I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 157 People

    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 16, 2014

    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Apr 3, 2008

    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro
    16-17, F
    12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga
    46-50, F
    1 Response Oct 2, 2007

    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2007

    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella
    26-30
    8 Responses Feb 10, 2013

    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2012

    I Don't Get The Other Woman/Man to me there

    just someone amusement to someone primary lover. I read some of the stories from other women. They being together for at least a year or more He "didn't tell her yet" Complain they haven't heard from them in while. To me being the other lover your someone booty call. Someone...
    Raina79 Raina79
    36-40, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2015

    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jan 12, 2008

    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jan 3, 2012

    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 15, 2014

    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 12, 2007

    On this site they believe they are angels

    and done nothing wrong. The way they talk to one another is like they are angles of the earth. Then flag you and curse you out if you try to talk to them or question them on their actions and act like they are invincible . I guess this is the only place for them to fee better...
    MissLizy MissLizy
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007
    51-55, M
    51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

    I hate them. I wish they would die a horrible

    awful death. When I was a child my father wouldn't come home late at night, and he constantly lied to my mom telling her he was searching for work. I was so close to my mom. It really hurt me to see her so upset. She would scream in the pillow and throw herself down. She would...
    TheBrightestShiningStar TheBrightestShiningStar
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Sep 16, 2015
    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2014

    yes it takes 2, but they are stupid enough to

    honestly believe they didn't do anything wrong. I was not happy in my marriage but I would NEVER cheat, especially with a married man
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 19, 2015

    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123
    26-30, F
    15 Responses Jul 20, 2009

    I think it's funny when "the other woman" says

    well we've been together for two years.. No ma'am technically we've been together for four and have kids together, your just a side *****βœ‹
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 14

    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart
    16-17, F
    5 Responses Sep 2, 2007

    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Jun 2, 2012

    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood
    22-25, F
    20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25
    31-35, F
    16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

    Related Experiences

    Add me on k-i-k gainer101 or Skype barakar42 if you want to keep in touch
    feeder101 feeder101
    18-21, M
    Apr 21
    I've always operated with mindset/philosophy, essentially, that the respect you want to be treated with by others......should first be given by you to them. A "you get what you...
    kk1874 kk1874
    31-35, F
    Apr 21
    I am a boy.... Living in a world with amazing *** people! I am a living being trying to understand why things happen!! I AM ME!!! AND I LOVE THAT ABOUT MYSELF!!! I AM PASSIONATE...
    themoonwalkswithme themoonwalkswithme
    13-15, M
    Apr 21
    Anybody that has ever experienced a streak of sadness, doesn't necessarily need to be at a level of "depression", has learned that there are few people that can handle it. It's not...
    kk1874 kk1874
    31-35, F
    Apr 21
    i have been really lucky in my life to have met such amazing women. My Mom is one of the strongest women I've ever met, She was born in Venezuela and her parents divorced when she...
    WhirlwindR WhirlwindR
    22-25, M
    Apr 21
    Going out with a clean conscience is lovely. Never liked hiding, probably why I became so open at the end. πŸ’‹πŸ’‹πŸ’‹
    CruisingAlone CruisingAlone
    36-40
    Apr 20
    guys say that they're into someone's personality and intelligence yet they always reject me because i'm in a wheelchair or because i'm not as "pretty" as the other girls
    spiritualvirgo82 spiritualvirgo82
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 20
    Add me on k-i-k gainer101 or Skype barakar42 if you want to keep chatting
    feeder101 feeder101
    18-21, M
    Apr 20
    Two or three. Angels are people who are sent to watch over us. People who don't know they are angels. They just are.
    Lauren30 Lauren30
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 20
    I'm going to miss Experience project. Before you go, I gotta say something. First, I have enjoyed reading some of the stories about being the other woman. I have really enjoyed...
    hotbuttersoul hotbuttersoul
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 20
    N/C for a week. I can't believe he can endure not to contact me for that long. I sent him a letter via text about setting him free, last week, I ddn't hear from him at all. He ddn...
    Ladyheart2016 Ladyheart2016
    31-35, F
    Apr 19
    This will be a long post but I hope you bear with because this is something that’s been eating at me for a while. I fell in love with the most amazing girl I’ve ever met. The...
    Tobey94 Tobey94
    18-21, M
    Apr 19
    I remember making an account so long ago for a story I hardly remember but this girl made me make an account and in doing so I met some really good people here who did change my...
    Zudokato Zudokato
    18-21, M
    Apr 19
    With EP closing, have a look at http://super-slutty-is-fun.tumblr.com/ for some smoking (and other) stuff :) Also, http://pub35.bravenet.com/chat/show.php/2978566655 is good for...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 19
    With EP closing, have a look at http://super-slutty-is-fun.tumblr.com/ for some smoking (and other) stuff :) Also, http://pub35.bravenet.com/chat/show.php/2978566655 is good for...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 19
    I expect them to do the same for me...if they are finding it hard to adjust then I'm okay with forgetting their existence
    EscapingUrLies EscapingUrLies
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 19
    I've been in a game where the avatars are really life like and men are pretending to be female avatars to attract women who are into other real women and they keep freaking doing...
    pandoraspaw pandoraspaw
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 19
    I've noticed that one of the best parts of having this thing, is that something as straight forward as a story can have me feeling all tingly and nice. So, if you're willing to...
    harlequinai harlequinai
    18-21, F
    Apr 18
    There is something about their reaction that is fun and enjoyable.
    ticklefetishist1355 ticklefetishist1355
    66-70, M
    Apr 18
    It's a damn shame. Shouldn't men know women talk about them too? A female coworker just came up to me and asked me if a male coworker of ours "G" ever made a pass on me. I said...
    endlessl0ve endlessl0ve
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 18
    We just stopped talking. This is not unusual as he had disappeared a few times in the past, but it still hurts me each and every time. Is this the typical way the MM ends things...
    solost17 solost17
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 17
    And I will out them .am strong. I hate her. Lets invent a life.
    jeffhwaii jeffhwaii
    70+, F
    1 Response Apr 16
    I wish I could find a girl with this mentality, all my girlfriends seemed to find it unappealing. :/
    jroyal32 jroyal32
    16-17, M
    Apr 16
    If it weren't for the anonymity and/or distance on the Internet, many of the people I run into on the Internet would be on life support right now. Literally, the only reason they...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97
    18-21, M
    Apr 16
    I think I deserve that much, someone that can actually hold an intelligent and mind stimulating conversation. Someone I won't have to manipulate for my own person pleasure. And...
    LittleLover19 LittleLover19
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 15
    Before I found about EP,Askmehelpdesk,yahoo q/a or any such!! It was between December 2012 2013 April ' something like that ! I am at my Mission and trying to figure out still...
    fuckuprincessanyajaki fuckuprincessanyajaki
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 15
    40-51 year old woman in Oklahoma City.
    shoer shoer
    46-50, M
    Apr 15
    Its OK if you don't feel amused at something I say or do. Don't fake a laugh. I get to KNOW its fake. And trust me I find it more hurtful than not laughing at all.
    infie infie
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 14
    I'm a pretty tall woman, 5'11' and I love my heels!
    lauratdc lauratdc
    46-50, T
    1 Response Apr 13
    Ugghhh my coworkers suck my whole department!!! They are fine as long as I am helping them fix a problem or have some gossip or something bad to say...the one I constantly work...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 13
    My parents are good people. I was not abused or under appreciated. I am what symbolizes their hopes and dreams. They want me to enjoy a perfect life. Their* perfect life. I'm...
    soroi soroi
    16-17, M
    1 Response Apr 12
    People need realness, reality. People can sense when someone is being pretentious or fake. It's because you feel it; you see it in someone's body language.
    hazaramujahideen hazaramujahideen
    70+, F
    4 Responses Apr 12
    Tell me that u love me. Text me again. Say all of the sweet things. Make me fall in love. I miss u, but I guess u're another dumb a $ $. I will get over u, maybe it will take...
    love29581 love29581
    61-65, M
    Apr 12
More Stories