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I Have a Cheating Husband

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    My husband of 9 years (together

    for 14), has been a random cheater since we were dating in high school. I thought he changed once we were married but I just found out a month ago that he had a mistress at his job. Some ugly woman too, but he was sleeping with her unprotected for a month before he told me. He...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2014

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    Talk to me, I'm sad. My hb cheated on me,

    we had argument, i told no 1. I stayed! Then found out he's having contact with a few others (which he choose to hide/delete the conversations). Argued, informed family members & I left!! But he convinced me to come bk. (I'm living wt my parent in laws too). He promised to me...
    Sulyn Sulyn 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    Phairux Phairux 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    Cheating Husbands

      I have been with my husband for 5 yrs. But married for 4 yrs. in October. We have 2 beautiful girls together. But on July 14th my husband came home to me at 7:30 a.m. in the morning and told me that he had been thinking for awhile that maybe we should seperate. I asked...
    whitetigerpetal whitetigerpetal 22-25 37 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    Going trough some experiences posted here.

    We all feel the same pain. We all know what to be done, but just not strong enough to take the first step. Do what have to be done! Don't turn back! Never regret! There's a strange peacefulness waiting for us! :)) cheer up all.
    Sulyn Sulyn 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8, 2014

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    So he has cheated on me many times,

    still does..ive been hurt bad.. But now I've changed, I don't care about him anymore, I want to move on. Today he went through my facebook search history and saw me search an ex bf of mine.. And said it hurt him bad.. The thought of me leaving him n being with another men.. He...
    Phairux Phairux 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 6, 2014

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    I recently found that my husband cheated on me

    with a prostitute the night before we got married. I suspected that he had been cheating but of course he denied it until I found out that I had a STD. I had been faithful the entire three years, so I now had confirmation that he cheated. To make matters worse, I was pregnant...
    brokenbea brokenbea 26-30, F 5 Responses May 6, 2014

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    Random Thoughts From A Guy…

    From my perspective, men cheat for three primary reasons: a) symptomatic, b) situational and c) serial cheating. While I am sure there are as many reasons as situations of infidelity it generally seems most cases fall into (or close to) one of these three. Part of what you...
    triguy84 triguy84 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Cheating Boyfriend.. Now My Husband

    Hello There, I want to share my infidelity story to get a feel from individuals who do not know me at all or my situation. So here it goes... I met my husband in 2003. I was 16 and he was 18.. It was a whirl wind. We had a long distance relationship until I went to college in...
    Acerose Acerose 22-25, F 45 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    Update: I just found a text this morning on my

    husbands phone. I wasn't snooping. I went to unplug his phone and found texts. one asked him to pick up some condoms. another asked why he was ignoring her. according to google she lives on base. oh boy. i texted her and she just told me to quit it. she didn't care how i...
    darktippedrose darktippedrose 31-35, F 17 Responses May 2, 2014

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    My Husband Is A Cheater ! But This What Iv Learned

    My husband cheated on my ! But my lessons in life came from the experience ! At 32 iv found how strong I can be an that you don't always fined the answers you would like to in the time you want them ! But no matter what the issue is the truth always comes out ! In life you'll...
    Mgarrett99 Mgarrett99 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

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    My husband cheated on me two years ago

    and I can't get over it. It was with a co-worker, I found their messages on his cell. He still works with her, they even went on a business trip to Spain; not just the two of them, there were other colleagues ,too. He said he cheated on me because of our marital problems; he...
    miculuta miculuta 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    I Have To See The Other Woman

    My husband has been having an ongoing 2 yr but sex fling with this woman I have to see at an organization we beling to.I know she'll be out the picture soon because he does not care about her.Strictly sex.He has been bragging to others in this organization.I didn't believe it at...
    Lisa1471 Lisa1471 36-40, F 60 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Hi, If you are the betrayed spouse,

    you've been cheated on and yet wouldn't cheat yourself please join "I am not the other woman" My aim to build this group so it can be as much of a support to betrayed people who deserve help as the "other women" group is to the people who betray. We need to process the betrayal...
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F May 6

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    I found out 3 yrs ago my husband,

    while we were apart, which was usually only one night, but this time it was 4, had spent the time with another woman. When he returned he told me hed stayed at the town ***** house. That they didn't **** or anything, that she was gone the whole time. O course none of which was...
    50freenflirty 50freenflirty 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 21, 2014

