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I Have a Clueless Husband

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    He Gave Me A Scarf....

    It's our 10th Wedding Anniversary. In the past year, I've lost two family members and I have a very high stress job. I gave him a beautiful leather jacket. He gave me a scarf. And he doesn't understand why I'm not excited.
    Karamojo Karamojo 51-55 6 Responses Oct 14, 2010

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    My husband compares his Amazon purchases

    (gadgets) to how I spend money in the grocery store for the family food. I can't get through to him; I'm so pissed!
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 36-40, F 2 Responses May 5

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    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 36-40, F 2 Responses May 5

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    Tell Me What You Think

    my husband is on a business trip and is driving back right now.  he calls wanting me to tell him when his next dental appt. is. I tell him and then he doesn't like my tone, wants to know if it is written on the calendar like he told me to do 3 weeks ago. yes it is on the...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 13 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    I Made My Own Birthday Dinner And Baked My Own Cake!

    My 36th birthday was this past wednesday. My husband spent the whole evening on the phone. He said he'd bake me my favorite cake, but it was getting late and he was still on the dammed phone. I went to the store, bought a frozen lasagna and my cake mix and frosting. Got home put...
    LoosingMyself LoosingMyself 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    I've spent the afternoon/evening painting the

    baby's nursery all on my own (7 mos. pregnant) while my husband golfed and took two naps. My back hurts so much I am walking hunched over with tears in my eyes. That mother trucker has the nerve to ask me if I can help him bathe the dogs now. Say what?!?!? He's lucky my back...
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F Jun 29

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    Clueless who knewless

    When me n my husband first met, he told me that he was never married. He said i was his first. Then on my wedding night he said ' I have to talk to my wife, can i talk to my wife?' I found it romantic, I said yes n then he cut the phone .... he never called back but i was so...
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 15, 2012

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    Ok Lady, I'll See Your Clueless Husband and Raise You One!

    Okay, this doesn't exactly relate to my husband and myself, but still, I have to wonder where the hell his brain is at.... Today the brainiac took my oldest to the Air show.... Not one single phone call all day long to let me know how their day is going, but I'm letting it go...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 22 Responses Aug 20, 2008

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    He's Pushing Me Into The Wrong Arms....

    My husband is a good ol country boy....When we first met he was a dream come true. Now the hunting, fishing and workin on trucks with his buddies is pushing us apart. I like to hunt, fish, and all that good stuff but fact is we have a son and a weak relationship that could really...
    Pastgrasper89 Pastgrasper89 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Drunks Make Me Ill

    We have a problem here in "If you ignore it will go away Land" I grew up in a very dysfunctional family, who didn"t       didn"tFather was a very violent drunk, My husbands father & mother are alcoholics, My point is My...
    lovesrhinos lovesrhinos 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2008

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    Birthday From Hell!!!!

    So, Yesterday was my 29th birthday, and we will just say my husband isn't exactly a gift giving genious. I was just thinking that maybe due to my current circumstances, he would man-up and maybe show a little bit of kindess. By circumstances I mean, I spent my birthday...
    wifeofatard wifeofatard 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    I feel like my marriage is falling apart.

    I dunno what is happening to us. I don't want things to be this way but he doesn't want to go to counseling. We have a 2 year old daughter and I don't want her growing up in a household where we bicker all the time over pointless things. We get on each other's nerves all the...
    Italian504 Italian504 31-35, F Dec 25, 2013

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    Clueless

    No I dont have a clueless Husband but this looked like a good place for this one.   "A woman gets lonely, and sometimes she can't wait around for a man to be reincarnated." I am not sure who said this but it works...
    redman redman 46-50, M 17 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    Hello, My name is Amanda .G. and I have one daughter who is 2yrs old with my husband that I've been married to for 4yrs and together for 11yrs. It took us 7yrs to get married and...
    PraiseHimDaily PraiseHimDaily 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    I seriously f*cking hate sex addiction! It has ruined my life-and my families life! I just beat the crap out of my husband. I didn't even know I had it in me. I left bruises. I'm...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 23

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    I met my husband 13 years ago whilst I was working in a local newsagents. He was always there and was the boss's friend. He lived with his gf just 2mins away. He always talked to...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Well, it's been almost 4 months, and I still miss him like crazy. He is always on my mind. I often wonder how he is doing? Is he thinking of me too? I know how hard it is on him to...
    DeniseMarie72 DeniseMarie72 41-45, F Aug 6

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    My wife of 28 years is in hospital and she has terminal cancer and has maybe 4 weeks to go
    Rogerrowley1947 Rogerrowley1947 66-70, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    It's not an old story but I never thought that he'll use the kids against me. I left because I had enough of his philandering while accusing me of having an affair aside from...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 13

