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I Have a Boyfriend Yet I Am Married

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    Happy But Scared

    I have been married to my husband for 7 years now, been together for 9 years. We have 2 incredible children who are 3 & 6. Our marriage has always been a struggle. Part of it is I think we really rushed our relationship from once we met to moving in, buying a house, getting...
    octoac octoac 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    I Slept With My High School Friend On Vacation. I've Been Married 13 Years

    I recently went back home for a girls week. I ended up running into an old high school friend. We reconnected and ended up spending every night together for 2 weeks. I ended up extending my vacation another week to be with him. The sex was amazing!! We text all day and night...
    Nina46 Nina46 36-40 5 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    Tired of Everyone!

    I can't help it! I am tired of everyone! Here's a short rundown: 1. I'm tired of my husband! He doesn't always get it! And I'm not sure if he ever listens :) 2. I'm tired of my family. I love them, but with that comes guilt- guilt I don't see them enough, guilt I ...
    allycat13 allycat13 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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    Married With A Boyfriend

    I've been married for 12 years. My husband is kind, sweet and a great partner. My family loves him and he's the best dad in the world. But he doesn't have a whole lot of passion and he knows that. We've talked about it and he says that's just who he is. He suffers from depression...
    Karmamom1 Karmamom1 41-45, F 21 Responses May 6, 2012

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    Confused

    I separated from my husband 9 months ago and I have a boyfriend of 8 months ..I have a four yr old with my husband but he's a gambler n I couldn't take it no more. My bf is sweet, kind,and has alot going for him but I can't seem to get my husband out of my head. Not sure if I...
    Venusbell22 Venusbell22 26-30 3 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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    Ilovemyfriendswithmylife Is Mine

    i got a bf hes hot and cute a funny awesome mine forwver i <3
    kidd4ever kidd4ever 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    Many

    married twice dunno why other than having a mother for my kids as the 1st one ran out on me. i dont consider having boyfriends as cheating on my wife. is not like she could do to me what they do. so i ll stick with it. hugs to you all
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 6, 2013

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    Love My Boyfriend More Than My Husband

    I have dated my boyfriend for 6 months now.  We are very much inlove but he and I are both married to other people.  We both started divorce proceedings with our spouses and while I am very much in love with my boyfriend...I am feeling I no longer want to finalize my divorce as...
    rabbitgirl1 rabbitgirl1 46-50 5 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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    What I Do To Take Care Of Myself

    My husband is not an easy man...often he can be cold towards me. Yet he is absolutely loving as a father to our two children. I met an amazing man who is successful in his career, warm, hilarious, etc...We have more in common, being from the same "world". I don't feel the...
    NotTheAngel NotTheAngel 36-40, F 3 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Confuse..

    5 years Married with two great kids. My husband is not too smart when it comes to households... Everything on our house is me... He doesn't help even though he sees me.. Cleaning the house, while washing the clothes, while there is cooking etc... In Tokyo, maids and nanny is not...
    Cheetah0519 Cheetah0519 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    10 Years Too Late...

    I have to ramble...You haven't met perfect until you met My Love. Even his flaws are manageable. I could be a loyal partner I think if I met him first. But these are the choices I made with my life. I am the primary source of income in my real family and I support a handful...
    simplymex3 simplymex3 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    How Do I Tell My Boyfriend That I Am Married

    I am now cheating on both men who are in love with me. My husband and my boyfriend. One year ago, I broke up with my boyfriend A (who is now my husband). I met B...for stupid reason, for the pride of a female, I and B broke up after 3 months dating. On the night we broke up, my...
    tramanh tramanh 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Yes, You Heard Me!

    This is my second post, and yes, I like bullet points so here you go: 1. I have a boyfriend. He's a boy and a friend. Yet he wants to sleep with me. 2. No, I'm not twelve. I am a grown woman with a husband and a child. I work and am pretty damn successful. Imagine that? 3...
    allycat13 allycat13 26-30, F 9 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    NikkiWeasley NikkiWeasley 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    adm15241 adm15241 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Loretta78 Loretta78 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 27

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    Aries323 Aries323 18-21, M Jul 26

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    eatmenlikeair eatmenlikeair 26-30, F Jul 26

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    thegreatruiner thegreatruiner 70+, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    teadiva teadiva 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    jaydemarch jaydemarch 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I'm married and I've only been married for almost a year. But way before our relationship prior to marriage (5 years ago) I met this guy and there was no doubt in my mind that I...
    slofox slofox 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Yet. I'm saying a beautiful woman and though we've only been together two years I wouldn't mind being married to her. I've even got the proposal planned. If she gets home after me...