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I Have a Boyfriend In the Navy

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    I miss him so much. He has been gone

    for 3 weeks tomorrow. It sucks not having your boyfriend with you but even worst your best friend.
    kblynn kblynn 18-21, F Aug 7, 2014

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    Should I let go or keep trying.

    .because I've never had PTSD so I don't know what's going on in his head or if he'll want me back. I'm breaking.
    kirrstennxo kirrstennxo 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2015

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    My SR left 10/1. PIR 11/26.

    Ship 13 Division 22. Where my girls at?! :)
    Lessthanthreemynavycorpsman88 Lessthanthreemynavycorpsman88 26-30, F 6 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Got to hear his voice last night .

    ..He called me once he arrived to hawaii and that just made me super happy ...
    jasmineh95 jasmineh95 18-21, F Jan 30

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    I haven't heard anything from

    after the last time we talked. I still didn't received a letter. I'm just getting irritated with this military ****. Tonight I just wanna be left alone because I can't deal with this ****. Don't get me wrong I still love reshawd and I'm not gonna leave him because of the...
    NavyPrincess14 NavyPrincess14 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20, 2014

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    I think I needed him today more

    than ever. You ever have one of those days where everything seems to be going wrong? They were little things...but without him here to comfort me I lost it. I just want to know how I learn to deal with things without him. He's my other half, I just feel lost.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 30, 2015

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    My boyfriends PIR date is December 31st.

    !!! I'm so excited I can't wait to see him
    Mia1102 Mia1102 18-21, F Nov 19, 2015

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    My boyfriend has been deployed

    for three days now. It kills , it leaves like an empty feeling in your tummy and all you can do is hope he's okay. I actually look forward to writing him letters every night. I check my email every 5 minutes , if you're a navy girlfriend, you can do it! Trust me! Just think of...
    Frecklejuice Frecklejuice 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2014

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    Had to say good bye to my boyfriend

    as he went back to basic training, it was the hardest day of my life! Every time he leaves I swear my heart gets broken a little more! 😭 miss him so much already, everything is making it so hard! And all I can do is put on a "mask" in public and act as if everything is...
    CanadianNavyGF CanadianNavyGF 18-21, F Jan 11

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    jessytaylor jessytaylor 18-21, F Sep 8, 2014

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    Pooh1993 Pooh1993 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2015

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    Phone calls with him are the total best!

    !!! even tho hanging up is the hardest thing ever!
    CanadianNavyGF CanadianNavyGF 18-21, F Jan 12

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    My boyfriend is about to phase up to phase III

    at A School in Pensacola. Does anyone know if I'm able to check him off of base and he stay with me over night at a hotel or not?
    zinntaylor35 zinntaylor35 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2015

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    The last picture i saw of my sailor❤

    whenever i see it, my heart breaks. I wish i was able to hug him one last time:( only 56 days until i can.... Its taking so long!!
    Tinktinkrox Tinktinkrox 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 24, 2015

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    The worst part of this is

    when i get in that mood where all you want is him... But you know you cant and then ill get all upset and ill want to cry but i know i cant do anything about it besides to deal with it:/
    Tinktinkrox Tinktinkrox 16-17, F Nov 7, 2015

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    Got to hear his voice last night .

    ..He called me once he arrived to hawaii and that just made me super happy ...
    jasmineh95 jasmineh95 18-21, F Jan 30

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    I can't say I have a boyfriend in the Navy

    but I can say I've been talking to someone for 7 months who's currently in the Navy. He means everything to me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 29, 2014

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    I'm kinda having a rough day emotionally.

    I think it's because he's so close to being back, but he's still gone. I just wanna hear his voice. One more week!
    Pooh1993 Pooh1993 22-25, F Jan 30, 2015

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    Anyone have a boyfriend/ husband/ fiancé

    graduating from Great Lakes on December 11th?
    Tinktinkrox Tinktinkrox 16-17, F Nov 1, 2015

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    These last 10 days seem the hardest.

    Maybe because I'm used to getting phone calls on Sundays, maybe it's just been too long, but I can't stop thinking about him and it's driving me crazy
    jennalmcnulty jennalmcnulty 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 10, 2015

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    Absolutely hate knowing

    that I can't see him until April...of all places he had to be stationed in Pensacola for two years..12 hours away 😔
    JCPaleno JCPaleno 18-21, F Nov 19, 2015

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    I have been getting to know this guy

    who is in the Navy and I can tell that we are going to start dating. I'm new to this boyfriend/ girlfriend military life. He's been underway twice, but how do I deal with me feeling that he is going to leave or finding someone else?
    Courtneyg1107 Courtneyg1107 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2015

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    11 more days until I see him again!

    ! ❤️⚓️🇺🇸
    jessytaylor jessytaylor 18-21, F Aug 25, 2014

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    I'm so lost about what to do.

