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I Have a Boyfriend In the Army

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    Answers Please.

    My boyfriend is in infantry. He just got home from basic training, we were talking about things and some how the military ball came up, do they still have military balls? If so when are they? Thanks for your input.
    happyasaclam18 happyasaclam18 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    Army Boyfriend X

    I'm 14 yrs old n i have an army boyfriend i have only just got with him but i new that he was in the army but i didn't think bout the risks of me losing him so fast he is due to go back to Afghanistan in august so i am gonna spend as much time with him as i can until he goes...
    mornam mornam 13-15 2 Responses Jan 2, 2011

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    My Boyfriend Is In The Army And I Can't Contact Him

    My boyfriend got conscripted into the army in his home country a few months ago. No-one around me seems to undestand what it's been like. Before this happened he used to talk to me about his fears that this could happen. He would tell me how in his country they don't let you...
    michelle11111 michelle11111 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2009

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    Yet Another Girlfriend Of A Squaddie

    Ok so from reading around this site, it seems we tend to all gather here lol :) Well i met my guy online funnily enough, my friend who is in the army, tired of hearing how i yet again went out with an idiot, made me go on one of the forces chat sites. Now being a female obviously...
    techgeekgirl techgeekgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    The Beginnings Of An "army Girlfriend Lifestyle":)

    It was one of those times, as girls sometimes we feel like we will never find the right guy. "no guy likes me, ill never find someone. Ill day a lonely cat lady". Thats how i felt when i made an account on a silly website, most of the time its all hook-ups, and i wasnt interested...
    youngproudbrave youngproudbrave 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    My fiancé gets back home from duty in 20

    minutes! Right in time for EXTREME RULES!!!
    drafrombrooklyn drafrombrooklyn 22-25, F May 4

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    I Dont Know How to React

    My boyfriend and i sarted dating june 21st.. on july 29th he signed the dotted line and is now leaving for 6 months of boot camp.. and training.. i know its only for the better and is going to help us get a good start inlife but i dont know how to react when he is driving off.. i...
    ericsgirl621 ericsgirl621 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Update

    Hey girls! So I'm here at the Atlanta GA airport ready to go back home. It was an amazing four days with him. I have a knot in my throat and everything seems vague to me at this point but the memories I made these past few days will last me a life time. It was extremely awkward...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Less Than A Month To Go.

    I miss his hugs I miss his kisses I miss cuddling all night I miss the I'm bored come over texts I miss the constant contact I miss getting drunk together I miss the way he smells I miss just looking into his eyes I miss his laugh I miss him just reaching over and holding my...
    happyasaclam18 happyasaclam18 18-21, F Sep 23, 2013

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    Ok!

    ok girls!! i finally posted two pictures of my trip...ill be posting more later on. enjoy :)
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F Sep 24, 2012

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    ashleydawn90 ashleydawn90 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2009

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    Haven'T Been On Here For A While

    It's been like five months I think. But I just wanted to update all the girls I became so close to through this website of what's been going on the past few months. Unfortunately, me and the guy I was dating and became soooooo in love with and entranced with broke up with me two...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    My boyfriend and I met a week ago today

    when I was in Florida visiting family. When my sister in law introduced me to him I knew that he was going into the army and leaving for boot camp in a week. Well you can't help who you fall for and now here I am. Some say I'm crazy but what I'm doing feels right. They question...
    dawnieeb dawnieeb 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    Going Insane

    OK so being on here has really helped, but i have been waiting for his msg now nearly 48 hours, normally this wouldn't be expected it could be weeks, but i wish i had not known he was going out on an op, cause now all i can think is something has happened, and me sitting here on...
    techgeekgirl techgeekgirl 26-30, F Dec 1, 2012

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    DomBunche DomBunche 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    Almost 5 Days And A Wake Up To Go

    Hello, My name is Kandas and my boyfriend left for Ft. Jackson BCT July 30th. That was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. I just didn't want to let him go and sitting here thinking about that day brings me to tears. I miss my H-word so, much and I can't wait to...
    Kandaslr91 Kandaslr91 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    Its So Painful

    My boyfriend is currently in Georgia training to leave for Iraq in about a month. We've been dating for a month but this is the real thing. I'm very new to all this stuff of being alone without him but I know i can do it. I just wish I had someone to talk to...
    brittshannon92 brittshannon92 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    How Long Should I Wait?

    Me and my boyfriend, who is a Marine, have been dating for 8 months. We haven't spoken for 4 months. Last time we talked we were laughing, joking around, just being ourselves. Last thing I heard about him was from his friend, who said he was crossed over into doing government...
    jlbrown19 jlbrown19 18-21 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    Okay, So The Guy I'M Seeing Is In The Army,

    hes not offically my boyfriend, but pretty much. Anyway, i wanted to find something on here that i could talk to people in the same position, or more deeply involved in a more serious situation. He recently left for school 5 hours away, and i miss him a lot. But most of my...
    AnthoneesMommy AnthoneesMommy 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F Mar 14

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    I'm Almost Positive Someone Knows Exactly What I Mean.. & I Thank God For You

    I'm not sure why i let myself do this so often. especially when i'm pretty sure of what happens. right before i go to sleep, i do nothing but lay there and look at pictures of us. I read our texts from when you were here. I watch videos we made being silly together. even ones i...
    Chaylani Chaylani 18-21 2 Responses Aug 9, 2011

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    Hi... My name is Autumn. Me n my boyfriend had been together almost 3 months we had dated wen I was 14 but it was bad timing bc he's 3 years older. So we gave it another shot bck...
    autumn977 autumn977 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    portiafay portiafay 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    It's been two weeks today since my boyfriend left for basic training he graduates in October. It's hard but I've been keeping myself busy doing stuff. I start college soon so that...
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    My ex abused me physically, mentally, and sexually. He would grab my arms so hard he left bruises, and there was one day I remember he tried to crush my head into the seat of his...
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    tanajo5 tanajo5 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    My boyfriend was supposed to get issued his phone today but it looks like they won't get there phones issued at all:(
    macrenatoa macrenatoa 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    My boyfriend went away to bootcamp at fort benning and it just don't get how it all works, how does it work when I go to see him at graduation? Will I get to hangout with him after...
    sherilena sherilena 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    I just want to hear the sound of my boyfriend's voice. Why is this so hard for me? I hope he gets his phone back soon...
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    I JUST GOT A CALL FROM MY BOYFRIEND! It was the hardest thing trying to hold back the tears, but I was overjoyed at the same time. I got a date for graduation and I can finally...
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    I finally got a call from my boyfriend today. Hearing his voice again❤️ how I miss my soldier...... 3 more days!!
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