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I Hate When People Only Talk To Me When They Need Something

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    A Call Away, A Call You Say

    I know that in some way, shape and or form Im wanted. If it were for other reasons then Im sure this whole "lonelyness" thing would clear up, like someone wiping the smudge off of dirty glasses. At least you call when you need something..at least there is that. If I had to make a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 11, 2013

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    Im Used

    When people message me i know its for me to give them something and always !
    earlyboii earlyboii 16-17, M May 17, 2013

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    I despise these individuals.

    I have many "friends" but as time passes there are these that pop up from time to time. I guess you can say that I'm an approachable person but it would be nice for people just to come up me to just chat or have some type of activity together. I do have friends that do...
    s3gur0 s3gur0 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 19, 2014

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    I'm so tired of this guy walking in

    and out of my kids and I life he only contracts me when he has no one
    stiffanygonzalez stiffanygonzalez 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 24

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    The Worst!!

    The worst is when someone sort of talks to you when it's convenient, and then when they get a boyfriend/girlfriend, they forget you ever existed. Then eventually, when bf/gf dumps them, they suddenly blow your phone up and want you to be consummately there for them, calling you...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 22

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    Oh it's awful. Like if you're never going to

    talk to me except for a few times to ask for something why bother? Like especially if they have tons of other friends and they talk to them all the time and stuff, but they only come to you when they need something. It's ridiculous. It's like, ask your actual friends, don't come...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    Users Are Incredibly Nice

    OMG these people are absolutely amazing when they require something from you. They will drop in a few compliments to ease you up before they go for it. It is heartbreaking when you finally realise that you have a user in your circle of friends but it is better than not knowing at...
    ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique 22-25, F Aug 20, 2012

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    My Mom's Best Friend Is Like This.

    That is all....... makes me mad.
    LaceinBlack LaceinBlack 22-25, F Dec 27, 2012

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    I hate my sisters!! I had accept the fact

    that they never cared about me I should have known people like them are toxic and unhealthy They alwAys mulipated me thinking i was mean every time i stood up for myself They never took the time to even see if i was ever ok never took the time to get to know there own nephews...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F Jun 23, 2014

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    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    Happened to me today.

    My friend sends me a message about how she needs me to print something for her for registration and that she'll get it when she comes over to swim. She literally told me to print something for her and invited herself over to swim on Saturday. Too bad I'm busy Saturday and I...
    secrets1can2be3told secrets1can2be3told 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Especially when you need something

    or someone to help you and your showing it but all they care is about themselves and the pain they are going... But I guess I'm that type of person who would bottle up my own feelings for the sake of my family and friends, but still I'm not a container of sustainable energy who...
    Kblue99 Kblue99 16-17, F May 19, 2014

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    I feel like the people I've surrounded myself

    with only want to interact with me when they need something, be it an outlet for venting, or some favor, or money. I don't think they even realize they're doing it, but when I scroll back through our messaging conversations or think back on verbal conversations we've had, I can...
    Breizh Breizh 18-21, F 1 Response May 7, 2014

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    I feel invisible . I'm only remembered

    when something is needed . It's so sad and I'm so over it .
    Goodlifegirl Goodlifegirl 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    Happens all the time.

    It makes me not want to have anything to do with anybody anymore.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2014

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    you think I'm your sex toy .

    . because of the stuff I did when I was single ... now that I have a boyfriend and they talk crap to you ... because of the pics of your penis you sent me when no one asked for them or the conversation You started when no one thought about you ..... you wanna get mad at me after...
    2tall4heels 2tall4heels 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 8

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    Yes I've had few friends

    and they actually came to my house out of nowhere after few years and blabber stories and expect me to help them out... Guess what I'm not gonna fall for that ever... Gladly I've send them away - they didn't even started the convo's with "hi how are you?" That's low
    PompeyLd87 PompeyLd87 26-30, F Aug 4, 2014

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    Happens all the time.

    I'm constantly there for people when they need me. I'm a great friend and listen to them repeat themselves over and over and never complain. But when I need them they avoid me and just don't care.
    tvdlover1865 tvdlover1865 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    Whole time I'm there

    but now all of a sudden the mystical Jamel comes from nowhere with glowing lights just for you to ask for a f****** pencil f*** you honestly you did not know I was still hee all the time just because you're catching hell you need me now
    JamOnly JamOnly 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    And Now That I'm No Longer Useful To People...

