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I Have a Boyfriend In the Army

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    Okay, So The Guy I'M Seeing Is In The Army,

    hes not offically my boyfriend, but pretty much. Anyway, i wanted to find something on here that i could talk to people in the same position, or more deeply involved in a more serious situation. He recently left for school 5 hours away, and i miss him a lot. But most of my...
    AnthoneesMommy AnthoneesMommy 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    How Long Should I Wait?

    Me and my boyfriend, who is a Marine, have been dating for 8 months. We haven't spoken for 4 months. Last time we talked we were laughing, joking around, just being ourselves. Last thing I heard about him was from his friend, who said he was crossed over into doing government...
    jlbrown19 jlbrown19 18-21 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    My boyfriend just got back yesterday from basic

    training for winter solstice for a couple weeks. I am so happy! Seeing him for the first time in months was crazy. He is just the same as before he left :P although he did lose weight and gained some nice muscles XD. Hugging him and having him so close to me was both perfect and...
    Mollyvdb Mollyvdb 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 20, 2014

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    I'm Almost Positive Someone Knows Exactly What I Mean.. & I Thank God For You

    I'm not sure why i let myself do this so often. especially when i'm pretty sure of what happens. right before i go to sleep, i do nothing but lay there and look at pictures of us. I read our texts from when you were here. I watch videos we made being silly together. even ones i...
    Chaylani Chaylani 18-21 2 Responses Aug 9, 2011

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    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F Mar 14, 2014

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    Ok!

    ok girls!! i finally posted two pictures of my trip...ill be posting more later on. enjoy :)
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F Sep 24, 2012

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    Haven'T Been On Here For A While

    It's been like five months I think. But I just wanted to update all the girls I became so close to through this website of what's been going on the past few months. Unfortunately, me and the guy I was dating and became soooooo in love with and entranced with broke up with me two...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    Its So Painful

    My boyfriend is currently in Georgia training to leave for Iraq in about a month. We've been dating for a month but this is the real thing. I'm very new to all this stuff of being alone without him but I know i can do it. I just wish I had someone to talk to...
    brittshannon92 brittshannon92 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    Army Boyfriend X

    I'm 14 yrs old n i have an army boyfriend i have only just got with him but i new that he was in the army but i didn't think bout the risks of me losing him so fast he is due to go back to Afghanistan in august so i am gonna spend as much time with him as i can until he goes...
    mornam mornam 13-15 2 Responses Jan 2, 2011

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    Answers Please.

    My boyfriend is in infantry. He just got home from basic training, we were talking about things and some how the military ball came up, do they still have military balls? If so when are they? Thanks for your input.
    happyasaclam18 happyasaclam18 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Is In The Army And I Can't Contact Him

    My boyfriend got conscripted into the army in his home country a few months ago. No-one around me seems to undestand what it's been like. Before this happened he used to talk to me about his fears that this could happen. He would tell me how in his country they don't let you...
    michelle11111 michelle11111 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2009

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    Yet Another Girlfriend Of A Squaddie

    Ok so from reading around this site, it seems we tend to all gather here lol :) Well i met my guy online funnily enough, my friend who is in the army, tired of hearing how i yet again went out with an idiot, made me go on one of the forces chat sites. Now being a female obviously...
    techgeekgirl techgeekgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    Less Than A Month To Go.

    I miss his hugs I miss his kisses I miss cuddling all night I miss the I'm bored come over texts I miss the constant contact I miss getting drunk together I miss the way he smells I miss just looking into his eyes I miss his laugh I miss him just reaching over and holding my...
    happyasaclam18 happyasaclam18 18-21, F Sep 23, 2013

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    DomBunche DomBunche 18-21, F 1 Response May 12, 2014

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    The Beginnings Of An "army Girlfriend Lifestyle":)

    It was one of those times, as girls sometimes we feel like we will never find the right guy. "no guy likes me, ill never find someone. Ill day a lonely cat lady". Thats how i felt when i made an account on a silly website, most of the time its all hook-ups, and i wasnt interested...
    youngproudbrave youngproudbrave 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    ashleydawn90 ashleydawn90 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2009

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    I Dont Know How to React

    My boyfriend and i sarted dating june 21st.. on july 29th he signed the dotted line and is now leaving for 6 months of boot camp.. and training.. i know its only for the better and is going to help us get a good start inlife but i dont know how to react when he is driving off.. i...
    ericsgirl621 ericsgirl621 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Almost 5 Days And A Wake Up To Go

    Hello, My name is Kandas and my boyfriend left for Ft. Jackson BCT July 30th. That was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. I just didn't want to let him go and sitting here thinking about that day brings me to tears. I miss my H-word so, much and I can't wait to...
    Kandaslr91 Kandaslr91 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    My fiancé gets back home from duty in 20

    minutes! Right in time for EXTREME RULES!!!
    drafrombrooklyn drafrombrooklyn 22-25, F May 4, 2014

