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I Have a Cheating Husband

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    He really thinks his having an affair has

    nothing to do with our marriage. He texted the other woman 685 times last month. Clearly he doesn't realize our phone bill shows numbers. This is the same woman he cheated with 12 years ago. Clearly not his first affair. He has done this at least 10 times before . I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 23

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    My husband is working out of state

    and I have suspicions that he's cheating again I don't want to leave him or be alone but don't want to put up with it I constantly find myself checking his phone for as much info as I can find I have our iPhones linked together so I can see his location and photos and I can also...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I have been married almost 2 years.

    About a year ago I found out my husband cheated the whole time we dated, were engaged, on our wedding day, the day our son was born, and then some. He had a gf and used several hook up sites. He quit his job and used my identity (house, cars, job title) to impress other women...
    nursewifemomomg nursewifemomomg 31-35, F 8 Responses Nov 2

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    I Have To See The Other Woman

    My husband has been having an ongoing 2 yr but sex fling with this woman I have to see at an organization we beling to.I know she'll be out the picture soon because he does not care about her.Strictly sex.He has been bragging to others in this organization.I didn't believe it at...
    Lisa1471 Lisa1471 36-40, F 59 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    If I ever had a cheating husband I think I

    would embarrass him by throwing his clothes out the window onto the front yard with dog or cat **** on it.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F Nov 9

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    Forbearance

    This isn't a story. This is for the long-suffering women that have discovered that they have to make a choice with an unfaithful husband. Give him the boot or invite him back in. Oh, I'm not going to color the cost of your choice. We both know the horrible pain involved. You...
    Grandpa10 Grandpa10 56-60 4 Responses Sep 16, 2013

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    Had A Cheating Husband

    Huh...lol.. wow... I want to speak out about CHEATERS. I know alot about them. Lived with a couple of them. I can handle, forgive, about almost anything and go on when it comes to working on a relationships. BUT i will not stand for a cheater. My last husband was ... sigh mind...
    MorningBreeze MorningBreeze 56-60, F 46 Responses Jan 14, 2012

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    We been married for 10 years

    and found out that he has a mistress and they having relationship for 9 years, he said he needs her for financial because the woman is now a doctor and she loves my husband so much that she will help him financially, i love my husband but my husband dream is to get rich thats...
    Princess1028 Princess1028 36-40, F 6 Responses May 23

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    I Don'T Know How To Deal With This

    My husband says he's addicted to **** , I have caught him before emails, and phone numbers each time he swore he just contacted these women for pictures . Recently I found texts that suggest he did way more then talk to a women and there certain things to suggest she was a...
    Emc76 Emc76 36-40 2 Responses Jun 14, 2013

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    He deletes his texts messages.

    He deletes his facebook messages while still having the conversation. when I confronted him.. He changed his password. When I stumbled upon a message on his tablet he removed the messenger app and logged out of facebook so I couldn't look at anything. I never would have started...
    slnb88 slnb88 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 13

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    My husband of 9 years (together

    for 14), has been a random cheater since we were dating in high school. I thought he changed once we were married but I just found out a month ago that he had a mistress at his job. Some ugly woman too, but he was sleeping with her unprotected for a month before he told me. He...
    Mytime32 Mytime32 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 14

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    I am new here, but needed some support from

    others going through infidelity and trying to make it work out
    slee17 slee17 36-40, F 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Husband Says His Cheating Is My Fault?

    Hi! I am a 26 year old girl married to a 29 year old man, with a 10 month old son. I have been with my Husband for 3.5 years, only married for one (although we didn't plan to be married until this coming September... insert baby surprise here!). I wanted to share my story with...
    Lauerallaie Lauerallaie 26-30, F 18 Responses Jan 16, 2013

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    It's Been Almost a Year....

    Well its been almost a year since my husband cheated and I am handling it better than when I first discovered it. Of course it's still hard for me to completely trust him, and the anger and hurt still come, but not as often. I sometimes wonder if he is still in contact with the...
    RainbowsandAngels RainbowsandAngels 51-55, F 14 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    I have been hurt and cheated on many times

    and still, here i am, staying with him and loving him. Now, other woman (he denies having any communication with her) is texting me and telling me that i have to ask my husband about the truth. I don't know what to believe. I want to have peace of mind.
    brokenscarred brokenscarred 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 23

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    He's cheated on me numerous times

    and have discovered he's been doing it to women all his life... I'm positive he's doing it again. I heard him on the phone with this girl he works with that he is always talking about. He's her supervisor and extremely defensive of her if anyone tells her to do anything. When he...
    KateO2014 KateO2014 26-30, F 5 Responses Nov 18

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    The Problem With Husbands #1

    One thing that most husbands (and significant others) fail to realize is that the person you fell in love with, the person you said you were committed forever to... IS the only person you're allowed to be with. It's common sense that there are millions of people out there that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 8, 2013

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    I have a question to ask.

