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I Have a Boring Unfulfilling Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 79 People

    Bedtime Is Boring...

    I want mind-blowing sex. I give it... Why can't I get it? I was born to be a lover but my wife is so content with vanilla stuff... I want to go for hours and be the object of affections... I don't want to wait until midnight to get in bed. I want to go to bed at nine...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2013

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    My Wife Is Gone A Lot

    My wife can hardly say no at work. She agrees to additional work above and beyond the scope of her responsibilities very easily. The additional tasking translates into more hours away from me and our two children, as well as stress that she brings home. Not only does it...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    "I Need More Time"

    So... I mostly saved myself for marriage. I had big ideas that my one-day wife would appreciate that and think that I was a better man for it. I figured that my soulmate would answer all of my questions and explore the incredibly exciting world of sexuality with me. I...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    I Flirt With Married Women

    i guess i just woke up one day and finally realized... "i'm responsible for my own happiness." i was depending on my wife for conversation, for kind words, for pleasantries and meaningful interactions... so to hell with that! i flirt with ladies now... everywhere...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    No Where To Turn

    Have been married for 24 years and the last 5 have not been good. We have 2 children 19 and 16. My issues differ from my wife's. I just don't feel for her like I used to. Our sex life is pretty much non existent and boring. Lucky if its once a month, and its not because of me. We...
    silver250017 silver250017 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 13, 2011

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    My Escape!

    I can't tell you how it all began. It all happened so fast. One minute I see an Ad on Craigslist askign to write about your fantasies. It was a sad post to be honest Just some poor lonely guy looking to spice up his boring marriage by reading the fantasies of women in the world...
    escapingthecloset escapingthecloset 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    I Have A Boring Unfulfilling Marriage...

    My marriage wasn't always boring and unfulfilling. I think it began about 20 years ago when my husband and I relocated from the east coast of Canada to live on the west coast. At first it was great just getting away from both families, because there were times when they just...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    I've been away on a business trip the last two

    days and return tomorrow night. My wife is terrified at home that I am cheating on her... I suppose her concerns are justified since we openly acknowledged to each other that I am not getting from her what I need and crave, and that I will die never knowing. Add to that...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    An Available Saturday Evening

    How can it be that i have an empty day...no cleaning left to do, had sex with him early this morning to start him on a good day, sent the kids to grandmas' for the night and what is HE doing?....in bed sleeping! No dinner plans, no suggestions offered for a fun filled adult...
    syahyah syahyah 41-45 7 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    You know, one never wakes up one day and says "hey, I want to get married to someone who doesn't appreciate me". So here I am at 19 years old, in a sexless marriage. I'm married to...
    Angelwithbrokenwingsxo Angelwithbrokenwingsxo 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 2

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    I've been married for 25 yrs in the last 7 she has cheated at least 5 times but she says the sex with me is good she just wanted something different so should I do the same
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 4

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    I have a sexless marriage and the marriage is working. It is because my wife and I have experienced lack of sex, knowledge or practicing it but in different ways and places. So we...
    planter715 planter715 51-55, M 3 Responses Mar 8

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    I met my soul mate in college and the bond and love between us was incrediable. We both were madly in love and were inseparable. We both are middle eastern I had lots of Suitor ad...
    MelodyMoon MelodyMoon 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    Surrendering our sexuality, decency and the best of our fertile years is what the sexless marriage club is all about. I didn't sign up for it though. My club was supposed to be the...
    angelwanderer angelwanderer 46-50 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I can never think of anything to say. If someone asks me what I think of something-I don't know. My mind is blank. I can't think of anything to say. If a whole group of people are...
    huntressx3 huntressx3 16-17, F Mar 12

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    No, I did not wait either to have sex before marriage. I started having sex when I was 16 and was on the pill at that time so I would not get pregnant. My mother made sure of...
    singlefemaleonvacation singlefemaleonvacation 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Many of them are online....as in I have never even met them in person. I have a pretty strong connection with a couple of them, but nothing I would consider inappropriate. One is...
    TornSoul13 TornSoul13 36-40, M 22 hrs ago

