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I Have a Bladder Control Problem

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    Catheter Demo - Some Of Us Have To Pee This Way

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uj3JufN-ESI&list=PL3C5716E01D16F4AC
    drippy72 drippy72 41-45, M Apr 7, 2013

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    So Does My 9yo Brother .

    im older but wet more nights than he does. also we both can wet in the day if get scared or tickle torchured haha. my dad had the same probs when he was a kid so its a family thing i guess .
    Legotoys Legotoys 13-15, M 4 Responses Oct 26, 2012

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    60 Plus

    I've had bladder control problems my whole life . It depends on what doctor you talk to as far a cause goes .one says this the next says its that it seems like i've spent most of life in the doctors office as any who has this type of problem knows it can be very embarrassing...
    TONYBW TONYBW 61-65, M 4 Responses May 24, 2011

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    I'm Losing It...

    I had problems as a child and young adult growing up. The doctors couldn't find anything nasty so I was put on some medication that heped but didn't stop my night incontinence completely. About 8 months ago my night incontinence got very bad being wet every night. The doctors...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Oct 10, 2009

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    Quad Amputee

    I have a incredibly small bladder and absolutely no control of it. It one of the features of being a quadruple amputee.
    MikeyG133 MikeyG133 18-21, M 1 Response May 13, 2013

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    I was at my daughter's school today

    for a parent teacher conference. I was wearing a sweater, dark blue skinny jeans, and black combat boots. I came in, shook the teacher's hand, sat down, and crossed my ankles. She said that my daughter was doing very well in school and that she was going to move into advanced...
    girlygirl2 girlygirl2 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I was wearing a pink v neck pullover,

    white button down, khaki pants, and black knee high heel boots. I was sitting at my chair with my ankles crossed when I just started to pee myself. There was a big wet patch! I cried a lot.
    girlygirl2 girlygirl2 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 19

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    How?

    So recently, i have developed a bladder control problem. I dont know how but my bladder wont tell me when I need to urinate. I have accidents about 3-4 times a day. I went on the computer and typed in causes of bladder control problems. A link said that if you drink alot of tea...
    Mchukyle555 Mchukyle555 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 17, 2012

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    Afraid It's Over

    Today marks the second day in a row that I've had to miss work because of the massive amount of leakage that's been going on for several days. I'm waiting right now to head to the DR to see if there's anything that can be done...at least for the dehydration, and I'm possitive...
    fearanddoubt fearanddoubt 36-40 6 Responses Apr 19, 2011

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    Small Bladder, Can't Hold It Long :(

    When I was a kid I used to have a really hard time controlling my bladder. I was potty trained at a normal age but my bladder was always small for my age, and so if I couldn't get to the toilet right away I would have an accident. The doctors also mentioned my bladder was kind...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 7, 2011

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    I was at my house today

    since my daughter was sick I decided to take care of her. I was wearing a white tank top, brown leather jacket, blue skinny jeans, and brown combat boots. I was sitting ankles crossed at my desk grading papers. Suddenly I started to pee my pants. There was a huge wet patch and I...
    girlygirl2 girlygirl2 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    so I only had 4 diapers to last me a couple

    weeks and I had to go without today. so I layerd mi cloths: 3 undies and 2 jeans and trackpants over top. I wet 3 times and the third it leaked through and did what someone else did from another post I saw and raped mi sweater round mi waist and then I went to the nerses office...
    mikasmith0118 mikasmith0118 13-15, F Dec 17, 2013

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    Hi

    im sean 49 born preme 2 months have been incontinent both ways since i was 8 was made fun of all my school life now look 4 gf 4 ltr/marriage am in nc am dominant too will chat w any1 m/f any age if ur in gradeschool or highschool n go in ur pants and r spanked 4 it n wanna chat...
    ginmaster ginmaster 46-50 1 Response Oct 3, 2010

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    Ivy's Weak Bladder

    Ivy was 20, in college. She had always had a weak bladder, but never as weak as this. Ivy, when she was 14 saw some female desperation fetish and started to get into it. She first started to try to pee on herself in odd places that no one would ever find out or care to find out...
    TealB1999 TealB1999 22-25, F 10 Responses Jan 27, 2013

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    Catheters

    when I need to pee I have to put a catheter in my penis to drain the urine then I take it out again, until I need to go again. Today and yesterday have been crazy days I feel like I have had to go a thousand times, and half of those times it was a false alarm. im fed up of it...
    drippy72 drippy72 41-45, M Nov 21, 2013

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    O.a.b & Incontinence

    I was born 3 month early and had a lot of health problems and didn't get potty trained until I was 5, I wore diapers to bed every night until I was like 12 years old, When I was 2 until I was was 12 I was sexually molested and went through a 5 year court battle with the person...
    babyleeindiapers babyleeindiapers 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    so I wet the bed and I have day weting

    acciednts I joined this site and I met a few people and one of the recommended that I should try and repoty train. well its kina working I guess mi best friend is helping and so is the guy on this site. I kina just sit on the toylet push on mi blader and try to hold the pee in...
    mikasmith0118 mikasmith0118 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 15, 2013

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    Bladder Prodlem

    I hove bladder problem i do not have  problem if i have to wear diaper wend go  out  i have Lind to live with it  i  wend i have  to go to bed i put one on
    Jm32774 Jm32774 36-40, M 5 Responses Mar 2, 2012

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    I'm Not Intentionally Incontinent.

