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I Have a Boring Unfulfilling Marriage

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    "I Need More Time" - So... I mostly saved myself for marriage. I had big ideas that my one-day wife would appreciate that and think that I was a better man for it. I...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 5 Responses Nov 28, 2013

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    My Wife Is Gone A Lot - My wife can hardly say no at work. She agrees to additional work above and beyond the scope of her responsibilities very easily. The additional tasking...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 25, 2013

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    Bedtime Is Boring... - I want mind-blowing sex. I give it... Why can't I get it? I was born to be a lover but my wife is so content with vanilla stuff... I want to go for...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 23, 2013

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    I Flirt With Married Women - i guess i just woke up one day and finally realized... "i'm responsible for my own happiness." i was depending on my wife for conversation, for...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses Nov 24, 2013

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    I've been away on a business trip the last two days and return tomorrow night. My wife is terrified at home that I am cheating on her... I suppose her concerns are justified...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I Have A Boring Unfulfilling Marriage... - My marriage wasn't always boring and unfulfilling. I think it began about 20 years ago when my husband and I relocated from the east...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 4 Responses Aug 17, 2013

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    My Escape! - I can't tell you how it all began. It all happened so fast. One minute I see an Ad on Craigslist askign to write about your fantasies. It was a sad post to be honest...
    escapingthecloset escapingthecloset 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 1, 2009

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    An Available Saturday Evening - How can it be that i have an empty day...no cleaning left to do, had sex with him early this morning to start him on a good day, sent the kids...
    syahyah syahyah 41-45 7 Responses Jan 24, 2009

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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
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    Before and After … Nearing 8 months after my separation, I reflect on the emotional desert I have called my marriage. During those years, I was starved for a smile or a hug. A...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 6

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    I am a married man who is married to a wonderful woman. However she has recently told me that she wants nothing to do with sex ever again. It has been over 15 months since we have...
    Hingeman Hingeman 26-30, M 25 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love the fact that we have a open marriage. We have been married for 19 years and open for about 5 years if you count some 3somes we had it is a lot longer then 5 more like 12. I...
    shakeydays shakeydays 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Seriously need advice :(....Soo I'm new at this... I'm 23 years old.. Got married really young, have 2 babies, one of which was born this year. I've been married for 5 years. My...
    missme90 missme90 22-25, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    Good evening ladies and gentlemen, How is everybody doing? Well, I'm a bit tired, just got done with some intensive math homework for college and looking to head to bed soon. I'm...
    BlueKaz78 BlueKaz78 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    My father has not been around much throughout my entire life. I am currently 24 years old and almost turning 25 in less then a week. He over criticizes me and compares me to my...
    jezebelx jezebelx 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    My husband has been drinking every single day for the last 17 years. I can count on one hand the number of days he has gone without drinking in the last 10 years. Two months ago I...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    I finally lined up both a marriage counselor (to help us sort out whether or not our marriage is toast) and an individual therapist (to help me get my **** together) and now the...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 23 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I have a friend named kami. She's helped me out throughout my life and the better part of six years. During my marriage and in the dead middle of it, she was there for me to nag...
    flibsley flibsley 31-35, M 40 mins ago

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    I love enjoying spending time with my friends, the only problem is what to do. I spend the last 4 years of highschool hanging out with people who played video games, went to the...
    Jaimedee Jaimedee 18-21, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I wouldn't want to be in a sexless marriage, I'd make it a priority to have that alone time with my husband if I was to ever get married, especially with kids. & I sure as Hell...
    alizex7x alizex7x 18-21, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    Every time I barely hear the word wedding or marriage I feel sick, disgusted, scared, uncomfortable, annoyed and aggressive. I wish I could know what it is... why does the idea...
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Anyone know of any sexless marriage conventions?
    SheldonJPlankton SheldonJPlankton 41-45, M 17 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    In case you think that Opposite Land is perfect, it isn't. No tax refund for me this year. Instead, a $6,500 tax bill due to how things worked out for me in the divorce settlement...
    Mettamomma Mettamomma 61-65, F 12 Responses 2 days ago

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    Since, childhood i have been waking up at 6am in the mornings :) i have the habit of combing my hair always and looking my self into the mirror, i always saw myself pretty with my...
    shlproy123 shlproy123 26-30, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    ILIASM a year and some change later - chasing whys, and some navel-gazing When the man and I had our first reset after I joined ILIASM, I was all happy and optimistic, saying...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 12 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    A text message I sent my girlfriend ... I think I'm going crazy watching how you are with your phone and your constant need for a connection with the online world, it's an...
    supercat01 supercat01 31-35, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's not that I don't have any sex but it's not as often and as passionate or sexy as I want it to be or have it. It used to be very often and sexy on the first 3 months of...
    memarried memarried 22-25, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    I had mixed feelings with sharing. I decided to go ahead. I can't keep it to myself, I need to discuss with others who are possibly going through the same thing. I first noticed...
    hopefull2014 hopefull2014 26-30, F 19 Responses Mar 24

