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I Have A Best Friend Of The Opposite Gender

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    I have a best friend whom I can discuss

    anything. It just amazing to be with her.we talk of everything under the sun.love sex profession emotion daytoay activities. Feel so good. Never thought i will find someone like her.
    slangs slangs 46-50, M 9 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    Yes, girls and guys can be friends without

    being a couple. I don't get how some people think it can't happen. Anyway, my friend Kaimana is so weird and funny but he's great. He's nice and has his perv moments but yeah. And if you read this, Kai, I am not going to call you senpai.
    RealisticSmile RealisticSmile 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 9, 2014

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    It can sometimes be a bad thing.

    I have a friend (male) and he has a girlfriend and I have a boyfriend. We were joking around just us two then he grabs my b**b more than once which led to a breakdown in friendship. So be careful
    thatmegan thatmegan 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    He's Like My Brother :)

    You know when you meet someone and you just feel an instant connection to them. That's how i met my best friendĀ  He's this handsome, immature, playful guy in my class i met in my first year at college. We connected instantly and he's been my best friend for the last 4 years...
    frootiee frootiee 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 30, 2011

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    TwinklingFay TwinklingFay 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 4, 2014

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    She's been their for me

    so many times I can't count she is an amazing person heart is filled with the kindest words she has a way to make you see everything positively and she is a great mother I'm honored to know her her values are second to none, thank you sis!!!!
    Ricshauna Ricshauna 41-45 Nov 29, 2014

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    I may be wrong, but I think my best friend was

    sexually attracted to me at the beginning of our friendship. - He told me his turn ons. - He asked me if I wanted to play the firetruck game more then on a few occasions. I never played it so when I asked how you play it, I was like "erm... no thanks". We never played it...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7, 2014

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    Guess it's actuallyMore

    than friends well not really he's my wonderful loving boyfriend and my nice hot best friend
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    My bestfriend will always be my bff,

    no more no less. I think having the opposite gender bff is better than the same gender. They actually listen to you(sometimes) because they dont experience the same things you do and they try to help you but. Their advice sucks. So. They just make you laugh your problems away...
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F Aug 18, 2014

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    Been friends for seven years

    and going on strong. She calls me all the time anytime she needs someone to talk to when she's stressed or worried, and I love being that kind of friend for her. :) She's married with kids, and she made me the godfather of her second child. *In Marlon Brando's voice*: "That's...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 26, 2014

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    cruxma cruxma 56-60, M 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    toushay toushay 18-21, F May 20, 2014

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    I'M Thinking I'M Losing My Best Friend

    We came to an issue of since we started dating people we don't have time for each other. I hate his girlfriend cause she got on bad terms with me about my ex. And my best friend slightly dislikes my current boyfriend cause he's taken most of my time now.
    laaanie laaanie 18-21, F Oct 26, 2013

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    My best friend is a guy

    and we've known each other for almost 9 years already. We constantly get into stupid arguments but they are serious that's just us. I stopped talking to him sometime after freshmen year because I realized that I need to make more friends and enjoy the year. Recently we've talked...
    AlwaysHaveDreams AlwaysHaveDreams 16-17, F Apr 20, 2014

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    a dear friend made a few poor personal choices

    in life, and she is now crucifying herself for what she has done. She is a Wonderfull person and not the horrid person that she believes. I can see her tearing apart in front of my eyes but I seem powerless to help her from self destruction. I talk with her every moment that I...
    extex59 extex59 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 16

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    I don't care if my beasties are girls.

