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I Hate When People Leave Without Saying Goodbye

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    i hate this. i didnt saw my father about 15

    years. and he left me and went in another contry and he never say goobye. i was litlle, and now i realy need father but he is not here. and i dont know how is to be kid which had father. he is alive but he dont want me i dont know why. and he still never say goodbye
    sincos sincos 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 23

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    beautifulbrowneyes21 beautifulbrowneyes21 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    A Goodbye Would Have Been Nice.

    I have come to the conclusion that nothing last forever and that I can deal with. What I cannot deal with is the end coming with no warning, no explanation, no nothing. I would have much preferred if you had told me you did not want to talk anymore, told me that this was the end...
    CalypsoChisisi CalypsoChisisi 18-21, F Oct 11, 2012

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    Well a month ago I received a text from my ex

    girlfriend saying "goodbye baby " , till this day I don't know why she say goodbye...
    Anotherfailmatty Anotherfailmatty 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    I love to leave without saying goodbye.

    I didn't even think it was a horrible thing. If I have to say bye I hate lingering at the door - I'm a quick bye-and-bolt person. If you don't say goodbye, it leaves you with a soft feeling of a moment continuing when you meet again. Like a pause button pressed, until you see...
    caddriss caddriss 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 14

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    ...and then drop by every

    once in a while to make you feel it. :(
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 1 Response May 3

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    Just last summer my mother,

    my own flesh and blood, left. She just up and left. I had to find out the day before I was going to see her from a friend. She wasn't even going to tell me. When I confronted her she said it was in the name if love. My mom left me so she could find "love".
    IAmAPainfulTruth IAmAPainfulTruth 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    My past two relationships were like that.

    One day we were fine, no fights, no problems, nothing then one day they just stop talking to me. Lucas and Ken were my last two and they just one day stopped responding to my texts and messages. I assumed they were just busy but then the messages would show as "seen" and then it...
    ceceophie ceceophie 18-21, F 1 Response May 3

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    I'd rather have a goodbye

    than this excruciating silence
    EmmelineAnne EmmelineAnne 16-17, F Dec 10, 2014

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    It took me 14 days of struggling,

    questioning, googling, around-the-clock munching, napping, day-dreaming, self-hating, tear-shedding, and obsessing over all things marines to figure out that I, for some reason, still thinks about you more often than I am proud to say. This is getting embarassing.
    dearalexe dearalexe 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I finally deleted you,

    you know? All that time & energy wasted on listening to your LIES. I think the reason you "disappeared" is because lies are simply too hard to keep up and you got tired. Since you, people have asked me why I can't take a compliment or why I react the way I do when they try to...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2014

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    maybe they dont forget about u,

    mabye the forget to remember u
    musicislife11 musicislife11 16-17, F May 30, 2014

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    It Really Bothers Me

    especially when it is someone i care about because life is so uncertain i think it is important say the i love yous and the goodbyes <3
    justjoni justjoni 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    I do...it sorta hurts my feelings a little.

    ...So it is with great sadness that I tell all my EP peppers that....I will be leaving soon logging out....sorry, please try to hold you're heads high.... know you're lives will go on without me.....ROFLMAO.....Those of you that know me know that I will miss you more than you...
    AngeleyesUponU AngeleyesUponU 41-45, F 23 Responses Jun 8

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    I feel like I've just been kind of

    mini-abandoned. Even if you have to go suddenly, it's not that hard to send "gtg"
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    I hate when you meet people on a social website

    like this and everything goes great at first. Then something happens totally out of your control and they get mad at you for whatever reason and want even come to you to discuss before they tuck their tail and block you or delete their account. I have had this happen so many...
    Jamestone73 Jamestone73 41-45, M 4 Responses May 12

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    :(

    I hate when people leave without saying good-bye.I kind of did it today to someone, but not intentionally, and I felt bad about it immediately, but there was nothing I could do about it anyway.But when it happens, it makes you sad. Sometimes it's hard to say good-bye to people...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    Yesterday my friend and I were at the library

    and he just left with someone else while I was bringing something up on the computer. :(
    spcufl spcufl 13-15, M Dec 10, 2014

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    Why do you leave when I need you the most.

    I sill miss you even tho you broke my heart. I don't need you anymore but I still want you. I know you will never come back to me so this is my goodbye to you I love you grandpa
    nekozgirl nekozgirl 16-17, F Mar 12

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    You know, I am tired of being alone.

    Or at least being alone in my head. I'm tired of staring at your Skype profile, internally screaming for you to call or text; for you to please, please change your mind. I'm tired of trying to find the reason you left , and knowing that I'll never get the definitive answer...
    dearalexe dearalexe 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    I think it's respectful to end a conversation

    with something along the lines of "goodbye". Otherwise, I sit there wondering if you're mad, if something bad happened to you, your internet went out, or what... Haha!
    CaliginousHeart CaliginousHeart 18-21, F Dec 3, 2014

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    If you leave without

    as much as a word, it shows that you hold me in very little regard. If you care about me at all, you should tell me why you want to leave. It hurts enough to be left in the first place, but it hurts even worse to not know why. I keep placing blame on myself and each time this...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 2 Responses May 17

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    My best friend who I lived with never said

    goodbye. I moved away and he never came out of his room...it's horrible being without him. I just want him back in my life. I am all alone.
    JaylynnDaereon JaylynnDaereon 26-30, F May 4

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