Post

I Have a Cheating Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 903 People

    Had A Cheating Husband - Huh...lol.. wow... I want to speak out about CHEATERS. I know alot about them. Lived with a couple of them. I can handle, forgive, about almost anything...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 33 Responses Jan 14, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Tired And Hurt - well I have been married to my husband for 22 years soon to be 23. When we first got married he used to beat me, Well we separated and was separated for awhile. He...
    nanamoreet nanamoreet 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 12, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been married 26 years. I have been with my husband 29. I am just going to tell you the first and last thing he did. We were married in 1987. He cheated on my in 1993...
    Patience2120 Patience2120 56-60, F 5 Responses Feb 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My Waste Of Time. - 16 years ago; we had each other, we had a beautiful home and three wonderful healthy children. 15 years ago; we still fooled around with each other, we went in...
    Seraa Seraa 46-50 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A few months ago I found out my husband was cheating.. He's sworn that he'll stop and find a way to fix our marriage. Tonight I discovered emails he forwarded to himself that are...
    Smckinnis Smckinnis 26-30, F 5 Responses Dec 3, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Cheating Husbands -   I have been with my husband for 5 yrs. But married for 4 yrs. in October. We have 2 beautiful girls together. But on July 14th my husband came home to...
    whitetigerpetal whitetigerpetal 22-25 34 Responses Aug 25, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Society has long become more open to the idea of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Today I was washing his clothes and found a note written on a small piece of paper from a woman telling my husband to meet her at a motel room and how much she misses him. How can...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Me and my husband together off and on for 22 years, married for 5. He cheated when we were younger and I walked away from the relationship. Then he go incarcerated for 6 years...
    lounground75 lounground75 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 2

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have been with my husband for 11 years married 7 and 8 months ago I found out the my husband had been cheating on me(I was six months pregnant at the time I found out). Of...
    Jackie2525 Jackie2525 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 9

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My Husband Cheated With A Women And Fatherd Three Children - My husband cheated with someone and they had three children together. By the time that someone told me what was gong on...
    kaydelgado kaydelgado 36-40, F 1 Response May 24, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well were to begin, I thought we were getting our marriage and family life back on track, when my husband begins to be distant again. Didn't really think too much of it just...
    shellybelly828 shellybelly828 41-45, F 1 Response Dec 4, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Sick Of Lies - been married for two years, found out he's been cheating the whole time with several woman, still goes to the restaurants where he has meet some, don't understand...
    maywillie maywillie 46-50, M 4 Responses Oct 18, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    He Never Ceases To Amaze Me! - I got up late today. Took some time for me. It was about 2pm before I even made it to the computer to check my email. I had an email from my husband...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 6 Responses May 7, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Feel Numb - I have been with my husband since I was in my 20's (in my 40's now) and sometimes it doesn't seem like there was a time before him. Pretty much from day 1 he has...
    Shelly110 Shelly110 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 12, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    HEY IM 26 YEARS OLD. MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 3 YEARS NOW AND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 5. WE HAVE A 3 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER. EVERYTHIG AT FIRST WAS BEAUTIFUL. AS TIME...
    hersheys1228 hersheys1228 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Husband Cheated On Me N My 10 Year Old Son - I have been married for 14 years. A little background about us, ours was an arranged marriage and after marriage, he told me that he...
    Twotango Twotango 36-40, F 5 Responses Nov 13, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have a hard time standing up for myself or confronting my husband on my suspicions about him cheating I feel like he will get mad at me for hacking into his accounts and putting...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My name is Maritza Ramos Maldonado from Clifton Park,N NY and I found out recently my husband Fred is secretly gay and having sex with prostitutes in front of the YMCA where he...
    maritzamaldonado maritzamaldonado 51-55, F Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    When i found out he is in a long relationship with a married woman for 10 years and married with me for 3 years We talked about it and he excplain everything i Told him i Cant stay...
    nounousamar nounousamar 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 26

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Recently discovered that my husband Is texting a girl he used to date before we met (over 10 years ago) daily... More so when I'm working. (I'm a nurse and work night shift). I've...
    hurtRN hurtRN 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 21

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Question: How many of you women apart of this experience group is trying to work on your marriage even with your spouse being unfaithful and why or why not?
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 27

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I am a stay at home mom that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 1

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I have known about his affair for about 4 weeks now. I cry myself to sleep every night. I had never prepared myself for this situation but I feel like my life as I know it is...
    Lyddia Lyddia 31-35, F 11 Responses Jan 11

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Don'T Know How To Deal With This - My husband says he's addicted to **** , I have caught him before emails, and phone numbers each time he swore he just contacted these women for...
    Emc76 Emc76 36-40 3 Responses Jun 14, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband is a UPS driver, and a couple of years ago he met a woman in another county through work. She is older that he is. The other day I was being nosy (I've always had trust...
    katiek777 katiek777 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 20

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Do Not Know How to Trust Him Again - I trusted him for 5 years ... only to find out that it was all a lie! I decided to give him another chance but how do I trust him again...
    memnochmom memnochmom 22-25, F 18 Responses Oct 6, 2008

