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I Have a Boyfriend In the Army

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 138 People

    Its So Painful

    My boyfriend is currently in Georgia training to leave for Iraq in about a month. We've been dating for a month but this is the real thing. I'm very new to all this stuff of being alone without him but I know i can do it. I just wish I had someone to talk to...
    brittshannon92 brittshannon92 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    My boyfriend and I met a week ago today

    when I was in Florida visiting family. When my sister in law introduced me to him I knew that he was going into the army and leaving for boot camp in a week. Well you can't help who you fall for and now here I am. Some say I'm crazy but what I'm doing feels right. They question...
    dawnieeb dawnieeb 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F Mar 14

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    My Boyfriend Is In The Army And I Can't Contact Him

    My boyfriend got conscripted into the army in his home country a few months ago. No-one around me seems to undestand what it's been like. Before this happened he used to talk to me about his fears that this could happen. He would tell me how in his country they don't let you...
    michelle11111 michelle11111 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2009

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    Yet Another Girlfriend Of A Squaddie

    Ok so from reading around this site, it seems we tend to all gather here lol :) Well i met my guy online funnily enough, my friend who is in the army, tired of hearing how i yet again went out with an idiot, made me go on one of the forces chat sites. Now being a female obviously...
    techgeekgirl techgeekgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    I'm Almost Positive Someone Knows Exactly What I Mean.. & I Thank God For You

    I'm not sure why i let myself do this so often. especially when i'm pretty sure of what happens. right before i go to sleep, i do nothing but lay there and look at pictures of us. I read our texts from when you were here. I watch videos we made being silly together. even ones i...
    Chaylani Chaylani 18-21 2 Responses Aug 9, 2011

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    The Beginnings Of An "army Girlfriend Lifestyle":)

    It was one of those times, as girls sometimes we feel like we will never find the right guy. "no guy likes me, ill never find someone. Ill day a lonely cat lady". Thats how i felt when i made an account on a silly website, most of the time its all hook-ups, and i wasnt interested...
    youngproudbrave youngproudbrave 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    So just yesterday my boyfriend left

    for army basic training, for 7 weeks, and has just arrived to base camp which is where we had to say good bye in text till the next time we get to talk, (which we have no idea when that will be) I'm completely lost & I don't know what to do or feel, he says he doesn't think the...
    tayrichx tayrichx 18-21, F Oct 28

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    Army Boyfriend X

    I'm 14 yrs old n i have an army boyfriend i have only just got with him but i new that he was in the army but i didn't think bout the risks of me losing him so fast he is due to go back to Afghanistan in august so i am gonna spend as much time with him as i can until he goes...
    mornam mornam 13-15 2 Responses Jan 2, 2011

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    Less Than A Month To Go.

    I miss his hugs I miss his kisses I miss cuddling all night I miss the I'm bored come over texts I miss the constant contact I miss getting drunk together I miss the way he smells I miss just looking into his eyes I miss his laugh I miss him just reaching over and holding my...
    happyasaclam18 happyasaclam18 18-21, F Sep 23, 2013

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    I Dont Know How to React

    My boyfriend and i sarted dating june 21st.. on july 29th he signed the dotted line and is now leaving for 6 months of boot camp.. and training.. i know its only for the better and is going to help us get a good start inlife but i dont know how to react when he is driving off.. i...
    ericsgirl621 ericsgirl621 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Okay, So The Guy I'M Seeing Is In The Army,

    hes not offically my boyfriend, but pretty much. Anyway, i wanted to find something on here that i could talk to people in the same position, or more deeply involved in a more serious situation. He recently left for school 5 hours away, and i miss him a lot. But most of my...
    AnthoneesMommy AnthoneesMommy 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    Haven'T Been On Here For A While

    It's been like five months I think. But I just wanted to update all the girls I became so close to through this website of what's been going on the past few months. Unfortunately, me and the guy I was dating and became soooooo in love with and entranced with broke up with me two...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    How Long Should I Wait?

    Me and my boyfriend, who is a Marine, have been dating for 8 months. We haven't spoken for 4 months. Last time we talked we were laughing, joking around, just being ourselves. Last thing I heard about him was from his friend, who said he was crossed over into doing government...
    jlbrown19 jlbrown19 18-21 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    My fiancé gets back home from duty in 20

    minutes! Right in time for EXTREME RULES!!!
    drafrombrooklyn drafrombrooklyn 22-25, F May 4

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    Update

    Hey girls! So I'm here at the Atlanta GA airport ready to go back home. It was an amazing four days with him. I have a knot in my throat and everything seems vague to me at this point but the memories I made these past few days will last me a life time. It was extremely awkward...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    Ok!

    ok girls!! i finally posted two pictures of my trip...ill be posting more later on. enjoy :)
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F Sep 24, 2012

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    Almost 5 Days And A Wake Up To Go

    Hello, My name is Kandas and my boyfriend left for Ft. Jackson BCT July 30th. That was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. I just didn't want to let him go and sitting here thinking about that day brings me to tears. I miss my H-word so, much and I can't wait to...
    Kandaslr91 Kandaslr91 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    ashleydawn90 ashleydawn90 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2009

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    DomBunche DomBunche 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    Going Insane

    OK so being on here has really helped, but i have been waiting for his msg now nearly 48 hours, normally this wouldn't be expected it could be weeks, but i wish i had not known he was going out on an op, cause now all i can think is something has happened, and me sitting here on...
    techgeekgirl techgeekgirl 26-30, F Dec 1, 2012

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    Answers Please.