    I do not have a cheating husband. But for all the wives on here I have to ask. Do you wish someone would have told you sooner? If a friend, co-worker, one of his friends or co-workers knew or suspected that he was having an affair. do you want to have been told sooner? or do you...
    somebody999 somebody999 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 24

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    I am a stay at home mom

    that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking what we would do to take care of our family. Within a few years my husband had built a very successful business using...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 8 Responses Apr 1

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    My Waste Of Time.

    16 years ago; we had each other, we had a beautiful home and three wonderful healthy children. 15 years ago; we still fooled around with each other, we went in to chat rooms together and felt turned on but terrified with what we discovered in chat rooms. 14 years ago; we were...
    Seraa Seraa 46-50 2 Responses Apr 8, 2013

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    That Feeling

    It's that feeling that you can't explain. The one that tells you he has been unfaithful. You know its true. Yet you still doubt yourself. If you know it's true, then why do you question it? Is it because you have no actual facts to base it on? Or is it because you just don't...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 11 Responses Jul 16, 2011

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    Tired And Hurt

    well I have been married to my husband for 22 years soon to be 23. When we first got married he used to beat me, Well we separated and was separated for awhile. He promised to quit and he did, he hasn't hit me in years. but I soon learned that he was running around with...
    nanamoreet nanamoreet 51-55, F 1 Response Mar 12, 2011

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    Is it a mathematical equation

    that the amount of pain you have is proportional to the amount of happiness you once had? The holidays are particularly hard after a breakup. Memories of what it used to feel like floats around every Christmas tree, every gathering of friends and every gift you wrap. Imagine...
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 10 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    He Never Ceases To Amaze Me!

    I got up late today. Took some time for me. It was about 2pm before I even made it to the computer to check my email. I had an email from my husband. He left me for another woman in January. It isn't unusual for me to have email from him.Even though he is living with another...
    totallytea totallytea 46-50, F 6 Responses May 7, 2011

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    dont where to start and tell my story,

    i think the most stupid woman in the world...love my kids and just want my kid to have mother/father like eveyone else..... i havei been marrage for 3 years and have 2 kids. been together with my husband for 10years now.... 2years ago i found out that my husband is cheated on...
    sadmarrage sadmarrage 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I have known about his affair

    for about 4 weeks now. I cry myself to sleep every night. I had never prepared myself for this situation but I feel like my life as I know it is being ripped away from me. She is begging him to move out and file for divorce. He told her I refused to give him one but he has...
    Lyddia Lyddia 31-35, F 13 Responses Jan 11

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    Today I was washing his clothes

    and found a note written on a small piece of paper from a woman telling my husband to meet her at a motel room and how much she misses him. How can he tell me theres no one else???? The DAMN LYING FOOL IS CAUGHT! I KNEW IT! I KNEW HE WAS!!!! Am I that terrible of a wife? I do...
    Shirleyyougest Shirleyyougest 41-45, F 7 Responses Mar 27

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    I was approached by "the other woman"

    who told me she'd been having sex with my husband! Turns out she's been having sex with other married men too! She trolls craigslist using the name Ashlee Leeson (not her real name). What a *****!
    colormeshocked colormeshocked 26-30, F 1 Response May 16

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    Cheating Boyfriend.. Now My Husband

    Hello There, I want to share my infidelity story to get a feel from individuals who do not know me at all or my situation. So here it goes... I met my husband in 2003. I was 16 and he was 18.. It was a whirl wind. We had a long distance relationship until I went to college in...
    Acerose Acerose 22-25, F 43 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    First Time To Post - Desperately Need Advice

    My husband and I have been married for thirty-eight years.  We've been together for nearly forty years, since I was 16 years old.  We played together on the playground as children.   We have two wonderful children, three gorgeous grandchildren.  My husband and I are best...
    loradw loradw 46-50 48 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    Question: How many of you women apart of this

    experience group is trying to work on your marriage even with your spouse being unfaithful and why or why not?
    Itonlytakesone Itonlytakesone 26-30, F 5 Responses Mar 27

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    I'm Still Trying To Understand.. Why?

    Hi my name is sammy. I've been married to my husband for almost a year. I have an 8 month old daughter named rylee and I'm currently 8 weeks pregnant with our second child. I'm sure off the bat we seam "normal". We are far from. My husband 1st "cheated" or attempted to heat with...
    ryleesmommy ryleesmommy 18-21, F 33 Responses Mar 4, 2011

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    Cheating Husband!