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    Hi. Im married for 3 years now

    but weve been together for seven years, im beautiful and slender, no man just let me pass. I miscaried since 2011 still no lucky, im always dipressed, my marriage its beautiful in public, nobody knows what im going through especially at church; my husband is a junior pastor but...
    Mingas2 Mingas2 26-30, F 7 Responses Apr 4

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    Talk to me, I'm sad. My hb cheated on me,

    we had argument, i told no 1. I stayed! Then found out he's having contact with a few others (which he choose to hide/delete the conversations). Argued, informed family members & I left!! But he convinced me to come bk. (I'm living wt my parent in laws too). He promised to me...
    Sulyn Sulyn 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

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    Recently one of my girlfriends

    and my husband became friends on Facebook. They've never actually met before and their only connection is me. Being the trusting wife I am, I was going through his browsing history while he was at work. I noticed that he was checking all of her photos, a lot, and had also...
    chesapeakemarried chesapeakemarried 31-35, F 6 Responses Jun 23, 2014

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    First Time To Post - Desperately Need Advice

    My husband and I have been married for thirty-eight years.  We've been together for nearly forty years, since I was 16 years old.  We played together on the playground as children.   We have two wonderful children, three gorgeous grandchildren.  My husband and I are best...
    loradw loradw 46-50 49 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    Please join "I am not the other woman" For

    support from other wives.
    paliglass paliglass 31-35, F 2 Responses May 21

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    I have been hurt and cheated on many times

    and still, here i am, staying with him and loving him. Now, other woman (he denies having any communication with her) is texting me and telling me that i have to ask my husband about the truth. I don't know what to believe. I want to have peace of mind.
    brokenscarred brokenscarred 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23, 2014

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    my husband and I have been together

    since I was 17 years old. we have been together for 13 years and have been married for 6 years, we have two beautiful children together. out of those 13 years I have found out that he has slept with 12 people - not just woman - he himself has never told me I have always found...
    eudoreswart eudoreswart 26-30, F 5 Responses May 13

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    He's cheated on me numerous times

    and have discovered he's been doing it to women all his life... I'm positive he's doing it again. I heard him on the phone with this girl he works with that he is always talking about. He's her supervisor and extremely defensive of her if anyone tells her to do anything. When he...
    KateO2014 KateO2014 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 18, 2014

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    That Feeling

    It's that feeling that you can't explain. The one that tells you he has been unfaithful. You know its true. Yet you still doubt yourself. If you know it's true, then why do you question it? Is it because you have no actual facts to base it on? Or is it because you just don't...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 11 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    Forbearance

    This isn't a story. This is for the long-suffering women that have discovered that they have to make a choice with an unfaithful husband. Give him the boot or invite him back in. Oh, I'm not going to color the cost of your choice. We both know the horrible pain involved. You...
    Grandpa10 Grandpa10 56-60 6 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Cheating Husband!

    In some ways I am not suprised as we were both in open relationships when we first met but we always said we would be honest and I am certain he is seeing another woman. The obvious reasons are for my believing he is having an affair. Perfume on him and his clothes are rumpled so...
    carol101w carol101w 56-60, F 7 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    I'm Still Trying To Understand.. Why?

    Hi my name is sammy. I've been married to my husband for almost a year. I have an 8 month old daughter named rylee and I'm currently 8 weeks pregnant with our second child. I'm sure off the bat we seam "normal". We are far from. My husband 1st "cheated" or attempted to heat with...
    ryleesmommy ryleesmommy 18-21, F 31 Responses Mar 4, 2011

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    If I ever had a cheating husband I think I

    would embarrass him by throwing his clothes out the window onto the front yard with dog or cat **** on it.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Nov 9, 2014

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    Hey ladies. I was wondering

    if you could help me stop my friend from having an affair with a married man she already slept with him n he's told her his relationship had a don't ask don't tell policy as he lives abroad few months of the year My friend thinks he's wonderful he's managed to charm her what...
    Confused848 Confused848 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 30, 2014

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    I was approached by "the other woman"

    who told me she'd been having sex with my husband! Turns out she's been having sex with other married men too! She trolls craigslist using the name Ashlee Leeson (not her real name). What a *****!
    colormeshocked colormeshocked 26-30, F 1 Response May 16, 2014

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    I have been married almost 2 years.

