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I Have a Boyfriend Yet I Am Married

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    Happy But Scared

    I have been married to my husband for 7 years now, been together for 9 years. We have 2 incredible children who are 3 & 6. Our marriage has always been a struggle. Part of it is I think we really rushed our relationship from once we met to moving in, buying a house, getting...
    octoac octoac 26-30, F 6 Responses Feb 6, 2013

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    Ilovemyfriendswithmylife Is Mine

    i got a bf hes hot and cute a funny awesome mine forwver i <3
    kidd4ever kidd4ever 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    10 Years Too Late...

    I have to ramble...You haven't met perfect until you met My Love. Even his flaws are manageable. I could be a loyal partner I think if I met him first. But these are the choices I made with my life. I am the primary source of income in my real family and I support a handful...
    simplymex3 simplymex3 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 12, 2012

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    What I Do To Take Care Of Myself

    My husband is not an easy man...often he can be cold towards me. Yet he is absolutely loving as a father to our two children. I met an amazing man who is successful in his career, warm, hilarious, etc...We have more in common, being from the same "world". I don't feel the...
    NotTheAngel NotTheAngel 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    Yes, You Heard Me!

    This is my second post, and yes, I like bullet points so here you go: 1. I have a boyfriend. He's a boy and a friend. Yet he wants to sleep with me. 2. No, I'm not twelve. I am a grown woman with a husband and a child. I work and am pretty damn successful. Imagine that? 3...
    allycat13 allycat13 26-30, F 10 Responses Mar 2, 2009

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    Love My Boyfriend More Than My Husband

    I have dated my boyfriend for 6 months now.  We are very much inlove but he and I are both married to other people.  We both started divorce proceedings with our spouses and while I am very much in love with my boyfriend...I am feeling I no longer want to finalize my divorce as...
    rabbitgirl1 rabbitgirl1 46-50 5 Responses Feb 18, 2011

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    I Slept With My High School Friend On Vacation. I've Been Married 13 Years

    I recently went back home for a girls week. I ended up running into an old high school friend. We reconnected and ended up spending every night together for 2 weeks. I ended up extending my vacation another week to be with him. The sex was amazing!! We text all day and night...
    Nina46 Nina46 36-40 5 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    Tired of Everyone!

    I can't help it! I am tired of everyone! Here's a short rundown: 1. I'm tired of my husband! He doesn't always get it! And I'm not sure if he ever listens :) 2. I'm tired of my family. I love them, but with that comes guilt- guilt I don't see them enough, guilt I ...
    allycat13 allycat13 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 23, 2009

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    Confused

    I separated from my husband 9 months ago and I have a boyfriend of 8 months ..I have a four yr old with my husband but he's a gambler n I couldn't take it no more. My bf is sweet, kind,and has alot going for him but I can't seem to get my husband out of my head. Not sure if I...
    Venusbell22 Venusbell22 26-30 2 Responses Oct 12, 2012

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    Confuse..

    5 years Married with two great kids. My husband is not too smart when it comes to households... Everything on our house is me... He doesn't help even though he sees me.. Cleaning the house, while washing the clothes, while there is cooking etc... In Tokyo, maids and nanny is not...
    Cheetah0519 Cheetah0519 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 26, 2013

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    How Do I Tell My Boyfriend That I Am Married

    I am now cheating on both men who are in love with me. My husband and my boyfriend. One year ago, I broke up with my boyfriend A (who is now my husband). I met B...for stupid reason, for the pride of a female, I and B broke up after 3 months dating. On the night we broke up, my...
    tramanh tramanh 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    Many

    married twice dunno why other than having a mother for my kids as the 1st one ran out on me. i dont consider having boyfriends as cheating on my wife. is not like she could do to me what they do. so i ll stick with it. hugs to you all
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T 1 Response Feb 6, 2013

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    Married With A Boyfriend

    I've been married for 12 years. My husband is kind, sweet and a great partner. My family loves him and he's the best dad in the world. But he doesn't have a whole lot of passion and he knows that. We've talked about it and he says that's just who he is. He suffers from depression...
    Karmamom1 Karmamom1 41-45, F 20 Responses May 6, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Looking back at my life, I'm very surprised I never made the "mistake" of getting married and/or having kids too early on in life. I call it a mistake because, for me, it would...
    TrailrunnerMN TrailrunnerMN 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    My boyfriend went to prison in April I was 8 weeks pregnant when he got arrested it was such a shock, I'm 21 weeks now & obviously have a little fighter in my tummy but I'm...
    kelbels kelbels 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I just met him three days ago but he's so hot and sweet! He makes me smile so much. He says he gets out in 2 months! He's been in there for 4 years. He told me he was put in...
    Crazymotrucker Crazymotrucker 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    my best friend is in prison.. he has 16 more months to go-we have known each other for 8 yrs.. well almost 2 years ago he had me talk to another friend of his that was also there...
    traci1212 traci1212 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I just haven't had much interest in kissing anyone really. I like to think that if and when do I kiss someone, I'll be pretty good at it because like all skills, its all about...
    MindvsHeartAJ MindvsHeartAJ 18-21, T Jul 9

