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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 151 People

    I Don't Get The Other Woman/Man to me there

    just someone amusement to someone primary lover. I read some of the stories from other women. They being together for at least a year or more He "didn't tell her yet" Complain they haven't heard from them in while. To me being the other lover your someone booty call. Someone...
    Raina79 Raina79 31-35, F Apr 19

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 7 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-17, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    On this site they believe they are angels

    and done nothing wrong. The way they talk to one another is like they are angles of the earth. Then flag you and curse you out if you try to talk to them or question them on their actions and act like they are invincible . I guess this is the only place for them to fee better...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2014

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2014

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am the other woman and really I ask many of you OW....is it all worth it....my situation is different than many....I am the reverse....my MM wants to get married...buy a house...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 41-45, F 11 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Day 3 of the break Even though I initiated the break, I'm surprised he let it happen. I've heard from him once, but he just sent me a song, nothing else. Even though I said I'd...
    macwellgirl macwellgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    Sometimes, it's better to be alone, so no one can hurt you.
    Manekineko420 Manekineko420 70+, F 15 hrs ago

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    I know as a society we tend to accept people for who they are and how they hold their beliefs. I recently came out to my mom as a bisexual male. She has no problem. She understands...
    cjqueen2014 cjqueen2014 36-40, M 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Trying to navigate a relationship with a man who is an emotional blackmailer, even for the sake of a future relationship for him with the kids, is killing me.. Yes I'm talking...
    ElsieJay ElsieJay 41-45, F 4 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I'm sick of the OWs reinvention of their Affair after they've been Abandoned!!! It takes a great deal of courage for a man to go home and be honest with his Wife after living a...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    yes true women are not for that, they are mothers,sisters and wife of someone,so respect them and see how they treat you,
    boobilicious4you boobilicious4you 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I miss him sometimes or think about him. Is that bad? I don't know how I feel completely about him and I want to find out. My friend told me I'm in love with my guy but I never...
    stella517 stella517 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    This is the letter I wanted to send to his wife but did not, should I? Leave me alone DO not call me, try to friend me, or email me anymore, especially tell your husband to leave...
    MySweetLove12132010 MySweetLove12132010 41-45, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    13 days ago the MM I loved for 5 years decided to tell his wife and in the process decided not to leave her. That week we had planned it all out were he would be staying for a few...
    MySweetLove12132010 MySweetLove12132010 41-45, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am starting to sense a lot of women here lack self awareness and are not in love but have formed emotional attachments to these men. Perhaps some are truly in love but for others...
    Aimee3 Aimee3 26-30, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Because the real wolves are no amused by it people say you can become a wolf by being bit by one but no you have to be born a wolf there is know what to turn a human into a wolf.
    IAmAWolfLetTheWolfFree IAmAWolfLetTheWolfFree 13-15, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    If I´d just get a cent for every fake picture as avatars or album ones here...I'd be a millionaire already... I just can't believe men taking all those unreal photos as true...
    Brunette4U Brunette4U 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok people, I need everyone out and about and create a shield around me. It's sad that people make fun of and take advantage of those who might be less mentally and emotionally...
    theotherversionofme theotherversionofme 51-55, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I'm sorry. I hate goodbyes but my problems are my burden and my responsibility. I cannot drag you down with me, if you wanna remember me, God knows why, but if you do wanna...
    JamesAlcock JamesAlcock 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I realised something else in my less emotion driven state about the "ow" It's probably obvious to everyone else but I'll share it anyway. It's like they're stuck in the teenage...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Been kinda missing someone lately that i use to know.I know it was for the best,but i still think about him.He was my first real friend and he was there for me lots of times.Tried...
    simpleandpossible simpleandpossible 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Men Always Do Affair Down and They Always Marry Up - they mean from themselves. Men are selfish creatures by nature. Men believe the woman they marry is better than they are...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    This article is from a later chapter of the Psychopath Free book. When they’re feeling threatened or bored, psychopaths will often use what’s called “word salad” in an...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 5 Responses a week ago

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