I Have a Cheating Husband

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    paliglass paliglass
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 21, 2015

    Im not really sure where to start with all of

    this. I have just recently found out that my husband has been cheating on me for a second time with the same women. It has been absolutely awful. The feelings of pain and betrayal are immeasurable. I first caught my husband cheating on me six years ago. He was caught red...
    Loveir Loveir
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    Talk to me, I'm sad. My hb cheated on me,

    we had argument, i told no 1. I stayed! Then found out he's having contact with a few others (which he choose to hide/delete the conversations). Argued, informed family members & I left!! But he convinced me to come bk. (I'm living wt my parent in laws too). He promised to me...
    Sulyn Sulyn
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2014

    My Husband Is A Cheater ! But This What Iv Learned

    My husband cheated on my ! But my lessons in life came from the experience ! At 32 iv found how strong I can be an that you don't always fined the answers you would like to in the time you want them ! But no matter what the issue is the truth always comes out ! In life you'll...
    Mgarrett99 Mgarrett99
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 3, 2013

    I have had a feeling

    for a few weeks now I couldn't ignore it anymore and this morning I found all these emails and account to dating and affair sites on my husband's computer I'm 21 weeks pregnant with our third child I don't know what to do I do think I need to go get and sti test
    cassieschulze cassieschulze
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2015

    I have been married almost 2 years.

    About a year ago I found out my husband cheated the whole time we dated, were engaged, on our wedding day, the day our son was born, and then some. He had a gf and used several hook up sites. He quit his job and used my identity (house, cars, job title) to impress other women...
    nursewifemomomg nursewifemomomg
    31-35, F
    8 Responses Nov 2, 2014

    I have been married to my husband

    for 8 years, we've been together for 16 and we have one child who is 3. I am SO PISSED right now, its been hard to even complete a thought. I just found my husband's dating profile online 4 days ago. For the past year(+) he has been going hard accusing me of cheating on him. I...
    Blueone10 Blueone10
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Feb 16, 2016

    4 years ago i caught my husband sex texting a

    co-worker. it was only one night he said , it meant nothing and he didnt know why he did it apart from he was drunk. Fast forward to a few weeks ago and i noticed his phone flashing one morning after he had been on a night out. Emails to and from the same woman!!!! i used a...
    MrsF25 MrsF25
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Feb 3, 2016

    Update: I just found a text this morning on my

    husbands phone. I wasn't snooping. I went to unplug his phone and found texts. one asked him to pick up some condoms. another asked why he was ignoring her. according to google she lives on base. oh boy. i texted her and she just told me to quit it. she didn't care how i...
    darktippedrose darktippedrose
    31-35, F
    12 Responses May 2, 2014

    I found my husband of 11 years on Facebook

    messaging another woman who he works with he says it was all messages nothing physical he says it's all over has deleted his Facebook he has said he was stupid yes I want to believe him but knowing he sees her everyday hurts I feel as if I'm not good enough I feel as if he isn't...
    pompeyk pompeyk
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    I have known about his affair

    for about 4 weeks now. I cry myself to sleep every night. I had never prepared myself for this situation but I feel like my life as I know it is being ripped away from me. She is begging him to move out and file for divorce. He told her I refused to give him one but he has...
    Lyddia Lyddia
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Jan 11, 2014

    Should I Leave? Devasted By Husband's Webcam Cheating And Constant Lies...

    Before my husband and I got married I found emails between him and his ex. Apparently he had a girlfriend when we met and started dating but he never told me. I had even found her name on a bill in his room and asked about it but it was an old bill and he said it was somebody he...
    BrokenPromises1892 BrokenPromises1892
    6 Responses Jul 21, 2013

    my husband cheated on me with a woman whom he

    had been thinking about since we met her. she was my friend, supposed to be my best friend. I thought she was like a sister to me. we were pregnant together, due dates were a week apart. there was always harmless flirting between them, which I thought was no big deal. people...
    nickie1989 nickie1989
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 31, 2015

    If I ever had a cheating husband I think I

    would embarrass him by throwing his clothes out the window onto the front yard with dog or cat **** on it.
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    22-25, F
    Nov 9, 2014

    when does the gut renching feelings

    or worthlessness go away
    cassieschulze cassieschulze
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jul 8, 2015

