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I Have a Clueless Husband

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    Birthday From Hell!!!!

    So, Yesterday was my 29th birthday, and we will just say my husband isn't exactly a gift giving genious. I was just thinking that maybe due to my current circumstances, he would man-up and maybe show a little bit of kindess. By circumstances I mean, I spent my birthday...
    wifeofatard wifeofatard 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    He Gave Me A Scarf....

    It's our 10th Wedding Anniversary. In the past year, I've lost two family members and I have a very high stress job. I gave him a beautiful leather jacket. He gave me a scarf. And he doesn't understand why I'm not excited.
    Karamojo Karamojo 51-55 6 Responses Oct 14, 2010

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    Clueless

    No I dont have a clueless Husband but this looked like a good place for this one.   "A woman gets lonely, and sometimes she can't wait around for a man to be reincarnated." I am not sure who said this but it works...
    redman redman 46-50, M 17 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    I feel like my marriage is falling apart.

    I dunno what is happening to us. I don't want things to be this way but he doesn't want to go to counseling. We have a 2 year old daughter and I don't want her growing up in a household where we bicker all the time over pointless things. We get on each other's nerves all the...
    Italian504 Italian504 31-35, F Dec 25, 2013

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    Drunks Make Me Ill

    We have a problem here in "If you ignore it will go away Land" I grew up in a very dysfunctional family, who didn"t       didn"tFather was a very violent drunk, My husbands father & mother are alcoholics, My point is My...
    lovesrhinos lovesrhinos 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2008

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    Ok Lady, I'll See Your Clueless Husband and Raise You One!

    Okay, this doesn't exactly relate to my husband and myself, but still, I have to wonder where the hell his brain is at.... Today the brainiac took my oldest to the Air show.... Not one single phone call all day long to let me know how their day is going, but I'm letting it go...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 22 Responses Aug 20, 2008

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    Tell Me What You Think

    my husband is on a business trip and is driving back right now.  he calls wanting me to tell him when his next dental appt. is. I tell him and then he doesn't like my tone, wants to know if it is written on the calendar like he told me to do 3 weeks ago. yes it is on the...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 13 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    I Made My Own Birthday Dinner And Baked My Own Cake!

    My 36th birthday was this past wednesday. My husband spent the whole evening on the phone. He said he'd bake me my favorite cake, but it was getting late and he was still on the dammed phone. I went to the store, bought a frozen lasagna and my cake mix and frosting. Got home put...
    LoosingMyself LoosingMyself 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 36-40, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I've spent the afternoon/evening painting the

    baby's nursery all on my own (7 mos. pregnant) while my husband golfed and took two naps. My back hurts so much I am walking hunched over with tears in my eyes. That mother trucker has the nerve to ask me if I can help him bathe the dogs now. Say what?!?!? He's lucky my back...
    hotdamndame hotdamndame 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    My husband compares his Amazon purchases

    (gadgets) to how I spend money in the grocery store for the family food. I can't get through to him; I'm so pissed!
    squirrelbounce squirrelbounce 36-40, F 2 Responses May 5

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    Clueless who knewless

    When me n my husband first met, he told me that he was never married. He said i was his first. Then on my wedding night he said ' I have to talk to my wife, can i talk to my wife?' I found it romantic, I said yes n then he cut the phone .... he never called back but i was so...
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 15, 2012

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    He's Pushing Me Into The Wrong Arms....

    My husband is a good ol country boy....When we first met he was a dream come true. Now the hunting, fishing and workin on trucks with his buddies is pushing us apart. I like to hunt, fish, and all that good stuff but fact is we have a son and a weak relationship that could really...
    Pastgrasper89 Pastgrasper89 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    I have been with my man for 7+ years.. We have been thru it all... Just when I thought things were going good. He gets in trouble with the law for the first time in his 28years of...
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    DeniseMarie72 DeniseMarie72 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    It is horribly lonely. We have been together 18 years and been to therapy many times. Each time he has not told the entire story. He is diagnosed with depression. Sex is gone...
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    Well I could never tell anyone IRL so here goes his thingy is like 4" erect and a Vienna sausage soft lol. He once had the nerve to ask me how he sized up to my previous lovers...
    killakelley killakelley 26-30, F 150 Responses Sep 29

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    I met my fiance in March 2009, I love him so much. He was arrested in april of this year. The sad thing is I wasnt there when they got him, I was 4 hours away at school. I got a...
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 6

