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I Hate When People Only Talk To Me When They Need Something

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    Whole time I'm there

    but now all of a sudden the mystical Jamel comes from nowhere with glowing lights just for you to ask for a f****** pencil f*** you honestly you did not know I was still hee all the time just because you're catching hell you need me now
    JamOnly JamOnly 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 7

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    People who talk to me only

    when they need to talk to someone. I'm all for listening to my friends vent but not ONLY for that. I'm not a therapist, nor do I plan on being a therapist. If you're only keeping me around for that reason then don't bother keeping me around. I know and I get it. People have...
    Shinook26 Shinook26 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 10, 2014

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    Especially when you need something

    or someone to help you and your showing it but all they care is about themselves and the pain they are going... But I guess I'm that type of person who would bottle up my own feelings for the sake of my family and friends, but still I'm not a container of sustainable energy who...
    Kblue99 Kblue99 16-17, F May 19, 2014

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    My Mom's Best Friend Is Like This.

    That is all....... makes me mad.
    LaceinBlack LaceinBlack 22-25, F Dec 27, 2012

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    The Worst!!

    The worst is when someone sort of talks to you when it's convenient, and then when they get a boyfriend/girlfriend, they forget you ever existed. Then eventually, when bf/gf dumps them, they suddenly blow your phone up and want you to be consummately there for them, calling you...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    I feel like the people I've surrounded myself

    with only want to interact with me when they need something, be it an outlet for venting, or some favor, or money. I don't think they even realize they're doing it, but when I scroll back through our messaging conversations or think back on verbal conversations we've had, I can...
    Breizh Breizh 18-21, F 1 Response May 7, 2014

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    Happened to me today.

    My friend sends me a message about how she needs me to print something for her for registration and that she'll get it when she comes over to swim. She literally told me to print something for her and invited herself over to swim on Saturday. Too bad I'm busy Saturday and I...
    secrets1can2be3told secrets1can2be3told 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 15, 2014

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    Users Are Incredibly Nice

    OMG these people are absolutely amazing when they require something from you. They will drop in a few compliments to ease you up before they go for it. It is heartbreaking when you finally realise that you have a user in your circle of friends but it is better than not knowing at...
    ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique ImperfectionsMakeUsUnique 22-25, F Aug 20, 2012

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    Fred363 Fred363 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 4, 2014

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    I hate people who pretend to be nice

    and friendly only when they need something from me. I was naive before but now I know how to say NO. I am pretty blunt about it now and it hurts their stupid ego but that's what they're going to get for trying to manipulate me.
    PorcelainRose85 PorcelainRose85 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 19, 2014

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    I feel invisible . I'm only remembered

    when something is needed . It's so sad and I'm so over it .
    Goodlifegirl Goodlifegirl 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2014

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    Happens all the time.

    I'm constantly there for people when they need me. I'm a great friend and listen to them repeat themselves over and over and never complain. But when I need them they avoid me and just don't care.
    tvdlover1865 tvdlover1865 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My So Called Friends

    I hate when my "friends" come to me for money because they know I have some since I work at it. When they don't need money, they don't talk to me much. I don't give them much but I guess they always ask since they think I will have a change of heart and give money. One finally...
    reset reset 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2012

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    Another Shot Of Jack

    I hope this song can help someone
    cookbab cookbab 61-65, M Jan 17, 2013

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    Oh it's awful. Like if you're never going to

    talk to me except for a few times to ask for something why bother? Like especially if they have tons of other friends and they talk to them all the time and stuff, but they only come to you when they need something. It's ridiculous. It's like, ask your actual friends, don't come...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I drew the line when a "friend" of mine called

    me at 3 am because he had a long drive and wanted someone to talk to. REALLY?! You haven't called in weeks and the last time you did call it was to ask for another favor. I am not your ATM, babysitter, taxi or mover and my husband is not your personal IT guy. When I told him...
    dbarr1992 dbarr1992 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Seriously the hardest thing to just try

    and cut these selfish people from my life. Then I'm left friendless, and in a small town is it so awkward to try and make new friends as a 21 year old.. As a kid you just walk up to someone and say, "hey I like goldfish too! lets be bffs!" Wtf adulthood..
    katieann09 katieann09 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I'm so tired of this guy walking in

    and out of my kids and I life he only contracts me when he has no one
    stiffanygonzalez stiffanygonzalez 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    And Now That I'm No Longer Useful To People...

    ...Suddenly I've lost every last person I could vaguely have called a friend in the real world. One thing I've learned. being nice and being there for people invariably means you'll get walked all over. Plus if it's OK for "life" to be a *****, then I guess it's OK for me too...
    rachelx86 rachelx86 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 7, 2012

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    Im Used

    When people message me i know its for me to give them something and always !
    earlyboii earlyboii 16-17, M May 17, 2013

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    A Call Away, A Call You Say

    I know that in some way, shape and or form Im wanted. If it were for other reasons then Im sure this whole "lonelyness" thing would clear up, like someone wiping the smudge off of dirty glasses. At least you call when you need something..at least there is that. If I had to make a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 11, 2013

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    Happens all the time.

    It makes me not want to have anything to do with anybody anymore.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 5, 2014

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    I despise these individuals.

    I have many "friends" but as time passes there are these that pop up from time to time. I guess you can say that I'm an approachable person but it would be nice for people just to come up me to just chat or have some type of activity together. I do have friends that do...
    s3gur0 s3gur0 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 19, 2014

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    Yes I've had few friends

    and they actually came to my house out of nowhere after few years and blabber stories and expect me to help them out... Guess what I'm not gonna fall for that ever... Gladly I've send them away - they didn't even started the convo's with "hi how are you?" That's low
    PompeyLd87 PompeyLd87 26-30, F Aug 4, 2014

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    I hate my sisters!! I had accept the fact

    that they never cared about me I should have known people like them are toxic and unhealthy They alwAys mulipated me thinking i was mean every time i stood up for myself They never took the time to even see if i was ever ok never took the time to get to know there own nephews...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F Jun 23, 2014

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