    That Feeling

    It's that feeling that you can't explain. The one that tells you he has been unfaithful. You know its true. Yet you still doubt yourself. If you know it's true, then why do you question it? Is it because you have no actual facts to base it on? Or is it because you just don't...
    totallytea totallytea
    51-55, F
    12 Responses Jul 16, 2011

    I really hate him he is

    such a narcissist! I have been with him for 13 years! The last 3 years he has done nothing but mess around on me. I have no way to express myself right now as I am heated! Pissed! I wish he would tell the truth for once! He keeps using our children as a pawn for me to not leave...
    Hamnamatata Hamnamatata
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    I Don'T Know How To Deal With This

    My husband says he's addicted to **** , I have caught him before emails, and phone numbers each time he swore he just contacted these women for pictures . Recently I found texts that suggest he did way more then talk to a women and there certain things to suggest she was a...
    Emc76 Emc76
    3 Responses Jun 14, 2013

    dont where to start and tell my story,

    i think the most stupid woman in the world...love my kids and just want my kid to have mother/father like eveyone else..... i havei been marrage for 3 years and have 2 kids. been together with my husband for 10years now.... 2years ago i found out that my husband is cheated on...
    sadmarrage sadmarrage
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 3, 2014

    Going trough some experiences posted here.

    We all feel the same pain. We all know what to be done, but just not strong enough to take the first step. Do what have to be done! Don't turn back! Never regret! There's a strange peacefulness waiting for us! :)) cheer up all.
    Sulyn Sulyn
    31-35, F
    Nov 8, 2014

    I have cheating husband.

    Most of what comes out of his mouth is a lie. I spend all of my money on his lawyer for his custody battle with his ex, because he doesn't have any. He doesn't have any money because he spends his on hookers and pay **** sites. He has cam girls all over the world. He got...
    ahalleck ahalleck
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2015

    Cheating Too Close To Home

    I find cheating to be a weak characteristic in anyone, and something that I have never done. I also always said that if a man ever cheated on me, he was out. Just like that. Then it happened, my man decided to cheat. He didn't just cheat with some stranger or co worker, he...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi
    46-50, F
    29 Responses Apr 24, 2012

    Hey ladies. I was wondering

    if you could help me stop my friend from having an affair with a married man she already slept with him n he's told her his relationship had a don't ask don't tell policy as he lives abroad few months of the year My friend thinks he's wonderful he's managed to charm her what...
    Confused848 Confused848
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Nov 30, 2014

    Cheating Husband!

    In some ways I am not suprised as we were both in open relationships when we first met but we always said we would be honest and I am certain he is seeing another woman. The obvious reasons are for my believing he is having an affair. Perfume on him and his clothes are rumpled so...
    carol101w carol101w
    56-60, F
    5 Responses Sep 1, 2012

    A bit o background information,

    I'm 36 and have been married for 8years. In that time we have had 3 children and as far as I knew we were happy. The other night I was using his phone to check emails, a message popped upfront another woman. I found out he was on a dating website and had arranged a date. He...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 29, 2016

    I Have To See The Other Woman

    My husband has been having an ongoing 2 yr but sex fling with this woman I have to see at an organization we beling to.I know she'll be out the picture soon because he does not care about her.Strictly sex.He has been bragging to others in this organization.I didn't believe it at...
    Lisa1471 Lisa1471
    36-40, F
    58 Responses Jun 10, 2012

    I'm Still Trying To Understand.. Why?

    Hi my name is sammy. I've been married to my husband for almost a year. I have an 8 month old daughter named rylee and I'm currently 8 weeks pregnant with our second child. I'm sure off the bat we seam "normal". We are far from. My husband 1st "cheated" or attempted to heat with...
    ryleesmommy ryleesmommy
    18-21, F
    29 Responses Mar 4, 2011

    Husband Says His Cheating Is My Fault?

