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I Hate When People Assume Things

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    I hate it when people assume

    that i LIKE them. I never hug you, flirt with you, or message you meaningful stuff. I WAS JUST BEING NICE. Why. Do. You. Think. I. Have. A. Crush. On. You. ?
    lindasawr lindasawr 16-17, F Feb 9

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    Everyday At School!

    In general its getting old. For example I have a guy friend at school I always sit and talk to in class and at lunch and people think were dating when people ask me if were dating I get so embarrassed and annoyed. A teacher asked me that too! Why does it matter? I never really...
    MysteriousShadow MysteriousShadow 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    College Instructors

    I am in college. Sometimes an instructor teaches more than one class. I was signed up for three in a row, two in the summer and one in the fall. Well, life happens. I ended up restructuring my course load by dropping a bunch of classes and signing up for others that fit into my...
    AzaleaElise AzaleaElise 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 14, 2012

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    My B*tch Hairdresser...

    so, i went to the hair salon today. im the type that just likes to get my hair done without a whole lot of conversation. im a private person in real life and usually i dont like discussing my life with people..especially people that i dont know that well. but this b*tch just kept...
    welcome2myworld welcome2myworld 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    Like My Ex

    she thought she was the cats pyjamas real hot and sexy that ever man want to **** her she was so crazy i'm lucky i didn't get hurt worse than i did
    wotaloser wotaloser 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 4, 2011

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    Get To Know Them First

    I have always hated it when people assume things about me. If you don't know then don't think that you know what's going on in my life or that you know me just because you saw me for a few minutes.Before I started transition I was called a lesbian by most people that I met...
    lyricaldemise lyricaldemise 36-40 1 Response Apr 20, 2013

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    What the Hell

    yes ive talked about it on a different experiance but its still applies. My roomate thinks im going to quit college because i am taking a three week leave of absence and now he is giving me the silent treatment and telling people i quit. I mean doesnt everyone need a break now...
    Bignc Bignc 22-25, M Aug 27, 2008

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    Yeah

    Stop assume Things. Assuming things isn't good... For Example: Groupies doesn't have to sleep with an famous person in order to be a groupies. Please.  You collect their movies, CDs, whatever you want. Beside some groupies doesn't want entanglement. You know... Okay for...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 27, 2008

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    You Do Not Know Me.

    Don't read a story by me and assume that you know me.  That is really ******* annoying.  Maybe, if you read all of my posts, then you know alot about me, because I don't hold back here.  But if you've only read one thing by me, or just a couple, do not tell me what...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    It's Ok Though

    You can think whatever the **** you like about me, but I know the ******* truth.The sad part is, I was really starting to like you a lot and that **** is so ******* hard for me to do.  It's difficult for me to open up to people.I know now that I shouldn't have let my guard down...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M 3 Responses Jan 12, 2012

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    You Don't Know What You're Talking About!

    I HATE PEOPLE WHO ASSUME THINGS! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU??!! WHY do YOU always ASSUME things that are NOT TRUE?!?! It doesn't make any sense….I do things for a reason but you assume they’re for another reason! WHY ARE YOU ASSUMING THINGS IN THE FIRST PLACE??? YOU DON’T MAKE...
    Norra Norra 16-17, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2012

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    Are You Serious?!

    When I was working at an Animal Hospital, there was a young woman who really didn't like me...at all. She would start rumors, talk trash, etc. But since I was part-time it didn't really get to me until one day. There were a bunch of girls upfront and we were all chit-chatting and...
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21 22-25, F 6 Responses Aug 9, 2008

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    YES! :-)

    Like they say.... To "assume"  makes an "***" out of "u" and "me"! Don't do it people!! :-)
    Yohanna Yohanna 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 17, 2008

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    The True Meaning of The Word "Assume"

    Assuming is just THINKING you know. Knowing is KNOWING you know. That aside, you have heard the best definition of the word "assume", right? I was always told tht people who assume, only "make an *SS (out of) U (and) ME! The only issue I have with this...
    snowlady snowlady 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 6, 2009

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    My Mother Does It All the Time

    My mother assumes things all the damn time. She never tries to see what is going on, she just assumes, that she knows everything about what is going on. Like when I woke up, she was sleeping, im the one who cleaned up, and who got my boyfriend off to work, and than since I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Aug 8, 2009

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    Shut Up!

