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I Have a Boring Unfulfilling Marriage

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    My Wife Is Gone A Lot

    My wife can hardly say no at work. She agrees to additional work above and beyond the scope of her responsibilities very easily. The additional tasking translates into more hours away from me and our two children, as well as stress that she brings home. Not only does it...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 25, 2013

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    My Escape!

    I can't tell you how it all began. It all happened so fast. One minute I see an Ad on Craigslist askign to write about your fantasies. It was a sad post to be honest Just some poor lonely guy looking to spice up his boring marriage by reading the fantasies of women in the world...
    escapingthecloset escapingthecloset 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    No Where To Turn

    Have been married for 24 years and the last 5 have not been good. We have 2 children 19 and 16. My issues differ from my wife's. I just don't feel for her like I used to. Our sex life is pretty much non existent and boring. Lucky if its once a month, and its not because of me. We...
    silver250017 silver250017 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 13, 2011

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    I Flirt With Married Women

    i guess i just woke up one day and finally realized... "i'm responsible for my own happiness." i was depending on my wife for conversation, for kind words, for pleasantries and meaningful interactions... so to hell with that! i flirt with ladies now... everywhere...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    An Available Saturday Evening

    How can it be that i have an empty day...no cleaning left to do, had sex with him early this morning to start him on a good day, sent the kids to grandmas' for the night and what is HE doing?....in bed sleeping! No dinner plans, no suggestions offered for a fun filled adult...
    syahyah syahyah 41-45 7 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    Bedtime Is Boring...

    I want mind-blowing sex. I give it... Why can't I get it? I was born to be a lover but my wife is so content with vanilla stuff... I want to go for hours and be the object of affections... I don't want to wait until midnight to get in bed. I want to go to bed at nine...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2013

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    I Have A Boring Unfulfilling Marriage...

    My marriage wasn't always boring and unfulfilling. I think it began about 20 years ago when my husband and I relocated from the east coast of Canada to live on the west coast. At first it was great just getting away from both families, because there were times when they just...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    I've been away on a business trip the last two

    days and return tomorrow night. My wife is terrified at home that I am cheating on her... I suppose her concerns are justified since we openly acknowledged to each other that I am not getting from her what I need and crave, and that I will die never knowing. Add to that...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Apr 15, 2014

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    "I Need More Time"

    So... I mostly saved myself for marriage. I had big ideas that my one-day wife would appreciate that and think that I was a better man for it. I figured that my soulmate would answer all of my questions and explore the incredibly exciting world of sexuality with me. I...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 4 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    After years of begging my husband to go to marriage counseling and him flat out refusing or agreeing and then going once and then finding excuses why he can't go, I started therapy...
    MLH205 MLH205 41-45, F 11 Responses Jan 5

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    What would your wife/husbands story be as opposed to yours, over no sex? I sat and listened to my H point of view during a therapy session couple of weeks ago... Have any of you?
    saxappeal saxappeal 46-50, F 19 Responses Jan 7

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    I believe in making traditions with your partner in life. I cook with him. We have cooking experiments. We each take turns coming up with new recipes.
    SKDel SKDel 26-30, F Jan 6

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    I am so lonely. So many people are excited it's a new year and I really could care less. I so just want to get drunk and find someone. My H hasn't given me any attention or...
    Purpleapple84 Purpleapple84 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    “Sex without love is as hollow and ridiculous as love without sex.” ― Hunter S. Thompson
    Woody6 Woody6 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 15

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    Women's roles in the Bible The status of women in the Christian Gospels Sponsored link. Women in ancient Israel: Women's status and freedoms were severely limited by Jewish law...
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 2 hrs ago

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    Well I'm not going I say never but as of right now I don't feel like i need to get married in the future. Look I'm not in a serious relationship, do I want to be yes. I want to be...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F Jan 18

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    India as you all might know is a country rich in culture and tradition. Arranged marriages happens to be a very integral part of this culture. I am 27 years old and got married in...
    femaleskeleton femaleskeleton 26-30 1 Response Jan 19

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    Well , yesterday we had our first joint counselling session. Beforehand I was very anxious. I had a knot in my stomach and a pain in my head. I wasn't sure if H would appear, but...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 26 Responses Jan 20

