I Hate When People Have Children But Don't Want To Be Parents

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    My friend Mia did this exact thing.

    She actually told me that she didn't like her son. It was heartbreaking! I'm thankful that she actually had the baby instead of aborting him and she is actually going to put him up for adoption, which will really be the best thing for him. I hope he goes to a home where he is...
    Hannah1100 Hannah1100
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Mar 24, 2016

    DID YOU SEE THE NEWS ABOUT THAT BASTARD?

    !?!?!? The babygirl's stepfather?!?!? BASTARD!!! The poor 3 year-old was thrown into the pool by her stepfather or soon to be stepfather since he was dating her mother... anyway... That mother*#$!@ caused the death of that babygirl! The video was HORRIBLE to watch! Seeing the...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    if you have to pass a test to drive a car i

    feel you should have to pass a test before you can have a kid...mandatory birth control for those who fail! just sayin!
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jan 18, 2015

    My cousins' story: They lived with their mother

    and father for a while. The kids slept late. Didn't do homework. Their parents couldn't care less. "Do your homework" is not enough for kids at an impressionable age. The first born grew into the crowd, started smoking, drinking. The second child had a best friend to help escape...
    DoorMattress DoorMattress
    16-17, M
    1 Response Jan 16, 2015

    Seriously . This applies to

    so many people nowadays . And they treat their kids like trash. No... They take better care of trash than their children
    SoleExecutioner SoleExecutioner
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2015

    this is why shouldn't try to convince those

    who chose the childfree lifestyle
    Fralicious Fralicious
    18-21, F
    Dec 8, 2015

    Lot of spoiled bratty kids here blaming their

    parents for every mistake in their life. Sad
    Dadhas2girls Dadhas2girls
    41-45, M
    5 Responses Oct 6, 2015

    I know a man and a woman,

    who don't deserve their kids. They have 3 boys, who are 5, 4 and 2 years old. If they do something bad, like hit each other while playing, their parents slap them in the face! It hurts my heart seeing it
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    fornication is no means of communication,

    dont abuse your mind body and soul for a man's thrill........... life comes from that (sex) give your best when worth it ,society standards of friendship is unhealthy, no need to lay your body down
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Mar 17, 2015

    Think About It

    Something I read recently, Having a child is like contemplating a tattoo on your face: You have to be completely sure you can live with it before going ahead.
    avatarunknown avatarunknown
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2012

    Hello people, this is the 20th century,

    I'm sure we all know about contraceptives. If you can't look after yourself or use common sense in your own life, then why bring an innocent child into this world. The general rule is to step up and not down...
    Lee124 Lee124
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Aug 8, 2015

    Having a child is not like buying a lipstick

    then decide you don't want it anymore. If you're having a child you must be ready to do it 100% and not just physical care but also emotional and being there for them till you die. If you're not willing to do that, then don't breed.
    Offing Offing
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 2, 2014

    I was at a local fair today

    and I see an older brother, probably 10, dragging his unruly brother, maybe 6, to his dad because he was misbehaving. The dad, who was talking to a friend, just ignored both children and the older brother had to grab his brother again only this time the younger brother was...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Aug 29, 2015

    The most annoying thing is

    when you hear stories on the news where parents forgot their kids in the car. There was one where I live and it was a mother and a father unloading there three kids from the car and there was some miscommunication and the parents forgot the youngest in the car and he died. If...
    blinkonegirl blinkonegirl
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2015

    Children Should Enjoy Being Children

    parents should be always reminded that children as soon as they are expected and born into this world already has certain rights as declared by the UN. 1. All children have the right to what follows, no matter what their race, colour sex, language, religion, political or other...
    TheaRhyss TheaRhyss
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Dec 5, 2012

    Before ANYONE ever has kids,

    they need to have a dog for a couple years, if you can raise a dog, you possibly can raise a child, but if you can't keep a dog, Don't. Have. Kids.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    11 Responses Nov 2, 2014

    if you don't want to be a parent then get a

    hysterectomy/vasectomy. it's that simple.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 28, 2015

    What the hell do I do?

    My parents are both unreliable, and are putting me in a bad position. I lived with my father up until 8 months ago, as he was abusive, pulling me around my apartment by my hair, and hitting me... I moved in with my mom and younger sister, but things aren't good here either. My...
    Emigirl7 Emigirl7
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015

    Kids in the backseat cause accidents,

    but accidents in the backseat causes kids. Too bad certain people cannot handle these accidents. :(
    Imaginatrix Imaginatrix
    18-21, M
    Jun 4, 2015

    A large majority of my friends only live with

    one of their parents now as their parents got divorced. Its so common nowadays know body is even shocked when someone says that their parents are divorced. I think the worst thing about this though is if this happens or a couple with a child brake up, a lot of the time the dad...
    SilkyDoughnut SilkyDoughnut
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 22, 2015

    Youth is not an excuse either.

