I Have a Boyfriend In Prison

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    I have been with my boyfriend

    for a year and a half, and he has been in prison for 7 months. We met after he did what he did, and I stood by his side through all of it. It is a struggle to not be together, to be 4 hours apart, to wait 3 days for a letter, to be limited to 3 20 minutes phone calls a week. We...
    Littlefish1125 Littlefish1125
    31-35, F
    1 Response Apr 4, 2016

    I Miss Him.

    I have a boyfriend in a federal prison. We werent together very long when he got sent to prison. He told me he was going long very we got together. When we first met, i tried my hardest not to get emotionally attached, because i knew how our relationship would end up. It...
    That1Gurl That1Gurl
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 27, 2009

    My boyfriend gets out in 3680 days .

    Roughly 10 years. I miss him so much, he calls everyday but I want to be able to touch him, and access him whenever I want. I'm so depressed and lonely over this. 😞
    Wheremylightis Wheremylightis
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2015

    Never Thought I'd Meet The Love Of My Life While He Was Locked Up!

    My boyfriend was on work release while in prison when we met 9 months ago.  He was on the side of the road holding a sign for construction going on on the road.  I thought he was pretty hot, so one day I stopped and gave him my number.  I was confused that he...
    lovefatekisses lovefatekisses
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 26, 2010

    Anybody else get really anxious trying to decide

    if you want to go to a movie theatre?? I always get worried I'm either going to miss a call from my boo or miss 15 mins of a movie I paid for....lol #prisonloveproblems :P
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 4, 2014

    So stressed out he called

    and gave some bad news today as if I wasn't already stressed with my grandmother being sick I try my hardest to stay strong for him but I feel like im at my breaking point :(
    bb1017 bb1017
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 1, 2015

    I don't know how people go out of their way to

    be in this situation I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy . I love my baby I truly do but if I knew it was going to be like this I would have left when he was first sentenced .
    hcm826 hcm826
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 23, 2015

    had a good talk w my hubby today I love

    that man to death he is my rock n my other half wouldn't trade him for the world...gnite to all the prison families out there stay strong keep ur heads up life wasn't made to be easy and this time we have w oir loved ones in jail or prison is just a obsticle that we were made to...
    hisriderforlife hisriderforlife
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 6, 2016

    What People Say

    I never thought I would fall in love like this, that someone that is not next to me can still keep me loving them the way I love my boyfriend. He has been gone for almost 2 years now and he has 5 to go, my family doesn't really know the situation because I don't want them to...
    jaypacheco jaypacheco
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Mar 31, 2013

    Today is our 2 year anniversary!

    More sweet than bitter. I wouldn't trade him for the world and the only thing that sucks is I can't spend today with him :( However. This month is his TPM month! :) First the parole board said he'd get a decision before the 31st...then they said they are behind, so his file will...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2015

    526 days to go. Every night gets longer.

    I can't sleep without him by my side. Giving up is not an option. He was suppose to call tonight and didn't. I can't help but worry. If only I could call him or see for myself he is okay. I never thought I'd find love like this and here he was under my nose the whole time. My...
    jenos10 jenos10
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 26, 2015

    So the date is set November 28th 2015 me

    and my man are tying the knot! So proud of my man and the fact earlier he thanked me for standing by him, as I said to him he didn't need to thank me, ill stand by him no matter what! I just wanna say thankyou to all you ladies who have been supporting me through this, dont know...
    emjhx emjhx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 31, 2014

    Hi, my name is Joselynn.

    My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years going on 3 in July . He was arrested on gun charges in January of this year. He was let out a month later on a bail i paid of $5400.. he was on the ankle for seven months and the day before yesterday he had his sentencing court...
    Jcarranza Jcarranza
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 9, 2014

    Wrote to my man, had a shower,

    done the housework, I'm absolutely exhausted, cant wait to sleep tonight. 6 more sleeps until I can see my baby! Stay strong ladies we can get through this.
    emjhx emjhx
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 2, 2014
    ForYouIWillWait ForYouIWillWait
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2015

    25days 20hours and 59 mins to go Yayyy!

