I Have a Boyfriend In Jail

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    I'm so irritated right now.

    I just talked to my boyfriend that is in jail. And Ive been waiting, and staying by his side through this "rough" time for him, but the whole time he just talked about how he had friends and how he was watching tv, and how it wasn't so bad. Like he was actually excited to be...
    lovingyoufromadistance lovingyoufromadistance
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 17, 2014

    The waiting game... waiting

    for the jail to call so I can finely get phone calls from my boo! So much has been going on in that last week since his been gone... I just cant wait to talk to him... Really miss him & just need him back home!! :(
    LillyJean13 LillyJean13
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2014

    I Need Help...

    Well, My daughters dad and I were together for 2 years. We split in November 2007. Well, in May of this year, we started hanging out, and getting close again. I knew he was going to jail in July for 2 years. But, I am still in-love with him, and he says the same thing about me...
    GurLfromVA GurLfromVA
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 18, 2011

    today is the day! unfortunately I haven't

    anything from him and I'm worried. I hope that everything went the way we wanted it to go. I'm trying to be positive but it's hard when you hear nothing.
    AngelChanel AngelChanel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2014

    Missing My Boyfriend

    successoverme23 successoverme23
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Dec 18, 2011

    I Too, Have a Boyfriend In Jail..

    and it never gets any easier, he has been in a couple times over the coarse of our 5 year relationship and so have i, but not since we had our first son, we now have 2 kids, and one on the way, and he has never been in so much trouble with the law as he has now, when i really...
    RiideOrDiieChiq RiideOrDiieChiq
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 1, 2009

    My Love In Jail

    hii people, i need help, i suffer a lot, i met a guy and we had unbelievable connection we new each other just for 3 weeks, we were already talking about children and serious stuff, anyway, he told me though that he was in jail last year for 1 year and right now on probation, i...
    korol234 korol234
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2013

    So duh, like everyone else on here I want to

    vent. Some advice maybe? idk if i'll take it but... I'll try not to make this painfully long. Quick facts: -He's 21 but in youth authority so not exactly "the big house" -Been there for 90% of his teen years -has 2 strikes -I've been with him a little past a year -Sometime i...
    wondrwoman09 wondrwoman09
    22-25, F
    Jun 11, 2014

    I Don't Think My Boyfriend Knows How Much I Love Him, And I Miss Him So Much.

    I love my boyfriend so much that I'd do anything to see him smile. When he smiles my heart smiles... He means the world to me, but whenever I do get the chance to tell him how I trully feel, the words don't come out right. A few days ago I went to visit him in jail =/ ... I...
    1 Response Aug 14, 2012

    Hi, just after some guidance on how to cope

    with your partner being locked up. Fairly new to this so open to any sort of suggestions that anyone may have. Thanks :)
    Alisha87 Alisha87
    26-30, F
    Sep 24, 2015

    Soooooooooo! Look what month it is !

    !!!! It's April!!!! Wow ! If you would of tile me this back in October I wouldn't of believed you that this say would come. My boyfriend was sentenced to do 6 months in jail. He is due to get out April 15th and I am more than excited ! Like literally! I hope that all my ladies...
    london21 london21
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 2, 2014

    The Third Day

    I dropped my man off at the airport and since that moment my chest has been hollowed out. I am scared for his safety even though I know he is strong. I am scared for our sanity because I know we're both emotionally connected. Does this get easier or will my heart grow heavier...
    nickimagee nickimagee
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 28, 2013

    I freaking miss him..

    . I hate that visits are behind glass and I hate that phone calls are only 15 mins long and he's mad at me so he hasn't called in 2 days ......
    msleesha07 msleesha07
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 28, 2015

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    kerenccaa kerenccaa
    26-30, F
    Dec 15, 2015

    Love A Jail Bird

    I been holding him down for 8 months now. I love him a lot...He makes me feel so secure emotionally and mentally! Although he's in jail, I see the good in him! I know he has good intentions but he was just caught up in the wrong moments...But I love him so much. The poems, the...
    PsHeart PsHeart
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 20, 2013

    my boyfriend is going to do his time finally on

    Dec 29th they come and get him. the judge let him out for Christmas on a personal/GPS so now he has to report back he's looking at 6 month if he's lucky and hires a lawyer or 2-6 years. I'm sad and I feel the loneliness already. we fight everyday and our relationship has been...
    roslyn1990 roslyn1990
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2014

