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I Hate Women Who Know They Are the Other Woman

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 154 People

    I Once Was "Her"

    Here goes MY confession for the day!: I once had an affair with a married man. I wasn't out searching for someone else, and I certainly wasn't out to find someone else's marriage to break up. In fact, I was a month away from settling my own messy divorce from a husband that had...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 11, 2007

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    It Has Always Confused Me

    I have never understood why everyone is so quick to hate 'the other woman'. I have been cheated on and I have been the other woman so I know both sides of the story. But I can honestly say that I have never hated the other woman, in fact one of my very good friends was once the...
    flirtygirl333 flirtygirl333 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Wicked Witch That Lives Out West

    My story seems to have no end. It is long, and detailed. My husband deployed to Germany in Sept. 2008. By Oct. he met this OLDER women and had a 5 month affair with her. I suspected it, with his inconsistent stories. (There is so much pain that I am still feeling that I can...
    SaturnmansWife SaturnmansWife 46-50, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2012

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    "Oh no I'm the other woman

    and he spends more time with his wife then me and I love him so much, why oh why?" Give me a break what did you expect? Undying loyalty ? STFU
    Briinx Briinx 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 16, 2014

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    It's Wrong.

    You should be ashamed. You are ruining someones relationship, how dare you! What right do you think you have? - RDW
    randomdriftwood randomdriftwood 18-21, F 20 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    On this site they believe they are angels

    and done nothing wrong. The way they talk to one another is like they are angles of the earth. Then flag you and curse you out if you try to talk to them or question them on their actions and act like they are invincible . I guess this is the only place for them to fee better...
    MissLizy MissLizy 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    No I Do Not Hate!

    Men who do this or women for that matter are good at the game. I have watched someone who was my partner in crime before she met him turn cold ,hard and bitter! Every broken promise a piece of her disappeared. You say that the sex and the relationship is great , why wouldn't it...
    redheadsrule redheadsrule 36-40, F 7 Responses Jan 12, 2008

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    Unfair to Anyone

    What the hell is wrong with women like that? What kind of ***** can walk in on a wonderful relationship and bust it up by being so selfish that she thinks that the man is hers, and that he doesn't belong to the woman he originally was with first?
    Gryphonheart Gryphonheart 16-17, F 5 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    I Was Pregnant

    We were married. We had a three year old girl and a son on the way. I was tired but and he was working long hours. Turned out he was working a girl half his age. THe night our son was born, he left me alone in the hospital to %$#$ her. I foun out six months later when he took our...
    serenebella serenebella 26-30 7 Responses Feb 10, 2013

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    I Just Want to Know

    Do they get some sort of sick pleasure out of being the other woman? KNOWING that there is another woman sitting at home CRYING HER EYES OUT because her husband/fiance/boyfriend is out there with some bimbo and there is nothing she can do but break up with them? Do they realize...
    cyceiro cyceiro 16-17, F 12 Responses Jan 14, 2008

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    I Don't Get The Other Woman/Man to me there

    just someone amusement to someone primary lover. I read some of the stories from other women. They being together for at least a year or more He "didn't tell her yet" Complain they haven't heard from them in while. To me being the other lover your someone booty call. Someone...
    Raina79 Raina79 31-35, F Apr 19

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    She's At It Again!!!

    I just found out that the woman my bf cheated on me with is now seeing a married man.  She's going to get herself killed... 
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 9 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    My Aunt's Story

    This is a story from another group,  "I am heartsick" one that I started, I hope it is ok to re post it here. It is in 2 parts, this is part one.  T oday I had a long talk with my aunt, she is more like a sister and sometimes a mother and...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 12, 2007

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    Christmas Is Over......

    OK, so some of you have read my aunts sad story, this is the Christmas update. My aunt went to Christmas Eve dinner at her mother-in-laws house, with her soon to be x-husband, her son and the daughter-in-law (the one her husband is having an affair with). One of his sisters made...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2007

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    The Other Woman Is Not Always In the Wrong

    Maybe its the first woman that is. Just because you are first doesn't mean you are right.
    JRSK007 JRSK007 51-55, M 51 Responses Dec 8, 2007

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    I Really, Really, Really Hate Her...

    So this story is a real humdinger!  Read on to hear a tale about the absolute scum of the earth.  Sorry for the length! I've known my bf for over 5 years.  For part of this time we were in a long-distance relationship.  I mean REALLY long distance. ...
    Strangeland123 Strangeland123 26-30, F 16 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    butterflysplurge123 butterflysplurge123 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 8, 2014

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    I Knew From the Day I Met Her It Would End This Way.

    My boyfriend of 5 years left me for a human 19 years younger than him, what is he thinking? He moved here to be with me 5 years ago, most of his friends are people who he met through me, except one. The one friend he made on his own is a over the road truck driver who is gone a...
    RudysStaff RudysStaff 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 16, 2008

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    Can't Stand It

    Duh, *******!! You are going to be alone on the holidays. I haven't been married that long. It will be two years this July however I still feel very territorial in terms of my husband and would never even want to consider the idea of him cheating. The fustrating thing is that the...
    goldie25 goldie25 31-35, F 16 Responses Jan 3, 2008

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    They Know...

