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I Hate When People Take My Friendliness For Something It's Not

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    Too Friendly Perhaps?

    My friendliness is just purely sociability. It doesn't have ulterior motives, it is genuine and sincere. It is definitely not a sign that I'm easy and that I want to have sex with you.
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2012

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    Don't believe in rumors, gossips or lies about a person to make him/her look bad. Be smart. Get to know the person first or at least, listen to both sides of the story. Don't...
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    I will tell you something. . . I am not sorry it took a few minutes or hours to get my reply. I am on a computer, not a phone that beeps every 5 seconds and that I can carry with...
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    I recently decided to cease relations with a girl I'd come to call my best friend because she did this all the time. Whenever she apologized to me for screwing up (because we're...
    cyndercrys cyndercrys 18-21, F May 21

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    what's really strange is that people often say I come across stuck up or full of myself.. when the harsh reality is that I am probably one of the most insecure people they will...
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    I hate when someone comes at me saying, "so I heard". Pause. Let's just get things clear. Before you start talking, just be aware that some of the things you hear may be true, or...
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    I really hate when my brothers go around and use the 'rape', like it's a good thing. Or when someone calls someone a *********, who isn't. Any of those words, now that I've been...
    GoneGirl17 GoneGirl17 16-17, F May 20

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    This is my first post. I hope to use EP to vent so I don't freak out on people face to face. Lately I've been running into LIES AND LIARS. It's frustrating. My stepson was...
    doveinmypocket doveinmypocket 46-50, F 1 Response May 4

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    Idk just being talked to like I'm a child, or when guys do that 'oh it's okay baby, I'll make it all better' **** as if I can't solve my own damn problems. When I talk to you it's...
    Rose11231 Rose11231 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    It's a serious pet peeve of mine.
    EllieLoveless EllieLoveless 13-15, F 1 Response May 1

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    My best friend who I lived with never said goodbye. I moved away and he never came out of his room...it's horrible being without him. I just want him back in my life. I am all...
    JaylynnDaereon JaylynnDaereon 26-30, F May 4

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    like they know. It's just random luck. telling lies are not going to help or making others feel better.
    unknownpoetx unknownpoetx 26-30, M May 14

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    So some guy messages me and was completely rude to me out of no where and asked about my family life saying "how the h*** do you live with your step mom and step dad you fu*king...
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    I don't care anymore. People get busy, distracted, or think I don't care. I'm valuable and if they don't envy my time and attention that's their problem.
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M May 21

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    I wear scars in more places than on just my heart. My arms are covered, and my legs nearly destroyed. Scars tell stories, that much is true. But they are not beautiful. They are...
    FoolOfATook FoolOfATook 16-17 May 11

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    bingbongtingtongg bingbongtingtongg 18-21, F 1 Response May 16

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