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I Have a Boring Unfulfilling Marriage

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    I've been away on a business trip the last two

    days and return tomorrow night. My wife is terrified at home that I am cheating on her... I suppose her concerns are justified since we openly acknowledged to each other that I am not getting from her what I need and crave, and that I will die never knowing. Add to that...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    I Flirt With Married Women

    i guess i just woke up one day and finally realized... "i'm responsible for my own happiness." i was depending on my wife for conversation, for kind words, for pleasantries and meaningful interactions... so to hell with that! i flirt with ladies now... everywhere...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    "I Need More Time"

    So... I mostly saved myself for marriage. I had big ideas that my one-day wife would appreciate that and think that I was a better man for it. I figured that my soulmate would answer all of my questions and explore the incredibly exciting world of sexuality with me. I...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    I Have A Boring Unfulfilling Marriage...

    My marriage wasn't always boring and unfulfilling. I think it began about 20 years ago when my husband and I relocated from the east coast of Canada to live on the west coast. At first it was great just getting away from both families, because there were times when they just...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    No Where To Turn

    Have been married for 24 years and the last 5 have not been good. We have 2 children 19 and 16. My issues differ from my wife's. I just don't feel for her like I used to. Our sex life is pretty much non existent and boring. Lucky if its once a month, and its not because of me. We...
    silver250017 silver250017 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 13, 2011

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    An Available Saturday Evening

    How can it be that i have an empty day...no cleaning left to do, had sex with him early this morning to start him on a good day, sent the kids to grandmas' for the night and what is HE doing?....in bed sleeping! No dinner plans, no suggestions offered for a fun filled adult...
    syahyah syahyah 41-45 7 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    Bedtime Is Boring...

    I want mind-blowing sex. I give it... Why can't I get it? I was born to be a lover but my wife is so content with vanilla stuff... I want to go for hours and be the object of affections... I don't want to wait until midnight to get in bed. I want to go to bed at nine...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M Nov 23, 2013

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    My Escape!

    I can't tell you how it all began. It all happened so fast. One minute I see an Ad on Craigslist askign to write about your fantasies. It was a sad post to be honest Just some poor lonely guy looking to spice up his boring marriage by reading the fantasies of women in the world...
    escapingthecloset escapingthecloset 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    My Wife Is Gone A Lot

    My wife can hardly say no at work. She agrees to additional work above and beyond the scope of her responsibilities very easily. The additional tasking translates into more hours away from me and our two children, as well as stress that she brings home. Not only does it...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    For the last few weeks i have been having a recurring dream where i am in bed, during the day, having amazing sex with a friend of both mine and my wife’s. The person i have been...
    watertrance watertrance 41-45, M 1 Response May 4

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    Still Looking for a refund… It’s been three years since my last post on this topic. So as a bottom line update, things have not gotten really better. Mostly we are just...
    Goinpublic Goinpublic 31-35, M 1 Response May 17

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    My husband and I have been married 14 yrs. He is completely happy with no emotion no physical contact. He has been sleeping in a separate room. I have tried talking to him with no...
    Angie1120 Angie1120 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I think we all do. However, I think that the more bizarre or f'd up your dream is the more imaginative/ creative you are! People who have boring dreams are, I'm sorry, BORING...
    SeanaO SeanaO 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been married for almost seven years now, together for closer to ten. We have two wonderful children, both of which are loved. I feel like I should be happy in my marriage...
    enjoymentofquiet enjoymentofquiet 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been married for 4 years now and I'm so unhappy my husband would rather play video games and smoke pot can spend time with me. he sleeps in bed with me maybe 3 times a month...
    lonelyandconfusedwife2015 lonelyandconfusedwife2015 26-30, F 5 Responses May 6

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    Me and my husband have opened our marriage. We have no idea if this is going to work but we both have made our rule list so looks like we are giving it a shot....
    greeneyedmomma greeneyedmomma 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    So many of my ideas have changed so drastically lately! It's nuts! Part of me wonders if this is just a stage or if this is for good. I used to be so conservative. Believed in...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Both have been divorced again and remarried again. I think that's part of the reason I have approached my marriage and family the way I have -- even during the times I questioned...
    alteregoeleven alteregoeleven 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    I have been married for less than a year. My wife is 50 and I am 51 and this is a second marriage for both of us. My wife has 2 kids, one a junior in college and one a senior in a...
    Airbuspilot Airbuspilot 51-55, M 9 hrs ago

