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I Hate When I Don't Know What To Say

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    Dont Know - i realy always hate dont know what to say n talk about win i meet my cousin on dec 24 4 years i realy dont know what too say i seen her i want ti say anything but...
    shyspidergirl shyspidergirl 26-30, F May 15, 2013

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    So - I'll just stand there awkwardly instead. Suddenly my fingernails need examining. What's on the bottom of my shoe? Did I just get a text? No, no I did not. Oh wait. They're...
    Sinaname Sinaname 26-30 Aug 2, 2012

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    Especially When Someone Is Crying... - Atleast when my friend or family member is crying i can hug them without saying anything and it comforts them and let them know that im there...
    ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique 22-25, F Apr 21, 2013

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    Just Left Feeling Stupid - It's just an awkward situation to be in when for instance something happens and it just so shocks you that you are completely stuck for words. What...
    gelroller gelroller 46-50, M Aug 3, 2012

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