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I Have a Boring Unfulfilling Marriage

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    I Have A Boring Unfulfilling Marriage...

    My marriage wasn't always boring and unfulfilling. I think it began about 20 years ago when my husband and I relocated from the east coast of Canada to live on the west coast. At first it was great just getting away from both families, because there were times when they just...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    Bedtime Is Boring...

    I want mind-blowing sex. I give it... Why can't I get it? I was born to be a lover but my wife is so content with vanilla stuff... I want to go for hours and be the object of affections... I don't want to wait until midnight to get in bed. I want to go to bed at nine...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 36-40, M Nov 23, 2013

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    An Available Saturday Evening

    How can it be that i have an empty day...no cleaning left to do, had sex with him early this morning to start him on a good day, sent the kids to grandmas' for the night and what is HE doing?....in bed sleeping! No dinner plans, no suggestions offered for a fun filled adult...
    syahyah syahyah 41-45 7 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    No Where To Turn

    Have been married for 24 years and the last 5 have not been good. We have 2 children 19 and 16. My issues differ from my wife's. I just don't feel for her like I used to. Our sex life is pretty much non existent and boring. Lucky if its once a month, and its not because of me. We...
    silver250017 silver250017 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 13, 2011

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    My Wife Is Gone A Lot

    My wife can hardly say no at work. She agrees to additional work above and beyond the scope of her responsibilities very easily. The additional tasking translates into more hours away from me and our two children, as well as stress that she brings home. Not only does it...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    I've been away on a business trip the last two

    days and return tomorrow night. My wife is terrified at home that I am cheating on her... I suppose her concerns are justified since we openly acknowledged to each other that I am not getting from her what I need and crave, and that I will die never knowing. Add to that...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    My Escape!

    I can't tell you how it all began. It all happened so fast. One minute I see an Ad on Craigslist askign to write about your fantasies. It was a sad post to be honest Just some poor lonely guy looking to spice up his boring marriage by reading the fantasies of women in the world...
    escapingthecloset escapingthecloset 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    I Flirt With Married Women

    i guess i just woke up one day and finally realized... "i'm responsible for my own happiness." i was depending on my wife for conversation, for kind words, for pleasantries and meaningful interactions... so to hell with that! i flirt with ladies now... everywhere...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 36-40, M 1 Response Nov 24, 2013

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    "I Need More Time"

    So... I mostly saved myself for marriage. I had big ideas that my one-day wife would appreciate that and think that I was a better man for it. I figured that my soulmate would answer all of my questions and explore the incredibly exciting world of sexuality with me. I...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    To begin with, when I was a kid, I was always rejected by the group, I always felt like I'm special, and that I'm different than my classmates, so I felt a big distance between me...
    simotaqi simotaqi 26-30 11 hrs ago

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    My husband turns into an unloving and uncaring child whenever he has contact with my worst enemy his mother. I told the disrespectful hag I wanted nothing to do with her but it...
    Gingercat55 Gingercat55 51-55, F 11 hrs ago