    ...I love them....they totally understand me and accepted me for who I am......they are crazy and weird and that's what I love about them....I never want them to change......
    monishnair monishnair 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    Girl Bestfriend #1. This girl I have known

    since I was 4 years old and I am still friends with her today. We have had our ups and down but we are still friends. She was first crush and girlfriend. Also she is a beautiful red haired girl inside and out. In my mind she is the person that shape me in many ways. She is the...
    ObserverOfLife ObserverOfLife 22-25, M Aug 5, 2014

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    Alex :)

    Well I met Alex here on ep, and I felt I should write about him on this wonderful morning. :) He is one of the best things that has ever happened to me. :) I can tell him anything and he doesn't judge me! :)He is such a sweetheart too. :) We talk on the phone for hours, and...
    myusername22 myusername22 16-17, F Jul 7, 2013

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    Yes! I am very tomboyish

    and we get along really well, kinda like I'm one of the guys!
    KarleeJo23 KarleeJo23 13-15, F Jul 29, 2014

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    Caught naked in the shower-Helen

    and I have known each other from a young age, and have grown up being best friends. While she is very pretty, it is a purely platonic friendship and there are no feelings involved. One day 3 years ago (when I was 16) we were gone alone at her house looking after her little...
    TedMosby123 TedMosby123 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 7, 2013

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    I still remember the moment I decided to trust

    him. My thought process was something along the lines of "Oh, **** it" - and it's been one of the best decisions of my life. I have never had a friendship like this. I can tell him anything and not be judged, and I know that he feels the same about me. We help each other and...
    adulaire adulaire 16-17, F Dec 25, 2013

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    ofmiceandme ofmiceandme 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 19, 2014

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    So me and my best friend(guy) work at the same

    place and we have the same schedule and we live near each other and today he took his car and I took my truck and we just got out right now (12:00am) and the streets are always lonely at this time so we're always racing home and in tonight's race I beat him :) yay tomorrow work...
    IsMyStory IsMyStory 16-17, F Dec 30, 2014

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    One of my best friend is in fact a male

    and we get along just well :)
    allsummer allsummer 18-21, F 1 Response May 19, 2014

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    No One Like Him

    me and my best friend, we are like the same person. he is absolutely amazing. we finish each other's sentences, we have five hour long phone conversations. he is truly the best person i've ever known. his girlfriend is my best friend and if we all hang out together it ends up...
    beenbroken143 beenbroken143 13-15 Jul 10, 2012

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    Tumz your really amazing :) you always make me

    smile and I feel like I can be myself around you I would do anything for you and I know you would do the same for me I love how we talk to each other everyday and not get bored of each other we always have something to talk about. Your really funny,smart,caring. You are the best...
    Youareallbeautiful Youareallbeautiful 18-21, F Nov 20, 2014

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    Such A Goof

    My best friend is a guy. And he is the first friend where I don't feel like I am second best to someone else and could never compare or I am just someone to pick and choose from a crowd when they feel like it. We both love psychology and philosophy and mainly thinking. Which is...
    RomanticSpaz RomanticSpaz 16-17, F Aug 1, 2013

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    Best Friend Is An Understatement

    He fills my face with bliss. He calms my mind with hope. He fills my heart with love. He touches my soul with faith... There is a gentle, inviting belonging within him. And I always want to be in his life. He deserves everything he could ever dream of.
    DustToAshes DustToAshes 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 6, 2011

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    I have a best friend of the opposite gender,

    who I adore, who means the world to me, who I know would do anything to see me smile, like I would see him smile and he is really amazing! (: You are the best, Martin (:
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F Nov 8, 2014

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    I met him when I was 15

    and he was 16. I am 29 now and we have been together through thick and thin. We have seen each other happy,sad,crying,laughing. It has been 14 years of friendship. A lot of people have come and gone out of my life but I know he's going to stay with me forever until I close my...
    Susana1985 Susana1985 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 25, 2014

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    I don't understand why boys

    and girls can't be best friends without everybody thinking that something's going on. It's really annoying. There's nothin wrong with having a best friend of the opposite gender.
    Brokenheart06 Brokenheart06 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2014

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    My best friend; his name is Skyler,

    a few years ago he was the first person I came out to and he came out to me first too, since then we've been the best of friends.
    Distancexx Distancexx 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 9, 2014

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    Help!!!!!! He's joining the US Army!