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    Update

    Hey girls! So I'm here at the Atlanta GA airport ready to go back home. It was an amazing four days with him. I have a knot in my throat and everything seems vague to me at this point but the memories I made these past few days will last me a life time. It was extremely awkward...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Going Insane

    OK so being on here has really helped, but i have been waiting for his msg now nearly 48 hours, normally this wouldn't be expected it could be weeks, but i wish i had not known he was going out on an op, cause now all i can think is something has happened, and me sitting here on...
    techgeekgirl techgeekgirl 26-30, F Dec 1, 2012

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    So just yesterday my boyfriend left

    for army basic training, for 7 weeks, and has just arrived to base camp which is where we had to say good bye in text till the next time we get to talk, (which we have no idea when that will be) I'm completely lost & I don't know what to do or feel, he says he doesn't think the...
    tayrichx tayrichx 18-21, F Oct 28, 2014

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    My boyfriend and I met a week ago today

    when I was in Florida visiting family. When my sister in law introduced me to him I knew that he was going into the army and leaving for boot camp in a week. Well you can't help who you fall for and now here I am. Some say I'm crazy but what I'm doing feels right. They question...
    dawnieeb dawnieeb 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26, 2014

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    Sometimes my boyfriend just frustrates me and he makes me so mad! Ugh! He knows it bothers me and he just continues!!! WDF
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    I know it is great for a country to celebrate their fallen soldiers but shooooooo am I glad it is over. It triggers the hell out of me and being a 100 year anniversary they led up...
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    My story is long but worth it. Enjoy :)I've been in a relationship with my man for a little over 2 years. A little over a year ago he told me he joined the Army, he also began to...
    Psmurfff Psmurfff 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend is stationed in Germany. Right now he's out in the field, or preparing to be out there. As if being in a different country isn't distance enough. This whole month has...
    VeganSoChic VeganSoChic 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    My best friend for 5 years who just happens to now be my boyfriend of 9 months leaves for basic training in Oklahoma in June & I'm already stressing about missing him. Maybe it's...
    alyssa44 alyssa44 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 6

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    Whos boyfriend is at Fort Benning? My boyfriend will be graduating May 29th!
    Carolinagirl822 Carolinagirl822 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    My boyfriend is in basic training and he graduates in 3 days and I am beyond excited to see him!!! But I don't know if it's because I think to much.... But I'm so scared that he...
    armygirlfriend40 armygirlfriend40 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    so I'm seeing my boyfriend after 3 long months again ! when he came back on leave we only sent 1 month together and he asked me out his last week. I'm so excited yet so nervous to...
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F Apr 6

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    Me and my boyfriend will be together a year in July. He's stationed 6 hours away from me. The distance is hard but I no it's all worth it in the end. He told me a few weeks ago he...
    hks92 hks92 22-25, F Apr 11

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    Starting to do my open when letters for my boyfriend <333
    hks92 hks92 22-25, F Apr 12

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    My boyfriend just got to fort sill for basic and he got to call and told me he would be out of contact for seven to ten days. No calls or letters. Is anyone else's bf at fort sill...
    sammyw242 sammyw242 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16

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    time has come only 2 hours away from seeing my boyfriend! sooo excited!
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 17

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    I just miss my boyfriend so much
    hks92 hks92 22-25, F Apr 18

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    my boyfriend is soon to be leaving for basic. what do should I expect? I'm so worried.
    hannahfarmer hannahfarmer 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    It's only been a month since I lost my father to cancer, and now my mother might have it too, this is all too much, I can't lose her too, I just wish my boyfriend was here, only...
    AshAshyAshley AshAshyAshley 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    ever wake up and as yourself damn why am I so lucky to have this man in my.life ?
    karlathol karlathol 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 11

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    beginning to understand why so many military spouses can't stand the military girlfriends/boyfriends. too much whining about the separation, why haven't they called, there acting...
    Unknown012 Unknown012 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I miss my army man. I'm a proud gf. I've never dated a army man before so this is brand new to me. Every night I text him goodnight even though he is to busy to reply. Because on...
    ALnJEAN ALnJEAN 22-25, F Apr 11

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    I would like to be an army gf. where I'm living now and what I want out of a relationship seem to fit the army life.
    deleted deleted 26-30 a week ago

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    Sending love to all of the other U.S. Army girlfriend out there!! ❤️❤️ About 4 years of dating and still going strong! A little over 2 years for my love in the Army. Have...
    MinsuForever MinsuForever 18-21, F 1 Response