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband is cheating on me. He placed a password on his phone and quickly erases his messages on his phone. I also caught him exchanging poctures of his genitalia with women on...
    Ihatekermit Ihatekermit 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 25

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Should I Leave? Devasted By Husband's Webcam Cheating And Constant Lies... - Before my husband and I got married I found emails between him and his ex. Apparently he had a...
    BrokenPromises1892 BrokenPromises1892 18-21 4 Responses Jul 21, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Husband Says His Cheating Is My Fault? - Hi! I am a 26 year old girl married to a 29 year old man, with a 10 month old son. I have been with my Husband for 3.5 years, only married...
    Lauerallaie Lauerallaie 26-30, F 16 Responses Jan 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Random Thoughts From A Guy… - From my perspective, men cheat for three primary reasons: a) symptomatic, b) situational and c) serial cheating. While I am sure there are as...
    triguy84 triguy84 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 17, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    my experience with my husband of 28 yrs married but we have been together for 38yrs we are both in our 50s we have a great life together we have adult children my man worked away...
    joyce1960 joyce1960 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 29

    Your Response

    Cancel
    First Time To Post - Desperately Need Advice - My husband and I have been married for thirty-eight years.  We've been together for nearly forty years, since I was 16 years old...
    loradw loradw 46-50 48 Responses Apr 10, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel
    my husband goes on a website and talks to this girl. FLirting mostly. He spends every spare moment on his computer. I think he truly believes he cares for this women. They have...
    filleamour filleamour 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 15

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Cheating Too Close To Home - I find cheating to be a weak characteristic in anyone, and something that I have never done. I also always said that if a man ever cheated on me, he...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi 41-45, F 25 Responses Apr 24, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    It's Been Almost a Year.... - Well its been almost a year since my husband cheated and I am handling it better than when I first discovered it. Of course it's still hard for me to...
    RainbowsandAngels RainbowsandAngels 51-55, F 14 Responses Mar 31, 2009

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My Husband Is A Cheater ! But This What Iv Learned - My husband cheated on my ! But my lessons in life came from the experience ! At 32 iv found how strong I can be an that you don...
    Mgarrett99 Mgarrett99 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Well I had one. Divorce is in progress. Because what you allow continues.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Cheating Boyfriend.. Now My Husband - Hello There, I want to share my infidelity story to get a feel from individuals who do not know me at all or my situation. So here it goes...
    Acerose Acerose 22-25, F 27 Responses Oct 30, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    That Feeling - It's that feeling that you can't explain. The one that tells you he has been unfaithful. You know its true. Yet you still doubt yourself. If you know it's true...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 11 Responses Jul 16, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Not Prepared.... - There is nothing that prepares you for the betrayal of a husband. No number of heartache you see your mother endure, no number of break ups with a boyfriend, no...
    RealityCheckNYC RealityCheckNYC 31-35, F 7 Responses Dec 8, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I been with my husband a yr and a half we been married for almost a month. About a week ago my husband was acting very wired about his cell phone. It's was always on silence, fast...
    chris760 chris760 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 19

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Dont Want It Anymore - Been with him for 6 years married for 3. Since the very begging he was always flirting around example: asking girls to be his girlfriend while he was with me...
    jennleen jennleen 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Gut Feeling,snooped,found Something - I've been married for going on 8 years. We have two children together. Alot of times in my life,if I have a feeling about something,I usually...
    roxychick180 roxychick180 22-25 5 Responses Oct 3, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    I Have To See The Other Woman - My husband has been having an ongoing 2 yr but sex fling with this woman I have to see at an organization we beling to.I know she'll be out the...
    Lisa1471 Lisa1471 36-40, F 62 Responses Jun 10, 2012

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The Problem With Husbands #1 - One thing that most husbands (and significant others) fail to realize is that the person you fell in love with, the person you said you were...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    Is it a mathematical equation that the amount of pain you have is proportional to the amount of happiness you once had? The holidays are particularly hard after a breakup. Memories...
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 12 Responses Dec 18, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    The Worst Night Of My Life - I remember the night I found out about my husbands cheating so clearly, I dont think I will ever forget it. I totally lost my mind that night. I had...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 3, 2011

    Your Response

    Cancel
    State Of Denial - I have been with my husband for 17 years and married 11. He has had multiple one night stand over the years and in 2012 I couldn't take it anymore and asked him...
    beachgal21 beachgal21 46-50, F 5 Responses Nov 16, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    My husband is working out of state and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

    Your Response

    Cancel
    **UPDATE**Getting Stronger, I Think? - A lot has happened since this post. Towards the end of April my husband stayed out an entire weekend. I drove to the other women's house and...
    Pray4change Pray4change 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 8, 2013

    Your Response

    Cancel
    A Phone Call I Will Never Regret... - My story is long, and winding, but I want to share a part of it that I hope will encourage others. My husband and I have been together for...
    Marisol88 Marisol88 26-30 7 Responses Dec 12, 2012