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I Hate When I Feel Sorry For Myself

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    I hate when this happens.  I came home from work very tired, but feeling somewhat normal.  I started watching the movie Ghosts with my son.  He had never seen it, and I wanted to see it with him.  Then he left and I got so sad.  I felt I had no control...
    egt2bu egt2bu 56-60 4 Responses Feb 6, 2009

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    Just Seems To Be Happening More And More Lately.

    I just need to figure out what i am doing to allienate people. I acknowledge that it is probably my fault. maybe i'm abbrasive? i can be bossy maybe? I seem to want to fix everything for everyone i care about.  but maybe they don't want me to?  i just want someone to care about...
    darlinsam darlinsam 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 15, 2011

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