Post

I Hate Workplace Bullying

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 133 People

    Isolated And Ignored

    I started working at my job towards the end of February of this year. I love and enjoy what I do, and it feels great to know it makes a positive difference in the lives of others. In the first few months, I went in with no stress and felt comfortable around my coworkers. Everyone...
    Belinda Belinda 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Wrongful Termination?

    My boss just terminated a lady in our office who had only been there a couple of months. Three of the employees under this lady never took a liking to her. I share an office with my boss so I have been privy to a lot of conversations about this matter. The thing is, these...
    Trinita4317 Trinita4317 46-50, F 3 Responses May 6, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    The Scourge Of Workplace Bullying

    It is perpetrated by people who feel threatened by others. They feel they have a certain position in the workplace and when someone comes along who seems more competent or more intelligent, it becomes their mission to thwart and undermine that person as much as they can.  They...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 75 Responses Nov 9, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Tell Me About It

    This has happened so much to me...not so much bullying....but other ppl...usually women...through manager or the main player in the office...putting u down publicly or trying to undermine ur work. I fell for it n paid price a few times cos u expect ppl to be professional don't u...
    starlightforever starlightforever 31-35, F Sep 30, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Can'T Win

    I am an assistant in a HR dept in a corporate office, there's a higher up mngr that no matter what I do I'm wrong and she lets everyone know. If we are missing paperwork she gives detail on how I've lost it and makes sure to CC every single person she can think of on emails to...
    melliemelanie melliemelanie 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 17, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I am currently being bullied by my boss in work.

    There is nothing I can do to stop it. It's his word against mine
    clurrby clurrby 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 7

    Your Response

    Cancel

    How To Turn Workplace Bullying/ Prejudice To Your Advantage?

    Nope, I have no idea how to. I am a victim myself. In fact I was a victim today, for the umpteenth time. As much I got angry, abusive, irritated, disappointed, demotivated, used, fooled, prejudiced, lost in thought, feeling sad about my life, not given due recognition that I...
    speakingtree speakingtree 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Workplace Bullying Has Lasting Effects

    I recently changed jobs because if workplace bullying.... I started a job in a retail store at the end of April this year I was working as a cashier part time. Almost immediately I could tell that people were "cliquish" and that the assistant manager of my area was kind of off...
    paintgirl89 paintgirl89 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    I Hate Bullying

    When I was at school I suffered a lot from bullying and it left me with a deep hatred for it. Whenever I see it at work I get very angry and I've been in a few fights over it. Unfortunately, administration sometimes prefers to turn a blind eye rather than admit there is a problem...
    woodseaves woodseaves 56-60, M 3 Responses Nov 13, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Bullied At My Job...

    Here's a long one for you EP. About two weeks ago, I had a serious heat stroke. I had nausea, fever, chills, vomiting, and I had passed out a couple times. I found out that my health insurance barely covers me at any medical facility I could go to, and so I basically had to sweat...
    Fostergal1 Fostergal1 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Feeling Empowered Again After having been

    absent from my workplace for several months, and facing the possible necessity of having to return to it, I have had time and space to think over the bullying that happened there, why it happened, who was behind it and what they want to achieve. Before I go back, I wanted to...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 3

    Your Response

    Cancel

    My Last Job Was Crawling With Sociopaths

    At my last job, I was there for 2 years. My first year was nearly perfect. I got along with everyone there, was liked, performed well, etc. Then, in the middle of the second year, I was basically harrassed by another person on the job and decided to press charges. Because this...
    OCDkid OCDkid 51-55 2 Responses Mar 28, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Insight Please?

    My manager constantly swears at people in a degrading manner. He has been known to let his wrath out on people. He just comes up to you in the middle of the office - open plan - and starts calling you an F-ing C* and such names with no constructiveness to it at all. No 'you've...
    xlxSpiraxlx xlxSpiraxlx 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 26, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel

    Related Experiences

    What is the point of bullying? To make yourself feel better? If you ever been bullied I'm sorry for the pain you went through, and if you would share your stories I would love to...
    Airforcewife90 Airforcewife90 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 28

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well lastnight some of you's may know that u put up a post about missing my boyfriend who is in jail and I got a lot of abuse from it all. To be honest it didn't bother me because...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    School is possibly the worst invention ever. I don't hate education, I just hate school. I hate the people, I hate the teachers, I hate the early morning, I hate the uniform, I...
    ImChelsea ImChelsea 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    What you have to understand about rent boy is he is really intelligent and highly sophisticated. His plan with his but boy sam was to have him antagonize me and then try and...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 1 Response Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I wonder if this is reminding richard of when he was bullied in school. It effected him so deeply that he needs to recreate that bullying except hes the bully now and not the...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F 20 hrs ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dear parents of bullies, As a victim of bullying for 5 long years I would like to know one thing. As a parent what the **** are you teaching your kid that makes them so horrible...
    greenteajello greenteajello 13-15, F a week ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I literally just HATE the person I've turned into. I know that I'm young and all, anyways, here's my story. Since the third grade, I've always been at the top of my class. I've...
    mintlover mintlover 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 23

