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I Have a Child Becoming a Parent

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    Ladies & Gentlemen .... I Have An Announcement - Wow, this is so weird ....  I have my own group with just my stories ... lol.  Thank you all for indulging me.  ...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 18 Responses Feb 6, 2010

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    Now I Know - As I am the only member of the group I created, I am compelled to populate it with stories. For any who are interested, the ultrasound yesterday was quite...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 11 Responses Oct 28, 2009

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    Another Milestone - Wow, I have my own group.  I never thought it would be this particular one, of course. Anyway, on Tuesday my son and his wife are going to a community...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 8 Responses Oct 24, 2009

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    Becoming A Grandparent Is Not As Easy As It Looks - I did write a story here last week which I later deleted.  I was angry at the time I wrote it and decided it would be...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 16 Responses Feb 15, 2010

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    There Must Be a More Appropriate Title - A few days ago my son told me he & his wife are expecting their first child.  Technically, this would be my first grandchild...
    SeriouslySappy SeriouslySappy 51-55, F 19 Responses Jun 25, 2009

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    I read here in this experience about people who don't want to have children because being a parent isn't for them or it's just how they feel about the matter, which is fine...
    charlie4edwards charlie4edwards 16-17, F Apr 9

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    This is something I think about every now and then. I have PCOS which doesn't make it impossible to have children but in some women it can cause infertility. So I have adjusted to...
    hayleyRebeccaE hayleyRebeccaE 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    For a long time now it seems that I cannot have children. I try to not think about it much and just avoid the topic. I even stay away from family movies or anything to do with...
    polo03 polo03 31-35, F Apr 5

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    hey when i was 15 i got told i couldn't have children my boyfriend at the time was so supportive so understanding and in doing so it put me off the physical side of a relationship...
    dreams15 dreams15 18-21, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I divorced him when my daughter was 3 & my son was 18 mo. I couldn't let them grow up like that. When he was 5, the courts sent him to the ***, & the conditioning started....he had...
    wamw wamw 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    call it what you want ..but have lost her the guilt is indescribable ......i tried with her dad for years sat there covering up for him ....in his darkest hour cleaning up his...
    psychicprayer psychicprayer 36-40 1 Response Apr 7

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    I hear people complain about how strict there parents are... And how they took there phone away or you can't go to his house.. Ooh.. PLEASE>>> Maybe you should try living in my...
    ntupy12 ntupy12 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I am a ***** donor to a pair of lesbians. I was asked while out shopping with my kids one day and I thought why not. So I asked that I not be apart of the child's life no matter...
    threshold75 threshold75 36-40, M Mar 19

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    I'm almost 18, and my parents control every single aspect of my life. Yeah, I've made some bad choices, but they've never given me a chance to show them I am more mature since then...
    sothisiswhatitfeelslike sothisiswhatitfeelslike 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    My children are missing. When I was 19 years old, I got pregnant by a college boyfriend. The man - Toby was his name - left me as soon as I found out. Eight and a half months...
    DoYouBelieveWeAreInfinite DoYouBelieveWeAreInfinite 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I have always wanted to marry a beautiful woman and have 3 to 8 children. I know it's a lot, but I ADORE kids!
    Pancake17 Pancake17 13-15, M Mar 28

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    I have two daughters, 9 and 11.
    ESEddy ESEddy 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I lost my dad 5 years ago and ever since then I've changed. I had to grow up on my own and look after myself because my mam was really depressed and in a state all the time, so she...
    OverThinker123 OverThinker123 18-21, F Mar 20

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    We're forced to hide our feelings for each other because situations are making it so complicated and almost impossible. And I'm not sure if he still wants to hold on
    shikambaw shikambaw 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Boy - Ashton Gwyn Howard Elger-Grogan Eastwick-Field Girl - Honour Phyllis Elizabeth Joslin prior Eastwick-Field
    projectgwyn101 projectgwyn101 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    then DONT?! as simple as that :)
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F Apr 9

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    Hello. My name is Kaitlynn. I'm 18 years old, and have lost my parents to addiction. I was born illegitimate to a young couple in their mid-twenties. My dad was in a band he was...
    Erealia Erealia 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Yes, I am a female mom and a parent of multiple children in blended families. I have my own family and then I have children by others too. I am a former surrogate to help...
    momwithcleavage momwithcleavage 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 6

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating for over a year now, and I am completely in love with him. He' my best friend and the love of my life. I can't imagine life without him. He...
    lithium123 lithium123 22-25 6 Responses Mar 30

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    I think people should have children when they're ready. Only they know when that is. It's not really about whether the child is planned or not. I'm always thinking about how the...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Apr 3

