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I Have 4 Kids

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    Lets Try For A Boy,please?

    My husband and i had 2 healthy girls,3 years apart. I had a IUD put in after my 2nd and was fine with 2 kids! My husband started asking me for another try at a boy and i said no for about 10 months. Then i gave in and had the iud removed. I got pregnant within 2 months. Ten...
    Jeepinmom Jeepinmom 26-30 1 Response May 15, 2012

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    Scared Out Of My Mind!

    Hi, I have 3 children and one on the way! All boys! I have a 10 year old, 8 year old, 5 year old and I'm 7 months pregnant with yet another little boy! Please tell me it will get easier! =) My eight year old has some learning problems, so a lot of our time is spent helping and...
    tatersangels4 tatersangels4 26-30, F Nov 29, 2012

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    My Kids

    Hi I am the mother of four beautiful kids, I have two boys and two girls. They range in age. My oldest is 8, then comes 4, next we have 20 months and finally 5 months old.  I feel overwhelmed at times because I don't get to spend as much one on one time with them as I would...
    keenan8 keenan8 31-35, F 7 Responses May 23, 2007

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    As Different As The Points On A Compass!!!!

    I am the mother to four amazing children. My son's are 18, 17, & 15, my daughter is 14. Each of them are wonderful in their own ways. I could not imagine have one more or one fewer kids. Now I am a single mother so every choice I make is even more important.
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Jan 6, 2013

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    It's a Handfull

    I have 3 boys and 1 girl, my daughter will be well protected in here teen years, she is 2nd to last child. In our family it is a little different, I cook the meals, and pretty much take over the day to day stuff when I get home from work, I feel this is my wife's time to kick...
    Mick75 Mick75 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 31, 2007

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    Losing a Child....leaving One's Life Behind

    I have lost a child.  Four years old, strong, happy, full of life and the joy of childhood.  How would we ever know time was ebbing slowly from this young childs grasp. Parents are not suppose to out live our children. Children are our most important asset...
    Jim58 Jim58 56-60, M 3 Responses Sep 30, 2008

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    Daughters Change Away a Man Thinks

    So blessed have I been to have 4 beautiful daughters.  My life has never been the same after raising daughters who appreciate the gentle expirences in life, the softness of their emotions, the joy in their eyes. I am a different man then I was before I had daughters. ...
    Jim58 Jim58 56-60, M 1 Response Sep 29, 2008

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    Who Needs Privacy Right?!

    My 4 little people. They are such a team. Except when they are not. So interesting to listen to them communicate. So smart!
    Ssgsmith77 Ssgsmith77 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 11, 2013

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    Meet My Own Personal Bradybunch

    All them with different personalities. My eldest is a girl...third grade...8 going on Sweet Sixteen! Quiet and shy but with a wild streak. Wants to be popular and fashionable. Not so into sports but loves to dance. Not the best singer...but she loves to sing. A great artist...
    4purrfectdarkness 4purrfectdarkness 26-30, F Nov 28, 2012

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    Four Teenagers Will Turn Your Hair Gray!

    So just as soon as I workout the best way to be a good Mother to my children they grow and devlop and change. They are no longer babies who create a load of dirty laundry everyday now they are teenagers who wash their own laundry once a week. Now problems with cars clubs at...
    LadyGypsy LadyGypsy 36-40, F Jan 13, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I'm in my mid-30s. I know that isn't old in the grand scheme of things, but I'm getting somewhat nervous that I haven't had any children yet. I'm not married, but dating. The...
    Sdg9791 Sdg9791 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    I believe that some people should have kids too. I know this lady that beats her autistic child because she can't handle how different he is. She also makes her kids lie about her...
    Samaccino Samaccino 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Seems like more and more people are having kids at such a young age now a days. No one wants to wait until they are financially stable, married. I personally want to enjoy my life...
    iamnikki iamnikki 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    There should be an iq test amongst other intelligence tests before you can have kids
    smadathehut smadathehut 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was married once, my marriage was annulled. I have a daughter who lives with me. She is always a part of me, and will always be with me. I need a man who will understand and...
    MissKassandra MissKassandra 31-35, F 3 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I'm probably one of them with my track record. I'm great with other peoples kids and other peoples life's but I can always give the kids back etc but the accolades go on and on...
    jadedover101 jadedover101 22-25 1 Response Jul 3

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    I have to Many kids.. I really don't know if i enjoy being a mother.. Maybe I should but I don't know I love my kids but it's not what I thought
    cherrikisses22 cherrikisses22 22-25 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I don't like when people tell me how to live my life just because I'm a woman I should be married and have children even I'm not crazy about marriage or kids right now. I don't...
    sham17 sham17 26-30, F Jun 26

