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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F Aug 8

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-18, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 16

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    Why do they degrade themselves by doing this.

    Also fed up of the usual moans, he does not spend time with me, he goes back to her some using nasty words to describe the one at home. Be honest if he can get free sex most will, that is all you are an unpaid prostitute. He loves me, his wife no longer wants him, he is staying...
    vampirish vampirish 46-50, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    Related Experiences

    I hate women and men who does that. Nothing to be proud of, eat your veggies and go sit in a corner.
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 5

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    If your looking elsewhere, just stop wasting both of your time. And leave. Don't be a coward.
    nextstep345 nextstep345 26-30, F Sep 8

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    Oh my goodness when I read this experience "I hate the fakers who say they are part wolves" I just thought about this guy at my high school when I was a freshman he said he was...
    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F Sep 7

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    Okay, hate maybe abit extravagated. I am not sayings its not dumb. But it does not make one dumb dumb. I could easily come with an counter attack of how dumb the other person is...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    I don't want to be talked too. I just need someone to listen
    xXAriannaXx xXAriannaXx 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 29

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    Bah. Kids. Or jerks.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Sep 8

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    But I'm Filipino, Hispanic, and German so I'm not just claiming it it's in my DNA lol
    XxBadXVibesxX XxBadXVibesxX 13-15, F 4 Responses Aug 30

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    >They are beautiful.They look original..They look adorable..Gorgious..and really much more.You wonder where they come from?Just type in address bar Crossdressers in saree images...
    ExUser007 ExUser007 18-21 1 Response Sep 4

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    Today I feel like was kind of a setback, but I guess not all days can be progress. I think I also said a couple stupid things. I should probably run more things by the OWs on here...
    wakeupdead wakeupdead 26-30, M 2 Responses Aug 27

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    Last night was awful... probably one of the worst that we've had. All thanks to me! Was supposed to be a great night but I always have to let m jealousy and insecurities get the...
    newyork2687 newyork2687 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    Update: It’s a long one sorry….So my ExMM came here and read my last post….he had promised me he would never invade my privacy again (he has come here in the past and read...
    daisydew1973 daisydew1973 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 23

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    Ok do I'm new to all this and I'm not sure what all the abbreviations stand for....I know OW is other woman....but please tell me what all the others stand for and what they are...
    Cagirlie Cagirlie 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I am his WIFE I am THE ONE- Who he asked to marry him. Who he wants to spend the rest of his life with. Who he chose to bear his children. Who helped him raise our children. Who...
    NOWHealing NOWHealing 61-65, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    A person can be right, but they cant always be right! I really dont like people who assume they are always right! You not always friggn right!! Get over urself! Sorry i just had to...
    staystrongsu staystrongsu 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    D-DAY. Knew something was up last night. Turns out she saw a pic of me&him posing for silly pics in bed on his phone. She questioned it, he came clean. How much he told her tho I...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    So... A bit of real here. Don't be upset with me!!!!! I am trying to not be persuaded back into this draining and painful affair. The things I feel for him are so different now...
    RoseColouredGlasses RoseColouredGlasses 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Here is my story i know some will be tempted to judge or to say "why would you put yourself through that" but i have come to learn its easy to know what the right decision is when...
    Nellieee Nellieee 22-25, F 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    Decision time for myself. I got a very generic email message this morning. (no feeling or anything or the usual xo). I know he as doing some errands and sure the wife went too...
    blue963 blue963 46-50, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Men who lack the courage to leave This is not directed at other women who seduce married men, nor women who have their own personal reasons for a limited sexual relationship with...
    QueenFL QueenFL 41-45, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    So I just confessed something to my friend. As sick as it is considering all the **** he's put me through, I still miss and think about the mm who's the father of my unborn baby...
    nonameplease74 nonameplease74 36-40, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    We haven't even met in person yet... I'm new here, so I'll just launch right in. I'm having a lot of trouble dealing with these "other woman" rules. I've been here before, but I...
    Ahmazing Ahmazing 31-35, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    He's never made me feel like the other woman. But that's exactly what I am. He treats me so well. But he has a temper that just makes him cold when he's angry. He also has a past...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F Aug 17

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    i need some help and don't really know what to do ... I've been the other woman for 8 years now on and off.. the last 3 years have been totally on.. when our relationship started...
    gmouse81 gmouse81 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 17

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    I really have no idea where to start... I am new on EP but I really have found no where else to turn to. I have told a few of my friends and they all tell me basically the same...
    newyork2687 newyork2687 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 1

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    He still won't admit I am the other woman! Despite me knowing the score before the 'lets have space' thing happened between them and between us 7 weeks back. We have met up for two...
    foreverWantingMore foreverWantingMore 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 16