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    I am 26 years old, happily married, and have no children. As far back as I can remember, I've never been in any hurry to have children. It's just never been a desire in me, as...
    AbbeyRoad2 AbbeyRoad2 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Reasons why I have to live: Living is what we do. It's what's we're here for. Shouldn't go against that. The kids. Not mine of course, but my little brothers. And the kids I...
    yourguardianangel9613 yourguardianangel9613 16-17, F Apr 8

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    I was brought up with three siblings, the older two hated my father especially the older brother who was from a previous marriage. They egged one another on and accused my father...
    Tigermoth35 Tigermoth35 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    i'm 16 year old girl . from my childhood my parents always scold me n beat me.they always compare me with my elder sis. if i get good marks too they will never be happy .they...
    nehakapoor2 nehakapoor2 16-17, F Apr 1

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    As a child, my parents died. My mom died and then my father died. My first foster mother brain we ashes me of how they both died. She tormented me and she would choke me and dig...
    Kadypril Kadypril 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    Yeah I am an only child my parents do not even care about me and I even do not have any pet.I do not have friends .I celebrate New Year and every festival alone . I am in need of a...
    pookalla pookalla 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I was married once and my marriage failed... quite miserably.. I have always thought that I am just one of those people who were never meant to be married; even from a very young...
    prettyredhead2650 prettyredhead2650 26-30, F Apr 4

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    When I was a child my parents knew something was different about me, and I was actually delayed in both speech and motor skills. (uncommon for aspies ;o it is more actually common...
    PerfectInsanity1988 PerfectInsanity1988 26-30, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Child abuse is not the way. When my Mom abused me I was very angry and sad and I don't know what was going through my messed up head but I wanted to have children just so they...
    Qwerkyqwerty Qwerkyqwerty 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Glad to find this group. I hate children , I can not see, hear or anything that has to do with children. I'm sick of people asking me to have children. Not because I'm married mean...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    my mom recently told me that I need to stop seeing my psy before summer vacation starts, " I need to work on my depression alone " although depression is not the only thing I'm...
    thelostgirl25 thelostgirl25 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    I really can't wait to have children. But I know I am not ready yet and also want to be happily married before. I want to give them a great childhood and teach them so many things...
    TheDarkOak TheDarkOak 18-21, M Mar 30

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    I sometimes wish I had never had children too. I started out relatively early. I was 20 when I had my daughter and 24 when I had my son. My daughters father was abusive in every...
    BBMS BBMS 41-45, F Mar 30

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    Since I was young, I have never wanted to have children. I feel like females are expected to follow the footsteps; grow up, go to university, get married, have children and then...
    MellifluousMilkshake MellifluousMilkshake 18-21, F 5 Responses Apr 8

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    Brief background: 22 years old, engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F Apr 7

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    Brief background: 22 years old, engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F Apr 7

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    Brief background: 22 years old, engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F Apr 7

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    Brief background: 22 years old, engaged (been together 5 years and getting married this summer), I have a degree in Secondary Education, been working consistently ($250/day) since...
    Discontented01 Discontented01 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I have nobody. My parents try to avoid me, as I was a mistake anyway, they don't love me, they have even admitted that to me themselves. My sister's don't love me either, they look...
    insidiousdeath insidiousdeath 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 3

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    We've been married for almost a year. I love this man with all my heart its been like a yo-yo all of our relationship after we got married he stopped caring about anything I've...
    thankgodimloved thankgodimloved 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 17

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    These past 5 months have been a very emotional roller coaster as I've spoken to someone everyday, through xbox. We then proceeded to using viber, which wasn't working to well, so I...
    LaParee LaParee 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 20

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    I guess I am lucky and it could be worse. Technically, I am awaiting the official report back from the biopsy but my last round of blood work was positive for autoimmune. My liver...
    Dawn0421 Dawn0421 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Reading these stories lets me know I'm not alone. When I met my fiancé he was just getting out of a seven year relationship I thought it was odd that she moved out with 2 kids in...
    Walkedinblind Walkedinblind 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I love kids so much. I honestly can't wait to have children of my own :)
    HeyItsMirandaa HeyItsMirandaa 18-21, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    FOR MEN WHO LIKE TROPHY WOMEN: The prettier they are the more psycho they are... only in the most rare cases will you find the one who isn't.. even then she still requires a lot...
    destinyisfate destinyisfate 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    1.) When people chew with their mouth open or talk with their mouth full. 2.) I don't care how old they are, but it really ticks me off when someone is disrespectful. 3.) When...
    DoveBreath DoveBreath 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    I don't think I'd ever tell anyone but I might as well. I have Schizoaffective Disorder which, in a basic definition, it's like Bipolar and Schizophrenia, some people have...
    PitchDaffy PitchDaffy 22-25, F 2 hrs ago