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I Have a Cheating Husband

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    When i found out he is in a long relationship

    with a married woman for 10 years and married with me for 3 years We talked about it and he excplain everything i Told him i Cant stay like this he need to make a choice and after that he stope meeting her and she got angry and leave to another country with her Husband and...
    nounousamar nounousamar 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 26

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    I have a question to ask.

    I do not have a cheating husband. But for all the wives on here I have to ask. Do you wish someone would have told you sooner? If a friend, co-worker, one of his friends or co-workers knew or suspected that he was having an affair. do you want to have been told sooner? or do you...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I been with my husband a yr

    and a half we been married for almost a month. About a week ago my husband was acting very wired about his cell phone. It's was always on silence, fast down when he put it down, sleeping with the phone off or in his pocket . One morning I couldn't take it so when he was sleep I...
    chris760 chris760 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 19

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    Today I was washing his clothes

    and found a note written on a small piece of paper from a woman telling my husband to meet her at a motel room and how much she misses him. How can he tell me theres no one else???? The DAMN LYING FOOL IS CAUGHT! I KNEW IT! I KNEW HE WAS!!!! Am I that terrible of a wife? I do...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 46-50, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    That Feeling

    It's that feeling that you can't explain. The one that tells you he has been unfaithful. You know its true. Yet you still doubt yourself. If you know it's true, then why do you question it? Is it because you have no actual facts to base it on? Or is it because you just don't...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 11 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    Forbearance

    This isn't a story. This is for the long-suffering women that have discovered that they have to make a choice with an unfaithful husband. Give him the boot or invite him back in. Oh, I'm not going to color the cost of your choice. We both know the horrible pain involved. You...
    Grandpa10 Grandpa10 56-60 4 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    dont where to start and tell my story,

    i think the most stupid woman in the world...love my kids and just want my kid to have mother/father like eveyone else..... i havei been marrage for 3 years and have 2 kids. been together with my husband for 10years now.... 2years ago i found out that my husband is cheated on...
    sadmarrage sadmarrage 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    Recently one of my girlfriends

    and my husband became friends on Facebook. They've never actually met before and their only connection is me. Being the trusting wife I am, I was going through his browsing history while he was at work. I noticed that he was checking all of her photos, a lot, and had also...
    chesapeakemarried chesapeakemarried 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 23

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    Is it a mathematical equation

    that the amount of pain you have is proportional to the amount of happiness you once had? The holidays are particularly hard after a breakup. Memories of what it used to feel like floats around every Christmas tree, every gathering of friends and every gift you wrap. Imagine...
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 11 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    Had A Cheating Husband

    Huh...lol.. wow... I want to speak out about CHEATERS. I know alot about them. Lived with a couple of them. I can handle, forgive, about almost anything and go on when it comes to working on a relationships. BUT i will not stand for a cheater. My last husband was ... sigh mind...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 39 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    HEY IM 26 YEARS OLD. MY HUSBAND AND I HAVE BEEN

    MARRIED FOR 3 YEARS NOW AND HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 5. WE HAVE A 3 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER. EVERYTHIG AT FIRST WAS BEAUTIFUL. AS TIME PASSED I CM TO FIND OUT HE HAD BEEN CHATTING TO WOMEN IN FACEBOOK. I CONFRONTED HIM AND HE CLOSED HIS FACEBOOK. SOME TIME PASED ON I FOUND OUT HE HAD...
    hersheys1228 hersheys1228 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 19

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    Recently discovered that my husband Is texting

    a girl he used to date before we met (over 10 years ago) daily... More so when I'm working. (I'm a nurse and work night shift). I've looked at his phone and the message aren't there so he's obviously sending them... In my eyes that means there is something to hide. He had also...
    hurtRN hurtRN 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 21

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    I have been hurt and cheated on many times

    and still, here i am, staying with him and loving him. Now, other woman (he denies having any communication with her) is texting me and telling me that i have to ask my husband about the truth. I don't know what to believe. I want to have peace of mind.
    brokenscarred brokenscarred 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 23

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    I Have To See The Other Woman

    My husband has been having an ongoing 2 yr but sex fling with this woman I have to see at an organization we beling to.I know she'll be out the picture soon because he does not care about her.Strictly sex.He has been bragging to others in this organization.I didn't believe it at...
    Lisa1471 Lisa1471 36-40, F 61 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    I Don'T Know How To Deal With This

    My husband says he's addicted to **** , I have caught him before emails, and phone numbers each time he swore he just contacted these women for pictures . Recently I found texts that suggest he did way more then talk to a women and there certain things to suggest she was a...
    Emc76 Emc76 36-40 3 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    Tired And Hurt

    well I have been married to my husband for 22 years soon to be 23. When we first got married he used to beat me, Well we separated and was separated for awhile. He promised to quit and he did, he hasn't hit me in years. but I soon learned that he was running around with...
    nanamoreet nanamoreet 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 12, 2011

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    I have been married 26 years.

