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I Hate When People Nitpick

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    I'm Having Heart Twinges

    I am having heart twinges in a sense. You see I have known most of these people for several years. Lately I have been feeling like who I am is not enough. I was going to say what I do but all in all who I am is mainly attacked. They will say I have a problem when I don't have one...
    poeticart poeticart 26-30 Oct 21, 2009

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    Really?

    You have to go over it with a fine toothed comb? It's the driveway dad, people are actually going to drive on it, lol!
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 24, 2011

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    GRRRRR!!

    I HATE IT! I REALLY HATE IT!!! not much makes me more mad than someone who nitpicks - it's enough to drive me insane. Sometimes I'll write a story and someone will just HAVE to have a little dig about something, no matter how small. I do feel sometimes as though some of my...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    Picky, Picky, Picky

    IT really ****** me off when people have to nitpick you over every little thing. It's like they are attacking you, YOU as a person all over and they are pointing out every little thing. I mean any tiny flaw or imagined flaw they can find to hound you about. Or they are...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 10 Responses Jan 29, 2008

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    It's Negativity..

    and it wastes everyone's time...I try to hear people out, not judge anyone and find the positive in everything!...I think there would be far less depression, if people stopped tearing everyone else down and focused instead on the good in things...
    allycat419 allycat419 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 25, 2008

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    Can You Be a Little More Clear Here...?

     When you say, "I hate people who nitpick." Do you mean it metaphorically or literally. Personally I think picking at nits in the literal sense is gross. But in the metaphorical sense, it's really annoying but not gross. Not like it's bad mannered or something. I...
    penguinswon penguinswon 51-55 15 Responses Jun 18, 2009

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    Drives Me Nuts

    My girlfriend is great at this! lol Anything I do, she is right behind me with a microscope, looking for something wrong. She's trying to stop being so anal, but it's hard for her. lol I love her anyway, of course!
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Apr 12, 2010

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