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I Hate When People Leave Without Saying Goodbye

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    ...and then drop by every

    once in a while to make you feel it. :(
    dabram71 dabram71 16-17, M 1 Response May 3

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    I think it's respectful to end a conversation

    with something along the lines of "goodbye". Otherwise, I sit there wondering if you're mad, if something bad happened to you, your internet went out, or what... Haha!
    CaliginousHeart CaliginousHeart 18-21, F Dec 3, 2014

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    Yesterday my friend and I were at the library

    and he just left with someone else while I was bringing something up on the computer. :(
    spcufl spcufl 13-15, M Dec 10, 2014

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    I hate when you meet people on a social website

    like this and everything goes great at first. Then something happens totally out of your control and they get mad at you for whatever reason and want even come to you to discuss before they tuck their tail and block you or delete their account. I have had this happen so many...
    Jamestone73 Jamestone73 41-45, M 4 Responses May 12

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    It took me 14 days of struggling,

    questioning, googling, around-the-clock munching, napping, day-dreaming, self-hating, tear-shedding, and obsessing over all things marines to figure out that I, for some reason, still thinks about you more often than I am proud to say. This is getting embarassing.
    dearalexe dearalexe 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2014

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    I finally deleted you,

    you know? All that time & energy wasted on listening to your LIES. I think the reason you "disappeared" is because lies are simply too hard to keep up and you got tired. Since you, people have asked me why I can't take a compliment or why I react the way I do when they try to...
    MommaBella MommaBella 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 4, 2014

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    My best friend who I lived with never said

    goodbye. I moved away and he never came out of his room...it's horrible being without him. I just want him back in my life. I am all alone.
    JaylynnDaereon JaylynnDaereon 26-30, F May 4

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    :(

    I hate when people leave without saying good-bye.I kind of did it today to someone, but not intentionally, and I felt bad about it immediately, but there was nothing I could do about it anyway.But when it happens, it makes you sad. Sometimes it's hard to say good-bye to people...
    kes36 kes36 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 19, 2012

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    A Goodbye Would Have Been Nice.

    I have come to the conclusion that nothing last forever and that I can deal with. What I cannot deal with is the end coming with no warning, no explanation, no nothing. I would have much preferred if you had told me you did not want to talk anymore, told me that this was the end...
    CalypsoChisisi CalypsoChisisi 18-21, F Oct 11, 2012

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    I'd rather have a goodbye

    than this excruciating silence
    EmmelineAnne EmmelineAnne 16-17, F Dec 10, 2014

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    Why do you leave when I need you the most.

    I sill miss you even tho you broke my heart. I don't need you anymore but I still want you. I know you will never come back to me so this is my goodbye to you I love you grandpa
    nekozgirl nekozgirl 16-17, F Mar 12

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    Well a month ago I received a text from my ex

    girlfriend saying "goodbye baby " , till this day I don't know why she say goodbye...
    Anotherfailmatty Anotherfailmatty 18-21, M 3 Responses Dec 22, 2014

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    You know, I am tired of being alone.

    Or at least being alone in my head. I'm tired of staring at your Skype profile, internally screaming for you to call or text; for you to please, please change your mind. I'm tired of trying to find the reason you left , and knowing that I'll never get the definitive answer...
    dearalexe dearalexe 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 16, 2014

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    beautifulbrowneyes21 beautifulbrowneyes21 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 25

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    Just last summer my mother,

    my own flesh and blood, left. She just up and left. I had to find out the day before I was going to see her from a friend. She wasn't even going to tell me. When I confronted her she said it was in the name if love. My mom left me so she could find "love".
    IAmAPainfulTruth IAmAPainfulTruth 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    It Really Bothers Me

    especially when it is someone i care about because life is so uncertain i think it is important say the i love yous and the goodbyes <3
    justjoni justjoni 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12, 2012

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    If you leave without

    as much as a word, it shows that you hold me in very little regard. If you care about me at all, you should tell me why you want to leave. It hurts enough to be left in the first place, but it hurts even worse to not know why. I keep placing blame on myself and each time this...
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    maybe they dont forget about u,

    mabye the forget to remember u
    musicislife11 musicislife11 16-17, F May 30, 2014

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    My past two relationships were like that.

    One day we were fine, no fights, no problems, nothing then one day they just stop talking to me. Lucas and Ken were my last two and they just one day stopped responding to my texts and messages. I assumed they were just busy but then the messages would show as "seen" and then it...
    ceceophie ceceophie 16-17, F 1 Response May 3

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    I feel like I've just been kind of

    mini-abandoned. Even if you have to go suddenly, it's not that hard to send "gtg"
    CaptainBenza CaptainBenza 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 17, 2014

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    I have the feeling that most of the times I attract bad people. Not talking only about lies, but just calling me when they desperately need something and then they disappear. I'm...
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    it gets really annoying, you try and start a civilized friendly conversation or a conversation you both have a similar interest in. Especially when you used to talk a lot, and then...
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    from now on, if you can't type an entire sentence without using text speak then I can't be bothered to reply.
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    vivianaluvsyou vivianaluvsyou 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I always see peoples lies but I don't say anything. I just want to meet people that are as real as me. What's the point of speaking if your not honest?
    hiddenjem hiddenjem 22-25, F Apr 25

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    I dont understand why people only talk to me to get requests of art and free comissions =_= they never respond, but when it comes to art they respond instantly
    KatoKangaroo KatoKangaroo 18-21, M 3 Responses May 4

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    This is my first post. I hope to use EP to vent so I don't freak out on people face to face. Lately I've been running into LIES AND LIARS. It's frustrating. My stepson was...
    doveinmypocket doveinmypocket 46-50, F 1 Response May 4

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    but I may also be wrong in thinking that they think that. Right now I am in an cabin at an campsite. And across the grass is someone foreign. But today I am just TIRED, have...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 1 Response May 8

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    I will tell you something. . . I am not sorry it took a few minutes or hours to get my reply. I am on a computer, not a phone that beeps every 5 seconds and that I can carry with...
    RebekahWriter13 RebekahWriter13 31-35, F May 14

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    I don't care anymore. People get busy, distracted, or think I don't care. I'm valuable and if they don't envy my time and attention that's their problem.
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M 1 day ago

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    my 71 year old mother does this. 10 years ago this woman didn't even own a cell phone. Her worst offense was when she finished a text with "ILY". Once I figuref out what it meant...
    SandyDandy1968 SandyDandy1968 46-50, F Apr 30

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    My mom was on the phone at a restaurant and she was YELLING and LAUGHING it was SO embarrassing, everyone was looking and giving dirty looks... I sank in my chair and when I told...
    FunnyBunny6129 FunnyBunny6129 13-15, F 3 Responses May 2

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    Ok so I noticed when my friend was hanging out with his other friends that he wasn't himself so I asked h about it later that day and he said oh I'm just going through...
    moneke16 moneke16 13-15, F 1 Response May 8

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    Please do not use text speak when talking to me. Call me a stuck up ***** if you want, but I'd rather be a "stuck up *****", than an illiterate moron.
    x0Raynebow0x x0Raynebow0x 22-25, F 2 Responses May 15

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    Lol my boyfriend made popcorn and burnt some, not thinking anything of it he didn't clean the microwave. It stays like this for a week. His dad only noticed it a couple days ago...
    bingbongtingtongg bingbongtingtongg 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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