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I Hated When They Compare Me To Others

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    I Hate Being Compared.

    im on my vacation in italy. my nona and nono are constantly comparing me to my brother or to my cousin or to me when i was younger. they tell me how i shuld get good grades like my brother when my grades are perfectly fine where they are. with my cousin, the tell me that she...
    ChiChika ChiChika 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2011

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    How Do You Campare Me To Normals

    I am always compared to other people, by my teachers and by other students, and these teachers and student dont know ****, about ****, they are comparing me to people that have never been through the **** Ive been through, they cant even imagine the **** ive seen, done, and been...
    numbuh13m numbuh13m 13-15, F Mar 1, 2012

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    I Hate Being Compared.

    im on my vacation in italy. my nona and nono are constantly comparing me to my brother or to my cousin or to me when i was younger. they tell me how i shuld get good grades like my brother when my grades are perfectly fine where they are. with my cousin, the tell me that she...
    ChiChika ChiChika 13-15, F Jul 10, 2011

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    I Hate Being Compared To Other People

    out of all my female cousins and sisters i am not the prettiest one. infact i was the ugliest one,lol. yet being ugly made me very self confident. but thats another story. so im not as pretty as them but not to sound cocky im pretty. its funny because ive noticed that i...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 8, 2010

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    I get it, that's why I'm too nice to people. I just know how it would make me feel, and I don't ever want anyone to feel that way. It's actually really exhausting. I over think...
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    I give one chance and one chance only
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