    Everytime the phone rings

    and it says "Unknown number", my heart stops. Getting to hear his voice every night is what gets me through this. I miss him so much, but hearing him laugh reminds me why I'm doing this. I love him and I'll be waiting until he comes back home to me.
    nukeemhigh nukeemhigh
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    kimcc11aa kimcc11aa
    26-30, F
    Jan 19, 2016
    Taterthot Taterthot
    13-15, F
    Jan 20, 2016

    On the 7th of July, parole well be doing a home

    assessment & hopefully a week after My Boo well be Free again!! So I'm hopping his out on the 14th on July!! Fingers Crossed & hope it all works out.. <3
    LillyJean13 LillyJean13
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2014

    I miss my boyfriend so much,

    and I'm losing sleep he's in jail & there sending letters whenever they feel like it, it's getting hard for the both of us
    sharizzle sharizzle
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 23, 2014

    It's been 11days since my boyfriend went to

    jail. This could not have come at a worse time, I could be pregnant. I feel like I'm all alone now. I have no one to talk to, and I think his family is starting to notice. I'm exhausted all the time, my stomach is bloated. I can't be happy, at all. I miss him so much, I got to...
    xoxowilson xoxowilson
    22-25, F
    Apr 26, 2014

    I have been with my boyfriend

    for over a year and he has been dealing with legal issues for over three years. He has told me about everything from the start, It was something he was accused of two weeks after his 18th birthday. He ended up being tried as an adult. This month he was sent away after the three...
    Fkinnon Fkinnon
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2014

    I want my love story told in my own words in my

    own experience you guys might find this interesting or maybe inspiring hopefully you guys will enjoy . It was a hot summer night in July I was in bed on my phone listening to music as my mom taps my shoulder to show me a picture of this handsome guy named Alex and I just couldn...
    sammiialex2230 sammiialex2230
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 11, 2014

    I dont know how mich longer i can keep going.

    hes my life, my soulmate, and now i cant even see or talk to him! this is the worst feeling in the world.. ugh. why does he keep getting in trouble? why cant he be normal. im so lonely and i love him more than life :'(
    madisontullis madisontullis
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 30, 2014

    Happy Days!!!!

    Hey everyone you probably know me by now with my recent stories of how difficult my life has been this past year. Just writing this to encourage people never ever to give up on what you believe in and right now I thank who ever is up there for blessing me with the strength to...
    shadeen shadeen
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 6, 2012

    Best news I have ever heard all day/month!

    !! My boo only got a $200 fine in court today & he "Might" be out in the next 3 days!! find out Friday... Fingers crossed & everything works out.... Come home my baby!! <3
    LillyJean13 LillyJean13
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2014

    one more day! until we find out

    if he is being released. fingers crossed and prayers flowing
    AngelChanel AngelChanel
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 10, 2014

    My boyfriend just got sentenced.

    How do I be there for him without being so emotional. I can tell he is shook up lots on his plate. He wants to blame me for the little things. I know it is stress. How do I be there for him, what can I do?
    some1specialstlaw some1specialstlaw
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Dec 15, 2015

    well my bf trial has come

    and gone.... next year here we come. January is the month he was arrested so it'll be 3 years. it makes me sad because of the loneliness and my want to have him here. maybe I'm crazy for waiting but that's what I'll do. I'll love only him, I know it. I just miss human contact...
    AngelChanel AngelChanel
    22-25, F
    Dec 16, 2014

    Well after 2 months I'm finally going to see my

    boyfriend for visitation for my very first time I know I'm going to get super emotional and well I'm excited to see him...that's all I've ever wanted to do since I found out he got locked up but for reasons I haven't made it possible.
    cloverxx cloverxx
    18-21, F
    Jul 31, 2015

    Well I met this guy. He had a great

    personality. wasnt bad looking but I could tell he didn't have much money. He called me one night. He said he had snacks and wanted to come to my house and watch movies. I thought what the hay come over. Well when he got there he found things that needed done. I couldn't...
    liznicole15 liznicole15
    41-45, F
    Nov 23, 2015

    Well I met the love of my life

    while working as a CO in a male facility. We have been together for 8 months now & I left my job so that I can officially be with him & prepare our home for his release. He is being paroled in August of 2016. My family doesn't approve of our relationship but his family does. I'm...
    toriaalexi toriaalexi
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2015

    I love my boyfriend and miss him

    but his in jail and I'm starting to wonder is this relationship even worth fighting. I put money in his books and he waste it like its his own, all just because he doesn't want to eat the nasty food. I mean, I work hard all day for my money and give him money so he can contact...
    Chaejoorhi Chaejoorhi
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 8, 2014