    ...Suddenly I've lost every last person I could vaguely have called a friend in the real world. One thing I've learned. being nice and being there for people invariably means you'll get walked all over. Plus if it's OK for "life" to be a *****, then I guess it's OK for me too...
    rachelx86 rachelx86 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    I hate people who pretend to be nice

    and friendly only when they need something from me. I was naive before but now I know how to say NO. I am pretty blunt about it now and it hurts their stupid ego but that's what they're going to get for trying to manipulate me.
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2014

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    I'm not E harmony ..

    . I'm not zoosk.... im Match. com I'm not any dating site so don't use me to find a lady that don't want your horny *** then say I made a fake account when she blocks you
    2tall4heels 2tall4heels 18-21, F Mar 8

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    People who talk to me only

    when they need to talk to someone. I'm all for listening to my friends vent but not ONLY for that. I'm not a therapist, nor do I plan on being a therapist. If you're only keeping me around for that reason then don't bother keeping me around. I know and I get it. People have...
    Shinook26 Shinook26 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2014

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    My So Called Friends

    I hate when my "friends" come to me for money because they know I have some since I work at it. When they don't need money, they don't talk to me much. I don't give them much but I guess they always ask since they think I will have a change of heart and give money. One finally...
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2012

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    Another Shot Of Jack

    I hope this song can help someone
    cookbab cookbab 61-65, M Jan 17, 2013

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    Seriously the hardest thing to just try

    and cut these selfish people from my life. Then I'm left friendless, and in a small town is it so awkward to try and make new friends as a 21 year old.. As a kid you just walk up to someone and say, "hey I like goldfish too! lets be bffs!" Wtf adulthood..
    katieann09 katieann09 18-21, F Feb 25

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    Related Experiences

    its really too annoying.. I wont talk normally to that person if he/she tries talking to me again in future
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    we are all equals we may have different type to express our self but no one is better than no one. We need to understand that. Well at least that my opinion
    Keilynn Keilynn 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 18

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    I don't know if it is in my head but I feel just because I have my associates degree and not a bachelors or a masters I feel that people with these degrees look down at me and...
    krisfen krisfen 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    it's called arrogance and it's really sickening, I don't feel sorry for those smartasses
    craz3f8g craz3f8g 18-21 1 Response a week ago

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    Simple; WE are ALL EQUAL. GOD is ABOVE ALL.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I tend to talk to several people on here, or other sites, or through text messages, and they're really impatient. I hate when people expect a message in 5-10 minutes. Like, I have...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I hate when people say "you cheated" just because they lost a game. I hate when people say "it's raining, how about you come inside and I take you where you have to go" I only...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    It drives me crazy! So I turned the screen off my phone! I also hate when people read my braille but that's a different story lol
    PanamanianPenguin PanamanianPenguin 18-21, F Apr 16

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    One day, I had a brief conversation with a classmate regarding taking off the frilly edges of notebook paper. I admit, I do not like these, for they look unprofessional and they...
    MisAnalogy MisAnalogy 16-17, F Apr 8

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    I hate it when people are so set in their ways that they won't overlook one or even a few bad experiences. I had a family member related by marriage that was very prejudice. I...
    TheEnduringSunrise TheEnduringSunrise 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    when they say that bisexuals are confused, they're gay, or straight or just exploring and they are pervets... bisexuality is real! and i hate when other people say that...
    jardougall jardougall 18-21, F Apr 10

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    1. "You're too young to understand love." 2. "You're too young to know your sexuality." 3. "I want to kill that singer just because I don't like their music." 4. "That's so gay...
    RhinosaurusRex RhinosaurusRex 18-21, F 14 Responses Apr 9

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    So yesterday my boyfriends ex girlfriend phoned me. She was like " I heard you been talking all that sh!t bout me, you need to stop before I come find you and beat yoo...
    GoddessKaiya GoddessKaiya 16-17, F Apr 7

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    I've been called a hypocrite because they couldn't view my activities on the app.. they assumed i set my activities visibility off.. i hve no idea what their assumptions on WHY i...
    FaitAccomp1i FaitAccomp1i 70+, M 8 Responses Apr 3

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    Because ''You're pretty, and interesting, you must be talking to many people. I won't bother you.'' No, they actually all stop talking to me because they think that way for...
    KidAgony KidAgony 22-25 Apr 9

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    I can see it in the way they move and their laugh and their smile and the way they talk. Their pain is so obvious and I wish I was brave enough to ask them about it but i'm not. I...
    rawr0 rawr0 18-21, F Apr 9

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    2 weeks ago, Principal of our sponsored school visited our office with lots of food but not for everyone but just for his predecessor i.e. my Director. Now, after finishing it...
    faisal6309 faisal6309 22-25, M Apr 16

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