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I Hate Wearing a Bra

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 397 People

    Well It's True!

    It's true. I hate wearing a bra, that's part of the reason I don't wear one. I mean, damn! The straps leave marks in my skin and all that material bunched up in front. Geez, not only that but because of my personality, gender, and disposition, people would probably laugh at...
    puck61 puck61 51-55, M 6 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    Freedom!

    Since I've been old enough to have breasts I've hated bras. The straps leave ugly painful marks on my shoulders and back. In gym class the other girls would tease me in the locker room for coming in not wearing a bra. I did, however, wear one for that period, can't do sports...
    hadakarei hadakarei 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 23, 2008

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    My Firm Breasts

    I have large, heavy breasts that jut out from my chest so proudly, with barely a hint of any sag, and with a slight up tilt to my perpetually stiff nipples. The only time I wear a bra is just to accent my breasts, such as with a little lace bra or half cup bra, that just make my...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2013

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    Torture!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I have large ****, 40E and don't believe that they should be confined to such an uncomfortable device as a bra. I love feeling my breasts bounce under my clothing and laugh when I get disapproving stares from prudes. I have to wear a bra to work but I take it off in the car on...
    boobzboobz boobzboobz 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2013

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    Just Another Drawback To Being Born Without A Penis.

    I feel so much more comfortable without one.. yet I know I don't have the figure to get away without wearing one... I don't want to end up with my boobs around my waist when I'm 40.. I remember when I was in the army I'd constantly get rashes, bras are a sweat magnet and if...
    sarah1079 sarah1079 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2009

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    So when I'm home I don't bother.

    It's the first thing to come off when I walk through the door.
    micha2808 micha2808 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 26

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    UUUGGGHHH!!!

    WHY?! They suck! Ok so some are really cute and I so did a double take at myself this morning w/ this one on but they still suck. And what's with the under-wire!! Just paid a fortune for this one and I already have a wire jabbing me in the boob. I must admit that certain tops...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 16, 2007

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    I Never Liked Them

    I was 13 when I tried a bra for the first time and I already had some breasts by then (don't imagine anything too big, I could barely fill a B). But I disliked them since the first time I tried one on. The reason was mostly that I was used to feeling my breasts move freely, and...
    BralessJulia BralessJulia 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    I Like Them Lol

      I don't mind wearing them  but then I'm a guy and don't have to wear one all the time. It's interesting, the thing women hate the most is a huge turn on for guys. Weird. Well, most guys would never admit that I guess but I think we have all tried or want to try...
    strippednakedmale strippednakedmale 36-40, M Mar 16, 2010

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    Bras Are So Lame.

    I HATE WEARING BRAS!! I am just SO much more comfortable going bra-less. When I buy clothes, the first thing I consider is if I could look socially acceptable in that shirt without wearing a bra. The worst part is that my breasts have gotten significantly larger over the years...
    arrow91 arrow91 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19, 2011

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    Uncomfortable

    I hate wearing a bra. I will not wear a bra unless I am going out of the house. If I am staying home, or just going outside to play with my dogs or work in my garden, I will just go without a bra. They are the most uncomfortable things on earth! Especially when you have larger...
    Sweetheartxoxo Sweetheartxoxo 26-30, F 9 Responses May 23, 2008

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    Free The Boobies!

    When I get home and get to dress down, among my first thoughts are "Free the boobies!" I like a cute bra that does it's job well, but most are uncomfortable. My hubby loves those thin bras that he can feel my nipples through. I usually buy those that could stand on their own...
    goodgrlgonebad goodgrlgonebad 31-35, F 14 Responses May 1, 2011

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    Nah I Love It

    Nah, I love wearing a bra.
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M Aug 22, 2013

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    Never Do, In Fact, But

    I also hate my gf wearing one, and she is coming around to the idea, too. So life's lookin' good, everything is pointin' in the right direction! ;-P
    ip4fun ip4fun 51-55 Apr 29, 2010

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    Dont Need Wear To Wear A Bra

    I stopped wearing a bra several years back. im a size 34b (just). They dont need supporting so i thought whats the point. I must admit it does get interesting when its cold lol
    candice82 candice82 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 14, 2010

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    Annoying

    I hate wearing a bra. When I do wear one (in public- I never wear one at home), it's uncomfortable, and I am often thinking, "Why the hell is this necessary?" My breasts aren't very large (B-cup), so it doesn't hurt me to go without one, and sometimes when I go out for a quick...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 3, 2010

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    Being a woman I will tell you all,

    I hate wearing a bra. I hate the digging my bra does to my skin. Also, my boobs are cooped up for hours without breathing space. I want my boobs to be comfortable on my chest. The only time I wear a bra is when I absolutely have to. That is not very often. Others are used...
    mollyinthekitchen mollyinthekitchen 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 15

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    I absolutely hate wearing a bra.

