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I Have a Clueless Husband

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    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5, 2014

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    He tries real hard, though!

    As long as he is trying I love him so! Such a little kid sometimes though... Can you teach self-awareness? Encourage it?
    maunder maunder 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    Clueless

    No I dont have a clueless Husband but this looked like a good place for this one.   "A woman gets lonely, and sometimes she can't wait around for a man to be reincarnated." I am not sure who said this but it works...
    redman redman 46-50, M 17 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    Tell Me What You Think

    my husband is on a business trip and is driving back right now.  he calls wanting me to tell him when his next dental appt. is. I tell him and then he doesn't like my tone, wants to know if it is written on the calendar like he told me to do 3 weeks ago. yes it is on the...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 13 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    I feel like my marriage is falling apart.

    I dunno what is happening to us. I don't want things to be this way but he doesn't want to go to counseling. We have a 2 year old daughter and I don't want her growing up in a household where we bicker all the time over pointless things. We get on each other's nerves all the...
    Italian504 Italian504 31-35, F Dec 25, 2013

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    My husband compares his Amazon purchases

    (gadgets) to how I spend money in the grocery store for the family food. I can't get through to him; I'm so pissed!
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5, 2014

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    Ok Lady, I'll See Your Clueless Husband and Raise You One!

    Okay, this doesn't exactly relate to my husband and myself, but still, I have to wonder where the hell his brain is at.... Today the brainiac took my oldest to the Air show.... Not one single phone call all day long to let me know how their day is going, but I'm letting it go...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 22 Responses Aug 20, 2008

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    He's Pushing Me Into The Wrong Arms....

    My husband is a good ol country boy....When we first met he was a dream come true. Now the hunting, fishing and workin on trucks with his buddies is pushing us apart. I like to hunt, fish, and all that good stuff but fact is we have a son and a weak relationship that could really...
    Pastgrasper89 Pastgrasper89 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    He Gave Me A Scarf....

    It's our 10th Wedding Anniversary. In the past year, I've lost two family members and I have a very high stress job. I gave him a beautiful leather jacket. He gave me a scarf. And he doesn't understand why I'm not excited.
    Karamojo Karamojo 51-55 6 Responses Oct 14, 2010

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    There is something about watching a full grown

    man have a major temper tantrum that's kinda funny !! My two kids plugged the toilet tonight. I couldn't stop from giggling watching my husband lose his s*it. He refused to do any of the cleaning up (which took less than a minute) but my kids and I got a bit of a laugh :). Life...
    sunshinegirl76 sunshinegirl76 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    Drunks Make Me Ill

    We have a problem here in "If you ignore it will go away Land" I grew up in a very dysfunctional family, who didn"t       didn"tFather was a very violent drunk, My husbands father & mother are alcoholics, My point is My...
    lovesrhinos lovesrhinos 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2008

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    I've spent the afternoon/evening painting the

    baby's nursery all on my own (7 mos. pregnant) while my husband golfed and took two naps. My back hurts so much I am walking hunched over with tears in my eyes. That mother trucker has the nerve to ask me if I can help him bathe the dogs now. Say what?!?!? He's lucky my back...
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2014

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    I Made My Own Birthday Dinner And Baked My Own Cake!

    My 36th birthday was this past wednesday. My husband spent the whole evening on the phone. He said he'd bake me my favorite cake, but it was getting late and he was still on the dammed phone. I went to the store, bought a frozen lasagna and my cake mix and frosting. Got home put...
    LoosingMyself LoosingMyself 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Birthday From Hell!!!!

    So, Yesterday was my 29th birthday, and we will just say my husband isn't exactly a gift giving genious. I was just thinking that maybe due to my current circumstances, he would man-up and maybe show a little bit of kindess. By circumstances I mean, I spent my birthday...
    wifeofatard wifeofatard 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    Clueless who knewless

    When me n my husband first met, he told me that he was never married. He said i was his first. Then on my wedding night he said ' I have to talk to my wife, can i talk to my wife?' I found it romantic, I said yes n then he cut the phone .... he never called back but i was so...
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 15, 2012

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    OnlyMySideOfTheStory OnlyMySideOfTheStory 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2014

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    hello im new here...and sending positive vibes to all of you in the samw sitiation as my family..my husband has been gone for 15 months..36 more to go ..I am temporarily a single...
    Reneg8de Reneg8de 36-40, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Today it's been really tuff , my baby has been gone for almost 3months and it's 16 more to go or less and I miss him so much. He means so much to me an he is the best man I have...
    patientlywaiting017 patientlywaiting017 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    I just found out a couple weeks ago that the man I thought was The One has been using crack and heroin. I can barely function all I do is cry. He stole from me. I am a single Mom...
    MickyMoYo MickyMoYo 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    minnieccaa minnieccaa 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I just need him home !! I can't sleep without him
    patientlywaiting017 patientlywaiting017 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 9