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    I try very hard not to hate my wife. This has been the battle of my life. Lately, I've spent a great deal of time avoiding my wife because her responses are either negative or...
    mrknows mrknows 31-35 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    24yrs of marriage , 2 great kids. Great lifestyle. Both in decent jobs. Wife and I are best buddies. A man couldn't ask for anything more! Yet in our room we haven't had sex for...
    Jdub49 Jdub49 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Is it only me You neglect this way? Or could it be anyone You married today? Am I the problem Or is it just you? And if it is, What do I do? How do I live Here as your wife? I will...
    TallaLily TallaLily 51-55, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'd rather have a sexless marriage than one without trust! That's just me tho.
    SorrynotSorrynotSorry SorrynotSorrynotSorry 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    What Is Up With Sexless Marriages? One of the largest groups on EP is "I live in a sexless marriage" I do not understand how people can be "married" and one of them is not meeting...
    janessa1 janessa1 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    JUDGE TO BOBBY JINDAL: "DON'T YOU GET THAT THIS MARRIAGE DEBATE IS OVER?" The Rude Pundit July 2, 2015 Perhaps, at the end of a farcical situation, it's appropriate that a judge...
    goodogstay goodogstay 46-50, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    You know what I love about liberals? They're so damn predictable. How many of you suspected that gay "marriage" was only the first strain of the marriage redefinition orchestra...
    Isayoldchap Isayoldchap 16-17, M 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    ANTI-GAY MARRIAGE TEXAS ATTORNEY GENERAL COULD BE FACING LIFE IN PRISON ON FIRST-DEGREE FELONY CHARGES Forward Progressive July 1, 2015 Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton told...
    goodogstay goodogstay 46-50, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    What is there to say except the name of this group
    anyfemme anyfemme 46-50, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Ok I might be a boring person, but that's the way I like it! :)
    HavingFun138 HavingFun138 46-50, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I posted something up before saying I was against gay marriage, maybe I was a bit unclear. Someone started praising me all "Hurrah and gung ho, let's revel in our homophobia...
    CaptainHoof CaptainHoof 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm actually in a relationship with someone who is appears to be fearful of physical intimacy. Although he really won't acknowledge it. I feel like he loves and cares about me...
    marengo10 marengo10 46-50, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    If being against gay marriage is homophobic, then that means a substantial number of gays themselves are homophobes. Here, Jonathan Soroff explains why some gays, including him...
    Darkanddesolate Darkanddesolate 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/opposing-gay-marriage-may-demand-civil-disobedience-louisiana-bishop?utm_source=LifeSiteNews.com+Daily+Newsletter&utm_campaign=650b6abe03...
    jopava jopava 56-60, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I Hate Boring People. They bore me with their presence.
    Manekineko420 Manekineko420 70+, F 4 days ago

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    I tend not to reply to people that are boring, but if I do talk to them I reply with one word
    CiaraCollin15 CiaraCollin15 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I am new to this site and only started it to help other people with me and my wife's story but what I see on here is disturbing. The fact that people are using being gay to cheat...
    johnishappy johnishappy 31-35, M 5 days ago

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    I came out to my wife and best friend of 17 years.
    Insouciance413 Insouciance413 36-40, M 6 days ago

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    It is time for another American Revolution to overthrow oppressors Today’s US Supreme Court ruling against the understanding for millennia that marriage can naturally only be...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am boring sometimes. I like movies, reading, playing iPad games.
    mother1983 mother1983 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    https://www.lifesitenews.com/news/gay-marriage-decision-opens-the-door-to-polygamy-and-religious-persecution?utm_source=LifeSiteNews.com+Daily+Newsletter&utm_campaign=11d076770f...
    jopava jopava 56-60, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    So proud of my country today! Now one of my best friends can marry who he wants, where he wants. I do support gay marriage, because it is a marriage just like any other. I respect...
    MajesticMia MajesticMia 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 26

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    wow, I'm very happy that the United States has approved gay marriage throughout the national territory ..... I will love to know this beautiful country soon and enjoy all the best...
    000Thallensjaan 000Thallensjaan 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 26

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    Supreme Court rules in favor of same-sex marriagePosted: Jun 26, 2015 7:05 AM PDTBy Magdalena KrajewskiCONNECTWASHINGTON (AP) — The Supreme Court declared Friday that same...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 51-55, F 7 Responses Jun 26

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    I am living in everything less marriage from last 10 years I am so surprised that in this Morden age we are so so ashamed to express our feelings, and try to find soft words that I...
    Sam908 Sam908 36-40, M 1 Response Jun 26

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    Hope this doesn't sound rude.. But if you're gonna message me.. At least make it something to grab my attention and not the same old "hi" or "how are you" or "hey how are you doing...
    LIgirl23 LIgirl23 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 25

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    Sometimes I think it's my fault 100% of the time that I am a boring person. I'm not afraid to admit to that.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 25

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    Wake up, eat, ****, watch tv, phone, bed, cycle repeats.. There goes a boring life for you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 24

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    I've been trying to step out of my comfort zone a bit more recently, and it's going well. I did some crazy things in the past week that I'd never thought I'd do in my life. But...
    bluegirlie98 bluegirlie98 16-17, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    No I'm Not, I have a question. Can one of you anti gay Christians who claims that the Bible states gay marriage is wrong (even though it doesn't) explain to me what is so natural...
    desopaws desopaws 46-50, M 6 Responses Jun 24

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    Here are some songs I listen to when I'm feeling down about my sexless marriage: No Sugar Tonight by the Guess Who One Step Up And Two Steps Back by Bruce Springsteen I Want You...
    sexlessinne sexlessinne 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 24

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