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I Have a Boyfriend In the Army

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    So just yesterday my boyfriend left

    for army basic training, for 7 weeks, and has just arrived to base camp which is where we had to say good bye in text till the next time we get to talk, (which we have no idea when that will be) I'm completely lost & I don't know what to do or feel, he says he doesn't think the...
    tayrichx tayrichx 18-21, F Oct 28

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    My boyfriend just got back yesterday from basic

    training for winter solstice for a couple weeks. I am so happy! Seeing him for the first time in months was crazy. He is just the same as before he left :P although he did lose weight and gained some nice muscles XD. Hugging him and having him so close to me was both perfect and...
    Mollyvdb Mollyvdb 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Yet Another Girlfriend Of A Squaddie

    Ok so from reading around this site, it seems we tend to all gather here lol :) Well i met my guy online funnily enough, my friend who is in the army, tired of hearing how i yet again went out with an idiot, made me go on one of the forces chat sites. Now being a female obviously...
    techgeekgirl techgeekgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Army Boyfriend X

    I'm 14 yrs old n i have an army boyfriend i have only just got with him but i new that he was in the army but i didn't think bout the risks of me losing him so fast he is due to go back to Afghanistan in august so i am gonna spend as much time with him as i can until he goes...
    mornam mornam 13-15 2 Responses Jan 2, 2011

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    Answers Please.

    My boyfriend is in infantry. He just got home from basic training, we were talking about things and some how the military ball came up, do they still have military balls? If so when are they? Thanks for your input.
    happyasaclam18 happyasaclam18 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    Its So Painful

    My boyfriend is currently in Georgia training to leave for Iraq in about a month. We've been dating for a month but this is the real thing. I'm very new to all this stuff of being alone without him but I know i can do it. I just wish I had someone to talk to...
    brittshannon92 brittshannon92 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    Going Insane

    OK so being on here has really helped, but i have been waiting for his msg now nearly 48 hours, normally this wouldn't be expected it could be weeks, but i wish i had not known he was going out on an op, cause now all i can think is something has happened, and me sitting here on...
    techgeekgirl techgeekgirl 26-30, F Dec 1, 2012

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    My fiancé gets back home from duty in 20

    minutes! Right in time for EXTREME RULES!!!
    drafrombrooklyn drafrombrooklyn 22-25, F May 4

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    Almost 5 Days And A Wake Up To Go

    Hello, My name is Kandas and my boyfriend left for Ft. Jackson BCT July 30th. That was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. I just didn't want to let him go and sitting here thinking about that day brings me to tears. I miss my H-word so, much and I can't wait to...
    Kandaslr91 Kandaslr91 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    My Boyfriend Is In The Army And I Can't Contact Him

    My boyfriend got conscripted into the army in his home country a few months ago. No-one around me seems to undestand what it's been like. Before this happened he used to talk to me about his fears that this could happen. He would tell me how in his country they don't let you...
    michelle11111 michelle11111 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2009

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    Ok!

    ok girls!! i finally posted two pictures of my trip...ill be posting more later on. enjoy :)
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F Sep 24, 2012

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    Haven'T Been On Here For A While

    It's been like five months I think. But I just wanted to update all the girls I became so close to through this website of what's been going on the past few months. Unfortunately, me and the guy I was dating and became soooooo in love with and entranced with broke up with me two...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F Mar 14

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    DomBunche DomBunche 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    How Long Should I Wait?

    Me and my boyfriend, who is a Marine, have been dating for 8 months. We haven't spoken for 4 months. Last time we talked we were laughing, joking around, just being ourselves. Last thing I heard about him was from his friend, who said he was crossed over into doing government...
    jlbrown19 jlbrown19 18-21 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Less Than A Month To Go.

    I miss his hugs I miss his kisses I miss cuddling all night I miss the I'm bored come over texts I miss the constant contact I miss getting drunk together I miss the way he smells I miss just looking into his eyes I miss his laugh I miss him just reaching over and holding my...
    happyasaclam18 happyasaclam18 18-21, F Sep 23, 2013

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    Okay, So The Guy I'M Seeing Is In The Army,

    hes not offically my boyfriend, but pretty much. Anyway, i wanted to find something on here that i could talk to people in the same position, or more deeply involved in a more serious situation. He recently left for school 5 hours away, and i miss him a lot. But most of my...
    AnthoneesMommy AnthoneesMommy 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    My boyfriend and I met a week ago today

    when I was in Florida visiting family. When my sister in law introduced me to him I knew that he was going into the army and leaving for boot camp in a week. Well you can't help who you fall for and now here I am. Some say I'm crazy but what I'm doing feels right. They question...
    dawnieeb dawnieeb 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    ashleydawn90 ashleydawn90 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2009

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    Update

    Hey girls! So I'm here at the Atlanta GA airport ready to go back home. It was an amazing four days with him. I have a knot in my throat and everything seems vague to me at this point but the memories I made these past few days will last me a life time. It was extremely awkward...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    The Beginnings Of An "army Girlfriend Lifestyle":)

    It was one of those times, as girls sometimes we feel like we will never find the right guy. "no guy likes me, ill never find someone. Ill day a lonely cat lady". Thats how i felt when i made an account on a silly website, most of the time its all hook-ups, and i wasnt interested...
    youngproudbrave youngproudbrave 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    I'm Almost Positive Someone Knows Exactly What I Mean.. & I Thank God For You

