I Have a Controlling Boyfriend

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    Ex Was Controlling

    I don't currently date a controlling man, but when I was in high school, my first boyfriend was highly controlling. And of course, him being my first, I figured a lot of his behavior was normal even though it upset me. Basically, I'd heard all the jokes about howe marriage is a...
    StrawberryPocky StrawberryPocky
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2010

    My Boyfriend Is Manipulative/ Controlling/ And On Top Of That Has Anger Problems!

    my boyfriend is driving me crazy!!! he goes off on me about any little thing. He got mad this morning because i didnt call him the very second i woke up i talked to him about 40 min later and since i said i woke up not too long ago he flipped out on me and called me a liar...
    paty1690 paty1690
    8 Responses Jul 12, 2011

    I'm Being Mindfucked.. Can Someone Help

    I know this looks long to read but please.. I need help and advice, So, this is offically my last resort I am stuck... I have been with my "boyfriend" since 7th may 2012 and when we met everything was okay, well except he is 3 years older than me... I met him through a very close...
    headfuckhelp headfuckhelp
    1 Response Aug 1, 2013

    He doesn't want me to get a job.

    And if I do manage to get an interview he finds a way to sabotage it. He won't let me have any friends and the people that try to be my friend he will chase them away. He tells me things like nobody loves me and he's the only one on this earth that would ever put up with me or...
    Kenjitsu Kenjitsu
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 13, 2015

    My boyfriend is the best.

    We've been together for 3 years now and he knows my secrets about self harm and depression. He tries his best to help me and be there for me and I really am grateful. recently he's become so controlling. it is his way or no way sometimes it gets really scary and i don't know...
    Rishay Rishay
    18-21, F
    Jan 15, 2015

    Someone Help Me..

    It has almost being two months now with my boyfriend! Im 15 he's 16.. Im confused of what is going on with him. When we first started dating he was already talking about our future and stuff like that, he has anger promblems. He will get angry if i have creepy people add me on...
    Yourbeautiful2012 Yourbeautiful2012
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Oct 21, 2012

    Why Don't My Boyfriend's Reason For Breaking Up Seem Genuine?

    My ex and I were together almost 4 yrs. I am over him as a person, but even now (3mths later)...I still have no closure as to why exactly he broke it off. I just didn't believe him All of my relationship my ex had been insecure, over protective, jealous and somewhat controlling...
    kitkat555 kitkat555
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 17, 2012

    I Should Have Left My Controlling Ex When... But I Stayed

    I left my boyfriend in September this year after a year of hell. Within the first 6 months I should have left when.. I found out he came out of Prison. When I found out he smoked Cannabis which made him Paranoid. He started pressuring me to stop talking to all my friends...
    elizamclovin elizamclovin
    Oct 17, 2013

    My boyfriend gets upset

    whenever I talk to another guy. When I had lunch at work with a male coworker because we had the same break time he got so mad at me for it, and treated it like I had a date with him. And today I did my lifeguard certification and we had a lunch break and we all sat together to...
    Somegirlinlove Somegirlinlove
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 14, 2014

    And I don't mind it at all.

    I love to be controlled and bossed around. I have a strong personality but I love being submissive, and if you don't establish clear control from the get-go I might walk all over you. However, I love guys who are very protective and controlling. Psychologically I tend to derive...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 15, 2014

    From Kind Of Controlling To Completley Controlling

    I wrote a story a couple of months ago about my kind of controlling boyfriend. Well since that last post things have changed. He had asked me to marry him and I said yes because I really do love him and want to be with him forever since I said yes and became his fiancé he has...
    cbff cbff
    1 Response Jul 2, 2013

    Controlling Boyfriend

    I'm only 16 years old and I have what seems to be a controlling boyfriend. We got together last March, a week after my birthday. In the beginning things were good, he really struck me to be different and like he actually wanted to be with me. The first time I noticed him being...
    secretreader315 secretreader315
    Mar 25, 2012