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    Sophisticated young woman with artistic sympathies seeks the cultured and the cosmopolitan. I am an optimistic, gregarious and chic individual in my twenties who appreciates the...
    mmilena mmilena 22-25, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Sophisticated young woman with artistic sympathies seeks the cultured and the cosmopolitan. I am an optimistic, gregarious and chic individual in my twenties who appreciates the...
    mmilena mmilena 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    I was on holiday last summer with a few of my friends on a girls break. I was seduced by a young spanish guy and on the last night of the holiday I had a 3 sum with him and his...
    debs1978 debs1978 36-40, F 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I want...or would like too save myself for marriage..I say its a dream because I don't know if it could happen...it tough being a teen and with all the temptation around it could...
    DearestDesirable DearestDesirable 16-17, F 1 Response 38 mins ago

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    Sticking to the particular boring basic principles will help you management this football with regard to a lot of the actions and also this will be eventually how groups obtain in...
    fifa14elena fifa14elena 22-25, F Mar 19

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    (Another old story of mine from my previous profile. I feel it's an important topic and it's something that's close to my heart) Gay Marriage I am fully in support of gay...
    PoeticTorture PoeticTorture 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 17

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    Sometimes I can be so boring lol so sorry if I get you bored or something LMAOOOO
    BBCover BBCover 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    Completely boring. Not satisfied with anything. Everything is just so repetitive to the point where my mind is going crazy. Honestly I'm finding it a struggle to be alive everyday...
    Yassmin Yassmin 18-21, F Apr 7

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    So day by day life is getting more boring and depressing . Everyday same thing , nothing new happen instead losing friends everyday make me more sad . I wish I can have a little...
    Johnnystha Johnnystha 26-30, M Mar 21

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    The rubble of our marriage I try not to look I try to change my focus to what else gives me happiness my children my friends my home my community I cannot help...
    Bobbie71 Bobbie71 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 24

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    Make that, that I used to live in a marriage that was becoming a sexless marriage. Today would have been our second anniversary. The story is complicated, but to make it short, she...
    soundtrackforantarctica soundtrackforantarctica 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 25

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    So basically I am a girl who is bisexual and 16 years old. I have known I am bisexual for a long time but only recently have I actually admitted it to myself. Not one person in my...
    tamsin23 tamsin23 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 29

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    I played DSA with some friends 6 hours long. Really awesome but the rest of the day was sooo boring. Without them the day would have been useless.
    joseph1995 joseph1995 18-21, M Apr 5

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    I don't believe in gay marriage. I believe in marriage. And I think that's between any two people that love each other. Man and man. Woman and man. Woman and woman. Or whatever you...
    emilyv97 emilyv97 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I feel like I am really boring as most of my friends are forever swapping boyfriends and have boys dropping at their feet. They always have texts coming through and getting their...
    hannsmithh hannsmithh 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Venting again... I always wondered about the Madonna-***** complex and… here it is… seems like my husband is one of them. I needed some weeks to think about it after he told...
    dalessa dalessa 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 17

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    I am married for only a few months now and my husband is drinking everyday and smokes weed. I knew he had this habit but never knew it was this bad. He spends a lot of money on his...
    ilhasol ilhasol 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Rules of Engagement - A few new members have posted in this forum recently, and while I've only been a member for few weeks, I thought I'd share my opinion on the purpose of this...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 15 Responses Mar 20

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    Two weeks ago, I shared what I thought would be my current status for awhile. Life being what it is - it has thrown me into a crazy roller coaster loop once again. The good news...
    lightblueeyes lightblueeyes 46-50, F 21 Responses Mar 28

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    So yesterday we saw a marriage councillor. We haddn't been for a few years since before the kids came along. I was really hoping that she was going to be able to help my husband...
    Germanovna Germanovna 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    Why does the act of making a legal contract between a man and a woman make us such deceivers in our relationships beforehand? Is it because we think no one will marry us if we are...
    Phat4Ever Phat4Ever 41-45, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Well where do I start? It didn't used to be a bad marriage when we got married 13 years ago in 2001, I was 25 and she was 24. In fact it was a very good marriage, I loved her and...
    HPeterson HPeterson 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses a week ago