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I Have a Clueless Husband

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    He's Pushing Me Into The Wrong Arms....

    My husband is a good ol country boy....When we first met he was a dream come true. Now the hunting, fishing and workin on trucks with his buddies is pushing us apart. I like to hunt, fish, and all that good stuff but fact is we have a son and a weak relationship that could really...
    Pastgrasper89 Pastgrasper89 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Once I asked my husband,

    "so what are your plans for Monday." He looked genuinely at me and said go to work? Why do you want to plan something! That's when I realized this punk forgot his wife's birthday, geesh!
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F May 13, 2015

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    Ok Lady, I'll See Your Clueless Husband and Raise You One!

    Okay, this doesn't exactly relate to my husband and myself, but still, I have to wonder where the hell his brain is at.... Today the brainiac took my oldest to the Air show.... Not one single phone call all day long to let me know how their day is going, but I'm letting it go...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 22 Responses Aug 20, 2008

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    There is something about watching a full grown

    man have a major temper tantrum that's kinda funny !! My two kids plugged the toilet tonight. I couldn't stop from giggling watching my husband lose his s*it. He refused to do any of the cleaning up (which took less than a minute) but my kids and I got a bit of a laugh :). Life...
    sunshinegirl76 sunshinegirl76 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Clueless who knewless

    When me n my husband first met, he told me that he was never married. He said i was his first. Then on my wedding night he said ' I have to talk to my wife, can i talk to my wife?' I found it romantic, I said yes n then he cut the phone .... he never called back but i was so...
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 15, 2012

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    Birthday From Hell!!!!

    So, Yesterday was my 29th birthday, and we will just say my husband isn't exactly a gift giving genious. I was just thinking that maybe due to my current circumstances, he would man-up and maybe show a little bit of kindess. By circumstances I mean, I spent my birthday...
    wifeofatard wifeofatard 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    Clueless

    No I dont have a clueless Husband but this looked like a good place for this one.   "A woman gets lonely, and sometimes she can't wait around for a man to be reincarnated." I am not sure who said this but it works...
    redman redman 46-50, M 17 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    Drunks Make Me Ill

    We have a problem here in "If you ignore it will go away Land" I grew up in a very dysfunctional family, who didn"t       didn"tFather was a very violent drunk, My husbands father & mother are alcoholics, My point is My...
    lovesrhinos lovesrhinos 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2008

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    I've spent the afternoon/evening painting the

    baby's nursery all on my own (7 mos. pregnant) while my husband golfed and took two naps. My back hurts so much I am walking hunched over with tears in my eyes. That mother trucker has the nerve to ask me if I can help him bathe the dogs now. Say what?!?!? He's lucky my back...
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2014

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    My husband compares his Amazon purchases

    (gadgets) to how I spend money in the grocery store for the family food. I can't get through to him; I'm so pissed!
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 41-45, F 1 Response May 5, 2014

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    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5, 2014

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    My husband is a wonderful father,

    but a very ****** parent. If that makes sense. He does all he can for his children, but sucks at disciplining them and consistency with it.
    Thisblows0321 Thisblows0321 26-30, F Feb 9, 2015

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    He Gave Me A Scarf....

    It's our 10th Wedding Anniversary. In the past year, I've lost two family members and I have a very high stress job. I gave him a beautiful leather jacket. He gave me a scarf. And he doesn't understand why I'm not excited.
    Karamojo Karamojo 51-55 6 Responses Oct 14, 2010

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    Tell Me What You Think

    my husband is on a business trip and is driving back right now.  he calls wanting me to tell him when his next dental appt. is. I tell him and then he doesn't like my tone, wants to know if it is written on the calendar like he told me to do 3 weeks ago. yes it is on the...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 13 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    He tries real hard, though!

    As long as he is trying I love him so! Such a little kid sometimes though... Can you teach self-awareness? Encourage it?
    maunder maunder 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 24, 2015

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    I Made My Own Birthday Dinner And Baked My Own Cake!

