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I Hate When I Don't Know What To Say

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    AugustusLeo AugustusLeo 46-50, M Oct 7, 2015

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    I go through this seems like all day,

    everyday ..how do I get over this
    xjerseygrl4lyfex xjerseygrl4lyfex 22-25, F Sep 29, 2015

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    Especially When Someone Is Crying...

    Atleast when my friend or family member is crying i can hug them without saying anything and it comforts them and let them know that im there for them (without saying a word :-) ) but when someone i rarely talk to starts crying i don't even know what to do, i can't leave the room...
    ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique 22-25, F Apr 21, 2013

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    Dont Know

    i realy always hate dont know what to say n talk about win i meet my cousin on dec 24 4 years i realy dont know what too say i seen her i want ti say anything but i never remember what the first word was she is the only person i still dont know what to say maybe some day i...
    shyspidergirl shyspidergirl 26-30, F May 15, 2013

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    So

    I'll just stand there awkwardly instead. Suddenly my fingernails need examining. What's on the bottom of my shoe? Did I just get a text? No, no I did not. Oh wait. They're leaving? Thank gods. I was getting tired of trying to look preoccupied.
    itworkedintheory itworkedintheory 31-35 Aug 2, 2012

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    Just Left Feeling Stupid

    It's just an awkward situation to be in when for instance something happens and it just so shocks you that you are completely stuck for words. What usually happens with me is because I am so desperately trying to find the right words a load of unwanted and sometimes stupid ones...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M Aug 3, 2012

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