Post

I Hate When People Take My Friendliness For Something It's Not

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 11 People

    Too Friendly Perhaps?

    My friendliness is just purely sociability. It doesn't have ulterior motives, it is genuine and sincere. It is definitely not a sign that I'm easy and that I want to have sex with you.
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    I don't know what's wrong with me at all. Maybe I love too much. Maybe not much at all. I'm sick of people treating me well for a shirt period of time and then taking me for...
    loveisblind18 loveisblind18 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I also hate it when religious people (mainly christians) classes me as someone who has no moral beliefs and lives in sin. I'm an atheist but I'm also a spiritualist. I have never...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate when people are mean for no reason like i can be mean but it's either I'm pissed off, stressed way too stressed, upset or just plain busy. I'm weird so yea
    ashleysokolik ashleysokolik 13-15, F Aug 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I absolutely hate when people overreact, especially when they don't understand the situation completely. I was told to go on this chat app to join a group conversation my friends...
    EmmieBear EmmieBear 16-17, F 17 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It ****** me off when people touch my stuff. I don't care if nobody cares about this comment if I was you people I wouldn't care either, but I need to vent. Isn't it just so...
    JezebelWhitman JezebelWhitman 16-17, F Jul 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    And I'm one of those people, so I guess that means I hate myself. But sometimes situations are beyond control and we have to make difficult choices. So long as it's the right...
    randomlygenerated randomlygenerated 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My sister and father both made blind accusations not to long ago about why it is I've been spending time with a certain LDS church and youth group… Well, let's take a few steps...
    MissAutumn MissAutumn 18-21, F 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Happened to me today. My friend sends me a message about how she needs me to print something for her for registration and that she'll get it when she comes over to swim. She...
    secrets1can2be3told secrets1can2be3told 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's happened to me so many times in all my years. I just absolutely hate it when people talk to like I'm uneducated, stupid, or even sound like I'm mixing up words in my sentence...
    SamHarris SamHarris 22-25, M Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's not just about the context of laughter for me, I guess. Fake laughter and nervous laughter also get me really mad. On the same note, forced politeness is extremely irritating...
    FunnyLookingCorpse FunnyLookingCorpse 18-21 Aug 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's not that I hate it. I don't. My friends and people I'm cool with can laugh at me all they want. I wouldn't give a damn. But when someone who ****** me off or isn't nice to me...
    FunnyandNerdy FunnyandNerdy 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was a teen mom at the age of 16, I had my second daughter at the age of 19. Of course I had the support of my family. I didn't want to be the typical story of a teen mom on...
    brokenhearted7108 brokenhearted7108 31-35, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    People have done this to me far too many times. It's so depressing.
    nemophilist8 nemophilist8 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Like...the person is the one not understanding and keep contradicting you...like you are crazy.Hello? Listen to what am I saying do not just treat me like I am stupid because you...
    4biandu 4biandu 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Especially in the mens room. I mean I'm in a stall perusing a certain personal interest and in the stall next door some kind of "amusing" sounds can be heard. Then... Hello...
    pardax pardax 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    is mine trampy bc it's a portmanteau between miuccia prada and a third world country
    miumiuganda miumiuganda 18-21, M Aug 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I find it difficult to keep my temper when this happens. What I've noticed is 9 times out of 10, the person talking to me this way talks that way to almost everyone. That makes it...
    Sunburst Sunburst 22-25 Jul 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm playing Black Light Retribution & my sister come in the room. She all loud "oh he came behind you" "oh you gotta creep" "oh he came back for you". I just started playing...
    aubreylovell aubreylovell 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Yes I've had few friends and they actually came to my house out of nowhere after few years and blabber stories and expect me to help them out... Guess what I'm not gonna fall for...
    PompeyLd87 PompeyLd87 26-30, F Aug 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My dad shouts when he's on a call. I remember walking down the road, I was at the end and I could hear my dad talking on the phone from 50 yards away lol.
    Mahsa99 Mahsa99 13-15, F Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Say yeah let's be aloun together we can stay young forever
    gmclover5 gmclover5 22-25, M Aug 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    As i note, every teacher are interested in student or remember ther student's name who are intelligence ,hard-study and always get hight-score. They always remind thos name during...
    Piyawan Piyawan 16-17, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So i've met a woman some time about 2 months ago. Things were great we hanged out a lot. Spent many days and nights together just in the outdoors exploring seeing whats fun out...
    saix217 saix217 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 14

