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I Hate When People Nitpick

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    It's Negativity..

    and it wastes everyone's time...I try to hear people out, not judge anyone and find the positive in everything!...I think there would be far less depression, if people stopped tearing everyone else down and focused instead on the good in things...
    allycat419 allycat419 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2008

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    Can You Be a Little More Clear Here...?

     When you say, "I hate people who nitpick." Do you mean it metaphorically or literally. Personally I think picking at nits in the literal sense is gross. But in the metaphorical sense, it's really annoying but not gross. Not like it's bad mannered or something. I...
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 15 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Picky, Picky, Picky

    IT really ****** me off when people have to nitpick you over every little thing. It's like they are attacking you, YOU as a person all over and they are pointing out every little thing. I mean any tiny flaw or imagined flaw they can find to hound you about. Or they are...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 10 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Drives Me Nuts

    My girlfriend is great at this! lol Anything I do, she is right behind me with a microscope, looking for something wrong. She's trying to stop being so anal, but it's hard for her. lol I love her anyway, of course!
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Apr 12, 2010

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    Really?

    You have to go over it with a fine toothed comb? It's the driveway dad, people are actually going to drive on it, lol!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 24, 2011

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    GRRRRR!!

    I HATE IT! I REALLY HATE IT!!! not much makes me more mad than someone who nitpicks - it's enough to drive me insane. Sometimes I'll write a story and someone will just HAVE to have a little dig about something, no matter how small. I do feel sometimes as though some of my...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    I'm Having Heart Twinges

    I am having heart twinges in a sense. You see I have known most of these people for several years. Lately I have been feeling like who I am is not enough. I was going to say what I do but all in all who I am is mainly attacked. They will say I have a problem when I don't have one...
    poeticart poeticart 26-30 Oct 21, 2009

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    I really do too, it puts you in a place where you feel like YOU did something wrong. I didn't do anything wrong you just stopped!
    desertsage desertsage 46-50, F 30 mins ago

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    'The parents should have.....' Most people don't seem to know that a lot of people, for some reason, are just not capable of doing whatever 'parents should have done.' Or that...
    KidAgony KidAgony 22-25 2 days ago

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    Seriously guys. And I mean Men mostly. Please read my stories before adding me. I am very cheeky, lively, and I enjoy a good conversation but take a few minutes to read why I am...
    tinyivory tinyivory 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    If I'm pissed off, just back off and keep your opinions to yourself.
    JK7448 JK7448 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I really do, you know? I had a really close friend of mine suddenly disappear without saying goodbye. I couldn't tell if she was angry with me about something or she just didn't...
    LovingChihiro LovingChihiro 18-21, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    You say you love me, yet you disappear without a word, without a good bye or good night. You always do your own things and never care about me. Why am I the one who has to do my...
    Sakaii Sakaii 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I know this is my third post on the subject but I still can't get over the nerve (or pure selfishness) of some people! When you've talked online with the same person online for...
    DaddyBear214 DaddyBear214 56-60, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I was at a local fair today and I see an older brother, probably 10, dragging his unruly brother, maybe 6, to his dad because he was misbehaving. The dad, who was talking to a...
    Emergingsoul Emergingsoul 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    my 30 year old stepdaughter will call me a ***** and attack me viciously on facebook and to her family and then turn around and ask me how am i and tell me how she is going to name...
    mom4ce mom4ce 51-55, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm so mad at you. You hurt me so bad I'm shaking with anger and hurt my heart is broken you didn't say goodbye or I love you. Who are you what happened to you.Why did you let...
    Dxl24 Dxl24 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    If you're one of these pathetic people, don't even think about starting a dialog with me!
    DaddyBear214 DaddyBear214 56-60, M 5 days ago

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    Most of us have had it happen. Yet in my last experience with this, I did a little research on the mental disorder the person has...ticking time bomb! So it turned out to be good...
    DaddyBear214 DaddyBear214 56-60, M 5 days ago

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    Well this day can't get any ******* worse.
    KStyles96 KStyles96 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Seriously. I'm having a nice conversation with someone, and suddenly they stop talking to me. It happens all the time. Like, did I say something wrong? Am I boring? What is it? I...
    Spyro93 Spyro93 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Definitely agree. Some teen mom's are much better than an older mom. But the things that come out of the nonsupporters' mouth is ridicuolous, like you are talking to another person...
    ModifiedMamaofTwo ModifiedMamaofTwo 18-21, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    What the hell do I do? My parents are both unreliable, and are putting me in a bad position. I lived with my father up until 8 months ago, as he was abusive, pulling me around my...
    Emigirl7 Emigirl7 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    It happens a lot to me, because I hate being serious or showing off what I know all the time, I find it extremely boring and I mean no offense but I find it quite boring in other...
    RubyGirll RubyGirll 36-40, T 1 Response a week ago

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    I always have to keep my things a certain way or else it will bug me and I get so irritated when someone just grabs my stuff and doesn't put it back exactly where they found it.
    doomed4lyfe15 doomed4lyfe15 16-17, F a week ago

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    Someone talk to me i hate when people lie like ffs
    SWOF13 SWOF13 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    What keeps you busy that you can't reply to my messages?! Argh!! I hate being paranoid!!😒😒
    yuwinokito yuwinokito 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I have distain for others who talk to me like I am stupid. Also, I hate being talked down to. I am not a moron but a very intellectual female and college graduate with advanced...
    redheadedfemale redheadedfemale 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 26

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    I just got yelled at because the tv was on but I just walked into the living room? THEN I got yelled at because my cousin and his friend came over uninvited?? THENNNN I got yelled...
    Gabbysam Gabbysam 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Or refuse to LET the other be a parent.
    poiemajeremiah poiemajeremiah 36-40, M 6 Responses Aug 26

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    DID YOU SEE THE NEWS ABOUT THAT BASTARD?!?!?!? The babygirl's stepfather?!?!? BASTARD!!! The poor 3 year-old was thrown into the pool by her stepfather or soon to be stepfather...
    EarlPhantomhive EarlPhantomhive 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 26

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    do you its so sad..........................
    hopelove24 hopelove24 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 25

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    If you think I'm annoying or whatever just tell me. It's less insulting than just ignoring me.
    WanderingZK WanderingZK 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 25

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    Like come on! If you're going to add me to your bloody circle them message me first. This isn't f#cking twitter or instagram, just letting you guys know adding me to your circle...
    BriarRose96 BriarRose96 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Like no. I don't even know you. I know that some people take it or ask for it because they really DO want to talk or whatever. But I have social anxiety and it really creeps me out...
    HannahMarieX HannahMarieX 18-21 1 Response Aug 24

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    That's why I'm letting you know ahead of time I'm planning on deleting my account and starting with a new username and be more mature about what I'm posting. I will still keep...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 24

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    Pendulum stops and falls away Life sifted through like sand Storms of summer rain Flooding lifelines in our hands Our skin of blood and bone Gently close to dust and blows Our home...
    badday928 badday928 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    Stop messaging me asking me why I look so tired and what my problem is. It's not a great way to start a dialogue ffs. Learn to be more polite. Jeez.
    katariffik katariffik 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    This bugs me, take the time to form a friendship, share some awesome moments together and without a word, they are gone just like that, no good byes no explanation. You check your...
    AwakenEdge AwakenEdge 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 22

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    Yeah, like what the ****?!? I'm I really that insignificant and unimportant to where you can't even bother to even say a simple "goodbye" or "see you later" :/
    hinatahyuga809 hinatahyuga809 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    How can you be pro-war, anti-social safety net, and anti-healthcare then claim to be pro life!?
    secretlyhonest1 secretlyhonest1 22-25, M Aug 19

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