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I Hate When People Take My Friendliness For Something It's Not

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    Too Friendly Perhaps?

    My friendliness is just purely sociability. It doesn't have ulterior motives, it is genuine and sincere. It is definitely not a sign that I'm easy and that I want to have sex with you.
    lagatta lagatta 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 10, 2012

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