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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-18, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 3 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 16

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 50 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    Advice to all men and boys. Not all women and girls like a conversation that starts with I might be the one for you. Anyone with good sense knows it's not how anything real begins...
    annpharos21 annpharos21 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    I love women's feet. The taste is so salty and yummy, their feet smell so sweet and they're so tender they just melt in my mouth
    NeedyArtist NeedyArtist 18-21, M a week ago

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    Some people are so quick to judge without even trying to get to that person! Sorry I battle depression, sorry I have paranoia and let words get to me.......... How shallow are some...
    XannaleiseX XannaleiseX 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Tomorrow is his wedding anniversary. And I really should stop reading his Facebook. They are going to his families cabin by a lake and are going to be spending a few days alone. No...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    How do you handle your guy sleeping with their wife/significant other?? I mean they live together so I know they are...
    Sidechic79 Sidechic79 31-35 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    The worst part is I don't know who is lying or not so it's always weird when i talk to people on here who say they are in the 13-15 when they might be some dirty old *********.
    Nightfang109 Nightfang109 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Get angry when they see white women with black men. I have heard countless times that white women are stealing their men. I wasn't aware that they belonged to just one race. Last I...
    babycakes814 babycakes814 36-40, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I'm beginning to see that if a woman sleeps with a married man and it happens over a period of time and he tries to end it he will always try and come back. He's having his cake it...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    The pain of being the other woman and my story.... Thanks to Experience Project, Thanks to my new circle of friends here, thanks to those people who are just browsing, thanks to...
    annettesan annettesan 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 11

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    I need to send this to my mm. I am in a place where I don't know what he wants. He went on vacation from work and I found out he proposed to his gf. I was broken when I found out...
    Livesforme Livesforme 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 12

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    I found it interesting my choice of movies to watch this week end. One was obvious the other took me by surprise. My first choice " The Other Woman" Cameron Diaz and Leslie Mann. I...
    Carpdiem23 Carpdiem23 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    Less than a month away he will be renewing his vows to the woman he is going to be with for the rest of his life.... I'm just a person that is in his life for who knows how long...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 3

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    I’m not the other woman. I am a man. I am not the other man either. I am married and not involved with another married woman. Interesting fact that some 950 men are currently...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 17

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    A different perspective. (This will be long...sorry) I'm going to change names and certain details purely because this is not my own experience, but observations I've made about a...
    dropdeadredhead dropdeadredhead 36-40, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I think he's done with me.... On Tuesday night we were arguing about the dumbest thing ( whether he would sleep with someone we knew if he didn't know me) he said no and I said " I...
    Lilypad718 Lilypad718 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 9

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    I have found the man that I want to be with forever.. The only guy since being in an abusive relationship that I have cared about and respected enough to stick with past the first...
    urbanwanderer urbanwanderer 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    After reading a few more posts, again I reply as a "been there, done that" OW. It's not anything to take lightly, as I can tell you all have not. It's hard to take the criticisim...
    CherokeeEyes CherokeeEyes 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 3

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    *Clears throat* Guys? *Clears throat again, desperately hoping that middle-age will lend her an aura of authority* Guys?! This post has nothing to do with being the "other woman...
    BoudoirWhispers BoudoirWhispers 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    Today is 3 months since I found out that I was dating a taken man. We had been talking and going out since October of last year, and things were great. We have so much in common...
    Epea24 Epea24 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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    This is the first time I wrote something like this, if you cared enough to read...Thank you.. On the other day I saw a post here that said something like "we -the other women- are...
    ShallowPink ShallowPink 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 11

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    I wear make up every day if i go out. I wear make -up cream, then do my brows with a pencil, then i add powder, then i add gloss or lipstick. I dont wear mascara and eye shadow...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    In any affair there is not only one story but three. His Hers and Ours. A few suggestions to those who have an a problem with this area here on EP called I Am The Other Woman 1...
    lilred101 lilred101 41-45, F 9 Responses Jul 16

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    correction: I hate guys that hit women who haven't done anything or are doing it for control over the woman.
    RavenRena17 RavenRena17 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I am 4 months pregnant. I noticed my fiancé has been going out with his team (at work) too often. There was this one time I tried picking him up after an event I went to, but...
    peerlesscontrivance peerlesscontrivance 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I am new here. I found EP and it has been just in time. You women are so strong and brave for posting your experiences. Not many understand the emotional trauma of being the other...
    lostanddistraught lostanddistraught 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I will have the other woman for a year this month. I was very unhappily married for 15 years and was planning on leaving when I met my guy who is has a live in girl friend for the...
    hopeless124 hopeless124 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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