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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-18, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 16

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    Who are you to talk to me like you know me? My mother? No.
    Chrissaysyourock Chrissaysyourock 16-17, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Just hate when I think I found someone on here I like and wanna do stuff with and poof they block me . WTF if you don't like the fact that im a horny bi guy don't say you like it...
    OhAustin OhAustin 18-21, M Nov 1

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    Dear person who finished the calculus test in 10 minutes, smirked and yelled: IM DONE. I hope you fail and wipe that smirk of your face Sincerely, stuck on the first question...
    chocolatecurlz chocolatecurlz 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Yes, I dislike when a person thinks he/she is smarter then others. It just seems so arrogant to me.
    CleverMindsAlwaysKnow CleverMindsAlwaysKnow 36-40, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    There is one fundamental truth, even kings and queens, ayottolahs and lamas have to sit down on the toilet! Money doesn't improve a person, nor does fame or renown make anyone...
    Skjeggstad Skjeggstad 22-25, F 3 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    Kudos Kaillie Humphries! http://www.cbc.ca/sports/kaillie-humphries-makes-history-in-4-man-bobsled-1.2836567
    oneinawillian oneinawillian 41-45, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    If you put yourself on display, don't get ticked when people look at you!
    DonnaDomm DonnaDomm 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 3

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    Those ******* potheads !!!!!!!!
    Conspiracys Conspiracys 13-15, M 14 hrs ago

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    I hate people who think they have the right to know where you are and what you're doing, before even asking how you are and allowing you to voluntarily give that information and...
    Misscoconut Misscoconut 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Let me tell you something. This, this is the Internet where people with self esteem problems or just problems at all can be whatever they want. The only time I have a problem with...
    Conspiracys Conspiracys 13-15, M Nov 10

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    Well - here it is - I have SLOWLY been getting to know someone; He seems to be a very nice person. We seem to have a lot in common - and it seems very easy. MM has been told, and...
    kitty1958 kitty1958 56-60, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I know his wife real well, lately I've been trying to distance myself from her but I still get daily updates about their life from her, or social media, can't avoid it unless I...
    Missmetomorrow Missmetomorrow 22-25, F Oct 26

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    This woman calls herself pararagra and she joined prettyg1 's post yesterday, Prettyg1 was complaining that I blocked her and was lying claiming that I had attacked fellow...
    Missreedy Missreedy 31-35 5 Responses Nov 7

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    I hope this helps someone... or anyone who is re thinking staying in their relationship with their MM... I know this post isnt really for women who arent looking to leave, and some...
    darkenedsoul200 darkenedsoul200 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 8

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    GO ON ! DENY IT ! I 'Expect' You TO; for you see, HARSH REALITY "is like HOT WATER on a HOT DAY. MOST UNPLEASANT!! Somewhere, however, buried Deep inside (you, IF you are A Woman...
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 56-60 2 Responses a week ago

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    I wasn't always the other woman. When I met him, he was unattached and we connected on every level. This all happened over a year ago. I met him, fell for him, and we had 2 months...
    lookingglassgirl lookingglassgirl 18-21, F Nov 14

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    I guess I'm finally free. It doesn't feel so great right now. He told me that he was going to make things work with her for the sake of their son. That it's too hard for him to be...
    Lavender25 Lavender25 26-30, F 10 Responses Oct 24

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    My best friend was going out with this guy, whom I was totally infactuated with. He was, and still is absoluty perfect, and thats what made him more. The fact that he was so...
    Vickypearl Vickypearl 13-15, F Oct 25

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    I haven't posted in a while but I just wanted to update everyone on my situation. So it's been over 5 months since things ended and I feel good. Not to say that it was an easy 5...
    stella517 stella517 26-30, F Oct 26

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    I have read so many experiences here of married women who are also the other woman, who are in affairs and yet still love their husbands. It's very positive. I would like to be...
    GuyKL GuyKL 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 1

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    I'm a guy myself and I hate guys who hit women. Guys are meant to take car of women. Like women give birth to guys, without women guys wouldn't have kids and all. Women must be...
    EmotionlessDude EmotionlessDude 13-15, M 3 Responses Nov 11

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    hi, upon reading some of the experiences for days here in EP i decided to share a bit of my life.. I met this man on-line, i decided to find someone on-line because there are lots...
    ShadesofWhite67 ShadesofWhite67 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 29

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