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I Have a Boring Unfulfilling Marriage

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    I Have A Boring Unfulfilling Marriage... - My marriage wasn't always boring and unfulfilling. I think it began about 20 years ago when my husband and I relocated from the east...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    My Wife Is Gone A Lot - My wife can hardly say no at work. She agrees to additional work above and beyond the scope of her responsibilities very easily. The additional tasking...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    An Available Saturday Evening - How can it be that i have an empty day...no cleaning left to do, had sex with him early this morning to start him on a good day, sent the kids...
    syahyah syahyah 41-45 7 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    "I Need More Time" - So... I mostly saved myself for marriage. I had big ideas that my one-day wife would appreciate that and think that I was a better man for it. I...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 5 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Bedtime Is Boring... - I want mind-blowing sex. I give it... Why can't I get it? I was born to be a lover but my wife is so content with vanilla stuff... I want to go for...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    I Flirt With Married Women - i guess i just woke up one day and finally realized... "i'm responsible for my own happiness." i was depending on my wife for conversation, for...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    I've been away on a business trip the last two days and return tomorrow night. My wife is terrified at home that I am cheating on her... I suppose her concerns are justified...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Escape! - I can't tell you how it all began. It all happened so fast. One minute I see an Ad on Craigslist askign to write about your fantasies. It was a sad post to be honest...
    escapingthecloset escapingthecloset 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    What do I do. My marriage is broken my husband doesn't want to talk to me. All because we don't know how to communicate with each other. We fight all the time is crazy but I don't...
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    I'll be married for 10 years in November. We have been together 14 years. I am 35 and my husband is 40. We dated 4 years before we got married.We had sex very few times when I was...
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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Before and After … Nearing 8 months after my separation, I reflect on the emotional desert I have called my marriage. During those years, I was starved for a smile or a hug. A...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 6

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    I am a married man who is married to a wonderful woman. However she has recently told me that she wants nothing to do with sex ever again. It has been over 15 months since we have...
    Hingeman Hingeman 26-30, M 25 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love the fact that we have a open marriage. We have been married for 19 years and open for about 5 years if you count some 3somes we had it is a lot longer then 5 more like 12. I...
    shakeydays shakeydays 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Seriously need advice :(....Soo I'm new at this... I'm 23 years old.. Got married really young, have 2 babies, one of which was born this year. I've been married for 5 years. My...
    missme90 missme90 22-25, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    Good evening ladies and gentlemen, How is everybody doing? Well, I'm a bit tired, just got done with some intensive math homework for college and looking to head to bed soon. I'm...
    BlueKaz78 BlueKaz78 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    My father has not been around much throughout my entire life. I am currently 24 years old and almost turning 25 in less then a week. He over criticizes me and compares me to my...
    jezebelx jezebelx 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Psychology Today has a couple of recent articles regarding "Does Sexless marriage justify adultery". The articles are reasonable and informed and the comments worthwhile. They...
    hl42 hl42 51-55, M 7 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I talked to my father in heaven about some of the problems I've been having many times recently. Chronic alcohol inebriation, lying, ***********, sneaking to bars at night...
    dave56901 dave56901 31-35, M 3 hrs ago

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    I don't have much, but I'm grateful for it. I think I'd be a very boring millionaire cause I'd live the same way I'm living now. Yeah right, lol. God knows what I'd do LOL
    BobFrost BobFrost 36-40, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    No spankings without corner time afterwards. It gets so boring and staying in position is hard
    tabikat tabikat 13-15, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I wouldn't want to be in a sexless marriage, I'd make it a priority to have that alone time with my husband if I was to ever get married, especially with kids. & I sure as Hell...
    alizex7x alizex7x 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    Every time I barely hear the word wedding or marriage I feel sick, disgusted, scared, uncomfortable, annoyed and aggressive. I wish I could know what it is... why does the idea...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I'm not in anyway socially, financially, or mentally deprived. I live with an average family. Thinking I have nothing to complain because some were even less fortunate than me...
    DreamerCost DreamerCost 16-17, M 4 hrs ago

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    In case you think that Opposite Land is perfect, it isn't. No tax refund for me this year. Instead, a $6,500 tax bill due to how things worked out for me in the divorce settlement...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 12 Responses 3 days ago

