I Hate When People Judge Me On My Appearance

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    In So Many Ways....

    People come up with a lot of false ideas, based on my appearance. And many don't give me a chance or try to get to know me, for my true self. I am not particular attractive. I have a very bad smile, which isn't my fault, I was born this way. It's bad genes, not bad...
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    3 Responses Apr 29, 2009

    I Was Always Hated By Society

    I was small and short due to a neurological defect that I genetically inherited. People called me ugly, gay, stupid and a lot of other mean, hateful and nasty names from A to Z that they could think of. I just let them say whatever they want to say, because "divine justice" is...
    Randy030 Randy030
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 5, 2012

    Good and Bad

    It can be both good and bad. Sometimes people think you are less than what you are or it can work in your favor. Like they say, you can't judge a book by it's cover.....
    cinfullynn cinfullynn
    46-50, F
    10 Responses Feb 24, 2008

    Enough With The Insults Already

    Ugh. You have no idea how many times i've been hated on just because of the way I look. It's really trucking annoying. I'd like to address the following matters one by one, the first thing people who troll me and insult me say about my looks is that my hair is greasey...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13
    22-25, M
    Dec 10, 2012

    People Assume I'm Violent

    I get judged alot because I'm muscular with many tattoos. I'm 6' tall and 130kg. I've got heaps of tats and do get in many fights- most of which aren't my fault. Police often stop me in my car or on the street to see if i'm doing anything illegal. People seem very anxious around...
    souloftheether souloftheether
    26-30, M
    Mar 27, 2009

    There's Usually An Irony About It.

    For example, when someone who is not very attractive has a high expectation of the female appearance. I notice this much more with men than women. In my opinion, women tend to look on the inside rather than the outside. Or, if it's a woman who is "a different sort", at the...
    deleted deleted
    Apr 23, 2010

    I hate when people look at me

    and think I'm not smart. Okay, so I dress like every other white guy in America, and I'm in a frat, and I get really into football, but I'm not stupid. Sometimes when my friends find out that I write, and that I actually like to read they look at me like I've suddenly sprouted...
    HandsomeBadger HandsomeBadger
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Sep 28, 2015

    you chat, talk, whatever!

    Oh yea getting know them they send a pic! Awesome made a good friend send a pic, oh um your to fat for me!!! Whatever
    lilolis43 lilolis43
    46-50, F
    1 Response Sep 28, 2015

    I think that we live in a very appearance based

    society especially on Social Media because there is such a wide range of people to talk to and date this means that if you don't fit into a certain category your bound to be left out. In my case I'm not that lightskinned guy that shows off their muscles. And its sad really as...
    whotookdem whotookdem
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 7, 2016

    People either think that Im like 12,

    or really immature. I definitely not 12, but I guess you could argue that Im immature. Still, its not nice people think that without even talking to me >~< ~ Lys ♪
    LysChan LysChan
    22-25, F
    Jan 16, 2016


    It's not very nice, not very nice at all. It can be hurtful and just plain mean. I don't know anyone who likes being judged on their appearences. They all hate it because people take one look at you and judge you, they don't even get to know you first. That said though, many of...
    Luangi Luangi
    18-21, F
    Feb 24, 2008

    It's nice to be considered handsome,

    and I have worked to achieve my physique. But I'd rather be liked for my personality, and judged on my actions.
    Nickf20 Nickf20
    22-25, M
    Sep 27, 2015

    Up And Down

    There is this thing that women often do and it drives me nuts!  It happens to me quite frequently.  As a matter of fact it happened to me last night.  I ordered my food at McDonalds and was waiting for them to call my number.  This woman walks in obviously...
    ichooselife ichooselife
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Oct 24, 2009

    Always Judged.

    because supposedly i'm 'a fake, a trouble maker, a ******, stupid, harsh, too serious, etc etc'because of the way i look. i just want people to get to know me.but they don't want to get to know me usually, because they always seem to be afraid of me.or they don't even care for...
    jaycesaveswhales jaycesaveswhales
    18-21, M
    Aug 2, 2011
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