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I Have a Boyfriend In the Navy

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    So tonight I broke down.

    It's only the 2nd day for me and I broke down! Wth! I was doing so well with keeping myself busy, until my father asked who I was texting at the dinner table, and he assumed it was my boyfriend. That was when I lost it. I broke down and went to the bathroom to let it out. My dad...
    afeli15 afeli15 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    Day #1 As A Girlfriend With A Boyfriend In Navy Boot Camp

    So I don't know about the other girlfriend's in my situation but the first day seemed to have flown by like that. I really hope the rest of the days are like this. I didn't do much but I was always doing something which seemed to help a lot. I learned from last night that the...
    Deanna903 Deanna903 18-21, F Jul 25, 2013

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    Day #3 As A Girlfriend With A Boyfriend In Navy Boot Camp

    Today went a lot better than yesterday. Today I haven't been bummed at all. I think I'll do pretty good through this stage of boot camp but I know I'll have my days. Today I got a lot of house cleaning done and had time to catch up on all my internet stuff. I even had time to...
    Deanna903 Deanna903 18-21, F Jul 27, 2013

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    Best 14 Minutes Of My Life!

    I just got a call from my boyfriend! He's in boot camp right now and I hadn't heard from him since he left and I was really worried. I was sleeping and I didn't hear my phone until the third ring haha, but I finally woke up and heard his voice! I felt like crying of happiness! He...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jul 20, 2013

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    Dreaming Of Him Lastnight.

    Last night i had a dream about my Sailor, woke up laughing because of the dream I reached to my phone (because every time i dream of him i would tell him because it was always funny and he loved knowing i dream about him) and text him about it then i realized he has no phone he...
    leahbrandonsgirl leahbrandonsgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 26, 2012

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    It's For The Bold Not The Fearful

    Distance is not for the fearful, it is for the bold. It's for those who are willing to spend a lot of time alone in exchange for for a little time with the one they love. It's for those knowing a good thing when they see it, even if they don't see it nearly enough.
    Deanna903 Deanna903 18-21, F Aug 1, 2013

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    So my boyfriends graduating from boot camp

    tomorrow, I'm sooo proud of him for sticking it through it :) I really want to be there tomorrow, since it's only a 5 an half hour drive from where I'm living at right now, but finding a way to get there is difficult, finding someone that will go with me and even drive is easy...
    brandijade92 brandijade92 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    It Just Got A Lot Easier

    I got his boot camp address! I was so excited when his dad texted me his address, it completely made my whole week. I even got to know his graduation date. September 20th! I can't wait to road trip up there with his family to see my sailor graduate. Having his address has made...
    Deanna903 Deanna903 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 2, 2013

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    My U.s Navy Guy

    Sad but true he is going to be a captain so soon  and his career is his priority in life. he said if i want to be happy i should find a boyfriend who do not have his life style. he said that he cannot make me happy . he said he is a--- butterfly.---- that cannot stay to one...
    modelrose modelrose 22-25, F 13 Responses Mar 2, 2013

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    One More Month! I Can Do This!

    Finally finally finally!! A month has come and gone. . . . THANK GOODNESS! It literally felt like more than a month! So far, I've received the best by far most amazing letters from Phillip and i have to say, I am blessed. In every letter i kid you not, he tells me that he's going...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 13, 2011

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    its hard, I cry almost all the time,

    but its because I miss him, I trust him, and I love him very much, hes only doing it for four years, then he wants to do four more years in the reserves which keeps him home, I am trying to stay positive and I will always stay faithful. no man can change my love for my boyfriend...
    nessadesiqueira17 nessadesiqueira17 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    My Sailor Stole My Heart

    Hello ladies!! Check out the page that I created on Facebook, please check it out and become a part of the page! I would love to have you! It is a place to get to know other girls going through the same thing you might be going through, share stories, vent, brag, whatever you...
    headcheerleader570 headcheerleader570 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 26, 2012

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    How Can I Cope For The Next Three Months?

