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I Have a Broken Marriage

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    Happy Yet Sad Ending

    I am married for about 5 months. My husband and I got married last March 19, 2011. It was a parental arrangement. Both our parents have decided for us to be together. As woman, I was very hesitant entering into marriage, but since it was a decision from my parents especially from...
    Eureka85 Eureka85 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 22, 2011

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    Depressed

    My husband is pretty much told me that " I love you but im not in love with you anymore" Whatever he did was just go with the flow He doesnt wanna connect with me anymore There are no romance moment or love time for me anymore He has no interested in me Im really depressed tired...
    trinhevans trinhevans 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2013

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    So Lost....

    I am 36 yrs. old and a father of two.  Two wonderful boys aged 14 and 7.  Their mother and I have been seperated for 5 mos. now.  We were married for 15 yrs.  She cheated on me with a "friend" of mine.  I found out in Jan. of this year and I panicked and went into protection...
    discolover discolover 36-40, M 8 Responses Dec 29, 2010

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    What do I do. My marriage is broken my husband

    doesn't want to talk to me. All because we don't know how to communicate with each other. We fight all the time is crazy but I don't want to lose him.
    BrittTHart BrittTHart 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 13

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    Where To Start

    There are lots of problems.  Every time I try to fix one, it feels like there is always something else wrong.  It is a lot like my 1966 pick up.  Nothing worked the way it should, but it kept on working.  I wish that I could fix my marriage.  I have tried, but I don't...
    MstuckF MstuckF 31-35, T 3 Responses Nov 22, 2009

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    It's hard to stay in a positive mindset

    when everything around me is crumbling. All I have going good right now is my job, my school and my 2.5 year old daughter. The relationship with her father (my husband) no longer exist since the separation and things are even getting better, me and him fight every time we see...
    BrittTHart BrittTHart 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Why Me!!!!

    I thought I had the perfect marriage until about five years ago.  The love of my life decided to choose his wild lifestyle with his druggie friends than his own wife and kids.  I feel all alone in this world because my best friend of 18 yrs  deserted me for reasons...
    caluv2000 caluv2000 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 9, 2010

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    One time I broke an arm, i was 11, my mum usually tells me if she cleaned the stairs but hat time she didn't, so i slipped done and fell on my right arm and broke it. my big...
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    (Sorry for grammar mistakes. English is not my native language) It's a long and complicated story. So i will start with the background. I spent most of my life closed in my home...
    Valiosc2 Valiosc2 18-21, M Aug 12

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    To be honest I think we should have gay marriages because they're jut like us just more awesome
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    If you are feeling jealous - or someone close to you is - Don't feel ashamed (if you are the jealous person), or try to make them feel ashamed. Two reasons: 1) Feelings walk in...
    SmartKat SmartKat 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 20

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    I hate myself for all the lies and deception I inflicted on my current boyfriend. I blame my family particularly. I am a cheater and this means I have broken my own value system. I...
    Deadlynightshade5 Deadlynightshade5 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    So when are we going to have gay marriage legal in all 50 states?
    chrissyboo123 chrissyboo123 16-17, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband Johnny and I have been together for 2 years, married for a year and a half. We met through his older brother 2 1/2 years ago and started talking as friends. Neither one...
    ashleymarcia ashleymarcia 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    A LETTER TO MY FIRST LOVE: My heart is still broken, i cover it up with jokes and smiles and just avoiding the pain. But nothing is more painful than laying down ready to go sleep...
    Islandkween Islandkween 18-21, F 22 hrs ago

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    I just feel broken. Not used. I'd have to be acknowledged to be used. He just walked out and left again. Always going. He always says where to. But never who with or when he'll be...
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F 5 hrs ago

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    I live in a sexless marriage have been for the last 6 years... Just didn't realize I was until recently. In my situation i never married for love, didn't even find him attractive...
    Sobeit06 Sobeit06 36-40, F 3 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    Broken Home - I'm intrigued by a recent post from LaoTzu about the definition of a "broken home". Many of us have stayed in our dysfunctional marriages and opted not to divorce...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 12 Responses Aug 18

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    To Come Back~ From the place I have fallen And shattered into pieces I feel myself reconnecting All my past and hopes And dreams, returning To bind together once more The person I...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Redefining a 'Broken Home' I've read quite a number of posts on how separation and divorce would break apart the family, would mean that the children would come from a broken home...
    LaoTzu LaoTzu 41-45, M 13 Responses Aug 17

