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I Have a Boring Unfulfilling Marriage

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    "I Need More Time"

    So... I mostly saved myself for marriage. I had big ideas that my one-day wife would appreciate that and think that I was a better man for it. I figured that my soulmate would answer all of my questions and explore the incredibly exciting world of sexuality with me. I...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    I Have A Boring Unfulfilling Marriage...

    My marriage wasn't always boring and unfulfilling. I think it began about 20 years ago when my husband and I relocated from the east coast of Canada to live on the west coast. At first it was great just getting away from both families, because there were times when they just...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    My Escape!

    I can't tell you how it all began. It all happened so fast. One minute I see an Ad on Craigslist askign to write about your fantasies. It was a sad post to be honest Just some poor lonely guy looking to spice up his boring marriage by reading the fantasies of women in the world...
    escapingthecloset escapingthecloset 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    Bedtime Is Boring...

    I want mind-blowing sex. I give it... Why can't I get it? I was born to be a lover but my wife is so content with vanilla stuff... I want to go for hours and be the object of affections... I don't want to wait until midnight to get in bed. I want to go to bed at nine...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M Nov 23, 2013

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    I've been away on a business trip the last two

    days and return tomorrow night. My wife is terrified at home that I am cheating on her... I suppose her concerns are justified since we openly acknowledged to each other that I am not getting from her what I need and crave, and that I will die never knowing. Add to that...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    An Available Saturday Evening

    How can it be that i have an empty day...no cleaning left to do, had sex with him early this morning to start him on a good day, sent the kids to grandmas' for the night and what is HE doing?....in bed sleeping! No dinner plans, no suggestions offered for a fun filled adult...
    syahyah syahyah 41-45 7 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    I Flirt With Married Women

    i guess i just woke up one day and finally realized... "i'm responsible for my own happiness." i was depending on my wife for conversation, for kind words, for pleasantries and meaningful interactions... so to hell with that! i flirt with ladies now... everywhere...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    No Where To Turn

    Have been married for 24 years and the last 5 have not been good. We have 2 children 19 and 16. My issues differ from my wife's. I just don't feel for her like I used to. Our sex life is pretty much non existent and boring. Lucky if its once a month, and its not because of me. We...
    silver250017 silver250017 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 13, 2011

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    My Wife Is Gone A Lot

    My wife can hardly say no at work. She agrees to additional work above and beyond the scope of her responsibilities very easily. The additional tasking translates into more hours away from me and our two children, as well as stress that she brings home. Not only does it...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    Had someone of told me when I was 21 that I was going to be in an unhappy marriage and pregnant at the age of 26 I'd of told them to get checked into a mental hospital... I was...
    Jenezebel Jenezebel 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Last night, I initiated sex, but my affections were not returned so I outright asked. He said he was having some digestive troubles. For the first time, I did not feel rejected and...
    Mandy578 Mandy578 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I tend not to reply to people that are boring, but if I do talk to them I reply with one word
    CiaraCollin15 CiaraCollin15 13-15, F 6 hrs ago

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    I didn't wait and till this day I wish I had of. Don't get me wrong I enjoy sex, but it makes things so complicated. No one can just have a simple relationship anymore. Going into...
    Livers95 Livers95 18-21, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am glad that same sex marriage is now legal in all fifty states. Just one more step in the right direction for this country.
    ObserverOfLife ObserverOfLife 22-25, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    I am new to this site and only started it to help other people with me and my wife's story but what I see on here is disturbing. The fact that people are using being gay to cheat...
    johnishappy johnishappy 31-35, M 10 hrs ago

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    I find it extremely ironic that some Republicans are using their freedom of religion to oppress a group of American citizens. Wasn't part of founding America (239 almost 240 years...
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion 26-30, F 6 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Hey Soniador1963 You can misrepresent all I say, you can lie about me insulting one of your friends and you can block me for pointing out your dishonesty. But people like me will...
    desopaws desopaws 46-50, M 11 hrs ago

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    My (half)brother is going into the army, and i have never been more happy about it. It's been his dream ever since we were little, and now he finally gets to experience it. He...
    HarleyHart HarleyHart 13-15, F 12 hrs ago

