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I Hate When People Assume Things

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    Like My Ex

    she thought she was the cats pyjamas real hot and sexy that ever man want to **** her she was so crazy i'm lucky i didn't get hurt worse than i did
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 4, 2011

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    The "type" Factor.

    I have ALWAYS hated people who assume. Ever since I was younger. I was always assumed to be something they THOUGHT I was. Always. When I use to read on things that people found scary, they ultimately thought I was a freak and grow up as one of the things I read about. This...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2010

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    "Oh, an Asian girl...

    she must be from Asia!" NO, I'm not. That's just plain ignorant and stupid.
    saiyuu saiyuu 22-25, F Apr 2

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    Shut Up!

    Most of the time, people that assume really need to keep their big mouths shut. I cannot stand people that make assumptions on things they hardly know about or about people they don't know at all. Get the facts first before you speak out of your ***.
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F May 16, 2011

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    It's Ok Though

    You can think whatever the **** you like about me, but I know the ******* truth.The sad part is, I was really starting to like you a lot and that **** is so ******* hard for me to do.  It's difficult for me to open up to people.I know now that I shouldn't have let my guard down...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    My Baby Brother

    I hate it when people call my baby brother a girl. It is so frustrating !!! He does have a huge curly Afro , but he does dress like a boy . We would be somewhere and someone would be like " Omg she is such a beautiful girl , how old is she " and I would say " well thank you but...
    stacy0508 stacy0508 18-21, F Nov 30, 2013

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    My B*tch Hairdresser...

    so, i went to the hair salon today. im the type that just likes to get my hair done without a whole lot of conversation. im a private person in real life and usually i dont like discussing my life with people..especially people that i dont know that well. but this b*tch just kept...
    welcome2myworld welcome2myworld 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    College Instructors

    I am in college. Sometimes an instructor teaches more than one class. I was signed up for three in a row, two in the summer and one in the fall. Well, life happens. I ended up restructuring my course load by dropping a bunch of classes and signing up for others that fit into my...
    AzaleaElise AzaleaElise 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    My Mother Does It All the Time

    My mother assumes things all the damn time. She never tries to see what is going on, she just assumes, that she knows everything about what is going on. Like when I woke up, she was sleeping, im the one who cleaned up, and who got my boyfriend off to work, and than since I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    Yeah

    Stop assume Things. Assuming things isn't good... For Example: Groupies doesn't have to sleep with an famous person in order to be a groupies. Please.  You collect their movies, CDs, whatever you want. Beside some groupies doesn't want entanglement. You know... Okay for...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    You Don't Know What You're Talking About!

    I HATE PEOPLE WHO ASSUME THINGS! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??!! WHY do YOU always ASSUME things that are NOT TRUE?!?! It doesn't make any sense….I do things for a reason but you assume they’re for another reason! WHY ARE YOU ASSUMING THINGS IN THE FIRST PLACE??? YOU DON’T MAKE...
    Norra Norra 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    Yes I Sure Do!

    it makes an *** out of you and me.
    peachfuzz68 peachfuzz68 41-45, F Feb 24, 2012

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    You Do Not Know Me.

    Don't read a story by me and assume that you know me.  That is really ******* annoying.  Maybe, if you read all of my posts, then you know alot about me, because I don't hold back here.  But if you've only read one thing by me, or just a couple, do not tell me what...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Me and my best friend are very close.

    And the guys at school assumed we were lesbians. Because they were athletes and we didn't want to **** them. *sigh*
    XxVivaLaBellaxX XxVivaLaBellaxX 18-21, F 2 Responses May 15

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    My sister and father

    both made blind accusations not to long ago about why it is I've been spending time with a certain LDS church and youth group… Well, let's take a few steps back. When I was 15, I met this guy. He was pretty chill :) We had late night phone calls about random crap that really...
    MissAutumn MissAutumn 18-21, F Aug 19

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    The True Meaning of The Word "Assume"

    Assuming is just THINKING you know. Knowing is KNOWING you know. That aside, you have heard the best definition of the word "assume", right? I was always told tht people who assume, only "make an *SS (out of) U (and) ME! The only issue I have with this...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    YES! :-)

    Like they say.... To "assume"  makes an "***" out of "u" and "me"! Don't do it people!! :-)
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2008

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    Yes

    Come on. Tell me if I have upset you in my comments. We are adults here. Don't block me because I made some idoitic comments or a hurtful comments. I will fix it.Let me know. Don't make assume. I got that in my real life. People think I'm my dad's wife. Hello? I look like my...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2011

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    Small Town Minds. You know my swag not my story

    . I'm a snob because I have few friends, I walk too fast, and I'm an honor student. My ex-fiance abused me because we had an agressive relationship and I'm clumsy plus I bruise easily. I am a **** apparently but I'm not justifying that. I'm stupid because I model and I'm a...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 21

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    Are You Serious?!

