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I Have a Boring Unfulfilling Marriage

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    Bedtime Is Boring... - I want mind-blowing sex. I give it... Why can't I get it? I was born to be a lover but my wife is so content with vanilla stuff... I want to go for...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    An Available Saturday Evening - How can it be that i have an empty day...no cleaning left to do, had sex with him early this morning to start him on a good day, sent the kids...
    syahyah syahyah 41-45 7 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    I've been away on a business trip the last two days and return tomorrow night. My wife is terrified at home that I am cheating on her... I suppose her concerns are justified...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I Flirt With Married Women - i guess i just woke up one day and finally realized... "i'm responsible for my own happiness." i was depending on my wife for conversation, for...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    My Escape! - I can't tell you how it all began. It all happened so fast. One minute I see an Ad on Craigslist askign to write about your fantasies. It was a sad post to be honest...
    escapingthecloset escapingthecloset 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    "I Need More Time" - So... I mostly saved myself for marriage. I had big ideas that my one-day wife would appreciate that and think that I was a better man for it. I...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 5 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    I Have A Boring Unfulfilling Marriage... - My marriage wasn't always boring and unfulfilling. I think it began about 20 years ago when my husband and I relocated from the east...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    My Wife Is Gone A Lot - My wife can hardly say no at work. She agrees to additional work above and beyond the scope of her responsibilities very easily. The additional tasking...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    What do I do. My marriage is broken my husband doesn't want to talk to me. All because we don't know how to communicate with each other. We fight all the time is crazy but I don't...
    BrittTHart BrittTHart 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    never felt this way before To make me fall Like a fool my house was haunted by the memory of what was Then I gave you all of me You've ignited the truth I've unraveled...
    angiede angiede 26-30, F Mar 16

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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Before and After … Nearing 8 months after my separation, I reflect on the emotional desert I have called my marriage. During those years, I was starved for a smile or a hug. A...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 6

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    I am a married man who is married to a wonderful woman. However she has recently told me that she wants nothing to do with sex ever again. It has been over 15 months since we have...
    Hingeman Hingeman 26-30, M 25 Responses 1 day ago

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    I love the fact that we have a open marriage. We have been married for 19 years and open for about 5 years if you count some 3somes we had it is a lot longer then 5 more like 12. I...
    shakeydays shakeydays 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Seriously need advice :(....Soo I'm new at this... I'm 23 years old.. Got married really young, have 2 babies, one of which was born this year. I've been married for 5 years. My...
    missme90 missme90 22-25, F 10 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    Good evening ladies and gentlemen, How is everybody doing? Well, I'm a bit tired, just got done with some intensive math homework for college and looking to head to bed soon. I'm...
    BlueKaz78 BlueKaz78 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    My father has not been around much throughout my entire life. I am currently 24 years old and almost turning 25 in less then a week. He over criticizes me and compares me to my...
    jezebelx jezebelx 22-25, F 2 days ago

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    I feel like I am really boring as most of my friends are forever swapping boyfriends and have boys dropping at their feet. They always have texts coming through and getting their...
    hannsmithh hannsmithh 13-15, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I have always loved the idea of someday finding the perfect guy for me and getting married in some fairy tale scenario. But as I got older and watched relationships around me fail...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I just read the story on the caretaker from NeedingtoVent (thank you NTV), and it really hit me hard. In my journey I am recognizing my failings to be far greater than I thought...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Thank you to everyone who took the time to respond to my post yesterday. I was overwhelmed by the friendship and advice that you guys gave. As I think about the situation I am in...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 4 Responses 33 mins ago

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    I love that I found this app and people out there in sexless marriages. My husband has a ****/************ addiction which he sees a therapist for on a weekly basis but I just don...
    dmb8927 dmb8927 36-40, F 2 Responses 15 mins ago

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    I wouldn't want to be in a sexless marriage, I'd make it a priority to have that alone time with my husband if I was to ever get married, especially with kids. & I sure as Hell...
    alizex7x alizex7x 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    I like the IDEA of it, but marriage isn't a life goal of mine. If two people are happy and don't care about going through the process and other complicated aspects of it, then I...
    Professionalgriefer Professionalgriefer 18-21, F 8 hrs ago

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    Most women dream of marriage but it never appealed to me. I dont believe there is a man special enough for me to want it.
    tb2985 tb2985 26-30, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    lol who doesnt i guess !every healthy human being should have a naughty side as being straight face is soo boring !
    romell romell 36-40, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Every time I barely hear the word wedding or marriage I feel sick, disgusted, scared, uncomfortable, annoyed and aggressive. I wish I could know what it is... why does the idea...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    In case you think that Opposite Land is perfect, it isn't. No tax refund for me this year. Instead, a $6,500 tax bill due to how things worked out for me in the divorce settlement...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 12 Responses 1 day ago

