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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 154 People

    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 7 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    On this site they believe they are angels

    and done nothing wrong. The way they talk to one another is like they are angles of the earth. Then flag you and curse you out if you try to talk to them or question them on their actions and act like they are invincible . I guess this is the only place for them to fee better...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2014

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Don't Get The Other Woman/Man to me there

    just someone amusement to someone primary lover. I read some of the stories from other women. They being together for at least a year or more He "didn't tell her yet" Complain they haven't heard from them in while. To me being the other lover your someone booty call. Someone...
    Raina79 Raina79 31-35, F Apr 19

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-17, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2014

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    LotusLIL LotusLIL 46-50, F 7 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Day 11 of nothing from him. He still hasn't developed any balls to tell me he doesn't want me anymore! And I don't think he will, he doesn't know that I know he's back with w. He...
    Prettybutterfly88 Prettybutterfly88 26-30, F 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I never thought I'd be the other woman, and so much in love, but I am. My heart is aching. I should be happy but I have so many insecurities. He said I am THE woman. His woman. I'm...
    HotPinkDaisy HotPinkDaisy 41-45, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Okay. I feel in my particular case, that I feel very frustrated because I'm married as well. I have been for a long time. My marriage is more like a friendship , with my wife most...
    JohnCrighton JohnCrighton 51-55, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    There's a big difference between being intelligent and acting pretentious.
    LittleMidnight LittleMidnight 18-21 1 day ago

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    Newly divorced after leaving a very abusive relationship, I moved back to my hometown and was able to get a job through an old friend from school. During my first week there, I...
    kitkat0216 kitkat0216 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My mother has been a cheater, and a mistress to the same man for 9 years now. I resent her so much for it, due to the fact that my father has been so heart broken and loves her so...
    amariss13 amariss13 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Women are not sex object and I hate it when guys do that. You men think you can JUST hook up and sweet talk us and then go on and use us as sex boys and just dump us. You men have...
    tallblackgirl tallblackgirl 22-25, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    The new trend in middle school each month is weird... People pretend to be the "nerdy, insecure girl" or the "rich beautiful girl who hates the nerdy insecure girl" example: Dork...
    WeirdAlyank WeirdAlyank 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I'm having a better day so far. (The weekend wasn't especially kind in my resolve to get over MM, for those of you who haven't been following my recent posts.) I've realized that...
    ashadams244 ashadams244 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Sorry, I'm thinking "aloud" a lot lately. But if you're ready to move on, you might want to keep reading... I want to be mad at MM. I think buried deep underneath these leftover...
    ashadams244 ashadams244 26-30, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    Well, well, well.... I knew it was coming down to this. MM told me a week ago that he doesn't like seeing me down like I am. (I've been down for several reasons, not just because...
    dixiebambi dixiebambi 36-40, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    RANT WARNING!! So lately I have noticed a few posters on here who apparently like to brag about playing head games and about banging their 'friends' or 'best friends' hubby or...
    Freedomnow01 Freedomnow01 31-35, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    thougH I Like it when wOMen tell men they are ugly..
    wrestlingwithhope wrestlingwithhope 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    “Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you’ve never shared with another soul and they...
    Oceans42 Oceans42 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    Hello my lovely ladies! I've just been reading...ok, and maybe commenting lol...on some of those "stories" on the other side, and it just baffles me at what these women will...
    iiammine69 iiammine69 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 21

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    Being the OW was not at all what I'd expected. Not that I ever planned on being the OW at all - I come from a long line of cheaters, and I've seen the destruction affairs can...
    ashadams244 ashadams244 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    Women aren't toys or things to okay around with. They are living beings just like us men. They too have equal or more fights to live on this planet. We men should learn to respect...
    Pinkygir Pinkygir 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 20

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