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    By broken I mean that food stamps seem to be given out to people who really don't need them more often than those that do, most of the people I know who are on food stamps abuse...
    Lostsoutherner Lostsoutherner 26-30, F 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I need to rant a bit. I am flying home right now from a business trip. I will be scrambling to get to a school function for my daughter once I land. Because the event is outdoors...
    ImBatmanNow ImBatmanNow 51-55, M 30 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Tomorrow is our 8th anniversary. I haven't gotten my husband anything yet. Our marriage is a mess, to say the least. Two years ago he FORGOT our anniversary, and I was...
    wasguzie wasguzie 41-45, F 8 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    I have thought so many times about posting in this group. I always seem to stop myself. Partly because I don't want to embarrass him by posting something he'd be ashamed of or...
    licoriceandlace licoriceandlace 41-45, F 23 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    What makes a marriage become sexless ? I'm very curious about. Is it because there's no spark? If not what made it go away ? Is it because you fell out of love ? What makes married...
    June4U June4U 22-25, F 18 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Little off topic but wonderfully insightful. http://www.slate.com/articles/double_x/doublex/2014/03/esther_perel_on_affairs_spouses_in_happy_marriages_cheat_and_americans_don.html...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 10 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I've been married 25 years. When the sexless time of our marriage first started about 5 years ago on and off, mostly off now a days, I was angry. I loved on, had an affair, moved...
    dyingalittleeveryday dyingalittleeveryday 41-45, F 15 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Hi, I am a 34 yr old closeted asexual African woman looking for a MOC with a closeted gay/asexual man. I am looking for someone who is seeking a long term non sexual marriage with...
    bloom686 bloom686 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    Hello everyone. I've not been here in over a year. If you read my other two post then I can tell you that nothing has changed. Same S different day as they say. It is now my...
    IrisROE IrisROE 56-60, F 14 Responses Aug 6

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    These are just random thoughts of mine recently as I have gone about my journey. Probably not very clear, so apologies if its a rough read:) My divorce was absolutely the hardest...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    So last night my sister and her beau were here spending the night from out of town (had a funeral to go to.) We were chatting, and H says he "uglified" himself to try to get rid of...
    Harley53 Harley53 56-60, F 12 Responses Aug 16

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    Well, I went on one date, so I guess that counts. Just the other night, a month after I left my marriage. The friend of a friend that had noticed me in circles previously and heard...
    birdie39 birdie39 41-45, F 11 Responses Aug 4

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    aniruddh1984 aniruddh1984 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 14

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    Good afternoon!! I am new here and I'm in need of some support right now. My husband and i have been married for 3 years and together for 4 years. I have never been done so wrong...
    trinmir trinmir 41-45, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I started daydreaming when I was really young, I was about four maybe five. My best friend and I used to watch a show together and we'd act it out, and make up our own scenarios...
    MaladaptiveDayDreamer MaladaptiveDayDreamer 13-15, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    a few years ago I was on a stupid site where I met her. And the actually odd thing about this is that at first I really thought she wouldn't mean this much to me. But every week...
    spash spash 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    Waiting for you, is it worth it? Loving you with all of my heart, you disappeared from me. Wanting you for a little chat, you refuse to say much. You want to erase me, I also want...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    It's awful, but I did. He was mr. Perfect in so many ways. Handsome, talented, funny, cute, and goodhearted. I always feared that he would leave me, break my heart, so I pushed him...
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    Ok, so my Sophomore year in High School, I had a crush on this really cute guy. We had a couple of classes together and I always used to pick with him and flirt with him, I even...
    DiamondInTheSkye DiamondInTheSkye 18-21, F 16 mins ago

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    Waited till I was 20/21. Felt stupid to do it sooner with some boy from school. Wanted to wait for someone more impressive. My first was Jewish, so that was good. Not a love...
    DesireHappy DesireHappy 41-45, F Aug 8

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    I wasn't prepared. Ten years with this man. Five years of marriage. Three years of zero sex. Three years of weekly therapy. Countless arguments. Excuses. Broken promises. I still...
    Catonapillow Catonapillow 31-35, F 32 Responses Aug 12

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