    actually so excited and lucky to have my baby home in time for Christmas! every day has been a massive struggle but I can feel it's going to be so worth it in the end ??
    J41LBIRD93 J41LBIRD93
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 7, 2014

    Well today is the day he gets released I go

    pick him up in a few hours, I'm so nervous, today is the first day for our future together. Can't wait to see his amazing smile, I hope nothing goes wrong today, I feel like I have butterflies. Thank you ladies for helping me each and every day, one day and I pray for the sooner...
    nicolet12 nicolet12
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 30, 2014

    When I read about all you ladies who's man get

    years it makes me feel horrible, my man only got 18 months and comes home in 12 days, just take everything one day at a time, and remember we're all incredibly strong to go through this with them and to stick by there side each nd every day.
    nicolet12 nicolet12
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 18, 2014

    He came home but things don't feel right

    or the same is that normal
    msleesha07 msleesha07
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 19, 2015

    Going Crazy Without My Baby )'':

    My boyfriend has been in prison for 276 days and he has 385 more days to go. We have been together for 658 days and our relationship is starting to struggle because he is always so worried that im going to hurt him and im not, i love this man more than anything in the world, i...
    JamiesGirlForever1 JamiesGirlForever1
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 18, 2013

    This is the first time I have ever had to wait

    for my man. We have a long history between us 5yrs I would say. He's locked up and asked me to wait 15months for him. It's been 2 months now. He calls every chance he gets n writes me all the time. I respect all the girls who WAIT, as this is a struggle! I miss him and look at...
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2015


    My man is in prison and has at the least another year left. It's hard to find people who understand what you are going through. Until you are put in this position you can't understand. No matter what I will stand by my man. It would help to be able to talk to others who are...
    Hisgirlcj Hisgirlcj
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    coryleecc11 coryleecc11
    26-30, F
    Oct 11, 2015

    Id really love to have sex right now.

    Only problem the man I most would love to be with is in prison for the next 10-19 years.. I miss him so much
    Sabr3na Sabr3na
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Mar 24, 2015

    My boyfriend just got transferred to the prison

    he is going to be staying at does anybody know how I can find him PLEASE HELP!! Like a website I can search or a number I can call. HELP!!
    patientlywaiting017 patientlywaiting017
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2015

    Is there anyone whose boyfriend is also in

    prison and wants to share feelings about it regularly? I feel really alone since non of my friends and family really understand what I'm going through..
    sproetje sproetje
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 5, 2016

    Boyfriend In Prison... Hard But Not Impossible

    I started going out with my boyfriend when I was 15 years old and we fell in love and planned a future together. After 2 years of having a wonderful relationship, he was arrested and given a 2-5 year sentence (on october 11, 2009). He was in custody at the county jail and...
    reallyinlove reallyinlove
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 11, 2010

    Distance is to love what wind is to fire.

    It extinguishes the week and feeds the strong.. I love my inmate.
    skipper596 skipper596
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 7, 2015

    So frustrated haven't seen him in over 2 weeks

    he didn't call me today. I miss him so much. Maybe I should just go see him tomorrow even tho he told me not to visit on Tuesday ugh
    msleesha07 msleesha07
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 11, 2014

    Going on day 3 of not hearing from my boyfriend.

    He never goes a day without contacting me. I hate not knowing what's going on...watching the phone like a hawk :(
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 4, 2014

    Looks like he's going right

    before valentines day. **** everything. He doesn't deserve to go because some ***** lied to get back at him for turning her down and going after me. Sometimes I feel like its my fault. If it wasn't for me she never would have pushed this so far. I just don't understand why the...
    starlight720609 starlight720609
    22-25, F
    Jan 6, 2014

    My Incarcerated Bf

    Hi... So here goes. Last year. I met the sweetest guy on line. We talked a couple months before we met in person. Then after we met i realized how special he was. How much we clicked. How we really had feelings fur each other. Then a few months after that.... He had to go...
    strawberry6979 strawberry6979
    46-50, F
    6 Responses May 16, 2013

    Really missing the one I love

    and he has at least another 18 months left anyone else in same or similar position?
    allyluvsryan allyluvsryan
    26-30, F
    Oct 11, 2015
    WyoDoug WyoDoug
    51-55, M
    1 Response May 30, 2015

    I just broke up with josh on Valentine's day he

    called at 4 am cause he was transferred to another jail. he sent a friend of our that he was in jail with to tell me that "he didn't think it was gonna work" that's nice also he never asks how I'm doing or hour the baby is doing she's three . he only calls and write me and his...
    roslyn1990 roslyn1990
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 4, 2015

    This month feels like the longest month of all

    :( first Christmas apart and even though it's just a day - it's the day you should be with your loved one instead of being apart and feeling like your heart has broken all over again!
    rubyflower4 rubyflower4
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2014

    I receive a letter every week from my love.

