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I Hate When People Judge Teen Moms

Not all teen moms use or abuse the system, are bad parents, or glamorize being teen moms and getting pregnant. Read our stories before you judge us! 319 People

    Sometimes What People Say Can Hurt Like Bullets Only If You Let It Though - I am young but I am married and Im currently 3 months pregnate i have finished highschool. when i left...
    savannah1994 savannah1994 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 13, 2013

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    I Suree Do.. - My grandma was one , My mom was one , my brother's girlfriend currently is one , and I'm gonna be one in January. Not all teen mommies are the same. It doesn't...
    AmandaLanae21 AmandaLanae21 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2013

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    News Flash: There Are Plenty Of Bad Parents Out There Who Aren't Teen Moms - I'm a Teen Mom (does 19 count?), and most of the crappiest parenting I've seen comes from 30somethings...
    mentalskillness mentalskillness 26-30 Feb 22, 2013

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    I hate people who judge you as a teen mom. I was fifteen walking with my two year old son. People called am a **** and and said I was messing up my sons life. What those people don...
    Teenmommy16 Teenmommy16 16-17, F Dec 14, 2013

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    I Understand.. - I do understand, but yet, there is no reason to voice your negative opinion. The reason teen moms have a bad rep. is because of people running their mouth on their...
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 22, 2013

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    Getting Pregnant At 13 & Having Her At 14 - I got pregnant at 13. It was very unexpected . I was thinking about abortion . I went to the abortion clinic & got explained to me...
    hannah14botz hannah14botz 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 13, 2013

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    People Here Can Be So Judgmental - I spend a lot of my time in the caravan cleaning and taking care of my husband, and I am not showing that much yet. I just started showing more...
    poppyjoy poppyjoy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 9, 2013

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    Think Before Judge, It Could Be The Best For You! - Well I'd like to share with you a fact that happened to me and to my fiance Nathe almost 6 months ago... Everything started at 9...
    BraidensMama18 BraidensMama18 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 1, 2012

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    Hate it when people have a dig at teen mothers most of them do a better job than older mothers yeah nay not be able to bring them up but they learn the hard way and appreciate life...
    kelslouise kelslouise 13-15, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    Why? - I thought I would share why I hate the fact that people hate on teen parents. Mainly the moms.The reason I hate it is because they have done nothing wrong. Everyone who...
    EmleighPaigexo EmleighPaigexo 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    All So True! - I love seeing so many Mom's and even people without babies stand behind teen/ young mothers. I got pregnant at 18 and had my son at 19. My son was born at 27...
    gavinwyattmomma gavinwyattmomma 18-21, F 1 Response May 15, 2013

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    A Re-introduction And A Little Bit Of Background... - My name is Brooklyn and I am sixteen years old on Tuesday. I'm 22 weeks pregnant with a little girl named Tilly (Tayhlysha...
    EsmeAndBumpsMommyXO EsmeAndBumpsMommyXO 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 14, 2012

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    I'M A Mommy - Okay so I'm fifteen and I have a wonderful little three year old her name is Brittnie Ann Marie and I get to see her whenever I want. My mother talked me into giving...
    FanstayIsNotADream FanstayIsNotADream 18-21, F Feb 19, 2013

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    Shuuuuuut Up Seriously - I'm no different then an older mom. My love for my daughter isn't any different. So seriously knock it off. You haven't been raised by me so you don't know...
    fayesmama fayesmama 16-17, F Mar 25, 2013

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    I will always have people who judge me.. Call me names.But I have had sex with one person for the past 2 years. We are still together and I am pregnant at 15 almost 16. And I don't...
    alyssafab1 alyssafab1 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 11

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    Not All Teen Moms Are The Same - This is one of my biggest pet peeves, when people judge teen moms! Being a teen mom myself, I know how it feels when people let us down saying we...
    YoungTeenMommy YoungTeenMommy 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    Age Vs. Maturity - It's so easy to judge others before you know what they're going through and I will be honest, I watched shows like Teen Mom and 16 & Pregnant before I got...
    kourtneyjayne31 kourtneyjayne31 18-21, F Mar 4, 2013

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    Some people think I'm stupid for supporting teen mums but u arrogant ******* have no idea what it's like for them!
    IzzyFizzy IzzyFizzy 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 17

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    When people judge teen moms they are just judging. They don't know the stories behind how that baby was made. Yes sometimes it is their fault but ok at least they are taking care...
    Teenmommy16 Teenmommy16 16-17, F Feb 17

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    Too often we judge people on too little information. But instead of judging people on what they do and where they are in life, why don't you first look at their character, morals...
    alexa572s alexa572s 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 9

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    I Hate People Who Judge Me - I'm 16 and 33 weeks pregnant. When I walk down the street I get people starring at me because I'm pregnant and I hate it so much. I hate how they can...
    Mommy2bat16 Mommy2bat16 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2013

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    hate hate hate it. And i'm only 14 weeks along, the more I show, the more judgement i'm going to get. Let alone when the baby comes. I was told was week that i'm ridiculous if i...
    gmbell gmbell 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 24

