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I Have a Boyfriend In Prison

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    Well today is the day he gets released I go

    pick him up in a few hours, I'm so nervous, today is the first day for our future together. Can't wait to see his amazing smile, I hope nothing goes wrong today, I feel like I have butterflies. Thank you ladies for helping me each and every day, one day and I pray for the sooner...
    nicolet12 nicolet12 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    So frustrated haven't seen him in over 2 weeks

    he didn't call me today. I miss him so much. Maybe I should just go see him tomorrow even tho he told me not to visit on Tuesday ugh
    msleesha07 msleesha07 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    ****He's now my ex boyfriend**** I'm going to

    visit him tomorrow, kinda nervous since I haven't seen him in a good few months. Hopefully it goes ok... I haven't seen him since I split with him
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 16

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    I was a correctional officer

    and I met a man and we fell in love, I know it was wrong, we never had any sexual contact but we talked for long periods of time and shared a lot. People could tell something was going on and turned us in, I resigned my position. I think he loves me and I know I love him but I'm...
    lisamorsley lisamorsley 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    My Incarcerated Bf

    Hi... So here goes. Last year. I met the sweetest guy on line. We talked a couple months before we met in person. Then after we met i realized how special he was. How much we clicked. How we really had feelings fur each other. Then a few months after that.... He had to go...
    strawberry6979 strawberry6979 41-45, F 5 Responses May 16, 2013

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    So the date is set November 28th 2015 me

    and my man are tying the knot! So proud of my man and the fact earlier he thanked me for standing by him, as I said to him he didn't need to thank me, ill stand by him no matter what! I just wanna say thankyou to all you ladies who have been supporting me through this, dont know...
    emjhx emjhx 16-17, F 3 Responses May 31

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    Got to see my Man this weekend.

    Sunday was such a good visit, we laughed and joked was just amazing. i left the visit happy knowing he looked so much better and healthier. Mondays visit was a little hard though, he started speaking about his sentence and the way it could of gone to reduce the years etc and i...
    Insearchofsunrise Insearchofsunrise 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 3

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    Hey ladies i need done advice

    if anyone knows anything about filing a motion 11.42???? I've looked it up but if anyone has any personal experience with it that would be very helpful 😊 thanks girls!
    chrisRN85 chrisRN85 26-30, F Jul 10

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    Looks like he's going right

    before valentines day. **** everything. He doesn't deserve to go because some ***** lied to get back at him for turning her down and going after me. Sometimes I feel like its my fault. If it wasn't for me she never would have pushed this so far. I just don't understand why the...
    starlight720609 starlight720609 18-21, F Jan 6

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    My boyfriend just went in July 3rd.

    He is sentenced to 6 years but hopefully with good time and all that he will get out sooner, I don't really know to much about that. But it's been really hard to cope with him not being here and only being able to talk for 15 minutes at a time and he is in the county jail right...
    chrisRN85 chrisRN85 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Going on day 3 of not hearing from my boyfriend.

    He never goes a day without contacting me. I hate not knowing what's going on...watching the phone like a hawk :(
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 3 Responses Dec 4

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    I receive a letter every week from my love.

    He thinks I will leave him, but I chose to stay by his side through thick and thin and I can't wait to write him about it. =)
    Asil1990 Asil1990 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Support

    My man is in prison and has at the least another year left. It's hard to find people who understand what you are going through. Until you are put in this position you can't understand. No matter what I will stand by my man. It would help to be able to talk to others who are...
    Hisgirlcj Hisgirlcj 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 25, 2013

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    Today makes 1 year completed of my boyfriend's

    sentence. I am still just as sure of my decision to stick by him through it all as I was on day one, if not more! Our relationship couldn't be better, despite the situation. He really is my best friend. It has been so tough but I believe so worth it. Prayer and faith has moved...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 16

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    I had a normal life. Great job.

    Great man. Madly in love. And then some bad stuff happened and before I knew it, my fiancée and I were in deep in the drug game. After only 7 months of Selling and manufacturing meth, We were in over our heads and hopelessly addicted. We got busted. He tried to say it was all...
    mj21312 mj21312 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    I Miss Him.

    I have a boyfriend in a federal prison. We werent together very long when he got sent to prison. He told me he was going long very we got together. When we first met, i tried my hardest not to get emotionally attached, because i knew how our relationship would end up. It...
    That1Gurl That1Gurl 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2009

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    How Do I Deal With How Prison's Affecting Him?