    I was a teen mother, but I took responsibility. I stayed care of my son on my own.
    SocialHermit SocialHermit
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Oct 6, 2015

    If you didn't want to have the responsibility

    of raising a child then you should of wrapped it the **** up. So now because you were careless or reckless a child has to go through hell and get put into the system without the proper love they need if they aren't lucky.
    ALostSiren ALostSiren
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    I am not saying that I am a great mom

    or the best in the world but am trying to be. Being a single parent is really hard.My daughter's birthday was last week. She had 2 celebrations. Not everyone can come on a weekday but I did not want her to have nothing on her exact birth date.She was ecstatic at the big Black...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 11, 2015

    ************* need to grow the **** up first

    before raising their child how to mature. I hate when parents complain about the things they're missing out in life when they have a child, it's like what were you expecting? Just feed the baby and play with it, like a pet or something? Grow the **** up!
    WinterSkyout WinterSkyout
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 4, 2014
    CODECRACKER2014 CODECRACKER2014
    41-45, M
    Mar 7, 2016

    Too many people having kids

    as a result of intoxicated nights of fun and then have to deal with the burden of children. Those children grow up in a bad environment. Which makes me advocate adoption by same sex couples because every child growing up in that environment is wanted and loved.
    Zer0Point13 Zer0Point13
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 6, 2016

    Meaning Of Being A Parent

    For all you women and men that want a child for the sake of having a child, read on. As long as you understand that the child is not going to be only yours but also the Father's...he is going to be part of that child's life all his life and if you and the father have tension and...
    bajana bajana
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 22, 2012

    License To Breed

    I have always been extremely annoyed whenever I go to the store or in public in general and see kids walking all over their parents, screaming, yelling, running around, taking things that arent there's, being rude to others, and the parents just let it happen for reasons I'll...
    WakgUp WakgUp
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 4, 2011

    Can I Have Her?

    Overheard today in a supermarket: Parents with a child of possibly two years old.  Both parents were doing the shopping and moved some distance away from the trolley in search of different things.  The child made a noise, wanting them to come back and then threw her dummy...
    avatarunknown avatarunknown
    51-55, F
    11 Responses Apr 2, 2011

    Not A Hobby

    I have a sister that has always wanted children, I remember when she was growing up;  It was something she always talked about.  She got Married to someone that shared her desire and they love having their kids.  They take the hard parts as part of the package...
    taddeebar taddeebar
    36-40, M
    4 Responses May 31, 2010

    Blame Society- Society punishes childlessness.

    Even here in Sweden,the world's socialist paradise, childlessness is punished. If you have no children you have almost no money for personal use, because you pay 60% or more in taxes. In America, there is argument over a woman's right to termination, which will undoubtedly lead...
    FutureNuclearRadiologist FutureNuclearRadiologist
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 27, 2014

    My mom yells and shouts at my brothers

    for not cleaning up after themselves. Where was all that energy when it was time to buy condoms?
    iReallyLoveJorgie iReallyLoveJorgie
    18-21, F
    Apr 20, 2016
    poiemajeremiah poiemajeremiah
    36-40, M
    5 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    Some people don't take care of their kids,

    it's one of the things i hate the most! I love kids, and its such a sad thing that parents who see them as assets have them. They need to be looked after, they need love and a lot of care. They are capable of making us happy in such a strange way, they all deserve good parents...
    wishfullthoughts wishfullthoughts
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 11, 2014

    To me sound like the child is a Gucci hand bag

    accessory it goes with what with the dress or something.
    Serina1996 Serina1996
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 13, 2015

    What you do, always comes with a consequence.

    Good or bad. ------------------------------- So here's a 100% true story, that is currently going on in my life. I won't say names, but it's one of my siblings. ------------------------------- Young. Did his own thing. Chose his friends. Everything was fine. They soon...
    HannahMarieX HannahMarieX
    22-25
    Jan 13, 2015

    Me and my fiance have been together

    for 3 years now. When we first got together he briefly told me what was going on between him and his baby mother but I never understood the severity of things until later. So let me start from the beginning they met back in 2006 they had a child in 2007 at the time fiance was...
    tblunt tblunt
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2015

    LadyHeartnMind LadyHeartnMind
    31-35, F
    Aug 8, 2015

    Some women are just too shameful

    and cunning, they would use pregnancy to tie dumb rich guys down. Children being used as a means to an end. Those kind of people who bring innocent lives into the world are no less cruel than a murderer.
    Peccare Peccare
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 22, 2014

    Why have kids if you have no intention to care

    for them ? It makes no freaking sense to me . Instead of neglecting & abusing them , give them to someone who can't have kids or someone that will actually take care of them . Damn .
    momo335 momo335
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 16, 2015

    My mom should have never became a mother.

    She told us she didn't love us and we were a burden.
    daydreamer40 daydreamer40
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2016

    Many people seem to be misunderstanding the

    term parent, and I thought I should place that in context. The title parent does not in any shape or form refers to a general role on your kid, having your kid was a choice, creating him or her was gods choice. You simply cannot control your kids dream or wishes, don't twist...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jun 17, 2014

    Like, I really want a baby.

    And there is so many people my age who have babies, like I personally wouldn't have one now cause like I'm 17. But like all the 13,14,15,16,17 year olds so like mostly everyone in high school who has a baby is on drugs and don't want their baby. I always overhear awful comments...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2014
    goodwitchofthenorth goodwitchofthenorth
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    LONG: I am trapped. I’m not saying I want

    out, I’m just saying I couldn’t get out if I wanted to. And even if I wanted to and I could, it’s a no win situation. I really thought I was doing what was best for my son when I stayed home from class to breastfeed him after he was born. I figured the positive impact it...
    mommy1019 mommy1019
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2015

    My daughter has een married to a 'man'

    for a few years now and they have a 4 year old boy. My grandson is an awesome kiddo. Loves football,baseball....any sports. He has no fear whatsoever. Loves video games too! Amanda (my daughter) is an amazing mom. She does her best with Conner and loves him. Amandas husband...
    shakenama shakenama
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Oct 26, 2014
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