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I Have a Clueless Husband

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    Ok Lady, I'll See Your Clueless Husband and Raise You One!

    Okay, this doesn't exactly relate to my husband and myself, but still, I have to wonder where the hell his brain is at.... Today the brainiac took my oldest to the Air show.... Not one single phone call all day long to let me know how their day is going, but I'm letting it go...
    goddessone goddessone 41-45, F 22 Responses Aug 20, 2008

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    Drunks Make Me Ill

    We have a problem here in "If you ignore it will go away Land" I grew up in a very dysfunctional family, who didn"t       didn"tFather was a very violent drunk, My husbands father & mother are alcoholics, My point is My...
    lovesrhinos lovesrhinos 51-55, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2008

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    Tell Me What You Think

    my husband is on a business trip and is driving back right now.  he calls wanting me to tell him when his next dental appt. is. I tell him and then he doesn't like my tone, wants to know if it is written on the calendar like he told me to do 3 weeks ago. yes it is on the...
    Grits4life Grits4life 46-50, F 13 Responses Aug 30, 2008

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    Birthday From Hell!!!!

    So, Yesterday was my 29th birthday, and we will just say my husband isn't exactly a gift giving genious. I was just thinking that maybe due to my current circumstances, he would man-up and maybe show a little bit of kindess. By circumstances I mean, I spent my birthday...
    wifeofatard wifeofatard 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2009

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    Clueless

    No I dont have a clueless Husband but this looked like a good place for this one.   "A woman gets lonely, and sometimes she can't wait around for a man to be reincarnated." I am not sure who said this but it works...
    redman redman 46-50, M 17 Responses Sep 8, 2008

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    I feel like my marriage is falling apart.

    I dunno what is happening to us. I don't want things to be this way but he doesn't want to go to counseling. We have a 2 year old daughter and I don't want her growing up in a household where we bicker all the time over pointless things. We get on each other's nerves all the...
    Italian504 Italian504 26-30, F Dec 25, 2013

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    Clueless who knewless

    When me n my husband first met, he told me that he was never married. He said i was his first. Then on my wedding night he said ' I have to talk to my wife, can i talk to my wife?' I found it romantic, I said yes n then he cut the phone .... he never called back but i was so...
    HelenParis HelenParis 22-25 Mar 15, 2012

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    He's Pushing Me Into The Wrong Arms....

    My husband is a good ol country boy....When we first met he was a dream come true. Now the hunting, fishing and workin on trucks with his buddies is pushing us apart. I like to hunt, fish, and all that good stuff but fact is we have a son and a weak relationship that could really...
    Pastgrasper89 Pastgrasper89 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    He Gave Me A Scarf....

    It's our 10th Wedding Anniversary. In the past year, I've lost two family members and I have a very high stress job. I gave him a beautiful leather jacket. He gave me a scarf. And he doesn't understand why I'm not excited.
    Karamojo Karamojo 51-55 5 Responses Oct 14, 2010

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    I Made My Own Birthday Dinner And Baked My Own Cake!

    My 36th birthday was this past wednesday. My husband spent the whole evening on the phone. He said he'd bake me my favorite cake, but it was getting late and he was still on the dammed phone. I went to the store, bought a frozen lasagna and my cake mix and frosting. Got home put...
    LoosingMyself LoosingMyself 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    As usual I don't know where to start this, but I have to find relief somehow and writing always seems like the best solution. My husband and I have been married for 7 years (it'll...
    factsarefacts factsarefacts 26-30 2 Responses Mar 30

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    My husband just deployed recently. I'm worried sick and miss him so much. I have so many fears like what if he doesn't want me when he comes back? What if something happens to him...
    SGibsonx SGibsonx 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Well today was yet another appointment for my husband at the urologist. Nothing they can do for him not even surgery will help. He has been put on endless medications and now...
    saltyorsweet saltyorsweet 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Can't figure out what happened in our marriage. It was so perfect to the both of us, until a year ago. Since than he has stopped telling me he loves me and tells me he loves me as...
    OneWayHisWay OneWayHisWay 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    Episode #2. Last week went pretty well, I guess. And then tonight happened. Shewww. I hate how they always try to justify their own problems by bringing up yours. (That seems to be...
    factsarefacts factsarefacts 26-30 Apr 7

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    We have only been married for two and a half years. I can tell by his gestures, what he says and how he says it, how withdrawal he's become that he doesn't love me anymore. He...
    ReeseThompson0424 ReeseThompson0424 18-21, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Our anniversary is Tuesday, and we can't see other, so I am missing him. I remember the doctor telling him that he is dying, and even through his pain, he was smiling at me. I...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 41-45, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    (I am only 21).....Its been 6 days for me and I feel like my whole world is over. My fiancé has not been charged ye.. he's awaiting a ID Parade however its not looking good. So...
    shannahamilton shannahamilton 18-21 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I hear all of these ladies talking bout their men in county jails for months and they are about to be released later this yr or next and my baby had been in there for...
    leilainwaiting leilainwaiting 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    And we've been talking about him visiting a doctor and getting some cure, but so far we've had other things to take care of and snoring is not a top priority at the moment. So I...
    sal555 sal555 31-35, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I don't have a husband yet, but will do soon... I hope he is interested enough to want to participate... I'd like to do this for him... I've heard and read so many good things...
    kotahi kotahi 46-50, F 11 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I'm 26 have a husband, a beautiful two year old & plenty of acquaintances and feel completely alone. I've always had few friends and felt like the odd one out growing up. Seemed to...
    prayforpeace87 prayforpeace87 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm not in anyway socially, financially, or mentally deprived. I live with an average family. Thinking I have nothing to complain because some were even less fortunate than me...
    DreamerCost DreamerCost 16-17, M 12 hrs ago