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    Where do I start? The last time was in Cancun six years ago. Then it is almost as if a switch went off. Nothing since then. We have a platonic relationship now I guess. She says...
    panaggie panaggie 46-50, M 15 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    A text message I sent my girlfriend ... I think I'm going crazy watching how you are with your phone and your constant need for a connection with the online world, it's an...
    supercat01 supercat01 31-35, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am 26 yrs old, looking for a Gay guy for a short term MOC, maybe 3-5 years. I am flexible with the time. I am currently living in Delhi and I plan to stay in India forever. I...
    AnjunaKhana AnjunaKhana 26-30, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    It's not that I don't have any sex but it's not as often and as passionate or sexy as I want it to be or have it. It used to be very often and sexy on the first 3 months of...
    memarried memarried 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    I had mixed feelings with sharing. I decided to go ahead. I can't keep it to myself, I need to discuss with others who are possibly going through the same thing. I first noticed...
    hopefull2014 hopefull2014 26-30, F 19 Responses Mar 24

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    Sticking to the particular boring basic principles will help you management this football with regard to a lot of the actions and also this will be eventually how groups obtain in...
    fifa14elena fifa14elena 22-25, F Mar 19

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    Completely boring. Not satisfied with anything. Everything is just so repetitive to the point where my mind is going crazy. Honestly I'm finding it a struggle to be alive everyday...
    Yassmin Yassmin 18-21, F Apr 7

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    So day by day life is getting more boring and depressing . Everyday same thing , nothing new happen instead losing friends everyday make me more sad . I wish I can have a little...
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M Mar 21

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    The rubble of our marriage I try not to look I try to change my focus to what else gives me happiness my children my friends my home my community I cannot help...
    Bobbie71 Bobbie71 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 24

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    Make that, that I used to live in a marriage that was becoming a sexless marriage. Today would have been our second anniversary. The story is complicated, but to make it short, she...
    soundtrackforantarctica soundtrackforantarctica 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 25

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    So basically I am a girl who is bisexual and 16 years old. I have known I am bisexual for a long time but only recently have I actually admitted it to myself. Not one person in my...
    tamsin23 tamsin23 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I played DSA with some friends 6 hours long. Really awesome but the rest of the day was sooo boring. Without them the day would have been useless.
    joseph1995 joseph1995 18-21, M Apr 5

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    I don't believe in gay marriage. I believe in marriage. And I think that's between any two people that love each other. Man and man. Woman and man. Woman and woman. Or whatever you...
    emilyv97 emilyv97 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I feel like I am really boring as most of my friends are forever swapping boyfriends and have boys dropping at their feet. They always have texts coming through and getting their...
    hannsmithh hannsmithh 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I finally lined up both a marriage counselor (to help us sort out whether or not our marriage is toast) and an individual therapist (to help me get my **** together) and now the...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 28 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am married for only a few months now and my husband is drinking everyday and smokes weed. I knew he had this habit but never knew it was this bad. He spends a lot of money on his...
    ilhasol ilhasol 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Rules of Engagement - A few new members have posted in this forum recently, and while I've only been a member for few weeks, I thought I'd share my opinion on the purpose of this...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 15 Responses Mar 20

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    Two weeks ago, I shared what I thought would be my current status for awhile. Life being what it is - it has thrown me into a crazy roller coaster loop once again. The good news...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 21 Responses Mar 28

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    So yesterday we saw a marriage councillor. We haddn't been for a few years since before the kids came along. I was really hoping that she was going to be able to help my husband...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Why does the act of making a legal contract between a man and a woman make us such deceivers in our relationships beforehand? Is it because we think no one will marry us if we are...
    Phat4Ever Phat4Ever 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Well where do I start? It didn't used to be a bad marriage when we got married 13 years ago in 2001, I was 25 and she was 24. In fact it was a very good marriage, I loved her and...
    HPeterson HPeterson 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 9

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses Apr 10

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    I'm 28 single and sick and tired of men who take love for granted who think marriage is a game. I want a marriage that lasts, even without love I just want a friend and his...
    monetclawed monetclawed 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    Normal.... There are many stories on here about after leaving marriages and having normal relationships. Well I haven't left my marriage yet. I have talked to a lawyer and...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 12 Responses a week ago

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    Well I lived in a sexless marriage for 9 years. About 14 months ago I left finally and an starting over. I tried everything I could to revive our marriage. From candle light...
    Leavinstevin Leavinstevin 41-45, M 20 Responses 2 days ago

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    "The Dummies Guide To Ending A Sexless Marriage" or "How I Learned Not To Give Up Emotional and Physical Intimacy" by CherishMe2 Step 1: Acknowledge that the lack of emotional...