    Most of the time, people that assume really need to keep their big mouths shut. I cannot stand people that make assumptions on things they hardly know about or about people they don't know at all. Get the facts first before you speak out of your ***.
    KawaiiDoll KawaiiDoll 18-21, F May 16, 2011

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    Very, Very Angry

    I feel like having wasted the last two years of my life on a stupid, superfluous person, that I thought to be open-minded and unique.  (Please excuse any mistakes, since I am not a native speaker of english) No, we didn`t even have a relationship. And yes I was secretly in...
    basics basics 22-25 Feb 8, 2009

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    Yes I Sure Do!

    it makes an *** out of you and me.
    peachfuzz68 peachfuzz68 41-45, F Feb 24, 2012

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    I Don't Wear Dresses

    The last time i was in a dress was 13 yrs ago, i'm not a girly girl. I feel myself in a t- shirt and jeans.. I was a tom boy growing up, i was fascinated by nature and what lived in it. I was raised in the middle of no where lol farm land was as far as the eye could see, and then...
    peachfuzz68 peachfuzz68 41-45, F Feb 26, 2012

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    Collective You

    I hate when people assume  comments that are posted are directed directly at them.  I try very hard to not hurt anyones feelings (other than JJ and Quirky WINK WINK) and I would never post something to hurt anyone on purpose. Please if you see something in my...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 4 Responses May 26, 2008

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    Stupid People!

    I don't care if you do it for theorys or anthing but it really makes me mad when I'm trying to talk then someone jumps in and says somthing as if they know whats going to happen. Yes sometimes there right but other times there not and it's just bad communcation. Then theres the...
    mastermind109 mastermind109 18-21 1 Response Sep 16, 2010

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    Yes

    Come on. Tell me if I have upset you in my comments. We are adults here. Don't block me because I made some idoitic comments or a hurtful comments. I will fix it.Let me know. Don't make assume. I got that in my real life. People think I'm my dad's wife. Hello? I look like my...
    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 7, 2011

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    "Oh, an Asian girl...

    she must be from Asia!" NO, I'm not. That's just plain ignorant and stupid.
    saiyuu saiyuu 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    The "type" Factor.

    I have ALWAYS hated people who assume. Ever since I was younger. I was always assumed to be something they THOUGHT I was. Always. When I use to read on things that people found scary, they ultimately thought I was a freak and grow up as one of the things I read about. This...
    RivoltaSilenziosa RivoltaSilenziosa 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2010

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    i hate when people cheat on university exams and dont get caught. they do better than everyone else and just dont get caught! LIFE SEEMS SO UNFAIR
    LonelyThoughts LonelyThoughts 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    ''You should be lucky to have parents, some people don't have them.'' Lucky? I would be luckier if I didn’t have people who I call mom and dad, maybe then other people would...
    KidAgony KidAgony 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I just started at a new job working in a group home for people with disabilities about a month and a half ago. I know how to help most of the people right now and usually ask for...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F Apr 1

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    I HATE IT. its the worst feeling , especially when it comes from someone you love or care about. I hate that guilty feeling you have when you stand up for your self and say no. I...
    IllecebrousIvy IllecebrousIvy 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Hate it when people have a dig at teen mothers most of them do a better job than older mothers yeah nay not be able to bring them up but they learn the hard way and appreciate life...
    kelslouise kelslouise 13-15, F 6 Responses Mar 24