    Hi! I am a 26 year old girl married to a 29 year old man, with a 10 month old son. I have been with my Husband for 3.5 years, only married for one (although we didn't plan to be married until this coming September... insert baby surprise here!). I wanted to share my story with...
    Lauerallaie Lauerallaie
    26-30, F
    22 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    kenyol kenyol
    22-25, M
    1 Response Mar 6, 2016

    my husband and I have been together

    since I was 17 years old. we have been together for 13 years and have been married for 6 years, we have two beautiful children together. out of those 13 years I have found out that he has slept with 12 people - not just woman - he himself has never told me I have always found...
    eudoreswart eudoreswart
    31-35, F
    8 Responses May 13, 2015

    Is it a mathematical equation

    that the amount of pain you have is proportional to the amount of happiness you once had? The holidays are particularly hard after a breakup. Memories of what it used to feel like floats around every Christmas tree, every gathering of friends and every gift you wrap. Imagine...
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart
    51-55, F
    7 Responses Dec 18, 2013

    First Time To Post - Desperately Need Advice

    My husband and I have been married for thirty-eight years.  We've been together for nearly forty years, since I was 16 years old.  We played together on the playground as children.   We have two wonderful children, three gorgeous grandchildren.  My husband and I are best...
    loradw loradw
    49 Responses Apr 10, 2011

    Cheating Boyfriend.. Now My Husband

    Hello There, I want to share my infidelity story to get a feel from individuals who do not know me at all or my situation. So here it goes... I met my husband in 2003. I was 16 and he was 18.. It was a whirl wind. We had a long distance relationship until I went to college in...
    Acerose Acerose
    22-25, F
    41 Responses Oct 30, 2012

    Just did some snooping

    and found out my husband signed up on the Ashley Madison web page 3 days ago. I am going out of town in 2 weeks. He doesn't know I know. I am going to wait and catch him in the act of meeting them if that is what he has plans on doing.
    Cortm26 Cortm26
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2015

    My husband is a serial cheater.

    He was caught in 2012 having an affair that he lied about for years. I found a sent text. He must have believed he had deleted them all; he did not. This affair ended after I found out about it. Like a dumbass I wanted so badly to believe him, that he was so sorry and it wouldn...
    Catnip44 Catnip44
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    Hi, If you are the betrayed spouse,

    you've been cheated on and yet wouldn't cheat yourself please join "I am not the other woman" My aim to build this group so it can be as much of a support to betrayed people who deserve help as the "other women" group is to the people who betray. We need to process the betrayal...
    paliglass paliglass
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 6, 2015

    If your husband cheat on you more then once's!

    !! it's not worth it anymore, move on as much as your heart hurt but that **** over.
    kcbabypro kcbabypro
    26-30, F
    Jul 25, 2015

    He's cheated on me numerous times

    and have discovered he's been doing it to women all his life... I'm positive he's doing it again. I heard him on the phone with this girl he works with that he is always talking about. He's her supervisor and extremely defensive of her if anyone tells her to do anything. When he...
    KateO2014 KateO2014
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Nov 18, 2014

    **UPDATE**Getting Stronger, I Think?

    A lot has happened since this post. Towards the end of April my husband stayed out an entire weekend. I drove to the other women's house and his truck was parked there! He showed up that Sunday afternoon with an insulting lie. I told him I wanted a divorce and told him to leave...
    Pray4change Pray4change
    41-45, F
    5 Responses Apr 8, 2013

    1st let me say (as stupid

    as it is) that I don't want to leave my husband. I just want to talk about it and have support because I don't right now. we have been together 11 years next month and are expecting our 3 baby soon after. with out crazy back story we have both had issues with cheating in the...
    myworld930 myworld930
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 28, 2016

    So he has cheated on me many times,

    still does..ive been hurt bad.. But now I've changed, I don't care about him anymore, I want to move on. Today he went through my facebook search history and saw me search an ex bf of mine.. And said it hurt him bad.. The thought of me leaving him n being with another men.. He...
    Phairux Phairux
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Oct 6, 2014

    Cheating Husbands

      I have been with my husband for 5 yrs. But married for 4 yrs. in October. We have 2 beautiful girls together. But on July 14th my husband came home to me at 7:30 a.m. in the morning and told me that he had been thinking for awhile that maybe we should seperate. I asked...
    whitetigerpetal whitetigerpetal
    36 Responses Aug 25, 2008

    Random Thoughts From A Guy…

    From my perspective, men cheat for three primary reasons: a) symptomatic, b) situational and c) serial cheating. While I am sure there are as many reasons as situations of infidelity it generally seems most cases fall into (or close to) one of these three. Part of what you...
    triguy84 triguy84
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Mar 17, 2013

