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I Hate When Nobody Tells Me Anything

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    Always the Last to Know Anything...

    Not always, but it seems that I'm always the last person people think about when they need to tell others. It's like I'm on the edge of their radar, but not quite making too big of a signal. Then, when something happens, they're always "What? I thought you knew about such...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 7, 2009

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    I am on a small team

    where I work, and I am usually left out or left behind. My supervisor and my other two coworkers don't seem to want to tell me what I need to do or should do and then get frustrated when I've not done it. While I agree I should be a better self advocate and ask more questions...
    mikearienti mikearienti 36-40, M Feb 25, 2015

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    Always The Last One To Know

    Its seems ever since I moved to a different province no one tells me when important things happen. Today I found out that my dad got in a big accident earlier this week and no one called or anything... I mean he wasn't hurt physically but emotionally he isn't doing very well...
    muffinmeister muffinmeister 26-30 Dec 12, 2010

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    Always The Last To Know

    Nobody ever tells me anything. If they do, I'm always the last one to know. Why? I don't know, but I hate it. Like, if I'm talking to someone and they bring up a something that I don't know about, they're like, "oh you didn't know about that?" And I say yes because no one told me...
    WhiteSparrow WhiteSparrow 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 15, 2010

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    My grandmother is especially guilty of this.

    I take care of her. I take her to her doctor, fix her meals, and give her her prescribed medicines when needed. I often ask her if she's okay, and she always tells me yes, everything's A-Okay. Then, when we go to the doctor, and he asks her to rate the pain she feels on a...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 26, 2014

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    I Don't Beg

     I always seem to be the last to know....... or I never get any information and I have to pry it out of people. This aggravates me     I don't want to have to beg to hear something that should have been told to me a long time ago. 
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 5, 2009

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