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I Have a Close Friend of the Opposite Sex

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 371 People


    Two of the people who most understand me are my cousin and a friend I made online. They are both so much like me in some ways it's scary! The only persons who know me better are my husband and best girlfriend.
    PewterFantasy PewterFantasy
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 29, 2008

    Always Have Atleast One

    For as long as I can remember, I've always been friends with more guys than girl. My current male best friend is the best. He's an ******* but who it isn't? but when I do seriously need somebody to talk to or hug or just play around be stupid, he's my go-to person . It is...
    AuntTammy AuntTammy
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2008

    Yes Mistress

    My best friend for the last 5 yrs has been a lady ill just call Sue.There isnt much of any thing She dont know about Me.When We 1st met,both of Us had someone else in our life or things may have turned out different than they have.She is every thing I would ever want in a women...
    The1960texan The1960texan
    51-55, M
    Nov 7, 2012

    Go Down On Her???

    I am very interested in my close female friend sexually. I am considering asking her if I can go down on her. But I don't know if I should she's hinted that she would be cool with a sex buddy relationship with me. ***** sex **** **** boobs **** friend
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses May 22, 2012


    I am not ashamed to say my best friend is a boy! He is just so nice. I hope i never lose him.
    trippleA trippleA
    18-21, F
    Jun 25, 2009

    Hes Like A Brother To Me

    Me my brother and our 2 best friends. we all have nicknames for eachother. mine is Giggles and his is flounder. weve been friends for almost 10 years now and i can always count on him when i need somethng. i dont know what i would do without him. =)
    Silent20 Silent20
    18-21, F
    Jan 31, 2012

    It Is Possible But You Have to Be Honest With Yourself

    I have one such friend that I met here on EP.  She is a fantastic person, one that I am truly blessed to call my best friend.  We have been friends now for over a year but it seems like we have been friends for our entire lives.  There are steps you have to take if...
    ablmu65 ablmu65
    41-45, M
    3 Responses May 18, 2009

    My Man Friends Are Just As Important As My Lady Friends

    I admit that I'm a tomboy. I even need a guy's night out occasionally. Many of my closest friends are men. I have just as many male friends as I have woman friends. When I have my actual wedding, I plan to have a best man/man of honor (whichever term he prefers). It seems wrong...
    Ticia Ticia
    26-30, F
    Jul 20, 2009

    His Name Is Greg

    He and I have been friends for about 2 years now. He and his wife were friends with my ex-husband during the beginning of our demise. But something for the 3 of them changed and their friendship with him fizzled. So, for Greg and I we became close over his love of local politics...
    MegJgeM MegJgeM
    36-40, F
    Aug 11, 2009


    I always have more male friends than female friends, which...I might worry about, except I find guys so much easier to get along with. I don't know why.
    Treval Treval
    22-25, F
    Jun 25, 2009

    Cherish the Friendship, Guys Or Girls

    i have a close guy mate. we went to playgroup, primary school and college together. it wasnt all closeness though. it wasnt planned that way (since when is it ever). he is one of the sweetest and caring people i have met. i used to have a crush on him when we were younger. i...
    JulySunSoul JulySunSoul
    26-30, F
    Jul 31, 2009

    Girls bug the crap out of be sometime

    so most of my friends are boys
    kmaissexy kmaissexy
    22-25, F
    Jul 20, 2014


    I did until some events changed that forever. She was a cool girl though, I mean we could bs about anything really hahaha. She was a great friend :)
    ForeversNever ForeversNever
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Sep 13, 2008

    My Best Friend Is A Guy...

    I high school I had female friends, they ended up being backstabbing liars. Anyway for the last 6 years my best friend has been a guy. We have gone through a lot of hard times. Like how I was in love with him when we first met. For the first few months it was great. The next two...
    LadyLuna3356 LadyLuna3356
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Nov 1, 2010


    I had an interesting conversation about relationships last night.  My friend confessed that he sees all women as pariahs that want to suck his money and freedom, so he now uses them for sex.  It is to the point where he seduces women with his charm and good looks and...
    Krypton Krypton
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2009

    ...shes My Buddy...

    ...i've know her since the fifth grade, so... going on almost fifteen years or something. she used to be by neighbor, i would walk right down the street and just hang out with her, do whatever. people always thought we were a couple because we were almost inseperable. i think we...
    mi25ke mi25ke
    26-30, M
    Feb 1, 2011

    My Girls

    My 2 closest friends are Little Dragon (her real nickname!) who is like a little sister to me & Amanda. I have put these girls through a lot of grief. I have bouts of insecurity which sometimes make me doubt my loved ones even when I know that they are...
    britbear britbear
    36-40, M
    Feb 10, 2009

    Most of Them Are.

