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I Have a Crazy Ex Husband

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    I Have A Crazy Ex And Need Help

    Ok so we were together for 6 yrs we have boys and i just left him a month ago. hw has always been super controling and abusive in all ways.So im trying to start my life over but he i wont leave me alone. we have agreed not to go to court as long as he pays my child support and he...
    youngNlost youngNlost 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 25, 2012

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    My Ex Was So Clueless!

    Hi Everyone, I am really enjoying the posts on this site and this topic is right up my alley. I have not been married to my ex for nearly 22 years, but every now and then, some dumb thing he did comes back to me. Here are some winners from our three-year marriage...and before! 1...
    elmajackson elmajackson 41-45 Dec 29, 2010

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    I can't believe I'm in this position.

    He seemed to be the antithesis of the things that worried me most about my father. They say you tend to marry your father and my father was rather notorious in our community for being volatile and ill-tempered. So now here I am, divorced several years and my ex-husband is...
    TennesseeTina TennesseeTina 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    After being divorced

    for 13 years my Ex decided to unload his version of why we got divorced. It features a fabulous villain-me. After he skipped town and left us - I raised the kids and now they have turned against me…I am heartbroken. No respect, no love. I have been abandoned. It sucks...
    UGHLY UGHLY 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    Crazy Ex Husband

    Hi all .. first of all my name is val and i am 32 yrs young ;) new to the group so big hello :) Here is my story and i hope someone else can relate to me.. I was married for 5 yrs and 3 of them seemed horrid. He was very mean and mentally abusive. He did not care much about...
    crazyasexhusband crazyasexhusband 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 17, 2009

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    Bat Sh!T Crazy

    So I got married to him when I was 5 months pregnant with our child. Things were not the best to start with. He was 18 and I was 16. He quit his job so we bounced around for a while. Finally we got a place and I gave birth. When our child was 3 months he joined the Army and that...
    LilMrs LilMrs 26-30, F 1 Response May 6, 2013

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    I Am Trying

    To put all of it in the past.  I thought I had it all there. Things keep coming up from the past that make me think his whole intention was to drive me insane.  There were cases during our marriage where it seemed like that too.  I'd ask him about it and of course it was all...
    EyzofBlue EyzofBlue 36-40, F Nov 10, 2011

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    My Ex Husband Went Crazy

    I've read so many stories about crazy exe's. Here's mine. When I met him, he was normal. One of the funniest and successful men I had ever met. I moved across the country to marry him, 100% committed to our future. For the first three years, it was wonderful. We both worked...
    mountainhaven mountainhaven 41-45, F Sep 19, 2013

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    Vendictive Exhusband

    I am going through a very difficult time. I divorced 3 years ago and recently remarried. I had to move back to my home country, so he would leave me alone. Somehow through a social network ex husband found me and send messages to all of my friends in attempt to humiliate me...
    newlife47 newlife47 26-30 1 Response Oct 28, 2013

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    Sooo Lucky We Didn't Have Kids

    So its not just me then. We have now been divorced nearly as long as we were married ...2 years. There were many reasons why things didn't work out.  My complete inability to have a discussion with him about anything important. His evasiveness,  smashing his...
    Exhale Exhale 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 17, 2010

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    A Little Bipolar Are We?

    i was married for almost 3 years. he seemed like the perfect guy.. funny, sweet, caring, honest, great with kids, and good to look at.. hahahahahahaha well he was funny but after we had our son he was no longer caring sweet and found out he had not been...
    lacystar lacystar 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2010

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    Crazy Ex Won't Leave Me Alone

    when I first met my ex husband, I was living by myself and working two jobs.I didn't know what had hit me. EVERY word that came out of his mouth was a total lie, I thought everything was true however it was like a 7 year old making up stories to try and impress me. But I was...
    alice21005 alice21005 26-30 6 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    Hi all. I'm just having a really hard time today- I normally just read and read on this site and it helps me alot. I decided to speak up today. I miss my husband so much I want...
    Racquel34 Racquel34 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    Well first month down.. 14 more to go. I keep telling myself that we're lucky..it could have been more.. I hate that we are in this situation to begin with..he doesn't deserve any...
    melguzman21 melguzman21 22-25, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    Well I flew to California to visit my parents. My mom threw me a baby shower. It was lovely . We didnt talk much about my husband...I didn't blame her. She wanted to keep the mood...
    melguzman21 melguzman21 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Husbands sponsor just dropped him. We are super sad over this :( He dropped him because he told my husband they couldn't do step 5 until August! And he wanted to do it now, so he...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My husband and i are in the military. We got married september 30 2013. And a couple weeks after that we got notice of an investigation. A person he had slept with months prior was...
    melguzman21 melguzman21 22-25, F Jun 30

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    anyone else have this problem? there is way too much to even put in this story, but i thought i might share alittle of the crazyness for you guys to see. sorry if it sounds like a...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Why do husbands shout at their wives when they are pissed of with others?
    psalmel psalmel 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 27

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    My husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer (stage 4), 18 months ago. It has been so hard to watch the love of my life slowly dying over these past months. He is fighting for his...
    Catnipp Catnipp 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    My husband went away a couple of weeks ago to Ocean City, MD for Fireman's Convention on business. While he was away he spent his nights with a friend of ours, He has known her...
    ajls ajls 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 7