    I hate the bra straps digging into my shoulders and the bra wires digging into my huge boobs and nips. I love my girls exposed and to wander free into the air as I am walking, sitting, or standing.
    olderfemaleblonde olderfemaleblonde 46-50, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    I hate it when the underwire digs into your skin

    or pokes through your bra. Dangerous!
    theyrereal theyrereal 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 24

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    The Truth About Bras; A Myth Shattered

    Women do not need bras in any circumstance, as proven by a 2006 study by women of various ages, sizes and backgrounds. Bras are purely and unforgivably a social construct. The ligaments of your breasts are designed to support them. Wearing a bra routinely and not exercising...
    AggressorNation AggressorNation 18-21 1 Response Sep 30, 2010

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    Take It Off!

    I wear one to work but take it off in the car on the way home.
    bouncinaround bouncinaround 36-40 Oct 17, 2010

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    I absolutely hate wearing a bra.

    I believe that my girls need to breathe to after being cooped up for hours in my bra. Besides, I hate when the bra straps and clamps dig into my sensitive skin leaving marks. When I am at work, I must and will wear a bra. However, when on my time, I will look for and wear...
    momanddaughteratbeach momanddaughteratbeach 36-40, F 5 Responses May 4

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    First Time Out Doors Without A Bra!

    Yes, I have gone out-doors without a bra... I'm 56, my breast size is 36C been a "closet braless" person for years... but never dared to go outside without, untill today.. It felt great.. even did a little jog, ha-ha..! thanks to all You girls.. it gave me the courage to make...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    So Uncomfortable!

    I hate wearing a bra. The first thing I do when I get home from work is remove the bra! It is so much more comfortable going without.
    summerfire summerfire 46-50, F 6 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    Man's Opinion

    I hate wearing a necktie they are instruments of torture,lucky to have never had a job that needed me to wear one.But this pales in comparison to what a woman has to endure wearing a bra.That band cinched tight around her ribcage ugh!! And the large breasted women also have the...
    tyebo tyebo 66-70, M 3 Responses Jul 30, 2013

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    Enjoy The View

    I hate wearing a bra most of the time. I like the feeling of having my breasts loose. It is comfortable and usually leaves me feeling sensual. When I do wear a bra it is usually either for work when I have to look more conservative or to push them up to give the full cleavage...
    ConfusedWifeNJ ConfusedWifeNJ 36-40, F 14 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    I Hate Wearing A Harness And Thats What A Bra Is

    I am busty and when I dress for work I have to wear a bra but I hate it. Once home, off if comes I have tried to find one that does not cut in to me but no lucky and either way it just constricts me. As a teenager my Mum and I had huge rows about me wearing a bra and she used...
    JennyLezie JennyLezie 36-40, F 7 Responses Aug 15, 2010

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    Then Please Don'T Wear It...

    If you don't like wearing one then for all means please don't.A bra less woman is a woman who is a free spirit.She's a woman that I love seeing and talking too.
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M 3 Responses May 9, 2013

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    I Stopped Wearing Them

    I stopped wearing bras in high school and never looked back. The boys in school liked it and most of the men I dated loved it. I really don't know why women wear them I think it's a conspiracy by the garment industry. A multi million dollar industry keeps women thinking they need...
    deleted deleted 26-30 20 Responses Jun 18, 2013

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    Trust me when I say I hate wearing a bra.

    Most women would agree with me because the bra straps and wires cling to our female body skin. The only time I do wear a bra, when mandatory, is when I am at work because my appearance, attire, and my professionalism must be impeccable or above reproach. I am professionally...
    olderblondemom olderblondemom 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I Hate Bras Too.

    I rarely wear bras and try to find clothing that have a "shelf bra" of an extra piece of fabric in front that covers my breasts. I find bras annoying and cumbersome and just don't wear them unless I have to. Sometimes women feel shamed into wearing them because we were taught...
    Julmarpetekre Julmarpetekre 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2012

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    Ugh!

