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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-18, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 5 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2014

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2014

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    On this site they believe they are angels

    and done nothing wrong. The way they talk to one another is like they are angles of the earth. Then flag you and curse you out if you try to talk to them or question them on their actions and act like they are invincible . I guess this is the only place for them to fee better...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    I hate it how there are some Americans on here who think they are top **** just because they live in America.... I've had some hate from Americans and some of them say how their...
    moonlighteclipse moonlighteclipse 16-17, F Jan 9

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    I hate it when people think they know me better, its like they decide how i feel its like they decide what i am saying or doing. I am the one who says the truth about myself, i am...
    ActuallyGrace ActuallyGrace 13-15, F Jan 11

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    People who think they know everything are a great annoyance to those of us who do. Isaac Asimov
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I do not hate anyone, but I will say this; we are all equal and God is the only one who is greater than all. Though he is greater however, he still has love, respect and patients...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Jan 10

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    We blast men for feeling this way. Well ladies, we are not either. You remember that whole equality thing, right? In fact MEN make the world go around and they do it for us. So...
    DonnaDomm DonnaDomm 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Some people have wolfish traits like me. BUT the people who don't and pretend they do... they **** me off.
    ZeNeth107 ZeNeth107 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    What if most of us were gifted painters, but only a handful around to appreciate one? What if many of us were brilliant composers, but none to dance to a tune they made? What if a...
    Decreate Decreate 22-25, M 3 Responses Jan 1

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    Don't we all??? From teachers to family
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 11

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    Please, people! Can you be a little more humble??
    juliettecf juliettecf 13-15, F Jan 12

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    Will I tell him I love him even if he's not ready? Or should I just walk away and move on?
    iamreal2015 iamreal2015 36-40, F Jan 2

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    What is the moral of Humpty Dumpty sat on a wall. Humpty Dumpty had a great fall. All the kinds horses and all the kings men could not put Humpty together again
    Brian2015x Brian2015x 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    We've been NC since November 3. Except for our secret code, of course. He reached out to me - sort of - through a mutual friend this week. Wanted to know my exact birth time and...
    mrsteacherlady84 mrsteacherlady84 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 9

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    I've been the "other woman" with 2 separate men for 4 years. I HATE IT BUT I choose to have them in my life. I'm friends with one as well as extra curricular activities lol I don...
    christinelove69 christinelove69 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 3

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    About a week or so ago we had a D day. MM chose not to reconcile and pretty much came over after work that day and spent that weekend at mine.He has since moved into a temp...
    NNIP888 NNIP888 22-25, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    and never will I be one. I refuse to be one. I don't care how charming, or cute, or sophisticated the man is. I don't care what his profession is, how popular he is. It just won't...
    BananaSmoothiee BananaSmoothiee 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 19

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    You women are all so insightful and supportive, giving me kicks up the bum constantly! I do appreciate it. However I would like to point out that although you only ever hear the...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 13

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    Realized yesterday and today...this man's smile is big and genuine when he sees me, he is happy when he spends time with me, guilt is there though. I look at pictures of him next...
    greeneyes41 greeneyes41 41-45, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I... I don't even now where to begin.... I am in so much pain. I suffer in silence there is no one who knows... Know one who I can talk to. Reading all of your heart wrenching...
    CastledOphillia CastledOphillia 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Today I am full of hate..... I hate the way that things trigger memories and remind of him. Songs, commercials, smells, landmarks. Some are good but the overwhelming amount are...
    CastledOphillia CastledOphillia 36-40, F Jan 7

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    I am back here on EP after a long absence. What led me here originally was trying to recover from being the other woman. Several years later, here I am again, guilty of being the...
    Journeys2013 Journeys2013 41-45, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    "Before this love ends up killing me in pain, im gonna kill it first"....thats what a spanish songs says, thats what i need to do before is too late. Last night i got to see him...
    Chicadelcaribe Chicadelcaribe 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    To the woman that D-day has come and you have had no choice but to move on........ My D-day came on October 5th. I was with my ex mm for 4 years. But everything came crashing down...
    Jennbme Jennbme 36-40, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    This does somewhat belong in this category somewhat not. In my last story I felt bad like I was just the other woman. It was just his job, not his wife or any other woman in the...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 8

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    So I actually spoke to my ex MM yesterday for the first time since Dec 8th. We had been together for over 3 years and most of that time he was separated and filed for divorce. He...
    Widow68 Widow68 46-50, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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