    The most frustrating part is, they know that the guy has a wife (or someone he's dating) and their still sleeping with them!
    Eamane Eamane 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 2, 2007

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    Grrrrrrrrrr

    4 years after we broke up, I found out that I was the other woman on my first date with this guy. He broke up with her the next day. I was absolutely furious with him. He was confused, because I wasn't the one he cheated on - he didn't get why I was upset. I would never...
    eyes eyes 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    A Question About Cheating...

    I have seen a trend on these boards and I am curious about it. Do you feel it is more wrong for a woman to sleep with another womans HUSBAND then it is for a woman to sleep with someone elses BOYFRIEND? See in my world those two things are interchangable, but I am not religious...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 3, 2012

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    Dear reader, hate is far too exhausting.

    If you truly want to hate something you have to give it a ton of effort... effort that could have been used on something worthwhile. I do know that I have an overpowering distaste for those women. Not only for the other woman, either but for the MEN who allow another woman to...
    AddyAddyAddy AddyAddyAddy 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15, 2014

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    Hurt Beyond Belief

    My husband of 7 years had a heart attack at age 47 over a year ago.  He has been having an affair with the woman that he works with who drove him to the hospital.  It is very painful to talk about - just found out the gory details yesterday.  I found proof...
    inga inga 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 2, 2007

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    Didnt Think This Would Be the First Story I Wrote Here.

    just wanted to say... that i just joined this site after hearing wonderful things about it. i came here for advice for help and guidance and when i search for a group to help me, i find this group a group centered around HATRED.  how can you hate a woman you dont even know...
    mostlymodest mostlymodest 18-21, F 11 Responses Apr 3, 2008

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    Her birthday is tomorrow. I only know because we are supposed to be swimming on Tuesdays and he said "I'm not doing any training tomorrow". When I asked why he hesitated and told...
    iunderstand1234 iunderstand1234 51-55, F 9 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Finally got some good news this morning. Turns out my husbands work decided to keep him but they are putting him on contract. Which means he's not considered a full time employee...
    RedSheep2 RedSheep2 26-30, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Guess it's time for an update as it's been awhile and as always so much has happened. Last update was things were still over with MM and exMM and I ended things yet again. I had...
    Lust2much Lust2much 31-35, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Well, met my MM online and although I said no at first because he was married, he won me over by being my protector and helping get me out of a really bad situation. He was first...
    Photobird Photobird 36-40, F 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Well it's a long horrible story but it's over. Truly over !!! We had a big event of bad all in one day and he ended it for good. I knew deep down I wouldn't be able to stick with...
    elizabethmariejazz elizabethmariejazz 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Women need to be pleased and if they aren't getting pleasure from their man then they should have the right to find it elsewhere. I love getting with a woman knowing full well she...
    MasterTom28 MasterTom28 26-30, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    Mm do not have a clue of what they make us go through. My Exmm was so cruel. I feel sorry for his wife. Wish I never met him. I regret so much pain he made me go through. I just...
    liberty2014 liberty2014 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Disclaimer: I am not the other woman anymore. Just waiting for the divorce to be finalized. He was separated when I met him- I in NO WAY condone having a child to keep a man around...
    lostanddistraught lostanddistraught 26-30, F 12 Responses 3 days ago

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    I met Jeff* at work, and there was instant chemistry. I was still getting over my last serious relationship when he first attempted to ask me out, so I resisted, even though it...
    ashadams244 ashadams244 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I guess I'm the "other woman," but in all fairness, that isn't how our relationship began. He was separated from his wife when we met at work and he pursued me. I declined his...
    ashadams244 ashadams244 26-30, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was not surprised in the least. Young women often from an African country who show interest and move the conversation using terms of endearment and best of all fake photo's that...
    Cooleeman Cooleeman 66-70, M 4 days ago

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    I wonder how it feels to be the other woman. Knowing that maybe your not his first choice or maybe that all of this is just a stage in his life, and you just came at the right...
    lilacadventures lilacadventures 18-21, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    The questions... Oh, the questions... For the 10 months he was figuring out his own journey, for the 10 months that (in hindsight) I was working on myself (but at the time felt...
    UnrequitedControl UnrequitedControl 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Hi ladies. I just spent some time reading through all of the recent posts here and I have an observation to make. I have noticed how some women have very good relationships with...
    ArlingtonRose ArlingtonRose 36-40, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    I know there are my OW sisters that struggle on here. They aren't treated well by the ones they love. And I feel sorrow for each of you. But as I pan through the pages of...
    iunderstand1234 iunderstand1234 51-55, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hi I would like to vent a bit.I was going to put I have husband who thinks he knows everything.But also my in laws think they know everything too.It bothers me a lot.Here is...
    Fruitypunch15 Fruitypunch15 31-35 a week ago

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    So get this... The last guy I dated before I dated my husband and I have been friends throughout. He got married about the same time that I did and has a daughter as well. There...
    iunderstand1234 iunderstand1234 51-55, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I don't know what the hell im doing. Her and I went thru 9 days of NC, I deleted this app because what was the point of being on it.....I wasn't the other woman anymore. Then she...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response a week ago

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    Well I'm not out of the woods completely, but no matter how much I love my MM the last 24 hours have taught me something very important. I want to share with you ladies as you have...
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses a week ago

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