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    I knew I didn't want kids from the time I was a child myself. Having a hysterectomy at 28, (due to severe endometriosis), was a blessing. Now that I'm in my 30's I hope to find a...
    Nikki351 Nikki351 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    Owning Your Child Means Lost Freedom! I have a lot of respect for people who choose to be parents. Good for you. But that just wouldn't work for me. I know I'm only seventeen, and...
    FR3DR1CKA FR3DR1CKA 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    Have you seen the young Mum in the shop trying to get her young daughter who doesn't want to leave without this toy, that packet of sweets, behave and frustrated she starts...
    Paca24 Paca24 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Seriously, some people are just not fit to be parents. A particular 4 year old's mother for instance. It's my boyfriend's son's mother. She can't hold a job, lives at home with...
    xXFemmeFataleXx xXFemmeFataleXx 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    For various reasons: I'm afraid of child birth, I'm afraid of raising them wrong and not being able to care for them properly, and when I'm being honest with myself, sometimes I'm...
    NoYourComstock NoYourComstock 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Wht happens I I have to many kid or what happens if they have cancer or they all ways get in trouble
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    because of him, he wounded me so bad that i am having major issues... its sad that a young girl like me is already worrying about those things, but the anxiety he gave me, causes...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    Yes, like an incestuous couple, for example.
    lonachan lonachan 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    If you can't take care of yourself how are you suppose to take care of a newborn? Or a toddler? If you can't sustain yourself then how could you feed your hungry children? I'm not...
    HappyHart5 HappyHart5 16-17, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Why should we women be made to feel like, just because we can, we have to have kids? Every woman is supposed to have a maternal side to her apparently but who said that feeling a...
    abbietee abbietee 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    I have had 5 miscarriages over the past 2 years but my boyfriend does not want to ttc. We are not using any prevantive measures such as condoms or hormonal birth control as we have...
    amore1993 amore1993 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    I honestly don't want kids. I know some people don't understand it fully, but kids scare me. They're always in everything and making messes and they never listen. If you love them...
    LilMissStats LilMissStats 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Kids are hardwork. that is afact you ahve to deal with it. I know that really good. I babysitt a lot mostly children around 5 and 12 years. But eventhough they can cost me my...
    Jennyred Jennyred 13-15, F Jul 1

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    First of all i dont have a plan to have kids right now because for one , im gonna finish college two, im still a minor, and three who the heck would want a kid this age? Anyway...
    PartyPoison04 PartyPoison04 13-15, F a week ago

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    Hey guys, it's past midnight over here and I've been trying to fall asleep but I got stuck reading posts, articles, etc. of HPV. I'm only 20 and not even two weeks ago I received...
    sunny1993 sunny1993 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I don't really plan on having kids just yet, but I would like to get married if I ever find that special someone. If I have kids once I'm a grown up, it will be one girl and one...
    ImaWeirdie ImaWeirdie 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    one crazy conversation... acquaintance: "Hey, you want to have kids one day?" me: "No." acquaintance: "Why not? You seem like you’d be a good mom. Or is it that you don’t...
    Neiymara Neiymara 22-25, F Jul 8

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    I haven't seen my kids in a month and its killing me. I was a great dad. How can someone rip that away? If you have kids appreciate them. Make them feel like they are the most...
    dontsaycant dontsaycant 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    We'll honestly I don't even know if I can have kids, an I don't even want them honestly... But I like the names Destry, Marni, Ginnty (of course) and Avie-roo (probs a nickname)
    Ginnty Ginnty 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I'm not in a relationship, but if I do have kids one day I'd like to name my daughter Violet Kathleen, my son Nicholas Hunter.
    angkath80 angkath80 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    The Scar's Are Where I Have Been.. I first self harmed when i was about 11, i remember what i used too. I was alone and crying my eyes out i think it was the time my mum got rid of...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jun 29

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    I'm so glad that I made the conscious decision to never have kids because..
    LikeAPrayer LikeAPrayer 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    Not right now! I just mean that I hope I don't have any daughters when I have kids someday.
    lonachan lonachan 18-21, F Jul 7

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    It seems like every single time I get married ***** be getting jealous. We have kids and do our thing then another girl flirts with me and the wife sees it. She gets all angry and...
    Jackson2222 Jackson2222 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Travel for a year to central/ South America Have kids Learn how to cook Run the LA marathon And .... And ... Hmmmm it's a lot more than I thought it would be darn it ..
    romi777 romi777 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    how do snakes have kids? I have a bald python and I don't see in man parts or lady bits
    ScarletNightmare ScarletNightmare 13-15, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have had bad luck for awhile.Right now my husband has been out of work for a week,and i have money to pay rent for august but thats it. .I'm working odd jobs right now.He was...
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    Where to start, well I guess the simple fact is that I'm 22 live and work with/for my mother. I don't have a drivers license, any friends, and have never had a boyfriend. She...
    ashley7007 ashley7007 22-25, F Jul 5

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    I'm 17 and I was diagnosed with Ovarian Cysts. My doctors said I have three choices.. I can get surgery and not be able to have kids in the future, do nothing, or get on birth...
    MacKenzie31113 MacKenzie31113 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I currently live with a roommate who has a baby (approximately one year old). I didn't know I would be living with a baby when I decided to move in, I was told all of the roommates...
    secretgarden22 secretgarden22 22-25, F 1 Response