snuggle.  I have a teddy bear he gave me....but golly....just...
    Lexus Lexus
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Dec 4, 2007


    I wish I could just pass out at a friend's house just so I won't have to go home and be alone.
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Feb 24, 2008

    It Feels So Lonely

    Even though I'm a married woman, sometimes I go to sleep alone and wake up alone. My husband is an aspiring rapper/producer/author, so his aspirations sometimes take up a lot of the time that we should have as a couple. Even though I tell him about it, he feels as though I don't...
    Dimples87 Dimples87
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 23, 2008

    Sort Of.

    I used to be the first thing he'd see when he woke up in the morning. In the event that I was awake before him, I'd often just lie there and watch him slumber, until eventually those blue eyes would open and brighten at the fact that I was still there with him. We'd smile and...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 8, 2011

    Married and waking up alone.

    Was uninvited to marital bed in 2003. Sleep in other room.
    deleted deleted
    Oct 22, 2015


    I uaually have my son sleep with me or my guy when I sleep at his house. It is so comforting to wake up beside someone else and see their first smile of the day.
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean
    36-40, F
    Dec 17, 2008


    it's almost like a reminder of just another thing i failed at. like the universe telling me i was not good enough for yet another relationship. i hate being alone. i hate being lonely.
    gypsysoul gypsysoul
    22-25, F
    Jan 17, 2009

    I want to get married one day

    and have a family of my own.
    ZingySpirit ZingySpirit
    22-25, M
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015

    I sure hate waking up alone.

    I have a solution to fix that problem. I should never go to bed alone.
    femaledressed4work femaledressed4work
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Mar 16, 2014

    07/04/2016 - Sleeping alone.

    Waking up alone. Both suck. But is it any better than sleeping next to someone who feels like a stranger? I love waking up and falling asleep next to someone I care for I just don't think they've felt the same way I have in the past. In the beginning maybe they did but...
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream
    26-30, F
    Apr 6

    Not Much to Say

    i just hate it.  i want for there to be someone next to me, sleeping soundly, that i can roll back over and snuggle.  or who wakes up first and tries to be quiet but probably wakes me up and i get annoyed but not really.  and, of course, i have a particular someone...
    ohwhatforce ohwhatforce
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2007

    It is one of those mornings

    where I wish I was laying next to a man. I woke up in need of a man's touch and his tongue between my legs.
    lovesthenightsky lovesthenightsky
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 6

    I don't mind sleeping alone,

    but waking up on these cool mornings is no fun without an arm around me.
    Blond4you Blond4you
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 21, 2015


    I always wanted to wake up in the morning in my beloved's arms, trying to get out of bed without waking him up but still wanting to stay asleep with him. It must feel wonderful...
    AngelsReflection AngelsReflection
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Dec 31, 2009

    It's much better with an arm around me,

    holding me close, and maybe a hand that's roaming around. Alone sucks :(
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2015

    Sometimes It's Ok.

    Some days, I'm happy about waking up alone. It means I still have my independence. It means my life doesn't depend on someone else's. But on the other hand, I wish there was someone to wake me up with a hug and a kiss. Someone to tell me he loved me when I woke up. Someone to...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 8, 2008

    Yet Another Morning

     i may be young but i just hate waking up alone, its just telling me that theres no one there for me, well at least not yet, i go to bed thinking im being held, but wake up cold and alone. ugh...
    theshortloud1 theshortloud1
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2009
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    2 Responses Oct 23, 2015

    Dfh Sdil;hfjksdhf

    I hate sleeping alone and I hate waking up alone and I hate that the ride side of my bed is now always empty and not just a couple of nights a week. The left side is now always cold :(
    deleted deleted
    Nov 26, 2008

    Is A Significant Part Of My Depression

    I hate waking up alone. Probably because I also hate going to bed alone and sleeping alone too. But waking up alone is among the worst. Some of how I feel is about missing sex of course, but sex is only important as a connection to the bigger things it signifies, intimacy...
    Feb 12, 2013

    I Love Lacing My Legs In His

    Spooning next to him, feeling his breath in my ear, his hand rubbing my thigh .... then it's time to wake up.    Sleeping alone sucks. 
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 12, 2009

    But Not As Much As I

                          - Hate going to bed alone. It was one of the hardest things to get use to when my ex left. In fact, I'm still not use to it, I'm just dealing with it. It...
    Wynhaven Wynhaven
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2009

    I Love To Have My Cat With Me For Company

    I hate it when I wake up alone and fearful ... especially when I have depression and wake feeling disorientated from a nightmare or medications or deep confusion around me from abuse...it is a bad feeling so at least having my cat with me helps me cope better.  He takes up the...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Oct 6, 2011
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