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    Ugh my husband is being a f***ing a-hole!! I hate long weekends i'd rather be at work!! 😡
    yesenia25 yesenia25 26-30, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    Long story ahead... So there's this girl at school who I like. A lot. But we have a little of a weird history. We've been friends for about 5 years. At first, she liked me but...
    flash2worlds flash2worlds 13-15, M Mar 20

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    I didn't always. I traveled a lot growing up; plenty of overseas flights under my belt. But my husband has always been terrified of flying. For this reason, we haven't flown...
    ShesAVeryKinkyGirl ShesAVeryKinkyGirl 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I want to leave him for my freedom and my kiddos freedom. The freedom to have friends, lunch, time with my family, money, a place that I can call my own. He doesn't hold me hostage...
    jennadventurous jennadventurous 36-40, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    It's going on 4 months since we have separated and I am starve for intimacy and attention. I am home all alone all the time, he works at night and sleeps during the day, which I...
    LovelyOne84 LovelyOne84 26-30, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I know he's cheating again and I've tried so hard to cope and forgive him . But he's at it again and I couldn't leave him we have kids and I cannot financially survive he also...
    Jackie85 Jackie85 31-35, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    My fiancé of 30yrs ago I never stopped loving. I'm leaving my husband because he is an alcoholic .. Married 25yrs. I am worried once I move out my affair with my lover will...
    Neelloc Neelloc 51-55 3 hrs ago

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    So I moved in with my boyfriend into a very small apartment about two years ago. A year ago we moved into a small house (much more space). The house was occupied by his brother and...
    UpsideTown UpsideTown 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    It doesn't take meeting someone to make a difference , it takes being real honest and down to earth . It takes being human and respectful enough to care about someone else's...
    Brunettechic1004 Brunettechic1004 18-21, F a week ago

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    It began last friday, i was excited. I was going to pick up my kawasaki Ninja 500 that i had paid for a day earlier. I had already left the house and went to my boys and we would...
    taze99 taze99 36-40, M 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Guys, Let's make it easier for you to understand. Girls are crazy, and they have this high and low state of mind. I'm just stating what I believe is a bit obvious when it comes to...
    wherethehealingbegins wherethehealingbegins 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I am now age 27 hairstylist. When I was 8 years old my mom, 2 older half-sisters and I were involved in a car accident that left my mom paralyzed. I stayed with my Grandparents for...
    Linn6 Linn6 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    To be honest, I have no idea what I am doing. I feel clueless and lost. I don't even know where to start to explaining my experiences. I don't want to start in the stone age... But...
    Mythicraven Mythicraven 36-40, M Apr 1

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    For The Love of Sage- All troubles in my 17 year marriage begin with a little girl called Sage. She is the mixed race child my husband fathered during his 1st year in America...
    FromBehindTheIronCurtain FromBehindTheIronCurtain 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    For a little over a year I have been trying to explain the reasons and motivations behind the way I have lived my life since I married my husband. I have never been able to explain...
    isis55 isis55 56-60, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I love a man who is not my husband. This does not diminish the love I have for my husband. It is a different entity all together. But it still makes me feel guilty that I even...
    lyssabee0215 lyssabee0215 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    Dear Tech Support, Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend 5.0 to Husband 1.0 and noticed a distinct slowdown in overall system performance, particularly in the flower and jewelry...
    SinglesAdvice SinglesAdvice 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    My husband has been battling depression for our entire 10-year relationship. It's become a third member of our marriage; a wedge pushing us apart. And I don't know what to do. I...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 24

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband. An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    We met because I started working at a university in a new city and he was my supervisor. After two weeks there we slept together and I became pregnant with twins. When I told him...
    valkyriebird valkyriebird 36-40 Apr 3

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    I had it rough growing up. The first 5 years of my life were very traumatic. Born prematurely and at 24 weeks. Spent the next 6 months of my life in an incubator being fed...
    Findingteesh Findingteesh 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I am a 29 year old mother of two who is married to a man who has been self destructing for almost the entire last decade. When we met we were only 19 & I was too naive to see how...
    yogibird85 yogibird85 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Reading all these stories has opened my eyes to how many of us are struggling with such similar problems. I've been married for 4 years. with no kids as i couldn't possibly bare...
    Nutmeg11 Nutmeg11 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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    I'm a bisexual woman and have recently began my first relationship with a woman which is not just a one night stand. We spent time together and recently the night together...
    Elena36 Elena36 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I am a stay at home mom that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 1

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    Ten days before Christmas my husband of almost 12 years at the time (together almost 18) gave me a kiss, told me he loves me and left to go shopping for me. It was a Sunday night...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    This is hard because I never really was able to talk about it til now. In 2011 I received a phone call on the 4th of July. A mom who was outraged with me had thought her son ran...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 6

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    Your husband doing you are out cheating on him,, Is he cheating on you to? Some husband go to the bar,, some just go on a fishing or hunting trip,, Did you every wondering he...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I have overcome Schizophrenia!!! Who the SON SETS FREE IS FREE INDEED.....From the moment I fell when I was 19----The voices told me that I sold my soul! I was redeemed! I had just...
    Jesusfoundme Jesusfoundme 31-35, F 1 Response