I Have a Boyfriend But Want Someone Else

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    I love my boyfriend and he treats me well

    but I don't know if we are the potential future newlywed compatible couple. Yet, I'm 24 this year and I met this 37 year old and idk why but he gives me a feeling of security. We don't show each other affection but when we talk, it feels fairy comfortable. Yesterday, I even had...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 11, 2015

    I love my boyfriend so much,

    but I don't know what is happening. He moved to another city and I started to feel really lonely... So, I started classes in another city (not the same as bf) and I met a really great guy. We flirted a little (too much) and... you know, we had a little history together. But I...
    DreamyMermaid DreamyMermaid
    1 Response May 3, 2015

    Alright, so I've been dating the same guy

    for about 5 years (since 8th grade) and now we're both starting college. We've always been really close friends but recently I think we've grown apart. We haven't hung out or gone on a date or cuddled or kissed or anything in what seems like a very long time. I don't think he...
    taytaybumblebee taytaybumblebee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2014

    I Don'T Know What This Is...

    I have a boyfriend who I live with and have been together with for 1 1/2 years. I thought I could really marry this guy but then I got raped. He blamed me for it and couldn't touch me for weeks and told me how angry he was at me. It hurt. I really needed support. I met this guy...
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2013


    So I have the boyfriend of my dreams. But now that I have him it seems like I don't want him as bad as I thought. And it feels like as soon as we started dating so many guys now want me like what the hell.
    TheGirlUnheard TheGirlUnheard
    Jul 21, 2012

    The Pleasure Of Intimacy

    I have a boyfriend who is several years younger to me. I enjoy his company, intimacy and touch but I long for someone else beneath. What do I do? Is this due to the age difference? Am I looking for some one for a secured life? Am I scared of losing him?
    Rochellee Rochellee
    Mar 28, 2012

    What Am I Doing?

    Ive been in love with my boyfriend for almost 3 years, and everything has been so beautiful, i very moody and bipolar, but he loves me the way i am, still, we like to hang out with other people too, but one day we met some friends of a friend he has, and i kinda clicked with this...
    MarianaIvon MarianaIvon
    Feb 18, 2012

    Don't Know What To Do?

    OK! so i've been with my boyfriend for almost three years!,,,he's older than me; hes a really nice guy and i care for him alot...he has kids (3) always drama with the mother of the kids... he's always mad over something which is supper annoying ad i don't know how i am putting up...
    confusedddD01 confusedddD01
    Jun 28, 2011

    Extremely Confused

    Ok, I been dating my current boyfriend for 5 years. We recently graduated high school. I am now getting ready to start school in the fall. My boyfriend was suppose to go to the Army but, I think will wait a few months before enlisting. I think he is trying to get a local job. I...
    Navybabii Navybabii
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 26, 2011

    The Love Is Gone ,,,,for Him That Is!!

    I've been with my bf for over 7 years now and i guess i care for him but cant stand him at the same time (if that makes sense)  I am not in love with him anymore i haven't been for quite some time he has caused me lots of pain emotionally and does not excite me at all any more...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 8, 2011

    So Unhappy That I Want Someone Else

    I've been unhappy in my relationship for some time now and probably the main reason we're still together is because we live together, which makes breaking up so much harder. I love him so much as a person that breaking up would be devastating right now. We're working on things...
    Sunburst Sunburst
    Jan 22, 2011

    Fell In Love With A Stranger

    So for the past month or so, I've been in this one chat room. It's for a very awesome webcomic, but for reasons of privacy, I am not going to say which one. (If webcomics are you're thing, feel free to ask me about it with a private message.) There's this amazing guy who...
    Ihavehopeagain Ihavehopeagain
    18-21, F
    Feb 28, 2010

    My Best Friend...

    I have been dating this guy for 2 years and he has taken care of me and my 2 year old little boy the whole time. But it has gotten to the point where i just dont want his affection because he only gives it to me when he is not on his x-box..... thats the short version of that. I...
    yoshi138 yoshi138
    18-21, F
    Dec 18, 2009


    I recently divorced a few months ago. Prior to the divorce, we had been living apart for many years. He dated, I dated. In the time we were separated. I met a great guy and we've been dating 3 years. I know at one point I was in love with him but now I'm not too sure that I...
    tornbtwn2 tornbtwn2
    Oct 18, 2009

    I Love Him But Im Not In Love With Him

    hi im katie..   i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a few months ... i mean he is such a lovely guy hes cute , he takes care of me, my friends like him my family like him..he sounds like the perfect guy .. so why do i so badly want someone else????? please...
    alexa118 alexa118
    1 Response Jun 20, 2009

    Oh Boy What a Mess This Can Be

     I have been involved in this situation more than once.I have always loved the same guy but none of m boyfriends could ever fill his footsteps.Maybe that is why they all ended badly.....
    blackcat blackcat
    22-25, F
    Dec 8, 2007

    There's a Difference Between "Being In Love" and "Loving So"

    I'm serious about that. In a nice german movie it was explained like "loving someone" is chronic. And "being in love" is like ... only happening now. It's not like I don't love my boyfriend. I think I love him. But I'm not in love with him. He doesn't give me...
    GothGrrrl GothGrrrl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2007

    When and Who to Choose?

    I've been with my boyfriend,,,we'll call him jimmi for almost 7 months and I love him and I know he his in love with me. I recently started a job as a tele-marketer and made a friend there,,,we'll call him damien. There was sexual tension from the beginning but being who I...
    whatshouldcant whatshouldcant
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 26, 2007
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