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I Hate When People Nitpick

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    It's Negativity..

    and it wastes everyone's time...I try to hear people out, not judge anyone and find the positive in everything!...I think there would be far less depression, if people stopped tearing everyone else down and focused instead on the good in things...
    allycat419 allycat419 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2008

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    I'm Having Heart Twinges

    I am having heart twinges in a sense. You see I have known most of these people for several years. Lately I have been feeling like who I am is not enough. I was going to say what I do but all in all who I am is mainly attacked. They will say I have a problem when I don't have one...
    poeticart poeticart 26-30 Oct 21, 2009

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    Picky, Picky, Picky

    IT really ****** me off when people have to nitpick you over every little thing. It's like they are attacking you, YOU as a person all over and they are pointing out every little thing. I mean any tiny flaw or imagined flaw they can find to hound you about. Or they are...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 10 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Can You Be a Little More Clear Here...?

     When you say, "I hate people who nitpick." Do you mean it metaphorically or literally. Personally I think picking at nits in the literal sense is gross. But in the metaphorical sense, it's really annoying but not gross. Not like it's bad mannered or something. I...
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 15 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Really?

    You have to go over it with a fine toothed comb? It's the driveway dad, people are actually going to drive on it, lol!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 24, 2011

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    Drives Me Nuts

    My girlfriend is great at this! lol Anything I do, she is right behind me with a microscope, looking for something wrong. She's trying to stop being so anal, but it's hard for her. lol I love her anyway, of course!
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Apr 12, 2010

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    GRRRRR!!

    I HATE IT! I REALLY HATE IT!!! not much makes me more mad than someone who nitpicks - it's enough to drive me insane. Sometimes I'll write a story and someone will just HAVE to have a little dig about something, no matter how small. I do feel sometimes as though some of my...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    tigradoll tigradoll 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Ugh and I hate it... It used to be that way That's why now I push them away first.
    LittleUnicorn LittleUnicorn 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Why push me away when I'm trying to get closer to you. All I think about is you. I wish I didn't because I'd at least have my heart together.
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    GoldenHeart69 GoldenHeart69 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    it's just so vexing and disappointing. i myself thought that my high school friends will always be my best friends for life but little by little, now in college, I think things are...
    Sonnetxvii Sonnetxvii 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    AlphaSigmaFuror AlphaSigmaFuror 13-15, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm expected to be uninformed and immature. Everyone around me is being fed lies about religion and se* and love and they tell me IM the one in the wrong. Like ...was I supposed to...
    Simone423 Simone423 13-15 6 days ago

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    Oh your gay? Then why did you choose a girl? Ohhhh you like me and see a future with me? Is that why your girlfriend is pregnant? Oh ok thought so dude. Oh you promise not to leave...
    lbell416 lbell416 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    wishingwellguy wishingwellguy 36-40, M a week ago

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    It hurts them it hurt you its messed up
    lbell416 lbell416 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    When your family tells you that you need to eat more healthy but all they buy is corn dogs and pizza bites. Then when you complain about that you are sick of eating corn dogs a...
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    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F Jul 21

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    Especially when they're the one who tell us not to leave them but they leave us without a goodbye
    Gill1998 Gill1998 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    thegreatruiner thegreatruiner 70+, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    OtsanaWolf3344 OtsanaWolf3344 13-15, F Jul 20

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    I do... And for a second I get confused. Like... What did I do to deserve the absence of a proper goodbye, a proper hug? I thought we had a connection. I thought that there was...
    NaomiSunshine NaomiSunshine 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    I miss some people, and my mind understands that they're gone, but keeps thinking about them so long later, and my heart is still hurt over it. I think I would have just liked some...
    KittyCassidy KittyCassidy 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 20

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    or when they leave the relationship and didn't tell you when or why.... they "leave" that to you to figure it all out!
    hauntd hauntd 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    People aren't sorry for their actions, they're sorry for the effect of their actions. Next time someone apologizes for something tell them "you can't be sorry for something you...
    ThePopeVino ThePopeVino 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    U & Me forever this way www.nidhisuraj.com There are so many Love Stories in this world. Few stories become so famous but few are unsaid and been buried with time. Few...
    evan003 evan003 18-21, F Jul 20

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    I know this is just another online realm, but common courtesy should still apply. After 3 months of consistent conversation with someone, just up and leaving is rude...even if we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 20

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    If you know you didn't buy it or put money towards please don't touch my stuff PERIOD.
    shericka1992 shericka1992 22-25, F Jul 20

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    Assumption is so annoying, is it not? ;p
    SaluteMii SaluteMii 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 18

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    When I'm pushed away by someone I care about I will do exactly that... Go away.
    mum2only1 mum2only1 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    me to i hate when ppl look down on me im big but i love girls that like big guys even when there not big,any on here lol
    PillsburyDoughman PillsburyDoughman 31-35, M Jul 17

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    It really drives me crazy when I say something nice to someone and they twist my words and make it look like a dig to them. Read what I wrote and understand it. Don't twist my...
    jjohnnyboy jjohnnyboy 41-45, M Jul 16

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    The body or external beauty is just a bunch of 'succesfully' between each other sticked chemical elements which traces are known to be found everywhere. So what's so unattractive...
    sirolosirolo sirolosirolo 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 16

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    Just because a certain way works for you doesn't mean it will work for me.
    usernameinneed usernameinneed 26-30, M Jul 16

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    I had a friend that would tell me how do do things, correct me if she didn't like my way or judge me because I didn't do the things she did. Lost my best friend by not doing what...
    lysgrant lysgrant 13-15, F Jul 16

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