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I Hate When People Assume Things

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    My Baby Brother

    I hate it when people call my baby brother a girl. It is so frustrating !!! He does have a huge curly Afro , but he does dress like a boy . We would be somewhere and someone would be like " Omg she is such a beautiful girl , how old is she " and I would say " well thank you but...
    stacy0508 stacy0508 18-21, F Nov 30, 2013

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    Are You Serious?!

    When I was working at an Animal Hospital, there was a young woman who really didn't like me...at all. She would start rumors, talk trash, etc. But since I was part-time it didn't really get to me until one day. There were a bunch of girls upfront and we were all chit-chatting and...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    Get To Know Them First

    I have always hated it when people assume things about me. If you don't know then don't think that you know what's going on in my life or that you know me just because you saw me for a few minutes.Before I started transition I was called a lesbian by most people that I met...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    Like My Ex

    she thought she was the cats pyjamas real hot and sexy that ever man want to **** her she was so crazy i'm lucky i didn't get hurt worse than i did
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 4, 2011

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    The True Meaning of The Word "Assume"

    Assuming is just THINKING you know. Knowing is KNOWING you know. That aside, you have heard the best definition of the word "assume", right? I was always told tht people who assume, only "make an *SS (out of) U (and) ME! The only issue I have with this...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    My B*tch Hairdresser...

    so, i went to the hair salon today. im the type that just likes to get my hair done without a whole lot of conversation. im a private person in real life and usually i dont like discussing my life with people..especially people that i dont know that well. but this b*tch just kept...
    welcome2myworld welcome2myworld 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    Yeah

    Stop assume Things. Assuming things isn't good... For Example: Groupies doesn't have to sleep with an famous person in order to be a groupies. Please.  You collect their movies, CDs, whatever you want. Beside some groupies doesn't want entanglement. You know... Okay for...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    What the Hell

    yes ive talked about it on a different experiance but its still applies. My roomate thinks im going to quit college because i am taking a three week leave of absence and now he is giving me the silent treatment and telling people i quit. I mean doesnt everyone need a break now...
    Bignc Bignc 22-25, M Aug 27, 2008

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    You Do Not Know Me.

    Don't read a story by me and assume that you know me.  That is really ******* annoying.  Maybe, if you read all of my posts, then you know alot about me, because I don't hold back here.  But if you've only read one thing by me, or just a couple, do not tell me what...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Yes

    Come on. Tell me if I have upset you in my comments. We are adults here. Don't block me because I made some idoitic comments or a hurtful comments. I will fix it.Let me know. Don't make assume. I got that in my real life. People think I'm my dad's wife. Hello? I look like my...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2011

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    College Instructors

    I am in college. Sometimes an instructor teaches more than one class. I was signed up for three in a row, two in the summer and one in the fall. Well, life happens. I ended up restructuring my course load by dropping a bunch of classes and signing up for others that fit into my...
    AzaleaElise AzaleaElise 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    My Mother Does It All the Time

    My mother assumes things all the damn time. She never tries to see what is going on, she just assumes, that she knows everything about what is going on. Like when I woke up, she was sleeping, im the one who cleaned up, and who got my boyfriend off to work, and than since I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    "Oh, an Asian girl...

    she must be from Asia!" NO, I'm not. That's just plain ignorant and stupid.
    saiyuu saiyuu 22-25, F Apr 2

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    It's Ok Though

    You can think whatever the **** you like about me, but I know the ******* truth.The sad part is, I was really starting to like you a lot and that **** is so ******* hard for me to do.  It's difficult for me to open up to people.I know now that I shouldn't have let my guard down...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    YES! :-)

    Like they say.... To "assume"  makes an "***" out of "u" and "me"! Don't do it people!! :-)
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2008

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    You Don't Know What You're Talking About!

    I HATE PEOPLE WHO ASSUME THINGS! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??!! WHY do YOU always ASSUME things that are NOT TRUE?!?! It doesn't make any sense….I do things for a reason but you assume they’re for another reason! WHY ARE YOU ASSUMING THINGS IN THE FIRST PLACE??? YOU DON’T MAKE...
    Norra Norra 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    Shut Up!

    Most of the time, people that assume really need to keep their big mouths shut. I cannot stand people that make assumptions on things they hardly know about or about people they don't know at all. Get the facts first before you speak out of your ***.
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F May 16, 2011

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    Stupid People!

    I don't care if you do it for theorys or anthing but it really makes me mad when I'm trying to talk then someone jumps in and says somthing as if they know whats going to happen. Yes sometimes there right but other times there not and it's just bad communcation. Then theres the...
    mastermind109 mastermind109 18-21 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    I Don't Wear Dresses

    The last time i was in a dress was 13 yrs ago, i'm not a girly girl. I feel myself in a t- shirt and jeans.. I was a tom boy growing up, i was fascinated by nature and what lived in it. I was raised in the middle of no where lol farm land was as far as the eye could see, and then...
    peachfuzz68 peachfuzz68 41-45, F Feb 26, 2012

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    I hate it when people assume

    that i LIKE them. I never hug you, flirt with you, or message you meaningful stuff. I WAS JUST BEING NICE. Why. Do. You. Think. I. Have. A. Crush. On. You. ?
    lindasawr lindasawr 16-17, F Feb 9

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    Me and my best friend are very close.