    Almost all of my close friends are male. I'm not quite sure why; when I was younger, my best friends were always female (with one exception, when I was five or so). But for the past several years, since I started high school, my closest friends have always been male. I just get...
    SheistheLorax SheistheLorax
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 30, 2008

    A Friend Is A Friend

    As a nudist I have developed friends of both sexes and all my female friends of course have seen me naked as have my male friends and I have seen most of my friends naked but not all of them. I have found I am closes to my nudist friends both male and female and I put it down to...
    happynudist happynudist
    36-40, M
    Feb 25, 2012

    The Reason I Still Stand

    i'm with xoxo17 on the staying friend with my ex's. Most of the guys i have dates we were friends before and just started dating to see how it would go but it didnt work so be stayed best friends. I have 2 guy friends that i talk to as my best friend and my boyfriend. I...
    browneyegirl89 browneyegirl89
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2008

    Most of Them, Actually

    Most of my closest friends are women. In my life, it has always been that way. I do have friends that are male with whom I enjoy spending time, but I am generally closest with and prefer spending time with women. Even on EP where everything is anonymous, I seem to have more...
    FilmandVideoGuy FilmandVideoGuy
    36-40, M
    1 Response Sep 14, 2009

    My Comfort Zone

    When I was little, there were no little girls my age in the neighborhood to play with. I made friends with all the boys in the nighborhood. I never realized that I was different than the other girls until I got older. In high school, most of my friends were still boys and it...
    emptyheart emptyheart
    41-45, F
    3 Responses May 18, 2009

    My Sweet Guy

         I have a very close friend. That is the opposite sex. His name is Jack. I have known him for almost two years. I get so along woith him. I can make him laugh. I also love that I can make him smile. His family like me as well. I know that I can trust him with anything...
    acjf acjf
    22-25, F
    Jan 25, 2011


      I have more guy friends then i do girl friends. My two close friends that i can talk to are guys. A guy i work with and a guy on here on ep.  It is just easier to talk to guys then girls sometimes.
    Darkfarey Darkfarey
    18-21, F
    Nov 8, 2009


    I see just now on a friend's profile that there is another group called I Have a Best Friend of the Opposite Sex. But anyway, this guy is my best and closest friend. We met in high school, got into a little misunderstanding where he thought I got into advanced class...
    june1999 june1999
    31-35, F
    12 Responses Jul 22, 2009

    One Or The Other

    I've had this guy friend for 6 years. I've heard it said that if a friendship lasts 7 years, through all the individual changes each person has, that it is likely to last forever. I would believe it. This boy has the key to my heart. He has always been generous, understanding...
    ccatcraft ccatcraft
    22-25, F
    Nov 20, 2013

    Not A Lot I Can Say, But She Is Truly Special

     She stuns me with her sense of humor. Bites back with sarcasm. She is a handful of the positive kind. She is also a fellow member here. Out of respect, and privacy reasons, I am not going to mention any names. She knows who she is, and hope that she is taking a bow right...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 30, 2009

    Another One For Andre

    Most of my friends in real life are male.  Just like in real life most my friends on EP are male as well.  You guys hear all about my best friend all the time because he is the most wonderful thing in my life and I love him totally unconditionally.  No matter where...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Aug 4, 2008

    I Have A Close Friend Of The Opposite Sex

    Someone who is not a lover ,love or former.He is just my friend.He is easy on the eyes but thats not what I think is wonderful about him.He is very intelligent ,extremely well rounded, a jack of all trades and a Master of quite a few. He is kind,and sweet,caring and willing to...
    februarydays februarydays
    51-55, F
    Nov 5, 2010

    Most of My Friends Are,

     I am closer to men then I am to women. I have a different perspective then most women do it's kinda the reason I get along with men better.  
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe
    36-40, F
    Apr 21, 2009

    I Relate Better To Guys *shrug*

    it's true... i just do. always have... i've recently gotten used to the idea that i should even things out and at least make attempts to have close female friends, because who's gonna throw me a bachelorette party, or a baby shower? lol, but as it is my closest friends are all...
    Amberlin420 Amberlin420
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 27, 2010

    Always More Female Then Male Friends

    It just seems to have happened that way and a bunch I have never dated or had sex with, we are just friends.  Some live far away and I know it would be silly to try to start something romantic with them so I am okay with just friends.  I also find it help to talk with...
    loopnscc loopnscc
    46-50, M
    2 Responses May 19, 2009

    I Have Many

    They are honest, truly friends and they are not envy. This kind of friendship is possible as long as both are mature enough to separate the feelings. We talk about life, health, beauty, love, sex, just about everything. With some of them I can cry and smile and if I need a help I...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Sep 26, 2008

    Excellent Memories

    I have many close friends of the opposite sex here on EP. But the closest Female Friend I have on EP is very special to me. We share each other’s joys, hurts, pains and victories. She has no problem setting me straight, making me LMBO or loving me like only a true...
    LateNightGuy LateNightGuy
    41-45, M
    27 Responses Aug 1, 2008
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