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    Now that we've legalized gay marriage can we finally decriminalize marijuana?! I'll buy a hookah in anticipation.
    vault101 vault101 26-30, F 15 hrs ago

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    Conservative reactions to gay marriage collapse into self - parody http://youtu.be/wmDrCm-itRw
    PeasantRevolt PeasantRevolt 22-25, M 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I came out to my wife and best friend of 17 years.
    Insouciance413 Insouciance413 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    It is time for another American Revolution to overthrow oppressors Today’s US Supreme Court ruling against the understanding for millennia that marriage can naturally only be...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am boring sometimes. I like movies, reading, playing iPad games.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/gay-marriage-decision-opens-the-door-to-polygamy-and-religious-persecution?utm_source=LifeSiteNews.com+Daily+Newsletter&utm_campaign=11d076770f...
    jopava jopava 56-60, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    wow, I'm very happy that the United States has approved gay marriage throughout the national territory ..... I will love to know this beautiful country soon and enjoy all the best...
    000Thallensjaan 000Thallensjaan 16-17, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Supreme Court rules in favor of same-sex marriagePosted: Jun 26, 2015 7:05 AM PDTBy Magdalena KrajewskiCONNECTWASHINGTON (AP) — The Supreme Court declared Friday that same...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 51-55, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am living in everything less marriage from last 10 years I am so surprised that in this Morden age we are so so ashamed to express our feelings, and try to find soft words that I...
    Sam908 Sam908 36-40, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hope this doesn't sound rude.. But if you're gonna message me.. At least make it something to grab my attention and not the same old "hi" or "how are you" or "hey how are you doing...
    LIgirl23 LIgirl23 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Sometimes I think it's my fault 100% of the time that I am a boring person. I'm not afraid to admit to that.
    air0118 air0118 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Wake up, eat, ****, watch tv, phone, bed, cycle repeats.. There goes a boring life for you.
    air0118 air0118 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I've been trying to step out of my comfort zone a bit more recently, and it's going well. I did some crazy things in the past week that I'd never thought I'd do in my life. But...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    No I'm Not, I have a question. Can one of you anti gay Christians who claims that the Bible states gay marriage is wrong (even though it doesn't) explain to me what is so natural...
    desopaws desopaws 46-50, M 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Here are some songs I listen to when I'm feeling down about my sexless marriage: No Sugar Tonight by the Guess Who One Step Up And Two Steps Back by Bruce Springsteen I Want You...
    sexlessinne sexlessinne 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My wife and I are now married for 14 years. And I had to think today about how the new technology like smartphones and mobile data plans has changed and improved our marriage...
    husbandanddad husbandanddad 36-40, M a week ago

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    My wife and I are now married for 14 years. And I had to think today about how the new technology like smartphones and mobile data plans has changed and improved our marriage...
    husbandanddad husbandanddad 36-40, M a week ago

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    I haven't been posting much. I've been busy with schoolwork and such. Besides, EP is starting to get boring to me; especially with all the perverts and idiots. So, goodbye.
    MisunderstoodGirl69 MisunderstoodGirl69 13-15, F Jun 20

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    My best friend made me sit and watch "The Secret" on DVD. It wasn't anything that I didn't already know, having read "Creative Visualization" and "The Power of the Subconscious...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 4 Responses Jun 20

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    I didn't even wait until marriage to become a parent. Maybe that wasn't the best idea. In any case, I don't expect my kids (sons or daughters) to wait until marriage. I'd rather...
    WalkingMyOwnPath WalkingMyOwnPath 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 20

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    Rather sad to have come here because I think this time is for real. I can't even begin to describe what I have been through during my 17 years of marriage. My wife has...
    DeepVoice999 DeepVoice999 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 18

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    Texas Gov. Greg Abbott signs Pastor Protection Act Texas Governor Greg Abbott signed legislation disallowing lawsuits against Christian pastors for refusing to marry homosexuals...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 18

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    I love that this is the past tense and I am no longer a card carrying member of the Sexless Marriage Club or ILIASM.My journey to an official resignation began on the 32nd floor of...
    southerncaviar southerncaviar 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 17

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    These days the only sex i have is when i am alone in the house, and **********... pretty sad.
    AlexMD21212 AlexMD21212 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 17