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    I have made mistakes in my marriage. I worked too many hours and traveled over 100 days out of the year. I always was supportive. I tool an interest in my wife's activities and...
    mysecretstuff72 mysecretstuff72 41-45, M 2 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    so... this is me again... acouple of months ago, I stopped caring AT ALL, guess I was ready to file for divorce, just waiting for the right moment, and run!!! but... I dunno know...
    sm28 sm28 26-30, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    my marriage is in trouble.I don't wanna leave but I just can't seem to get through to him.I know he loves me but he acts like he just don't care until I'm ready Leave
    wtfisthereanynamenottaken wtfisthereanynamenottaken 41-45, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    So let me get this straight.. I have been cheated on and tried to work it out. We both went to counseling and things were better for awhile. Then it happens again. This time it's...
    slim156 slim156 41-45, M 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    This morning when I woke up I was feeling quite frisky after having a good yet frustrating dream, rather than do what instinct would have me do I tried some advice a friend had...
    insomniasucks insomniasucks 41-45, M 12 hrs ago

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    My husband and I aren't what we used to be. He doesn't give a crap about my feelings or my needs. sometimes I think he is with me because he loves my family so much and he doesn't...
    LonelyMom214 LonelyMom214 26-30, F 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I am feeling like **** 2day :(. The closing hasnt gone thru & i am tired about always being next week, next week. The people that are going 2 buy the house changed banks so is...
    britefutureahead2 britefutureahead2 41-45, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I work and I have customers who love me but management really doesn't like me nor wants me here.
    trust2love trust2love 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    So I am a boring person,trying to change that.My day is pretty....... boring. I go to my computer, watch The Simpsons, study a bit,go to my facebook account (the other one in which...
    ThePakistaniGuy ThePakistaniGuy 13-15, M Mar 12

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    I saw a wonderful episode of Father Ted with the boring priest. He wasn't short on words but his subjects left something to be desired. The line that made me roar was: 'I had a...
    ladyPlum ladyPlum 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Roy Moore calls for 'Biblical marriage' at Texas rally AUSTIN, Texas — About 250 people gathered Monday afternoon at the Texas Capitol to rally in support of what they call...
    FindMeIAmYours FindMeIAmYours 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    indication of boring: "how was your weekend?" ... "I went grocery shopping and cleaned the bathroom"
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F Mar 5

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    Married 25 years with three kids (25, 23, 21). I have been living in a sexless marriage (meaning zero sex) for the past 6 years, touchless (meaning zero touch) for the past 3 years...
    acceptingmediocrity acceptingmediocrity 56-60, M 8 Responses Mar 9

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    My wife is so boring. Vanilla all the way. Does not drink. Not into seX. believes flirting is cheating. Hoes To the Gym fully clothed Nice body but does not let me see her. In...
    bigrobery62 bigrobery62 51-55, M Mar 16

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    I don't think I am leading an exciting life as what most of my friends have. They did some drastic decisions that totally made their life up side down. Like to fall in love...
    nbsbgal nbsbgal 22-25, F Mar 17

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    Sexless Marriage Help | The best online way to rejuvenate a marriage : Power of Two Marriage The first step in getting sexless marriage help is to understand the problem. Here’s...
    lass1 lass1 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 3

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    At what point do you give up? When do you finally say I've had enough of feeling alone. You build a life, kids, house, good jobs. You seem to have everthing and from the outside...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 9 Responses Mar 6

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    Good evening --- I however AM HAPPY IN MY MARRIAGE. This post is in response to the countless women that are unhappy in their marriages. Many wives lament and languish that they...
    Tannasheart Tannasheart 51-55, F 4 Responses Mar 7

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    I CANNOT BELIEVE WHAT I AM READING... I have read so many stories of sexless marriages on here.. No intimacy! I am so sorry for many of you. I was treating my spouse very similar...
    KeraJo75 KeraJo75 36-40 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have never been married, but I do know if relationship does finally end it will most likely happen at the worst time. When you are already married, that's why I don't want to get...
    awsome2 awsome2 18-21, T Mar 13

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    There's a member that posted a story on marriage, loss of intimacy and love and divorce. In the end the husband realizes how he neglected his wife, how much he still loves her and...
    MsInvis MsInvis 46-50, F Mar 3

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    I have always had a picture of my honeymoon night all planned in my head. i have always wanted to surprise my husband with a gift that god had given me. i am not a girl that is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 3

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    So everyone asks me once they find out I'm in a sexless marriage why I married this person to begin with. Well, honestly, we were two people who had both been single for a long...
    PenelopeAnne PenelopeAnne 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 8

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    People change, if you do not have the spark in your relationship you had when you first get married you should move on..... At least this is how I see it now.. Marriage is a 24/7...
    navyguy1976 navyguy1976 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    It's a shame marriage is looked down on and viewed in this way, any relationship is a risk and many end in divorce but for me, being married is something I have always wanted. It...
    ladyPlum ladyPlum 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 19

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