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I Have a Boring Unfulfilling Marriage

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    I Flirt With Married Women

    i guess i just woke up one day and finally realized... "i'm responsible for my own happiness." i was depending on my wife for conversation, for kind words, for pleasantries and meaningful interactions... so to hell with that! i flirt with ladies now... everywhere...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    My Escape!

    I can't tell you how it all began. It all happened so fast. One minute I see an Ad on Craigslist askign to write about your fantasies. It was a sad post to be honest Just some poor lonely guy looking to spice up his boring marriage by reading the fantasies of women in the world...
    escapingthecloset escapingthecloset 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    My Wife Is Gone A Lot

    My wife can hardly say no at work. She agrees to additional work above and beyond the scope of her responsibilities very easily. The additional tasking translates into more hours away from me and our two children, as well as stress that she brings home. Not only does it...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    Bedtime Is Boring...

    I want mind-blowing sex. I give it... Why can't I get it? I was born to be a lover but my wife is so content with vanilla stuff... I want to go for hours and be the object of affections... I don't want to wait until midnight to get in bed. I want to go to bed at nine...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2013

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    I've been away on a business trip the last two

    days and return tomorrow night. My wife is terrified at home that I am cheating on her... I suppose her concerns are justified since we openly acknowledged to each other that I am not getting from her what I need and crave, and that I will die never knowing. Add to that...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 15

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    I Have A Boring Unfulfilling Marriage...

    My marriage wasn't always boring and unfulfilling. I think it began about 20 years ago when my husband and I relocated from the east coast of Canada to live on the west coast. At first it was great just getting away from both families, because there were times when they just...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    No Where To Turn

    Have been married for 24 years and the last 5 have not been good. We have 2 children 19 and 16. My issues differ from my wife's. I just don't feel for her like I used to. Our sex life is pretty much non existent and boring. Lucky if its once a month, and its not because of me. We...
    silver250017 silver250017 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 13, 2011

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    "I Need More Time"

    So... I mostly saved myself for marriage. I had big ideas that my one-day wife would appreciate that and think that I was a better man for it. I figured that my soulmate would answer all of my questions and explore the incredibly exciting world of sexuality with me. I...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    An Available Saturday Evening

    How can it be that i have an empty day...no cleaning left to do, had sex with him early this morning to start him on a good day, sent the kids to grandmas' for the night and what is HE doing?....in bed sleeping! No dinner plans, no suggestions offered for a fun filled adult...
    syahyah syahyah 41-45 7 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Well I'm not sure where this will end up. But I'm here as a former refuser. One to make some amends and two to tell the truth to all the women who are currently living with a...
    Transgressed Transgressed 46-50, M 4 Responses Dec 10

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    Well at the end of July my mother in law moved in, and was told she would be helping, well no such luck. Our sex life and intimacy has only gotten worse. I feel more like a...
    Fotoman Fotoman 46-50, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    H still in deep anxiety, not a good environment to be in right now. He gives me my space and I give him his. Very much two people not communicating each resenting the other for...
    saxappeal saxappeal 46-50, F 11 Responses Nov 29

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    All the sex fights are hilarious
    letsgo5115 letsgo5115 51-55, F Dec 11

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    Been in a unfulfilling marriage for seventeen years. I now am planning for "D"-day (divorce day) when my youngest goes off to University. I have a year and a half left. I have...
    Buffy68 Buffy68 46-50, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    Why do most people dress in such a boring way? So many people don't care at all about their appearance. Most men have boring short haircuts and wear shapeless shirts and beige...
    spacepixie spacepixie 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 7

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    i have cheated on my husband multiple times. we have been married for 3 and half year and I started cheating since last year. It was an arranged marriage and I got married really...
    idontknowwhatiwant idontknowwhatiwant 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 27

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    I know, that's not supposed to be possible. People say it's not possible, that I'm deluding myself. I'm looking for a way out, I secretly hate her, we must have a sexless...
    roykirk roykirk 41-45, M 2 Responses Nov 23

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    And all of a sudden out of nowhere he tells me that he will pay to help get me set up in an apartment. There was no discussion about splitting up, no conversation about divorce...
    katdorie katdorie 46-50 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I think interracial relationships are beautiful! I hope to experience one in my life and maybe even have an interracial marriage.
    curvydavi curvydavi 16-17, F Nov 23

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    I am an adult, and my parents are married. They always will be until they die. But it doesn't mean they don't actively hate each other. They don't fight anymore, too old for...
    bananaforscale bananaforscale 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 10

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    From being in a sexless marriage for the last three years or so, I have really become discusted and sad with my life. This last year has been zero attempts because of menopause I...
    Feelingnotsogreat Feelingnotsogreat 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 12