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Omg I absolutely hate them. Since my father died, I moved from Massachusetts to New Jersey. It was terrible. But since 5th grade, when I moved here, these few boys in my class and...
    Tooselfcautius Tooselfcautius 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was bullied a lot as a child and as a teenager in high school and I hate bullying period. I think we all have bullied once in our lifetime. Bullying still goes on today and I am...
    denaellis575 denaellis575 46-50, F Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    How can they make some one feel so alone and hate themswlf so much i mean do they have heart? Why they act like they ******* care why is everyone so fake why we dont stop bullying...
    rawan99 rawan99 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My name is Randy. I'm 14 and I hate bullies. In fact, I go out of my way to stop bullies. I'm an antibully. I help the teased, the beaten up, and the unpopular. If I see a bully in...
    antibully14 antibully14 13-15, M 1 Response Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm 27 this yesterday and I hate my birthday...it's because I'll end up with loneliness and sadness and crying at the end of that day...why did I cry? Because nothing happens...
    asyilah asyilah 26-30, F Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    STOP bullying no one deserves to feel worthless
    4evamaureen 4evamaureen 22-25, F Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I honestly hate my parents. Sometimes I imagine I punch my mother on the face until she faints. It is not like I enjoy it, or I want to encourage this behavior, but I am just so...
    ValeServigna ValeServigna 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    As much as I hated this little boy who lived in my neighborhood, I couldn't just stand there and watch him be bullied by some of my friends. My friends mean the world to me, but I...
    16countrygirl 16countrygirl 16-17, F Apr 5

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I thought the bullying and the negativity would stop after high school. Well, I thought wrong! I go to college and I live by myself, so I have to pay my way through - it's not a...
    emogeneticist emogeneticist 22-25, F 2 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    http://littlepurpleplums.deviantart.com/art/Broken-Adults-441201933A small interactive comic someone created, detailing what bullying can be like and how it feels, and brings up...
    Naxxaras Naxxaras 16-17, F Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I moved to Australia seven years ago. I like many others on this website have travelling extensively and spent three years living all over Europe. Living in Australia and more...
    sweetelle01 sweetelle01 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well, I've done it! I've taken the first tentative steps to create not a blog, but a website that will collect and collate much of what has been said on this site, as well as...
    boganbait boganbait 46-50, M 9 Responses Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was young I bullied him because I'd heard that he liked me I thought is he the only one who'll ever actually like me I didn't want anything to do with him I thought he was a...
    Radjad Radjad 13-15, F Mar 22

    Your Response

    Cancel
    This is how it works right. You find someone who is vulnerable or perceived as vulnerable at work. You then gang up on this person ostracize them and drive them out of the work...
    RichardIsaFFFFaggot RichardIsaFFFFaggot 70+, F Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was the most bullied girl I know from 5th-7th grade..... & now, well... All the ******* who uses to taunt me are now either teen moms or are failing school. I'm a college...
    littlemissplur littlemissplur 18-21, F Mar 31

    Your Response

    Cancel
    People are alway bullying me and I hate it
    bloodykiller bloodykiller 13-15, F 6 Responses Apr 4

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I don't understand why my parent always want me to be to be like what they wants . Sometimes they look at me with a weird eyes and ironic me with a bad image like I am addiction...
    Poundps Poundps 16-17, M 2 Responses Apr 6

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I'm a pretty ok person, but I can be the worlds biggest ****. I'm my father on the inside and the only use for that is in the workplace. : /
    Twichl Twichl 18-21, F 4 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have found mail actually gets most places fairly fast and the carriers seem OK, it is just the people who work at the windows at the post office mostly need to be medicated...
    thela90048 thela90048 41-45, M 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I can't enjoy life. I hate it when people says that happiness is inside me, but are you a guy that is short (5'6") latino and bipolar? Are you a person that people look with...
    DeniedWings DeniedWings 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been trying to fight to keep my darling Ellie alive since she started getting sick 3 weeks ago. She is 12 years old. Very old for a goat. I have three, twins (one of them is...
    LindaNKVermey LindaNKVermey 41-45, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I hate flowers. And I've had this aversion towards them right from the time I was a toddler. What is the science behind this?
    falihazikra falihazikra 22-25, F 1 hr ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a friend who every one calls him Asian. And I hate it because that's horrible to use against someone especially since we all are the same species
    MichaelEgitto MichaelEgitto 13-15, M 6 Responses 20 mins ago

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Why? Why do the people I call friends patronize me like last year? Hopefully they've noticed I'm not the same fat, depressed, lazy kid who always got D's and F's in school. I've...
    GandhiHD GandhiHD 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    So, I know I did wrong but I didn't have a choice and I need to get his off my chest. Last month, I had a confrontation with another SPC who kept bullying me and harassing me at...
    amorfati2015 amorfati2015 22-25 2 Responses Mar 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    If everyone would stand up to bullying then we could stop a lot of it from happening If you can't stop it, tell a teacher or an adult.
    justaguy22 justaguy22 16-17, M 3 Responses Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I was bullied from 4th grade till 10th when bullying forced me into homeschooling i was in a place called hyland center for a week for almost commiting suicide
    LaTeAssassin LaTeAssassin 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My story is not as bad as some of the others I have read. I was bullied through the ages of 6-12. For the most ridiculous reasons too. First: I have a big nose. : ) I'm sure you...
    hellcat88 hellcat88 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I feel it is time that this sort of thing be put to justice once and for all. I lost many of my old friends due to bullying and now I want it to end. It simply must stop.
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M 2 Responses Mar 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I was a teenager, my family used to get me so angry. I thought that maybe it was just teenage hormones being out of whack, and I was being overly sensitive. After moving...
    Scorpio018 Scorpio018 26-30, M Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When I was little I got bullied and it's just stoping I hate it and don't understand it what so ever it's dumb and meaningless . People that bully are just jealous of u ! This girl...
    zeusx12 zeusx12 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    STOP THE BULLYING!!!! Publication is key! If your school districts don't act, report it to the news, who knows what devastation your kids could go through in life if no action is...
    AprilBurden23 AprilBurden23 18-21, F Mar 30

    Your Response

    Cancel