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    About five days ago I went to the doctor thinking I was getting an UTI. Doc prescribed me pills....all good....for about two days. It started to hurt soooo bad down there so I went...
    lostandconfused689 lostandconfused689 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    I cheated on my ex husband with a childhood boyfriend who has a habit of coming in and out of my life. He was my first kiss and a few other firsts... We did it at the bottle shop...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Hi everyone! Any feedback on this would be great! My story is long so I apologize in advance!!! My husband and I are newly married however we have been together for 10 years now...
    maimee2005 maimee2005 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    Please someone help, I married my husband 8 years ago been together 10 years I just don't love him, haven't done for a while now, here is the hard bit, he's great a good dad too...
    zoesou zoesou 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Okay my husband and I have been having issues quite severely He refuses to go to therapy with me...okay He's refused to go to marriage workshops and different things I have been...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 5 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    My husband was in my first class ever in our clinical psychology masters program. I didn't actually meet him in class, but later on at a bar. I hadn't bought a car yet, having...
    MAT5629 MAT5629 41-45, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Exactly one week ago my husband decided after 13 years of being together, married for seven, he is unhappy and moved out. We have 2 very young children. When asked why his...
    isthismylifereally isthismylifereally 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    How can I be, at my age, so absolutely clueless as to what I want in my life! I keep asking myself what is it that I want but my mind doesn't give me an answer. I think I might be...
    tenfeet tenfeet 22-25, F Aug 20

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    I found out after I separated from my husband that he hit on my sister a few years earlier when she was 17 while I was at work and he was 'interview coaching' her for jobs in our...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    So I'm in the army and spent my summer deployed while my husband was back home. I keep getting flashbacks and nightmares from deployment, but I don't want to tell him about the...
    Cbryant25100 Cbryant25100 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    For over the last year I have been involved with an old friend who is married. We are having an affair, at least we were. A month ago his wife discovered his affair and he decided...
    michaelsotherwoman michaelsotherwoman 36-40, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    I dreamt of being a mom as far back as I can remember. My dad had decided I was going to college and I was going, but I wanted to be a mom too.I can remember that I wanted twins. A...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 6 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Why do they make the sick people walk all the way to the back of the store to get a prescription but the healthy people buy cigarettes at the front of the store? They say flattery...
    fishsweeper fishsweeper 51-55, F 4 hrs ago

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    I have social anxiety all of my life. I never really dated anyone. I met my husband who i live now with in the year `99 by some friend. We became friends and later i married him...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    I'm a 24yo female newlywed, happily married to DH. I also have (had) a 25yo male friend I've known for years. Let's call him Erik. I've known Erik longer than I've known DH...
    ohhwanderlust ohhwanderlust 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Is it wrong to, have a cyber relationship, with a likewise lady, no physics just horny chat?
    piddly piddly 51-55, M 10 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    My mom and dad were not married when I was born. My biological father left when I was 4 months old in the middle of the night. I personally don't know why. A few years later (I was...
    NeverForgeIt NeverForgeIt 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 7

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    I'm not currently addicted to anything but I'm a very confused girl and I have this problem where I am constantly trying to figure the world out. All it does is have me turning in...
    Alliemakallie Alliemakallie 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 9

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    That moment when you realize/remember that you are just as immature and clueless as all the other teenagers. ._. Sometimes I get carried away and start to think I'm mature or...
    Friability Friability 18-21 2 Responses Aug 12

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    Its Lions!!! You see lions in discovery channels and Madagascar but i saw one, and i almost peed in my pants. It was back in highschool,...in my country everyone after finishing...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I have no idea what I am doing here.
    mysticw mysticw 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    LIE to my husband. I love and care about him deeply and I know he truly loves me too, but I feel like I can't be honest with him about certain things in my life (especially about...
    cjfkdg518 cjfkdg518 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    Demons: Acerbial and Savitsier By Paul Dale Roberts, HPI Esoteric Detective Haunted and Paranormal Investigations - HPI International https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups...
    PaulDaleRoberts PaulDaleRoberts 51-55, M 1 Response Aug 16

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    She introduced us when she started working at my workplace. later she told people that she only did that so that she made friends. then she told me that people told her i was...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 11

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 17

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    I was diagnosed about 5 years ago after attempting suicide. I went through DBT therapy and worked hard to "fix" myself. I manage life so much better now. It doesn't even feel like...
    jennaporter jennaporter 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    I hate my husbands dog. He's a 80+lb lab. The dog is actually very sweet but my husband take terrible care of him. He was never neutered or leash trained. As a result our backyard...
    sincitymom sincitymom 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    Madison Mansion & the Esparto Case! By Paul Dale Roberts, HPI Esoteric Detective Haunted and Paranormal Investigations - HPI International https://www.facebook.com/#!/groups...
    PaulDaleRoberts PaulDaleRoberts 51-55, M Aug 10

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    This human being I called my "mother" is not what she appears to be; motherly, caring, quiet, sweet & innocent. Here's how I found out I got married few months ago, husband and I...
    sydnew sydnew 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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