    I'm not sure why i let myself do this so often. especially when i'm pretty sure of what happens. right before i go to sleep, i do nothing but lay there and look at pictures of us. I read our texts from when you were here. I watch videos we made being silly together. even ones i...
    Chaylani Chaylani 18-21 2 Responses Aug 9, 2011

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    I Dont Know How to React

    My boyfriend and i sarted dating june 21st.. on july 29th he signed the dotted line and is now leaving for 6 months of boot camp.. and training.. i know its only for the better and is going to help us get a good start inlife but i dont know how to react when he is driving off.. i...
    ericsgirl621 ericsgirl621 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    does anyone know of any dirty things i can say to my boyfriend over the phone im horrible at phone sex or w.e idk what to say lol what are some of the things you's say to your men...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    my boyfriend always find his self doing stupid things to get his self in trouble & I don't feel like I'm strong enough to lose him to prison ????.
    gotallthequestions gotallthequestions 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 28

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    it seems like forever I've always wanted my boyfriend and wow I finally get the chance . it's been along 10 years but the first time I laid my eyes on him I knew I wanted to marry...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F Nov 30

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    I hope I get to hear his voice tomorrow haven't talked to him in 4 days I hope he don't get in anymore trouble I don't want to go threw this again not talking to him is the worst I...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    i miss my baby so much ugh i cant wait till he calls me again i hate that hes in jailll this is horrible
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 26

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    so sad my baby hasnt called me today i know he ran out of minutes on the phone lastnight and was going to put them on it today does anyone know how long it usually takes for that...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 27

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    I know this group is for girls who have boyfriends that are in the army. My situation is a little different, I'm in the army and I leave for basic training in July, then I go...
    healthyvibes healthyvibes 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    Hello I'm 16 and I've never dated before. I had a crush on this guy I'm 7th grade and I'm not over him. Anyways I feel left out all of my friends say they have boyfriend and I just...
    NamzyZizi NamzyZizi 16-17, F Dec 1

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    Any ladies have boyfriends that just went to Pensacola for A School?
    LindseyMonet LindseyMonet 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 14

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    Hey i have no life I never graduated, never had a prom, never had some cute love story happen in my life, even though i have my true love... we never had a nice cute story though...
    beckybecks224 beckybecks224 16-17, F 8 hrs ago

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    Lately, I've been testing the waters for if my boyfriend is ready for commitment or not. We've been together two years, and I can't explain why I feel that he's the one. We've been...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin 18-21, F 2 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend Noah. Is the most amazing person on earth.
    jimmybank jimmybank 16-17, M 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    i love my boyfriend. his name is harry. and he is the most important person on earth (well to me anyways)
    noahfaith noahfaith 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend is so sweet for Christmas he got me a 5system music box it has a radio record player, aux cord, tape deck, and CD player he's so awesome
    bizzaregirl bizzaregirl 18-21, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My boyfriend, he hasn't exactly left for the army yet, but he is sworn in and there's only seven months until he leaves for Basic Training. And we're counting the months at the...
    MickeyLeen MickeyLeen 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 6

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    Hi guys, I'm 17 gay guy from asia especially Indonesia, I'm a geminian, n I'm a singer .. I wanna find someone to love, someone to share bout my life, if you wanna know me further...
    donnirj donnirj 16-17, M 23 mins ago

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    I have spent the past couple of years in an emotionally abusive relationship. My ex boyfriend had problems with alcohol and would use it as an excuse to accuse me of cheating on...
    amie1986 amie1986 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    i want to have one too! :*
    basyirjustice basyirjustice 13-15, M 28 mins ago

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    My boyfriend left for Fort Leonard Wood mid October, I miss him so much we've been together almost 4 years. Is there any other girl going through the same thing? I'd love to talk...
    AWBear0108 AWBear0108 18-21 3 Responses Dec 1

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    legally able to kill and says its fighting for ur ppl. ppl do tht on their own its called gangs or killers. gangs should jion army. id join army so legal kills or so id be killed...
    matrixwolf matrixwolf 16-17, M 9 hrs ago

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    I think suicidal ppl like me should be able to get jobs in army as suicide bombers the enemy cpuntrys have em so ours should be able to like if I was in our army n my ppl were...
    matrixwolf matrixwolf 16-17, M 9 hrs ago

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    12 days! In twelve days I will get to spend two weeks with my amazing boyfriend who is currently in basic training. He has off for Christmas and I couldn't be more excited!
    DestineeSmiles DestineeSmiles 18-21, F 6 Responses Dec 8

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    A girl that my boyfriend and I used to go to school with, just asked me for his mailing address... I would be lying if I said I didn't get a tad bit jealous. but instead of being...
    DestineeSmiles DestineeSmiles 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 8

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    My boyfriend has been to Kapooka, marched out, been to Singleton, and marched out, and has now been posted to 3RAR in Townsville. Everything just got so much harder. He isn't even...
    ashtucky ashtucky 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'll be completely honest. I hate my job. It is not a worthwhile career. it squanders talent. It plugs unqualified people into many jobs and acts like it's system of job placement...
    shyslh shyslh 22-25, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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