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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    On this site they believe they are angels

    and done nothing wrong. The way they talk to one another is like they are angles of the earth. Then flag you and curse you out if you try to talk to them or question them on their actions and act like they are invincible . I guess this is the only place for them to fee better...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2014

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 6 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-17, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2014

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I've Replied/Initiated contact WITH SEVERAL FEMALE EP members. They reply "once" with a sentence of A Few Words....then go silent. I Can't HAVE A FRIENDSHIP "with a female...
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 56-60 Mar 5

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    Thought for today: what makes us, the OW, different from just women? Let me break it down. I'm sure we have been at some points in our lives happy with who we are. Confident and...
    UnrequitedControl UnrequitedControl 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 8

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    So much has happen since my last post here. Lots of ups and downs, tears and laughs, jealousy, regrets, anger and disappointment, lots of pain...lots of love and passion... Yes...
    Chicadelcaribe Chicadelcaribe 31-35, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am having the kind of day where I'm struggling not to tell his wife, not to send her the emails and the photos and not only tell her about me but about the past six years of...
    inaraserra inaraserra 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 10

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    I thought I had put up a fairly benign post this morning, but it sure attracted some real haters. My stand is normally to ignore these people, thinking if you don't pore gas on a...
    whynot13 whynot13 46-50, F 9 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I am the other woman……. I’ve been married for a little under 36 years now…. And during all that time…….I have been the other woman…. Before you judge me harshly...
    MatureBabe MatureBabe 56-60, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Who are these men ??!?!? All the stories here all the pain, the health problems, depression, women who opened their hearts and souls and these men take and take and get their ego...
    elizabethmariejazz elizabethmariejazz 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't understand this other woman ... Men loves someone and that women is the real women for that person and there is no way she can feel that she is other women if he is married...
    xRohit xRohit 31-35, M 5 Responses Mar 15

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    I've decided to come clean and lay my cards on the table . Not to be dragged over the coals , but to get my current life out there......... I'm loving the other woman in my life...
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 10 Responses Mar 3

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    I am the other woman... I am trying not to be. I am trying to stop. I posted this morning about part of my story and someone commented with the below... It was powerful. Now I don...
    DesperatelyDollie DesperatelyDollie 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 13

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    So a bit a background story. From what I know about MM, he had been married for approx 10 years, they have children now in their 20's. From what he has told me, getting married to...
    isolatednlonely isolatednlonely 36-40 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Here goes, with part 3. So, the more I hear about "her" the worse I feel... Sometimes she is just a ghost to me, a silhouette of a woman in his shadow... Other times she is the...
    DesperatelyDollie DesperatelyDollie 22-25, F 12 Responses Mar 13

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    I think for me, the most recent events have burst my bubble... You know, the one he put around me... Filled with love and promise, affection and certainty... The one he creates to...
    DesperatelyDollie DesperatelyDollie 22-25, F 4 Responses Mar 14

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    I wanted to write this story from the perspective of a Married person(MM or MW) having an affair. This was triggered by a question someone posted yesterday, asking Why MM needs the...
    Jazz045 Jazz045 36-40, F 18 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate it because no one is better than anyone really. Like sure, they may be faster than someone else, but that doesn't mean they're "Better". It means they're "faster". It's just...
    wedgieshurtalot wedgieshurtalot 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 9

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    It's impossible for any of us to judge anyone on here. It's just too hard to express feeling and all the tiny details and signs that occur between MMs or MWs and OWs or OMs. We...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    A MMs perspective on heartbreak - So she can't be the "shadow woman" anymore, but WOW did we every create some seriously amazing memories in 4 1/2 months. So many signs and songs...
    LoveExplorer78 LoveExplorer78 36-40, M 15 Responses 6 days ago

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