    GOD DAMN!!! my boyfriend ****** me off sometimes! dont get me wrong, he is suuuuch a sweetheart but he has insecurity issues i guess because he absolutely does not like me going out at night. look , just because im in a relationship doesnt mean i cant go out with my...
    HolisticMama HolisticMama
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Jun 27, 2009

    Controlling Boyfriend

    ok so I've just read a few stories about controlling relationships and I cant help but relate what is a controlling relationship? I didn't think I was in one but judging but what people consider abuse is quiet freighting, I have a partner who is currently in jail and things have...
    staceyalone staceyalone
    26-30, F
    Aug 26, 2013

    I have just come to realize I am in a

    controlling relationship and need some help through this. I just moved in with this guy and now have come to realize he's nothing but controlling. I've read everything on sites and he fits the description. I need someone to talk to that can be there for me. He try's to tell me...
    helplessgiirl helplessgiirl
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 5, 2014

    Kind Of Controlling Boyfriend

    I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now he treats me really good except for his controlling ways. I love hime so much and I know that he loves me but sometimes it get overwhelming. He is a few years older then me and has more experience in relationships then I have and...
    cbff cbff
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2013

    My Boyfriend Took Away My Social Life

    I used to be a very well liked person I had tons of friends we went out and partied all the time together, then we started dating. For the first few months things were great nothing had changed. Then we moved in together...now he has control over everything I do. What friends I...
    Starz11 Starz11
    Apr 16, 2013

    Whenever something good/stressful happens in my

    life, my boyfriend causes an argument so I feel awful and am distracted? Here are just a few examples: I had a really big exam and I was super stressed with revision etc. My boyfriend rang up and said that I was being moody with him and that he was sick of my attitude? i...
    Myheartsdesiree Myheartsdesiree
    22-25, F
    May 6, 2014

    I've been with my boyfriend / "father of my

    kids" for the past 4 1/2 years & he is so f*****g controlling . I'm 19 yo & he's 24 we have two sons together as well as live together. I have been faithful to him 4 years out of 4 & 1/2 . But im so & tired of him . All he ever does is constantly put me down. He calls me fat...
    iAmAloneInTheWorld iAmAloneInTheWorld
    22-25, F
    May 31, 2015

    Okay so me and my boyfriend has been together

    for 8 months now and i'm used to him and all but the thing is, sometime in our relationship he has been cheating and i'm not sure if he has had sex with anyone else but he has been flirting with a lot of girls and calling them his baby and stuff. So one day we had a long talk...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 7, 2014

    I Love Him But I'm Losing Myself.

    I'm stuck at a crossroads and don't know what to do. I've only been with my boyfriend for 6 months but the cracks between us are unavoidable. I love being with him and we are each other best friends but the problem is I feel like I'm losing the person I was before I met him. He...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 1, 2013

    My boyfriend and I have been together off

    and on for 2 years. He breaks up with me when he gets mad or doesn't get his way. He always tell me what to do and what to wear. I can't wear clothes that are too tight or cute because then other guys will look. He criticizes my makeup when I put some on, which is hardly ever...
    idk3913 idk3913
    18-21, F
    1 Response Mar 29, 2015

    My boyfriend is controlling,

    he hates me going over to friends house which I really don't have many but whenever I visit them he is like I'm not going to talk to you because he thinks I'm being distant but the thing is, is that I just want to spend time with my freaking friend. He says he won't talk but he...
    ilybb ilybb
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2014

    I’m posting this hoping

    for feedback from a third party. I’ve been told by friends that my boyfriend is abusing me emotionally. - He only supports what I do if he likes it - When I get excited about something, he often puts it down or kills my excitement about it - He’s hot-headed and blunt - He...
    LoreleiLoch LoreleiLoch
    18-21, F
    Apr 19, 2016

    Why do some people you are with try to control

    you? I was dating this guy for a while and he was great at first. And then he got controlling. He didn't understand why I wouldn't see him for a day or two when we only lived three miles from each other. He started to "make up" stuff saying he saw me flirt with a guy from text...
    mysticdragonlady mysticdragonlady
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Feb 28, 2016
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