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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-17, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    I Don't Get The Other Woman/Man to me there

    just someone amusement to someone primary lover. I read some of the stories from other women. They being together for at least a year or more He "didn't tell her yet" Complain they haven't heard from them in while. To me being the other lover your someone booty call. Someone...
    Raina79 Raina79 31-35, F Apr 19

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2014

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 6 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    On this site they believe they are angels

    and done nothing wrong. The way they talk to one another is like they are angles of the earth. Then flag you and curse you out if you try to talk to them or question them on their actions and act like they are invincible . I guess this is the only place for them to fee better...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2014

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    I hate it when women believe that just because you are a male, you are a horny animal looking to get in someone's pants. Most men aren't like that. We have feelings too!
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    I don't like total *******, but I will admit I do like women who have an attitude. A woman who can be a ***** if the situation calls for it, and doesn't care what other people...
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    waypuma73 waypuma73 31-35, M 1 Response Apr 26

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    One more thing, to all the other women who have posted on other sites such as this, we have that story too. I know all of your stories sound similiar but there is always that one...
    solostance solostance 31-35, T 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    He's not married, he just has 2 kids with the same woman which he so happens to be with for years. He has no intentions of leaving her and I'm perfectly ok with that. My role is...
    PrincessToguchi PrincessToguchi 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    In the depths of craziness, at least at work. It's a busy time of year for me, tax season. I've heard from him, now and then, and I must admit.. I've failed on my resolve to...
    Scorpionchild Scorpionchild 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 6

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    In my opinion, men who disrespects women just because they can are not proper men at all
    Ieuster Ieuster 18-21, M 4 hrs ago

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    I don't like it when people label those with disabilities as "disabled". No. They are not "disabled", they "have a disability". Because their disability is not all they are about...
    RH17 RH17 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    To all the other women who did not block me but was defensive towards me with questionable, negative and nasty replies, I know being in your shoes is an emotional tangled web...
    solostance solostance 31-35, T 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    SUSTAINING GROWTH! Through relationship characteristics. The OW forum is full of love ! I joke its power could hold the secret of regenerating a new life form. It is full of...
    warriormama warriormama 41-45, F 5 Responses Apr 18

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    And that is something that many people lack in the world. Acceptance. (I may say "you" or "your" but don't take it too personally, I was just speaking in general throughout this...
    WrongPage WrongPage 18-21, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    Age is just part of someone it is how you feel about someone is who they are.
    sroonaka616 sroonaka616 18-21 7 hrs ago

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    I hate cheaters people who thinks it's ok I read some post people having affairs or being the other woman and are ok with being with married man or woman. To me it's All BULLSH*T...
    Lezsoccermom75 Lezsoccermom75 36-40, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    No, I am not "an other woman, HOWEVER, I picked this category because it seems the most appropriate to what I want to share with others. I read these 'confession' & 'advice needed...
    Xlandria61 Xlandria61 61-65, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    As of now, I feel like people put themselves in certain situation bad or good. we have the power to change our minds or go against our better judgment. I'ts not a question of how...
    lexylou4 lexylou4 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    And I can't ******* stand women who act Inferior to men . I think it's a excuse to be. Lazy house wife . I mean I am a woman and I ******* hate work . But I'll work any day if it...
    alejandragucci alejandragucci 18-21, F Apr 14

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    So I think its over ... I've spent a few weeks with out seeing him. We talk..He tells me he needs me. What is that supposed to mean at this piont. Its April we met this month 10...
    AlwayzNikki AlwayzNikki 36-40, F Apr 12

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    Today is a big day for MM and his wife, kind of like an anniversary. He doesn‘t know that I know, but I am laying off my phone for today and hope he does the same. I hope that...
    ladyquaintrelle ladyquaintrelle 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 14

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