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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

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    On this site they believe they are angels

    and done nothing wrong. The way they talk to one another is like they are angles of the earth. Then flag you and curse you out if you try to talk to them or question them on their actions and act like they are invincible . I guess this is the only place for them to fee better...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-17, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 6 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2014

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    I Don't Get The Other Woman/Man to me there

    just someone amusement to someone primary lover. I read some of the stories from other women. They being together for at least a year or more He "didn't tell her yet" Complain they haven't heard from them in while. To me being the other lover your someone booty call. Someone...
    Raina79 Raina79 31-35, F Apr 19

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2014

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    i have a friend, she acts like she knows me so well and i especially ******* hate that. she relates me to herself and i really hate that. i always feel like i should tell her off...
    theanoymouswreck theanoymouswreck 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    People who go on about how intelligent they are often turn out to be the opposite. Just because say you're intelligent over and over again doesn't mean I'm going to believe you...
    youaretheonlyexception youaretheonlyexception 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am so sick of people acting like they care and then they turn around and act as if they never met you. like they never even cared
    XxautychanxX XxautychanxX 13-15, F May 5

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    a poem(?) named blah. : ( by the blah blah %#&#&#er) a food that no one eats a cloth that no one buys a blanket that no one needs a drink that no one tries. a mouth that no one...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 4

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    yeah ok I'm f'd up but as much as I feel this way and you don't doesn't give you the right to talk down to me. Either shove off dude or be a support. People can be such trolls.
    YeahthatsMylife YeahthatsMylife 26-30, M May 22

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    Desert comforts the dead, dead finds a rose. Confused, sleepless. The night is cold. Cold comforts the dead. The rose wilts, not in the head of the dead. Memories comfort the dead...
    decreate decreate 22-25, M May 14

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    God is shy, has a plebeian air, avoiding notice, hiding in between the details, pretending to be ordinary. I should make no sound. Darkness makes visible the presence to eyes as...
    decreate decreate 22-25, M May 14

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    Same thing for the women who know they are being used, and letting them get away with it. Well, I pity these people more, than hate. It's the idea that I find so hateful.
    iCuriousBabe iCuriousBabe 41-45, F 4 Responses May 24

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    Hello Ladies My first time here ,been looking for this kind of chat room . I feel like I am gonna lose my mind . I needed to talk to someone who has walked my shoes .. Well here...
    BluePearl64 BluePearl64 31-35, F 6 Responses May 6

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    When we state the obvious and they don't get the duh what else is there to do but laugh at their stupid silliness? These are the conclusions I have come to: First the OW judges a...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I'm so fed up with MM these days. No one, particular reason, just a general feeling of being fed up and pissed off, to the point where I am almost looking for a fight, just to have...
    ladyquaintrelle ladyquaintrelle 22-25, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm really trying ladies. All of you who have reached out to me and have offered impeccable advice has been wonderful and I really appreciate it. Some of you have made the...
    UnrequitedControl UnrequitedControl 31-35, F 4 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    His wife asked him for a divorce via text message. The ow went on to say that after 20 years of marriage, he got a text message and how bad she felt for him. After 20 years of...
    euphoricbeauty euphoricbeauty 26-30, F 2 hrs ago

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    Love when his fb status is a message to me. He does this quite often and it makes me smile because we are the only ones who know.
    Lust2much Lust2much 31-35, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Competition with the wife. It must take a very insecure woman to set herself up to be in competition with a woman she does not know...a one sided game....but if you read the OW...
    iiammine69 iiammine69 41-45, F 9 Responses May 20

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    Make good choices based on joy rather than making bad choices based on excuses. My relationship with the cheater ended over 6 months ago. I'm alone and single. Does this mean I...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 3 Responses May 10

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    This group is to support NOWs (not the other woman). We are the Anti Other Women as described. We refuse to have affairs with married men. We disagree with cheating. We support...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm half werewolf half vampire and I am surprised to see so many people on thi site who are just like me (I've seen werewolves and vampires). By the way, people who are saying they...
    Renae05 Renae05 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I used to get really upset when I saw posts about cheating as I was cheated on in my first relationship. I avoided those posts rather than being a troll though because I understood...
    PaxTerra PaxTerra 18-21, F 7 Responses May 7

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