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    My husband is facing a felony trial. He has been charged with 10 class c felonies, which carry a sentence of 2-20 years per charge. His lawyer is optimistic that it will go well...
    owlea owlea 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 15

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    I am only 22 years old and my fiance is in jail. He has only been gone a couple of weeks, and I swear I am going insane. I have lost so much of my simple memory, I can barely even...
    Shaelynmarie Shaelynmarie 22-25, F Jul 6

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    How can he say he loves me? He stays away from me all hours of the day and night. He won't come home til 3am he leaves early in the morning. Sometimes i say with our daughter...
    kkrstdew kkrstdew 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Perhaps i was wrong. It hurts but i will forgive
    Stefunie Stefunie 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Omg! He is actually trying to be a good dad- i mean he always tries but its so cute and good how he just was with the boy! A lesson about the glass being half full or empty...
    Stefunie Stefunie 46-50, F a week ago

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    I do and I'm not afraid to admit it and there I am a queen I'm a ROCKSTAR I'm a super model and I have 4 husbands and love me so much my stage name is Rebel Airzona Star and my...
    RebelStar24 RebelStar24 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 27

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    This is probably a more common problem than I think.. I want to have an affair, I'm newly married but we have had problems for awhile, my husband is an alcoholic .. I feel...
    danitykane13 danitykane13 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 30

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    People say I act crazy, I sound Crazy and have Crazy Hair. I just reply.. I AM CRAZY :D
    Rayykz Rayykz 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    I can't stand being apart from him, mostly when we are away from home. Him being at work doesn't bother me if I'm in the comfort of my own home. I don't particularly like going to...
    brittanys13 brittanys13 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This use to be... a thing... Does anyone still do this? Do we still have EP husbands/wives? I'm just curious. I don't really want one, unless he is my boyfriend or actual husband...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 Jul 18

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    Coming from a dysfunctional/toxic family, I have come to realize that my lack of friends is due to my mistrust and fear of rejection. I've had a few good friends that have hurt me...
    Learning2LiveAgain Learning2LiveAgain 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    I can't say this is much of a pleasant find for me tonight... After all, we are all here because we have the same problem. I am however happy to share my experience with others in...
    HerSuitIsMe HerSuitIsMe 31-35, F Jul 4

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    Hi. I'm Nichole, I'm new here. I was diagnosed with diverticulitis back in 2008, but suffered with IBS before that. Keeping my long painful story, short; I had a sigmoid bowel...
    NicholeAnn NicholeAnn 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    Should I stay or should I go now? I can't decide - lots of info, so must be brief: My husband had a staph infection a year ago. Friday he's not feeling well and thinks it may be...
    cbcruz cbcruz 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    I was chased by a mean *** clown in my nightmare last night. I dont know what caused this crazy dream. It might be the medicine I got from a clinic due to my cold. All I took was a...
    caramelLova1 caramelLova1 31-35, F 8 hrs ago

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    It’s been 12 years since I married my Muslim husband and the road has truly been long and winding, but happy. At the time we got married I was Catholic and had no intention of...
    nuruldeen nuruldeen 36-40, M 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    with evil crazy people who loves trouble everyday.
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 13 hrs ago

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    The older I get, the more I realize that for me, home is more the few people that I truly care for in this world than a physical place or address. And that can be even stronger...
    jessesgirl24 jessesgirl24 41-45, F 1 Response Jun 28

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    Hello there! I'm writing almost as it's happening. I discovered the term NM, recently, and since then, I have been gathering information on how to act in order to 1st, stay sane...
    alinie alinie 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 6

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    I am 30 years old. I have never had PMS symptoms before in my life. My ex husband and friends always said you could never even tell when I had my period, because I was always the...
    CCBatman120 CCBatman120 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's crazy how many friends we have and how little we actually know them. You hang out with them every single day and have fun but still no little to nothing about who they really...
    benj3 benj3 16-17, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    "Unforgivable!"... How dare you used this word when you had no right to?!... Who did you think you were?... Unforgivable??... How dare you played the victim when I was the one...
    SimonFlarerington SimonFlarerington 22-25, M 9 hrs ago

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    My Mother, simply put, is the meanest, angriest, most unpleasant person I know. She is a mentally ill psychotic, a tyrant, and a bully all rolled into one. My parents split up when...
    wishiwasabrady wishiwasabrady 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    When I first met my husband 2 years ago, we had a conversation about pill addiction. He told me that he hated pills because his whole family throughout his life has had addictions...
    briebaby123 briebaby123 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    Today I got this really strange phone call from a woman and all she said was HAPPY BIRTHDAY. It was my husband's birthday yesterday. I think my husband might be cheating on me with...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I've been working at my job for a little over a year and about three months ago I realized I'm extremely attracted to my older married female boss. I told a couple of my coworkers...
    ryinkelsin ryinkelsin 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    What I learned: Be your own hero. Reflect and apply what you’ve learned to your life, today. Work at forgiving yourself and others for being flawed human beings who must learn...
    AppleJacks10 AppleJacks10 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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