I Hate When People Try to Change Me

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    A Decent Healthy Human Being... Yeah Right...

    I wonder why its the general concensus of women on the planet to try to "make me a better person." Well the whole getting healthy thing is a result of my position as a trainer rather than a woman. This is who I am. A drunk, gamlbing, womanizing degenerate. Dont try to...
    Silver01ta Silver01ta
    31-35, M
    4 Responses May 7, 2008

    When people tell you

    that you have changed, it simply just means you stopped acting the way they want you to.
    mariamxo16 mariamxo16
    16-17, F
    Jan 22, 2014

    Yeah, It Does Make Me Happy to Be Such a Mess!

      First, my mother tried to change me.  She wanted me to as warped  and as life-hating as she.  In some inner ways, she did succeed.  I've  never been able to identify with my female side.  My father loved me to death, and I became a man for him...
    AyeAye AyeAye
    46-50, F
    1 Response May 7, 2008

    Change Me

    It won't work cause I am my own person and I like being me.  I have my character and personality which is different then what you are and if you want to change me to be just like you, say bye bye.  :)
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 7, 2011

    Grow Up!

       you can not change the actions of others!that Is a fact.so all you people who get hurt because you pick someone you think you can mold Into the person you want them to be,It's your own falt. get over your ego long enough to leave us normal folks alone
    SWagner1 SWagner1
    51-55, M
    May 27, 2011

    Seriously

    I don't need to be fixed. Besides, if I'd wanted to date a handyman, I would. :P
    vinividivici21 vinividivici21
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 1, 2008

    I Hate It When People Try to Change My Personality

    I don't mind if people are giving me advice or suggesting a healthier way of dealing with certain situations, but I absolutely loathe it when people try to change who I am. For example... I am the type of person who does not leap into the fray. I am the type to sit on the edges...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 14, 2009

    Its None of Your Business

    Yes Im ****** up. Yes its messy. Yes its horrid to watch. It is also my problem My issues My life.   You cannot possibly comprehend my life. Not because its worse, or anything like that. But because its different. We are all so different. I cannot comprehend yours...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    Dec 21, 2008

    Fine Line

    I do appreicate good advice, I appreciate those that look out for me and those that challenge me and my beliefs and interests, in discussions and through conversation. Yet it has happened in the past that it can be a dangerous experiment.  Someone takes a liking to a...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 21, 2008
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