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    18yrs Old And Had A Baby - So I keep finding this dilemma in my life. I will always be judged for having a child at a young age. I understand that it was an irresponsible act of...
    Falalalei Falalalei 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 30, 2013

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    Don't Understand.. - I just don't understand why.. I know it looks bad but well it happens. I am currently pregnant with my 2nd baby 14 weeks and 5 days pregnant and people at my...
    YoungTeenMommy YoungTeenMommy 13-15, F 5 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    Judgment - It's bad that others judge you but even worse when your bf mom does it. It's very conflicting with him cause at the same time when she calls me a b*tch or whatever it's...
    Lilbabymama19 Lilbabymama19 18-21 Feb 5, 2013

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    The Way The World Is ........... - I was watching this lady is walmart talking about teen moms and poor people and the way she talked about them made us sound like we were trash...
    savannah1994 savannah1994 18-21, F Feb 15, 2013

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    i hate when people cheat on university exams and dont get caught. they do better than everyone else and just dont get caught! LIFE SEEMS SO UNFAIR
    LonelyThoughts LonelyThoughts 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    ''You should be lucky to have parents, some people don't have them.'' Lucky? I would be luckier if I didn’t have people who I call mom and dad, maybe then other people would...
    KidAgony KidAgony 18-21, F Mar 26

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    I just started at a new job working in a group home for people with disabilities about a month and a half ago. I know how to help most of the people right now and usually ask for...
    betweenlustandlove betweenlustandlove 22-25, F Apr 1

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    I HATE IT. its the worst feeling , especially when it comes from someone you love or care about. I hate that guilty feeling you have when you stand up for your self and say no. I...
    DearestDesirable DearestDesirable 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    I hate when someone responds to me telling how "God will make everything better" "God made us all perfect! You're perfect!" and it's pushing their religion in an overly positive...
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    I simply can not stand being judged my needs are my needs and if people would listen maybe they would understand my motives or thoughts
    rb1998 rb1998 31-35, M Mar 21

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    I look down when I walk because I don't want people to look at me or judge me.
    MissMisunderstood1 MissMisunderstood1 16-17, F Mar 29

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    I hate that i cant go anywhere without some twelvie looking me up and down
    ILYBlackVeilBrides ILYBlackVeilBrides 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    We all judge. You can't help it! As soon as you see someone you make assumptions based on how they look or sound or what they're doing. That's human nature.
    StellaNoir StellaNoir 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 31

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    *cough* my boyfriends mom *cough* She knows nothing about me, and still judges me. Ugh.
    mcc1109 mcc1109 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Yes I make bad choices in my life I regret some I made good choices too I love god and I am not as bad as some people act like I am
    Sheslikethewind Sheslikethewind 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    So there's this new girl that moved to our school and I hate her, she's so bubbly and happy all the time and she doesn't get I hate her she won't bloody leave me alone and she...
    TheGreenEyedGirl TheGreenEyedGirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 30

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    Most people I know cannot be honest with what they feel about me, and I hate it. It bugs me when they go drink alcohol so they can have the guts to tell me. Man up and say what you...
    Kaksy Kaksy 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 3

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    People who talk to me only when they need to talk to someone. I'm all for listening to my friends vent but not ONLY for that. I'm not a therapist, nor do I plan on being a...
    PitchDaffy PitchDaffy 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I hate internet dating so much...it's alway never be true!!! Cheater alway cheat! Hurt us so bad!! Anyone had of this experience??
    JingNean JingNean 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    "Maybe you're depressed and having all these problems in your life because you strayed from God," my sister told me. What bullshit. Even when I was religious, I was depressed...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 70+ 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Or like when they say they are going to do something and don't do it, or vice versa. My mother in law has this problem and it annoys the crap out of me. She's always complaining to...
    AjLeePunk AjLeePunk 22-25, F Mar 25

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    Me and a couple people got in an argument about my ex, his sister said it was me and chases fault he was acting like a ****. ( chase is my boyfriend )
    diaperedsammy diaperedsammy 16-17, M Mar 29

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    I have been on & off with this guy since the 7th grade. I finally told him a couple months ago I had feelings for him again & he said the same. Three weeks ago my friend had a...
    ohitsgracee ohitsgracee 13-15, F Mar 30

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    I feel bad for obese people and they say they cant do it but they can :) the reason i feel bad cause yesterday i say a obese 32 year old guy running and this guy said stop fatty...
    Drags700 Drags700 31-35 5 Responses Mar 31

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    Look, these people are obese for a reason and it is NOT down to inheritance...... Just saying
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M Apr 2

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    I finally deleted you, you know? All that time & energy wasted on listening to your LIES. I think the reason you "disappeared" is because lies are simply too hard to keep up and...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F Apr 4

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    as a toddler, I would always hit my head, and yes, I had trouble pronouncing words too (since thats a sign) but it got better but I still have trouble at times. Anyway, I always...
    KiraAnkoku71 KiraAnkoku71 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    I cannot stand petty offenses of social code and rules. Those who budge a line, ask employees to do things they're not supposed to, manipulate even little things to try and get...
    cybersoupkitchen cybersoupkitchen 22-25, F 5 days ago

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