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I Have a Boyfriend In the Army

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    Almost 5 Days And A Wake Up To Go

    Hello, My name is Kandas and my boyfriend left for Ft. Jackson BCT July 30th. That was the hardest thing I ever had to do in my life. I just didn't want to let him go and sitting here thinking about that day brings me to tears. I miss my H-word so, much and I can't wait to...
    Kandaslr91 Kandaslr91 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2012

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    Haven'T Been On Here For A While

    It's been like five months I think. But I just wanted to update all the girls I became so close to through this website of what's been going on the past few months. Unfortunately, me and the guy I was dating and became soooooo in love with and entranced with broke up with me two...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 13, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Is In The Army And I Can't Contact Him

    My boyfriend got conscripted into the army in his home country a few months ago. No-one around me seems to undestand what it's been like. Before this happened he used to talk to me about his fears that this could happen. He would tell me how in his country they don't let you...
    michelle11111 michelle11111 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2009

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    DomBunche DomBunche 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    My boyfriend and I met a week ago today

    when I was in Florida visiting family. When my sister in law introduced me to him I knew that he was going into the army and leaving for boot camp in a week. Well you can't help who you fall for and now here I am. Some say I'm crazy but what I'm doing feels right. They question...
    dawnieeb dawnieeb 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    Yet Another Girlfriend Of A Squaddie

    Ok so from reading around this site, it seems we tend to all gather here lol :) Well i met my guy online funnily enough, my friend who is in the army, tired of hearing how i yet again went out with an idiot, made me go on one of the forces chat sites. Now being a female obviously...
    techgeekgirl techgeekgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2012

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    How Long Should I Wait?

    Me and my boyfriend, who is a Marine, have been dating for 8 months. We haven't spoken for 4 months. Last time we talked we were laughing, joking around, just being ourselves. Last thing I heard about him was from his friend, who said he was crossed over into doing government...
    jlbrown19 jlbrown19 18-21 1 Response Oct 20, 2013

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    ashleydawn90 ashleydawn90 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 29, 2009

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    ArmyGirlfriendDXB ArmyGirlfriendDXB 18-21, F Mar 14

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    I'm Almost Positive Someone Knows Exactly What I Mean.. & I Thank God For You

    I'm not sure why i let myself do this so often. especially when i'm pretty sure of what happens. right before i go to sleep, i do nothing but lay there and look at pictures of us. I read our texts from when you were here. I watch videos we made being silly together. even ones i...
    Chaylani Chaylani 18-21 2 Responses Aug 9, 2011

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    Okay, So The Guy I'M Seeing Is In The Army,

    hes not offically my boyfriend, but pretty much. Anyway, i wanted to find something on here that i could talk to people in the same position, or more deeply involved in a more serious situation. He recently left for school 5 hours away, and i miss him a lot. But most of my...
    AnthoneesMommy AnthoneesMommy 18-21, F Jan 30, 2013

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    Army Boyfriend X

    I'm 14 yrs old n i have an army boyfriend i have only just got with him but i new that he was in the army but i didn't think bout the risks of me losing him so fast he is due to go back to Afghanistan in august so i am gonna spend as much time with him as i can until he goes...
    mornam mornam 13-15 2 Responses Jan 2, 2011

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    Going Insane

    OK so being on here has really helped, but i have been waiting for his msg now nearly 48 hours, normally this wouldn't be expected it could be weeks, but i wish i had not known he was going out on an op, cause now all i can think is something has happened, and me sitting here on...
    techgeekgirl techgeekgirl 26-30, F Dec 1, 2012

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    The Beginnings Of An "army Girlfriend Lifestyle":)

    It was one of those times, as girls sometimes we feel like we will never find the right guy. "no guy likes me, ill never find someone. Ill day a lonely cat lady". Thats how i felt when i made an account on a silly website, most of the time its all hook-ups, and i wasnt interested...
    youngproudbrave youngproudbrave 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 9, 2012

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    Update

    Hey girls! So I'm here at the Atlanta GA airport ready to go back home. It was an amazing four days with him. I have a knot in my throat and everything seems vague to me at this point but the memories I made these past few days will last me a life time. It was extremely awkward...
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    My fiancé gets back home from duty in 20

    minutes! Right in time for EXTREME RULES!!!
    drafrombrooklyn drafrombrooklyn 18-21, F May 4

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    Answers Please.

    My boyfriend is in infantry. He just got home from basic training, we were talking about things and some how the military ball came up, do they still have military balls? If so when are they? Thanks for your input.
    happyasaclam18 happyasaclam18 18-21, F 4 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    Less Than A Month To Go.