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    I have never been in love iv dated had 2 relationships it didn't work out I liked them but I was never in love with them I guess I get bored easily I'm not normal when people talk...
    Candlelight01 Candlelight01 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 25

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    He takes me for granted and does not appreciate me has his wife and woman. The sex life is boring and dull. He's not spontaneous and does not initiate sex. He can go weeks and...
    senorita8 senorita8 26-30, F Dec 2

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    I don't want to be boring :/ Being boring means no one has fun talking to you. They will leave you to be all alone and won't even think twice. I try my hardest to entertain people...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 24

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    I wonder if tomorrow going to be boring.Got wedding in Kuala Lumpur...The journey here from Singapore to KL going to take about more than an hour. If God Will, we will arrive in...
    myraaxx myraaxx 13-15, F Nov 27

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    god im so boring I like complicated boring stuff not to laugh at dumb stuff and memes all day like ussual teenagers do..meh sometimes I feel alone and thats only because im normal...
    Darlinghton Darlinghton 18-21, M Dec 2

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    some one said I am boring,I dont like it,I try not to become boring but I dont know how to do that..
    scorpian112 scorpian112 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 6

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    I am wondering if I am boring for a person in a coma. I have the T.V. on for background noise. I talk to the nurse from time to time. I'm not much of a talker though. So if the...
    Myzery Myzery 31-35, F Dec 8

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    I'm a pretty boring person, my nights consist of cleaning, working out and cooking....my Saturday nights are exactly the same except I watch a movie till I fall asleep.....I just...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 13

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    I have been know since I was in high school for my boring stories.
    tryingagainII tryingagainII 56-60, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I feel like such a ******* waste of space. I'm too afraid of doing anything anyway. Very little people get to meet my confident and passionate side, but I'm so afraid of wearing it...
    Realitea Realitea 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Daily it seems I see the same post...someone stating they live in a sexless marriage. Sometimes I respond and offer advice though it feels like I'm just adding my voice to the many...
    RLB2 RLB2 41-45, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's been a year since I last posted. I had an online affair with a woman I met on EP. I fell in love with her. My wife found out and I broke it off. I haven't spoken to her in a...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 28

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    I've been in a sexless marriage for just over 16 years. In that time I've been through the counseling sessions, countless fights, nights on the couch, online trysts, real life near...
    aaw7395 aaw7395 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    It's been a long time since I wrote: If you have read my previous articles then you already have the background or a lot of it. If not my situation is as follows: I have been...
    TheLionGod TheLionGod 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Don't ever think you're completely secure in a relationship. I say this because you can't know another persons mind or heart. Like me, you can't believe you're living a fairy tale...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am not a virgin, I have also been married before and have unfortunately had many experiences of sex without marriage. I really enjoy sex, however, I have always believed sex...
    jrsybelle jrsybelle 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I didn't wait until marriage, I was very young about 15 yrs old when I lost my virginity. Although waiting until marriage is insane to me!! I'm proud of those who can actually wait...
    AlissiaMarie AlissiaMarie 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 26

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    I am so tired of living in a sexless marriage. It's a nightmare. I need to leave, get a divorce, and be on my own but I have no clue how to leave, and be on my own. I keep thinking...
    loveangelmusicbaby0 loveangelmusicbaby0 31-35, F 7 Responses Nov 27

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    I don't believe in divorce. So, my first marriage is most likely going to be my only marriage. But I am not going to get married until I am 46 or 49. Lmao
    SunshineH316 SunshineH316 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    I think about marriage a lot. But not how a normal women my age would. I think of it as being a fake thing now. There seems to be no significance to it anymore. If you don't like...
    GreenPixie420 GreenPixie420 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 1

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    Ive been married for 1 year and i hate my marriage. All my husband do is take me for granted, harass everyone in the house, disrespect us and verbally abuse us. Im tired of my...
    shakii00 shakii00 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    Wow... the title couldn't fit me better... I've been married for 14 yrs to a man that use to be a good man... that is before he retired from the army and before he started getting...
    neydi1972 neydi1972 41-45, F 9 Responses Dec 3

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    Situation. Ive been married 16 years now. Our sex life has been nearly non-existant for about the last 7, having sex maybe twice a month on a good one. I have to practically just...
    Stuck41 Stuck41 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 6

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    I'm Roman Catholic and believe that the reasons are based on evidence rather than faith. That said, I struggle with gay marriage and even the Biblical references on it. I've...
    originnone originnone 51-55, M 10 Responses Dec 6

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    You know what hurts? What really, really hurts about my marriage? That I am my Husbands Best Friend. He's told me this. It's true, all the good friends I've known him to have...
    FreyjaInBattle FreyjaInBattle 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 11

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