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    A text message I sent my girlfriend ... I think I'm going crazy watching how you are with your phone and your constant need for a connection with the online world, it's an...
    supercat01 supercat01 31-35, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been married for 3 years, there have been a lot of ups and downs, mostly downs. I am 25 my husband is 27 we have a two year old boy. I don't know if its that both me and my...
    mylifesucks88 mylifesucks88 22-25 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    Im more curious about this because i have a friend who told me she only gets sex about once every few months. Ive seen a lot of recommendations about counseling, but i haven't...
    Tanya30 Tanya30 31-35, F 5 Responses 41 mins ago

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    It's not that I don't have any sex but it's not as often and as passionate or sexy as I want it to be or have it. It used to be very often and sexy on the first 3 months of...
    memarried memarried 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    I had mixed feelings with sharing. I decided to go ahead. I can't keep it to myself, I need to discuss with others who are possibly going through the same thing. I first noticed...
    hopefull2014 hopefull2014 26-30, F 19 Responses Mar 24

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    I've been in a relationship for 20 yrs and over the last few years the sex has all but completely stopped . I couldn't even tell you the last time we had sex it's been that long. I...
    ozbiker65 ozbiker65 46-50, M 8 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Sticking to the particular boring basic principles will help you management this football with regard to a lot of the actions and also this will be eventually how groups obtain in...
    fifa14elena fifa14elena 22-25, F Mar 19

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    If fun means drugs, sex, and partying than I rather be boring.
    Glo59 Glo59 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 16

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    (Another old story of mine from my previous profile. I feel it's an important topic and it's something that's close to my heart) Gay Marriage I am fully in support of gay...
    PoeticTorture PoeticTorture 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Sometimes I can be so boring lol so sorry if I get you bored or something LMAOOOO
    BBCover BBCover 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    Completely boring. Not satisfied with anything. Everything is just so repetitive to the point where my mind is going crazy. Honestly I'm finding it a struggle to be alive everyday...
    Yassmin Yassmin 18-21, F Apr 7

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    So day by day life is getting more boring and depressing . Everyday same thing , nothing new happen instead losing friends everyday make me more sad . I wish I can have a little...
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M Mar 21

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    The rubble of our marriage I try not to look I try to change my focus to what else gives me happiness my children my friends my home my community I cannot help...
    Bobbie71 Bobbie71 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 24

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    Make that, that I used to live in a marriage that was becoming a sexless marriage. Today would have been our second anniversary. The story is complicated, but to make it short, she...
    soundtrackforantarctica soundtrackforantarctica 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 25

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    So basically I am a girl who is bisexual and 16 years old. I have known I am bisexual for a long time but only recently have I actually admitted it to myself. Not one person in my...
    tamsin23 tamsin23 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I played DSA with some friends 6 hours long. Really awesome but the rest of the day was sooo boring. Without them the day would have been useless.
    joseph1995 joseph1995 18-21, M Apr 5

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    I don't believe in gay marriage. I believe in marriage. And I think that's between any two people that love each other. Man and man. Woman and man. Woman and woman. Or whatever you...
    emilyv97 emilyv97 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Venting again... I always wondered about the Madonna-***** complex and… here it is… seems like my husband is one of them. I needed some weeks to think about it after he told...
    dalessa dalessa 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 17

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    I am married for only a few months now and my husband is drinking everyday and smokes weed. I knew he had this habit but never knew it was this bad. He spends a lot of money on his...
    ilhasol ilhasol 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Rules of Engagement - A few new members have posted in this forum recently, and while I've only been a member for few weeks, I thought I'd share my opinion on the purpose of this...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 15 Responses Mar 20

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    Two weeks ago, I shared what I thought would be my current status for awhile. Life being what it is - it has thrown me into a crazy roller coaster loop once again. The good news...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 21 Responses Mar 28

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    So yesterday we saw a marriage councillor. We haddn't been for a few years since before the kids came along. I was really hoping that she was going to be able to help my husband...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Why does the act of making a legal contract between a man and a woman make us such deceivers in our relationships beforehand? Is it because we think no one will marry us if we are...
    Phat4Ever Phat4Ever 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Well where do I start? It didn't used to be a bad marriage when we got married 13 years ago in 2001, I was 25 and she was 24. In fact it was a very good marriage, I loved her and...
    HPeterson HPeterson 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago