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    Grrrrrrrrrr - 4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    My Aunt's Story - This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    Unfair to Anyone - What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that...
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    No I Do Not Hate! - Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 6 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here. - just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 10 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    I Was Pregnant - We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 5 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West - My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 4 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    Do not get me wrong I am by no means mad at the other woman because of my soon to be ex husband is not allowing me to see my kids much,but allowing her to be around them. I have my...
    queenshe queenshe 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 8

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    I Once Was "Her" - Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    She's At It Again!!! - I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 10 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way. - My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    They Know... - The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong - Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 50 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her... - So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 17 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    It's Wrong. - You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 21-25, F 21 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Just Want to Know - Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-18, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    Can't Stand It - Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    Christmas Is Over...... - OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    Hurt Beyond Belief - My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    A Question About Cheating... - I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Blackwolf666 Blackwolf666 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I am sure that everyone encountered a "know it all" at some point! My problem is, I work with one! This person ALWAYS has something to say about everything!!!! Most days I am...
    MyCrazyLife63 MyCrazyLife63 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    My wife and I are just over a year of marrage, and i am sick of the way she treats me. I work so hard, i have a 48-hour weekly schedule. She thinks she can tell me what to/to not...
    MiserableandAbused MiserableandAbused 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 22

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    Right now I appreciate allot of the comments from the other women who are supportive of other women. I am both the other woman and wife. I am out as the other woman because he got...
    christinehart christinehart 56-60, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    I know that the choice to be the OW or OM can be mentally, emotionally and physically draining. No matter what led us to this choice, I want everyone to know they are amazing. No...
    Lost4him2 Lost4him2 26-30 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    So Saturday morning after our adventorous night before I talked to him a couple of times and I sent him a text and told him thank you it was amazing (because in the midst of...
    shouldntbethishard shouldntbethishard 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 18

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    I have knowingly been the other woman for 2 months now. He is not married but he moved here in January from another country with his gf of he says 2 years. I met him close to the...
    confucious1 confucious1 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 5

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    Hey ladies....did you know we are to blame for all things evil in this world? We're to blame for wars, world hunger, abortion....and for loving married men. We are the scum of the...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 9 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    So I am new to this site.... Had to find a way to talk about everything I am going thru... So I am involved with a man that has been in a relationship with another woman for 13...
    Jlynn1424 Jlynn1424 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    The phone rang at 4:30 am. This almost never happens. Caller ID showed a woman I have casually "dated" but now we are pretty much friends. She's not my type and we are at different...
    FindingMySong FindingMySong 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 16

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    Ladies:( my MM got mad at for the first time in months. He gets upset with me, but he usually puts up with it cause he knows I'm emotionally insecure being the other woman. He was...
    Xf1234 Xf1234 22-25, F 6 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    One of the trolls blocked me. Perhaps it's because she didn't like what I had said. The truth. Or perhaps that I was once an OW, I should be a troll in this group just like her...
    Inherownwords Inherownwords 31-35, F 8 Responses Mar 21

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    So I dated my ex for only a few months two years ago. My love for him has only grown stronger. After we broke up we were on and off hooking up being friends or completely not...
    loveisreal12 loveisreal12 18-21, F Mar 24

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    I am missing my guy so much tonight! I haven't seen him since Wednesday and don't get me wrong I loved my long weekend with my kids but they're with their dad tonight so now it's...
    GenieH22 GenieH22 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    Ok ladies, I have been doing a lot of research on-line about this pulling away our men seem to do after we have been with them. Very very interesting. We, as women, feel the need...
    kellysperfectlove kellysperfectlove 46-50, F 13 Responses Mar 19

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    I've begged him to stop talking me back into "us" and I think it finally worked. For over 20 months... I've been ending it and he's been showing me why we work and should continue...
    lilsecret1 lilsecret1 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I told him how today made me feel. I was completely honest, against some of you gorgeous ladies advice. I told him today had made me feel insecure and needy, something I haven't...
    hayleysusannah hayleysusannah 18-21, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel like I'm on a rollercoaster, when he's around I am on cloud nine but as soon as he leaves I crumble. Clearly this isn't healthy.. but I do not want to give him up. I hate...
    sleeplesssecretary sleeplesssecretary 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    I never thought I'd be this person.... the "other woman." I never knew that there were so many other women out there who were going through the same thing I am. It's almost a...
    kc5316 kc5316 22-25, F 6 Responses Apr 7

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    Recently, I have found my self in the position of being, somewhat, the other woman. The man I am "with" is my first boyfriend and my first love. We had dated for 6 years before I...
    cowgurrl cowgurrl 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I hope I've blocked enough trolls so I can repost this from a story I wrote for "I am Married and having an affair" without getting run over the coals. But then I can always delete...
    Kelki Kelki 46-50, F 10 Responses Mar 16

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7

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    A Warning I've been on every side of an affair that a person can be on. I've been the scorned spouse. I've been the cheater. I've been the other woman. And I am not biased here...
    DogsOfJezebel DogsOfJezebel 26-30 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    You know what? I hate typing "I am the other woman" at the top of all my posts. That's what I am, but I don't like typing that all the time....lol. Anyhow, on to my morning post...
    blackheels4me blackheels4me 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hello ladies...hello Chelsea ;) ...a little birdie told me there was a pretty good discussion going on....so i wanted to contribute...but couldn't top my post from last year....so...
    seeinglife2x2 seeinglife2x2 46-50, M 23 Responses Mar 16

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    Recently have seen this subject come up again with the men and women that are married, having affairs and stating that they intend to leave at some point. So I say to just be...
    Judy54 Judy54 51-55 3 Responses Mar 27

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    I have seen this more and more and I don't understand. Best friend -A person whom one knows and with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically exclusive of sexual or...
    lovedandadored lovedandadored 36-40, F Apr 6

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    And it is not easy. The affair started 10 months ago with only 4 encounters and they have been intense enough to make think about him day and night. No one tells you how hard it...
    Gweneth Gweneth 31-35 8 Responses a week ago

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    lol...YEP....our men ARE lucky to have such beautiful, caring and unconditionally loving women in their lives.Cheers to ALL the women who post here ! :-)
    gigglelicious gigglelicious 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago