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I Have a Clueless Husband

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    Birthday From Hell!!!!

    So, Yesterday was my 29th birthday, and we will just say my husband isn't exactly a gift giving genious. I was just thinking that maybe due to my current circumstances, he would man-up and maybe show a little bit of kindess. By circumstances I mean, I spent my birthday...
    wifeofatard wifeofatard 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5, 2014

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    My husband is a wonderful father,

    but a very ****** parent. If that makes sense. He does all he can for his children, but sucks at disciplining them and consistency with it.
    Thisblows0321 Thisblows0321 26-30, F Feb 9

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    There is something about watching a full grown

    man have a major temper tantrum that's kinda funny !! My two kids plugged the toilet tonight. I couldn't stop from giggling watching my husband lose his s*it. He refused to do any of the cleaning up (which took less than a minute) but my kids and I got a bit of a laugh :). Life...
    sunshinegirl76 sunshinegirl76 36-40, F 3 Responses Dec 8, 2014

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    My husband compares his Amazon purchases

    (gadgets) to how I spend money in the grocery store for the family food. I can't get through to him; I'm so pissed!
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5, 2014

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    He Gave Me A Scarf....

    It's our 10th Wedding Anniversary. In the past year, I've lost two family members and I have a very high stress job. I gave him a beautiful leather jacket. He gave me a scarf. And he doesn't understand why I'm not excited.
    Karamojo Karamojo 51-55 6 Responses Oct 14, 2010

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    Clueless who knewless

    When me n my husband first met, he told me that he was never married. He said i was his first. Then on my wedding night he said ' I have to talk to my wife, can i talk to my wife?' I found it romantic, I said yes n then he cut the phone .... he never called back but i was so...
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 15, 2012

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    Tell Me What You Think

    my husband is on a business trip and is driving back right now.  he calls wanting me to tell him when his next dental appt. is. I tell him and then he doesn't like my tone, wants to know if it is written on the calendar like he told me to do 3 weeks ago. yes it is on the...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 13 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    Once I asked my husband,

    "so what are your plans for Monday." He looked genuinely at me and said go to work? Why do you want to plan something! That's when I realized this punk forgot his wife's birthday, geesh!
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F May 13

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    Drunks Make Me Ill

    We have a problem here in "If you ignore it will go away Land" I grew up in a very dysfunctional family, who didn"t       didn"tFather was a very violent drunk, My husbands father & mother are alcoholics, My point is My...
    lovesrhinos lovesrhinos 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2008

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    He tries real hard, though!

    As long as he is trying I love him so! Such a little kid sometimes though... Can you teach self-awareness? Encourage it?
    maunder maunder 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 24

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    Clueless

    No I dont have a clueless Husband but this looked like a good place for this one.   "A woman gets lonely, and sometimes she can't wait around for a man to be reincarnated." I am not sure who said this but it works...
    redman redman 46-50, M 17 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    I Made My Own Birthday Dinner And Baked My Own Cake!

    My 36th birthday was this past wednesday. My husband spent the whole evening on the phone. He said he'd bake me my favorite cake, but it was getting late and he was still on the dammed phone. I went to the store, bought a frozen lasagna and my cake mix and frosting. Got home put...
    LoosingMyself LoosingMyself 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    I've spent the afternoon/evening painting the

    baby's nursery all on my own (7 mos. pregnant) while my husband golfed and took two naps. My back hurts so much I am walking hunched over with tears in my eyes. That mother trucker has the nerve to ask me if I can help him bathe the dogs now. Say what?!?!? He's lucky my back...
    typsygypsy typsygypsy 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 29, 2014

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    I feel like my marriage is falling apart.

    I dunno what is happening to us. I don't want things to be this way but he doesn't want to go to counseling. We have a 2 year old daughter and I don't want her growing up in a household where we bicker all the time over pointless things. We get on each other's nerves all the...
    Italian504 Italian504 31-35, F Dec 25, 2013

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    Ok Lady, I'll See Your Clueless Husband and Raise You One!

    Okay, this doesn't exactly relate to my husband and myself, but still, I have to wonder where the hell his brain is at.... Today the brainiac took my oldest to the Air show.... Not one single phone call all day long to let me know how their day is going, but I'm letting it go...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 22 Responses Aug 20, 2008

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    I have to spell out intimate time

    for my husband. I literally said anytime even if I'm tired or angry, I'm game and this guy still acts like a asexual nerd.
    Emojinoid Emojinoid 31-35, F 2 Responses May 13

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    He's Pushing Me Into The Wrong Arms....

