I Have a Boyfriend Yet I Am Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 208 People

    Confused

    I separated from my husband 9 months ago and I have a boyfriend of 8 months ..I have a four yr old with my husband but he's a gambler n I couldn't take it no more. My bf is sweet, kind,and has alot going for him but I can't seem to get my husband out of my head. Not sure if I...
    Venusbell22 Venusbell22
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 12, 2012

    Happy But Scared

    I have been married to my husband for 7 years now, been together for 9 years. We have 2 incredible children who are 3 & 6. Our marriage has always been a struggle. Part of it is I think we really rushed our relationship from once we met to moving in, buying a house, getting...
    octoac octoac
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Feb 6, 2013

    What I Do To Take Care Of Myself

    My husband is not an easy man...often he can be cold towards me. Yet he is absolutely loving as a father to our two children. I met an amazing man who is successful in his career, warm, hilarious, etc...We have more in common, being from the same "world". I don't feel the...
    NotTheAngel NotTheAngel
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 7, 2013

    Ilovemyfriendswithmylife Is Mine

    i got a bf hes hot and cute a funny awesome mine forwver i <3
    kidd4ever kidd4ever
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

    Love My Boyfriend More Than My Husband

    I have dated my boyfriend for 6 months now.  We are very much inlove but he and I are both married to other people.  We both started divorce proceedings with our spouses and while I am very much in love with my boyfriend...I am feeling I no longer want to finalize my divorce as...
    rabbitgirl1 rabbitgirl1
    46-50
    5 Responses Feb 18, 2011

    I Slept With My High School Friend On Vacation. I've Been Married 13 Years

    I recently went back home for a girls week. I ended up running into an old high school friend. We reconnected and ended up spending every night together for 2 weeks. I ended up extending my vacation another week to be with him. The sex was amazing!! We text all day and night...
    Nina46 Nina46
    36-40
    5 Responses Apr 11, 2012

    Many

    married twice dunno why other than having a mother for my kids as the 1st one ran out on me. i dont consider having boyfriends as cheating on my wife. is not like she could do to me what they do. so i ll stick with it. hugs to you all
    christinemelody christinemelody
    56-60, T
    1 Response Feb 6, 2013

    10 Years Too Late...

    I have to ramble...You haven't met perfect until you met My Love. Even his flaws are manageable. I could be a loyal partner I think if I met him first. But these are the choices I made with my life. I am the primary source of income in my real family and I support a handful...
    simplymex3 simplymex3
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Sep 12, 2012

    Married With A Boyfriend

    I've been married for 12 years. My husband is kind, sweet and a great partner. My family loves him and he's the best dad in the world. But he doesn't have a whole lot of passion and he knows that. We've talked about it and he says that's just who he is. He suffers from depression...
    Karmamom1 Karmamom1
    41-45, F
    20 Responses May 6, 2012

    Right know I have a friend from work

    that We flirt with each other. I am attracted to him and try to hint at it to my hubby when we sex play
    mstori010 mstori010
    51-55, F
    1 Response Nov 28, 2015

    How Do I Tell My Boyfriend That I Am Married

    I am now cheating on both men who are in love with me. My husband and my boyfriend. One year ago, I broke up with my boyfriend A (who is now my husband). I met B...for stupid reason, for the pride of a female, I and B broke up after 3 months dating. On the night we broke up, my...
    tramanh tramanh
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Apr 18, 2013

    Yes, You Heard Me!

    This is my second post, and yes, I like bullet points so here you go: 1. I have a boyfriend. He's a boy and a friend. Yet he wants to sleep with me. 2. No, I'm not twelve. I am a grown woman with a husband and a child. I work and am pretty damn successful. Imagine that? 3...
    allycat13 allycat13
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Mar 2, 2009

    Confuse..

    5 years Married with two great kids. My husband is not too smart when it comes to households... Everything on our house is me... He doesn't help even though he sees me.. Cleaning the house, while washing the clothes, while there is cooking etc... In Tokyo, maids and nanny is not...
    Cheetah0519 Cheetah0519
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 26, 2013

    Tired of Everyone!

    I can't help it! I am tired of everyone! Here's a short rundown: 1. I'm tired of my husband! He doesn't always get it! And I'm not sure if he ever listens :) 2. I'm tired of my family. I love them, but with that comes guilt- guilt I don't see them enough, guilt I ...
    allycat13 allycat13
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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