    About a year ago I found out my husband cheated the whole time we dated, were engaged, on our wedding day, the day our son was born, and then some. He had a gf and used several hook up sites. He quit his job and used my identity (house, cars, job title) to impress other women...
    nursewifemomomg nursewifemomomg 31-35, F 10 Responses Nov 2, 2014

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    Cheating Too Close To Home

    I find cheating to be a weak characteristic in anyone, and something that I have never done. I also always said that if a man ever cheated on me, he was out. Just like that. Then it happened, my man decided to cheat. He didn't just cheat with some stranger or co worker, he...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi 46-50, F 27 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    My life as I know it has been turned upside

    down. Two nights ago, my husband didn't come home after work. In the 7 years we've been together, this wasn't something uncommon. He has problems with drugs and alcohol and every other week he would disappear for days. He's been better the past year and although it has been hell...
    ZeldaIV ZeldaIV 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 26, 2014

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    Should I Leave? Devasted By Husband's Webcam Cheating And Constant Lies...

    Before my husband and I got married I found emails between him and his ex. Apparently he had a girlfriend when we met and started dating but he never told me. I had even found her name on a bill in his room and asked about it but it was an old bill and he said it was somebody he...
    BrokenPromises1892 BrokenPromises1892 22-25 5 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Just found out my husband has been having an

    affair over Facebook with a girl from our town they go for coffee together but say they have never had sex
    sunnygirl29 sunnygirl29 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 23

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    He really thinks his having an affair has

    nothing to do with our marriage. He texted the other woman 685 times last month. Clearly he doesn't realize our phone bill shows numbers. This is the same woman he cheated with 12 years ago. Clearly not his first affair. He has done this at least 10 times before . I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 23, 2014

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    The Problem With Husbands #1

    One thing that most husbands (and significant others) fail to realize is that the person you fell in love with, the person you said you were committed forever to... IS the only person you're allowed to be with. It's common sense that there are millions of people out there that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    I am new here, but needed some support from

    others going through infidelity and trying to make it work out
    slee17 slee17 36-40, F 3 Responses Jun 30, 2014

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    i need some advice ..

    .. my husband and i started to date when i was 16 and he was 18 and well most of our relationship was long distance because he joined the Marines. well when he took off to bootcamp and end up getting a call from one of my old friends saying he cheated on me with one of his ex gf...
    Karina009 Karina009 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    Had A Cheating Husband

    Huh...lol.. wow... I want to speak out about CHEATERS. I know alot about them. Lived with a couple of them. I can handle, forgive, about almost anything and go on when it comes to working on a relationships. BUT i will not stand for a cheater. My last husband was ... sigh mind...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 49 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    I have known about his affair

    for about 4 weeks now. I cry myself to sleep every night. I had never prepared myself for this situation but I feel like my life as I know it is being ripped away from me. She is begging him to move out and file for divorce. He told her I refused to give him one but he has...
    Lyddia Lyddia 31-35, F 13 Responses Jan 11, 2014

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    dont where to start and tell my story,

    i think the most stupid woman in the world...love my kids and just want my kid to have mother/father like eveyone else..... i havei been marrage for 3 years and have 2 kids. been together with my husband for 10years now.... 2years ago i found out that my husband is cheated on...
    sadmarrage sadmarrage 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3, 2014

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    I Do Not Know How to Trust Him Again

    I trusted him for 5 years ... only to find out that it was all a lie! I decided to give him another chance but how do I trust him again? After everything that he has done to me ... averaging an affair a year including one after we got back together ... how do I trust him. There...
    memnochmom memnochmom 22-25, F 18 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    My Waste Of Time.

    16 years ago; we had each other, we had a beautiful home and three wonderful healthy children. 15 years ago; we still fooled around with each other, we went in to chat rooms together and felt turned on but terrified with what we discovered in chat rooms. 14 years ago; we were...
    Seraa Seraa 46-50 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    So I got married in June.

    I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he started acting strange - angry, distant, argumentative. He started to leave for days on end. He would leave for 2-3 days and...
    Ealasme Ealasme 18-21, F Aug 19, 2014

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    Husband Says His Cheating Is My Fault?

    Hi! I am a 26 year old girl married to a 29 year old man, with a 10 month old son. I have been with my Husband for 3.5 years, only married for one (although we didn't plan to be married until this coming September... insert baby surprise here!). I wanted to share my story with...
    Lauerallaie Lauerallaie 26-30, F 20 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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