    I hadn't known him long before he went away. I promised to stick by him and see him through to the end. He wrote beautiful letters and made me feel like a queen. The letters slowed down shortly after his sentence. He couldn't really think of much to say...
    EuropeanBob EuropeanBob 41-45 2 Responses Mar 25, 2010

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    Still Standing

    Hey well my boyfriend and I met when I was 18 and he was 21 we were together for a year and a half and then he was arrested and charged with  drug distribution and he is in federal prison in VA now but he has moved a few times through the years, He was given 22 years. 10...
    SugaHill SugaHill 26-30, F 1 Response May 31, 2010

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    What People Say

    I never thought I would fall in love like this, that someone that is not next to me can still keep me loving them the way I love my boyfriend. He has been gone for almost 2 years now and he has 5 to go, my family doesn't really know the situation because I don't want them to...
    jaypacheco jaypacheco 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Boyfriend In Prison... Hard But Not Impossible

    I started going out with my boyfriend when I was 15 years old and we fell in love and planned a future together. After 2 years of having a wonderful relationship, he was arrested and given a 2-5 year sentence (on october 11, 2009). He was in custody at the county jail and...
    reallyinlove reallyinlove 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    Going Crazy Without My Baby )'':

    My boyfriend has been in prison for 276 days and he has 385 more days to go. We have been together for 658 days and our relationship is starting to struggle because he is always so worried that im going to hurt him and im not, i love this man more than anything in the world, i...
    JamiesGirlForever1 JamiesGirlForever1 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    My Knight

    On the 6th July 2012 was the most touching day of my life. I was going through grave depression and shut everyone out until I met Kerry. He changed me, and we soon fell in love. I loved every single moment with him, I did a lot of travelling as he lives about 2 hours away from me...
    MyStory20 MyStory20 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 8, 2013

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    my man just got moved a few days ago to another

    prison. been pretty rough in there. from what he's telling me. it's a messed up place with very crazy guys. I'm worried for him and stay anxious to hear his next call. he's so strong.
    undercovermonroe undercovermonroe 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I love my man!!! See you in 10 sleeps baby

    😊 I love you always and forever. I'm smiling thinking about you and everything we have overcome
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 1

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    What are y'all's thoughts

    and experiences in dealing with the department of corrections? Sometimes my boyfriend gives me a number to call to ask a question or explain a problem and it sends my anxiety through the roof! People working for the department of corrections are so mean. I've been hung up on...
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 10

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    Feeling extremely positive today,

    after my man waking me up by calling, and the conversation we had, finally decided its time to go back on meds, knowing he's going to support me and help me get of them when he's home it makes the thought of being back on them easier!
    emjhx emjhx 16-17, F 1 Response May 31

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    25days 20hours and 59 mins to go Yayyy!

    actually so excited and lucky to have my baby home in time for Christmas! every day has been a massive struggle but I can feel it's going to be so worth it in the end ??
    J41LBIRD93 J41LBIRD93 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 7

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    Hi, my name is Joselynn.

    My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years going on 3 in July . He was arrested on gun charges in January of this year. He was let out a month later on a bail i paid of $5400.. he was on the ankle for seven months and the day before yesterday he had his sentencing court...
    Jcarranza Jcarranza 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 9

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    I joined this site because i have read peoples

    stories similar to mine and i am hoping to find people that can relate to me and give me advice on this. My boyfriend has been sentenced to 5years with 3 parole.only been in there for two months now and its hard sometimes. i get to see him twice a weekend. We used to speak...
    Insearchofsunrise Insearchofsunrise 26-30, F 3 Responses May 28

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    What To Do....

    so the man i have loved for 6 years i found out is in prison, we dated for a while when i was younger we broke up but i NEVER stopped loving him, my heart started pounding the exact same when i heard his voice tonight, i haven't talked to him for 2 1/2 years, i don't know what...
    nalesha2 nalesha2 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 7, 2013

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    Well. Damn I'm lonely.

    Been doing this 29 months now. Probably two more years to go before he makes parole on his ten year sentence. But the first 27 months I was locked up too (codefendants). So it was lonely for me when I got home a month and a half ago. But we were able to talk daily. And he was...
    mj21312 mj21312 36-40, F Jul 7

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    Why is it so hard to stay strong?

    Why do you sit and think about everything you did wrong when your man was home? All the stupid arguments over stupid things. I wish I could have been there more for you, stayed strong for you. Maybe if I'd have done a better job,you'd still be here. Any of you ladies have...
    emjhx emjhx 16-17, F 4 Responses May 24

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    Feeling kinda down today.

    My boyfriend is in lockdown so we aren't getting to talk on the phone. And I miss him. Feeling extra lonely today.
    mj21312 mj21312 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    Never Thought I'd Meet The Love Of My Life While He Was Locked Up!

