I Hate Wearing a Bra

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 515 People

    Uncomfortable

    I hate wearing a bra. I will not wear a bra unless I am going out of the house. If I am staying home, or just going outside to play with my dogs or work in my garden, I will just go without a bra. They are the most uncomfortable things on earth! Especially when you have larger...
    Sweetheartxoxo Sweetheartxoxo
    26-30, F
    9 Responses May 23, 2008

    I hate it when the underwire digs into your skin

    or pokes through your bra. Dangerous!
    theyrereal theyrereal
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 24, 2014

    I absolutely hate wearing a bra.

    I hate the bra straps digging into my shoulders and the bra wires digging into my huge boobs and nips. I love my girls exposed and to wander free into the air as I am walking, sitting, or standing.
    olderfemaleblonde olderfemaleblonde
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Apr 28, 2014

    UUUGGGHHH!!!

    WHY?! They suck! Ok so some are really cute and I so did a double take at myself this morning w/ this one on but they still suck. And what's with the under-wire!! Just paid a fortune for this one and I already have a wire jabbing me in the boob. I must admit that certain tops...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Jul 16, 2007

    I Never Liked Them

    I was 13 when I tried a bra for the first time and I already had some breasts by then (don't imagine anything too big, I could barely fill a B). But I disliked them since the first time I tried one on. The reason was mostly that I was used to feeling my breasts move freely, and...
    BralessJulia BralessJulia
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 10, 2009

    There were a couple of times

    where I wouldn't forget to put one on before going to school. They'd just get really sensitive to the fabric of my shirt. It's pretty obvious when a girl doesn't wear one and it isn't unusual at my school. But minus the sensitivity, it is awesome not wearing a bra.
    pb124 pb124
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 25

    Annoying

    I hate wearing a bra. When I do wear one (in public- I never wear one at home), it's uncomfortable, and I am often thinking, "Why the hell is this necessary?" My breasts aren't very large (B-cup), so it doesn't hurt me to go without one, and sometimes when I go out for a quick...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Apr 3, 2010

    one of the best feelings ever.

    ..taking my bra off and letting the girls loose!! Am I right ladies?! :-)
    stakalisious stakalisious
    36-40, F
    32 Responses Dec 1, 2014
    Angelcum Angelcum
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Dec 1, 2014

    Bras Are So Lame.

    I HATE WEARING BRAS!! I am just SO much more comfortable going bra-less. When I buy clothes, the first thing I consider is if I could look socially acceptable in that shirt without wearing a bra. The worst part is that my breasts have gotten significantly larger over the years...
    arrow91 arrow91
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2011

    Being a woman I will tell you all,

    I hate wearing a bra. I hate the digging my bra does to my skin. Also, my boobs are cooped up for hours without breathing space. I want my boobs to be comfortable on my chest. The only time I wear a bra is when I absolutely have to. That is not very often. Others are used...
    mollyinthekitchen mollyinthekitchen
    41-45, F
    1 Response Feb 15, 2014

    So when I'm home I don't bother.

    It's the first thing to come off when I walk through the door.
    RedHotMess01 RedHotMess01
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Mar 26, 2014

    First Thing That Comes Off When I Get Home.

    I have to wear one because someone somewhere in the company feels it is better to have us wear them than be comfortable.  I hate how the straps dig into my shoulders and how the cups start to itch if it's an especially long day at work.  And don't even get me started on...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois
    56-60
    1 Response Aug 20, 2009

    Hate It!!!

    They are soo uncomfortable.  I can't stand them.  I wish I didn't need one.
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin
    22-25, F
    Mar 11, 2010

    Ugh!

    The only time I wear a bra is when I leave the house. My breasts are quite big, so I can't get away with going out braless without anyone noticing. The underwire is painful and digs into my skin, and whenever I take the bra off my boobs are sore. It's such a pain in the...
    delirium delirium
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 17, 2010

    Wearing a Harness

    I would love to be able to go braless!  As my breasts grew, I found I had to wear increasingly supportive bras, until they felt like I was in a harness.  I have to wear custom bras now, which are expensive, and not very comfortable at all.  Sleeping in them is...
    Heathercurvy Heathercurvy
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Sep 11, 2009

    Woes For Big Breasted!!!

    I have the security wearing it,but I so much prefer without it. But I have big breast >.< I often heard wearing for support is important or they will sag!! What a woe!!I find them secure but confining too!!
    ellen183 ellen183
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2013

    Pain In the Shoulders & Neck!!!

     I'm at the point I really need a custom made bra. I'm a DD(or maybe larger) and it's really tough to find my size in the stores so I have to buy them by catalogue on on-line which invariably deals with straps that are NOT wide enough for support or straps that fall down...
    4vrUnique 4vrUnique
    46-50
    17 Responses Jun 29, 2009

    Well It's True!