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    I suggest he pay rent and be put on the lease... Then he gets angry at me... He's basically living there anyway. He's there everyday and sleeps there every night... He Soo worried...
    Lancelot22 Lancelot22 18-21, F Jul 1

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    Three and a half years left 😥 It's long, but in that time I'll get my life together and get to know him better ❤️
    caitlynr18 caitlynr18 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 5

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    This is so hard! I'm only human... How can I cope still? Wish I knew how to get through this...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    MY BF IS ALYZ QUIET AROUND ME WE SPEND TO MUCH TIME TOGETHER BUT ALL WE DO SMALL TALK N BE SILENT FOR LONG AND AM GETING BORED COZ HE WANT ME TO DO ALL DE TALKING ALL THE TIME AND...
    hlami1 hlami1 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 10

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    Well today someone who was supposed to be supporting me while going through a similar thing decided to through up what y bf did, all this and being horrible and mean because I said...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Writing this letter is killing me inside, I'm crying. I hope he realises that I need time to sort my head out, to be able to work on myself and he needs to do the same if we are...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    I thought, but a few years ago while we were at at parents evening I caught my wife looking at our sons teacher with what I can only describe as a look of adoration. I asked her...
    busterbluedog busterbluedog 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Please just anyone, I seriously need someone's help, I'm on the verge of doing something bad to myself, I need some help, just someone please!!!!!!!!!!
    BethHawkins BethHawkins 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    And I don't plan on it! I love my life the way it is.
    sassythang sassythang 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I been with my boy friend for 1 year and not even one kiss 😥
    ninaziebarth02 ninaziebarth02 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Today me and "bae" hung out and I came to relieze I really like him. We have couple like tendencies but we aren't like official an "item". Honestly I don't even care about the...
    Prinny4 Prinny4 18-21, F Jul 19

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    Hello, I am 21 years old. I had an exploratory laparoscopy last August (2013) for symptoms of endometriosis. First of all, I got my period early-at around 8 or 9 years old. Since...
    ky1478 ky1478 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I've been with my bf for 6.5 years now and we recently watched a documentary where this guy who filmed all these weddings goes back to the people years and years later and...
    danielle1423 danielle1423 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I'm 17, and I am a bubbly, nice girl 😊 I did have a few boyfriends in the past, the last boyfriend was cheating on me and treating my best friend like crap, my confidence is...
    Becca3827 Becca3827 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 11

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    im 13 and my mom will not let me have boyfriend i hate that
    tiffanyclark tiffanyclark 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 1

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    guss some day i will have boyfriend
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    i would like to have boyfriend but my mom say have to wait to 17 i hate that
    tiffany13fun tiffany13fun 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I had to make a choice between 2 amazing men. A love triangle that I never should've put myself in. I chose the man I've been with for 12 years. We had a year long breakup. I met...
    Rojayazul Rojayazul 36-40, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Part 3. Recovery I woke up confused. I got the sense of being moved, and I could hear my wife chatting with someone as we moved. I opened my eyes to find that my bed was being...
    ludix ludix 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 1

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    Guys just dont seem interested. I mean im not that ugly. Im a bit overweight but there are girls bigger then me that have boyfriends. Guys dont even talk to me much or hamg out...
    olsonn322 olsonn322 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I have tried for many reason.! Where do I start.? My life is horrible.! I have this girl I care about, she is the only one keeping me alive.! Literally, because she said if I...
    LSKxGhost LSKxGhost 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    I was diagnosed only a few months ago after having mysterious "boils" for years and years. My main issue is the scarring. I have been happily married for 3 years and my husband has...
    breeze90 breeze90 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'd sit down, this is gonna be 10 years of quieted emotions.. Emotions, doesn't that word just terrify you a little? I know it terrifies me. I wanna post this not for sympathy, but...
    StayingSaneWithoutYou StayingSaneWithoutYou 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    This is a long story so please bear with me if you can. I met a man back in 2008 through his sister who was a good friend of mine at the time. I knew he was married from the start...
    plmagnet29 plmagnet29 36-40, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    So an update is in order, since I have been so lax in my attendance on EP. I am home AGAIN from yet another week away with the kids. Relaxation and rest certainly does wonders...
    knittingbadsweaters knittingbadsweaters 41-45, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Whenever people ask me if I am an eldest child I find it hard to answer. If I think about it I'm my mother's 2nd child but my father's eldest daughter and I have half siblings from...
    reezaheartdogs reezaheartdogs 18-21, F 12 hrs ago

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    Today feels so very lonely. Why I wonder. He's been clean and sober for 42 days now and doing so well with it. It is what I have prayed so long for. I have believed God for this...
    Lisajo50 Lisajo50 51-55, F 3 hrs ago

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    My situation is so messed up. I've been seeing a married man for 7 mos who claims he no longer loves his wife whom he had a daughter with 9 mos ago. He comes to see me nearly...
    hysgirl hysgirl 31-35, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I just found out today that i've been infected with the HSV-2. I told my best friend who is very supportive but I have yet to tell my boyfriend because he is at work and I'd like...
    erskii23 erskii23 18-21, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    Today was another crappy day. I think mostly because I am starting to feel bored. My little sister is on a vacation with her boyfriend, and I am left her with my overprotective...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M 4 hrs ago

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