    I miss him so much and I can't tell him because I know that he already knows and it will stress him out. He's incredibly busy with work right now and working crazy hours..his stress level is the highest it's ever been. I feel like I'm walking on egg shells and if I add to the...
    Itsmylifedontyouforget Itsmylifedontyouforget 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    Comes Home In 9 Days

    Hey ladies! My sailor graduates in 9 days! Wow! It went by sooo fast. He gets 10 days leave before he leaves again for sub school. :) I'm more than excited, he graduates on December 22nd. Right before Christmas  :))) Hope you guys are hanging in there! If any girls have...
    newnavygirlfriend newnavygirlfriend 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 13, 2010

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    It's Been A Week

    It has already been a week. Exactly 7 days, well I guess since it is almost 1 am where I'm at I guess 8 days but enough with the technicalities. This week has gone by sooooo slow but the days go by fast if that makes sense. Like the days go by so fast that I can't believe it's...
    Deanna903 Deanna903 18-21, F Jul 31, 2013

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    My boyfriend just swore in today

    as an Electrician's Mate! He leaves for boot camp on Feb 10, 2015 and will be in Great Lakes A school :)
    anchoredartist15 anchoredartist15 18-21, F Jun 5

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    My boyfriend has been deployed

    for three days now. It kills , it leaves like an empty feeling in your tummy and all you can do is hope he's okay. I actually look forward to writing him letters every night. I check my email every 5 minutes , if you're a navy girlfriend, you can do it! Trust me! Just think of...
    Frecklejuice Frecklejuice 16-17, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    You Have Got To Be Kidding Me?!

    My boyfriend just signed his contract..and everybody and their freaking mom is tearing me down about having a boyfriend in the navy/military..Its so frustrating to hearpeople say, "WOW that's a really scary job" or "Do you know about how many people die there?"and one laqdy...
    morganwillis2 morganwillis2 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    First Post On Ep

    I guess I should start with a little history. My boyfriend is from Quebec but now lives in Nova Scotia which is where I am from and met him. I met him five months ago. He has been in the navy three years now. So me and my bf official started dating two months ago. He is gone a...
    CanadianNavyGirlfriend CanadianNavyGirlfriend 18-21, F Aug 11, 2013

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    Christmas!

    Is anyone planning on going to Great Lakes around Christmas?! Or, if anyone has gone there, where is a fairly cheap but good place to stay at? Any advice is welcome!! Thanks!
    ajstephens ajstephens 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    The Things I Miss

    I miss his voice I miss his hugs I miss his kisses I miss holding his hand I miss riding in his car I miss walking up next to him I miss him tickling me I miss tickling him I miss him making me frozen lemonades (dilemmanades inside joke) I miss his back massages I miss his foot...
    Deanna903 Deanna903 18-21, F Jul 28, 2013

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    My Story

    Hey everybody, Im joined this group so it could help a little bit with my boyfriend being on deployment and i could meet another girlfriends around my area thats going through the samething as me. So me and my boyfriend were together for 3 months before he left in Dece 2011 for...
    Tete83108 Tete83108 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 18, 2012

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    Waiting To Hear From My Navy Bf

    You are going to be a Navy Wife", he said to me. My heart fluttered because he is the type of guy to mean what he says and say what he means. We haven't been together for long and already had to deal with long distance, but we made it work. He was supposed to come visit me...
    kevigurl1 kevigurl1 18-21 1 Response Sep 3, 2011

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    Bootcamp Breakup?

    Ok so I just kinda came upon this page. And I don't know where to start and I don't know if someone will actually take the time to read this and reply. But, if you do I am going to say Thank you ahead of time. Seriously Thank you. So heres the story me and my now kinda ex...
    Vlugo359 Vlugo359 18-21 1 Response Jan 28, 2013

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    My boyfriend gets his bootcamp date tomorrow.

    I'm so unbelievably proud and sad he's leaving. Any advice is appreciated
    KaylaT2694 KaylaT2694 18-21, F Jun 9

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    Questions.

    So only 12 more days until i finally see Ryan again. I am more than excited, but I'm also extremely nervous. I'm so nervous something is going to go wrong or something is going to change. They still haven't given him his orders...i'm terrified he's going to be a grad and go. What...
    SailorKitty SailorKitty 18-21 4 Responses Feb 27, 2011

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    My boyfriend is in the navy

    and he has 2 years left. I love him so much we have been together for 7 months but I've known him for years. He lives in Virginia and I'm in Chicago. I start college in the fall and he is worried that I'll lose interest in him while he's on deployment😕 but I'm not. It's like...
    Loveriah12 Loveriah12 16-17, F Jun 27

