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I Have a Clueless Husband

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    Drunks Make Me Ill

    We have a problem here in "If you ignore it will go away Land" I grew up in a very dysfunctional family, who didn"t       didn"tFather was a very violent drunk, My husbands father & mother are alcoholics, My point is My...
    lovesrhinos lovesrhinos 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2008

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    I've spent the afternoon/evening painting the

    baby's nursery all on my own (7 mos. pregnant) while my husband golfed and took two naps. My back hurts so much I am walking hunched over with tears in my eyes. That mother trucker has the nerve to ask me if I can help him bathe the dogs now. Say what?!?!? He's lucky my back...
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    Clueless

    No I dont have a clueless Husband but this looked like a good place for this one.   "A woman gets lonely, and sometimes she can't wait around for a man to be reincarnated." I am not sure who said this but it works...
    redman redman 46-50, M 17 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    Birthday From Hell!!!!

    So, Yesterday was my 29th birthday, and we will just say my husband isn't exactly a gift giving genious. I was just thinking that maybe due to my current circumstances, he would man-up and maybe show a little bit of kindess. By circumstances I mean, I spent my birthday...
    wifeofatard wifeofatard 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    Ok Lady, I'll See Your Clueless Husband and Raise You One!

    Okay, this doesn't exactly relate to my husband and myself, but still, I have to wonder where the hell his brain is at.... Today the brainiac took my oldest to the Air show.... Not one single phone call all day long to let me know how their day is going, but I'm letting it go...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 22 Responses Aug 20, 2008

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    Clueless who knewless

    When me n my husband first met, he told me that he was never married. He said i was his first. Then on my wedding night he said ' I have to talk to my wife, can i talk to my wife?' I found it romantic, I said yes n then he cut the phone .... he never called back but i was so...
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 15, 2012

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    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5

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    He Gave Me A Scarf....

    It's our 10th Wedding Anniversary. In the past year, I've lost two family members and I have a very high stress job. I gave him a beautiful leather jacket. He gave me a scarf. And he doesn't understand why I'm not excited.
    Karamojo Karamojo 51-55 6 Responses Oct 14, 2010

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    I feel like my marriage is falling apart.

    I dunno what is happening to us. I don't want things to be this way but he doesn't want to go to counseling. We have a 2 year old daughter and I don't want her growing up in a household where we bicker all the time over pointless things. We get on each other's nerves all the...
    Italian504 Italian504 31-35, F Dec 25, 2013

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    Tell Me What You Think

    my husband is on a business trip and is driving back right now.  he calls wanting me to tell him when his next dental appt. is. I tell him and then he doesn't like my tone, wants to know if it is written on the calendar like he told me to do 3 weeks ago. yes it is on the...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 13 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    He's Pushing Me Into The Wrong Arms....

    My husband is a good ol country boy....When we first met he was a dream come true. Now the hunting, fishing and workin on trucks with his buddies is pushing us apart. I like to hunt, fish, and all that good stuff but fact is we have a son and a weak relationship that could really...
    Pastgrasper89 Pastgrasper89 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    My husband compares his Amazon purchases

    (gadgets) to how I spend money in the grocery store for the family food. I can't get through to him; I'm so pissed!
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I Made My Own Birthday Dinner And Baked My Own Cake!

    My 36th birthday was this past wednesday. My husband spent the whole evening on the phone. He said he'd bake me my favorite cake, but it was getting late and he was still on the dammed phone. I went to the store, bought a frozen lasagna and my cake mix and frosting. Got home put...
    LoosingMyself LoosingMyself 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    How can you say you love someone and treat them like crap???I have so many problems w/ him,and i don't know how to fix them.Last night i made dinner.It was good .He wanted to eat...
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    5 days in the hospital had surgery not one phone call to check on me and I had to drive myself home , got home from the worst ride ever to get not one lick of help not even a glass...
    1tanner 1tanner 51-55, F 3 Responses Oct 25

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    My husband has aspergers and bipolar disorder. I have bipolar disorder and suffer abandonment issues from my childhood due to losing both my parents very young. We have a one year...
    BriMcD BriMcD 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 26

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    I am also sad because I have no family. Ok, I have some. I have a 76 year aunt in South Africa whom I love, but don't ever see. I have an uncle in England who I have never met...
    kindhearted222 kindhearted222 41-45 Oct 28

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    I want have foreigner friends who have Japanese husbands to share experience and to discus about our problems . I think I became crazy soon , my husband have a different culture...
    khoukha khoukha 26-30, F Nov 4

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    I don't have a husband, but I love the feeling of being milked. I'll pretty much let anyone do it : P
    shootingstar92 shootingstar92 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 8

