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I Hate When People Assume Things

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    Stupid People!

    I don't care if you do it for theorys or anthing but it really makes me mad when I'm trying to talk then someone jumps in and says somthing as if they know whats going to happen. Yes sometimes there right but other times there not and it's just bad communcation. Then theres the...
    mastermind109 mastermind109 22-25 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    I've been called a hypocrite

    because they couldn't view my activities on the app.. they assumed i set my activities visibility off.. i hve no idea what their assumptions on WHY i need to block the visibility.. well,they didn't lie,it was true,they couldn't see anything there.. but the reason why they...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 8 Responses Apr 3

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    The True Meaning of The Word "Assume"

    Assuming is just THINKING you know. Knowing is KNOWING you know. That aside, you have heard the best definition of the word "assume", right? I was always told tht people who assume, only "make an *SS (out of) U (and) ME! The only issue I have with this...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    so my mom and dad both went in jail.

    my dad still is in jail. so when i get into an argument with my grandparents they always tell me im gonna end up in jail like my parents. thanks for the support fam.
    Ebolaa Ebolaa 16-17, M 2 Responses Jan 2

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    Lol my boyfriend made popcorn

    and burnt some, not thinking anything of it he didn't clean the microwave. It stays like this for a week. His dad only noticed it a couple days ago and was like "you started a fire in the microwave!! I KNOW you did!! Thanks to you we have to buy a whole new f*ucking microwave...
    bingbongtingtongg bingbongtingtongg 18-21, F 1 Response May 16

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    Get To Know Them First

    I have always hated it when people assume things about me. If you don't know then don't think that you know what's going on in my life or that you know me just because you saw me for a few minutes.Before I started transition I was called a lesbian by most people that I met...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40, T 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    I remember in 5th grade

    when we used to get to pick a free book I picked a chapter book and my teacher came up to me and asked if I want to look at some of the easier books to read just because I was in special ed so I offered to read her a page but she said no.Like ***** I'm actually a really good...
    wassup305 wassup305 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 8, 2014

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    My Baby Brother

    I hate it when people call my baby brother a girl. It is so frustrating !!! He does have a huge curly Afro , but he does dress like a boy . We would be somewhere and someone would be like " Omg she is such a beautiful girl , how old is she " and I would say " well thank you but...
    stacy0508 stacy0508 18-21, F Nov 30, 2013

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    So I am in a wheelchair

    because I was born with the birth defect spina bifida and for some reason because of this a lot of people assume things about me without knowing anything about me. The most common assumption is that because I'm in a wheelchair I also have some kind of mental handicap. Kind of...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 2 Responses Jan 14

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    I hate it when people tell me not to do

    something even tho I don't do anything. Today at my volleyball practice I walked behind someone like I was supposed to cause they were supposed to move sideways not backwards so I got stepped on then someone did the same and I got yelled at by that person when I chose to...
    dancerwithheart dancerwithheart 13-15, F Nov 12, 2014

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    WokenandOpen WokenandOpen 31-35, M Jun 18

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    Collective You

    I hate when people assume  comments that are posted are directed directly at them.  I try very hard to not hurt anyones feelings (other than JJ and Quirky WINK WINK) and I would never post something to hurt anyone on purpose. Please if you see something in my...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses May 26, 2008

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    Very, Very Angry

    I feel like having wasted the last two years of my life on a stupid, superfluous person, that I thought to be open-minded and unique.  (Please excuse any mistakes, since I am not a native speaker of english) No, we didn`t even have a relationship. And yes I was secretly in...
    basics basics 22-25 Feb 8, 2009

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    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 3 Responses Feb 12

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    You Don't Know What You're Talking About!

    I HATE PEOPLE WHO ASSUME THINGS! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??!! WHY do YOU always ASSUME things that are NOT TRUE?!?! It doesn't make any sense….I do things for a reason but you assume they’re for another reason! WHY ARE YOU ASSUMING THINGS IN THE FIRST PLACE??? YOU DON’T MAKE...
    Norra Norra 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    Me and my best friend are very close.

    And the guys at school assumed we were lesbians. Because they were athletes and we didn't want to **** them. *sigh*
    HeyyMrsCarter HeyyMrsCarter 22-25, F 2 Responses May 15, 2014

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    Are You Serious?!

    When I was working at an Animal Hospital, there was a young woman who really didn't like me...at all. She would start rumors, talk trash, etc. But since I was part-time it didn't really get to me until one day. There were a bunch of girls upfront and we were all chit-chatting and...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Like My Ex

    she thought she was the cats pyjamas real hot and sexy that ever man want to **** her she was so crazy i'm lucky i didn't get hurt worse than i did
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 4, 2011

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    Small Town Minds. You know my swag not my story

    . I'm a snob because I have few friends, I walk too fast, and I'm an honor student. My ex-fiance abused me because we had an agressive relationship and I'm clumsy plus I bruise easily. I am a **** apparently but I'm not justifying that. I'm stupid because I model and I'm a...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F Aug 21, 2014

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    My sister and father

    both made blind accusations not to long ago about why it is I've been spending time with a certain LDS church and youth group… Well, let's take a few steps back. When I was 15, I met this guy. He was pretty chill :) We had late night phone calls about random crap that really...
    MissAutumn MissAutumn 18-21, F Aug 19, 2014

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    The "type" Factor.