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    Day #2 As A Girlfriend With A Boyfriend In Navy Boot Camp

    Yesterday was a walk in the park but today not so much. I got to go to the fair with Michael's dad brother and grandparents and after an hour of so of being there I got bummed out because he wasn't there with us. Don't get me wrong I loved that they invited me even though he wasn...
    Deanna903 Deanna903 18-21, F Jul 25, 2013

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    I Support My Sailor:)

    My man is in New Hampshire, doesn't get to come home until January. Sometime next year he's going to be stationed in Guam. I know I haven't even been through the hardest part yet, but this is already killing me!! I miss him more and more and think about him everyday. I'm here if...
    QueenTay QueenTay 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    My boyfriend is leaving on saturday to another

    state.that sucks going to miss him so much i dont know how i am going to be abel to handle him been away from me.
    evelinnevarez evelinnevarez 18-21, F Jun 30

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    Best Day Since He Left

    So yesterday was my sailor's and I's 11 month aversary. I thought I would be bummed out all day and just be in a gloomy mood since my sailor was away at boot camp. Well since it was our 11 months I had woke up early to write a letter and hopefully get it in the mail box before...
    Deanna903 Deanna903 18-21, F Aug 4, 2013

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    So I'm just going to say it- bootcamp is rough!

    ! He has been gone for about two weeks, and having no contact with him is killing me inside. I write him letters every single night, but I have yet to get a letter from him. I am hoping to get my first letter tomorrow... but I just don't know what to do about feeling this way...
    NavyGirl92 NavyGirl92 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Ready For The New Beginning..

    Well I'm not sure if it is weird for me to feel this way but, I am excited a little about him leaving. Not in a bad way though. I'm excited because he will be making something out of his life. He will be able to take care of his family like he always wanted to do, he will be able...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 3, 2013

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    I can't say I have a boyfriend in the Navy

    but I can say I've been talking to someone for 7 months who's currently in the Navy. He means everything to me.
    PeaceBatman PeaceBatman 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    It's almost been a year

    since he's been gone... I rarely talk to him because he's stationed in japan. He comes home for 2 weeks in April... But will have to go back. I'm not sure how much longer I can take!!!! :(
    ke2717 ke2717 18-21, F Jan 9

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    11 Months

    So today is my sailor's and I's 11 month aversary. Today is probably going to be a bum day because I really wish he could be here. Sad thing is he wont get to be here for our 1 year either, he will still be in boot. We got together September 3rd 2012 and it as truly been an...
    Deanna903 Deanna903 18-21, F Aug 3, 2013

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    my sailor is leaving tomorrow to Virginia i am

    going to miss hime so much:(
    evelinnevarez evelinnevarez 18-21, F Jul 15

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    My wish came through!

    I'm in Chicago for my boyfriends graduation. I'm so happy that I'm here!! :) I get to see him tomorrow
    brandijade92 brandijade92 18-21, F 18 hrs ago

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    I haven't heard anything from

    after the last time we talked. I still didn't received a letter. I'm just getting irritated with this military ****. Tonight I just wanna be left alone because I can't deal with this ****. Don't get me wrong I still love reshawd and I'm not gonna leave him because of the...
    NavyPrincess14 NavyPrincess14 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 20

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    Deployment

    I guess I have a question that not many people may have the answer to. But after A school would my sailor be likely to get sea duty or get stationed. Guess I'm just curious about other peoples experiences:)
    Hannahluderer Hannahluderer 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 13, 2013

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    I'm pretty angry with the Navy

    as of right now. My boyfriend was supposed to be on underway last week but they switched it to this week which is causing him to go on underway this week and next week an cutting into his leave days and pushing it back more. I'm really upset about this knowing it's the last time...
    kbellis95 kbellis95 18-21, F Apr 21

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    Graduation <3

    Wow I don't even know where to start. Well my boyfriend finally graduated from bootcamp on Friday after what seemed like a years time. I flew out with his family on Wednesday to see him at his graduation on Friday. We got to the base around 6:30 am(it is super important to get...
    kmccabe4 kmccabe4 18-21, F Jul 31, 2011

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    So it's only day 2 of my boyfriend being

    deployed and it is already insanely hard to handle. The fear of not knowing if he is ok and safe is incredibly overwhelming. How do y'all cope?
    kelseyynicoleeb kelseyynicoleeb 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 9

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