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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-18, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F Aug 8

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Why do they degrade themselves by doing this.

    Also fed up of the usual moans, he does not spend time with me, he goes back to her some using nasty words to describe the one at home. Be honest if he can get free sex most will, that is all you are an unpaid prostitute. He loves me, his wife no longer wants him, he is staying...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 16

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 24

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    I'm fairly sure this is sort of a quote but I can't remember who said it. Anyway, if you talk a lot, you're hearing what you already know. If you're open to hearing what others say...
    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F Oct 1

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    A year ago I had to separate myself from the people I lived with because they were planning to harm me and my life was in danger but I still hated saying goodbye to them. It was...
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F Sep 26

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    Ahh, that's my boyfriend. I love him but I hate that trait of his. It's so annoying.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 1

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    i am in mythology studies and everyone thinks i am stupid so this guy starts talking about how I'm so pretty and i'm the Aphrodite of the class and then he tries to explain who she...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 1

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    Erased.... I'm gonna put it all behind me Like nothing ever happened between us Nothing ever took place between you and me... Yes Nothin' ever happened And if you se me walkin...
    afoolishheart afoolishheart 46-50, F Sep 25

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    Far too many people are like this. They do what they please, don't think of the consequences or get what they deserve.
    Reallifeperson Reallifeperson 22-25, M 1 Response Sep 24

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    Who said congress had to follow the Constitution? I believe it was the No **** Sherlock Act of Two Thousand and FOREVER.
    WinterSkyout WinterSkyout 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 23

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    You'll find people like this throughout your life. They will get to you. Only if you let them.
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Sep 24

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    I agree I have a friend who literally acts like he is some type of God...... Karma is a Ho and he is just asking for it every time.
    ArtofFashion ArtofFashion 22-25, F Sep 24

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    Just go over to the "I'm in a loving DD marriage" Experience -__-
    Forders2 Forders2 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    Basically explaining to someone how I am depressed and can't do anything because I have a chronic disease which makes me unable to even get out of bed most days.. And he replies...
    MrsKAura MrsKAura 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 30

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    My husband he is gonna tell you if you like it or not it's kind of joy kill
    Sincerely77 Sincerely77 36-40, F Oct 2

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    I want RICHKINGDAVID to burn in a ten foot hole encased with burnable wood and put lighter fluid and dynamite all inside it and make that bastarrd go kaboom!
    Experiencevisionary Experiencevisionary 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 2

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    Sick of people. (Please make your story longer.)
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M Sep 23

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    Ok so I'm usually nice to everyone, but there's this kid that goes to my school..."he" bullies me every single day at school. He's transgender and he thinks that no rules apply to...
    BlondeGirlBunny BlondeGirlBunny 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 23

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    i am, i really am
    whetheryoulikeitornot whetheryoulikeitornot 18-21, F Oct 12

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    Or, I think I have something huge in common with some of you, anyway. Does the calendar have power over you? I read a lot of posts here from women who know the exact number of...
    humbledbylife humbledbylife 51-55, F 1 Response Oct 13

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    I work part time as a waitress, and I often notice my coworkers flirting with men to get tips. This is something that's always bothered me. Guys will flirt me and sometimes say the...
    danii92 danii92 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 28

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    I love people who think they are above being the Other Woman. I am a control freak, and if I could control who I fall in love with I would. I love how people assume that they...
    Nobody0327 Nobody0327 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 22

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    **Update** We sat in his car for an hour and talked. She found out on Sunday night. He didn't want to have sex with her so she got pissed and suspicious since it's been months...
    RedSheep2 RedSheep2 26-30, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been the OW for over a year now. Last night I just told him I can't deal with things the way they are. It kills me when I am with him because he can't be mine, but it kills me...
    thedokken thedokken 22-25, F 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Right ladies, I have decided to post something that suddenly hit home to me over last couple months. You can disregard it if you wish, you can ignore it or not read it, you can...
    monty1212 monty1212 26-30, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am sure everyone is tired of hearing it lol. But this is where I come to vent and the over powering emotions have caught my breath again today. I miss him so much. He is still...
    Jennbme24 Jennbme24 31-35, F 3 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Hi Are you suffering due to a breakup? Are you tired of feeling down and struggling to move on? If you have gone through a breakup, you will surely agree that it can be...
    blue963 blue963 51-55, F 1 Response