I Hate When People Blame the Victim of Abuse

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    Like Its Their Fault???

    I really HATE when People do this! Its not Like someone ASKS to be abuse, and its not like they WANT it. it makes me really sick to my stomach when people do this, and even more when people BLAME the victim! Its so wrong! It angers me deeply!
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    Jan 7, 2011


        i hate when people blame the victim . like for instance a R---- or anything like that . they didn't ask for it to happen .
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    Oct 27, 2009

    Its Not The Blaming Its the Affects of It

    We all know or have been in the shoes where someone said if you hadn't have so much to drink, if you didn't talk back, if you didn't let yourself be alone with him, had you made a better choices, you knew they were angry why did you, We hear it and when you hear it once you may...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82
    31-35, F
    Jul 28, 2009

    If That's The Case...

    Often times if someone points the finger at the victim, they are just uneducated and lacking the experience in the matter that would set them straight. My Mom left, she did what she had to by taking us kids out of state and away from our Dad. But she had seven of us, where was...
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    Nov 16, 2010
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