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    I think my head knows things are not heading in a good direction. But my heart still loves with passion and determination. When he play fights with me he is getting rougher and...
    Skylalast Skylalast 36-40, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    I had to see a psychiatrist today and I discussed with him how I feel and the fact that I'm getting back to screaming and crying in the streets due to feeling persecuted hated and...
    Anonymous79ea Anonymous79ea 31-35, F 9 Responses Jan 15

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    My aunt's husband passed away this morning. He was a nice man, but he was also from that generation that were taught real men don't cry, and real men don't show feelings and he was...
    diablesse34 diablesse34 46-50, F 8 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    My husband is my soulmate. It is so ironic the time before my husband had his accident. I had managed to fracture my right metatarsal. This put me in a walking boot and on...
    Yoga1980 Yoga1980 31-35, F 25 mins ago

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    I am tired. I grew up in a disfunctional middle class family. My mother is manic depressive bipolar, and my dad dealt with his problems by working and drinking. I never understood...
    EnglishBrand EnglishBrand 22-25, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    To Have and To Hold: The Boiled Frog"The story is often used as a metaphor for the inability or unwillingness of people to react to significant changes that occur...
    menrclueless menrclueless 46-50, F 6 days ago

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    I don't even know were to begin..... We have been married for about 7 years and 3 of those we spent separated from each other before deciding to work it out. I soon found out I was...
    nisa890 nisa890 26-30, F 13 hrs ago

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    I sit here and think 2 years ago my life was so different. I have no idea who my ex husband of 16 years was or is because he portrayed a great act. Everyone thought I had the dream...
    mb1973 mb1973 41-45, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    My husband constantly argues with me and tells me I'm stupid and worthless. I work full time in a very demanding pharmacy I'm also a full time Mother. I'm loving, I make sure he...
    Escobargirl240 Escobargirl240 26-30 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    i used to but she sucked my husband's d@$& so that put a real damper on the friendship. I've always had a hard time making friends since my first priority has always been to my...
    taedior taedior 31-35, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    'How long have you been married?' I reply 'Too long.' The correct response, is 18 months. I love the man I married, to the moon and back, but even then I had doubts on what our...
    geektulle geektulle 22-25, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    Planning a wedding is seriously some of the most anxiety inducing **** ever. I love my husband to death, but I really wish he could have been happy with the small ceremony we had...
    MichiganGirl420 MichiganGirl420 18-21, F 1 Response 22 mins ago

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    As a multi-racial and multi-ethnic person, I grew up with a slight complex about my "mixed person" hair. It never looked like most of the people around me that seemed to all have...
    Nyx1978 Nyx1978 36-40, F 7 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    "Got a free tattoo todaaay" If you know what that's from we can be friends. This is the time my twin sister was born (8:26) and she got the time that I was born (8:24). We got...
    Liv0309 Liv0309 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Each time my husband & I visit the island, we drive miles to the end of the road - past all the access points until it gets cut off by mountains of sand. Each time we went, we'd...
    LoveOverHatred LoveOverHatred 18-21, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I don't believe what I used to. And now I'm clueless as to how to make decisions. Everything used to be so clear to me: right vs. wrong. I wanted to do right, so the choice was...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F Jan 2

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    My ex best friend who I considered to be a ****, slept with a guy I had told her I liked and she knew all well about this. For me to come to like someone is a big thing and I was...
    opinionatorAli opinionatorAli 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    My professor is a hottie. Sometimes I get to class after him so hell notice me. I even go to him after class and pretend I'm clueless about assignments so we can meet up.Once I...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I can deal with the pervs because I can straight up ignore them. I have trouble with the teenagers. One the one hand they can make me laugh and their innocence can be so sweet...
    chimpsticks chimpsticks 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 12

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    My family is a very complicated one. On my mum's side, I have 2 aunts and an uncle. To make you understand my life story better, I'll give fake names and just talk about the big...
    CloeSmile CloeSmile 16-17, F Jan 2

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    I do believe that women should obey their husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    I don't hate my husbands dog, he just annoys me so much. He's a lab and he is so needy. He follows me every where I go, is very jealous and always needs attention. My husband is...
    morgp14 morgp14 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    Hi everyone, I do hope my post gets read and hopefully helps somebody along the line.i will never forget the help SOLVER KING render to me in my marital life. i have been married...
    sharon1234524 sharon1234524 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 4

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    I think my husband hates me.....My childhood was REALLY bad. My current husband also had a childhood similar to mine but was not as lucky as me and his life took a different path...
    Lsngthsbttle Lsngthsbttle 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I don't know if this is the right group to post in but I do miss my husband very much. This is the first time I am posting about this so this is a difficult and scary post for me...
    Gaffa1234 Gaffa1234 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 17

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    Five years ago I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia & it absolutely ruined my life, causing me an extremely humiliating, very public fall from Grace. My symptoms effected my job...
    xxTayaLionessxx xxTayaLionessxx 41-45, F Dec 29, 2014

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