    I have been with my husband 29. I am just going to tell you the first and last thing he did. We were married in 1987. He cheated on my in 1993, probably before that but I don't have proof. Because of that 1993 relationship this other woman they had a son. After I got over...
    Patience2120 Patience2120 56-60, F 5 Responses Feb 15

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    **UPDATE**Getting Stronger, I Think?

    A lot has happened since this post. Towards the end of April my husband stayed out an entire weekend. I drove to the other women's house and his truck was parked there! He showed up that Sunday afternoon with an insulting lie. I told him I wanted a divorce and told him to leave...
    Pray4change Pray4change 41-45, F 6 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    Husband Says His Cheating Is My Fault?

    Hi! I am a 26 year old girl married to a 29 year old man, with a 10 month old son. I have been with my Husband for 3.5 years, only married for one (although we didn't plan to be married until this coming September... insert baby surprise here!). I wanted to share my story with...
    Lauerallaie Lauerallaie 26-30, F 18 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    Cheating Boyfriend.. Now My Husband

    Hello There, I want to share my infidelity story to get a feel from individuals who do not know me at all or my situation. So here it goes... I met my husband in 2003. I was 16 and he was 18.. It was a whirl wind. We had a long distance relationship until I went to college in...
    Acerose Acerose 22-25, F 33 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    I found out 3 yrs ago my husband,

    while we were apart, which was usually only one night, but this time it was 4, had spent the time with another woman. When he returned he told me hed stayed at the town ***** house. That they didn't **** or anything, that she was gone the whole time. O course none of which was...
    50freenflirty 50freenflirty 26-30, F 6 Responses Jun 21

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    Cheating Too Close To Home

    I find cheating to be a weak characteristic in anyone, and something that I have never done. I also always said that if a man ever cheated on me, he was out. Just like that. Then it happened, my man decided to cheat. He didn't just cheat with some stranger or co worker, he...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi 41-45, F 27 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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    Update: I just found a text this morning on my

    husbands phone. I wasn't snooping. I went to unplug his phone and found texts. one asked him to pick up some condoms. another asked why he was ignoring her. according to google she lives on base. oh boy. i texted her and she just told me to quit it. she didn't care how i...
    darktippedrose darktippedrose 26-30, F 21 Responses May 2

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    I am a stay at home mom

    that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking what we would do to take care of our family. Within a few years my husband had built a very successful business using...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    Me and my husband together off

    and on for 22 years, married for 5. He cheated when we were younger and I walked away from the relationship. Then he go incarcerated for 6 years. When he getting he contacted me to see if we can try and make it work. I said yes, we tried then he head butted me and I walked away...
    lounground75 lounground75 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 2

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    Random Thoughts From A Guy…

    From my perspective, men cheat for three primary reasons: a) symptomatic, b) situational and c) serial cheating. While I am sure there are as many reasons as situations of infidelity it generally seems most cases fall into (or close to) one of these three. Part of what you...
    triguy84 triguy84 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    The Problem With Husbands #1

    One thing that most husbands (and significant others) fail to realize is that the person you fell in love with, the person you said you were committed forever to... IS the only person you're allowed to be with. It's common sense that there are millions of people out there that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    I got married to a man

    who is good. But in bedroom, he always surprises me... He always talks about his fantasies and that involves all the girls he likes it .. And then he started asking me to say about my fantasies.. It my real experiences.. I did not have much to talk on that but he made me think...
    Manisha76 Manisha76 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older men younger women relationship. Younger women are more vibrant, more full of life and that energy can spill over onto you, making older men feel younger in return. Typically, women mature at a faster rate than men do and sometimes a 50 year old man is more compatible...
    BB0729 BB0729 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    I have a hard time standing up

    for myself or confronting my husband on my suspicions about him cheating I feel like he will get mad at me for hacking into his accounts and putting spyware on his phone am I wrong here for doing that
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    Cheating Husbands

      I have been with my husband for 5 yrs. But married for 4 yrs. in October. We have 2 beautiful girls together. But on July 14th my husband came home to me at 7:30 a.m. in the morning and told me that he had been thinking for awhile that maybe we should seperate. I asked...
    whitetigerpetal whitetigerpetal 22-25 34 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    I have known about his affair

    for about 4 weeks now. I cry myself to sleep every night. I had never prepared myself for this situation but I feel like my life as I know it is being ripped away from me. She is begging him to move out and file for divorce. He told her I refused to give him one but he has...
    Lyddia Lyddia 31-35, F 12 Responses Jan 11

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    My husband is cheating on me.

    He placed a password on his phone and quickly erases his messages on his phone. I also caught him exchanging poctures of his genitalia with women on his phone. We have a 4 yr old with autism. I dont want my son to get worse. I tried understanding but it does not look like he...
    Ihatekermit Ihatekermit 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 25

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    Well I had one. Divorce is in progress.

    Because what you allow continues.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    My Waste Of Time.