    The only time I wear a bra is when I leave the house. My breasts are quite big, so I can't get away with going out braless without anyone noticing. The underwire is painful and digs into my skin, and whenever I take the bra off my boobs are sore. It's such a pain in the...
    delirium delirium 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 17, 2010

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    Woes For Big Breasted!!!

    I have the security wearing it,but I so much prefer without it. But I have big breast >.< I often heard wearing for support is important or they will sag!! What a woe!!I find them secure but confining too!!
    ellen183 ellen183 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 20, 2013

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    Brafree Zone!!!

    I have to wear a bra to work otherwise I let my **** (40E) hang free.  I love the feeling of my **** bouncing under a thin t-shirt and knowing that people are looking at my ****. 
    bouncytits bouncytits 31-35, F 3 Responses May 4, 2010

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    Love/Hate Relationship

    I definitely need to wear one.  And, I love the way my boobs look in certain bras.  Yet, holy crap...they are so damn uncomfortable.  After years of practice, I can take off my bra with one hand, without removing my shirt and all while driving.  It's a skill...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten 31-35, F 35 Responses Aug 28, 2008

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    Bras Suck!

    I hate my bra and I wish that I could live in some tribal nation where I could walk around with my boobs exposed all day without a bra.  I hate putting on a bra and I sometimes wish the man who invernted them had to wear one in hell.  I am sure he was an evil person...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 63 Responses Aug 3, 2008

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    Wearing a Harness

    I would love to be able to go braless!  As my breasts grew, I found I had to wear increasingly supportive bras, until they felt like I was in a harness.  I have to wear custom bras now, which are expensive, and not very comfortable at all.  Sleeping in them is...
    Heathercurvy Heathercurvy 22-25, F 11 Responses Sep 11, 2009

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    Just A Tank

    I hate wearing bras... I would so much prefer to just wear a tank top or cami and have my nipples rub up against that material. I know they'll get hard and be super easy to see, but its so much more comfortable and honestly a huge turn on. I don't mind my boobs bouncing around...
    HotwifeKelly31 HotwifeKelly31 31-35, F 9 Responses Oct 8, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I don't like wearing them because I'm actually really sporty. But since I can't see that much if I wouldn't wear them, I can't play soccer anymore. ****** me off. Another pressure...
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Sadly one of my closest friends is BEYOND spoiled!! She gets whatever she wants! Name brand clothes all the time. 100 dollar sweatshirts? Really? And she has her own atv, dirtbike...
    smileitsfree123 smileitsfree123 16-17, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Especially when an area of my face is really itchy and my urge to scratch hits the roof.
    thatonecollegekid thatonecollegekid 18-21, F Aug 9

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    Though I love fashion as an entity but clothes seem uncomfortable, unnatural and lame to me! The whole world would be a better and more habitable place without the shame and stigma...
    PoojaTimberlake PoojaTimberlake 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 10

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    I wear them but I can't get contacts but my glasses make my face itch this is my 5th year with glasses and only a few people actually remember I wear them
    PeacandOtaku PeacandOtaku 13-15, F Aug 11

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    And reading glasses. Eyes get worse due to age. And poverty. But fuzzy if not helped. So i wear helpers. Sigh.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 11

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    I need to talented trash out to the curb. Of course, I've gots to do it naked!!!
    biggunsatx biggunsatx 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    Gonna be pantsless for the night Ahhh freedom
    GalaxyJumper GalaxyJumper 16-17, M Aug 24

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    I hate wearing underwear so I started wearing diaper what would u say to that
    Sophie12001 Sophie12001 13-15, F 18 Responses Aug 15

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    I absolutely hate wearing underwear. I prefer to go commando when I am at home, in the backyard, or out and about shopping, dropping and picking up my kids from school and other...
    bethanyinusa bethanyinusa 36-40, F 31 Responses Aug 9

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    you might think of being religiously inclined as a good thing or a bad thing, but you must know the images associated with it - attending church, receiving warm smiles, getting...
    doubtingmind doubtingmind 22-25, M 4 hrs ago

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    No contact with my mother for a week now. I prefer when there is no contact. She only contacts me when she wants to take one of my children out. I am considering stopping this...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Tuesday, September 2, 2014....Today I'm wearing white Ralph Lauren Polo lowrise briefs. They're pretty soft and fit nicely and make me feel more secure at times.
    UndieGuy UndieGuy 36-40, M 2 hrs ago

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    I honestly have no horror story with these things. My sister doesn't like wearing underwear, I guess you can say she has a huge butt. Yet I don't like bras. Simply because they are...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F