    I developed urinary incontinence by sheer bad luck. I suppose if you want details you can message me, but there's not really much else to say. I am not an AB or DL. EDIT: I am now a diaper lover. ^_^ But still, it did develop by bad luck. Since then, it's gotten much better...
    UlricWindfury UlricWindfury 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 5, 2009

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    Is This Group About Incontinence Or Is It A Dl Fetish Group?

    I'm both puzzled and annoyed because this group is labeled as if it is about bladder control related issues. It's also in the "health & wellness" section. Why then are there so many ad/dl fetish post in here? :(
    Meiske Meiske 31-35, F 8 Responses Jan 28, 2013

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    Embarrassing Moment

    Well today I pulled into a truck stop in Montgomery alabama I backed up my truck and decided that I was going to go get a shower. So I pulled out my shower bag and put my clean clothes in there with a fresh and clean diaper. Well I desided that I would take off my onsie and put...
    stamper28 stamper28 41-45, M 12 Responses Oct 2, 2013

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    so I went to bed last night late to cause I

    stayed up late on xbox and then I wanted to try and use the washroom and try and hold it. I lasted about 30 seconds. anyway mi friend put on mi diaper and we went to bed but the sad part is I did go during the nite and the diaper leaked during the nite as well I hope mi friend...
    mikasmith0118 mikasmith0118 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 15, 2013

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    Looking For People Willing To Share Their Experiences...

    Hello All! My name is Gayani and I work for a textile & apparel manufacturing company that is developing novel solutions for people with urinary incontinence. We are looking to speak with those of you on this forum in order to better understand your experiences and needs. We...
    Gea31785 Gea31785 26-30, F 4 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Hello

    Heeya mensen! It.s geweldig om hier te zijn ... ik ben Chris en ik, m from Holland ... Ik ve a serious bladder problem and I can,t hold my pee..It started very young!!Now I have too wear it 24/7 and I don.t like it!! So if there a people(only serious!) who wants to share it with...
    lovelytoy4you lovelytoy4you 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 16, 2009

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    im gona spend xmas with mi girl friend we aways

    sleep in the same bed. we awys haf tickle fights we aways watch movies play video games aways cuddle hug and kiss. shes sooo awesome.. yay XD shes also mi best friend and closest friend. yay XD. cant wait to see her. I wet the bed a lot but shes ok with it cause I wear diapers...
    mikasmith0118 mikasmith0118 13-15, F 1 Response Dec 19, 2013

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    2 Accidents At Football

    Well my first story is last week when i went to wednesday night football practice. We were in a rush so i didnt go to the toilet. By the time we got there i was uber desperate. I was fine until we stopped to get changed. when we're in the toilets its not uncommon to see a few wet...
    moonpig247 moonpig247 18-21, M 3 Responses Sep 26, 2013

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    Gradually Getting Worse

    I developed overactive bladder which led to needing to visit the bathroom frequently with occasional leaks or "wetting accidents" as the doctors like to call them.  My doctor sent me to the hospital for tests to make sure nothing sinister was going on but the...
    mikey2012 mikey2012 56-60, M 5 Responses Jun 21, 2009

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    Most Every Night

    A few years ago I had to have oral surgery to have my impacted wisdom teeth removed. As a result of the medications that I was given during the surgery, I wet the bed that night.  Didn't think anything of it at the time, I thought that it was lingering effects of the sedative...
    auggie1971 auggie1971 41-45, M Mar 31, 2012

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    25 Year Old Weak Bladdered Guy

      I am Chris and 25 and have a bladder problem. My bladder muscles just cannot stay closed so when my bladder fills up the stinging is severe and the pee begins pushing out and I have to hold it hard. I can wait about 10 minutes before I lose control. My bladder is also...
    Chz41580s Chz41580s 22-25 6 Responses Mar 18, 2013

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    I Am A Complicated Story

    I have stress incontinence but also I have a damaged bladder from prior rapes and beatings and the docs have looked at all my options and have told me that I am going to have this issue weather I want it or not due to the nerve damage from the rapes and beatings to the point that...
    wettingfreak wettingfreak 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2011

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    It's Getting Worse

    My bladder control is really getting bad. I turn on a tap, I wet, I have a glass of water I wet, sounds of running water, I wet - immediately no warning. I so don't want to be like this but just have to be careful.It really sucks.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 15, 2010