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    Or like when they say they are going to do something and don't do it, or vice versa. My mother in law has this problem and it annoys the crap out of me. She's always complaining to...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F Mar 25

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    I have been on & off with this guy since the 7th grade. I finally told him a couple months ago I had feelings for him again & he said the same. Three weeks ago my friend had a...
    ohitsgracee ohitsgracee 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I cannot stand petty offenses of social code and rules. Those who budge a line, ask employees to do things they're not supposed to, manipulate even little things to try and get...
    cybersoupkitchen cybersoupkitchen 22-25, F Apr 10

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    So there's this new girl that moved to our school and I hate her, she's so bubbly and happy all the time and she doesn't get I hate her she won't bloody leave me alone and she...
    TheGreenEyedGirl TheGreenEyedGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Most people I know cannot be honest with what they feel about me, and I hate it. It bugs me when they go drink alcohol so they can have the guts to tell me. Man up and say what you...
    Kaksy Kaksy 18-21, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    People who talk to me only when they need to talk to someone. I'm all for listening to my friends vent but not ONLY for that. I'm not a therapist, nor do I plan on being a...
    PitchDaffy PitchDaffy 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I finally deleted you, you know? All that time & energy wasted on listening to your LIES. I think the reason you "disappeared" is because lies are simply too hard to keep up and...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F Apr 4

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    I hate internet dating so much...it's alway never be true!!! Cheater alway cheat! Hurt us so bad!! Anyone had of this experience??
    JingNean JingNean 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    "Maybe you're depressed and having all these problems in your life because you strayed from God," my sister told me. What bullshit. Even when I was religious, I was depressed...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 70+ 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Me and a couple people got in an argument about my ex, his sister said it was me and chases fault he was acting like a ****. ( chase is my boyfriend )
    diaperedsammy diaperedsammy 16-17, M Mar 29

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    I feel bad for obese people and they say they cant do it but they can :) the reason i feel bad cause yesterday i say a obese 32 year old guy running and this guy said stop fatty...
    Drags700 Drags700 31-35 5 Responses Mar 31

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    Look, these people are obese for a reason and it is NOT down to inheritance...... Just saying
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M Apr 2

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    as a toddler, I would always hit my head, and yes, I had trouble pronouncing words too (since thats a sign) but it got better but I still have trouble at times. Anyway, I always...
    KiraAnkoku71 KiraAnkoku71 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I'm pain of hurt..6 people hurt me in the same time :( thank u for hurting me
    JingNean JingNean 16-17, F Apr 11

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    What's more annoying is that the people who hurt you tend to be the ones who said wouldn't hurt you, and the ones you were close with. 😔
    ConcealedWildheart ConcealedWildheart 13-15, F a week ago

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    Especially when they're explaining something to me and don't give me enough information. No, I don't understand. I'm not a ******* mind reader!
    MrTimothyMcNeil MrTimothyMcNeil 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 5

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    That feeling when your friend says hes busy , but you meet him at the store with other friends going drinking. Rude.
    notworthitatall notworthitatall 18-21, M a week ago

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     No, just no.   
    Toby89 Toby89 36-40 4 hrs ago

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    Pple out there are F******* stupid They don't even knw how to treat Women :(
    Riyachhetri Riyachhetri 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 20

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    ~~~~~~~Who doesn't?~~~~~~~
    justaGeneralization justaGeneralization 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I was losing my BFF.yep,a reason must be unbelievable and impossible but it truly sure!! They hurt me by making happy moment around me and laugh with others and stare at me as...
    JingNean JingNean 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I now have a habit to check because being in a public school bathroom and you can't clean your butt sucks
    Sheslikethewind Sheslikethewind 18-21, F Apr 2

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    She lied me nearly full of my whole life.... A reason and a truth one I heard silently is "She is the one who broke my parents relationship" She is my GRANDMA!!!!!!!!!! Y u do...
    JingNean JingNean 16-17, F Apr 12

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