    My husband is a good ol country boy....When we first met he was a dream come true. Now the hunting, fishing and workin on trucks with his buddies is pushing us apart. I like to hunt, fish, and all that good stuff but fact is we have a son and a weak relationship that could really...
    Pastgrasper89 Pastgrasper89 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I have been married to my husband for 10 yrs. I used to love him, but after years of not supporting our family, and the constant putting me down I just hate him . Everyone around...
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    Today in Hawaii time it is now 525pm, @132pm I was lost of word's, stuck @ work with no impression, no effects, until it hit me. As I'm walking along my hall way, A picture of my...
    pesimk pesimk 22-25, F 9 hrs ago

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    I actually don't know, it's just that everyone i met recently has called me clueless. I mean I don't think I'm clueless. I think i'm pretty observant, but the thing is maybe I am...
    chucku45 chucku45 16-17, F 23 hrs ago

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    I feel genuinely happy.My problem is that I continue to face new challenges every day. Currently I cant see my husband for 1 year after not being able to have any contact with him...
    loveg2324 loveg2324 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    My husband is in federal prison and just went in a few days ago. He is serving 3 1/2 years. I already feel dead inside, with every heart beat it hurts even more. My daughter who is...
    hurtbadly2018 hurtbadly2018 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    A few years ago, my husband and I were invited to dinner with one of our friends and his wife. We rode for 1 & 1/2 hours and had a really nice dinner. While having dinner we were...
    dreamerintexas2 dreamerintexas2 51-55, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    In the year 2010 I got a message from my Mother-in-Law in which she felt I was being distant with her and she knew that wasn't like me. I've always respected her so I responded...
    rarelyfree rarelyfree 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband has alpha-1 antitrypsin deficiency. He has been pretty sick for the past few years. He is now on oxygen. He has 12% lung capacity and is on the active double lung...
    csusanne csusanne 51-55, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have struggled with depression and anxiety after several severe traumatic events happened to me when I was 17. I was put on anti-depressants and then the psychiatric doctor added...
    kellymarie29 kellymarie29 26-30, F 3 days ago

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    so here I sit in the backyard of what was suppose to be my "safe haven" is that how you say it ? my mobile home that I bought after I completed rehab after I got my license as a...
    jesuscleavage jesuscleavage 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i really do not understand some people. if someone doesn't want anything to do with you like get the hint i am sick and tired of these people calling me lets call them...
    Multicolour12 Multicolour12 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    I posted this a while back. Hope many of you can read this to understand things and explain to others to avoid such things. Maybe that way less people like us will be suffering...
    Babybf Babybf 31-35, F 5 days ago

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    Confronted another person today about being completely clueless when it comes to getting to know someone.. "You always tell me in the end" that's because you never ask is my...
    hospitalrooms hospitalrooms 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I HATE my husband's ex...I finally said it! My husband dated this woman for a few months when he realized she was wrong for him and told her he didn't see this having a future bc...
    LAE1005 LAE1005 26-30, F a week ago

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    I have been married for four years, we have been together for 6. We initially met when I was separated from my ex-husband, which was a very abusive unhealthy marriage. When my...
    Notintomyelf Notintomyelf 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I made a Facebook page for those who have a husband/boyfriend that goes to Ft Benning either in BCT or stationed. It's called Fort Benning MILSOS :)
    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F Jul 27

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    Okay so I am still talking to this single man and no we haven't had sex. I still don't even know if I want more than friendship with him. I have told him I only want friendship...
    mapofitaly mapofitaly 51-55, F Jul 27

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    I created a Facebook page called Fort Benning MILSOS for all the girls who have boyfriends/husbands at Fort Benning :)
    sandrew42 sandrew42 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    GOD BLESS THE DAY HOW I GET MY EX HUSBAND BACK Hello my name is Babarah from CANADA. i just want to share my experience and testimony here.. i was married for 6 years to my...
    babarah babarah 22-25, F Jul 26

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    I don't take anything to "help" my disorder because I believe that will only silence them and I do not want that. I like talking to them, hearing what they have to say, and if they...
    MrMenShow MrMenShow 18-21, F Jul 26

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    I also believe husbands should obey there husbands!
    Phxpaulena Phxpaulena 61-65, M 2 Responses Jul 26

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    Happy 24th to my husband!!!! love him so much!!!
    Sharnice2017 Sharnice2017 22-25, F Jul 26

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    I have had a major fallout with my mother as she hates my husband. She is obsessed with his every move and constantly slags him off to me and the rest of the family. I have hidden...
    Levens Levens 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 26