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    Probably cause he's a big guy. Thats him. Trust me. 5'8, about 270s. He didn't start out this way. I blame call centers for 20+ years.
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    It's probably my own fault :D
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 12

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    Maybe it's because you're stupid.
    Bigbootyno2 Bigbootyno2 70+, T Oct 12

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    This is what led me to ep. I need someone to talk to and understand how I feel. To say I have no family wouldn't be true. I have a husband and five children, whom I love dearly. I...
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    Somehow i have this detail in my head how my father almost threw me to the wall as i said that my boyfriend read something in my diary and didnt liked it... My parents pressured me...
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    arielle444 arielle444 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I have been out of my abusive relationship for many years about 7 years now and it is still something that haunts me. I don’t really have an outlet to talk about it and try and...
    Ruger1212 Ruger1212 31-35, F Oct 1

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    It's just been recently that I can even be around pregnant women without being awkward. The idea of growing a human was too much for me. However, everyone seems to be ready for me...
    meganbreck meganbreck 26-30, F 20 mins ago

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    Asperger’s Syndrome From another planet to earth, I look around at all the people that pile on earth’s grounds. Questioning their social norms, studying their eye contact...
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    Stefanie's Book of Things Mother and Father Are Unaware of Chapter 1: Let us see.... My dad doesn't know about this account. my mom thinks i deleted it. for awhile my mom didn't...
    wishingforrecovery wishingforrecovery 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Its my teacher. He teaches my favourite subject and he has taught me for the past 2 years. However, he doesn't teach me this year. This sounds crazy, but sometimes I cry about it...
    otakugirlahc otakugirlahc 13-15, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have just found this site and thought I would share my story here! I am in utter despair with my diabetes insipidus which I have had since 2000. I had head surgery to remove a...
    lorelli1973 lorelli1973 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    I have just found this site and thought I would share my story here! I am in utter despair with my diabetes insipidus which I have had since 2000. I had head surgery to remove a...
    lorelli1973 lorelli1973 41-45, F 3 days ago

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    Three weeks ago I walked into a room and saw my husband almost kiss a friend of the family. It broke my heart in a million pieces. We have been together for 20 years, married for...
    Nancy73 Nancy73 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 7

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    Somewhere In Asia Is A Magyar(Hungarian)Guy Who Doesn't Know His True Heritage-Before I was born my dad tried to immigrate from Yugoslavia to America in the early 1990s.There he...
    MagyarinToronto MagyarinToronto 18-21, F Oct 11

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    Somewhere In Asia Is A Magyar Guy Who Doesn't Know His True Heritage-Before I was born my dad tried to immigrate from Yugoslavia to America in the early 1990s.There he met and fell...
    MagyarinToronto MagyarinToronto 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 11

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    My husband and I have been together for 2 years now (married for almost a year and a half). My husband and I are a great team and have built a great life with each other so far...
    anonyguhrl anonyguhrl 22-25, F 11 hrs ago

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    I do believe that women should obey their husbands and I think that a great deal of problems in today's world can be contributed to the fact that this practice is no longer...
    KittyInDisguise KittyInDisguise 31-35, F 3 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Need advice... I started a very unexpected friendship with a teacher at my children's' school. It came completely out of nowhere; I didn't even see it coming. But it's light...
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    My husband of 27 years has not been speaking to me for the past three days. He speaks to my daughter lovingly, and he speaks to my sons (2) casually. A couple of days ago, my...
    neglected08 neglected08 46-50 5 days ago

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    I am 18 years old my husband is 39 some people think its crazy but I love him more than anything in this world. I was always raised that woman should be obedient to their parents...
    housewife4 housewife4 18-21, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband and I have been married for almost 5 years. The whole time even when we dated has been full of abusive ways. I am so lost by the fact that he doesn't exactly...
    Anyonehome Anyonehome 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I met my husband 10 years ago, he is divorced and so am I. He has 2 children from a previous marriage and I had none. We then had our daughter now 8. My step daughter is 21 and...
    fleezz fleezz 41-45, F 1 Response Oct 3

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    I have tired and tired with my husband's family. I can no longer stand them! I don't want them to be a part of my life. I have been married to my husband for almost five years and...
    tonysflame tonysflame 31-35 1 Response Oct 9

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    I am in my mid twenties and just got married. My husband is the most supportive, loving, and loyal person who accepts all my flaws. I couldn't ask for a better partner. However, I...
    xl2368 xl2368 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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