    My boyfriend was on work release while in prison when we met 9 months ago.  He was on the side of the road holding a sign for construction going on on the road.  I thought he was pretty hot, so one day I stopped and gave him my number.  I was confused that he...
    lovefatekisses lovefatekisses 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 26, 2010

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    Anybody else get really anxious trying to decide

    if you want to go to a movie theatre?? I always get worried I'm either going to miss a call from my boo or miss 15 mins of a movie I paid for....lol #prisonloveproblems :P
    hav2makeit13 hav2makeit13 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 4

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    Dear All My boyfriend was sent to prison 16

    months ago and has 5 weeks left to serve. I don't want to share the charges, they were non violent but quite severe. We had actually broken up a few months before but still lived together and were very close and almost back together. We were working things out. I have stood by...
    Pr0crastin8 Pr0crastin8 31-35, M Dec 10, 2013

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    Hi, Im new to this but wanted to share my

    current experience. Im talking to someone who is in prison. hes been own for 7 of his 12 year sentence. We've only been talking for a few weeks but I knew him before he got locked up. But now that were talking more im caring more. We talk everyday and he says he wants to marry...
    AshleyVwb AshleyVwb 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6

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    Well where do I begin.

    Hector and I (my boyfriend) have been together for about a year now. My last relationship was very unhealthy and so regretful. I lost my 20 year old brother to a shooting and my last horrible relationship all right before I met Hector. Meeting Hector I saw what a man should be...
    mmontal1 mmontal1 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    My B/f In Prison

    My boyfriend is in prison for stealing a car.  He will be out in about 10 months but all of this is so new.  I'm so lost.  He is always telling me things I simply don't understand like "being in the hole", "the politics of prison", and "I'm...
    softharted1 softharted1 41-45 4 Responses Sep 6, 2008

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    For drunk driving and possession of drugs.

    We couldn't afford the bail. I'm not so sure it's a bad thing, either. I am trying to reevaluate my life and make choices I wouldn't make with him here.
    Lay1a Lay1a 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1

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    16+5=21 Ill Be Here Love.

    Okay I'm 16 and my boyfriends 17. Recently he was sentenced to 5 years in jail or maby 4 for good behavior. He has been in jail for 7 months ... Now he is getting moved to prison so many questions pop in my head...will he forget me? will he change and be boring? not the...
    sisigrl1 sisigrl1 16-17 5 Responses Jul 20, 2009

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    When I read about all you ladies who's man get

    years it makes me feel horrible, my man only got 18 months and comes home in 12 days, just take everything one day at a time, and remember we're all incredibly strong to go through this with them and to stick by there side each nd every day.
    nicolet12 nicolet12 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 18

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    I've had such a horrible migraine today,

    been vomiting and everything from it and now I've had an argument with my mum. Things don't seem to get better grrr. I just wanna cuddle my mr now. I wish he was here to tell me everything is going to be fine. To make me feel better. In his arms I always feel safe... I love you...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F May 29

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    Does anyone else think

    that this makes me weird haha, my man said I was weird for it-.- he was joking but still... Since he's been gone I havent slept in our bedroom I always sleep on the sofa.. I feel safer no idea why, but I physically cannot sleep in our bedroom, think its paranoia.. but it is...
    emjhx emjhx 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    My Boyfriend Is In Prison Again Help:(

    Im sorry this is going to be so long, i just feel as though maybe if i can share my experience maybe someone can help me. So it all started when i was about 13 years old (about 3 years ago), i know how stupid i was but please dont judge me, i started to talk to someone on...
    lauren110 lauren110 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    So I've known my current boyfriend

    since he was 8 yrs old. He has been one of my best friends for the past 10 yrs. He is currently doin 4 of an 8 yr sentence. We reconnected 6 months ago and at times I feel crazy for signing up for this. None of my friends understand our connection and they think it's weird. I'm...
    Flyitaliano Flyitaliano 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 13

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    Wrote to my man, had a shower,

    done the housework, I'm absolutely exhausted, cant wait to sleep tonight. 6 more sleeps until I can see my baby! Stay strong ladies we can get through this.
    emjhx emjhx 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 2

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    Related Experiences

    my boyfriend always find his self doing stupid things to get his self in trouble & I don't feel like I'm strong enough to lose him to prison ????.
    gotallthequestions gotallthequestions 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    does anyone know of any dirty things i can say to my boyfriend over the phone im horrible at phone sex or w.e idk what to say lol what are some of the things you's say to your men...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    it seems like forever I've always wanted my boyfriend and wow I finally get the chance . it's been along 10 years but the first time I laid my eyes on him I knew I wanted to marry...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F Nov 30

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    I hope I get to hear his voice tomorrow haven't talked to him in 4 days I hope he don't get in anymore trouble I don't want to go threw this again not talking to him is the worst I...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 30

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