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I Have 4 Kids

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    Four Teenagers Will Turn Your Hair Gray!

    So just as soon as I workout the best way to be a good Mother to my children they grow and devlop and change. They are no longer babies who create a load of dirty laundry everyday now they are teenagers who wash their own laundry once a week. Now problems with cars clubs at...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Jan 13, 2013

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    Meet My Own Personal Bradybunch

    All them with different personalities. My eldest is a girl...third grade...8 going on Sweet Sixteen! Quiet and shy but with a wild streak. Wants to be popular and fashionable. Not so into sports but loves to dance. Not the best singer...but she loves to sing. A great artist...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F Nov 28, 2012

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    Who Needs Privacy Right?!

    My 4 little people. They are such a team. Except when they are not. So interesting to listen to them communicate. So smart!
    Ssgsmith77 Ssgsmith77 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    As Different As The Points On A Compass!!!!

    I am the mother to four amazing children. My son's are 18, 17, & 15, my daughter is 14. Each of them are wonderful in their own ways. I could not imagine have one more or one fewer kids. Now I am a single mother so every choice I make is even more important.
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Jan 6, 2013

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    Scared Out Of My Mind!

    Hi, I have 3 children and one on the way! All boys! I have a 10 year old, 8 year old, 5 year old and I'm 7 months pregnant with yet another little boy! Please tell me it will get easier! =) My eight year old has some learning problems, so a lot of our time is spent helping and...
    tatersangels4 tatersangels4 26-30, F Nov 29, 2012

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    It's a Handfull

    I have 3 boys and 1 girl, my daughter will be well protected in here teen years, she is 2nd to last child. In our family it is a little different, I cook the meals, and pretty much take over the day to day stuff when I get home from work, I feel this is my wife's time to kick...
    Mick75 Mick75 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 31, 2007

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    My Kids

    Hi I am the mother of four beautiful kids, I have two boys and two girls. They range in age. My oldest is 8, then comes 4, next we have 20 months and finally 5 months old.  I feel overwhelmed at times because I don't get to spend as much one on one time with them as I would...
    keenan8 keenan8 31-35, F 7 Responses May 23, 2007

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    Losing a Child....leaving One's Life Behind

    I have lost a child.  Four years old, strong, happy, full of life and the joy of childhood.  How would we ever know time was ebbing slowly from this young childs grasp. Parents are not suppose to out live our children. Children are our most important asset...
    Jim58 Jim58 56-60, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Lets Try For A Boy,please?

    My husband and i had 2 healthy girls,3 years apart. I had a IUD put in after my 2nd and was fine with 2 kids! My husband started asking me for another try at a boy and i said no for about 10 months. Then i gave in and had the iud removed. I got pregnant within 2 months. Ten...
    Jeepinmom Jeepinmom 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    Daughters Change Away a Man Thinks

    So blessed have I been to have 4 beautiful daughters.  My life has never been the same after raising daughters who appreciate the gentle expirences in life, the softness of their emotions, the joy in their eyes. I am a different man then I was before I had daughters. ...
    Jim58 Jim58 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 29, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I am a mother at heart... I have cared for children since I, myself, was a child. At 7 years old, I taught myself how to make macaroni and cheese for me and my younger brothers...
    HiddenAnger HiddenAnger 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 4

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    I just think it's ridiculous how some horrible people are blessed enough to have kids but mistreat them when there are amazing people who would make amazing parents but can't have...
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 7 Responses Aug 9

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    I know no one is perfect but not everyone should have kids. Doctors and laws should get into parents' IQ, whether they have common sense or not, habits, and salary. Gosh! If one...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    Some people shouldn't have kids. I see a lot of adults Letting their kids walk behind them. The kids look about 1-3 years old. What I feel like doing taking their kid and see what...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    Seems like more and more people are having kids at such a young age now a days. No one wants to wait until they are financially stable, married. I personally want to enjoy my life...
    iamnikki iamnikki 22-25, F Jul 22

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    One person that came to my mind is Teen Mom's Janelle! She couldn't even take care of the first kid she had and now she's having another one....dumbass! And I hate that some...
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 1

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    Urrrggghhh! Many people just shouldn't have kids! Especially if they live like pigs themselves! Gosh! I'm sick and tired of seeing clothes on the sofa, napkins, tissues, socks, and...
    destinii3 destinii3 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 3

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    I was babysitting son of my friend tonight... I hate it... Not the babysitting itself, it's great actually! But I hate the feeling it gives me. I know I'm not supposed to have kids...
    Mellangela Mellangela 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    When I get married, I want to have 3 kids. One will be adopted, and the other two will be mine biologically. I want to have a boy and a girl. The girl will be named Anneliese and...
    jeanjellybean13 jeanjellybean13 16-17, F Jul 30

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    I can name quite a few people in my area who should be made sterile! I think there should be a law that requires want-to-be parents to have some sort of test to make sure they...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 9

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    I have no respect for women who put their selfish needs before their kids. It's even worse when they put their "man" first...
    kmm95 kmm95 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I want 5 kids; 3 girls and 2 boys. Though God may have a different plan for me and I will love my blessing from him regardless.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Wht happens I I have to many kid or what happens if they have cancer or they all ways get in trouble
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 22

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    I was married once, my marriage was annulled. I have a daughter who lives with me. She is always a part of me, and will always be with me. I need a man who will understand and...
    MissKassandra MissKassandra 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 24

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    And yet I don't assume I have the right to dictate who should and who should not be procreating.
    Visola Visola 22-25, F Jul 29

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    I agree, although, everybody else that agree probably has different views on the subject. Drug addicts and physical abusers are obviously out. Personally, this is why I feel that...
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Aug 1

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    I believe strongly that people with unresolved anger issues or past abuse should strongly consider counseling before becoming parents. It would be nice if you needed a license...
    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 41-45 4 Responses Aug 4

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    She looked at me like I told her I killed someone
    vertffy vertffy 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    My dad is one. Loves money and drink. And image. Is a lawyer. His only assetes came from it. Scheme and manipulate to look good. Fourth wife. One died...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 9

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    I want 2 maybe 3 :) But, when I get older. Around 25 years old. I'm 15 right now so I want to wait.
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Yeah, someday I would. I would want at least a boy and a girl. I would name my boy Billy Joe (lead singer of Green Day) and my girl Hayley (lead singer of Paramore)
    PanicAtTheBlink PanicAtTheBlink 13-15, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have NO interest in having kids. I love kids do not get me wrong, I do I really, really, really love kids and when I see a baby or child I get that warm and fuzzy feeling inside...
    Chicgeekgal Chicgeekgal 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    When I was younger I was besotted with everything todo with babies! I wanted them so bad... When I grew up it was the first thing I tried to do, get pregnant when I got married...
    off2heavenIgo off2heavenIgo 13-15 Aug 2

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    Ever since I was 14 years old, I never wanted to have kids. I have no maternal instincts and don't like being around kids very long. Even though I live with my parents, I love my...
    inspirelove inspirelove 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    ... and I hate when people say it's just a phase, that I'm too young but when I "find the right guy I'll have kids". I find the "concept" of "looking for the father of my children...
    emmacla emmacla 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    With the way society is and how ****** up the world is i do not want to have kids. Not like any girl wants to date me and kids with me anyways.
    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M Aug 12

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    I love kids and get along with them great but I don't think I ever want to have kids. I believe if you're going to be a parent there has to be something inside you that says I want...
    Tickler808 Tickler808 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I'm pretty young to be making the decision to have kids or not. Personally, I HATE children and would never willingly have them. How could you love something so sticky and loud...
    Raven1313 Raven1313 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    If I Were To Have Kids I'd want to name them something that isn't so common. My six choices for a girl is Violet, Willow, Heaven, Faye, Lucille & Brookelle (or Brooklyn, can't...
    deadmoon deadmoon 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 24

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    When I have kids, ( 1 or 2) they will be spoiled from day 1. I will give them whatever they want. there won't be a single fruit or vegetable not once when they are living there. (I...
    bigguy167 bigguy167 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Funny conversation at work the other day... Child: Are you a mom? Me: Nope. Child: Whaaaat? Then what are you? Me: I'm just me. I'm a Speech Therapist. Child:...but you don't have...
    QuietChristi QuietChristi 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I was diagnosed with Tachycardia last year at 36 years old. I had never had any heart problems before July 4th 2013. I have however suffered from anxiety and panic attacks since...
    BriniG BriniG 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    In one of my dreams that really hit me emotionally... It started off with me in a black room that was covered in blood everywhere. I turn around I see a scale that weighs small...
    maliciousMartyr maliciousMartyr 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    My sister boyfriend is abusive, i called the police and now he is facing a prison sentence. My mother and sister seem to be on his side though, I heard them arguing and mum didn't...
    BulletproofLoneliness BulletproofLoneliness 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 26

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    My cousin announced him and his girlfriend of a few months are having a baby I feel so bad because I wish it was a joke that it is not true I am heart broken I love my cousin. And...
    leaf90McC leaf90McC 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 27

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    This happens often when you have kids...little old ladies especially. I remember one lovely old lady in the doctors surgery once who told me all about her children when they were...
    StoneWall77 StoneWall77 36-40, F Jul 28

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    My greatest fear is not being able to have children. Ever since I was little I knew that I would want to be a mum someday. Then I started having strange nightmares about babies...
    Starkillera Starkillera 22-25, F Jul 29

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    No. Used to. But then girlfriends DISAPROVE, or you do dumb things like have kids,get super busy at work and before you know it they're gone. I've been up here two years now. Other...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 29

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