    He thinks I will leave him, but I chose to stay by his side through thick and thin and I can't wait to write him about it. =)
    Asil1990 Asil1990
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 27, 2014

    My B/f In Prison

    My boyfriend is in prison for stealing a car.  He will be out in about 10 months but all of this is so new.  I'm so lost.  He is always telling me things I simply don't understand like "being in the hole", "the politics of prison", and "I'm...
    softharted1 softharted1
    4 Responses Sep 6, 2008

    My Boyfriend Is In Prison Again Help:(

    Im sorry this is going to be so long, i just feel as though maybe if i can share my experience maybe someone can help me. So it all started when i was about 13 years old (about 3 years ago), i know how stupid i was but please dont judge me, i started to talk to someone on...
    lauren110 lauren110
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2013

    Still Standing

    Hey well my boyfriend and I met when I was 18 and he was 21 we were together for a year and a half and then he was arrested and charged with  drug distribution and he is in federal prison in VA now but he has moved a few times through the years, He was given 22 years. 10...
    SugaHill SugaHill
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 31, 2010

    Today makes 1 year completed of my boyfriend's

    sentence. I am still just as sure of my decision to stick by him through it all as I was on day one, if not more! Our relationship couldn't be better, despite the situation. He really is my best friend. It has been so tough but I believe so worth it. Prayer and faith has moved...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2014

    What are y'all's thoughts

    and experiences in dealing with the department of corrections? Sometimes my boyfriend gives me a number to call to ask a question or explain a problem and it sends my anxiety through the roof! People working for the department of corrections are so mean. I've been hung up on...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Nov 10, 2014

    16+5=21 Ill Be Here Love.

    Okay I'm 16 and my boyfriends 17. Recently he was sentenced to 5 years in jail or maby 4 for good behavior. He has been in jail for 7 months ... Now he is getting moved to prison so many questions pop in my head...will he forget me? will he change and be boring? not the...
    sisigrl1 sisigrl1
    5 Responses Jul 20, 2009

    Hi guys so my boyfriend was just transferred to

    his "home prison" just yesterday. Do any of you know if he gets to take along books that his family and I have bought him, letters that we have all written to him, or photos that we have sent him to the new prison?
    abernethye abernethye
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2015

    I'm 17 and he's 24. I've been with my boyfriend

    for only 6 months but I've know him for a year, were really close and he means the world to me he's my best friend. I know I'm young but I really do love him. Since he's been on remand for just over a month it's like I've lost a part of me, I've barely spoke to him and I've been...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 7, 2016

    My Knight

    On the 6th July 2012 was the most touching day of my life. I was going through grave depression and shut everyone out until I met Kerry. He changed me, and we soon fell in love. I loved every single moment with him, I did a lot of travelling as he lives about 2 hours away from me...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jun 8, 2013

    How Do I Deal With How Prison's Affecting Him?

    I hadn't known him long before he went away. I promised to stick by him and see him through to the end. He wrote beautiful letters and made me feel like a queen. The letters slowed down shortly after his sentence. He couldn't really think of much to say...
    EuropeanBob EuropeanBob
    2 Responses Mar 25, 2010

    Got my letter from my baby today :) highlight

    of my week other than his call ! Soo ready for the 9th
    bb1017 bb1017
    22-25, F
    May 29, 2015

    For drunk driving and possession of drugs.

    We couldn't afford the bail. I'm not so sure it's a bad thing, either. I am trying to reevaluate my life and make choices I wouldn't make with him here.
    Lay1a Lay1a
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 1, 2014
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