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    My Story

    Every since i was little I've had a bladder problem. I always wish to be normal like any other teen. I fear that i won't ever find some one that likes me for who I am. I try and hide the face that I have to wear diapers for my problem I only let some of my trust wrothy friends...
    goodnitesboy152 goodnitesboy152 16-17, M 5 Responses Mar 28, 2011

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    I've been a bedwetter due to a number of reasons

    but after a bad battle with prostatitis and some UTIs, i'm now urinary incon. Was a very difficult problem to completely accept.
    Nicholas16 Nicholas16 22-25, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I Can't Seem

    I have a bladder problem. Ever since i've started working I really needed to go, but then it gets put on hold. So I end up leaking a little. Also, when I go to the bathroom, I still feel really weird down there. like Everything didnt get released...And that I have to go...
    ascs ascs 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 16, 2009

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    Pretty Bad Problem

    When was younger I suffered major trauma to my body. I have mostly healed but an odd lasting effect is that I have little control over my bladder. Frequently I have blood in my urine. I suffered unfixable damage to some of my organs.
    Crazydoctordunes Crazydoctordunes 22-25, M 2 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Spinial Cord Damage

    injuried my spianl cord between S-2 and the last 3 Lumbard disks and nothing any one can do about it i still have a part of an air planes fused in the spine and the risks to correct the damage far out way the slim chance it will improve bladder
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M Mar 18, 2012

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    Bedwetting And Overactive Bladder

    I used to wet my bed until I was in my teens. It started again a few years ago and now I wet the bed every night and wear diapers. I also have urgency issues during the day and often leak into my pants a little bit. On some occasions I have wet my pants completely and now wear...
    incontinentjack incontinentjack 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 5, 2012

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    Amber Can't Control Her Bladder

    Amber, was 16 years old. She had a very hard time controlling her bladder. No one knew, because she woke up extra early to take care of any messes. This particular evening, she had been drinking and was brought home by a friend. As she was walking up to the doorstep, she kept...
    TealB1999 TealB1999 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 9, 2012

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    When I was 15, I stopped having my periods

    and started wearing maxi pads 24/7, exclusively for bladder control. I hadn't had wetting accidents since I was a kid and wet the bed, but I suddenly started wetting at any time. Today, I don't always have a bladder problem, but when I do, it sucks. Now I know it's due to MS...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 4

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    My Family Doesn't Know.

    I don't like to keep secrets from my family, but this is one thing that I've chosen to keep secret from them. It's not easy, but I've managed so far to keep my incontinence strictly between me, myself, and I besides, it's really none of their business, and I'm old enough that I...
    downhomehick downhomehick 22-25, M 5 Responses May 16, 2012

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    I have never really had control over my bladder.

    It would always go during the worst possible times like last week. I went for a job interview and I just felt my pockets get wet. So I just apologised and left. Bully's would kick me in balls until I I did it. And it's not just urine. Luckily my girlfriend doesn't mind when we...
    whattodo32 whattodo32 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 21

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    I'M Starting A New School

    I'm scarred ..at my other school I all readdy knew people b4 and had some friends b4 I developed incontinence but this time I'm starting in diapers..if any1 reading this has been started at a new high school wearing diapers please talk 2..I'm 16 I put 18 2 join adult chat groups
    kapirino18 kapirino18 18-21 6 Responses Sep 20, 2013

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    Um I Lose Control

    i aint never had a dry nite so far and mosly i wet from daydreams. i lose control easy wen im scared or upset or crying or exsited or tickeled. it dont flood out of me its lots of small leaks that ad up until im soaked. at other times if i get to the potty fast im ok. but i cant...
    Squirelbait Squirelbait 13-15, M 3 Responses Jan 7, 2011

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    Hi Everybody

    I'd like to chat to a girl who has the same passion like me.... I cannot understand why, but I have been attracted by the girls who have to pee in a such way that it become an excitement. I cannot describe why or how it gets aroused me, but I do love to see a girl desperate to...
    napoleonebonaparte napoleonebonaparte 31-35, M Dec 1, 2013

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    Getting Worse

    Over the last couple of night it seems like im leaking my diaper a lot more. Wet the bed the last three nights in a row. Its driving me crazy. Not sure why I'm not drinking any more than usual. Sometimes just wish I didn't have this problem.. well I guess I will just have to deal...
    stamper28 stamper28 41-45, M 5 Responses Sep 25, 2013

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    I love feeling vulnerable when I choose too. I am working on trusting people but giving up complete or even a good amount of control stresses me out
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 12

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    My mum is so controlling I'm not even allowed to wear my hair out. It has to be in a pony tail each day.
    hopefullgeenie hopefullgeenie 18-21, F Sep 14

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    Now tell me, how can i face my problem if my problem is my face? lol
    chippylovemrchips chippylovemrchips 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 10

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