I Have a Broken Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 29 People

    Happy Yet Sad Ending

    I am married for about 5 months. My husband and I got married last March 19, 2011. It was a parental arrangement. Both our parents have decided for us to be together. As woman, I was very hesitant entering into marriage, but since it was a decision from my parents especially from...
    Eureka85 Eureka85
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Aug 22, 2011

    Why Me!!!!

    I thought I had the perfect marriage until about five years ago.  The love of my life decided to choose his wild lifestyle with his druggie friends than his own wife and kids.  I feel all alone in this world because my best friend of 18 yrs  deserted me for reasons...
    caluv2000 caluv2000
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2010

    Depressed

    My husband is pretty much told me that " I love you but im not in love with you anymore" Whatever he did was just go with the flow He doesnt wanna connect with me anymore There are no romance moment or love time for me anymore He has no interested in me Im really depressed tired...
    trinhevans trinhevans
    22-25, F
    Aug 3, 2013

    It's hard to stay in a positive mindset

    when everything around me is crumbling. All I have going good right now is my job, my school and my 2.5 year old daughter. The relationship with her father (my husband) no longer exist since the separation and things are even getting better, me and him fight every time we see...
    BrittTHart BrittTHart
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2014

    So Lost....

    I am 36 yrs. old and a father of two.  Two wonderful boys aged 14 and 7.  Their mother and I have been seperated for 5 mos. now.  We were married for 15 yrs.  She cheated on me with a "friend" of mine.  I found out in Jan. of this year and I panicked and went into protection...
    discolover discolover
    36-40, M
    8 Responses Dec 29, 2010

    What do I do. My marriage is broken my husband

    doesn't want to talk to me. All because we don't know how to communicate with each other. We fight all the time is crazy but I don't want to lose him.
    BrittTHart BrittTHart
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 13, 2014

    wife and I are separating

    after 18 yrs. We just grew apart and fell out of love. Feeling kinda lost but also discovered she's been on a dating site for over a year so now I feel I can't even trust her.
    echohill echohill
    36-40, M
    Jun 7, 2015

    Where To Start

    There are lots of problems.  Every time I try to fix one, it feels like there is always something else wrong.  It is a lot like my 1966 pick up.  Nothing worked the way it should, but it kept on working.  I wish that I could fix my marriage.  I have tried, but I don't...
    MstuckF MstuckF
    31-35, T
    3 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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