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sometimes I'll think about the STUPIDEST things and I get angry about them. Then I have to remind myself that's I was just thinking about stupid stuff.
    OzarksTrucker OzarksTrucker 36-40, M 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate when people think it's ok to comment on my ******* relationship.
    VousEtesBelleCM VousEtesBelleCM 18-21, F Aug 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I used to be in that stage and I ******* hate when people do that!!! Like it's not a joke... I'm recovering and then people like send me a sad emoji with the gun next to it...
    herthehurtone herthehurtone 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    There's a Korean app called KakaoTalk (like Kik) that I use to keep in contact with relatives/friends and to find new friends. Many of us leave our IDs on k-pop forums for similar...
    feefeemcc feefeemcc 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 10

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Last month at my daughters birthday party a "friend" of mine was invited. During the entire party she take to my fiancé she had just met. Telling him personal things like how she...
    georgiana12 georgiana12 31-35, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So do you hate fake people or fake people who claim to be something they aren't? Hating someone is wrong. We've all lied and have done wrong things we aren't proud of. I notice...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 17 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate it. It hate it when someone stares or looks around my body when I'm talking to them. It makes me insecure, and it ****** me the hell off. I hate it especially when it's...
    pleadingsorry pleadingsorry 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wouldn't say hate... More like dislike immensely. I feel that everyone may act fake in their life to either impress somebody or to just feel better about themselves. But how I...
    misstandme101 misstandme101 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Fake people are a waste of time. I've dealt with fake people before and it's so frustrating and time consuming. No matter how hard you try, if someone is fake you can't change that...
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    All my life I have only ever been capable of making and keeping one or two good friends at a time. I moved around a lot, but I don't think that was the problem. I talk very little...
    fatboy2336 fatboy2336 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I come to this site I feel more natural and all realistic. Everyone here got something not so nice to share about themselves which I believe that's how things are supposed to...
    LyttleKelvin LyttleKelvin 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was in tears the other day when I saw how skinny the neighbor's 'pregnant' cat was. They didn't want her. They dropped her off blocks away and the cat keeps finding her way back...
    KiannaJ KiannaJ 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I know people say that when someone copy's you it a good thing but no actually it's really damn annoying. Do your own thing and I'll do mine ok? If I do something don't do the same...
    annabell89 annabell89 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have 2 sons- one who has been friends with this boy since he was little, my home has always been a bolt hole for him, his mum n sister are drug dealers always in and out of...
    marty1968 marty1968 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My sisters don't accept me for who I am just because I don't act like them. My mom in some ways doesn't like it either but she doesn't dislike the whole 100% like my sisters. And...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I just watched part of a movie called A Case of You. It showed how two people were something they aren't so that the other will want or like them. It's sad to think that this goes...
    georgiana12 georgiana12 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Why is it hard for me to get in the mood with my bf I mean sex used to be so good id always get in the mood but now it's different I mean we live together but it's boring it just...
    Jessykat96 Jessykat96 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate fake people. I want a friendship. Friendship with people not just over the internet. Life time friends like every other person. It's hard finding friends who can hang out at...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate being the center of attention! Even when it's my day, like my birthday! When they sing I just sit there awkwardly!ha
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F Jul 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    FAKE PEOPLE! like really? Come on! Why you's gotta act fake. Why be my friend and act all nice and sweet but when I turn my back u are slagging me off and bitching about me? Yeah u...
    XxHeyyTherexX XxHeyyTherexX 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Seriously I hate girls that go after men because they are in the military. Aka tag chasers. Military life isn't all it's cracked out to be. I seriously don't get it. I can't stand...
    F0REVERY0UNG23 F0REVERY0UNG23 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My name's Rachael and I find so weird when people pronounce it like "Rochelle"... I mean I know that "Rachel" is the more common spelling but really? idek
    ZeroDigits ZeroDigits 16-17, F Aug 3

    Your Response

    Cancel
    He said he loved me . Made me feel special . Said he cared about me More than ANY other girl he'd ever been with . Then after 12 days of dating he dumps me , he feels "it's not...
    ThePrettyOnee ThePrettyOnee 13-15, F 12 Responses Aug 6