    I have ALWAYS hated people who assume. Ever since I was younger. I was always assumed to be something they THOUGHT I was. Always. When I use to read on things that people found scary, they ultimately thought I was a freak and grow up as one of the things I read about. This...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2010

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    Yes I Sure Do!

    it makes an *** out of you and me.
    peachfuzz68 peachfuzz68 41-45, F Feb 24, 2012

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    I hate it when people assume im not

    who I say I am. I am TheDiamondMinecart. ask me questions to prove it!
    TheDiamondMinecart TheDiamondMinecart 26-30, M Feb 17

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    College Instructors

    I am in college. Sometimes an instructor teaches more than one class. I was signed up for three in a row, two in the summer and one in the fall. Well, life happens. I ended up restructuring my course load by dropping a bunch of classes and signing up for others that fit into my...
    AzaleaElise AzaleaElise 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    Actually no, My post wasn't about you

    but if the shoe fits, feel free to lace that ***** up and wear it.
    Living2Heights Living2Heights 16-17, F Dec 20, 2014

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    It's Ok Though

    You can think whatever the **** you like about me, but I know the ******* truth.The sad part is, I was really starting to like you a lot and that **** is so ******* hard for me to do.  It's difficult for me to open up to people.I know now that I shouldn't have let my guard down...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    I absolutely hate it

    when people assume I'm a perverted human being with no interest in spending time with guys. Just because I'm a lesbian I have to go through these stupid assumptions these people make of me. I hate it when girls don't approach me (unless they need me for something x|) because...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow 16-17, F 1 Response May 23, 2014

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    Those who dont really know me say im psycho.

    But those who are close to me realize that i just have a lot of ideas that dont make sense to stupid people. Ideas that make you think twice
    ForeverJashinist ForeverJashinist 18-21, M Apr 4

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    Untrustworthy117 Untrustworthy117 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    especially when I do.

    it is human nature to respond to situations. or people based on past experiences. But at times these actions are like assumptions. It is good to learn from the past, but look at the situation fully before acting or speaking. I try and sometimes fail to remember that not every...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 24

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    It's always straight to the worse possibility

    and I must be a cruel **** face. Can't one of us just be stupid or a **** up instead? It's so much sweeter :). Oh well atleast some people make it entertaining.
    RusPagan RusPagan 22-25, M Mar 24

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    Yeah

    Stop assume Things. Assuming things isn't good... For Example: Groupies doesn't have to sleep with an famous person in order to be a groupies. Please.  You collect their movies, CDs, whatever you want. Beside some groupies doesn't want entanglement. You know... Okay for...
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 4 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    Refrained from chewing out a guy

    who insinuated that disabled people were just lazy. What an insensitive fqqtard.
    Lapochka Lapochka 70+ 1 Response Sep 3, 2014

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    I Don't Wear Dresses

    The last time i was in a dress was 13 yrs ago, i'm not a girly girl. I feel myself in a t- shirt and jeans.. I was a tom boy growing up, i was fascinated by nature and what lived in it. I was raised in the middle of no where lol farm land was as far as the eye could see, and then...
    peachfuzz68 peachfuzz68 41-45, F Feb 26, 2012

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    and when they're the people you love,

    it will double the pain.. assumptions are like baseless accusations, they'll hurt no matter what..and the fact that they're the loved ones who assumed n accused, oh fvck!!
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 10 Responses Apr 2

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    I hate it when people assume

    that i LIKE them. I never hug you, flirt with you, or message you meaningful stuff. I WAS JUST BEING NICE. Why. Do. You. Think. I. Have. A. Crush. On. You. ?
    lindasawr lindasawr 18-21, F Feb 9, 2014

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    You Do Not Know Me.

    Don't read a story by me and assume that you know me.  That is really ******* annoying.  Maybe, if you read all of my posts, then you know alot about me, because I don't hold back here.  But if you've only read one thing by me, or just a couple, do not tell me what...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Shut Up!

    Most of the time, people that assume really need to keep their big mouths shut. I cannot stand people that make assumptions on things they hardly know about or about people they don't know at all. Get the facts first before you speak out of your ***.
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F May 16, 2011

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    My B*tch Hairdresser...

    so, i went to the hair salon today. im the type that just likes to get my hair done without a whole lot of conversation. im a private person in real life and usually i dont like discussing my life with people..especially people that i dont know that well. but this b*tch just kept...
    welcome2myworld welcome2myworld 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    I hate when people assume my mother is a great mother. Or that just because I'm not being social means I'm stuck up or I don't want to be around certain people. To the thing about...
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