    I miss his hugs I miss his kisses I miss cuddling all night I miss the I'm bored come over texts I miss the constant contact I miss getting drunk together I miss the way he smells I miss just looking into his eyes I miss his laugh I miss him just reaching over and holding my...
    happyasaclam18 happyasaclam18 18-21, F Sep 23, 2013

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    Its So Painful

    My boyfriend is currently in Georgia training to leave for Iraq in about a month. We've been dating for a month but this is the real thing. I'm very new to all this stuff of being alone without him but I know i can do it. I just wish I had someone to talk to...
    brittshannon92 brittshannon92 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 10, 2009

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    Ok!

    ok girls!! i finally posted two pictures of my trip...ill be posting more later on. enjoy :)
    armygirlfriendmeza armygirlfriendmeza 18-21, F Sep 24, 2012

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    I Dont Know How to React

    My boyfriend and i sarted dating june 21st.. on july 29th he signed the dotted line and is now leaving for 6 months of boot camp.. and training.. i know its only for the better and is going to help us get a good start inlife but i dont know how to react when he is driving off.. i...
    ericsgirl621 ericsgirl621 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    My ex boyfriend and I broke up in April. We decided to split as he is going into the army in August and we weren't independent enough so we thought we should break up and build on...
    dmarie1995 dmarie1995 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    My boyfriend went to prison in April I was 8 weeks pregnant when he got arrested it was such a shock, I'm 21 weeks now & obviously have a little fighter in my tummy but I'm...
    kelbels kelbels 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Mia know my boyfriend has to work but he's a supervisor so he is paid salary so why in the world is he going to work at 2am? He says well one of my employees quit on night shift...
    beautiful8307 beautiful8307 31-35, F Jun 26

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    I just met him three days ago but he's so hot and sweet! He makes me smile so much. He says he gets out in 2 months! He's been in there for 4 years. He told me he was put in...
    Crazymotrucker Crazymotrucker 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Please just anyone, I seriously need someone's help, I'm on the verge of doing something bad to myself, I need some help, just someone please!!!!!!!!!!
    BethHawkins BethHawkins 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I suggest he pay rent and be put on the lease... Then he gets angry at me... He's basically living there anyway. He's there everyday and sleeps there every night... He Soo worried...
    Lancelot22 Lancelot22 18-21, F Jul 1

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    Three and a half years left 😥 It's long, but in that time I'll get my life together and get to know him better ❤️
    caitlynr18 caitlynr18 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 5

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    This is so hard! I'm only human... How can I cope still? Wish I knew how to get through this...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    MY BF IS ALYZ QUIET AROUND ME WE SPEND TO MUCH TIME TOGETHER BUT ALL WE DO SMALL TALK N BE SILENT FOR LONG AND AM GETING BORED COZ HE WANT ME TO DO ALL DE TALKING ALL THE TIME AND...
    hlami1 hlami1 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Well today someone who was supposed to be supporting me while going through a similar thing decided to through up what y bf did, all this and being horrible and mean because I said...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Writing this letter is killing me inside, I'm crying. I hope he realises that I need time to sort my head out, to be able to work on myself and he needs to do the same if we are...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I've never been kissed or anything or even have a boyfriend, i dont know!! I might be slightly over weight but i see girls who are fatter and not uglier than me have boyfriends...
    faridak faridak 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    I'm 17, and I am a bubbly, nice girl 😊 I did have a few boyfriends in the past, the last boyfriend was cheating on me and treating my best friend like crap, my confidence is...
    Becca3827 Becca3827 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    im 13 and my mom will not let me have boyfriend i hate that
    tiffanyclark tiffanyclark 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 1

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    guss some day i will have boyfriend
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    i would like to have boyfriend but my mom say have to wait to 17 i hate that
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Today me and "bae" hung out and I came to relieze I really like him. We have couple like tendencies but we aren't like official an "item". Honestly I don't even care about the...
    Prinny4 Prinny4 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Guys just dont seem interested. I mean im not that ugly. Im a bit overweight but there are girls bigger then me that have boyfriends. Guys dont even talk to me much or hamg out...
    olsonn322 olsonn322 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I have tried for many reason.! Where do I start.? My life is horrible.! I have this girl I care about, she is the only one keeping me alive.! Literally, because she said if I...
    LSKxGhost LSKxGhost 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    My boyfriend is 21. We have been dating for a while now. He's my first 'real' boyfriend. I moved in with him about 3 months ago.. I'm finished school and thinking about joining the...
    LovelyJay5232 LovelyJay5232 16-17, F Jul 17

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    My boyfriend and I met online. We started talking and for his birthday I paid for him to visit me. He took a 32 hour bus ride to see me in person for the first time before he left...
    armygirlfriend14 armygirlfriend14 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 15

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    My boyfriend has been in the army for a year and the distance is so hard, as all So's already know. Recently I had seriously considered moving to where my boyfriend is, 6 states...
    AmaneU AmaneU 18-21, F Jul 5

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    My boyfriend in the army like I'm starting to under stand that my boyfriend is there like not making me any happy that I live with his parents I'm 19 he 20 I'm going to be 20 in...
    katlyncody katlyncody 18-21, F Jul 6

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    Hello I don't know or talk to many army girlfriends. But I definitely would like to id would be nice to have people who know how I feel and understand what were going through or...
    lyssaraelou lyssaraelou 26-30, F Jul 3

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    My boyfriend is a West Point grad and we met while he was going through IBOLC. It seemed like I have jumped into the Army life head first. Currently, not only are we long distance...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I have met my boyfriend's god parents when we first started dating and they are so welcoming and warm. However, my boyfriend is in the army and his parents are military as well. I...
    jlhhlj123 jlhhlj123 22-25, F Jul 12

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    So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years (this September). I knew from the very beginning of being with him that he wanted to go in the Military, and even though...
    armylove11 armylove11 22-25, F Jun 28

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    So my boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years (this September). I knew from the very beginning of being with him that he wanted to go in the Military, and even though...
    armylove11 armylove11 22-25, F Jun 28

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