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I Hate When Someone I Text Doesn't Answer Back

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    Makes Me Wonder If I Have Done Something Wrong...

    I really hate when I am texting someone, and than they stop texting me back it makes me wonder, oh ****, did I say something wrong, or if they are okay, or something along those lines. I just get nervous sometimes that I have done something wrong.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 29, 2010

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    It's Rude.

    I understand that sometimes they are busy and it may take time to get back to me which is the beauty of texting but to not answer at all is just plain rude.If I don't get a reply back, especially if its about something important to me then I won't bother to continue the same...
    snowberry75 snowberry75 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 1, 2011

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    Might Be My Biggest Pet Peeve

    This could be the number one thing that drives me crazy. When I'm texting someone and they don't answer back I always assume that they don't like me anymore or aren't speaking to me - which is crazy b/c a lot of the time it's not even true. But the worst is when you're texting...
    GoingUnder88 GoingUnder88 22-25, M 5 Responses Dec 27, 2010

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    Hi .. No Answer

    I hate when I go to say (hi. how r u !? ) for someone on chat . and I dont get any answer . and after hour or two . she sign out from the chat without answer me ! . I feel like this person dont respect me . and I hate that . but my question . is there any reason make people dont...
    sherifmax1 sherifmax1 31-35 Sep 5, 2011

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    I don't understand why it is

    so hard for people to get back to me when I try to reach them via text message. I feel like whenever I don't hear from someone it's not only impolite to not respond back,but also gives me the idea that they don't want to talk to me. It truly irritates me when I try so hard to...
    sjchevalier07 sjchevalier07 31-35, M 9 Responses Feb 20

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    I Do....

    I hate when someone I text doesn't answer me back. I hate the feeling of being ignored, and feeling like I have no one to talk to. I feel like there is no point in me having a phone anymore because no one bothers to text me back, and I hate that. I just wish I had more texting...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 29, 2009

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    It Feels Like They Just Don't Want To Talk..

    I know that sometimes people may not have the credit to talk back or they're busy or sleeping or something else... but I still just find it sad when people don't answer back to my texts. Especially when I'm really depressed and all I want is someone to talk to... I don't even...
    BrokenAngelWishes BrokenAngelWishes 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 18, 2009

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    Some people wait so long to text me back

    that I've deleted the original conversation and don't even remember what they're reply is to...
    waiting4mylife2begin waiting4mylife2begin 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    i hate it . Its really rude to not text back.

    I mean come on texting only takes a few minutes and you can just text back and tell you're busy or gotta go.I mean seriosly is it that hard?
    Angelina1992 Angelina1992 18-21, F 14 Responses Mar 31

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    Haha :)

    ...I know you're there. Why you no answer me? :/ I sit in utter worry and disappointment thinking I either annoyed you or you just don't like talking to me anymore haha..
    PentecostGirl PentecostGirl 18-21, F Jul 20, 2012

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    I ******* hate this ****,

    text/message my back. If your not going to do that then why the **** did you text and or message me in the first place.
    angellovie angellovie 13-15, F 4 Responses Mar 4

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