    So my boyfriend was about to have his last

    court date and then we were gonna be able to find out if he could get early parole. Well he's been under a lot of stress and supposedly heard people say his sister has been talking **** and spreading lies about his charge he was arrested for. Well he lost his temper and called...
    jsquaredluv jsquaredluv
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2014

    OMG I really am going to lose it.

    my boyfriend got work release just went in for booking and blew .06 I think. He is now having to meet with the man in the morning and see if he will still get to do work release or not... **** .. how likely is he going to get it now? I want to throw up.
    some1specialstlaw some1specialstlaw
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2016

    so my bf is out and unfortunately there was no

    time to reconnect or anything. he decided to use his new freedom as a way to be with the people who got him in jail. I was made less of a priority, and I feel used. I'm happy he's out but my feelings are shaky when it comes to being in a relationship...... oh well I hoped for...
    AngelChanel AngelChanel
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 18, 2014

    so he is out but the turn of events is

    that he got married...... not to me, someone random. it's alright tho I feel fine. I wish nothing but the best for him. But the funniest part about it all, he isn't happy, he's drinking more than he ever did before, he calls me every morning (atleast text), he says to me he...
    AngelChanel AngelChanel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 25, 2014

    Well.. I have been with my boyfriend

    for a year now, he's 21 and I'm 17. He's been bailed until 7th November and then he's going to be sentenced to 3 years, I told him I'm going to wait for him, but I also have a daughter and she's 2, he isn't her dad but for the past year of her life he's been a father to her and...
    Earlybird12 Earlybird12
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 28, 2015

    I Miss Him Soooo Much

    Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 5 years and we have a daughter together. He is so wonderful because he claims my son as his own and he adores his daughter and my son so much. Our relationship was very stressful and hard at times but we have gotten throught our...
    LBwifey LBwifey
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Aug 5, 2009
    heyliyaaaaah heyliyaaaaah
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 19, 2014

    here. I am in a similar situation.

    I actually met Joseph online and love him very much . So much in conmon and feel lik
    jemw jemw
    22-25, F
    Jan 19, 2015

    Let me settle a few things,

    my boyfriend is amazing he's not a loser, he's smart as hell, he has common sense. **** what you have to say about him and our relationship. I come here to vent about my feelings not to have people that don't know or understand our relationship down play my boyfriend. I love him...
    xoxowilson xoxowilson
    22-25, F
    May 18, 2014

    Boyfriend In Jail

     okay i recently met my boyfriend and we spent like a few weeks together before he got locked up. I'm starting to fal in love with him but we dont know what kind of time he will be facing an i am scared because i told him i would wait for him but if it is to long i wont know...
    flfinestqueen flfinestqueen
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 6, 2010

    I Miss Him Soo Freaking Much..

    Me and my boyfriend has been together for just over a year now, he's been to jail for 5 weeks and im going crazy, if we're lucky and he gets out on parol he has two months left, if not, he has four months left. we got enganged two weeks ago and we're planning to try for a baby...
    hennyandnat hennyandnat
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2010

    Do any of you ladies know

    when your boyfriend is transferred to a new facility if they are allowed to take along their letters that they have received, books that were bought for them, or photos along with them to the new place they are being sent?
    abernethye abernethye
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2015

    Visitation Day To See My Boyfriend In Jail

    So my boyfriend just started a 10 month sentence in jail. Today I went to visit him and he told me they took the $30 I sent him. They said he owed money from when he went to jail back in 2008. I was so upset, I scrambled to get that paper to send him. It's a shame that u have to...
    1rubyred 1rubyred
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 26, 2012

    so I have great news.

    .....well kinda. there is a possibility my bf will come home soon. depending on the judge of course. I just hope and pray (like I pray every day) that he is home safe and sound. I understand that being j. that place can break a person down, but I try my best to keep his spirits...
    AngelChanel AngelChanel
    22-25, F
    Dec 9, 2014

    im 21 weeks pregnant with our first baby girl

    for both me and him and he just got sentences to 3 more months and im due on february and he might gwt out on january 26-27 or begining of february and were scared he wont be there for our first babys birth and this baby means the world to both of us its are miracle baby gods...
    fairylover719 fairylover719
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2015

    I just dropped my boyfriend off

    for jail tonight. I am trying to be strong! It really sucks! Wow! He was going to call me after he was booked in and I guess he called his mother instead of me because he couldn't remember my number by heart ha-ha dang auto programming in phones now... anyway I probably won't...
    some1specialstlaw some1specialstlaw
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2016

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    kerencc12 kerencc12
    26-30, F
    Dec 18, 2014
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