    And the guys at school assumed we were lesbians. Because they were athletes and we didn't want to **** them. *sigh*
    XxVivaLaBellaxX XxVivaLaBellaxX 18-21, F 2 Responses May 15

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    Very, Very Angry

    I feel like having wasted the last two years of my life on a stupid, superfluous person, that I thought to be open-minded and unique.  (Please excuse any mistakes, since I am not a native speaker of english) No, we didn`t even have a relationship. And yes I was secretly in...
    basics basics 22-25 Feb 8, 2009

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    Yes I Sure Do!

    it makes an *** out of you and me.
    peachfuzz68 peachfuzz68 41-45, F Feb 24, 2012

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    The "type" Factor.

    I have ALWAYS hated people who assume. Ever since I was younger. I was always assumed to be something they THOUGHT I was. Always. When I use to read on things that people found scary, they ultimately thought I was a freak and grow up as one of the things I read about. This...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2010

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    Collective You

    I hate when people assume  comments that are posted are directed directly at them.  I try very hard to not hurt anyones feelings (other than JJ and Quirky WINK WINK) and I would never post something to hurt anyone on purpose. Please if you see something in my...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses May 26, 2008

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    I absolutely hate it

    when people assume I'm a perverted human being with no interest in spending time with guys. Just because I'm a lesbian I have to go through these stupid assumptions these people make of me. I hate it when girls don't approach me (unless they need me for something x|) because...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow 16-17, F 1 Response May 23

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    Related Experiences

    I don't like it when people assume things, full stop. All it does is cause confusion and eventually leads to disagreement or a lost opportunity.
    watjusthappened watjusthappened 41-45, M Jul 17

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    I hate when people say stay positive, like that will magically just change things. It doesn't, it just gives you a fake or false sense of hope that things will be better when they...
    Kman4You Kman4You 36-40, M Jul 21

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    I hate when people say my main as in my main man or my main girl why? Because that implies that yes he/she is the most important one but that there are others! I don't want to be...
    lovelylady20 lovelylady20 18-21, F Jul 11

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    Hate When People Talk to Me Like Im Stupid
    michigan11 michigan11 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    It ****** me off when people touch my stuff. I don't care if nobody cares about this comment if I was you people I wouldn't care either, but I need to vent. Isn't it just so...
    JezebelWhitman JezebelWhitman 16-17, F 4 hrs ago

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    okay, let me make this clear. I am a skinny person. I am a size 2 and I eat healthy (hate junkfood) and I do a lot of sports and I love being active. But I am skinny because of my...
    rukesh3 rukesh3 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's happened to me so many times in all my years. I just absolutely hate it when people talk to like I'm uneducated, stupid, or even sound like I'm mixing up words in my sentence...
    SamHarris SamHarris 22-25, M 5 days ago

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    I ******* hate it when people pity me. I have to waste my time making them feel better about I am!! Worry about you not me
    mypath43 mypath43 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    What i post is my business. You won't change how i live my life by being dirt bags, i can tell you this much. But guess what people, you will cause me to have a few panic attacks...
    chemically99 chemically99 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I hate when I am in the middle of a nice conversation and they suddenly stop messaging me back! The worst part is that I know that they have their phone on them all the time!
    PrincessAphrodite PrincessAphrodite 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I can't stand it when people talk loud on their cell phones allowing everyone around them in on their conversation. That is so rude and it isn't necessary.
    strawberry38 strawberry38 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I find it difficult to keep my temper when this happens. What I've noticed is 9 times out of 10, the person talking to me this way talks that way to almost everyone. That makes it...
    Sunburst Sunburst 22-25 3 days ago

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    I am so tired of hearing the neverending professional dress code rules applied to males and females but primairly to females. There are many reasons why I can't stand professional...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Really tired of people telling me to thing positive. Thinking positive does not help me. All the times I have thought positive only bad things happened to me, so explain to me why...
    BleuGirl83 BleuGirl83 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I also hate it when religious people (mainly christians) classes me as someone who has no moral beliefs and lives in sin. I'm an atheist but I'm also a spiritualist. I have never...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    Most do but. Did we set them up. Or did life fowl them up. Hurt is ok. But hate??? Hate jerks. Not those who tried.
    converted converted 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    Yep they pretend to care when really there just like everyone else they hate me so much that they tell people every secret I've shared thinking they cared shows how smart I am ..I...
    noolybabe14 noolybabe14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Wow. I just got blocked by someone whom I was merely encouraging to think for herself and not let people put ideas in her head without understanding why she accepts them. I'd hate...
    KatieTreat KatieTreat 51-55, T 1 Response a week ago

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    People always leave. At some point it another, they leave. It's like I am a magnet, and I repel anybody who could possibly be close to me. Nobody ever sticks around long enough...
    LiveForAnotherDay LiveForAnotherDay 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    Talk to me like I am stupid and I will turn it around on you. You will not get the best of me, that is so rude and uncalled for to talk to me like I am stupid. Maybe your the...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    I hate it when somebody say just because I'm a black woman I should like to date black men If I was never in to them in the first place and don't even love them at all I'm sorry to...
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F Jul 22

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    Please read my stories and experiences. Add me or send me request only when you feel like connected. I believe, you will always meet someone of your type and I am just not one of...
    Mastertist Mastertist 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 9

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    i don't know why people promise to stay forever in my life when they don't do so...............i like my bestiee so much......whenever i text her she replies that she was busy...
    jimmybf jimmybf 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 11

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    Seriously, just stop. No really, cut the crap. I am human. I am a teenager. When i post, it isn't my search for a perv so please if you could just stop acting like total a**holes...
    chemically99 chemically99 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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