    It's true. I hate wearing a bra, that's part of the reason I don't wear one. I mean, damn! The straps leave marks in my skin and all that material bunched up in front. Geez, not only that but because of my personality, gender, and disposition, people would probably laugh at...
    puck61 puck61
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Aug 21, 2013

    The Truth About Bras; A Myth Shattered

    Women do not need bras in any circumstance, as proven by a 2006 study by women of various ages, sizes and backgrounds. Bras are purely and unforgivably a social construct. The ligaments of your breasts are designed to support them. Wearing a bra routinely and not exercising...
    AggressorNation AggressorNation
    18-21
    1 Response Sep 30, 2010

    First Time Out Doors Without A Bra!

    Yes, I have gone out-doors without a bra... I'm 56, my breast size is 36C been a "closet braless" person for years... but never dared to go outside without, untill today.. It felt great.. even did a little jog, ha-ha..! thanks to all You girls.. it gave me the courage to make...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 30, 2012

    Trust me when I say I hate wearing a bra.

    Most women would agree with me because the bra straps and wires cling to our female body skin. The only time I do wear a bra, when mandatory, is when I am at work because my appearance, attire, and my professionalism must be impeccable or above reproach. I am professionally...
    olderblondemom olderblondemom
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Dec 24, 2013

    Take It Off!

    I wear one to work but take it off in the car on the way home.
    bouncinaround bouncinaround
    36-40
    Oct 17, 2010

    I absolutely hate wearing a bra.

    I believe that my girls need to breathe to after being cooped up for hours in my bra. Besides, I hate when the bra straps and clamps dig into my sensitive skin leaving marks. When I am at work, I must and will wear a bra. However, when on my time, I will look for and wear...
    momanddaughteratbeach momanddaughteratbeach
    36-40, F
    4 Responses May 4, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    14 Responses Apr 12, 2015

    Uncomfortable

    I don't care how many "fittings" I've had, the straps suck! I have to wear them of course, but at home, it's a trusty sports bra. Those aren't too bad.
    KatieJane KatieJane
    36-40, F
    Jul 15, 2009

    So Uncomfortable!

    I hate wearing a bra. The first thing I do when I get home from work is remove the bra! It is so much more comfortable going without.
    summerfire summerfire
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jul 18, 2013

    I hate them.Their evil.

    I enjoy my girls being free.If a man invented a bra he deserves to wear one too.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    May 21, 2015

    Nah I Love It

    Nah, I love wearing a bra.
    jml2000 jml2000
    61-65, M
    Aug 22, 2013

    Just Another Drawback To Being Born Without A Penis.

    I feel so much more comfortable without one.. yet I know I don't have the figure to get away without wearing one... I don't want to end up with my boobs around my waist when I'm 40.. I remember when I was in the army I'd constantly get rashes, bras are a sweat magnet and if...
    sarah1079 sarah1079
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2009

    Love/Hate Relationship

    I definitely need to wear one.  And, I love the way my boobs look in certain bras.  Yet, holy crap...they are so damn uncomfortable.  After years of practice, I can take off my bra with one hand, without removing my shirt and all while driving.  It's a skill...
    CuriosityKitten CuriosityKitten
    31-35, F
    34 Responses Aug 28, 2008

    I Agree

    Bras really can give you the ***** at times. Sometimes I wish I had the intestinal fortitude to be a nudist. I do my best to avoid bras when I'm at home. I pretty much only put them on when I'm going out or other people are at home or when I think bout the damage not wearing one...
    AnimaliaAustralis AnimaliaAustralis
    22-25, F
    Mar 19, 2009

    I Don't Understand Them.

    I think almost every woman I know would join this group.  Most women don't seem to find them comfortable, and most look forward to taking them off when they get home.  Granted, I know a few women with very large breasts who wear them for comfort, but not many. So why...
    EBunbury EBunbury
    46-50, M
    7 Responses Aug 3, 2008

    I Hate Wearing A Harness And Thats What A Bra Is

    I am busty and when I dress for work I have to wear a bra but I hate it. Once home, off if comes I have tried to find one that does not cut in to me but no lucky and either way it just constricts me. As a teenager my Mum and I had huge rows about me wearing a bra and she used...
    JennyLezie JennyLezie
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Aug 15, 2010

    Bras Suck!

    I hate my bra and I wish that I could live in some tribal nation where I could walk around with my boobs exposed all day without a bra.  I hate putting on a bra and I sometimes wish the man who invernted them had to wear one in hell.  I am sure he was an evil person...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    59 Responses Aug 3, 2008

    Freedom!

    Since I've been old enough to have breasts I've hated bras. The straps leave ugly painful marks on my shoulders and back. In gym class the other girls would tease me in the locker room for coming in not wearing a bra. I did, however, wear one for that period, can't do sports...
    hadakarei hadakarei
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Aug 23, 2008

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