    My 36th birthday was this past wednesday. My husband spent the whole evening on the phone. He said he'd bake me my favorite cake, but it was getting late and he was still on the dammed phone. I went to the store, bought a frozen lasagna and my cake mix and frosting. Got home put...
    LoosingMyself LoosingMyself 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    I feel like my marriage is falling apart.

    I dunno what is happening to us. I don't want things to be this way but he doesn't want to go to counseling. We have a 2 year old daughter and I don't want her growing up in a household where we bicker all the time over pointless things. We get on each other's nerves all the...
    Italian504 Italian504 31-35, F Dec 25, 2013

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    I have to spell out intimate time

    for my husband. I literally said anytime even if I'm tired or angry, I'm game and this guy still acts like a asexual nerd.
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 2 Responses May 13, 2015

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    Married 3 years. We are both emotionally unavailable, we are both struggling with the same thoughts that we hate each other. (Or so he says) I don't even know where to start, we...
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    A description of my life can be broken down into 3 activities 1. Activities aimed at caring for my house and family 2. Activities that aimed keeping me entertained 3. Activities...
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    it doesn't matter if you're a wife, fiance, or girlfriend. If you love your man and want to stand by his side during this time then do it! love is love and it is beautiful...
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    Last night was the best night ever. I talked to my husband for hours and for the first time he listened... Man so in love with this man?????
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've had dreams all my life that come true. My mother always said to listen to your dreams they will guide you. Normally I only have preconceived dreams about myself. My mom...
    TrinJustine TrinJustine 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Does anybody have any information on marrying a inmate????
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate this time of year. Especially due to Valentine's Day. Seeing so many things out on, of different types and I can't do anything but send a card. Hate it so much. Yet love my...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi I'm new to the group. I don't even know where to begin or how to even start. My emotions are all over the place. My husband has 8 long years(2024) and I don't know how to cope...
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015 26-30, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My husband and I have been together for 6 plus years. I was able to tolerate his family until after I had my 1st child. Been worse now that I'm with my second. His parents doesn't...
    Darkshadows02 Darkshadows02 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    best. letter. EVER! ;) <3<3
    ShannieB ShannieB 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Ironically, I can write a lot about not being able to write anything. But yeah...I really want to write, and yet I find my mind completely blank when I start to write anything...
    curiouscallipso curiouscallipso 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    LOST ... need help plz, I'm ashamed and I hate seeing him hurt. We have been married for 8 faithful years. I have been unhappy with him for awhile. He has had 7 knee surgerys in 3...
    shygirl1986 shygirl1986 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Why are we so sure about what others must do to get out of their rut but clueless about our own life ?
    kasiyat kasiyat 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My anniversary is next Saturday and I'm so excited. I know he's in prison but I still want to do something special. I'm thinking I should make him a card since it's more personal...
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    wow. reading all these posts from all you strong women make me feel less alone. Feb 2 was our one year anniversary But we've known one another all our lives. I've loved & crushed...
    ShannieB ShannieB 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    2 weeks ago a man knocked on my door and my husband answered. He asked if someone lived here. My husband replied no one by that name lives here. Well later on the afternoon the...
    brenda533 brenda533 26-30 4 days ago

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    I've known my husband for almost 5 years now and I can honestly say that I am pushing him away. It's not that I don't love him, it's that he hurts me so much that I am trying to...
    MiserableMama26 MiserableMama26 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I love my Pastor.... we've known him and his wife for years. Just about every Sunday my husband and I go out to eat with our small church group. It's good fellowship. One thing...
    sweetgem8 sweetgem8 41-45, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband excludes me from his friends. My husband goes out mainly to one of his friend's homes where many families hang out however I am never invited to join. People ask him...
    JessicaEmily JessicaEmily 26-30, F 13 Responses 5 days ago

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    I literally just realized that I don't love me husband anymore. We have two children and have been married 2 years but together for 10, he was 27and i was 19. Our relationship...
    idhaun idhaun 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I do indeed believe this principle...and sometimes it is so hard! We recently have had a major change in our lives....our son and his children are now living with us. Our empty...
    soulbabble soulbabble 51-55, F 2 Responses a week ago

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