    In some ways I am not suprised as we were both in open relationships when we first met but we always said we would be honest and I am certain he is seeing another woman. The obvious reasons are for my believing he is having an affair. Perfume on him and his clothes are rumpled so...
    carol101w carol101w 56-60, F 7 Responses Sep 1, 2012

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    I have a hard time standing up

    for myself or confronting my husband on my suspicions about him cheating I feel like he will get mad at me for hacking into his accounts and putting spyware on his phone am I wrong here for doing that
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    Cheating Husbands

      I have been with my husband for 5 yrs. But married for 4 yrs. in October. We have 2 beautiful girls together. But on July 14th my husband came home to me at 7:30 a.m. in the morning and told me that he had been thinking for awhile that maybe we should seperate. I asked...
    whitetigerpetal whitetigerpetal 22-25 37 Responses Aug 25, 2008

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    Talk to me, I'm sad. My hb cheated on me,

    we had argument, i told no 1. I stayed! Then found out he's having contact with a few others (which he choose to hide/delete the conversations). Argued, informed family members & I left!! But he convinced me to come bk. (I'm living wt my parent in laws too). He promised to me...
    Sulyn Sulyn 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 8

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    My husband is cheating on me.

    He placed a password on his phone and quickly erases his messages on his phone. I also caught him exchanging poctures of his genitalia with women on his phone. We have a 4 yr old with autism. I dont want my son to get worse. I tried understanding but it does not look like he...
    Ihatekermit Ihatekermit 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 25

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    My Husband Is A Cheater ! But This What Iv Learned

    My husband cheated on my ! But my lessons in life came from the experience ! At 32 iv found how strong I can be an that you don't always fined the answers you would like to in the time you want them ! But no matter what the issue is the truth always comes out ! In life you'll...
    Mgarrett99 Mgarrett99 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2013

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    I Do Not Know How to Trust Him Again

    I trusted him for 5 years ... only to find out that it was all a lie! I decided to give him another chance but how do I trust him again? After everything that he has done to me ... averaging an affair a year including one after we got back together ... how do I trust him. There...
    memnochmom memnochmom 22-25, F 18 Responses Oct 6, 2008

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    Recently one of my girlfriends

    and my husband became friends on Facebook. They've never actually met before and their only connection is me. Being the trusting wife I am, I was going through his browsing history while he was at work. I noticed that he was checking all of her photos, a lot, and had also...
    chesapeakemarried chesapeakemarried 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 23

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    Talk to me, I'm sad. My hb cheated on me,

    we had argument, i told no 1. I stayed! Then found out he's having contact with a few others (which he choose to hide/delete the conversations). Argued, informed family members & I left!! But he convinced me to come bk. (I'm living wt my parent in laws too). He promised to me...
    Sulyn Sulyn 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 8

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    Let me start by saying

    that my husband is the most wonderful person in his own opinion/world. Nah he's such a cold blooded psychopath walking around destroying my life. And good for him he has found his new source to suck upon because I'm all dried up. I can't believe that the more I want to get...
    thegirlwhowasleftbehind thegirlwhowasleftbehind 31-35, F 2 Responses May 22

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    So he has cheated on me many times,

    still does..ive been hurt bad.. But now I've changed, I don't care about him anymore, I want to move on. Today he went through my facebook search history and saw me search an ex bf of mine.. And said it hurt him bad.. The thought of me leaving him n being with another men.. He...
    Phairux Phairux 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    Should I Leave? Devasted By Husband's Webcam Cheating And Constant Lies...

    Before my husband and I got married I found emails between him and his ex. Apparently he had a girlfriend when we met and started dating but he never told me. I had even found her name on a bill in his room and asked about it but it was an old bill and he said it was somebody he...
    BrokenPromises1892 BrokenPromises1892 22-25 5 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Phairux Phairux 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Well I had one. Divorce is in progress.

    Because what you allow continues.
    thoughtfulheart thoughtfulheart 46-50, F 5 Responses Dec 8, 2013

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    My life as I know it has been turned upside

    down. Two nights ago, my husband didn't come home after work. In the 7 years we've been together, this wasn't something uncommon. He has problems with drugs and alcohol and every other week he would disappear for days. He's been better the past year and although it has been hell...
    ZeldaIV ZeldaIV 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Random Thoughts From A Guy…

    From my perspective, men cheat for three primary reasons: a) symptomatic, b) situational and c) serial cheating. While I am sure there are as many reasons as situations of infidelity it generally seems most cases fall into (or close to) one of these three. Part of what you...
    triguy84 triguy84 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    I recently found that my husband cheated on me

    with a prostitute the night before we got married. I suspected that he had been cheating but of course he denied it until I found out that I had a STD. I had been faithful the entire three years, so I now had confirmation that he cheated. To make matters worse, I was pregnant...
    brokenbea brokenbea 26-30, F 5 Responses May 6

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    Update: I just found a text this morning on my

    husbands phone. I wasn't snooping. I went to unplug his phone and found texts. one asked him to pick up some condoms. another asked why he was ignoring her. according to google she lives on base. oh boy. i texted her and she just told me to quit it. she didn't care how i...
    darktippedrose darktippedrose 26-30, F 18 Responses May 2

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    Hey ladies. I was wondering

    if you could help me stop my friend from having an affair with a married man she already slept with him n he's told her his relationship had a don't ask don't tell policy as he lives abroad few months of the year My friend thinks he's wonderful he's managed to charm her what...
    Confused848 Confused848 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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