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    I am 39 years old and have been dealing with LS for about 10 years. It almost exclusively affects my perineum. I have had some minor tearing (paper cuts) but my main 2 symptoms...
    TiffanyPerkins TiffanyPerkins 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    Here is my no good cheating Husband Jordan!! You hurt me so bad Jordan!!! But dont worry I'm going to have some fun while you are deployed ;) PS. I don't love you anymore :)
    JulieAFWifey JulieAFWifey 22-25, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I have been married to a man with undiagnosed Aspergers for 10 years. For the first 5 years of our marriage he was out to sea (Navy) the majority of the time ; it's not until he...
    njleoladye njleoladye 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 25

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    My husband refuses to accept my FB Friend requests. He said today it was expletive embarrassing. But he's friends with his mom, several mutual friends and his ex. His mom and our...
    Iamjenn Iamjenn 41-45, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    So if you have been following my story at all you know that I am kinda odd and keep getting myself into some strange circumstances. My ex husband is one of 5 children. He has 3...
    daughterofapreacherman daughterofapreacherman 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    I know, that's not supposed to be possible. People say it's not possible, that I'm deluding myself. I'm looking for a way out, I secretly hate her, we must have a sexless...
    roykirk roykirk 41-45, M 4 hrs ago

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    I guess I do. I always knew I was strong, but I never knew the extent of it until recently. I got a message from someone today, in my inbox. I could see that I had spoken to...
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 6 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I know he likes her and she likes him. But they haven't been on a date since she is frustrated with how he is so clueless. I don't think they are suited for another; she is very...
    Maihowl Maihowl 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 28

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    I am having an outbreak this week and it's been real miserable. I haven't had one in years. I don't know who to turn to, because, even though I told my husband a couple of years...
    nothappywiththislife nothappywiththislife 41-45, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    So my mom doesn't know that I was sexually abused by my stepdad from age 10 to 12. Of course when it was happening she asked me a million times if anything was going on because I...
    CursedWithABlessing CursedWithABlessing 16-17, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    He contacted me thru facebook. I knew I shouldn't have met him. I am married with a kid, and faithfull for 8 years. I got drunk and ended up in bed with him. Very guilty now but...
    annehas annehas 36-40, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    Dad.... though you're here physically, I can't really see you. Where to begin! You've been and is still being such an immature and irresponsible husband and father for those...
    AmyL0ve AmyL0ve 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I'm a girl that has fallen in love with my straight best friend, we've been friends for 8 years. I get super jealous when she talks about who she likes to me and my heart drops...
    charcoaldove charcoaldove 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 25

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    I prefer to stay low key, leave people clueless and let them assume what they want.
    CallMeChelsea CallMeChelsea 16-17, F Oct 30

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    My naked yoga experience I turned the corner and immediately saw old pinkish balls dangling 10 feet in front of me. There was a man about 60 years old in the downward dog position...
    everywonknows everywonknows 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 31

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    Well this could fit under several experiences. How can he be so clueless as to why I'm in a crappy mood?!?! For years I hid when I was really upset and saddened by this loveless...
    Wantfreedom67 Wantfreedom67 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 23

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    scriptURE FULFILLED IN MY LIFE Oct.1947: “My substance was not hidden from Thee, when I was made in secret, and intricately wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. Thine eyes...
    jburns1947 jburns1947 61-65, F Nov 3

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    History always repeats itself for me. After the horrible Thanksgiving I had last year My husband has invited his dysfunctional alcoholic family again I've had enough bring yelled...
    michellegh michellegh 36-40, F 4 Responses Nov 14

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    It's a long story, but I rejoined this site specifically to talk about this. I'm so confused right now. I love my husband, he's not a bad guy, but the passion and the 'in love...
    JustSymone JustSymone 26-30, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Outsiders advice needed! Am I in the wrong? My husband and I are currently at breaking point and it's over my relationship with his mother! I've always tried to have a good...
    danakay91 danakay91 22-25, F Nov 6

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    I know it didn't come on suddenly, but my realization that it was true did. It was the moment another lie came spilling out of his mouth as freely as water through a hole. It wasn...
    PoisonedApplePrincess PoisonedApplePrincess 26-30, F Nov 7

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    I have been with my husband for more than 5 years. His ex wife is the epitome of drama & so are his children. He & his ex divorced more than 12 years ago. The kids are all over the...
    fedupwithallofthem fedupwithallofthem 36-40, F Nov 11

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    I don't know what to do.....my husband and I have been married 4 years. we have one son together and he has a son from a previous marriage. this woman takes any chance she can to...
    shortness07 shortness07 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 13