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    I just watched a good presentation from one of the marriage counsellor about affair, I think everyone should watch this, just let me know your email address and I can send you the...
    cleanyoursoul cleanyoursoul 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    I wish I couldn't relate to this particular topic, but I do. I never realized so many shared this experience, and both men and women. From the night of my honeymoon I knew I had...
    Ravenwind43 Ravenwind43 41-45, F 7 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I have been married for close to 3 years and have a beautiful daughter. Since the first day of our marriage, my husband is largely absent. He has a very demanding job which...
    notashappyasilook notashappyasilook 26-30, F 3 Responses May 6

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    God is boring . boring God . why human’s imagination & fantasy is better than God boring reality ? why God is boring ? I hate this world . I hate this life . I hate life . This...
    nikiwonoto nikiwonoto 26-30, M May 10

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    Today was another day I didn't want to get up. All I wanted was to escape the family I got stuck with because I was stupid enough to believe that my M-I-L would be nice and love me...
    MiserableMama26 MiserableMama26 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    I don't smoke.I don't do drugs.I don't go out to parties all the time.I stil have my v-card.I don't drink.Some would say: I'm 'boring', well, let me school you.Aside from the v...
    Alluded Alluded 18-21, F Apr 30

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    beware I'm the most boring person to talk to!
    KValentine17 KValentine17 22-25, M 1 Response May 3

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    I am boring and I'm perfectly fine with it!
    KhallMiAutumn KhallMiAutumn 31-35, F May 13

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    Why do Christians claim same sex marriage is the death of traditional values? It is only the death of the Values enforced by Christians - and by enforced it was you do as we say or...
    SolitaryElf SolitaryElf 41-45, F 4 Responses May 20

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    I live in New Zealand and gay marriage was legalized here a couple of years ago. So there is currently a referendum circulating in my area to make gay marriage illegal again (it...
    peter1992 peter1992 22-25, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm so afraid that I'll grow up to live a boring and lack luster life just like some of my family members. I don't want to be broke forever. I don't want to get stuck in a dead end...
    VerucaRose VerucaRose 26-30, F 1 Response May 19

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    I'm such a boring person, my life is boring and I'm not even funny. Why do guys even talk to me and some like me so much when I don't even like my own self?
    May 2

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    We hurt people. Marriage does. But is also kept from gays. But why. Changing what marriage is already came. We created divorce. And altered how many wives. The...
    convertihd convertihd 46-50, M May 7

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    Why am I writing this? Because so many of the stories you see are about bad marriages and sad marriages. I just want to remind people that sometimes marriage is wonderful.
    pinkcorsetgirl pinkcorsetgirl 41-45, F 8 Responses May 14

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    Well I read a post on marriage today here.This set me thinking.Can we change those who cheat in their marriages .I think we cannot unless these people...
    whitesunshine87 whitesunshine87 46-50, F 2 Responses May 19

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    I am 32-year-old south Indian (Telugu) gay guy who is in the closet. Am looking for a Telugu non-sexual/lesbian girl for marriage of convenience. I am currently working in USA. I...
    krishere1982 krishere1982 31-35 May 18

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    I am 32-year-old south Indian (Telugu) gay guy who is in the closet. Am looking for a Telugu asexual/lesbian girl for marriage of convenience. I am currently working in Texas. I am...
    krishere1982 krishere1982 31-35 4 days ago

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    Keonz Quek is an experienced marriage counselor, whose assistance has proved instrumental in the life of numerous couples. He provides marriage advice and counseling to couples...
    gordon54 gordon54 22-25, M May 7

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    I had no expectations on waiting until marriage. I mainly was just waiting for the right girl to come along that i saw fit to lose my virginity with. I always said to myself that...
    RastaGotSoul RastaGotSoul 22-25, M May 10

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    I wrote on this topic a while ago and thought i'd give an update on how things are. Unfortunately, things have not improved in my marriage of almost now 10 years. My wife and I...
    JBMaine75 JBMaine75 36-40, M 4 Responses May 15

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    Seriously... Waiting for marriage??? Is this even a sane option??? I frenched kissed the first night, gave head the second, got fingered non stop the 3rd to 13th day, swallowed...
    NastyMe NastyMe 31-35, F 20 Responses May 15

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    Ireland has a vote this Friday on same sex marriage Polls say it will pass... (but will be close) Hopefully it will Equal rights to all I say Picture Shows an artist's mural on a...
    yeronlyman yeronlyman 41-45, M 2 Responses May 19

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    I've been with my husband for 9 years, married for 8; we don't have kids and I'm 35; he is 40. We have struggled through our marriage at times as a result of my husband's drinking...
    SadPanda35 SadPanda35 31-35, F 3 Responses May 19