    16 years ago; we had each other, we had a beautiful home and three wonderful healthy children. 15 years ago; we still fooled around with each other, we went in to chat rooms together and felt turned on but terrified with what we discovered in chat rooms. 14 years ago; we were...
    Seraa Seraa 46-50 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    I was approached by "the other woman"

    who told me she'd been having sex with my husband! Turns out she's been having sex with other married men too! She trolls craigslist using the name Ashlee Leeson (not her real name). What a *****!
    colormeshocked colormeshocked 26-30, F 1 Response May 16

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    my husband goes on a website

    and talks to this girl. FLirting mostly. He spends every spare moment on his computer. I think he truly believes he cares for this women. They have never met and everything he has told her about himself is a lie. I made up a fake profile on the website and friended hime to i can...
    filleamour filleamour 41-45, F 3 Responses Mar 15

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    I Do Not Know How to Trust Him Again

    I trusted him for 5 years ... only to find out that it was all a lie! I decided to give him another chance but how do I trust him again? After everything that he has done to me ... averaging an affair a year including one after we got back together ... how do I trust him. There...
    memnochmom memnochmom 22-25, F 18 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Question: How many of you women apart of this

    experience group is trying to work on your marriage even with your spouse being unfaithful and why or why not?
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    The Worst Night Of My Life

    I remember the night I found out about my husbands cheating so clearly, I dont think I will ever forget it. I totally lost my mind that night. I had been unhappy for some time, our youngest daughter had been diagnosed with a heart murmer at birth, I had a miscarriage three...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jan 3, 2011

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    Should I Leave? Devasted By Husband's Webcam Cheating And Constant Lies...

    Before my husband and I got married I found emails between him and his ex. Apparently he had a girlfriend when we met and started dating but he never told me. I had even found her name on a bill in his room and asked about it but it was an old bill and he said it was somebody he...
    BrokenPromises1892 BrokenPromises1892 18-21 4 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    My husband is working out of state

    and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself checking his phone for as much info as I can find I have our iPhones linked together so I can see his location and photos and I can also...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    He Never Ceases To Amaze Me!

    I got up late today. Took some time for me. It was about 2pm before I even made it to the computer to check my email. I had an email from my husband. He left me for another woman in January. It isn't unusual for me to have email from him.Even though he is living with another...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 6 Responses May 7, 2011

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    We been married for 10 years

    and found out that he has a mistress and they having relationship for 9 years, he said he needs her for financial because the woman is now a doctor and she loves my husband so much that she will help him financially, i love my husband but my husband dream is to get rich thats...
    Princess1028 Princess1028 31-35, F 7 Responses May 23

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    Let me start by saying

    that my husband is the most wonderful person in his own opinion/world. Nah he's such a cold blooded psychopath walking around destroying my life. And good for him he has found his new source to suck upon because I'm all dried up. I can't believe that the more I want to get...
    thegirlwhowasleftbehind thegirlwhowasleftbehind 31-35, F 2 Responses May 22

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    I'm Still Trying To Understand.. Why?

    Hi my name is sammy. I've been married to my husband for almost a year. I have an 8 month old daughter named rylee and I'm currently 8 weeks pregnant with our second child. I'm sure off the bat we seam "normal". We are far from. My husband 1st "cheated" or attempted to heat with...
    ryleesmommy ryleesmommy 18-21, F 33 Responses Mar 4, 2011

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    my experience with my husband of 28 yrs married

    but we have been together for 38yrs we are both in our 50s we have a great life together we have adult children my man worked away from home he would go to work on a mon then come home on the Friday we had a terrible argument one weekend before he went to work for the week he...
    joyce1960 joyce1960 51-55, F 1 Response Jan 29

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    I recently found that my husband cheated on me

    with a prostitute the night before we got married. I suspected that he had been cheating but of course he denied it until I found out that I had a STD. I had been faithful the entire three years, so I now had confirmation that he cheated. To make matters worse, I was pregnant...
    brokenbea brokenbea 26-30, F 6 Responses May 6

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    I Feel Numb

    I have been with my husband since I was in my 20's (in my 40's now) and sometimes it doesn't seem like there was a time before him. Pretty much from day 1 he has cheated. We have a big blow up. He sometimes leaves for a day or more. (At my request) Then comes back crying and...
    Shelly110 Shelly110 46-50, F 4 Responses Oct 12, 2013

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    So an update is in order,

    since I have been so lax in my attendance on EP. I am home AGAIN from yet another week away with the kids. Relaxation and rest certainly does wonders for a soul. Lots of time to think, consider my homelife, my relationship. I have always been someone who resists change. I...
    knittingbadsweaters knittingbadsweaters 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My Husband Is A Cheater ! But This What Iv Learned

    My husband cheated on my ! But my lessons in life came from the experience ! At 32 iv found how strong I can be an that you don't always fined the answers you would like to in the time you want them ! But no matter what the issue is the truth always comes out ! In life you'll...
    Mgarrett99 Mgarrett99 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    First Time To Post - Desperately Need Advice

    My husband and I have been married for thirty-eight years.  We've been together for nearly forty years, since I was 16 years old.  We played together on the playground as children.   We have two wonderful children, three gorgeous grandchildren.  My husband and I are best...
    loradw loradw 46-50 48 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    Thanks to this blog http://findhornywife.

    blogspot.com i just spiced up my married life without my husband know what i am doing lol!!!
    Mistressdaniels Mistressdaniels 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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