    !!!!! :'( >.< my best friend is the love of my life, and he knows this. :3 but this Wednesday he will be marrying the US Army, and as a loyal and loving girlfriend I will stand by his side, I don't want him to leave me, the most I've been with out him is three days apart, (we...
    LizanDrew0906 LizanDrew0906 18-21, F Jun 24, 2014

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    Jacob! XD I love that guy.

    Lol It always confuses me when people say a guy and a girl can't be "just friends" because one of them will catch feeling for the other. Seriously? Because I'm sure a gay guy will definitely fall in love with me. *eye roll* >.>
    InvaderGashloog InvaderGashloog 70+, F Sep 8, 2014

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    Everyone always thinks we go out

    but we don't. I have a feeling he thinks I like him 'in that way'. I always have my arm around him or hold his hand but this is just simply saying "I'm not ashamed to be around you, I want people to know that we are inseparable." Which we are inseparable. We've had people who...
    Gemz2411 Gemz2411 18-21, F Aug 29, 2014

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    Me Too

    My best friend in the world is a boy. We've had tones of snide remarks and stuff but were just great friends. He's shared his secrets with me, including who he's got a crush on, and I've shared my crush with him. I've got him out of trouble tones of times (hint if your hitting a...
    kat8615 kat8615 13-15, F Mar 11, 2012

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    I have a friend who always makes me smile.

    . that person who lifted my head, when I was losing faith in myself.. he cares too much for me I'd say.. it was easy sharing my thoughts, expressing my views and literally talk everything that was going on in my mind to him.. I can find myself smiling when I get his texts ^_^ I...
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 22

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    My best friend since I was one is a boy.

    I think it is ok to have a best friend from an opposite gender it's actually fun!
    JordynRenee1023 JordynRenee1023 13-15, F 1 Response Oct 29, 2014

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    So ages ago I posted a story of how Helen

    embarrassed me. This is how I got my revenge... A few weeks after the first incident, Helen and I where home alone hanging out at her house in the summer holidays. She was sunbathing outside in a bikini when she fell asleep. I crept up to her and carefully removed her top and...
    TedMosby123 TedMosby123 18-21, M Sep 9, 2014

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    And he knocked up a girl

    that hates me and now I know I'm going to lose him
    M1362 M1362 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 17

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    My friend and I have been best friends

    for 5 years now. Back in January, he asked me to go out with him & I said "Yes!". We dated for a few months then one day after school, while hugging each other, he told me "I think it would be better if we were just best friends". Does it mean anything that he said that when we...
    LoveIsAConfusingThing LoveIsAConfusingThing 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 14, 2014

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    I do. And we're perfect together.

    Not in a dating term, but on a brotherly and fraternal love. I'm not sure. But now that he started dating I don't know if I dislike the girl because he's dating her, or because she's annoying. Probably a bit of both. I just miss his full on attention on me. :(
    yuhkie yuhkie 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 15, 2014

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    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2014

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    He is the best friend anyone could ever have.

    He'll bend over backwards for you without even blinking! He is now my boyfriend and we still act like we're besties. Hopefully it'll never happen but, if we ever split up I know we'll still be this close.
    PrincessAbigail89 PrincessAbigail89 26-30, F Jul 24, 2014

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    This is actually kind of a rant.

    So my best friend of two years is a guy, his name is Seamus (pronounced shay-mus, ik its confusing) but anyways we dated back when we first met and it didn't work out, but since then we've become extremely close friends. Like I would literally take a bullet for this kid, he's...
    brimc7 brimc7 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 2, 2014

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    My best friend has been in my life

    for 30 years. We started as boyfriend and girlfriend but we were young and ended up just being friends. I love him to death though. We have been through a lot of hard times together. I've bailed him out of jail and he's kept me from loosing my home. It doesn't feel weird to me...
    happybbw happybbw 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 3, 2014

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