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    Mom and dad are and it they are still in love after all those years. I want to have the same marriage with my boyfriend :)
    JillandMatt JillandMatt 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    Only problem is my wife is having more luck finding partners then me. Seems like guys are just creepy when they say they have an open marriage. Any tips?
    odieo1234 odieo1234 41-45, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    The words marriage and engagement still depress me; make me feel disgusted somehow… Yes, disgusted! For different reasons which I may freely share here some time in the future...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's humiliating to write but impossible to talk about. I am 25 years old and married to I really don't know what kind of man. I can honestly say that I love him but at the same...
    sabrina237 sabrina237 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    We spend our weekends avoiding each other. One of us sleeps away from the home. Saturday, he slept at his friend's and Sunday I slept at my mothers-with my kids. This means, I have...
    Luckymomof2boys Luckymomof2boys 31-35, F 11 Responses Jan 12

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    To claim as much material things as I can get my fat grubby hands on. I have a garage shoved full of my countless possessions over the years. It's my drug people say. Weird Al...
    tothestars tothestars 13-15, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    I feel married destroy the true lobe this details after married can start as a boring things then will start fighting and in the end the both are not happy so after my experience...
    tetomni tetomni 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am not in a troubled marriage. I am now in my second marriage. My first marriage lasted 21 years. My wife was confined to a wheelchair due to disability. We had three children...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Sorry but if you're lame and boring as hell, I won't reply to your messages.
    lunazteca lunazteca 18-21, F Dec 30, 2014

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    No one likes me. I have indeed let them down. The question is now, "Do I leave while they drown?" If I am already dead should I save the living? I am never not afraid. I am always...
    treegurl94 treegurl94 16-17, F Jan 1

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    I'm such a boring person and its more than obvious because people always stop chatting with me after a couple of days or even hours of chatting :'( I don't have anything...
    missnicething missnicething 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 2

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    life is so boring. Not many friends, no relationships, spend most of my time alone, don't enjoy living very much
    washington350 washington350 36-40, M Jan 5

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    EP has been really quiet and boring! Thanks for deleting all the interesting stories EP Allie
    ogierthedane ogierthedane 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 16

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    Another day is ending. Another day I didn't live to the fullest. The days left are becoming fewer and fewer quicker and quicker, and here I am- wasting my time. If I chose path B...
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    Haha **** off and stop telling me boring *** jokes
    TimePrincess TimePrincess 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    Maybe I shouldn't have ck'd this, but in all honesty, last time I FISHED PERSONALLY, in Fl. I caught a greedy seagull. That wasnt boring, as I terrorized families & pissed off the...
    Geeza2015 Geeza2015 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I would like to get some responses.. Is there any of you or somebody you know who is in a long distance marriage, -I stressed, marriage, not 'long distance relationship', -and...
    rainyrainsky rainyrainsky 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    Why do they call it gay marriage? Im so sick of the labels they give everything. Its not a gay marriage. Its marriage. Marriage is about two people who love each other. It doesnt...
    WarriorPoet97 WarriorPoet97 16-17, F 8 Responses Jan 2

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    Facing marriage, people have different ideas about the contrast between love and money. However, I prefer love to money, if I have the choice. Firstly, as a matter of fact, love...
    rosafiermonte rosafiermonte 26-30, F Jan 14

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    It does not belong to me it belongs to everyone. Marriage is between consenting parties who vow to be in a committed romantic relationship. Far be it form me to stop someone from...
    KateTheStraightedge KateTheStraightedge 16-17, F Jan 19

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    maybe against would be a strong word, but i dont agree with force arranged marriage. what i feel more painful however is the fact that... for children who love their parents, they...
    butterfliesndut butterfliesndut 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have been divorced for over 3 years now. I often read stories here from people in sexless marriages, hoping that maybe I can help someone either save their marriage or help in...
    sundancesoul sundancesoul 46-50, F 1 Response a week ago

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    To help people to be more informed about Pakistan instead of listening to poverty and falling for any stories. Having been to Pakistan many times, I can safely say the below;- 1...
    Eridanus Eridanus 31-35 2 days ago

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    It saddens me deeply that people do not take marriage seriously anymore. Marriage used to be "until death do us part" and because of which, people actually took time in getting to...
    MsBree01 MsBree01 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    This is the walk away wife script. http://youtu.be/eyty0xb7IMM Every situation is different but at least 90% of this can ring thru in one way or another IMHO Well I was the...
    MrHeartaFire MrHeartaFire 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help SOLVER KING render to me in my marital life. i have been married...
    sharon1234524 sharon1234524 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    It is better to learn faithfulness before marriage. Those who were not willing to wait before marriage, will more likely not restist within marriage. I believe that true love waits...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M 3 Responses Jan 4

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    I have been married for 19 years. my husband prefers I keep any issue that may start argument's to myself. he respects outsiders over me and our marriage. he doesn't listen to...
    mrsunderstood72 mrsunderstood72 41-45 2 Responses Jan 4

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