    I'm in my senior year of highschool and my boyfriend of 2 years in currently in bootcamp. I wanna find a way to be with him after highschool but I'm not sure how. I could easily play college volleyball on a scholarship or go to a community college or something. All I know is I...
    zinntaylor35 zinntaylor35 18-21, F Sep 8, 2015

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    olivia103 olivia103 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 16, 2015

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    My Boyfriend left 11/12,

    and he's in DIV 57. I miss him so, much, but I agree that staying busy really helps me stay happy. I'm going to his graduation on 01/09/15 and I couldn't be more excited. I write him all the time, but I cannot wait to kiss his handsome face. I'm here to support others if need be...
    lekatiekat lekatiekat 22-25, F Dec 7, 2014

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    Hey my boyfriend is stationed in Norfolk

    and I would love to have a female I could talk to about my experience with him. We have been official for a month but inseparable for 3 months. My friends don't understand how the relationship is different than my other relationships with guys not in the military and having...
    tcart042 tcart042 18-21, F Aug 10, 2015

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    I'm a fairly new navy girlfriend,

    right after we met he had to go back to Oceana where he is stationed. He says that he's in love with me but some days I just don't feel it. I know he's tired or busy all the time, but I'm not sure how to adjust to all of this.
    kristiw10 kristiw10 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 22, 2015

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    One More Month! I Can Do This!

    Finally finally finally!! A month has come and gone. . . . THANK GOODNESS! It literally felt like more than a month! So far, I've received the best by far most amazing letters from Phillip and i have to say, I am blessed. In every letter i kid you not, he tells me that he's going...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    My boyfriend is gonna be leaving

    for basic soon and he'll e gone for 6 weeks...and then by the time he comes back I leave for 12 weeks for boot camp and ugh life is gonna be so difficult. Maybe a relationship isn't in our best interest? Idek. I want it to work but what are the odds
    ashleyym017 ashleyym017 16-17, F 2 days ago

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    I Support My Sailor:)

    My man is in New Hampshire, doesn't get to come home until January. Sometime next year he's going to be stationed in Guam. I know I haven't even been through the hardest part yet, but this is already killing me!! I miss him more and more and think about him everyday. I'm here if...
    QueenTay QueenTay 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    navygirlfriend6462 navygirlfriend6462 18-21, F Aug 4, 2015

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    jessytaylor jessytaylor 18-21, F Aug 21, 2014

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    Hey, my name is Azareel

    and I've been a Sailor's girlfriend for a year now. A friend and I decided to made a Facebook Group called Navy Sweethearts to help you all through this weird, but fun journey. Please feel free to join us.
    Azareel9 Azareel9 18-21, F Aug 4, 2015

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    My boyfriend hadn't left yet

    but starts in October for his basic training. We have been together 6 months & I'm dreading him leaving but I know it's what he really wants and will try support him all I can 😔
    ruthsommerville ruthsommerville 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2015

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    My boyfriend made it to boot camp last night.

    I already feel like I'm constantly fighting back the tears. Do 2 months go fast like everybody says it does?
    Anchored4life Anchored4life 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 2, 2014

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    My Story

    Hey everybody, Im joined this group so it could help a little bit with my boyfriend being on deployment and i could meet another girlfriends around my area thats going through the samething as me. So me and my boyfriend were together for 3 months before he left in Dece 2011 for...
    Tete83108 Tete83108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    Are any of you girls getting/have gotten your

    boyfriend a gift after graduating boot camp? Mine graduates in 2 weeks and he's graduating #1 sailor of the 600 there so i feel like i should! But i wasnt sure what to get him as a gift! Any ideas?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 26, 2015

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    He is going to basic this week

    and i'd love to meet some more military girlfriends! navy would be best. my boyfriend and i are both 20 :)
    anchoredartist15 anchoredartist15 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 8, 2015

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    So it's only day 2 of my boyfriend being

    deployed and it is already insanely hard to handle. The fear of not knowing if he is ok and safe is incredibly overwhelming. How do y'all cope?
    kelseyynicoleeb kelseyynicoleeb 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9, 2014

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    So first I guess I'll say the basics.

    My name's Nichole, I'm a freshman at DePauw University (small school in Indiana), and my boyfriend Corey is enlisted in the Navy. We have been together for over four years, never gone to school together, but we've never been further than an hour apart. This summer he dropped...
    Nichole1916 Nichole1916 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 8, 2015

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    Well I've been blocked on Facebook

    and Instagram guys. I guess this is his way of breaking up with me. This went from a strong relationship I thought I had to nothing. I am honestly hurt and broken. The love of my life has abandon me. Sad part is there was no sign of this relationship ending. Thanks for all the...
    CynthiaLove100 CynthiaLove100 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 21, 2015

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    How Can I Cope For The Next Three Months?

    I miss him so much and I can't tell him because I know that he already knows and it will stress him out. He's incredibly busy with work right now and working crazy hours..his stress level is the highest it's ever been. I feel like I'm walking on egg shells and if I add to the...
    Itsmylifedontyouforget Itsmylifedontyouforget 41-45, F 4 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    He finally graduated from HMU!

    So proud of my corpsman!
    JCPaleno JCPaleno 18-21, F Nov 20, 2015

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    So I'm just going to say it- bootcamp is rough!

    ! He has been gone for about two weeks, and having no contact with him is killing me inside. I write him letters every single night, but I have yet to get a letter from him. I am hoping to get my first letter tomorrow... but I just don't know what to do about feeling this way...
    NavyGirl92 NavyGirl92 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 22, 2014

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