    My boyfriend is in infantry. He just got home from basic training, we were talking about things and some how the military ball came up, do they still have military balls? If so when are they? Thanks for your input.
    happyasaclam18 happyasaclam18 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    didnt get that morning call today so i most likely wont hear from him till tonight. its so depressing i miss him so much. all i have are these memories and it kills me to think...
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    Boys are so confusing. The tears just keep rolling. I don't really know what to do at this point... End things and be heartbroken again or keep going and feel like I'm not even in...
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    misssing my jail bird right now sucks how i wont be able to talk to him till the night time thats if he even calls ugh this is so tough i love him so much i hope hes thinking...
    babydollveee babydollveee 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13

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    This is true. I'm a long way from 'home'. Currently caring for my mother. And whilst I know a few people this way, I only 'know' them because they're connected to my mother in some...
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Nov 18

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    I want a boyfrined age 13-15 cuz lyk all my friends have boyfriends n i jus need someone i can talk to easliy so one i know that can tell me they love me for who i am and send me...
    sholad sholad 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 31

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    Most people get happy by meeting someone they love, getting something they want, read a book they like or laughing at jokes etcetera. My mom told me as I was growing up I only...
    windyblue windyblue 18-21, F Nov 6

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    Two years ago i fell in love. At first it was just like some other teen crush i had earlier. And then, one of my really good friends, told me she is in love with him. But she didn...
    MentalnoSjebana MentalnoSjebana 13-15, F Nov 9

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    Do you think I can falling love again. Real love .. And health love. 35. I have wonderful 10 years old son And I am receiving food stamp. I look cute in my age But I don't...
    olsen1004 olsen1004 31-35, F 5 Responses Nov 13

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    I have the most amazing boyfriend/husband. We have been together for 3yrs. And it has been the best 3yrs of my life. i never knew who he was, i only knew what i have heard about...
    garzzza14 garzzza14 18-21, F 4 hrs ago

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    I have a boyfriend who I have been with for 7 months and really is the best ever he's caring , perfect , trust worthy , wears heart on sleeve , thoughtful , handsome . He gives me...
    Jayd97 Jayd97 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    My boyfriend just left for basic at FT. Jackson SC. He told that he would get his phone on the weekends (according to one of his sgt's) and we just got off the phone. He is still...
    bishopegrace bishopegrace 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My boyfriend left for the army around October 14th and is at Fort Benning. I havent been able to find any pictures or information through Facebook, but have looked at several other...
    emilynyquist emilynyquist 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    So my boyfriend and I have been best of friends for the last 7 years and he's now been the love of my life for almost a year. He's been talking about the Army ever since I can...
    ArmyGF2014 ArmyGF2014 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 17

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    My boyfriend is amazing. I love him with all my heart. Before he left for the army he would leave flowers at my house to surprise me, or if I was sick he would make me soup and lay...
    bishopegrace bishopegrace 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    My love is 23 years older than me. We met a few years ago online via AgeMeet.com. It was totally platonic but I broke off contact due to doing other things in my life, I wasn't...
    toylycc11 toylycc11 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Whos boyfriend is at Fort Benning? I think it'd be cool to be friends with others whose boyfriends are at the same place! :D
    neoncupcakes neoncupcakes 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 3

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    My boyfriend left for basic and will then be doing AIT. 6 months is a long time and I won't deny it will suck. I'm glad I found this app though! It will help to talk about it! For...
    lauem3 lauem3 18-21, F Nov 5

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    Hey guys , so me and boyfriend been together for almost 2 months now and he is leaving in January, he said that after his training they can deploy him for about 1year or maybe even...
    Madelinex24 Madelinex24 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 15

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    There have been a few occasions in my life when I learned how s%xual a woman can be to a man... Unfortunately in my case it started with my father. I remember doing gymnastics...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 39 mins ago

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    There have been a few occasions in my life when I learned how s%xual a woman can be to a man... Unfortunately in my case it started with my father. I remember doing gymnastics...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 38 mins ago

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    My first boyfriend ever ruined me. We dated for 2 years and we lived a pretty good distance away but always saw each other and at one point I was staying with him. First, he was...
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    Im 22 years. And im south korean. I did finish ROK Army at Oct first. In the army, i always woke up at 6am And i always did do work at daybreak time. So i think i will wake up...
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    You'd think after 6 years I'd have this whole moving thing down pat by now, it isn't like this is my first go around with this. I'm still trying to get the kids' rooms together and...
    katinbell katinbell 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 30

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    Thursday I found out something extremely exciting yet scary at the same time. I'm pregnant. We're thrilled of course, but I'm really nervous because this is my first and...
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