    My husband cheated on me two years ago

    and I can't get over it. It was with a co-worker, I found their messages on his cell. He still works with her, they even went on a business trip to Spain; not just the two of them, there were other colleagues ,too. He said he cheated on me because of our marital problems; he...
    miculuta miculuta
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Apr 11, 2015

    Just found out my husband has been having an

    affair over Facebook with a girl from our town they go for coffee together but say they have never had sex
    sunnygirl29 sunnygirl29
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Feb 23, 2015

    This Might Help

    This is an article I ran across that I thought might be helpful in understanding what men do to hide the fact that they are cheating. I don't know who wrote it, but it has some very good information in it. My intention of writing this article is to help women out there who are...
    totallytea totallytea
    51-55, F
    1 Response Mar 30, 2011

    Had A Cheating Husband

    Huh...lol.. wow... I want to speak out about CHEATERS. I know alot about them. Lived with a couple of them. I can handle, forgive, about almost anything and go on when it comes to working on a relationships. BUT i will not stand for a cheater. My last husband was ... sigh mind...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze
    56-60, F
    41 Responses Jan 14, 2012

    Well I had one. Divorce is in progress.

    Because what you allow continues.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    Hi, I may have a husband

    who is thinking about cheating. I dont know yet. So today we were watching his channel and the subject of STD came up on tv. Then he starts talking about how lucky he has been that he had turned down offers from three women who wanted to sleep with him recently and showed him...
    clausy clausy
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Apr 21, 2015

    He Never Ceases To Amaze Me!

    I got up late today. Took some time for me. It was about 2pm before I even made it to the computer to check my email. I had an email from my husband. He left me for another woman in January. It isn't unusual for me to have email from him.Even though he is living with another...
    totallytea totallytea
    51-55, F
    6 Responses May 7, 2011

    Hi. Im married for 3 years now

    but weve been together for seven years, im beautiful and slender, no man just let me pass. I miscaried since 2011 still no lucky, im always dipressed, my marriage its beautiful in public, nobody knows what im going through especially at church; my husband is a junior pastor but...
    Mingas2 Mingas2
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Apr 4, 2015

    Talk to me, I'm sad. My hb cheated on me,

    we had argument, i told no 1. I stayed! Then found out he's having contact with a few others (which he choose to hide/delete the conversations). Argued, informed family members & I left!! But he convinced me to come bk. (I'm living wt my parent in laws too). He promised to me...
    Sulyn Sulyn
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Nov 8, 2014

    I have been married for 18 years to my husband.

    We have three beautiful children. Well, one is 19, so not much of a child anymore, and she summers from severe comprehension issues. My middle daughter is 17 and she suffers from autism, epilepsy, and ADHD. My youngest is a boy, who is 14 years old and suffers from ADHD. I...
    KArrow1973 KArrow1973
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jul 10, 2015

    I Do Not Know How to Trust Him Again

    I trusted him for 5 years ... only to find out that it was all a lie! I decided to give him another chance but how do I trust him again? After everything that he has done to me ... averaging an affair a year including one after we got back together ... how do I trust him. There...
    memnochmom memnochmom
    22-25, F
    18 Responses Oct 6, 2008

    So I got married in June.

    I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he started acting strange - angry, distant, argumentative. He started to leave for days on end. He would leave for 2-3 days and...
    Ealasme Ealasme
    18-21, F
    Aug 19, 2014

    My Waste Of Time.

    16 years ago; we had each other, we had a beautiful home and three wonderful healthy children. 15 years ago; we still fooled around with each other, we went in to chat rooms together and felt turned on but terrified with what we discovered in chat rooms. 14 years ago; we were...
    Seraa Seraa
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

    I have been married twice my first husband

    cheated on me plus other things and I'm on my second husband who I'm still with cheated on me sometimes I think I'm the one who is in the wrong
    tinkerbell1964 tinkerbell1964
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jul 29, 2015

    It's Been Almost a Year....

    Well its been almost a year since my husband cheated and I am handling it better than when I first discovered it. Of course it's still hard for me to completely trust him, and the anger and hurt still come, but not as often. I sometimes wonder if he is still in contact with the...
    RainbowsandAngels RainbowsandAngels
    51-55, F
    13 Responses Mar 31, 2009
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