    When I was working at an Animal Hospital, there was a young woman who really didn't like me...at all. She would start rumors, talk trash, etc. But since I was part-time it didn't really get to me until one day. There were a bunch of girls upfront and we were all chit-chatting and...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    I Don't Wear Dresses

    The last time i was in a dress was 13 yrs ago, i'm not a girly girl. I feel myself in a t- shirt and jeans.. I was a tom boy growing up, i was fascinated by nature and what lived in it. I was raised in the middle of no where lol farm land was as far as the eye could see, and then...
    peachfuzz68 peachfuzz68 41-45, F Feb 26, 2012

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    Get To Know Them First

    I have always hated it when people assume things about me. If you don't know then don't think that you know what's going on in my life or that you know me just because you saw me for a few minutes.Before I started transition I was called a lesbian by most people that I met...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Very, Very Angry

    I feel like having wasted the last two years of my life on a stupid, superfluous person, that I thought to be open-minded and unique.  (Please excuse any mistakes, since I am not a native speaker of english) No, we didn`t even have a relationship. And yes I was secretly in...
    basics basics 22-25 Feb 8, 2009

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    Stupid People!

    I don't care if you do it for theorys or anthing but it really makes me mad when I'm trying to talk then someone jumps in and says somthing as if they know whats going to happen. Yes sometimes there right but other times there not and it's just bad communcation. Then theres the...
    mastermind109 mastermind109 18-21 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    I absolutely hate it

    when people assume I'm a perverted human being with no interest in spending time with guys. Just because I'm a lesbian I have to go through these stupid assumptions these people make of me. I hate it when girls don't approach me (unless they need me for something x|) because...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow 16-17, F 1 Response May 23

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    I hate it when people assume

    that i LIKE them. I never hug you, flirt with you, or message you meaningful stuff. I WAS JUST BEING NICE. Why. Do. You. Think. I. Have. A. Crush. On. You. ?
    lindasawr lindasawr 16-17, F Feb 9

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    What the Hell

    yes ive talked about it on a different experiance but its still applies. My roomate thinks im going to quit college because i am taking a three week leave of absence and now he is giving me the silent treatment and telling people i quit. I mean doesnt everyone need a break now...
    Bignc Bignc 22-25, M Aug 27, 2008

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    Collective You

    I hate when people assume  comments that are posted are directed directly at them.  I try very hard to not hurt anyones feelings (other than JJ and Quirky WINK WINK) and I would never post something to hurt anyone on purpose. Please if you see something in my...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses May 26, 2008

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    I hate when people are mean for no reason like i can be mean but it's either I'm pissed off, stressed way too stressed, upset or just plain busy. I'm weird so yea
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Aug 5

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    I hate when people treat you like crap, yell at you, rage at you then a few moments later, because they are delusional enough to think it never happened; they are confused that you...
    Close2Crazy Close2Crazy 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    People assume I'm a dumb blonde
    emmynap emmynap 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    It ****** me off when people touch my stuff. I don't care if nobody cares about this comment if I was you people I wouldn't care either, but I need to vent. Isn't it just so...
    JezebelWhitman JezebelWhitman 16-17, F Jul 30

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    I hate when professional service people just show up at the door. No call, no appointment. Just because they were in neighborhood and hoping someone was at our house. Here i am...
    ajrestless ajrestless 18-21, F a week ago

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    When people treat you so nice, pretend like they care about you, they made you believed that they are a good person and then you found out that they are just using you for their...
    saffaismail saffaismail 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I'm a nice guy for the most part, and I try to apologize when I've been an a-hole. However, I have absolutely no tolerance for those who make knee-jerk judgement calls about me...
    TheDivineParody TheDivineParody 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    I know!! Not everyone is wanting to be with me!!! God, I've been knowing that my whole life!! Not a surprise. I'm use to it. I know I'm not a lot of guys type but to assume that I...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F Aug 6

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    I find it more attractive when a guy builds something or puts something together for me and puts some thought into it rather than spending ridiculous amounts of money extravagant...
    tsumakov tsumakov 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I get a lot of anxiety when things are not planned ahead of time. I like to know if I'm supposed to be doing things in advance so I can prepare properly. I'm a control freak about...
    PrincessKayleigh PrincessKayleigh 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I met this guy who I thought I really liked, but he just laughed a happy laugh all of the time. He was all about being happy and having love in life. Soon enough, I felt like I...
    FunnyLookingCorpse FunnyLookingCorpse 18-21 Aug 9

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    I don't always use correct grammar or type everything perfect, but you can tell when its an accident and when they can't tell its wrong. I hate reading things when they are that...
    jaymess jaymess 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    So i've met a woman some time about 2 months ago. Things were great we hanged out a lot. Spent many days and nights together just in the outdoors exploring seeing whats fun out...
    saix217 saix217 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    iv'e herd this insult many times and it is horrible and doesn't even make any sense.Why do people go around calling things happy or homosexual just because they don't like it?
    Hoshi2288 Hoshi2288 13-15 1 Response Aug 3

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    Happened to me today. My friend sends me a message about how she needs me to print something for her for registration and that she'll get it when she comes over to swim. She...
    secrets1can2be3told secrets1can2be3told 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I am not a teen mom and I don't know any teen parents personally but I have the common sense to not judge them. Its actually extremely rude to do that. You aren't better than them...
    Jessica4729 Jessica4729 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    I just feel like smacking people who overreact to stupid things
    litzz litzz 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    It's not that I hate it. I don't. My friends and people I'm cool with can laugh at me all they want. I wouldn't give a damn. But when someone who ****** me off or isn't nice to me...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    I don't know what's wrong with me at all. Maybe I love too much. Maybe not much at all. I'm sick of people treating me well for a shirt period of time and then taking me for...
    loveisblind18 loveisblind18 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

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